http://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughnWords make up the bulk of our life. Words dictate how we view ourselves and others, how we express our desires, fears, and all other manners of emotion. Words have tremendous power in that they continue to work far longer than they were used. Words are used to confine, and hurt, but they are also used to free and to heal. Our words go far beyond their meaning, because each word has more meaning behind it than can be found in any dictionary or thesaurus. Words are used to create and maintain the structural society perceptions of success or failure, they are used to maintain influence and sometimes control of others. Words also are used to shape a society's perception of freedom, and support. Words definitely help shape our perceptions, and those perceptions always have an effect on choices. Welcome!! enCopyright Vaughn McNeill (C/O Blogtalkradio)Fri, 14 Jun 2019 19:15:00 GMTWed, 10 Oct 2018 00:30:00 GMTMotivationBlogTalkRadio Feed v2.0https://dasg7xwmldix6.cloudfront.net/hostpics/cd684fd3-4ae4-45a9-b29f-2449aebe94a2_vaughn_j_mcneil_0294.jpghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughnWords make up the bulk of our life. Words dictate how we view ourselves and others, how we express our desires, fears, and all other manners of emotion. Words have tremendous power in that they continue to work far longer than they were used. Words are used to confine, and hurt, but they are also used to free and to heal. Our words go far beyond their meaning, because each word has more meaning behind it than can be found in any dictionary or thesaurus. Words are used to create and maintain the structural society perceptions of success or failure, they are used to maintain influence and sometimes control of others. Words also are used to shape a society's perception of freedom, and support. Words definitely help shape our perceptions, and those perceptions always have an effect on choices. Welcome!! feeds@blogtalkradio.comBlogTalkRadio.comMotivation,Love,Choices,Relationships,Finances,Entrepreneurs,Failures,Happiness,Family,RespectVaughn JnoWords with Vaughn challenges common perceptions of words and phrases utilized in todays society and how those perceptions affect life choices.episodichttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2018/10/10/confidenceMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2018/10/10/confidence/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2018/10/10/confidenceWed, 10 Oct 2018 00:30:00 GMTconfidencei feel if more of us thought more about the confidence it takes to create the life we choose, we would be more accepting of our choices, as well as the choices others make in our pursuit of creating the life we want for ourselves.  00:31:00Vaughn JnoConfidence ishttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/09/27/were-all-one-step-away-from-slaveryMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/09/27/were-all-one-step-away-from-slavery/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/09/27/were-all-one-step-away-from-slaveryTue, 27 Sep 2016 00:00:00 GMTWe're all one step away from slaveryAll American's reside within the world of perceived freedom.  However we are all just one choice away from a life of legal slavery called the American prison system. Often times the choice is nothing more than deciding to go for a walk or a drive. Those actions could be the last actions of freedom for years especially if you're poor in America.  The corporations have figured a way to reduce their coast in human capital by having products made in America.However the products are made by prisoners for pennies an hour, which is vastly cheaper than paying foreign workers.  This has the affect of making the corporations even more profitable, and gives incentive to keep the prisons full.    01:00:00Vaughn JnoIn America each of its Citizens sit on the edge of freedom and slaveryhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/09/20/theres-not-much-strength-in-violenceMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/09/20/theres-not-much-strength-in-violence/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/09/20/theres-not-much-strength-in-violenceTue, 20 Sep 2016 00:00:00 GMTThere's Not Much Strength in ViolenceThe more positive opportunities and experiences a person gains in life the more they are able to detour problems before the use of violence is ever needed.  In this show we will look at some of the causes of violence including poverty and lack of education.  We will discuss how these issues are as much on each individual as the problems are for society as a whole.  01:04:00Vaughn JnoThe more positive opportunities and experiences a person gains in life the more they are able to detour problems before the use of violence is ever needed.  Inhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/09/13/education-and-knowledge-are-the-currency-of-lifeMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/09/13/education-and-knowledge-are-the-currency-of-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/09/13/education-and-knowledge-are-the-currency-of-lifeTue, 13 Sep 2016 00:00:00 GMTEducation and Knowledge are the Currency of LifeThe more education and knowledge we can obtain the better chance we have at creating the life we wish and hopefully with more benefit than cost. Education and knowledge come in a variety of forms, The more we can identify the more we can make use of the knowledge to help us navigate the constant shifting waves of life.  01:05:00Vaughn JnoThe more education and knowledge we can obtain the better chance we have at creating the life we wish and hopefully with more benefit than cost. Education and khttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/08/30/conversation-with-reese-armsMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/08/30/conversation-with-reese-arms/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/08/30/conversation-with-reese-armsTue, 30 Aug 2016 00:00:00 GMTConversation with Reese ArmsWe will talk about the experiences of owning a business, as well as discuss topics ranging from the election and politics to social issues like income inequality and the effects those issues have on small businesses.  