http://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartelA radio show intended to encourage individuals to make a commitment to strive for better relationships and lifestyles. The purpose is to help you identify, attract, and keep your ideal mate. There are so many things in life to consider, so let's talk about them. enCopyright Shejuan Cartel (C/O Blogtalkradio)Sat, 15 Jun 2019 04:00:00 GMTWed, 11 Feb 2015 01:30:00 GMTRomanceBlogTalkRadio Feed v2.0https://dasg7xwmldix6.cloudfront.net/hostpics/c2873fd9-8497-4cb4-a1d6-90856d626585_asc_profile_1.jpghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartelA radio show intended to encourage individuals to make a commitment to strive for better relationships and lifestyles. The purpose is to help you identify, attract, and keep your ideal mate. There are so many things in life to consider, so let's talk about them. feeds@blogtalkradio.comBlogTalkRadio.comromance,relationship,commitment,dating,love,marriage,divorce,happiness,honesty,talkAsk Shejuan CartelnoA radio show intended to encourage individuals to make a commitment to strive for better relationships and lifestyles. The purpose is to help you identify, attrepisodichttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2015/02/11/lonely-but-not-desperateRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2015/02/11/lonely-but-not-desperate/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2015/02/11/lonely-but-not-desperateWed, 11 Feb 2015 01:30:00 GMTLonely But Not DesperateThere is no shortage of lonely people in the world. The sad part is that half of them are in a relationship. If you are one of them, you should tune in to this episode. Does it seem like you can be a room full of people and appear to be invisible? During this broadcast, you will hear ways that you can make yourself relevant again. Tips will be given to help you receive positive attention from those who are truly important. You don't have to be alone any longer. You should understand that desperate situations call for change. 00:40:00Ask Shejuan Cartelnodesperate,lonely,alone,relationship,adviceThere is no shortage of lonely people in the world. The sad part is that half of them are in a relationship. If you are one of them, you should tune in to thishttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/08/07/my-testimony-part-2Romancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/08/07/my-testimony-part-2/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/08/07/my-testimony-part-2Sat, 07 Aug 2010 03:00:00 GMTMy Testimony: Part 2It is not that I like to talk about myself. (I actually like to hear other people talk.) I began telling a true story that is incomplete, so I would like to fill in the blanks. True understanding comes from having all the facts. While I may not answer every question that could be asked, it is important that I explain enough to bring me credibility. The purpose is to share how I went from dating to marriage, from marriage to divorce, and from divorce to a profound knowledge about relationships. 01:01:00Ask Shejuan Cartelnorelationship,dating,marriage,divorce,loveIt is not that I like to talk about myself. (I actually like to hear other people talk.) I began telling a true story that is incomplete, so I would like to filhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/07/27/my-testimonyRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/07/27/my-testimony/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/07/27/my-testimonyTue, 27 Jul 2010 01:00:00 GMTMy TestimonyAfter presenting the proper steps to a positive relationship, it may seem odd that I want to share my life experiences. Is it after the fact? I am actually giving you my true point of view. I did not learn the lessons that I now teach until after I had several types of relationships. This show is a journey through my life taking me from a state dysfunction to a place of peace. Most people do not know who they are nor how they transition throughout the years. Since I was conscience of my behavior, I could tell what my outcome would be. Now that I am aware of my repetitive nature, I can explain where I how I fail. More importantly, I can share how I became of destructive pattern. It isn't totally true that you can't learn from failure, but I could argue that the best teacher does not have to be "your own" experiences. It was my destiny to live my life, so I take pleasure in sharing my life you and wisdom with you.01:01:00Ask Shejuan Cartelnorelationship,love,dating,divorce,marriageAfter presenting the proper steps to a positive relationship, it may seem odd that I want to share my life experiences. Is it after the fact? I am actually givihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/07/24/roles-in-a-relationshipRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/07/24/roles-in-a-relationship/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/07/24/roles-in-a-relationshipSat, 24 Jul 2010 02:00:00 GMTRoles In A RelationshipSome people are just not meant to be in a committed relationship. For those who are, there is an unsettling feeling when you are not in one. That does not mean that you should settle to be in a relationship. It just means that not having a relationship leaves something to be desired. Only you can determine in that is what causes your anxiety. This show is designed to help you figure out what is in your best interest, so that you do not make two people miserable. Once that issue is settled, you can concentrate on the role that you should play with that relationship. Understand that you and your mate must agree or there will be turmoil. Then your relationship will become unbearable and it could possibly end. Listen for preventive maintenance, so that you will not spend more time trying to repair what is broken. 