http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdebOn The Real with Dr. Deb is a show that focuses on Black relationships: Couples, families, friendships, spiritual, health, etc. Dr. Debra, a credentialed therapist (and faith-based practitioner), has a mission in life is to help uplift and empower Black relationships.enBlogTalkRadio.com. All Rights Reserved.Fri, 14 Jun 2019 23:30:00 GMTMon, 21 Nov 2016 17:30:00 GMTPolitics ProgressiveBlogTalkRadio Feed v2.0https://dasg7xwmldix6.cloudfront.net/hostpics/56eb1124-a7c1-41d1-b699-420baf759c6c_on_the_real_blog_talk.jpghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdebOn The Real with Dr. Deb is a show that focuses on Black relationships: Couples, families, friendships, spiritual, health, etc. Dr. Debra, a credentialed therapist (and faith-based practitioner), has a mission in life is to help uplift and empower Black relationships.feeds@blogtalkradio.comBlogTalkRadio.comRacist America,Racism and Shame,Racism Solutions,Racism,Open Dialogue,Rebuilding AmericaOn The Real with DrX DebranoOn the Real with Dr. Deb? You already know!episodichttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/11/21/we-are-onePolitics Progressivehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/11/21/we-are-one/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/11/21/we-are-oneMon, 21 Nov 2016 17:30:00 GMTWe Are One If we weren't so human we could have figured out how to live as one. But the world that we've created, yes that we created, makes unity near impossible. Family, we have a real problem. Let's gather at the kitchen table and talk about it. See you there. 00:15:00On The Real with DrX DebranoIf we weren't so human we could have figured out how to live as one. But the world that we've created, yes that we created, makes unity near impossible. Familyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/11/14/what-nowPolitics Progressivehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/11/14/what-now/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/11/14/what-nowMon, 14 Nov 2016 17:30:00 GMTWhat Now?  The most positive result from the 2016 Presidential election is that the newly elected President is decidedly a racist and has the Electoral College’s consent—a significant number of Americans that agree with him. Annnnnd? Is this news to any of us? Not to me. Thank you, Mr. Trump (and your supporters) for clinching my argument on this issue: America's racist roots are still alive and perhaps thriving. So, why am I bothering to invite us to the kitchen table to talk about changing it? My answer: Hope. How can I hope? The protests from White America days later. 00:15:00On The Real with DrX Debranoracism,Presidential Election,Diversity,InclusionThe President Elect is a racist. Annnnnnnnd?http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/10/31/things-everyday-racist-people-can-doPolitics Progressivehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/10/31/things-everyday-racist-people-can-do/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/10/31/things-everyday-racist-people-can-doMon, 31 Oct 2016 16:30:00 GMTThings Everyday Racist People Can DoToday I want to invite the family to do something to change how we each respond to racism. It's everywhere (even in the air) but we have to stop hiding from it or pretending that it's not there. See at the kitchen table. 00:15:00On The Real with DrX Debranoracism,diversity,inclusion,change,social actionThere is something we all can do. But we have to muster the courage to act.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/10/24/the-problem-with-all-lives-matterPolitics Progressivehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/10/24/the-problem-with-all-lives-matter/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/10/24/the-problem-with-all-lives-matterMon, 24 Oct 2016 16:30:00 GMTThe Problem with "All lives matter"If you cannot empathize with the cause of Black Americans in response to the recent fatal shooting of unarmed Black men and boys then don't look now but your racist past has caught up with your racist present. Lets make meaning of your response "all lives matter." See you at the kitchen table family. 00:15:00On The Real with DrX Debranoall lives matter,Black lives matter,Racism... It reeks of privilege, denial, and shame. If you've ever made the statement "all lives matter," in response to the mantra "Black Lives Matter" then Houstonhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/10/17/the-pain-and-shame-of-racismPolitics Progressivehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/10/17/the-pain-and-shame-of-racism/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/10/17/the-pain-and-shame-of-racismMon, 17 Oct 2016 16:30:00 GMTThe Pain and Shame of RacismI've said more than a few times that America cannot move on from our horrible racist legacy if we keep ignoring it. Funny or not so funny thing about our racist elephant is that the more we ignore it the larger it becomes. Pretty soon there will not be room enough for it and us; and we'll be forced to confront it. Imagine now that our room has more elephant in it that people. Can’t see the--smell-- the mess? Ewwww! So, let’s