01:09:00Vaughn JnoWe will talk about the experiences of owning a business, as well as discuss topics ranging from the election and politics to social issues like income inequalithttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/08/23/we-are-the-change-we-desireMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/08/23/we-are-the-change-we-desire/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/08/23/we-are-the-change-we-desireTue, 23 Aug 2016 00:00:00 GMTWe Are the Change We DesireMuch of the change we need includes welfare reform, minimum wage increase, access to education that will not create a financial hardship, and healthcare that will not bankrupt. Every group of people deal with these issues.  These are not issues for minorities, women, blacks, or whites, for example. They are issues and concerns for all humans. Those that do not wish for change are those that benefit at the cost of others.  We have the power to change our society.  We are the People!   00:58:00Vaughn JnoMany in society feel that changes are needed, but we often fall short of making change. Why?http://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/08/16/is-dating-outside-your-race-badMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/08/16/is-dating-outside-your-race-bad/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/08/16/is-dating-outside-your-race-badTue, 16 Aug 2016 00:00:00 GMTIs dating outside your race bad?The only perception that matters when dating are the perceptions of those in the relationship.  Why are so many people choosing to live in bubbles limiting their companion choice to a specific ethnic group?  They would rather be alone and complain there are no good men or women, but limit their choices by holding on to perceptions that may or may not be true about that group. A few examples are, Black women are angry, White men provide secure financial footing, Hispanic women are fiery, and uncompromising, or Asian women are submissive and timid. 01:19:00Vaughn JnoThe only perception that matters when dating are the perceptions of those in the relationship.  Why are so many people choosing to live in bubbles limiting theihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/08/09/loves-perception-with-special-guestMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/08/09/loves-perception-with-special-guest/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/08/09/loves-perception-with-special-guestTue, 09 Aug 2016 00:00:00 GMTLove's Perception with special guestOur special guest Nabillah Nealy, will be with us to discuss her involvement in the Mother's of Tomorrow foundation and all the much needed help they and services they provide to women.  We will also discuss love and its perceptions, and if we desire love from a person or if we prefer that persons perceptions of love.  01:07:00Vaughn JnoOur special guest Nabillah Nealy, will be with us to discuss her involvement in the Mother's of Tomorrow foundation and all the much needed help they and servichttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/08/02/love-emotion-and-choiceMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/08/02/love-emotion-and-choice/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/08/02/love-emotion-and-choiceTue, 02 Aug 2016 00:00:00 GMTLove, Emotion, and ChoiceWe often do not put into context love as a choice.  Many times its seen as just a feeling that people have for each other.  However, mutual beneficial love is one that is based on the choice of each person involved.  A choice to do what is required to create and maintain the Love that works best for those involved, and not based on preconceived perceptions or expectations.   01:08:00Vaughn JnoWe often do not put into context love as a choice.  Many times its seen as just a feeling that people have for each other.  However, mutual beneficial love is ohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/07/26/money-choice-emotionMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/07/26/money-choice-emotion/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/07/26/money-choice-emotionTue, 26 Jul 2016 00:00:00 GMTMoney, Choice, EmotionIn this show we will discuss how money, choices, and emotions are sought after because they represent power.  The power in money is evident, and easily seen when people only want your money.  The power in choice is also seen, but for some reason people become blinded and often give up the power of choice for that of money, or the chase of it.  Emotion is often the hardest to see the power in because it requires us to step outside of how something makes us feel.  01:10:00Vaughn JnoIn this show we will discuss how money, choices, and emotions are sought after because they represent power.  The power in money is evident, and easily seen whehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/07/19/money-and-perceptionsMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/07/19/money-and-perceptions/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/07/19/money-and-perceptionsTue, 19 Jul 2016 00:00:00 GMTMoney and PerceptionsThe perceptions that money conjure has people doing numerous actions in the pursuit of money, as if having more of it will provide the solutions to many of life's problems.  It makes no difference if you have a lot of money or none at all, how you feel about yourself is a price that no amount of money will be able to buy.  Join the conversation, as we discuss money, debt, and perceptions.  01:00:00Vaughn JnoMoney can and does breed various perceptionshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/07/12/life-doesnt-has-to-be-like-thisMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/07/12/life-doesnt-has-to-be-like-this/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/07/12/life-doesnt-has-to-be-like-thisTue, 12 Jul 2016 00:00:00 GMTLife doesn't has to be like this!With the events in the news of police killings, income inequality, and injustices frustrating and angering our society, I want to take time and have a non-emotional discussion about these topics.  