01:01:00Ask Shejuan Cartelnoroles,relationship,dating,marriage,commitmentSome people are just not meant to be in a committed relationship. For those who are, there is an unsettling feeling when you are not in one. That does not meanhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/07/17/creativityRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/07/17/creativity/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/07/17/creativitySat, 17 Jul 2010 01:00:00 GMTCreativityEvery relationship has a beginning. The initial approach can make or break it. If you seem to notice a pattern the leads to an ending, it may be time to be more creativity. While the problem may not be you, change is good just in case. The same routine obviously has the same outcome. Be spontaneous. Do things differently and at the spur of the moment. A change make equal a chance. Listen for some suggestions that might make a difference in how far your present or next relationship may go.01:01:00Ask Shejuan Cartelnorelationship,dating,marriage,creative,romanticEvery relationship has a beginning. The initial approach can make or break it. If you seem to notice a pattern the leads to an ending, it may be time to be morehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/07/10/sincerityRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/07/10/sincerity/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/07/10/sinceritySat, 10 Jul 2010 01:00:00 GMTSincerityBy definition, sincerity means to be genuine and not deceitful.It can be the best compliment or a good approach for constructive criticism.Sincerity is also a way of getting straight to the point. Too many relationships are treated like a game and messy because the rules are unclear. It is more important to get through the obstacles by being direct. This is an original approach because it is usually overlooked.Time is wasted and feelings usually get hurt. In the long run, each relationship has the same result. They end; unpleasantly. Sincerity is a tool that you can use to get exactly what you want from the right partner.01:00:00Ask Shejuan Cartelnosincerity,relationship,dating,honesty,marriageBy definition, sincerity means to be genuine and not deceitful.It can be the best compliment or a good approach for constructive criticism.Sincerity is also a whttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/07/03/put-your-best-foot-forwardRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/07/03/put-your-best-foot-forward/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/07/03/put-your-best-foot-forwardSat, 03 Jul 2010 00:30:00 GMTPut Your Best Foot ForwardBefore we start a new relationship, we start working at it. Our first impression is the most important factor. If we are average in the beginning, it would seem that we will not be anything spectacular within the relationship. The way the we present ourself leads into the "honeymoon" period. That is the time when everything appears to be prefect. It is the gray area right before reality kicks in. If our appearance, attitude, behavior or habits are bad, we ruin our chance of moving forward. Our first impression could very well be our last if it isn't close to being our best. The particular show deals with our introduction. The topic of how you can maintain this favorable view of you will also be discussed.01:00:00Ask Shejuan Cartelnofirst impression,relationship,dating,honeymoon,commitmentBefore we start a new relationship, we start working at it. Our first impression is the most important factor. If we are average in the beginning, it would seemhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/06/25/the-way-to-a-heartRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/06/25/the-way-to-a-heart/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/06/25/the-way-to-a-heartFri, 25 Jun 2010 01:30:00 GMTMy Head and My HeartMany people do not know how to approach a relationship. When does it actually begin? How do you know when a relationship has ended? How do I end a relationship? Can we remain friends? Should I still be a friend? These are some of the questions that will be addressed on this show. If you are a person who is on the ropes about your current relationship, this particular show may help you. Remember the choice is always yours. Your goal should be to find happiness. Peace in a relationship cannot be determined by rules and/ or regulations. Set yourself free to find a commitment that you can find contentment in, You may build many friendships on the way. There is no harm in that. Be open to advise and do what is best for you.01:01:00Ask Shejuan Cartelnolove,relationship,commitment,happiness,marriageMany people do not know how to approach a relationship. When does it actually begin? How do you know when a relationship has ended? How do I end a relationship?http://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/06/18/the-way-to-a-heartRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/06/18/the-way-to-a-heart/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/06/18/the-way-to-a-heartFri, 18 Jun 2010 01:30:00 GMTHonestyIt is ironic that love cannot be defined, but most people know what it is. Being "in love" is another subject. Has anyone ever told you what the process of falling in love is? Would you like to know? As we discuss honesty, the difference between loving someone and falling in love with someone will be addressed. By the end of this show, you know if your feelings towards another person are real and accurate. The will not be a test to determine your emotions, but maybe an explanation of why you have certain feelings may help you realize your truly feelings.01:01:00Ask Shejuan Cartelnotruth,relationship,commitment,honesty,loveIt is ironic that love cannot be defined, but most people know what it is. Being "in love" is another subject. Has anyone ever told you what the process of fallhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/06/09/the-way-to-a-heartSocial Networkinghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/06/09/the-way-to-a-heart/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/06/09/the-way-to-a-heartWed, 09 Jun 2010 01:30:00 GMTPut Yourself In His/ Her PositionUnderstanding is significant in any type of relationship. A lack of understanding comes from a lack of communication. If you want to understand your partner, put yourself in their position. You should put yourself in your partner's position often. It necessary, if you truly want to treat your partner how you want to be treated. Listen and learn how to make some simple techniques a natural part of checking for your partner's well-being. How concern are you?01:00:00Ask Shejuan Cartelnopartner,relationship,commitment,understanding,talkUnderstanding is significant in any type of relationship. A lack of understanding comes from a lack of communication. If you want to understand your