It happens much more than we think that it does. What does a person in this situation do? Is it always bad?
What are some of the possibilities about why this would or could happen?
Is it always for the worst, or can some good come out of this? If so, then how?
What if you were never really TOGETHER when the baby was conceived? Do you need to try to get together before the baby comes? To satisfy whom?
Is this undoubtedly an embarrassing situation?