Choices made based on emotional perceptions often times lead to some of the worst mistakes we can make.. 01:27:00Vaughn JnoWith the events in the news of police killings, income inequality, and injustices frustrating and angering our society, I want to take time and have a non-emotihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/07/06/redefine-life-and-love-by-diversifying-your-mindMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/07/06/redefine-life-and-love-by-diversifying-your-mind/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/07/06/redefine-life-and-love-by-diversifying-your-mindWed, 06 Jul 2016 00:00:00 GMTRedefine Life and Love by Diversifying your MindThe entertaining host of Diversity of the Minds Radio Authoress Caroyln B, DJ B1, and Authoress Tameka Jones will join me for a what's sure to be wildly interesting and engaging conversation 02:01:00Vaughn JnoConversation with the host's of Blogtalk's Diversity of the Minds Radiohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/06/28/your-choice-your-perception-your-moneyMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/06/28/your-choice-your-perception-your-money/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/06/28/your-choice-your-perception-your-moneyTue, 28 Jun 2016 00:00:00 GMTYour Choice! Your Perception! Your Money!Because money is neither good nor bad, there really is no such thing as good money.  There is an amount of money that each individual feels would be sufficient enough to provide them with a lifestyle they desire.  This show will examine the perception and obsession people have with money and how the chase transform people. Ask yourself this question, is the lifestyle you desire one in which you truly desire, or is the desire rooted in the choices of others?    01:00:00Vaughn JnoWhat is good money? How does the perception of money influence the choices made with money?http://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/06/21/interview-with-nabillah-nealyMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/06/21/interview-with-nabillah-nealy/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/06/21/interview-with-nabillah-nealyTue, 21 Jun 2016 00:00:00 GMTInterview with Nabillah NealyBe sure to join us for this episode of Redefining Life and Love with Vaughn J as he interviews a very special guest, Nabillah Nealy. We will talk about how Ms. Nabillah 'Respect's her Choices'! Click on the link http://www.iamnabillah.com/ for more information about Nabillah Nealy.    01:30:00Vaughn JnoBe sure to join us for this episode of Redefining Life and Love with Vaughn J as he interviews a very special guest, Nabillah Nealy. We will talk about how Ms.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/06/15/perception-dictates-choiceMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/06/15/perception-dictates-choice/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/06/15/perception-dictates-choiceWed, 15 Jun 2016 00:00:00 GMTPerception Dictates ChoiceHow we perceive ourselves often times plays a huge role in the opportunities we are presented with, as well as the outcome of each of those possibilities.  If you perceive yourself as successful, more times than not the choices you are presented with may benefit  you.  Were if you perceive yourself as a failure, chances are the opportunities that present themselves to you may seem like problems. The perceptions we have can lead to us choosing to create the life of our dreams or nightmares.  00:59:00Vaughn JnoIn life we face countless choices, and each of those choices are based on perceptions.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/06/07/were-more-than-our-perceptionsMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/06/07/were-more-than-our-perceptions/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/06/07/were-more-than-our-perceptionsTue, 07 Jun 2016 00:00:00 GMTWe're more than our perceptionsOur perceptions play huge roles in the choices we make for our lives. Life is hard, yet it is filled with numerous wonders meant to be enjoyed.  Many people go thru life without enjoying much of it because of the peceptions they hold on to.  They may miss out on career opportunities because of how they may perceive themselves.  Or, they may possibly miss chances of experiencing true love because of the perceptuions they may hold of other people.  00:59:00Vaughn JnoPerceptions can be positive or negative. They are, more times than not, relative to the individual.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/05/31/knowledge-can-help-ease-the-fears-of-lifeMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/05/31/knowledge-can-help-ease-the-fears-of-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/05/31/knowledge-can-help-ease-the-fears-of-lifeTue, 31 May 2016 00:00:00 GMTKnowledge can help ease the fears of lifeThis show will look at various life fears, from the fear of failure, to the fear of being alone, and how knowledge can help to ease many of those fears.  We often fear the unknown more than we fear the known, therefore I postulate making time for and accumulating as much knowledge as one can about life. With knowledge about the life we wish to have or create, it makes it that much easier to obtain.  Well at least have an idea of where to begin.    00:59:00Vaughn JnoLife has a way of immobilizing individuals, preventing them from making choices that may make their lives more enjoyable.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/05/26/education-plays-a-role-in-knowledgeMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/05/26/education-plays-a-role-in-knowledge/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/05/26/education-plays-a-role-in-knowledgeThu, 26 May 2016 00:00:00 GMTEducation plays a role in KnowledgeThis show is the next in the series of understanding that pursuing only education without the understanding of true knowledge, can lead to a life of just that chasing vs creating.  