partner, puhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/06/02/the-way-to-a-heartSocial Networkinghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/06/02/the-way-to-a-heart/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/06/02/the-way-to-a-heartWed, 02 Jun 2010 01:30:00 GMTCommunicationCommunication is one of the most important keys to a relationship. Unfortunately, most individuals do not know how to do it. On this show, we will talk about why should do, when you should do it, and how you should do it for the best results. Communication is very important in any type of relationship. All relationships begin with communication and most end with thelack of it. The more you listen, the more you can learn about a person. Even their unwillingness to communicate is informative, so learn why be a good listener is better than being a great speaker.01:00:00Ask Shejuan Cartelnocommunication,relationship,commitment,listening,talkCommunication is one of the most important keys to a relationship. Unfortunately, most individuals do not know how to do it. On this show, we will talk about whhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/05/26/the-way-to-the-heartSocial Networkinghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/05/26/the-way-to-the-heart/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/05/26/the-way-to-the-heartWed, 26 May 2010 01:30:00 GMTThe Way to the HeartIt is ironic that love cannot be defined, but most people know what it is. Being "in love" is another subject. Has anyone ever told you what the process of falling in love is? Would you like to know? What will you do with this information? Since this is such an interesting subject and the whole reason why I started this talk show, we shouldn't put it off any longer. Listen to find out why someone may fall in love with you and how you being to develop those feelings for someone else. 01:00:00Ask Shejuan Cartelnorelationship,love,happiness,soulmate,commitmentIt is ironic that love cannot be defined, but most people know what it is. Being "in love" is another subject. Has anyone ever told you what the process of fallhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/05/19/forgive-and-forget-1Social Networkinghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/05/19/forgive-and-forget-1/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/05/19/forgive-and-forget-1Wed, 19 May 2010 03:00:00 GMTStarting OverAfter having a long term relationship or having many failed short term ones, it is hard for individuals to start over again. We will discuss the things that keep a person from pursuing or engaging in a fresh relationship. Overcoming fear may be the #1 problem, but past disappointment doesn't have to keep anyone from future happiness. Recognizing the problem and addressing it head on may be easier than one may think. It is certainly worth the effort.01:00:00Ask Shejuan Cartelnodivorce,relationship,starting over,dating,loveAfter having a long term relationship or having many failed short term ones, it is hard for individuals to start over again. We will discuss the things that keehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/05/12/acceptance-vs-settling-1Social Networkinghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/05/12/acceptance-vs-settling-1/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/05/12/acceptance-vs-settling-1Wed, 12 May 2010 03:00:00 GMTAcceptance vs. SettlingAfter discussing the difference between Committing and Compromising, it is a good time to understand why we compromise. Settling for less than a person truly desires causes changes that lead to compromising. These changes may be in attitude, behavior, and/ or perspective. In any event, the result is less than desirable. "If you change your perspective, you can change your circumstances."01:00:00Ask Shejuan Cartelnosettling,relationship,acceptance,resentment,happyAfter discussing the difference between Committing and Compromising, it is a good time to understand why we compromise. Settling for less than a person truly dehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/05/04/commitment-vs-compromiseSocial Networkinghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/05/04/commitment-vs-compromise/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/05/04/commitment-vs-compromiseTue, 04 May 2010 03:00:00 GMTCommitment vs. CompromiseMost people fail to have productive RELATIONSHIPS because they believe that compromising for the sake of a relationship is better than committing to it. Others do not know what in means to truly be committed to a relationship. First of all we must understand that we are in more than one relationship at all times. (With our neighbors, boss, co-workers, friends, and mailman, etc.) We compromise ourselves to please others that we are in relationship with. We need to define ourself, so that we do not have to change for the sake of the person you're dealing with at time. Compromise leads to resentment. Commitment leads to contentment. 01:00:00Ask Shejuan Cartelnocommitment,relationship,single,dating,divorceMost people fail to have productive RELATIONSHIPS because they believe that compromising for the sake of a relationship is better than committing to it. Othershttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/04/29/commitment-vs-compromiseSocial Networkinghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/04/29/commitment-vs-compromise/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/shejuancartel/2010/04/29/commitment-vs-compromiseThu, 29 Apr 2010 03:00:00 GMTA Solution To Yuma's ProblemsJust as every city in the United States, Yuma (Arizona) has been affected economically. The youth sports programs are suffering, unemployment is on the rise, and budgets are under serious attacks. While we throw problems into the ring, solutions are not joining the fight. I am concerned, as a resident...but for good reason. There is a solution, but we have to be willing to put some effort behind making it happen. What if you were told that the answer to most of Yuma's problems can be resolved with a vote? Would you do your part?01:00:00Ask Shejuan Cartelnobusiness,grants,stimulus,teachers,athleticsJust as every city in the United States, Yuma (Arizona) has been affected economically. The youth sports programs are suffering, unemployment is on the rise, an