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Check Your Defaults!

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Ben Life Transformation Coach

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"Mirror, Mirror: Who Am I?" (Click the link to download the eBook). Your behavior may be the reason why your life has stalled

  • Marriage gon’ dry
  • Job turned into a dead end
  • Passion, zest and zeal is nonexistent?

It may also be why you’ve been able to get ahead;

  • Constant promotions
  • Bank account steadily growing…
  • BUT people don’t really like you-they tolerate you, may even fear you (which you feed off of)
  • You’re way too aggressive, pushy and you secretly kinda “don’t like yourself?” Most bullies don’t…


Victim mentality & bully behaviors; fear, dishonesty, pity, anger, resentment, passive/aggressive, panicky, loud, pushy…It’s what you use when you’re passed for the promotion, when someone steals your parking space or speaks over you in a meeting; THAT feelingTHAT emotion that comes over you in those moments are your defaults. Check them!

  • Victim=Things happen “to me.” I don’t have “ANY OTHER CHOICE.”
  • Bully=I have to win and “You have to lose in order to justify my win!”
  • Equalizer=I don’t have to accept that things just happen nor do I have to see you fail to validate my win. There has to be a rational way to balance the situation, “ANY SITUATION!