stop pretending, face it, and begin cleaning it up. Intellectually we know that facing our painful shame is NEVER as bad as it seems in our minds, but emotionally we still can’t do it. I’m here to help; let's talk family. See you at the kitchen table, 11:30am, CST.   00:16:00On The Real with DrX Debranoracism,talking,FamilyNOBODY wants to talk about racism because it too #@$*! PAINFUL. Black people talk about it but they can't take the pain; and White people don't want to talk abohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/10/03/how-to-transcend-racePolitics Progressivehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/10/03/how-to-transcend-race/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/10/03/how-to-transcend-raceMon, 03 Oct 2016 16:30:00 GMTHow to Transcend Race Lets have a bit of solution talk about moving past this very painful relationship we have with ourselves and each other concerning racism. I know we have to admit that it exists, but I think we're clear (by the recent deaths--police and Black men, boys and women) that  racism exists. Now, lets have a spiritual talk about transcending it. See you at the kitchen table. 00:16:00On The Real with DrX Debranoracism,diversity,spiritualityLet's talk a few about what it will take to move beyond, to transcend racism in the UShttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/09/26/the-discomfort-of-racismPolitics Progressivehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/09/26/the-discomfort-of-racism/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/09/26/the-discomfort-of-racismMon, 26 Sep 2016 16:30:00 GMTThe discomfort of RacismHave you ever wondered why we wait so long to take care of a health concern. Too many of us rather die than see a doctor. Then there are those of us who are always at the doctor. We know something is wrong but we can't figure out what. Both scenarios apply to racism in our country. It is killing us but we won't seek help. For those of us who know it's there, we are not pinpointing exactly what the problem is so all of our attempts to heal fail. Perhaps the discomfort has not reached the critical stage. Perhaps we need a fatal diagnosis before we will begin to choose effective ways to heal ourselves. I'm the family member that's saying we need professional help. I hope enough of you will listen to me so that we can begin to properly and effectively ease the discomfort but also heal ourselves. See you at the kitchen table, my family. 00:16:00On The Real with DrX DebranoWe have a thorn in our side, foot, finger, toe and we are just waiting for it to get bad enough to do real bodily damage, perhaps kill us.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/09/19/racism-speak-upPolitics Progressivehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/09/19/racism-speak-up/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/09/19/racism-speak-upMon, 19 Sep 2016 16:30:00 GMTRacism Speak Up"Come' on Man!" Yes, this statement applies to what we are doing and are not doing as it relates to racism. We are not speaking up, we are not owning up; and without either of these elements, NOTHING will change. Join me in an hour at the kitchen table family. 00:15:00On The Real with DrX DebranoIf you see it speak it; if you do it own it; if you want change, changehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/09/12/racism-do-we-really-want-to-talk-about-itPolitics Progressivehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/09/12/racism-do-we-really-want-to-talk-about-it/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/09/12/racism-do-we-really-want-to-talk-about-itMon, 12 Sep 2016 16:30:00 GMTRacism: Do WE really want to talk about it?We really don't want to talk about racism, because we stand to lose too much. Join me at 11:30 Central Time and let's talk about what we stand to lose. Later. It's on now, family. See you at the kitchen table. 00:16:00On The Real with DrX Debranoracism,dialogue,antiracistThe answer to my question is "probably not." We really don't, but we must.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/09/05/the-kitchen-table-race-talkPolitics Progressivehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/09/05/the-kitchen-table-race-talk/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/09/05/the-kitchen-table-race-talkMon, 05 Sep 2016 16:30:00 GMTThe Kitchen Table Race TalkWe are perhaps the most diversity conscious nation in the world. We're known for inviting others to join our family and become Americans. Now that we are all here what are we doing to keep our family functioning healthly. I'm keeping the conversation on race going. See you  at the table in a few. 00:16:00On The Real with DrX DebranoSometimes the family needs to check in to see how everyone if doing. It's that time. See you at the kitchen table, familyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/08/22/global-familyPolitics Progressivehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/08/22/global-family/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/08/22/global-familyMon, 22 Aug 2016 16:30:00 GMTGlobal FamilyIt's 2016, the 120th year of the Olympic Games, and the year of the 31st Olympiad. As I watched the commercials I notices how multicultural they all were. Black dads with white families, multicultural children playing like brothers and sisters, Black women with non-Black boyfriends, White women with non-White boyfriends, etc. Question? Our family puts on a good face for the world during this "holiday": How about we practice what we know to do every day? Alright family? 