http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoiceLife Is A Choice: Have you ever done something you didn’t want to do and did it in the name of love, or because you were told it’s your duty, or for a promotion or to keep your current job or because they would like you the best or to fulfill your need to belong or fit in? You are not alone. This podcast takes a candid look at our choice making skills, where our choices have lead us. It evaluates where we place ourselves in our choice making process. It’s also takes a poignant look at the impact our choices have on our successes, perceived failures, health, wealth, relationships and happiness. I'm Dr. Wendy Dearborne Holistic Life Coach and I'm your host and with my experience as a life coach and a holistic healing practitioner I will help you to create the life you want to live through the power of conscious personal choice. enCopyright Dr Wendy Dearborne (C/O Blogtalkradio)Fri, 14 Jun 2019 20:30:00 GMTWed, 13 Mar 2019 20:00:00 GMTSelf HelpBlogTalkRadio Feed v2.0https://dasg7xwmldix6.cloudfront.net/hostpics/a5a48817-63b6-4f3d-b8eb-e3482e34a779_head_shot.jpghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoiceLife Is A Choice: Have you ever done something you didn’t want to do and did it in the name of love, or because you were told it’s your duty, or for a promotion or to keep your current job or because they would like you the best or to fulfill your need to belong or fit in? You are not alone. This podcast takes a candid look at our choice making skills, where our choices have lead us. It evaluates where we place ourselves in our choice making process. It’s also takes a poignant look at the impact our choices have on our successes, perceived failures, health, wealth, relationships and happiness. I'm Dr. Wendy Dearborne Holistic Life Coach and I'm your host and with my experience as a life coach and a holistic healing practitioner I will help you to create the life you want to live through the power of conscious personal choice. feeds@blogtalkradio.comBlogTalkRadio.comchoice,Lifestyle,understanding choice,metaphysics,spirituality,self help,dr wendy deaborne,life coach,olivia lashley,thelawsofattractioninaction,mylifemychoiceMy Life My ChoicenoWhat are you wanting for your life in this moment? The answer to this burning question shows you with clarity what your life choices are and how to manifest thepisodichttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2019/03/13/chaos-prevent-it-from-ruling-and-ruining-your-lifeSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2019/03/13/chaos-prevent-it-from-ruling-and-ruining-your-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2019/03/13/chaos-prevent-it-from-ruling-and-ruining-your-lifeWed, 13 Mar 2019 20:00:00 GMTChaos: Prevent It From Ruling And Ruining Your LifeIn our lives, to varying degrees, we will experience states of utter confusion, total lack of organization and general order. When this occurs in your life, you’ve experienced chaos.  Chaos can show up in minor ways, like the small junk draw in the back of your garage.  It can also show up in larger ways, like your closets that a filled to overflowing with outdated clothing.  And then it can present itself in epic ways, where you have become paralyzed, you’re literally frozen in place and unable to have a meaningful and coherent inner conversation with self.  This results in you being unable to make a choice in the best interest of self; and the cycle just keeps getting bigger and bigger.  Chaos has the ability to undermine you in many ways.  The obvious is not achieving your desired manifestation.  But the unobvious is far more sinister and detrimental to your overall wellbeing. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert, Clarity and Laws of Attraction In Action Coach as we look at the role chaos plays in our lives. 01:06:00My Life My Choicenodrwendydearborne,thelawofattraction,Law of Attraction,Chaos,ManifestingIn our lives, to varying degrees, we will experience states of utter confusion, total lack of organization and general order. When this occurs in your life, you819709f6-cd88-4e24-abac-09e7ab26503d1047fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2019/02/20/how-do-i-find-me-when-im-so-lost-in-my-worldSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2019/02/20/how-do-i-find-me-when-im-so-lost-in-my-world/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2019/02/20/how-do-i-find-me-when-im-so-lost-in-my-worldWed, 20 Feb 2019 21:00:00 GMTHow Do I find Me When I’m So Lost In My World?Finding you, that’s who, and what you are, shouldn’t be an ah ha moment experienced on your death bed.  Although, it could be argued, better late than never.   Finding yourself is to know yourself at a conscious authentic level, and then choosing an authentic life even if it goes against the grain of what everybody believes you must do.  You’re lost because you are not doing what is authentically right for you. You are not living your truth.  And the TRUTH will always come out, because that is what truth is created to do…find its perfect expression…through you.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert, Clarity and Laws of Attraction Coach as we look at feeling lost and what to do about it. Click here to download your contrasts and paralell worksheet To visit website click here Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/Thelawsofattractioninaction/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Drwendydearbornecc Vimeo: https://vimeo.com/drwendydearborne Twitter: https://twitter.com/wendydearborne Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drwendydearborne/?hl=en #thelawsofattractioninaction #attractioners  #drwendydearborne  #choices #itsmylifemychoice #foodbeyonditsnutrition 00:59:00My Life My Choicenodrwendydearborne,LOA,Law of Attraction,the laws of attraction,manifestationFinding you, that’s who, and what you are, shouldn’t be an ah ha moment experienced on your death bed. Although, it could be argued, better late than never.ce763521-e2cf-4199-bda0-5c21bc7148201046fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2019/02/13/are-you-dying-to-manifest-your-lifeSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2019/02/13/are-you-dying-to-manifest-your-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2019/02/13/are-you-dying-to-manifest-your-lifeWed, 13 Feb 2019 21:00:00 GMTAre You Dying To Manifest Your Life?In order for you to have something new come into your life, what has gone before must die.  This is one of the biggest challenges that many people face because they don’t want to let go.  Letting go is key in your ability to manifest what you want for your life.  From health to wealth and everything in between. When you look at the life cycles of a butterfly, you can witness from conception to birth what has to take place to make that happen...for the butterfly to be born.  It goes through changes.  Change literally means to make the form of something different for what it would be if left alone.  Metamorphosis is needed for you to manifest anything in life. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Clarity and Laws of Attraction Coach as we look at some of the challenges we face when consciously manifesting our lives. Visit The Laws of Attraction In Action for more information 00:59:00My Life My ChoicenoDrwendydearborne,Lawofattraction,spirituality,LOA,manifestationThis is one of the biggest challenges that many people face because they don’t want to let go. Letting go is key in your ability to manifest what you want for5fac988a-dde2-4087-aa6c-fcc32a7b88521045fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2019/02/06/desire-and-the-things-it-will-make-you-doSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2019/02/06/desire-and-the-things-it-will-make-you-do/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2019/02/06/desire-and-the-things-it-will-make-you-doWed, 06 Feb 2019 21:00:00 GMTDesire And The Things It Will Make You DoMany people have a hard time justifying why they have taken a certain action, especially when it goes against the grain of their moral fiber.  Reconciling the action is a confusing challenge because it doesn’t mesh with their ethics, nor is it a part of their intrinsic belief.  It doesn’t belong in their culture, up bringing or religious or spiritual doctrines.  And this is not who they are showing up in the world as, and yet still, they have done the deed.  You see this exhibited as addictions of all types from food, to sex to drugs to shopping and everything in between.  It demonstrates itself as abuse to self and others, anti-social behaviors, even culminating in murder.  What is it that can have this action on people?  In a word, “DESIRE!” It is a powerful medium that can compel anyone including you to do things that you can’t believe you are doing.  Many people have fallen into the trap of desire only to realize that their lives have been irrevocably changed...and usually not for the better.  The Universal Law of Desire is a powerful mesmeric energetic force that rivals any Law out there including the Law of Love. Desire temporarily amplifies a thought process turning it into something that becomes a must have, or die, type of situation.   How is desire playing out in your life?  And how can this compelling feeling be used to consciously manifest what you want? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert, Clarity and Laws of Attraction Coach, as we explore the Universal Law of Desire and how you can use it to manifest what you want for your life. 01:00:00My Life My Choicenodrwendydeaborne,the laws of at,law,loa,manifeIn a word, “DESIRE!” It is a powerful medium that can compel anyone including you to do things that you can’t believe you are doing. Many people have fallen in32a18dc9-15b6-4c77-86e8-ee2a7920d5471044fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2019/01/23/choice-is-the-first-law-in-the-laws-of-attractionSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2019/01/23/choice-is-the-first-law-in-the-laws-of-attraction/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2019/01/23/choice-is-the-first-law-in-the-laws-of-attractionWed, 23 Jan 2019 21:00:00 GMTChoice Is The First Law In The Laws of AttractionYour ability to choose, is without a doubt, the most powerful energy that you will ever control.  Choice, much like DNA, are the building blocks that give physicality to everything created inside and outside of your life. Choice is the power upon which the Universe is created. The first law in the Universal Laws of Attraction is choice.  It’s a natural law, a spiritual law, manmade law and it IS God’s Law.  Nothing can and will happen in your life, good or bad, without you first making a choice.  More often than not our choices appear to be circuitous, but the reality is, they are not.  You’ve experienced and are experiencing what you are going through, because of choices you have made in the past or in the present.   Don’t get this confused with the feelings of rightness or wrongness of the results experienced.  Attractioners, right or wrong is an emotional call – and that too is a choice!   The Universal Law of Choice the creative force that set into motion all things.  This energy isn’t a respecter of your feelings, it respects the action you decide upon. Genesis 1-4 “Now the earth was formless and void, and darkness was over the surface of the deep. And the Spirit of God was hovering over the surface of the waters.  And God said, “Let there be light,” and there was light. And seeing that the light was good, God separated the light from the darkness.… Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Clarity Coach as we rekindle our relationship and understanding with the role choice plays in our lives. 00:59:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,the law of attraction,laws of the universe,LOA,manifestingChoice, much like DNA, are the building blocks that give physicality to everything created inside and outside of your life. Choice is the power upon which the U7c575798-64fc-4a26-bc72-0efd59afe27a1043fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2019/01/16/the-emotional-discount-gameSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2019/01/16/the-emotional-discount-game/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2019/01/16/the-emotional-discount-gameWed, 16 Jan 2019 21:00:00 GMTThe Emotional Discount GameWhen we want what we want, many people do what they must do, to get it, even if it means cutting corners.  As human beings the desire to have a specific experience within a relationship, with people, places and things creates an interesting dynamic for playing “the discount game.”  If you’ve ever felt that you have been taken for granted, you’ve experienced being discounted.  If you’ve used someone for your own agenda at their expense, you’ve discounted that person.  And if you go back and forth doing the above, you’ve entered into “the discount game.” There is nothing wrong with cutting people a little slack sometimes.  We all need it and we all can give it.  However, discounting is totally different and the ramifications are nothing short of disastrous.  It creates a silent chaos within that erupts into a towering uncontrollable volcano.  Like I said the ramifications are disastrous. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne, Choice and Clarity Expert and Coach as together we explore discounting your feelings and others and what it can create in your life. Visit The Laws of Attraction In Action website of more tutorials on how to make choices, get clarity and consciously Use The Laws of Attraction to manifest. Join The Laws of Attraction In Action Facebook Group for daily inspiration post and live streams 00:59:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,the Laws of Attraction in action,Loa,Loaia,ManifestationIf you’ve ever felt that you have been taken for granted, you’ve experienced being discounted. If you’ve used someone for your own agenda at their expense, youdca3b1c2-021f-4b45-a57b-3da5f3639f3e1042fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2019/01/09/the-positive-benefits-of-creating-a-win-win-attitude-in-your-lifeSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2019/01/09/the-positive-benefits-of-creating-a-win-win-attitude-in-your-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2019/01/09/the-positive-benefits-of-creating-a-win-win-attitude-in-your-lifeWed, 09 Jan 2019 21:00:00 GMTThe Positive Benefits of Creating A Win-Win Attitude In Your LifeLife is always moving and as a result of that events are continuously unfolding or manifesting.  