They say that when you meet someone, you're not really meeting them, you're meeting their representative. What is their representative? Why can't their representative be who they really are?
If you meet someone and they show you all their negative traits up front, would you say that that wasn't really them, that was their representative?
That's probably not the way it works, huh? Maybe?
If we're only really meeting a person's representative when we don't know them, when do we meet the real them?