00:16:00On The Real with DrX DebranoIf you saw the Olympics then you got a glimpse of what a whole American family could behttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/08/01/racism-and-fear-at-the-kitchen-tablePolitics Progressivehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/08/01/racism-and-fear-at-the-kitchen-table/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/08/01/racism-and-fear-at-the-kitchen-tableMon, 01 Aug 2016 16:30:00 GMTRacism and Fear At the Kitchen TableNever has the the conversation about racism been so important. It affects us all and we all must take responsibility. Let's talk family. Don't be afraid to speak up.   00:15:00On The Real with DrX Debranoracism,open dialogue,diversityWe are all racist or particpate in it, so let's all join the conversationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/07/25/a-sermonette-christian-americansPolitics Progressivehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/07/25/a-sermonette-christian-americans/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/07/25/a-sermonette-christian-americansMon, 25 Jul 2016 16:30:00 GMTA Sermonette Christian AmericansI don't like to preach. But this is a Christian nation and somehow we have not found ourselves living like Christ when it comes to racism. So, I'm going to offer what I think is a biblical perspective on how a "Christian" nation such as ours has failed follow our supposed most cherished beliefs. Makes me wonder how or why we still call ourselves Christian 00:16:00On The Real with DrX DebranoChristianity,racism,healingHow to Heal a Racist Soulhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/07/18/level-five-talk-about-racismPolitics Progressivehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/07/18/level-five-talk-about-racism/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/07/18/level-five-talk-about-racismMon, 18 Jul 2016 16:30:00 GMTLevel five talk about racismLevel five communication is the deepest you can go to talk about anything. In this episode we want to go there. I'll come prepared to talk honestly (like I don't already) and deeply about what I want from my country with regards to racism. Come to the conversation ready to go there. It's the way to get through this family. See you at the kitchen table. 00:15:00On The Real with DrX DebranoLet's talk openly and honestly about racism: What do we want and need from our American familyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/07/11/now-can-we-talk-about-racismPolitics Progressivehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/07/11/now-can-we-talk-about-racism/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/07/11/now-can-we-talk-about-racismMon, 11 Jul 2016 16:30:00 GMTNow, Can We Talk about RacismLet's get this in perspective: Since 2012 African Americans have been protesting the unfair killings and the miscarrage of justice related to the murders of Black . Now, an African American man has decided to show the rest of us what it's like to live in a country where both official and unoffical representatives of our justice system can take your life and the rest of the legal system allows it, nearly condons it. Let me share with you how we can have this conversation. 00:16:00On The Real with DrX Debranomyth of race,racsim,White supremacyThe sheets are completely off about contemporary racism in the America. This is the perfect time to talk.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/07/04/americas-racism-a-spiritual-problemPolitics Progressivehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/07/04/americas-racism-a-spiritual-problem/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/07/04/americas-racism-a-spiritual-problemMon, 04 Jul 2016 16:30:00 GMTAmerica's Racism a Spiritual ProblemWe can never be truly free, unless we are all free to live in our country unencumbered by the personal, internalize, and institutional racism. Today is a celebration of independence, but the freedom that we need can only be celebrated when we can talk about the ills of racism and then do the things that will set us all free. For every American, White, Black, and All in between are bound by the chains a racist history of our making. We can set ourselves free. Independence Day 2016 is a good day to begin.   00:16:00On The Real with DrX Debranoracism,diversity,inclusion,spiritualityLet the healing beginhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/06/27/racism-anger-and-the-black-experiencePolitics Progressivehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/06/27/racism-anger-and-the-black-experience/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/06/27/racism-anger-and-the-black-experienceMon, 27 Jun 2016 16:30:00 GMTRacism: Anger and the Black ExperienceNo question Black people are angry. Some more than others, but most have some degree of anger or sadness or frustration about what being Black means in the country. So I want to put words to the anger and the Black experience. See you at the kitchen table.   