Some will be to your liking and others will not.  This is the natural order of life with is dualities and polarities that are required for us to consciously and unconsciously manifest.  One of the most powerful positive attributes you can acquire is to always make the choice to find the win-win in every situation.  There is always a “learning” or a takeaway from every situation that you can apply to your life, for the betterment of your life. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne as I explore this powerful phenomenon and be sure to checkout https://thelawsofattractioninaction.com for blogs, webinar and video tutorials. 01:00:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Laws of attraction,loa,the law of attraction,spiritualityOne of the most power positive attributes you can acquire is to always make the choice to find the win-win in every situation.40726186-91e6-4593-9f2e-a2d954c9da4f1041fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/12/05/what-happens-to-you-when-they-move-the-goalposts-during-the-gameSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/12/05/what-happens-to-you-when-they-move-the-goalposts-during-the-game/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/12/05/what-happens-to-you-when-they-move-the-goalposts-during-the-gameWed, 05 Dec 2018 21:00:00 GMTWhat Happens To You When They Move The Goalposts During The Game?I want a divorce.  You’re fired!  You have 8 weeks to live.  Wow, that smoke I saw was my house burning to the ground.  You don’t qualify.  Your too white, too black, too fat, too skinny, too tall, too short, too smart, too dumb, too young, too old.  You’re too critical, too much, too understanding, too negative etc.  You will always be too something for someone.  Life has been likened to a game and in order to play the game of life, you must understand the Universal Laws and the rules of engagement.   But what happens when you’re playing the game of your life and someone changes the rules, conveniently, forgetting to tell you, until you are standing in front of your goalposts, which they have so inconveniently moved.  What happens to your life then.  Are they plotting against you?  Is it a conspiracy? Can you get your old life back?  Are you being given a message?  Did you create this situation? Genesis 50:20 “As for you, what you intended against me for evil, God intended for good, in order to accomplish a day like this—to preserve the lives of many people.”  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne as I share a recent experience I had when the State moved the goalpost and change my life. Visit me: https://thelawsofattractioninaction.com 01:00:00My Life My Choicenodrwendydearborne,Laws of attraction,Law of Attraction,personal development,spiritualityLife has been likened to a game and in order to play the game of life, you must understand the Universal Laws and the rules of engagement. But what happens whdab39df5-bb10-4f33-bc3b-fb813c2649b31040fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/10/24/your-subconscious-mind-doesnt-get-the-punch-line-of-the-jokeSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/10/24/your-subconscious-mind-doesnt-get-the-punch-line-of-the-joke/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/10/24/your-subconscious-mind-doesnt-get-the-punch-line-of-the-jokeWed, 24 Oct 2018 20:00:00 GMTYour Subconscious Mind Doesn’t Get the Punch line of The Joke Understanding the function of your subconscious mind is a powerful key that helps you get what you want in life.  Your subconscious mind operates just like the hard drive found on your PC or the OS or IOS iPhone Operating System on your mobile phone, tablets and iPads.  Your subconscious mind doesn’t get the punch line of a joke, understand slang, sarcasm, colloquialisms or rhetorical talk.  It only understands what you tell it, verbatim.  It only takes action to manifest what you tell it to do.  There are several ways to communicate directly with your subconscious mind; talking directly to yourself with intention.  Through unchecked self-talk and runaway thoughts and what you believe and or are passionate about. When communicating with your subconscious mind you must be very specific. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction In Action Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach as we look at you and the power of your subconscious mind. 00:59:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,subconscious,Law of Attraction,LOAUnderstanding the function of your subconscious mind is a powerful key that helps you get what you want in life.  Your subconscious mind operates just like theb3dfa031-8399-4a8e-944b-fbdefaac8c811039fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/10/10/nuances-in-your-thoughts-actions-speech-control-what-you-manifest-in-lifeSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/10/10/nuances-in-your-thoughts-actions-speech-control-what-you-manifest-in-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/10/10/nuances-in-your-thoughts-actions-speech-control-what-you-manifest-in-lifeWed, 10 Oct 2018 20:00:00 GMTNuances In Your Thoughts, Actions & Speech Control What You Manifest In LifeNuance what it is and what does it mean for your life?  Nuance:  It’s a subtle difference and a distinction in the expression of your meaning.  Next to lack of self-discipline, understanding the nuances of your thoughts, speech, actions and deeds is the second reason why people are unable to manifest what they want in life.  What you believe is what you receive.  This is a fundamental Law and it is unchangeable.  Today, we are going to be exploring “nuances” and how using them unintentionally can leave you standing in the rubble of your life.  Your left wondering, how the hell did I get here? Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach as we explore what this means for you. Visit our website: https://thelawsofattractioninaction.com Join our Facebook Group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/Thelawsofattractioninaction/ 01:20:00My Life My Choicenodr Wendy Dearborne,Law of attraction,personal growth,nuances,ManifestingNuance what it is and what does it mean for your life?  Nuance:  It’s a subtle difference and a distinction in the expression of your meaning.  Next to lack ofc85f6dbb-f44d-4f6c-a63b-92aed07045401038fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/10/03/am-i-the-source-of-negative-conditions-in-my-lifeSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/10/03/am-i-the-source-of-negative-conditions-in-my-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/10/03/am-i-the-source-of-negative-conditions-in-my-lifeWed, 03 Oct 2018 20:00:00 GMTAm I The Source of Negative Conditions In My Life? The word negative and negate come from the same Latin root: negativus, which means to deny, refute, refuse and or subtract. In today’s world, negative translates to someone who has a disposition that just brings everything down.  They detract or subtract from any circumstance by not adding anything of value. The irony is negative people, conditions or circumstances that show up in your life, are doing so because you have brought them there. The Universal Law of Negativity is designed to show you contrasts and parallels.  The Law of Negativity plays a key role in your ability to find clarity using your sense of what feels good to you verses what doesn’t.  This is all done so you have an opportunity to make conscious choices that are in the best interest of self.    It also shows you how powerful your thoughts are.    “For the thing which I greatly feared is come upon me, and that which I was afraid of is come unto me. Job 3:25. Your thoughts become tangible things in your life.  Your thoughts become your choices and your choices become things made manifest...how powerful is that? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach as we explore the Law of Negativity and the role it plays in your life. Visit TheLawofAttractioninaction.com Join the conversation on our Facebook Group: The Laws of Attraction In Action 01:23:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,the law of attraction,LOA,Personal Growth,negativityThe word negative and negate come from the same Latin root: negativus, which means to deny, refute, refuse and or subtract. In today’s world, negative translatabb62781-97bf-46b8-894f-6915ba7009791037fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/09/26/are-you-prepared-to-pay-the-price-for-what-you-wantSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/09/26/are-you-prepared-to-pay-the-price-for-what-you-want/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/09/26/are-you-prepared-to-pay-the-price-for-what-you-wantWed, 26 Sep 2018 20:00:00 GMTAre You Prepared To Pay The Price For What You Want?When people are asked, are you prepared to pay the price for anything, most think in monetary terms.  Paying the price for what you want in life is really about you, your spirituality and using your spiritual currency.  While he didn’t coin the phrase, Dr. Joseph Murphy states, “there are no free lunches.”  And it’s true.  There is a cost for everything that you do…even breathing!  So, with that in mind are you prepared to pay the spiritual cost using your spiritual coin from your invisible bank for what you want. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach as we explore what paying the price to get what you want means. Email: drwendy@itsmylifemychoice.com 01:30:00My Life My Choicenodrwendydearborne,thelawsofattraction,LOA,Olivia LashleyWhen people are asked, are you prepared to pay the price for anything, most think in monetary terms.  Paying the price for what you want in life is really abouta455f5d5-987c-416a-9f78-84c74ebc60ff1036fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/09/19/what-are-you-subconsciously-choosing-and-co-creating-in-your-lifeSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/09/19/what-are-you-subconsciously-choosing-and-co-creating-in-your-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/09/19/what-are-you-subconsciously-choosing-and-co-creating-in-your-lifeWed, 19 Sep 2018 20:00:00 GMTWhat Are You Subconsciously Choosing And Co-creating In Your Life?Wherever you find yourself, whatever your current circumstance is, you have co-created this by the choices you have made. By the words that you have spoken, by the actions that you have taken and the deep-seated feeling you hold within your heart.  This is one of the hardest realities for people to accept; that they are the co-creators of what has, and, is transpiring in their lives.   What makes this hard to accept, is that people look at their circumstances in terms of the end result, then assigning their emotional seal of right, wrong and blame.   Many people feel that to take ownership of their life and the part that they have played in getting to their current circumstance, is to condone behaviors, attitudes and action that have been perpetrated against them.  This is so far from the truth.  You have a part in where you end up in your life on a daily basis.  Your part in the co-creation of your life is driven by your choices, which are your deep-seated subconscious desires, also known as the desires of your heart. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach as we reacquaint ourselves with the power of conscious and unconscious choice, and the role it plays in us getting what we want in life. 01:24:00My Life My Choicenodrwendydearborne,Law of Attraction,Choices,cocreating,Olivia lashleyWherever you find yourself, whatever your current circumstance is, you have co-created this by the choices you have made. By the words that you have spoken, by99947783-0833-452f-b54a-931a4b8a639b1035fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/07/25/what-is-the-universal-law-of-loveSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/07/25/what-is-the-universal-law-of-love/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/07/25/what-is-the-universal-law-of-loveWed, 25 Jul 2018 20:00:00 GMTWhat Is The Universal Law of Love?Love, is it what we think it is or is there more to this word?  Throughout the years the word love has somehow morphed into a term that is colloquially used to describe the depth of our feelings.  From, “I love you to I’m not so in love with that,” and everything in between.  Based on where the word love falls within a phrase or sentence, along with intonation, body language and facial expressions it will tell you what the person is really saying.    The Universal Law of Love, isn’t so much about how passionate or compassionate we feel about people places and things, as much as it is about the ability of a certain type of energy being able to transform energy. The Universal Law of Love is what transforms and or transmutes everything.  Love is the energy of change.  It has nothing to do with turning the other cheek or even being nice, dutiful, helpful, caring, kind and all the other phrases we like to attach the word love to.  Besides, being nice, helpful, kind etc. is subjective.  Love is the binding force of change. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction In Action Coach, and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction In Action Coach as we explore The Universal Law of Love and its role in making change.   01:30:00My Life My Choicenodrwendydearborne,Law of Attraction,Personal Growth,manifestationLove, is it what we think it is or is there more to this word?  