http://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosiA show that discusses a range of topics that people shy away from. Discussing Life Style issues…anything from the effects of ageing on a relationship to loenBlogTalkRadio.com. All Rights Reserved.Sat, 15 Jun 2019 20:00:00 GMTWed, 16 Apr 2014 20:00:00 GMTLifestyleBlogTalkRadio Feed v2.0https://dasg7xwmldix6.cloudfront.net/hostpics/168deef9-2a13-472a-ad42-a98eb28dafe1_lets_go_there_logo.jpghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosiA show that discusses a range of topics that people shy away from. Discussing Life Style issues…anything from the effects of ageing on a relationship to lofeeds@blogtalkradio.comBlogTalkRadio.comlifestyle,dating,flirting,happy,single,affairs,afford,aims,appreciate,blackmailLets Go TherenoA show that discusses a range of topics that people shy away from. Discussing Life Style issues…anything from the effects of ageing on a relationship to loepisodichttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/04/16/emotions-how-do-they-control-youLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/04/16/emotions-how-do-they-control-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/04/16/emotions-how-do-they-control-youWed, 16 Apr 2014 20:00:00 GMTEMOTIONS: How Do They Control YOU?We all have emotions, positive ones and negative ones.... Emotions will always be a part of us.... But are they all good? Should they control us or should we be in control of them? Tune in tonight as SB (Shola Bademosi & Sade Kaffo discuss this.......   01:00:00Lets Go TherenoWe all have emotions, positive ones and negative ones.... Emotions will always be a part of us.... But are they all good? Should they control us or should wehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/04/09/what-if-he-has-a-child-outside-can-the-relationship-still-workLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/04/09/what-if-he-has-a-child-outside-can-the-relationship-still-work/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/04/09/what-if-he-has-a-child-outside-can-the-relationship-still-workWed, 09 Apr 2014 20:00:00 GMTWhat if he has a child outside? Can the relationship still work?You have to understand that your husband will always have a relationship with that child's mother because he would have to co-parent with her. So you have to decide if that is something you are prepared to be a part of.   Renegotiate the relationship in a way that works for both of you. Remember he has to work hard to earn his way back into the relationship   00:59:00Lets Go Therenoco-parenting,INFEDELITY,LoveChild,relationships,affairsYou have to understand that your husband will always have a relationship with that child's mother because he would have to co-parent with her. So you have to dehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/04/02/how-to-stop-being-treated-like-a-doormatLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/04/02/how-to-stop-being-treated-like-a-doormat/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/04/02/how-to-stop-being-treated-like-a-doormatWed, 02 Apr 2014 20:00:00 GMTHOW TO STOP BEING TREATED LIKE A DOORMATDo you have a tendency to give in to him all the time? There's a fine line between being Submissive and being a Doormat. So, what is being a doormat anyway? A doormat is a woman who bends over backwards to please her man, a woman who will do whatever it takes to try to make her man happy. 01:00:00Lets Go TherenoDOORMAT,SUBMISSIVE,WOMAN,HAPPYDo you have a tendency to give in to him all the time? There's a fine line between being Submissive and being a Doormat. So, what is being a doormat anyway?http://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/03/26/can-you-really-stop-a-man-from-leaving-youLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/03/26/can-you-really-stop-a-man-from-leaving-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/03/26/can-you-really-stop-a-man-from-leaving-youWed, 26 Mar 2014 21:00:00 GMTCAN YOU REALLY STOP A MAN FROM LEAVING YOU?What is the best way to keep a man from leaving you? How do you STOP your man leaving? Are you dedicated to making the changes to keep him around? Are you willing to make the changes to make him happy? 01:00:00Lets Go TherenoHEART BROKEN,BREAK UP,HAPPY,MANWhat is the best way to keep a man from leaving you? How do you STOP your man leaving? Are you dedicated to making the changes to keep him around? Are you wihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/03/19/geographical-separation-staying-close-while-you-live-apartLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/03/19/geographical-separation-staying-close-while-you-live-apart/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/03/19/geographical-separation-staying-close-while-you-live-apartWed, 19 Mar 2014 21:00:00 GMTGeographical Separation: Staying Close While You Live ApartMarried but living apart? In a long-distance relationship? Unable to live in the same city, not to mention country? Due to employment opportunities, immigration, educational needs of your children, or the demands of family members back home? Then you are “Geographically single” 01:00:00Lets Go TherenoSINGLE,GEOGRAPHICAL,LIVING APART,LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPMarried but living apart? In a long-distance relationship? Unable to live in the same city, not to mention country? Due to employment opportunities, immigrathttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/03/12/i-can-do-good-all-by-myself-do-i-really-need-a-manLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/03/12/i-can-do-good-all-by-myself-do-i-really-need-a-man/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/03/12/i-can-do-good-all-by-myself-do-i-really-need-a-manWed, 12 Mar 2014 21:00:00 GMTI can do good all by myself; Do I really need a man?Are you the type of woman who needs to know you have a new boyfriend in the pipe line before you walk out on your current relationship? When you find yourself single again do you spend all of your time on the hunt for your next boyfriend? Have you fallen into the trap of getting into a relationship that’s not what you really want just to avoid feeling lonely? Do you find yourself turning down invitations to social functions because you don't have a date to bring? We’re programmed for connection; we’re social creatures so it’s natural to feel much happier when in a relationship than when single…. 