00:16:00On The Real with DrX DebranoA therapeutic look at the relationship Black Americans have with angerhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/06/20/racism-whats-fear-got-to-do-with-it-got-to-do-with-itPolitics Progressivehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/06/20/racism-whats-fear-got-to-do-with-it-got-to-do-with-it/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/06/20/racism-whats-fear-got-to-do-with-it-got-to-do-with-itMon, 20 Jun 2016 16:30:00 GMTRacism: What's Fear Got to do with it, Got to do with it?What if it's true? What if I'm not superior or inferior to those people? Then what? Did I really earn all of the privileges? Could I have worked a bit harder to get ahead?  What if I am not as smart as I think and my skin got me in the game? What is I am smarter than I know and I've allowed my skin to hold me back? Yes, fear has a grip on us all. 00:16:00On The Real with DrX DebranoFear pertetuates our racist reality.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/06/13/racism-the-churchs-contributionPolitics Progressivehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/06/13/racism-the-churchs-contribution/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/06/13/racism-the-churchs-contributionMon, 13 Jun 2016 16:30:00 GMTRacism: The Church's ContributionIf this is truly a "Christian" nation then why haven't we been converted? Or are we all hypocrites? I believe the latter is the "truth." This is an alter call, family; then we'll go to the kitchen table. See you there.   00:15:00On The Real with DrX DebranoTo examine how that White and Black Church Leadership has contributed to Racismhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/06/08/racism-white-shame-black-shamePolitics Progressivehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/06/08/racism-white-shame-black-shame/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/06/08/racism-white-shame-black-shameWed, 08 Jun 2016 16:30:00 GMTRacism: White Shame, Black ShameIn this episode, I will share with you how I came to see that it was shame and not guilt that has us all gripped. White Americans want to believe that a few Black friends and/or lovers has exempted them from a pro-racist mentality. Black people have come to understand that their rage about racial injustices clears them from possessing a pro-racist mentality, but we contend with self-hatred daily. See you at the kitchen table, family. 00:15:00On The Real with DrX DebranoLet's grow beyond the shamehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/05/23/shame-the-root-of-americas-family-silence-about-racismRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/05/23/shame-the-root-of-americas-family-silence-about-racism/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/05/23/shame-the-root-of-americas-family-silence-about-racismMon, 23 May 2016 16:30:00 GMTShame: The Root of America's Family Silence about RacismDr. Deb offers shame as a theory for why America as a family has not dealth with its racist past and present. See you Monday at the kitchen table. 00:15:00On The Real with DrX DebranoRacism,Shame,Open dialogue,America's silenceJoin me in a provocative open family kitchen-table discussion about how shame has paralyzed out country so that we can't move into a post "racist" society.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/05/16/racism-american-as-apple-pieRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/05/16/racism-american-as-apple-pie/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/05/16/racism-american-as-apple-pieMon, 16 May 2016 16:30:00 GMTRacism: American as Apple PieThis show will talk about how racism has infected all Americans. We'll discuss how to be racist is just how it is and therefore, the question is now if you are racists,White people, it's how will you begin to challenge your racism. We are not asking you, Black people, if you are affected by the racist society in which you live, but how you are coping with it. Underneath it all, we're simply saying: Acknowledging that this is a racist society is a place to begin our conversations. I'll offer simple everyday ways that suggest that racism is so deeply ingrained in how we think and that our aboption of racists beliefs are second nature to us--Blacks and Whites. See you at the kitchen table, family. 00:21:00On The Real with DrX DebranoRacism,Dr.Deb,Coping with Racism,Accepting person racism,Racism is AmericaIf you think you're not a racist, White America, think again. If you think you aren't affect by racism, Black America, then think again.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/05/09/americas-family-discussion-about-racismRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/05/09/americas-family-discussion-about-racism/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/05/09/americas-family-discussion-about-racismMon, 09 May 2016 16:30:00 GMTAmerica's Family Discussion about RacismAren't you tired of hearing people say, "Racism won't change until we talk about it." Well, I'm calling every member of the American family to the table to talk about it. The healing starts now. Join me if you are tired too.. Let's talk about it, family. 