Throughout the years the word love has somehow morphed into a term that is colloquially used tob2f7dac9-5e69-4561-b875-4d1a86c144bf1034fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/07/18/do-angels-and-spirit-guides-really-existSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/07/18/do-angels-and-spirit-guides-really-exist/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/07/18/do-angels-and-spirit-guides-really-existWed, 18 Jul 2018 20:00:00 GMTDo Angels And Spirit Guides Really Exist?We are not alone.  We have never been and never will be.  There is help, support, guidance and wise counsel for everyone.  There is so much more happening in our lives than where we find ourselves at this moment.  Throughout the ages there have been raging debates, that continues to this day, as to whether or not angels and spirit guides are real.  Are these heavenly beings’ figments of our imagination or just the stuff that mythological legends are made of?  Interestingly, all cultures and denomination tell of angels in their spiritual texts. We have all incarnated into this current existence with our own personal posse.  That’s right, our very own celestial entourage that has been picked to support us in fulfilling our destine purpose.   My suggestion is before you categorically say no, do your own due diligence.  Do this by examining, with detached objectivity magical or miraculous events or feats that have occurred in your life.  Things that you know that have happened to you that defy reason, logic and analysis.   I’m not speaking of your intuition, that’s a totally different ball of wax.  I’m speaking of physically seeing and or touching someone who has helped you and then you blinked, literally you blinked, and in a blink of an eye they disappeared. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction In Action Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction In Action Coach as we explore the reality of Angels and Spirit Guides. 01:27:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,the laws of attraction in action,thelawofattraction,Angels,Spirit GuidesWe are not alone.  We have never been and never will be.  There is help, support, guidance and wise counsel for everyone.  There is so much more happening in ou47c4cc60-237a-4cf1-95a8-04f77d52135d1033fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/07/11/how-to-change-your-life-to-get-what-you-wantSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/07/11/how-to-change-your-life-to-get-what-you-want/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/07/11/how-to-change-your-life-to-get-what-you-wantWed, 11 Jul 2018 20:00:00 GMTHow To Change Your Life To Get What You Want In today’s show we are going to be talking about changing our dialog and creating the perfect scenario for hearing your inner voice. One of the most important things you do in life is talk to yourself.  You talk to yourself 24 hours a day, 365 days a year, and believe it or not, from before you enter into this life and after you leave it. Talk, talk, talk!  You are always talking to yourself.  If you stop to think about this fact, and it is a fact, it will tell you how important your self-talk is.  The internal conversations you have create the reality that you live in.  You want a different reality, then change your self-talk.  Only you can do this.  No one can do this for you. In this high-tech world we live in, it can be hard to hear your inner voice.  But that doesn’t mean your inner voice isn’t speaking to you.  What this means is that you need to create the optimal scenario to silence the outer world and go within. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction In Action Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction In Action Coach as we look at changing your life. Click here to download your Simple Breathing Technique PDF 01:30:00My Life My Choicenodrwendydearborne,laws of attraction,Law of Attraction,manifestation,The SecretIn today’s show we are going to be talking about changing our dialog and creating the perfect scenario for hearing your inner voice. One of the most important89cc8e1b-a84d-46ef-b567-1f7bc9289bff1032fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/06/13/how-do-we-help-the-people-we-love-get-through-hard-times-in-lifeSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/06/13/how-do-we-help-the-people-we-love-get-through-hard-times-in-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/06/13/how-do-we-help-the-people-we-love-get-through-hard-times-in-lifeWed, 13 Jun 2018 20:00:00 GMTHow do We Help The People We Love Get Through Hard Times In Life? In life, we want our loved ones to be happy, whole, capable and complete.  We want to see them healthy, wealthy and wise, living a life that's a pure joy to behold and inspiring to be a part of.  However, in the real world it can be gut wrenching watching as their lives unfold one crisis after another.  Wanting what you want for them and trying to make them do your bidding, no matter how forcefully or gently it’s put across, usually leads to the dissolution of relationships and friendships.  The bottom line is this, I can’t want something that I deem best for you to happen in your life, and expect it to happen, if you don’t want the same thing too.  You, must want it too.  Ask any parent or guardian if this is not a bonified fact. We spend an enormous amount of time coaxing, cajoling, pleading, blackmailing, bargaining etc., people we love to do our so called, “right-thinking” bidding.  Why?  Because we feel, based on our personal experiences and our knowledge of them that we know what’s best for them.  The sad reality is we don’t.  We don’t know what’s best for someone, even our loved ones.  Even if we think we do and ironically it turns out that what we thought actually came to pass.   Even then, we don’t really know, as each of us is on a unique journey.  It’s our individual journey, because this page in the book of life belongs to you, and only you.  This page has been allocated for you by you.  And as such, you are the creative writer of the text.   The key to helping someone, isn’t so much about telling them what to do, as it is how you choose to show up. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction In Action Coach and Olivia Lashley, Expression and Laws of Attraction In Action Coach as we talk frankly about helping the people we love. 01:29:00My Life My Choicenodrwendydearborne,thelawsofattraction,Law of Attraction,Olivialashley,intrinsic life coachIn life, we want our loved ones to be happy, whole, capable and complete.  We want to see them healthy, wealthy and wise, living a life that's a pure joy to be53e0d6a3-ffe2-4c2d-9939-dae2e2dc8d351031fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/06/06/whose-truth-is-this-anywaySelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/06/06/whose-truth-is-this-anyway/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/06/06/whose-truth-is-this-anywayWed, 06 Jun 2018 20:00:00 GMTWhose Truth Is This Anyway?We live our lives based on our version of our truth…and that’s all we can do.  People live their lives base upon their version of their truth…and that’s all they can do.  However, we spend an inordinate amount of time everyday trying to make someone else’s truth ours or trying to make someone believe and take on the mantel of our truth.  There is no right or wrong to this, it just is.  But as a result, we spend far too much time on things that don’t matter, verses living a purpose filled life.  The Universal Law of Truth:  Speaks to the real essence of who you are and what your belief system is foundered on.  Truth is an immutable fact that cannot be changed, yet it can, and is built upon. Your truth is your self-authentication and will always be looking for expression. Life will continue to create situations that encourage you to express your authentic truth.  By expressing your authentic truth, you inadvertently, give others permission to show up and express their authentic truth too. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Universal Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Universal Laws of Attraction Coach as we look at raw truth and what this means and how it impacts your life. 01:30:00My Life My Choicenodrwendydearborne,Law of Attraction,Lifestyle,Choices,Oivia LashleyWe live our lives based on our version of our truth…and that’s all we can do.  People live their lives base upon their version of their truth…and that’s all thef9fc75c6-dec2-496b-82c4-c8451e4fcd691030fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/05/30/how-to-live-a-limitless-life-within-lifes-limitationsSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/05/30/how-to-live-a-limitless-life-within-lifes-limitations/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/05/30/how-to-live-a-limitless-life-within-lifes-limitationsWed, 30 May 2018 20:00:00 GMTHow To Live A Limitless Life Within Life's Limitations?When you are playing your game of life the ideal way to play it is with no limits! The life that you are living today, is the back bone of the future that you will experience tomorrow.  Whatever limits you impose on your life today will manifest in your life tomorrow.  It's really as simple as that.  We have a tendency to over complicate our lives and get caught up with the "emotions" of the game instead of how we are playing the game.  So how do you live a limitless life within the limitations of the life that you are living?  Is that even possible? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction In Action coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach as we explore the limitlessness of limits.  Click here for more on the Laws of Attraction In Action and how to use it to manifest what you want in life. 01:28:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Law of attraction,loa,LOA,self helpWhen you are playing your game of life the ideal way to play it is with no limits! The life that you are living today, is the back bone of the future that you we78e9cbd-0b7b-41b0-b9db-8259cfabb5271029fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/05/23/lets-talk-about-how-to-live-the-life-you-wantSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/05/23/lets-talk-about-how-to-live-the-life-you-want/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/05/23/lets-talk-about-how-to-live-the-life-you-wantWed, 23 May 2018 20:00:00 GMTLet’s Talk About How To Live The Life You Want  Most people are striving to live the life that they say they want, and yet, for many this proves to be illusive. And for others wanting to live their dream life is downright unattainable.   Most people don’t understand the Universal Laws, God’s Laws, Spiritual Laws and the nuances associated with them.  And as a result, they’re imagining things, thinking things, saying things and doing things that disrupt their ability to manifest what they want.  They are still working in DOS when new and innovative platforms have been created.  So, why aren’t you living your dream life with your dream man or woman, dream kids, house, dream cat or dog, dream purpose, career, car, friends, health, body etc.?  If the answer to my question is “you don’t know, and you really don’t know, verses you don’t want to know,” perhaps it’s a spiritual nuance, a simple little nuance within the Laws of Attraction that you’ve overlooked or didn’t know about that needs to be addressed.  The Universal Creator, known to me as God has given you everything you need to live the “DREAM” life that you want to live.  But like playing a game of cards, you must choose what you lead with.  You have to be the one to choose how you play your game. Visit The Laws of Attraction In Action for more information on how you can use the laws to support you in changing your life 01:44:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Laws of attraction,The law of attraction,Self help,ManifestingMost people are striving to live the life that they say they want, and yet, for many this proves to be illusive. And for others wanting to live their dream le146e84d-4b1d-4634-a25b-3528f8795e831028fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/05/16/things-you-need-to-know-about-the-law-of-attraction-2018Self Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/05/16/things-you-need-to-know-about-the-law-of-attraction-2018/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/05/16/things-you-need-to-know-about-the-law-of-attraction-2018Wed, 16 May 2018 20:00:00 GMTThings You Need To Know About The Law of Attraction 2018There are a few things you need to be consciously aware of when using the law of attraction.  The Universal or Spiritual Laws have individual, collaborative and collective functions within the manifestation and creation process.  It’s important to note that whether the action of the law is collaborative or collective each law retains its individuality or specific function.  What I mean by this is a cardboard box will carry things, yet, it still remains a cardboard box.   Within the last two decades there has been an oversimplification of how the law of attraction works.  Somehow, it seems to have been relegated to the same status of abracadabra that we read about in the Middle Eastern folk tales called Arabian Nights.  Abracadabra, if taken at face value has mysterious powers and is part of a wonderful fairy tale.  However, the folk etymology associated with the phrase in Hebrew, suggests that abracadabra literally translates to "I will create as I speak" or in Aramaic "I create like the word." That’s some powerful stuff!  The law of attraction is no different.  Telling people they will get what they want using the LOA by repeat affirmations, thinking rich or skinny and or see what they want is ludicrous.  That’s like not telling people what the word abracadabra really means. That law of attraction, LOA  is simply a magnetic force.   