Creating would be the life we wish to create for ourselves. If that life one wishes to create is one society states they should have, that’s their right to choose.  I would hope that choice was made through their own knowledge and not from the education of others. 00:59:00Vaughn JnoContinuation of the Education is not Knowledge Serieshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/05/17/while-you-chase-education-be-sure-you-acquire-knowledgeMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/05/17/while-you-chase-education-be-sure-you-acquire-knowledge/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/05/17/while-you-chase-education-be-sure-you-acquire-knowledgeTue, 17 May 2016 00:00:00 GMTWhile you chase Education be sure you acquire KnowledgeAs part of the show Redefining Life and Love, perception is always the focus. This episode will look at the perception of being educated and what this truly means.  We will discuss how knowledge and education may seem one in the same, there is a huge difference between them. The perception of being educated can lead to choices that a person with true knowledge may not make. Knowledge and education work hand and hand one without the other is like making a choice without action, you can’t accomplish much.     01:00:00Vaughn JnoWe often here how education is the key to the life you wish, however being educated is not as useful if you aren't knowledgeablehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/05/14/live-broadcast-at-alma-materMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/05/14/live-broadcast-at-alma-mater/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/05/14/live-broadcast-at-alma-materSat, 14 May 2016 22:00:00 GMTLive Broadcast at Alma MaterThe show will go from 6pm to 8pm, with time for meet and greet with the host and other previous guest of the show.   We will discuss a myriad of topics from self-respect and expectations, to peace and the price of it. Look forward to seeing you all there. Peace peace. Alma Mater Restaurant and Lounge 7165 Germantown Ave Philadelphia PA 19119 https://almamaterphiladelphia.com/ 01:33:00Vaughn JnoePlease join me live at Alma Mater Restaurant and Loungehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/05/03/perception-and-expectations-continuedMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/05/03/perception-and-expectations-continued/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/05/03/perception-and-expectations-continuedTue, 03 May 2016 00:00:00 GMTPerception and Expectations continuedWe all perceive life through our eyes and our life experiences. The experiences we have normally shape how we choose to perceive life after those experiences.  The more "bad" experiences we have, then chances are we may choose to begin to view new experiences with a negative perception. Conversely, the more "good" experiences we have chances are we will have a more positive perception of the life you may have.   Both positive and negative perceptions tend to go hand and hand with our expectations.  I say if we choose to expect less and appreciate more, we may begin to experience more of those positive perceptions that lead to positive experiences.  01:00:00Vaughn JnoLife is one big perception how ww choose to perceive it plays a big role in the expectations of that lifehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/04/26/what-really-is-thinking-outside-the-boxMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/04/26/what-really-is-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/04/26/what-really-is-thinking-outside-the-boxTue, 26 Apr 2016 00:00:00 GMTWhat really is thinking outside the box?In this episode, we will dive into the question of, 'What boxes are we supposed to think outside of?'  We will then examine those boxes, and try to look at them from various angles.  Changing perception can change our outlook on life, and that change in outlook can have a tremendous impact on our outcomes. This episode will also look at the importance of understanding that we all reside in a "state of perpetual boxes", and how we move from box to box, often without realizing the impact of the box until we have lost something, or are impacted in a negative way.    01:00:00Vaughn JnoIn life most of us have heard that to get ahead, or to be creative we must think outside the box, however no one has ever truly defined what the box we must thihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/04/19/perception-can-change-reality-part-2-with-special-guest-mr-billy-rossMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/04/19/perception-can-change-reality-part-2-with-special-guest-mr-billy-ross/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/04/19/perception-can-change-reality-part-2-with-special-guest-mr-billy-rossTue, 19 Apr 2016 00:00:00 GMTPerception can change reality (part 2) with special guest Mr. Billy RossMr. Ross has overcome many of his own life challenges and has found a way to use the challenges he has faced to help others change the perception they may have had about their own life situation(s).  Mr. Ross and I will share how our unique life experiences and challenges have shaped the perception we have of ourselves and how we have used our self perceptions to guide our life's choices so that we can live the life we choose.  01:00:00Vaughn JnoThis week's show continues with the conversation about the power of our self perception. Joining me tonight will be special guest, Billy Ross, founder of Do Whhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/04/12/perception-can-change-realityMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/04/12/perception-can-change-reality/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/04/12/perception-can-change-realityTue, 12 Apr 2016 00:00:00 GMTPerception can change realityIf we perceive ourselves as not having opportunities to excel or succeed, chances are, that will truly become our reality.  If we perceive ourselves as successful and have the ability we can achieve most things in life, chances are we will.  