Whenever you have something taken from you that you want to keep, it's hard. When you love the person that took it from you, you have to make a decision on how to handle it. On how to settle it. On how to reconcile it. On how to move on from it.
Some families have had to deal with family members taking the life of other family members. You know how they say that forgiveness is for the forgiver, not for they forgiven? Who is the forgiveness for, when both parties involved are affected by the same act?
Would you, or could you forgive a family member if they stole from you and yours? Have you done it already?