The function of this law is to bind or magnetize together other laws, that create a magnetic intentional force, that draws to you, that which you have chosen to experience in your life.Understanding the law of attraction and the role it plays within the Laws of Attraction is crucial to you manifesting health, wealth, money, abundance, love etc.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach as we look at the law of attraction. 01:29:00My Life My Choicenodrwendydearborne,the Laws of attraction,Law of Attraction,Olivia LashleyThere are a few things you need to be consciously aware of when using the law of attraction.  The Universal or Spiritual Laws have individual, collaborative and19ad6652-2aaa-46b1-b818-9033e7fd49211027fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/05/09/how-to-stop-struggling-with-self-praise-and-accept-itSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/05/09/how-to-stop-struggling-with-self-praise-and-accept-it/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/05/09/how-to-stop-struggling-with-self-praise-and-accept-itWed, 09 May 2018 20:00:00 GMTHow To Stop Struggling With Self Praise And Accept It Many people don’t realize that their ability to consciously manifest what they want in life is being hampered by their inability to receive and accept praise.  You know the “attaboy or attagirl,” that people give when you have accomplished something.   This underlying issue with the inability to do this for self is a serious one.  It has the atomic potential to undermine everything that you want, and wreck everything that you have.  The Universal Law of Acceptance speaks to the energy of whether you believe you are worthy and deserving of the thing you have asked the Universe to bring into creation for you.   You see, Attractioners, to the Universal Creator, acceptance or non-acceptance is still, acceptance.   Once again, you get to choose how you use the universal Law of Acceptance.  There is an irony here, because, many people can give accolades and the highest of praise, but are self-conscious and downright uncomfortable receiving it.  And therefore, don’t want it, and articulate this in many ways.  As a result of this limited thinking many people derail in all aspects of life and are left wondering, “what the hell’s happening to me?” Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction in Action Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction in Action Coach as we look at the strategic and powerful role acceptance plays in our lives. 01:19:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,LOA,Laws of Attraction,Manifesting,The Law of AcceptanceMany people don’t realize that their ability to consciously manifest what they want in life is being hampered by their inability to receive and accept praise.46aaa484-6ad7-4178-bc98-c8fba014548f1026fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/05/02/i-dont-want-to-be-in-this-relationship-anymoreSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/05/02/i-dont-want-to-be-in-this-relationship-anymore/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/05/02/i-dont-want-to-be-in-this-relationship-anymoreWed, 02 May 2018 20:00:00 GMTI Don’t Want To Be In This Relationship AnymoreTo everything in life there really is a season, including the starting and ending of relationships.  Our lives are built upon relationships not only with people, but with places and things too.   We never really think of ourselves as being in a working or active relationship with our homes, cars, pens, papers, food, plants or the location where we live.  More often than not, when people speak in terms of relationships they are speaking of a dynamic between two or more people.  It can also be a relationship with an institution that’s representative of an emotionally held ideal.  However, a relationship is all about how you relate to people, places and things.  Based on how you feel about something you are in a relationship with will determine the choices you make.   When you change how you feel about a person, place or thing, you set into motion The Universal Law of Disintegration. Once set into motion it cannot be stopped.   When change needs to take place, based on the change a of heart, the disintegration of that relationship held will happen.   It’s important not to confuse disintegration of a relationship with dissolution of a relationship.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach as we look at the Universal Law of Disintegration and relationships. 01:26:00My Life My ChoicenoLaw of attraction,dr wendy dearborne,relationships,attractioners,choice expertMore often than not, when people speak in terms of relationships they are speaking of a dynamic between two or more people. It can also be a relationship with9dec00f6-558f-4f04-b8e1-9f93b18e182d1025fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/04/18/how-to-live-in-contentious-timesSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/04/18/how-to-live-in-contentious-times/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/04/18/how-to-live-in-contentious-timesWed, 18 Apr 2018 20:00:00 GMTHow To Live In Contentious Times Is there a way to live a stress free life, when all around you it seems that there is nothing, but machiavellianism, mendaciousness, murder and mayhem?  Along with wars! Rumors of wars, social unrest and civil discord.  Man’s inhumanity to man and the list goes on and on.  By consciously choosing to live a drama free life, can you positively impact the world with your “happy” thoughts, righting many of the perceived injustices and imbalances?  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction Coach, and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach, as we explore the possibility of your thoughts and the power they have to influence your world.  Check out Cancel That!  01:30:00My Life My Choicenodrwendydearborne,the laws of attraction,Law of Attraction,manifesting,Olivia lashleyIs there a way to live a stress free life, when all around you it seems that there is nothing, but machiavellianism, mendaciousness, murder and mayhem?  Along41cda7bf-ea3f-46f0-9872-f3121f2830b61024fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/04/11/is-dying-to-please-others-slowly-killing-youSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/04/11/is-dying-to-please-others-slowly-killing-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/04/11/is-dying-to-please-others-slowly-killing-youWed, 11 Apr 2018 20:00:00 GMTIs Dying To Please Others Slowly Killing You?People spend far too much time worrying about what other people will think of them, verses what they think about themselves.  As a result of this many people are living lives of quiet desperation, because they are dying to please others so that they will fit in.  They are saying yes, when they really mean no.  They are sucking it up, when they should be letting it rip.  All the time making choices based on what others will think.  We spend an enormous amount of time throughout our lives trying to please other people, primarily, because we feel this action, even though it’s counter to what we want, will make our lives easier.  The ultimate goal of this behavior is to gain the approval of those we are seeking it from.  Approval in this instance, equates to acceptance, which means that someone has chosen to acknowledge you in a way that you need to be acknowledged.  And for a moment this makes you feel good about yourself, until you realize that you don’t even resonate with their core values.   There is a danger with trying to please at the expense of self.  It slowly erodes at the fabric of who you are, until, you don’t remember you anymore.  You move from trying, to dying, because that’s what happens to your soul when you go through life trying to please others, so they will like you and accept you. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach as we look at what trying to please others can do to your life. 01:10:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,laws of attraction,my life my choice,personal growth,LOAThere is a danger with trying to please at the expense of self. It slowly erodes at the fabric of who you are, until, you don’t remember you anymore. You move8993f7d6-73d2-409c-a85a-c2b7a189ad181023fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/04/04/is-god-listening-to-my-prayersSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/04/04/is-god-listening-to-my-prayers/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/04/04/is-god-listening-to-my-prayersWed, 04 Apr 2018 20:00:00 GMTIs God Listening To My Prayers?Prayer is consciously thanking The Universal Creator, the Grand Architect, The God Within or whomever your chosen deity is for your desired outcome, before it has manifested into your life.  That’s prayer in a nutshell.   It’s important to understand the structure of prayer and know the distinction between talking with God and praying to God.  Many people don’t understand this nuance and their prayers are structured incorrectly and as a result they feel that their prayers are left unanswered.  Their bodies remain unhealed, their finances remain in shambles, their relationships continue to be contentious and happiness is out of their grasp.   When people don’t receive what they want, they sigh deeply and say in reverent hushed tones that state eloquently that, “God wanted something different for me.” Here’s the cold hard facts, that's simply not true and your prayers are always answered.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach as we look at the structure of prayer. 01:07:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,laws of attraction,praying,LOA,Olivia LashleyPrayer is consciously thanking The Universal Creator, the Grand Architect, The God Within or whomever your chosen deity is for your desired outcome, before it h4d856636-c30e-4891-92fa-ffd8cd5ebfa01022fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/03/21/has-overthinking-your-next-move-left-you-paralyzedSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/03/21/has-overthinking-your-next-move-left-you-paralyzed/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/03/21/has-overthinking-your-next-move-left-you-paralyzedWed, 21 Mar 2018 20:00:00 GMTHas Overthinking Your Next Move Left You Paralyzed?Has overthinking your next move left you in a state of I don’t know what to do paralysis?  Agonizing over figuring out if the next move is the right move has left many people opting to do nothing.  And that is downright painful.  We have been taught we must find a solution.  Not that there is always a solution, but, we must find the solution.  That nuance is huge.  In fact, it’s the difference between the solution being revealed to you and you trying to unearth it.  There is a simple process when using the Universal Laws to manifest what you are wanting and it doesn’t involve digging for anything.  It’s all about what is revealed to you to by taking inspired action. 01:29:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,laws of attraction,life coaching,Olivia lashley,attractionersHas overthinking your next move left you in a state of I don’t know what to do paralysis?  Agonizing over figuring out if the next move is the right move has le634b4f33-1e00-4d42-92a9-9587c4dc9e241021fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/03/14/sacrifice-is-all-about-an-agenda-whats-yoursSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/03/14/sacrifice-is-all-about-an-agenda-whats-yours/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/03/14/sacrifice-is-all-about-an-agenda-whats-yoursWed, 14 Mar 2018 20:00:00 GMTSacrifice Is All About An Agenda What’s Yours?When people speak of sacrifices that they have made in their lives for others, they are speaking in terms of what they have given up.  What they have done and what has happened to them as a result of this sacrifice. “I did this all for you so that you could have the experience that you wanted.”  The word sacrifice literally means to give something up or permit something to happen in order for someone to achieve a desired goal. Be under no illusion, no matter how heart wrenching, how disappointing, no matter how painful or soul destroying the sacrifice made, it was a choice.  It was a choice driven by a personal agenda that sacrificer had. They wanted a specific outcome and by giving up or doing _______ you fill in the blank, even when it was counterintuitive, they had their beady little eye on a prize. When the prize materialized, and or not, or people were not suitably grateful or chose to do something else, which flew in the face of the sacrifice etc.  Then the sacrificer regurgitates all that they have done, outlining each supposed selfless act in all its passionate detail in an attempt to bend others to their will. Or at the very least to emotionally blackmail them into feeling contrite and suitably apologetic for putting them through whatever it is they chose to go through. At the end of the day, sacrifice is all about your own personal agenda, nothing more, nothing less...so, don’t get ‘em twisted.  The next time you feel like you have fallen on your sword for someone and they weren’t suitably grateful, remember your sword didn’t stab you, you stabbed your sword. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Expressions and Laws of Attraction Coach as we explore sacrifice and what that means. 00:59:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Law of Attraction,laws of attraction in aciton,my life my choice,Life CoachingWhen the prize materialized, and or not, or people were not suitably grateful or chose to do something else, which flew in the face of the sacrifice etc. Then9592745d-6fd2-4f51-9661-15f259018d271020fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/03/07/is-it-time-to-upgrade-your-lifeSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/03/07/is-it-time-to-upgrade-your-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/03/07/is-it-time-to-upgrade-your-lifeWed, 07 Mar 2018 21:00:00 GMTIs It Time To Upgrade Your Life?Upgrading your life can take many forms, and yet, the end result will always be a profound change within self.  