00:14:00On The Real with DrX DebranoRacism,Family discussion,Healing,Communication,Let's talk about racismIt's tomorrow Ms. Scarlett! Time to talk about racism so our family, American family can begin to heal.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/05/02/rewriting-marriage-do-we-know-what-were-doingRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/05/02/rewriting-marriage-do-we-know-what-were-doing/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/05/02/rewriting-marriage-do-we-know-what-were-doingMon, 02 May 2016 16:30:00 GMTRewriting Marriage? Do We Know What We're Doing?If you ask the average newlywed couple if marriage is forever, they'd say "Yes." Yet, today over 50% of  all marriages end in divorce. Why is that? I got lots of questions, "Whose idea is the 'forever' part in the relationship? And "How is it that 'forever has gone away'?" This show begins a series of talks to see if we can make more sense of what we can do  when we get marriage and then do what make sense when we and if we do get married. 00:15:00On The Real with DrX Debranomarriage,marriage sense,divorce,rewriting marriageEither we don't know what we're doing in marriage or we're doing what we should be doing and we don't know it. Let's get clear!http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/04/25/marriage-on-the-rocksRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/04/25/marriage-on-the-rocks/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/04/25/marriage-on-the-rocksMon, 25 Apr 2016 15:33:15 GMTMarriage on the RocksLet's talk about the reasons for this increase in divorce in marriage. Dr. D has her ideas   00:15:00On The Real with DrX DebranoWhat up with 50% divorce rate; and 10 percent more if it's the second marriage?http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/04/19/what-is-the-point-of-marriageRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/04/19/what-is-the-point-of-marriage/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/04/19/what-is-the-point-of-marriageTue, 19 Apr 2016 16:47:19 GMTWhat is the Point of Marriage?  Divorce rate is high, extra-marital affairs are rampant, and the marital rate is comparatively low. So, why do we need marriage? Women seem to be gong-ho, but men (on the whole) seem to be on the fence. We can't go on like this! We need to talk. 00:16:00On The Real with DrX Debranomarriage,divorce,relationhips,manogamyIt's doesn't seem to be working. What's next for the institution?http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/04/04/in-god-we-trust-everybody-else-pay-cashRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/04/04/in-god-we-trust-everybody-else-pay-cash/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/04/04/in-god-we-trust-everybody-else-pay-cashMon, 04 Apr 2016 16:30:00 GMTIn God we trust, Everybody else pay cashAre you out of scholarships for your mate? You just don't trust him or her anymore? Are you satisfied with not trusting the one you sleep with every or most nights? If not, tune in for some help with that. You can't be happy. 00:15:00On The Real with DrX Debranotrust,couples,Black Americans,marriage,vulnerabilityDo you authentically, honestly trust your partner, or is her or his credit no good with you.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/03/28/not-just-communication-butRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/03/28/not-just-communication-but/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/03/28/not-just-communication-butMon, 28 Mar 2016 17:30:00 GMTNot Just Communication, butDeep communication will keep the relationship going, providing that both members of the couple are invested in hearing and speaking the truth. Tune in and learn how and why. 00:16:00On The Real with DrX Debranorelationships,couples,communication,level 5 communication,trustEveryone says communication is the most important aspect of relationships, but not just any-ol talkhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/03/23/gay-community-marriage-inquiring-minds-wanna-know-whyRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/03/23/gay-community-marriage-inquiring-minds-wanna-know-why/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ontherealdrdeb/2016/03/23/gay-community-marriage-inquiring-minds-wanna-know-whyWed, 23 Mar 2016 20:30:00 GMTGay Community? Marriage, Inquiring minds wanna know why?I'm happy that right to marriage has been established for members of the gay community who want that. But, I have been wondering this entire time if they have read the fine print. And if they have and they still want to marry, I want to know why? I'm sincerely ignorant, I honestly and with all due respect, "want to know why." Because the institution ain't working too well for the rest of us. 00:16:00On The Real with DrX DebranoI'm a fly on the wall with some curious questions. Members of the gay community, "What do you know that the rest of us fools don't about marriage?"