Do you date with a purpose or do you date just to be out for a good time?
I believe the older people become, they want more in life, someone to grow old with, companionship, etc., so here comes the dating on purpose. The question is, do you know what you want when dating? ...because it just can't be about companionship because all of a sudden you feel lonely. There is another person involved here. I don't believe in long lists but I do believe in knowing what you want. I also believe that when dating, one needs to understand the psyche or mindset of the individual they are dating., i.e. is he controlling, is she thirsty; is he a preyer, I mean player; is she/he emotionally stable.
When you date on purpose, you need to let the other person know that you are not just out to "date," you're dating to mate. Then let them make the decision to either go out on the date with you or not. When I was a child, I operated as a child. Now I'm older, it's time to operate in maturity.
Let's be honest, no man is an island and we were made for one another. Stop lying to yourself that you don't want anyone....that ain't natural.
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