The process of upgrading literally means that you have outgrown that which you currently have.  And more importantly, you have the conscious realization that it’s time for something new.  The new maybe similar, yet, it is something new.  Should you want to upgrade your life?  What if you love the life you are living and you don’t want anything to change?  How do I upgrade my life and what do I upgrade it to?  We’ll be exploring these questions and more in this week’s radio show/podcast.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Expressions Expert , Healer and Law of Attraction Coach as we look at the importance of upgrading and ways in which to start the process. 01:22:00My Life My Choicenodrwendydearborne,mylifemychoice,life coach,Laws of Attraction,Law of AttractionUpgrading your life can take many forms, and yet, the end result will always be a profound change within self.  The process of upgrading literally means that yob1361e54-e7d9-4a30-95d4-ac50177b255b1019fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/02/28/its-not-what-you-know-its-who-you-know-isnt-itSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/02/28/its-not-what-you-know-its-who-you-know-isnt-it/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/02/28/its-not-what-you-know-its-who-you-know-isnt-itWed, 28 Feb 2018 21:00:00 GMTIt’s Not What You Know It’s Who You Know; Isn’t It?For those of you on the journey of finding self, “it’s not what you know, it’s who you know” is a cold hard fact.  In truth, it’s not who you know, it’s how you apply what you know, to experience the conscious manifestation of what you want for your life.  You can have all the knowledge in the world, yet if it is not applied in the right way, it’s just knowledge. It’s a little like faith without works or inspired action, is dead.    The saying, “It’s not what you know, but it’s who you know” for many is a fact.  A vast majority of people from around the world are living their lives like this and don’t even realize it. And as a result, they continuously experience cyclic detriment.  Life’s good for a while and then kaboom they appear to be back to square one, left standing in the rubble wondering, “what the hell happened?” They are living a life that is one of total dependency and or inequitably interdependent on others for their success.    People have taken and cloaked themselves in this belief that someone can do, what they themselves feel they are unable to do for self, in order for them to realize their dreams.  It’s the preverbal hookup! Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and  Intrinsic Laws of Attraction In Action Coach and Olivia Lashley, Artist and Intrinsic Laws of Attraction In Action Coach as we explore the benefit of who and what you know. 01:00:00My Life My ChoicenoLaw of Attraction,Dr Wendy Dearborne,Life Coaching,Olivia Lashley,choice expertThe saying, “It’s not what you know, but it’s who you know” for many is a fact. A vast majority of people from around the world are living their lives like thi0a72b4e3-68ef-4fb2-a4f8-a8fbab5248851018fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/02/14/are-you-running-with-knives-scissorsSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/02/14/are-you-running-with-knives-scissors/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/02/14/are-you-running-with-knives-scissorsWed, 14 Feb 2018 21:00:00 GMTAre You Running With Knives & Scissors?How many times did you hear this as a child from your parents, grandparents, teachers or siblings. or tell a child this as an adult, “don’t run with scissors in your hand.”   As kids, our guardians always instructed us not to run with glass, knives, sharp objects or scissors.  Why?  Because the potential to seriously injure self was a reality.  As adults you are running with a different kind of sharp object, but no less lethal.  Your running with people who don’t give a damn about you and have passed their expiration date.   Your running behind people who love themselves more than you love you, and they are happily using you for their life’s process. Your running with learnt behaviors that are creating planned obsolescence in your life.  Your running with emotional blocks that compromise your personal growth and ability to see what you want. You are running on the fumes of other people’s ignorance, beliefs, ideologies and bull shit that has the same potential to hurt you, just as if you are running with broken glass, knives and scissors. Stop RSVPing to crap that doesn’t even fertilize the mind.  Stop blaming him, her, them, Martians or whoever. It’s time to take a good hard look at you and the choices you have made that have brought you to this point, the point where you find yourself NOW.  It’s time to stand up for yourself taking responsibility, accountability and ownership, so that you can decide what you really want for your life.  Are you ready to stop the running with scissors? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice Expert and Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach as we explore what not running with scissors can do for your life. 01:29:00My Life My Choicenodrwendydearborne,Laws of attraction,Law of Attraction,affirmation,Olivia lashleyAs adults you are running with a different kind of sharp object, but no less lethal. Your running with people who don’t give a damn about you and have passed t5334f2d9-81d0-49db-bcde-a27fc2d933031017fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/02/07/why-cant-i-just-get-over-itSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/02/07/why-cant-i-just-get-over-it/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/02/07/why-cant-i-just-get-over-itWed, 07 Feb 2018 21:00:00 GMTWhy Can’t I Just Get Over It?Letting go of people, places and things, hurts, grudges and feuds is one of the greatest challenges you will ever face.  Why?  Because in some shape or form your needs, wants and desires have been minimized and then trampled into nothingness.  When you think you’re done, and over it, you fill in the blank, along comes a button pusher to check you, letting you know you are still firmly in its grasp.  So why can’t you just get over it?  Why can’t you let it go? The answer to that is simple; you are not done with the situation yet. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach as we take a candid look at why we are holding on to stuff we need to let go. 00:53:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,adundance,Law of Attraction,choice expert,Life CoachingLetting go of people, places and things, hurts, grudges and feuds is one of the greatest challenges you will ever face.  Why?  Because in some shape or form youa7a0817e-e581-42cc-8dac-1cfff0255ed21016fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/01/31/abundance-and-the-law-of-attraction-in-actionSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/01/31/abundance-and-the-law-of-attraction-in-action/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/01/31/abundance-and-the-law-of-attraction-in-actionWed, 31 Jan 2018 21:00:00 GMTAbundance and The Law of Attraction in ActionThe law of Attraction is a magnetic force of intention, which is made up of many, many laws.  The Law of Abundance invokes plenteousness in extremes.  How do you attract into your life money, health, good relationships, fame and all the things that you want? Part I of the process involves having a clearer understand of the Laws and how you can use them.  And part II is understanding how to hold the “space” so that what you desire can come into form. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach as we take a deeper look into the law of attraction and manifesting abundance. 01:29:00My Life My Choicenoabundance,Law of Attraction,relationships,dr wendy dearborne,choice expertThe law of Attraction is a magnetic force of intention, which is made up of many, many laws.  The Law of Abundance invokes plenteousness in extremes.  How do yoe9a94088-d562-44f1-9e6c-44013bc5b6e21015fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/01/24/using-the-art-of-revision-to-change-your-lifeSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/01/24/using-the-art-of-revision-to-change-your-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/01/24/using-the-art-of-revision-to-change-your-lifeWed, 24 Jan 2018 21:00:00 GMTUsing The Art of Revision To Change Your LifeThe word revision might have a tendency to conjure up thoughts of endless homework, looking at CliffsNotes or SparksNotes and or days and nights spent swotting for exams.  However, when used with the Laws of Attraction the art of revision will catapult your desired manifestation toward you.  When consciously revising situations and events that have occurred in your life, puts you in the unique position of being able to decode it, rewrite the script or at the very least not give it any more of your time or energy.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression & Laws of Attraction Coach as we explore ways to revise your life and the potential it has to support your conscious manifestation process. 01:16:00My Life My Choicenodrwendydearborne,Attractioners,The law of attraction,choices,choiceexpertThe word revision might have a tendency to conjure up thoughts of endless homework, looking at CliffsNotes or SparksNotes and or days and nights spent swotting98719621-602b-4c69-b714-d1400be0bc441014fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/01/17/do-i-need-to-know-the-answer-to-the-question-why-before-moving-onSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/01/17/do-i-need-to-know-the-answer-to-the-question-why-before-moving-on/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/01/17/do-i-need-to-know-the-answer-to-the-question-why-before-moving-onWed, 17 Jan 2018 21:00:00 GMTDo I Need To Know The Answer To The Question Why Before Moving On? Getting mental clarity for reasons you are making the decisions that you do can sometimes be supported by having the question “Why” answered.  Gaining the knowledge or knowing “why” has the ability to set you up in various ways, so that you can make a choice to move on or let go. Or it can hold you in bondage.  Knowing why, can provide understanding, which may or may not lead to clarity.  Just because you acknowledge something doesn’t mean you have true understanding of it.  In short “your why” can play a pivotal role in your choice making process.    However, it’s been my experience that many people become stuck in their lives because they feel they MUST know the answer to the question “why” before they can make another decision.  Yet, I know that not to be true.  To move forward, regardless of whether you know the answer to why is a choice.  What is most important it’s knowing what you want to do next.  Finding the answer to “why” simply brings, and I use these terms loosely, validation, understanding, closure, more questions why and a vicious cycle of wanting to know and putting you right back where you started from.”  So, is there any real benefit to asking the question why? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction Coach and Oliva Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach as we look at the value of asking the question why. 00:56:00My Life My Choicenodrwendydearborne,Choices,Choice Expert,Attractioners,Law of attractionGetting mental clarity for reasons you are making the decisions that you do can sometimes be supported by having the question “Why” answered.  Gaining the know9194e0ef-e59f-4dd2-938e-f93e0675473f1013fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/01/10/are-your-life-situations-sending-you-important-messagesSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/01/10/are-your-life-situations-sending-you-important-messages/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2018/01/10/are-your-life-situations-sending-you-important-messagesWed, 10 Jan 2018 21:00:00 GMTAre Your Life Situations Sending You Important Messages?Figuring out the message that your life’s situations are telling you, no matter how joyous or hurtful, is really a process of decoding.  For you, it will take practice not to continue to fall into a cycle of emotional highs and lows.  Your emotional roller coaster keeps your situations negatively or positively charged, which results in smoking mirrors, uncertainty and confusion.   And that can be a challenge when making choices in the best interest of self or making choices to manifest what you want.  You need objectivity!  Without objectivity it’s virtually impossible to decode your situation.  Your decoding process starts with being able to detach emotionally from your situation, yet remain involved enough to be connected.  As intrinsic coaches, we call this skill detached involvement.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert, and Laws of Attraction coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach as we explore the benefits of decoding your life’s situation. 01:00:00My Life My Choicenodrwendydearborne,Law of attraction,LAWSOFATTRACTION,lifecoach,spiritualityFiguring out the message that your life’s situations are telling you, no matter how joyous or hurtful, is really a process of decoding. For you, it will take p0680519a-12ed-4e03-be91-6889d853da7b1012fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/12/13/will-you-pay-the-price-for-what-you-wantSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/12/13/will-you-pay-the-price-for-what-you-want/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/12/13/will-you-pay-the-price-for-what-you-wantWed, 13 Dec 2017 21:00:00 GMTWill You Pay The Price For What You Want?In life there is always a price to pay.  The question is, ”Are you willing to pay that price for what you want?”  Many people when asked this question assume that payment is in the form of money.  Cold, hot, hard soft cash!  There is another form of currency and it’s called spiritual currency.  