I never thought it would be possible for me to retire early in life.  My perception was that I was only worth the value others put on me via the skills I could sell to the highest bidder.  It wasn’t until I saw that I could set my own value that I began pursuing that avenue! The same is possible for us all. Changing your perception can truly change your outcome.  I am living proof. 01:00:00Vaughn JnoWe often here how perception is reality, and if that is the case then how you choose to perceive you has direct impact on your reality.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/03/29/we-are-as-lovable-as-we-allow-and-for-as-long-as-we-chooseMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/03/29/we-are-as-lovable-as-we-allow-and-for-as-long-as-we-choose/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/03/29/we-are-as-lovable-as-we-allow-and-for-as-long-as-we-chooseTue, 29 Mar 2016 00:00:00 GMTWe are as lovable as we allow, and for as long as we choosePeople often state they feel unlovable, in this episode we will look at trying to show how we are all lovable.  it may not be to the person we think it should be or would like for it to be.  That doesnt mean you're not lovable, it could mean you have chosen to limit your scope of  possibilities.  This could be because you havent had enough experiences to attract the true love the universe has for you.  Tonight we will look at how our choices influence our measure of being lovable, and how our choices dictate the length of the love.  00:59:00Vaughn JnoIn life its our choice to love others and allow others to love us, as it is their choice to reciprocate the love we would like for them to show.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/03/22/love-should-help-enhance-our-dreams-not-squash-themMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/03/22/love-should-help-enhance-our-dreams-not-squash-them/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/03/22/love-should-help-enhance-our-dreams-not-squash-themTue, 22 Mar 2016 00:00:00 GMTLove should help enhance our dreams, not squash them.True love allows for everyone involved to benefit.  This is because those that are in love share a natural balance that allows for each person to be free to express themselves without fear of judgement. They are free to pursue dreams without the need to rationalize, validate or be ashamed of those dreams. True love will allow those in the relationship to be supportive and encouraging of their partner’s goals, and rarely asked to put their partner’s dreams ahead of their own.  This is because true love is grounded in respect, respect for each person in the relationship and respect for the relationship itself.   01:00:00Vaughn JnoLove should provide positive enhancements for those in love, and allow for those involved freedom to be themselves without fear.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/03/15/happiness-in-life-can-be-as-simple-as-a-choice-part-2Motivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/03/15/happiness-in-life-can-be-as-simple-as-a-choice-part-2/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/03/15/happiness-in-life-can-be-as-simple-as-a-choice-part-2Tue, 15 Mar 2016 00:00:00 GMTHappiness in life can be as simple as a choice part 2!Happiness, like any other thing we want to excel at in life requires practice.  Each day we must make a conscious effort to practice being happy, as being upset and unhappy seem to happen with little effort on our parts.  Therefore, if we want a happier existence we will need to put more effort into finding things that will help to make the choice to be happy easier than the choice to sit and wait for happiness to find us.    01:00:00Vaughn JnoContinuation of last weeks show on "Happiness in life can be as simple as a choice 2 " and how we must make a choice to practice happinesshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/03/10/happiness-in-life-can-be-as-simple-as-a-choice-part-1Motivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/03/10/happiness-in-life-can-be-as-simple-as-a-choice-part-1/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/03/10/happiness-in-life-can-be-as-simple-as-a-choice-part-1Thu, 10 Mar 2016 01:00:00 GMTHappiness in life can be as simple as a choice part 1!Happiness is a state a mind that we do have control over. At times it can seem like happiness is out of our control, or reach. If we look at our lives and the things that make us unhappy, chances are we played or chose not to play a role in the choice or choices that leads to many of our moments of unhappiness.  In addition to our having  effect on our happiness, the choices we make have direct and indirect impacts on the lives of those we have relationships with. With this knowledge we can begin to make choices that are not only beneficial for us, but also those that we share the world with. Thereby making it a happier place for us all.  01:00:00Vaughn JnoHappiness is a state a mind, that we do have control over.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/03/01/happiness-and-acceptance-continuedMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/03/01/happiness-and-acceptance-continued/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/03/01/happiness-and-acceptance-continuedTue, 01 Mar 2016 01:00:00 GMTHappiness and Acceptance; Continued...On this episode of Redefiing Life and Love with Vaughn J,  we will continue the discussion on happiness being a choice and how choices play an important role in our life experiences. We will then transition to talk about how self acceptance leads to a happier you which can lead to more positive interactions in our relationships, be the relationships professional and or personal.   01:00:00Vaughn JnoHappiness discussion continued to include happiness and how different relationships we have effect our happiness.