01:00:00Lets Go TherenoSINGLE,LONELY,BOYFRIEND,SOCIAL,RELATIONSHIPAre you the type of woman who needs to know you have a new boyfriend in the pipe line before you walk out on your current relationship? When you find yourselfhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/03/05/emotional-blackmail-is-it-acceptableLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/03/05/emotional-blackmail-is-it-acceptable/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/03/05/emotional-blackmail-is-it-acceptableWed, 05 Mar 2014 21:00:00 GMTEMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL: Is it acceptable?Emotional blackmailers use fear, obligation and guilt in their relationships to get what they want. Everyone is capable of using emotional blackmail to get what they want. Most times we convince ourselves we're exempted from it; and other times we assure ourselves we're resistant to it. Have you ever said "Don't you love me anymore?" or "I'm only doing this for you" or “If you love me, you would do so and so” If the answer is yes, then you are guilty of emotional blackmail. Can you identify when you are being manipulated?   01:00:00Lets Go TherenoMANIPULATED,EMOTIONAL,BLACKMAIL,VICTIM,GUILTYEmotional blackmailers use fear, obligation and guilt in their relationships to get what they want. Everyone is capable of using emotional blackmail to get whahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/02/26/flirting-is-it-harmfulLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/02/26/flirting-is-it-harmful/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/02/26/flirting-is-it-harmfulWed, 26 Feb 2014 21:00:00 GMTFlirting; Is it harmful?Is She Really Flirting With You? Can you pick up the Signs? Is it possible to flirt in a subtle way to make him want you, without him even noticing? When does flirting become off putting? And where do you draw the line between flirting and seducing?  Are you a sexual predator or a subtle temptress. Are you just fooling around or are you actually sending out an "I want you" message? 01:00:00Lets Go TherenoFLIRTING,SEDUCING,SEXTUAL,TEASING,TEMPTRESSIs She Really Flirting With You? Can you pick up the Signs? Is it possible to flirt in a subtle way to make him want you, without him even noticing? When doeshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/02/19/edating-would-you-consider-finding-love-onlineLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/02/19/edating-would-you-consider-finding-love-online/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/02/19/edating-would-you-consider-finding-love-onlineWed, 19 Feb 2014 21:00:00 GMTeDating: Would you consider finding love online?Can you find true love online? So you want to meet someone and have decided to go online. Is that a good move — proactive and forward-thinking? Would you meet up with a complete stranger with explicitly romantic intentions? Once you meet, do you realise you know very little about this person and all of the preceding emails, chats, innuendos and witty banter go out the window??  ...Online dating once considered as a creepy way to meet people has become a trend. It is no longer seen as an un-acceptable way to find love…or is it?   00:59:00Lets Go TherenoOnline,dating,witty banter,innuendos,internet datingCan you find true love online? So you want to meet someone and have decided to go online. Is that a good move — proactive and forward-thinking? Would you meehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/02/12/dating-againLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/02/12/dating-again/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/02/12/dating-againWed, 12 Feb 2014 21:00:00 GMTDating Again....Dating: Again after a breakup Getting back into the dating scene after being attached for so long can be tricky You've grown so used to letting your guard down in a relationship. And if you were in a long relationship, the chances are your romantic skills are virtually non-existent and your skills would need brushing up. 00:59:00Lets Go TherenoRELATIONSHIP,DATING,BREAKUP,SKILLS,FLIRTINGDating: Again after a breakup Getting back into the dating scene after being attached for so long can be tricky You've grown so used to letting your guard dowhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/02/05/moving-onto-whatLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/02/05/moving-onto-what/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/02/05/moving-onto-whatWed, 05 Feb 2014 21:00:00 GMTMoving On.......to what???What does it mean when people tell you to "move-on"? Does it mean:  -Deleting the past? -Running away from the past or negative situation? -Complete detachment from the negative situation? - Or to alter your expectations? 00:59:00Lets Go TherenoDelete,negative thinking,past lives,expectations,Moving OnWhat does it mean when people tell you to "move-on"? Does it mean:  -Deleting the past? -Running away from the past or negative situation? -Complete detachmhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/01/29/so-who-are-your-friendsLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/01/29/so-who-are-your-friends/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/01/29/so-who-are-your-friendsWed, 29 Jan 2014 21:00:00 GMTSo Who Are Your Friends?For many people, it's hard to find a good friend.  