It represents the intangible energies that we trade  much like money represents the tangibles we trade in.  You don’t get something for nothing, even if it appears that way.  What are you willing to give to get what you want?   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach as we take a deeper look at the phenomenon of the Universal Law of Exchange. 01:59:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,choice expert,Law of attraction,Lawsofattraction,OliviaLashleyIn life there is always a price to pay.  The question is, ”Are you willing to pay that price for what you want?”  Many people when asked this question assume the864652d-a8fb-4691-bbb2-503d36f429c2910fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/12/06/divine-intervention-what-is-it-and-can-i-get-someSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/12/06/divine-intervention-what-is-it-and-can-i-get-some/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/12/06/divine-intervention-what-is-it-and-can-i-get-someWed, 06 Dec 2017 21:00:00 GMTDivine Intervention: What Is It And Can I Get Some?Is there such a thing as Divine Intervention and if so what is it, and, better yet, can I have some?  Divine intervention is usually ascribed to a miraculous happening.  Something that defies scientific explanation and logic.  Yet, when witnessed or experienced, we as humans may not understand the mechanics of Divine Intervention, but at an intrinsic level, we get it.  We know it to be true.  So, how do we go about consciously creating Divine Intervention or miracles in our lives? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and artist as we discuss you and Divine Intervention. 01:00:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,laws of attraction,Law of Attraction,metaphysics,divine guidanceYet, when witnessed or experienced, we as humans may not understand the mechanics of Divine Intervention, but at an intrinsic level, we get it. We know it to bbbebe3a4-2616-452f-9d40-7e0276a06c5b99fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/11/29/god-please-help-me-to-fix-my-lifeSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/11/29/god-please-help-me-to-fix-my-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/11/29/god-please-help-me-to-fix-my-lifeWed, 29 Nov 2017 21:00:00 GMTGod, Please Help Me To Fix My Life At some stage, we will all arrive at this point in our lives.  It’s the point where we are literally crying out to the Universal Creator to “fix it!”  Or for the answer to the question, “What must I do next?”  Very few of us make it through life, without hitting our preverbal emotional “brick” wall, or, spiraling down into our self created abyss.  It matters not whether you believe in God or something greater than self.   You see, whether you are a believer, atheist or agnostic when we are crying out into the ethos for HELP; for guidance, comfort, solace and peace, we are all alike.  We are looking to the Universal Supply for our salvation, or our solution.  We are wanting God or your chosen deity to “Fix It!”  The irony with this is in order for you to receive any help, divine or otherwise, you must have an idea of what you want. Solution and salvation are one in the same they are both found within the question and the problem. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Olivia Lashley Expression Artist as we explore the Universal Creators role in “fixing” our lives.   01:28:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Law of Attraction,personal development,spirituality,Olivia lashleyAt some stage, we will all arrive at this point in our lives.  It’s the point where we are literally crying out to the Universal Creator to “fix it!”  Or for t2ffdefe2-4765-4c50-8f7a-d2799d042dab98fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/11/15/are-you-choosing-the-right-people-to-be-in-your-lifeSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/11/15/are-you-choosing-the-right-people-to-be-in-your-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/11/15/are-you-choosing-the-right-people-to-be-in-your-lifeWed, 15 Nov 2017 21:00:00 GMTAre You Choosing The Right People To Be In Your Life?It’s important to choose the people who you allow into your life, wisely and with great care.  They have the potential to influence your choices, therefore, influencing how you live your life.  The people who you currently mix and mingle with mirror back aspects of your inner beliefs as to who you are.  This doesn’t apply to friends; it applies to everyone in your life, including your family and nearest and dearest.  Do you like what you see when you look at the people in your life?  Is the relationship symbiotic?  Are your life stories filled with dramatic parallels and similarities?  Is this the adhesive that holds the relationship together?  The people in your life can show you four things, Where you’ve been.Where you are now.Where you don’t want to go.Where you can go. What are the people in your life showing you?    Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice and Laws of Attraction Coach & Expert  and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach & Artist as we explore you and the people in your life. 01:29:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Law of Attraction,life coach,Choices,olivia lashleyIt’s important to choose the people who you allow into your life, wisely and with great care.  They have the potential to influence your choices, therefore, inffeea458b-f24a-4eea-8042-3a8fcfdcb20f97fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/11/08/wow-how-did-i-get-to-this-point-in-my-lifeSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/11/08/wow-how-did-i-get-to-this-point-in-my-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/11/08/wow-how-did-i-get-to-this-point-in-my-lifeWed, 08 Nov 2017 21:00:00 GMTWow How Did I Get To This Point In My Life?More often than not, we have a tendency to move through life, almost, as if we are flying by the seat of our pants or being dragged along. We find ourselves in situations and places that leave us trying to figure, “how did this happen? Or how did I get here?” In order for your life to manifest  the car, house, relationship, money, career, health etc., the way in which you want it to, you must first figure out what you want and then ask for it.  In life we don’t get what we want, we get what we believe.  This understanding is crucial for us to use our abilities  to consciously manifest what we want. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne as we explore consciously getting what you want. 00:59:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life coaching,the laws of attaction,law of attraction,choicesIn life we don’t get what we want, we get what we believe.0c9a4f79-bff1-40b5-94be-8de95b27e64f96fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/11/01/are-you-living-in-a-emotional-haunted-houseSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/11/01/are-you-living-in-a-emotional-haunted-house/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/11/01/are-you-living-in-a-emotional-haunted-houseWed, 01 Nov 2017 20:00:00 GMTAre You Living In A Emotional Haunted House?If your past is holding you back, you are haunting yourself.  If you are living in your past, you are haunting yourself.  If you are trying to change your past you are haunting yourself. If you are doing anything that doesn’t serve you and support you living at your highest potential you are living inside your head in a haunted house. To haunt means: to visit habitually or regularly. Is this you? Are you habitually visiting your past…on a regular basis? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at the ghosts that maybe holding you back. 01:29:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Law of attraction,choice expert,Olivia lashley,manifestationIf your past is holding you back, you are haunting yourself.  If you are living in your past, you are haunting yourself.  If you are trying to change your pastb205d4c5-63c4-4cc7-bf16-bfb4736a770b95fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/10/25/can-i-experience-more-abundance-in-my-lifeSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/10/25/can-i-experience-more-abundance-in-my-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/10/25/can-i-experience-more-abundance-in-my-lifeWed, 25 Oct 2017 20:00:00 GMTCan I Experience More Abundance In My Life?This is a question that many people ask themselves, “Can my life be more abundant?” Typically, when people speak of abundance, they associate it with money and the things that money can bring.  In fact, most metaphysical/spiritual teachers teach from that perspective, for you to experience abundance you must have money.  Affluence is the monetary segment of the Abundance wheel, but by no means is it the greatest portion.  And this is where many people become stuck.  Not realizing that abundance is all things that matter to us and things we don’t even realize matter.  Dictionary.com states that the word abundance means extremely plentiful, copious amounts. It also is an infinite energetic supply to which we all have an account, debit card and checkbook.  Do you know what to do so your life can be more abundant?  Do you know how to use your debit card or how to write a Universal check?  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne, Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we take our first look at abundance and how it shows up in our lives. Join our Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/Thelawsofattractioninaction/    Visit our website: https://thelawsofattractioninaction.com Checkout YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEuMi6r1ORt-0Z2D7St-Z1w 01:21:00My Life My ChoicenoDr wendy dearborne,laws of attraction,Law of Attraction,abundance,Life CoachingIt also is an infinite energetic supply to which we all have an account, debit card and checkbook. Do you know what to do so your life can be more abundant? D51715ae3-2f78-45b3-9923-c2b57cdff66d94fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/10/11/who-are-you-to-stand-in-judgement-of-meSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/10/11/who-are-you-to-stand-in-judgement-of-me/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/10/11/who-are-you-to-stand-in-judgement-of-meWed, 11 Oct 2017 20:00:00 GMTWho Are You To Stand In Judgement Of Me?The Universal Law of Judgement invokes your right to make an informed opinion based on your knowledge or passed experiences.  This opinion is used to support you in making decision. However, your opinion is yours and yours alone.  You having an opinion, doesn’t make it right.  Nor does it make it right for me or anyone else even if you think so.  In life, this is where things have gone radically wrong.  People will stand in judgement of others who do not embrace or share the same opinions.  As a result, wars have been fought, lives lost, relationships and families decimated.  Dreams unfulfilled and potential untapped and the greatest tragedy of all people leave this life saying, “if I wouldha, shouldha, couldha.”   It’s everyone’s divine right to judge.  This is how we weigh in and find balance, giving us the internal green light to make a choice. It’s not your right to pass judgement on anyone, but yourself.  Matthew 7 1:2 states this eloquently. “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2 For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice and Laws of Attraction Expert and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Laws of Attraction Expert as we look at judgement and your life. 01:24:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Law of Attraction,Laws of Attraction,spirituality,choice expertThe Universal Law of Judgement invokes your right to make an informed opinion based on your knowledge or passed experiences.  This opinion is used to support yoe5f0712a-9027-4b25-a310-e07724b2d8fd93fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/10/04/are-you-putting-up-and-shutting-up-just-to-make-it-through-another-daySelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/10/04/are-you-putting-up-and-shutting-up-just-to-make-it-through-another-day/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/10/04/are-you-putting-up-and-shutting-up-just-to-make-it-through-another-dayWed, 04 Oct 2017 20:00:00 GMTAre You Putting Up and Shutting Up Just To Make It Through Another Day?Are you putting up and shutting up just to make it through another day?  If this is true for you then you need to map out your life.  Do you have a map of your life’s journey? If you don’t, you should.  Without a map you will undoubtedly find yourself in a place where you don’t want to be. Married to someone you shouldn’t be, working in a job you shouldn’t be, living beyond your means when you shouldn’t be, experiencing ill health when you shouldn’t be and generally unhappy with the life that you have lived and are living.  Are you putting up and shutting up? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Personal Expression Expert and Intrinsic Laws of Attraction Coach as we look at why you need a personal inspired map as you journey through life. Visit the https://thelawsofattractioninaction.com 01:29:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Laws of Attraction,choice expert,intrinsic laws of attraction coach,AttractionersAre you putting up and shutting up just to make it through another day?  If this is true for you then you need to map out your life.  Do you have a map of youre6846122-9147-422c-b08e-f93aefc29f1612fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/09/27/god-intended-this-for-my-good-even-if-you-didntSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/09/27/god-intended-this-for-my-good-even-if-you-didnt/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/09/27/god-intended-this-for-my-good-even-if-you-didntWed, 27 Sep 2017 20:00:00 GMTGod Intended This For My Good Even If You Didn’tWhen things happen in our lives good and or bad, but in particular bad or traumatic, we have a tendency to view it from a negative standpoint.  