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/02/23/happiness-and-acceptanceMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/02/23/happiness-and-acceptance/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/02/23/happiness-and-acceptanceTue, 23 Feb 2016 01:00:00 GMTHappiness and AcceptanceWe will discuss that first learning to accept ourselves is required before we can begin to experience individual happiness. Understanding that we must first be secure in who we are as individuals with our own traits and personalities and those traits and personalities make us who we are.  With learning to accept those traits we can begin to accept ourselves, and once we are able to accept us, we can begin to truly experience peace at our core.  When we have peace at our core, it makes it easier to find the happiness that is unique to each of us. 00:59:00Vaughn JnoIn tonight's show, we will discuss Happiness and Acceptance and how it pertains to each individual.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/02/17/the-cost-of-peace-of-mindMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/02/17/the-cost-of-peace-of-mind/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/02/17/the-cost-of-peace-of-mindWed, 17 Feb 2016 01:00:00 GMTThe Cost of Peace of MindWith peace of mind we can focus on those things in life that bring us true happiness and joy.  It affords for the opportunity to explore ourselves and identify areas we would like to grow in, as well as areas we would like to grow out of.  Peace of mind can be extremely difficult to comeby especially with so much of society, family, and friends all looking for their peace of mind, which often times conflicts with our own. This episode will bring to to light the ease with which we can obtain that priceless state, peace of mind, by our choices we make.  00:59:00Vaughn JnoIn life one of the most valuable things we can posses at any moment of time is peace of mind. It allows us the opportunity to revel in our success and learn fhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/02/09/happiness-is-priceless-but-we-can-afford-it-continuedMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/02/09/happiness-is-priceless-but-we-can-afford-it-continued/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/02/09/happiness-is-priceless-but-we-can-afford-it-continuedTue, 09 Feb 2016 01:00:00 GMTHappiness is priceless, but we can afford it; ContinuedAs we disscussed last week happiness is something we all desire, and at times can appear to be out of reach,  This show we will continue our happiness topic, and expand on the types of happiness, and how it all starts with ourselves.  We define our happiness, and through our choices we excercise our option to be happy.   01:00:00Vaughn JnoContinuation of last weeks show on "Happiness" and how we can all achieve it with nothing more than a choice. Also joining the show will be author and producerhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/02/02/happiness-is-priceless-but-we-can-afford-itMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/02/02/happiness-is-priceless-but-we-can-afford-it/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/02/02/happiness-is-priceless-but-we-can-afford-itTue, 02 Feb 2016 01:00:00 GMTHappiness is priceless, but we can afford itOur lives are comprised of more than the here and now, they are also comprised of our past as well.   In life we all have experienced moments of happiness, as well as moments of unhappiness.  Those moments, the good and bad are just that moments. It is almost impossible to be completely happy all of the time, and it should be equally impossible to be unhappy all of the time.   Once the moments have passed, we begin to recover from the moments of unhappiness as the memory fades, or we begin to search for the next experience to bring us more happiness.  In all of this however is our choice, how we choose to view and use the situations and moments, we have a choice in how we respond, or how we choose to let the moment affect us.  The choices are almost boundless, and only restricted by us, and how we choose to view and use those prior experiences.  The objective of tonight's show is to highlight the power choice, and its ability to cover the high price of happiness.  00:59:00Vaughn JnoHappiness, is vital to a healthy mental state. It at times can seem unattainable, however this is truly not the case. Tonight's show will highlight the importhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/01/26/lifes-opportunites-are-directly-related-to-our-choicesMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/01/26/lifes-opportunites-are-directly-related-to-our-choices/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/01/26/lifes-opportunites-are-directly-related-to-our-choicesTue, 26 Jan 2016 01:00:00 GMTLife's opportunites are directly related to our choicesThe opportunities we see and the adversities we face, can all be traced back to a choice, either by you or by another. The older you are, the more likely both your breaks and challenges are linked directly to your choice.  The person we choose to grow into, is directly related to the experiences we have had in life. We can choose to use them as aids to help us along our journey or we can choose to see them as weights holding us down, or back.  That is truly up to the individual as we all do not view the world with the same set of eyes, nor have we gone through the exact same experiences. However, in order to get more from life we have to put more into our lives.  In life we get out what we put in, so if we put in things that really will not help us, how can we expect those things to provide assistance. Tonights show we will talk about how the choices made have  lead up to the life we live, as well as how we choose to view our life. With the biggest choice of all being how your choose to view the world.  Either full of opportunities you can create for yourself, or a life full of adversitiy constantly knocking you down, or you may choose a combination, a life balanced by chances and obstacles. Either way, respect your choice, as well as the choice of others.  