When a person has been abused, or treated like a 2nd option of their lives, they can make it really hard for the one who wants to treat them right to hang in there.
It gets worse though. They can also develop this, "I'd better get them before they get me" attitude.
Do you you think that it's possible to mess up a good thing by expecting the same ole bad thing?
What if it's a mediocre good thing? Have you stopped something that wasn't all that good in its tracks, or did you stop a potential good thing from getting better?
Let's get into it.