Why me?  How could they?  How dare they? We allow our emotions to dictate how we respond.  And as a result, we perpetuate negativity in all areas of our lives which prevents our conscious expansion or spiritual growth.  When people do things to us with the intent that they are hurtful, mean spirited, cruel, abusive etc. we automatically assume it’s been done to us. Why because it’s an assault on our five senses.  We believe that people are working against us to achieve our end goal.  Using dark arts to hold us in bondage. They’re keeping us down or enslaved not allowing us the thrive.  Everything is not done with our betterment in mind.   Yet, as hard as this may be for you to believe, that simply isn’t true. Deuteronomy 32:29 See now that I, even I, am he, and there is no god with me: I kill, and I make alive; I wound, and I heal: neither is there any that can deliver out of my hand. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore this sensitive issue. 01:00:00My Life My Choicenodr Wendy dearborne,the laws of attraction in action,attractioners,personal growth,spiritualityWhen people do things to us with the intent that they are hurtful, mean spirited, cruel, abusive etc. we automatically assume it’s been done to us. Why because8d83aacd-bae0-4179-8eda-a0cd3a3725c611fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/09/20/how-do-i-uncomplicate-my-lifeSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/09/20/how-do-i-uncomplicate-my-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/09/20/how-do-i-uncomplicate-my-lifeWed, 20 Sep 2017 20:00:00 GMTHow Do I Uncomplicate My Life?In the blink of an eye our lives can become very complicated.  One moment everything is fine and the next it appears that everything has exploded into a million fragmented pieces. Many people struggle to create the lives they say they want to live, because, it’s complicated.  As a result of “it” being complicated, many people talk themselves into staying in relationships, marriages, homes, jobs, health protocols you name it.  In fact they talk themselves into doing many things that they really don’t want to do.  All of which are toxic, very toxic to the mind and body.  Your life being complicated has far reaching effects, which are impactful in both good and bad ways.  So how do you go about uncomplicating your life so you can live it to the fullest? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at ways to uncomplicate your life. For tutorials and other podcasts visit our website The Laws of Attraction In Action 01:25:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,the laws of attraction in action,The Law of Attraction,Self help,Olivia lashleyMany people struggle to create the lives they say they want to live, because, it’s complicated. As a result of “it” being complicated, many people talk themselhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/09/13/isnt-this-how-the-laws-of-attraction-workSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/09/13/isnt-this-how-the-laws-of-attraction-work/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/09/13/isnt-this-how-the-laws-of-attraction-workWed, 13 Sep 2017 20:00:00 GMTIsn't This How The Laws of Attraction Works? It’s helpful having an understanding of how the Universal Laws of Attraction work together, whether you are wanting to use them consciously or not. The Laws of Attraction are natural Laws, Spiritual Laws, God’s Laws or your chosen deity’s Laws. These Laws are immutable and exacting by nature.  These two facts, immutable and exacting, say it all when it comes to the Universal Laws and how things unfold in our lives.   They, the Laws, exhibit the true meaning of detached involvement.  You see, the Laws are unemotional, unbiased and detached.  The Laws careless about gender, race, age, finances, good, bad, infirmities, diseases, disorders and believe it or not our spiritual or religious beliefs.  And yet, each Law individually and collectively are very, very much involved in our lives.   The Laws have one function and one function only. 01:01:00My Life My Choicenodrwendydearborne,the laws of attraction,the law of attraction,attractioners,the power of choiceIt’s helpful having an understanding of how the Universal Laws of Attraction work together, whether you are wanting to use them consciously or not. The Laws ofhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/08/23/why-is-manifesting-what-i-want-so-uncertainSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/08/23/why-is-manifesting-what-i-want-so-uncertain/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/08/23/why-is-manifesting-what-i-want-so-uncertainWed, 23 Aug 2017 20:00:00 GMTWhy Is Manifesting What I Want So Uncertain?There are usually multiple reasons why manifesting is uncertain. But, in the main it boils down to the violation of four Universal Laws: Polarity, Fixation/focus, Intention and Clarity.   Asking in the right way is the key to receiving what you want. The life that you want to live, the love that you want to experience. The health that you desire, the money that you want to have, the house, the car, family, friends, and anything else, is yours for the asking. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Art as we explore manifesting with certainty. 01:00:00My Life My Choicenodrwendydearborne,Law of Attraction,laws of attraction,attractioners,itsmylifemychoiceThere are usually multiple reasons why manifesting is uncertain. But, in the main it boils down to the violation of four Universal Laws: Polarity, Fixation/focuhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/08/09/do-you-find-expressing-yourself-to-get-your-needs-met-hardSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/08/09/do-you-find-expressing-yourself-to-get-your-needs-met-hard/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/08/09/do-you-find-expressing-yourself-to-get-your-needs-met-hardWed, 09 Aug 2017 20:00:00 GMTDo You Find Expressing Yourself To Get Your Needs Met Hard? Many people find expressing themselves a challenge.  They don’t want to hurt anyone and they don’t want to be hurt themselves. Usually, what needs to be said is caught up with highly charged emotion and deep seated feelings, which, can prove to be unhelpful.  We have a tendency to wait until a gasket is ready to blow and then purge, venting and expressing in a way that is hurtful to us and the person(s) we are addressing. Expressing yourself doesn’t require you being angry or building anger to give yourself Dutch courage.  It requires that you are clear about what you want to say, and what outcome you want to experience, bearing in mind that the only person you can control is yourself.  Effective communication starts with you. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach & Artist as we explore expressing yourself. 01:28:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,Law of Attraction,Olivia lashley,expression coachMany people find expressing themselves a challenge.  They don’t want to hurt anyone and they don’t want to be hurt themselves. Usually, what needs to be said ihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/08/02/will-turning-back-the-hands-of-time-make-it-rightSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/08/02/will-turning-back-the-hands-of-time-make-it-right/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/08/02/will-turning-back-the-hands-of-time-make-it-rightWed, 02 Aug 2017 20:00:00 GMTWill Turning Back The Hands of Time Make It Right?Time travel as portrayed on the silver screen usually starts out well, but is fraught with problems.  And as the main characters achieve their desired goals of putting something they believe that needs to be put right, and or preventing something from happening, another disaster befalls them.  It’s almost like plugging a leak only to have five more spring up that a bigger and badder than the first one.  Many people spend a tremendous amount of time and energy imagining what they would have done differently.  Most don’t realize that spending their energy and passion in this way is going to manifest things that they don’t want verses what they do want.  Spending time trying to turn back the hands of time creates new situations that are unwanted.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at turning back the hands of time. 01:00:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life coach,personal growth,laws of attraction,lawMany people spend a tremendous amount of time and energy imagining what they would have done differently. Most don’t realize that spending their energy and pashttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/07/26/how-well-do-you-know-yourselfSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/07/26/how-well-do-you-know-yourself/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/07/26/how-well-do-you-know-yourselfWed, 26 Jul 2017 20:00:00 GMTHow Well Do You Know Yourself? How well do you know you?  This is a burning question that needs to be answered, if you want to use the Laws of Attraction, with conscious awareness, to get what you want in life. It’s all too easy to rattle off your dislikes and likes.  Pet peeves, what makes you laugh and or cry and what has the power to scare you to death.   You know the rhythm of music that moves your soul and touches you at an energetic healing level.  And without exception you know what inspires you to higher heights.  With an intimacy of self that no one can ever have, you know and have clear understanding of your idiosyncrasies, the things that make you, quintessentially, you.  However, there is so much more to you than what life is reflecting back to you.  How well you know yourself and understand your intrinsic abilities and how to use them will denote how well you can play the game of life, thereby manifesting exactly what you want.  So, how well to you know you, your latent talents and secret gifts. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore how to get to know you better.   01:30:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Law of Attraction,Life Coaching,Choices,Olivia LashleyHow well do you know you?  This is a burning question that needs to be answered, if you want to use the Laws of Attraction, with conscious awareness, to get whhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/07/19/understanding-the-power-of-being-patientSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/07/19/understanding-the-power-of-being-patient/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/07/19/understanding-the-power-of-being-patientWed, 19 Jul 2017 20:00:00 GMTUnderstanding The Power of Being PatientIt has been said that patience is a virtue.  Attractioners, it is so much more than that.  It’s the difference between you getting what you want and not getting what you want.  The Universal Law of Patience supports the ability to choose a specific action or reaction to an anticipated manifestation.  In short, you get to choose how you will behave until the thing that you desire comes into tangible form.  Patience is all about your ability to choose to be in the flow with tolerance and understanding. The Universal Law of Patience supports you in maintaining your “faith in the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.”  Hebrews 11:1.  The Universal Laws are like a gigantic jig saw puzzle, they have a design and flow that fits seamlessly together unlike anything the human eye can perceive.  The Universal Laws are all interconnected.  Without faith, there is no belief.  Without belief, there can be no manifesting of the things that you are wanting to experience in life. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore patience and what cultivating this in your life can mean for you and the desires of your heart.   01:26:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,life coach,the law of attraction,the law of patienceIt has been said that patience is a virtue.  Attractioners, it is so much more than that.  It’s the difference between you getting what you want and not gettinghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/07/05/you-dont-control-whether-i-live-or-die-i-doSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/07/05/you-dont-control-whether-i-live-or-die-i-do/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/07/05/you-dont-control-whether-i-live-or-die-i-doWed, 05 Jul 2017 20:00:00 GMTYou Don’t Control Whether I Live Or Die: I DO!!“The reason the Father loves Me is that I lay down My life in order to take it up again. 18: No one takes it from Me, but I lay it down of My own accord. I have authority to lay it down and authority to take it up again. This charge I have received from My Father.” John 10:17-18 It’s time to take control of what is yours to control. We as a people, have, for too long allowed others to dictate our fates. From our health to wealth; from our growth and spiritual understanding to our personal connection to the Divine. We have even been controlled in  the way in which we choose to express ourselves.  What we eat, how we dress, how we talk, and how we think.  As a result we find ourselves in a position in which we have forgotten how powerful we are. We have forgotten that we are the co-creators and the orators of the lives that we are living.  We have forgotten God’s Universal Laws which applies to everything in the heavens and earth. It’s time to take your life back!  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore God’s Laws and you. 01:29:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dea,life coach,the laws of attraction in action,law of atta,Olivia LashleyWe as a people, have, for too long allowed others to dictate our fates. From our health to wealth; from our growth and spiritual understanding to our personal chttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/06/28/who-is-in-control-of-your-lifeSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/06/28/who-is-in-control-of-your-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/06/28/who-is-in-control-of-your-lifeWed, 28 Jun 2017 20:00:00 GMTWho Is In Control of Your Life?You may have asked yourself this question once or twice in your life or one hundred times, “who is in control of my life?”  