01:00:00Vaughn JnoAll of our life opportunities and adversities are derived primarily by our choices. The faster we realize this the faster we can begin to shape the life we wanhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/01/19/my-goal-is-to-provoke-thoughtMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/01/19/my-goal-is-to-provoke-thought/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/01/19/my-goal-is-to-provoke-thoughtTue, 19 Jan 2016 01:00:00 GMTMy Goal is to provoke thoughtTonight's show will focus on my goal for this show, and to provide insight into how I came to this time in my life, in which I feel I can help others who may experience many of the obstacles, pitfalls, and other traps life lays for us that I have seen.  I want to illustrate how withe the smallest change of perception can lead to some of the biggest rewards your life can provide you.  In the show tonight, I hope to use some of my life story to show the some of the negative situations in my life I had to choose to overcome, or at least view in a different light, and the ways in which I chose to view situations as opportunities rather than hindrances.  The hope is the audience will see how all of our problems are relative to each of us, how some may see a problem others may see a million dollar idea, but it is all relative, and to be happy in life we have to consciously make that choice consistently and continuously.  00:59:00Vaughn JnoMy hopes for the show are to explain how I came to many of the conclusions I have on life, peace, and happiness.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/01/12/reaching-a-goal-isnt-the-goalMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/01/12/reaching-a-goal-isnt-the-goal/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/01/12/reaching-a-goal-isnt-the-goalTue, 12 Jan 2016 01:00:00 GMTReaching a goal isn't the goalGoal setting is an important aspect of creating the life you want for yourself, however the goal isn't what we should look to pursue, but rather a gauge or indicator for your life.  In this week's show will discuss the aspects of goal setting many people miss and thereby seem to not able to achieve their goals, or struggle to maintain the life they felt their goal was suppose to provide 01:29:00Vaughn JnoGoals are important to set, but they are not the end pointhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/01/05/love-is-more-than-our-versionMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/01/05/love-is-more-than-our-version/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2016/01/05/love-is-more-than-our-versionTue, 05 Jan 2016 01:00:00 GMTLove is more than our versionIn life we often feel our version of love is the only true version, if we all feel that way then that would mean there are billions of definition of love.  In this episode we will loo to challenge the single minded approach to love that seems to be so prevalent in today's society, and hope to provide other ways to view and there by learn to accept others version of love. 01:01:00Vaughn JnoIn life we must learn that others may not view things the way they do, but that doesn't mean they are wrong nor are you wronghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/12/29/respect-your-choices-w-vaughnMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/12/29/respect-your-choices-w-vaughn/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/12/29/respect-your-choices-w-vaughnTue, 29 Dec 2015 01:00:00 GMTRespect Your Choices w/ VaughnIn his book, Respect Your Choices: Finding Balance in Success, Vaughn shares his methods to creating a life that is rich in every way possible. Focusing on the three areas of life that must be refined to bring about positive outcomes - Purpose, Respect, and Choices, he identifies the framework upon which a fulfilled existence is built. Respect Your Choices offers thought provoking lessons, actionable plans, and personal experiences, and then makes clear that respecting your choices will help you find balance between your outlook and outcome.  If you change your perception, you change your outlook and once you change your outlook you change your outcome. Your outcome can be either positive or negative, as it’s relative to you!  01:00:00Vaughn JnoThe power of Choicehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/12/22/respect-your-choices-w-vaughnMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/12/22/respect-your-choices-w-vaughn/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/12/22/respect-your-choices-w-vaughnTue, 22 Dec 2015 01:00:00 GMTRespect Your Choices w/ VaughnIn his book, Respect Your Choices: Finding Balance in Success, Vaughn shares his methods to creating a life that is rich in every way possible. Focusing on the three areas of life that must be refined to bring about positive outcomes - Purpose, Respect, and Choices, he identifies the framework upon which a fulfilled existence is built. Respect Your Choices offers thought provoking lessons, actionable plans, and personal experiences, and then makes clear that respecting your choices will help you find balance between your outlook and outcome.  If you change your perception, you change your outlook and once you change your outlook you change your outcome. Your outcome can be either positive or negative, as it’s relative to you!  01:00:00Vaughn JnoThe Power of Choicehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/12/15/respect-your-choices-w-vaughnMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/12/15/respect-your-choices-w-vaughn/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/12/15/respect-your-choices-w-vaughnTue, 15 Dec 2015 01:00:00 GMTRespect Your Choices w/ VaughnIn his book, Respect Your Choices: Finding Balance in Success, Vaughn shares his methods to creating a life that is rich in every way possible. Focusing on the three areas of life that must be refined to bring about positive outcomes - Purpose, Respect, and Choices, he identifies the framework upon which a fulfilled existence is built. Respect Your Choices offers thought provoking lessons, actionable plans, and personal experiences, and then makes clear that respecting your choices will help you find balance between your outlook and outcome.  