Is it possible to have a bad friend? What exactly makes someone your friend? Do you need to have a lot of common interests with people in order to make them your friends? Are you having trouble deciding whether your friend is a true friend? "A friend is one who has the same enemies as you have". Abraham Lincoln 00:59:00Lets Go TherenoPEOPLE,FRIEND,TROUBLE,DECISION MAKING,GOODFor many people, it's hard to find a good friend.  Is it possible to have a bad friend? What exactly makes someone your friend? Do you need to have a lot ofhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/01/22/loving-myself-what-have-i-done-for-me-latelyLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/01/22/loving-myself-what-have-i-done-for-me-lately/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/01/22/loving-myself-what-have-i-done-for-me-latelyWed, 22 Jan 2014 21:00:00 GMTLoving Myself: What have I done for me lately?IF YOU DON’T LOVE YOURSELF HOW CAN YOU LOVE OTHERS? YOU PUT YOURSELF AT A DISADVANTAGE WHEN YOU WAIT FOR OTHERS TO APPRECIATE YOU BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF LOVE YOURSELF 00:59:00Lets Go TherenoHAPPY,LOVE,YOURSELF,APPRECIATE,DISADVANTAGEIF YOU DON’T LOVE YOURSELF HOW CAN YOU LOVE OTHERS? YOU PUT YOURSELF AT A DISADVANTAGE WHEN YOU WAIT FOR OTHERS TO APPRECIATE YOU BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF LOVEhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/01/15/self-image-what-does-yours-say-about-youLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/01/15/self-image-what-does-yours-say-about-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/01/15/self-image-what-does-yours-say-about-youWed, 15 Jan 2014 21:00:00 GMTSelf Image: What does yours say about you?ARE YOU CONFIDENT WITH YOUR SELF-IMAGE? Is Self-Image linked to Self Esteem? Why Are Self-Esteem and Self Image Important? Self-esteem is all about how much you feel you are worth — how much do you feel others value you? Self-Image is how you see yourself physically— do you feel you are attractive and do others like your looks?    00:58:00Lets Go TherenoSELF IMAGE,SELF ESTEEM,BODY IMAGE,SELF WORTH,SELF AWARENESSARE YOU CONFIDENT WITH YOUR SELF-IMAGE? Is Self-Image linked to Self Esteem? Why Are Self-Esteem and Self Image Important? Self-esteem is all about how muchhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/01/08/personal-finances-am-i-overspendingLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/01/08/personal-finances-am-i-overspending/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/01/08/personal-finances-am-i-overspendingWed, 08 Jan 2014 21:00:00 GMTPersonal Finances: Am I overspending?Many people are making money resolutions this year.The new year is here, which means goal-oriented people already have their goals for 2014  while others are thinking about their resolutions for 2014. Many people will attempt to manage their money better in this new year. Primarily: to spend less and save more. What's the point of a budget? Do I spend more than I earn? What can I afford to spend? Am I overspending? 00:59:00Lets Go TherenoBUDGET,OVERSPENDING,AFFORD,PERSONAL FINANCIES,DEBTSMany people are making money resolutions this year.The new year is here, which means goal-oriented people already have their goals for 2014  while others are thhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/01/01/new-years-resolutions-how-effective-are-theyLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/01/01/new-years-resolutions-how-effective-are-they/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2014/01/01/new-years-resolutions-how-effective-are-theyWed, 01 Jan 2014 21:00:00 GMTNEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS: How effective are they?The nature of New Year's resolutions has changed during the last decades, with many resolutions being more superficial and appearance-oriented than in previous times. Do you make New year's resolutions? If Yes.....how effective are they? Are you able to stick to them? Or do they fall by the way-side after a few months? 01:00:00Lets Go TherenoNEW YEAR,RESOLUTION,GOALS,AIMS,OBJECTIVESThe nature of New Year's resolutions has changed during the last decades, with many resolutions being more superficial and appearance-oriented than in previoushttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2013/12/25/a-perfect-christmasLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2013/12/25/a-perfect-christmas/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2013/12/25/a-perfect-christmasWed, 25 Dec 2013 21:00:00 GMTA Perfect ChristmasHas your Christmas day been good or great or not so great? What makes a perfect Xmas for you?.............. Family ?? Presents?? Christmas spirit ?? Decorations?? 01:01:00Lets Go TherenoChristmas,family,gifts,Jesus,CarolsHas your Christmas day been good or great or not so great? What makes a perfect Xmas for you?.............. Family ?? Presents?? Christmas spirit ?? Decorahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2013/12/18/happiness-how-do-you-know-you-are-happyLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2013/12/18/happiness-how-do-you-know-you-are-happy/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shola-bademosi/2013/12/18/happiness-how-do-you-know-you-are-happyWed, 18 Dec 2013 21:00:00 GMTHappiness: How do you know you are happy?Happiness is a vague concept and can mean different things to many people so how do you know you are happy? Is it possible to remain in a constant state of happiness. Join us and go there with us as we discuss this topic... 00:59:00Lets Go TherenoHappiness,joy,health,philosophical,scientificHappiness is a vague concept and can mean different things to many people so how do you know you are happy? Is it possible to remain in a constant state of happ