*Question/Comment: What should two people do before they get married. "Shouldn't they discuss what their individual view of marriage looks like to them? " YES
What will He expect of his wife; what will She expect of her husband?
*Question/Comment: How do you make amends after a heated exchange or argument?
The two people should pre-agree to walk away, leave it for a while (24 hrs), pray about it--taking your Bible so that the Word reveals both sides, come back later, stay in peace, (stay humble--cool, calm) don't become defensive. At least one person needs to stand firm on the word of God, don't coward down.
Recognize the spirit that's working in the person, take authority over that spirit but show love to the person-- it's not the real person, but the spirit that's working in them or the person acting out in the flesh.
Stay in the Word, stay in scriptures of peace and the love of God. Keep yourself built up in the Word.
*Question/Comment: Explore the Family History on both sides.