If you change your perception, you change your outlook and once you change your outlook you change your outcome. Your outcome can be either positive or negative, as it’s relative to you!  01:01:00Vaughn JnoThe Power of Choicehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/12/08/respect-your-choices-w-vaughnMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/12/08/respect-your-choices-w-vaughn/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/12/08/respect-your-choices-w-vaughnTue, 08 Dec 2015 01:00:00 GMTRespect Your Choices w/ VaughnIn his book, Respect Your Choices: Finding Balance in Success, Vaughn shares his methods to creating a life that is rich in every way possible. Focusing on the three areas of life that must be refined to bring about positive outcomes - Purpose, Respect, and Choices, he identifies the framework upon which a fulfilled existence is built. Respect Your Choices offers thought provoking lessons, actionable plans, and personal experiences, and then makes clear that respecting your choices will help you find balance between your outlook and outcome.  If you change your perception, you change your outlook and once you change your outlook you change your outcome. Your outcome can be either positive or negative, as it’s relative to you!  01:01:00Vaughn JnoThe Power of Choicehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/12/01/respect-your-choices-w-vaughnMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/12/01/respect-your-choices-w-vaughn/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/12/01/respect-your-choices-w-vaughnTue, 01 Dec 2015 01:00:00 GMTRespect Your Choices w/ VaughnIn his book, Respect Your Choices: Finding Balance in Success, Vaughn shares his methods to creating a life that is rich in every way possible. Focusing on the three areas of life that must be refined to bring about positive outcomes - Purpose, Respect, and Choices, he identifies the framework upon which a fulfilled existence is built. Respect Your Choices offers thought provoking lessons, actionable plans, and personal experiences, and then makes clear that respecting your choices will help you find balance between your outlook and outcome.  If you change your perception, you change your outlook and once you change your outlook you change your outcome. Your outcome can be either positive or negative, as it’s relative to you!  01:00:00Vaughn JnoChoices Series #2http://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/11/24/respect-your-choices-w-vaughnMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/11/24/respect-your-choices-w-vaughn/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/11/24/respect-your-choices-w-vaughnTue, 24 Nov 2015 01:00:00 GMTRespect Your Choices w/ VaughnIn his book, Respect Your Choices: Finding Balance in Success, Vaughn shares his methods to creating a life that is rich in every way possible. Focusing on the three areas of life that must be refined to bring about positive outcomes - Purpose, Respect, and Choices, he identifies the framework upon which a fulfilled existence is built. Respect Your Choices offers thought provoking lessons, actionable plans, and personal experiences, and then makes clear that respecting your choices will help you find balance between your outlook and outcome.  If you change your perception, you change your outlook and once you change your outlook you change your outcome. Your outcome can be either positive or negative, as it’s relative to you!  01:01:00Vaughn JnoChoices,Respect,Mindset,OutcomeSeries #1 of 6http://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/11/17/respect-is-not-mannersMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/11/17/respect-is-not-manners/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/11/17/respect-is-not-mannersTue, 17 Nov 2015 01:00:00 GMTRespect is not manners!Discussion on how respect in life extends to more than just manners.  Discuss how the audience by respecting their lives and choices, as well as the choices of others. They can help realize a happier and more rewarding life experience.  Answer questions from audience about respect and talk about how it plays a critical role in the direction their lives will take. 01:00:00Vaughn JnoSuccess,RESPECT 1ST,winning in life,Lifestyle,Life CoachingWhy is Respecting yourself and others necessary?http://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/11/10/failure-is-a-valuable-toolMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/11/10/failure-is-a-valuable-tool/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/11/10/failure-is-a-valuable-toolTue, 10 Nov 2015 01:00:00 GMTFailure is a Valuable Tool!Talk to the audience about how "failure" is both needed and inevitable.  Discuss various types of failures's various ways of viewing the failure, and how one may find positives in failure. Allow audience to ask questions about failure of the hosts, and how they overcame or continue to overcome personal and professional failures. 01:00:00Vaughn Jnomotivation,inspiration,failure,Failure in Not an Option,Success"Failure" is both needed and inevitable!http://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/11/03/redefining-life-loveMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/11/03/redefining-life-love/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/wordswithvaughn/2015/11/03/redefining-life-loveTue, 03 Nov 2015 01:00:00 GMTRedefining Life & LoveJoin Us on Monday, November 2, 2015, to learn more about your host Charron Monaye and Vaughn McNeill.  In addition, be empowered and inspired to be reintroduced to who you are destined to be. You can not live a life that you don't own, and it's even more frustrating to live a life not knowing who you are! It's time to uncover and reveal the REAL you by defining your Purpose and acknowledging your POWER!  01:00:00Vaughn JnoMotivation,Purpose,RESPECT 2012 CHAKRA HEALTH WAR SOVEREIGNTY,PenLegacy,RelationshipsCharron and Vaughn will introduce themselves to their guest and explain what it means to redefine Life and Love!