You usually go there when you are determined to accomplish a goal that has been fraught with setbacks.  Or when life has taken you to the abyss and is spiraling out of control. How much control do you have over your life and do you know what that control is? Most people aren’t even aware that their lives are manifesting based on the subplots and counterplots that they are running.  You can take control of your life.  However, in order to do that you must understand the Universal Law of Engagement so that you can work within that paradigm.   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at who is really in control of your life. 01:25:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life coach,Law of attraction,Choice Expert,Olivia LashleyYou may have asked yourself this question once or twice in your life or one hundred times, “who is in control of my life?”  You usually go there when you are dehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/06/14/creating-your-recipe-for-living-your-lifeSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/06/14/creating-your-recipe-for-living-your-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/06/14/creating-your-recipe-for-living-your-lifeWed, 14 Jun 2017 20:00:00 GMTCreating Your Recipe for Living Your LifeLife is nothing if not a recipe. Your choices for your life are the ingredients for the recipe of your life.  Your clarity of the end result or what you want to manifest or happen in your life will determine the choices you make.  And the Universal Laws of Attraction can help you to create with intent and perfection every time.    Let’s use cake making as your metaphor of life.  You need eggs, butter, sugar and flour as the basic ingredients for your pound cake. To that, depending on what you want the end product to taste like, you can add essences, fruit, alcohol, sour cream, nuts and veggies etc.   There are always ingredients necessary for anything that you are putting together.  If you are baking a pound cake you wouldn’t use liver, heart, kidneys or meat.  However, you could choose to use tallow or lard instead of butter, thus, greatly impacting taste, texture, smell and final outcome.  Your life is like creating your favorite recipe or singing the harmonic lyrics to your all time favorite song.  How does this translate to you living the life you want to live and what does it take to create your unique recipe for your life?  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at how to construct your recipe of life.  01:49:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,life coach,the laws of attraction in action,its my life its my choiceLife is nothing if not a recipe. Your choices for your life are the ingredients for the recipe of your life.  Your clarity of the end result or what you want tohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/06/07/whats-the-one-thing-that-is-derailing-your-successSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/06/07/whats-the-one-thing-that-is-derailing-your-success/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/06/07/whats-the-one-thing-that-is-derailing-your-successWed, 07 Jun 2017 20:00:00 GMTWhat’s The One Thing That Is Derailing Your Success?The term success is relative to who you are, and basically, what you feel or see success as being.  Remember the old adage, “One Man’s Meat Is Another Man’s Poison?” This is how relative success is.  But what isn’t relative is when you choose to allow something that has happened in your past to block you from achieving your desired goals.  What’s crazy is that what’s blocking you is almost always attributed to one thing.  While it might not appear that way, it is.  Whether large or small the wall that you have thrown up has imprisoned you.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at how to get back on track. 01:30:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Laws of attraction in action,Its my life my choice,Choices,Olivia LashleyThe term success is relative to who you are, and basically, what you feel or see success as being.  Remember the old adage, “One Man’s Meat Is Another Man’s Poihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/05/31/part-ii-starting-my-life-over-againSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/05/31/part-ii-starting-my-life-over-again/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/05/31/part-ii-starting-my-life-over-againWed, 31 May 2017 20:00:00 GMTPart II Starting My Life Over AgainIn last week’s episode of My Life My Choice we discuss the elements needed in “Starting My Life Over?”  In Part II we are going to explore taking your “atomic” word, that’s the one word that sums everything up that you are going through to the next level. This creates a personalized supportive manifesting dynamic.  The precursor to “consciously” getting what you want in life is making the right choice.  To make the right choice you need to know with clarity what you want. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley as we look at taking your self talk to the next level. live by clicking link  or call in on 646-727-2759 you can download free podcast at iTunes http://apple.co/2qTTCgS  01:00:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Life Coaching,Personal Growth,Law of AttractionIn Part II we are going to explore taking your “atomic” word, that’s the one word that sums everything up that you are going through to the next level.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/05/24/how-do-i-start-my-life-over-againSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/05/24/how-do-i-start-my-life-over-again/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/05/24/how-do-i-start-my-life-over-againWed, 24 May 2017 20:00:00 GMTHow Do I Start My Life Over Again?When your life comes to a grinding halt it’s usually associated with the loss of someone or something.  The feelings of loss could be as a result of a death, a divorce, a drifting away.  Out growing people, places and things or the thing that fit so perfectly before is no longer a good fit.  Whatever the cause your reaction is one in which you have experienced loss.   In the pain of that loss you have reacted in a way that it has shut you off or shut you down.   The fact that you are still breathing means that there is still life left in you, and although you may be down you are not out.  As long as you are physically breathing, life will gather momentum and demand that you consciously participate in the direction you want to go in.  So how do you start your life over again?  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at starting over. 01:08:00My Life My Choicenodrwendydearborne,Law of attraction,Personal Growth,spirituality,OlivialashleyWhen your life comes to a grinding halt it’s usually associated with the loss of someone or something.  The feelings of loss could be as a result of a death, ahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/05/17/what-are-you-really-trying-to-tell-yourselfSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/05/17/what-are-you-really-trying-to-tell-yourself/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/05/17/what-are-you-really-trying-to-tell-yourselfWed, 17 May 2017 20:00:00 GMTWhat Are You Really Trying To Tell Yourself?Join us live by clicking the link http://bit.ly/2pImhrO or by calling in 646-727-2759 Everything that happens in our lives, including the if I wouldha, shouldha and couldha’s is supplying us with life changing information. This information is used as a foundation from which we base many things, including, but not limited to our emotional responses to life, but ultimately the choices we choose to make. There are times in your life where you may have flown off the handle or become unglued about a seemingly minor incident. Even you, after calming down, find yourself saying, “Wow! That was a little OTT (over the top). Umm I guess I’m more stressed out than I thought I was.” Your physical, mental or emotional auto-response, to any given situation supplies you with a live stream of intelligence. This creates a wonderful dynamic in which you get to use your response to find clarity for your choice making process. So what are you really trying to tell yourself by the action and reaction you have to life? Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at ways to figure out what you are trying to tell yourself by your behavior. 01:00:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,intrinsic life coach,lifecoaching,personal growth,self talkYour physical, mental or emotional auto-response, to any given situation supplies you with a live stream of intelligence. This creates a wonderful dynamic in whttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/05/10/is-wearing-rose-colored-glasses-wrongSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/05/10/is-wearing-rose-colored-glasses-wrong/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/05/10/is-wearing-rose-colored-glasses-wrongWed, 10 May 2017 20:00:00 GMTIs Wearing Rose Colored Glasses Wrong?Your glass can be half empty or half full.  You can wear rose colored glasses and see everything a certain way the good the bad the ugly and pretty too.  Optimism and pessimism is a personal choice by which you view your world and your life. There is nothing wrong with any of the above views, whether optimist or pessimist, it’s all good.  When it becomes a problem, or not so good, is when your view of life isn’t reflecting back to you what you want to see.  You get to choose the filter from which you view your life from.  Change your filter and you will change your life.  Choice is a Universal Law that dictates how you live your life!    Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and artist as we look at you and the power of choosing the right lens to view your life from. 01:18:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,law of attraction,life coaching,personal growth,olivia lashleyYour glass can be half empty or half full.  You can wear rose colored glasses and see everything a certain way the good the bad the ugly and pretty too.  Optimihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/05/03/21-day-forgiveness-project-unleashing-your-powerSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/05/03/21-day-forgiveness-project-unleashing-your-power/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/05/03/21-day-forgiveness-project-unleashing-your-powerWed, 03 May 2017 20:00:00 GMT21 Day Forgiveness Project Unleashing Your PowerConsciously using the Universal Laws of Attraction, takes consistent action.  Because we are emotional beings we can react to things that we experience in our lives in a myriad of ways.  We can be enraged, sad or hurt.  We can play the blame game, be resentful, hateful and sometimes downright mean and spiteful.  Within reason, and befitting the situation all the above feelings are normal.  What isn’t normal is our inability to let go of these emotions that become toxic to every facet of our lives. The 21 Day Forgiveness Project is all about you and learning the transformative art of forgiveness.  This will allow you to let go of emotional toxicity and move on by unlocking and or unblocking the channels that are preventing your manifestations or blessings from being realized. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and intrinsic coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as explore the 21 Day Forgiveness Project. 01:34:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy d,life coach,forgiveness,Olivia lashley,spiritualityConsciously using the Universal Laws of Attraction, takes consistent action.  Because we are emotional beings we can react to things that we experience in our lhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/04/26/why-does-god-keep-letting-me-make-the-wrong-choicesSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/04/26/why-does-god-keep-letting-me-make-the-wrong-choices/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/04/26/why-does-god-keep-letting-me-make-the-wrong-choicesWed, 26 Apr 2017 20:00:00 GMTWhy Does God Keep Letting Me Make The Wrong Choices?There is a fine line, so fine that it can be missed when it comes to God, choices and you.  Omnipotent is a word that is used to describe God or your chosen deity.  The ultimate power to know, see, do, hear, speak and be all is omnipotence.   We have been told that God knows what’s best for us and to allow God to make that happen.  And yet, we have been told to ask for what we want, believing that we have it already and we will receive it. Knock and the door will be open. We’ve been basically told that we don’t have to do anything, but just exist.  We’ve been giving disinformation, and for most people, if they are honest, they will say, life hasn’t turned out the way in which they wanted. We’ve be told, “Watch God laugh when you try to make something happen yourself.”  Ironically, there is an element of truth to this saying, but it’s not what you think.  Understanding who you are and your role in YOUR choice making process is paramount to you making the right choices for your life.   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and intrinsic coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore God, choices and you. 01:28:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,life coach,spirituality,Olivia lashley,mylifemychoiceThere is a fine line, so fine that it can be missed when it comes to God, choices and you.  Omnipotent is a word that is used to describe God or your chosen deihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/03/29/can-you-tell-me-where-exactly-god-isSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/03/29/can-you-tell-me-where-exactly-god-is/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/03/29/can-you-tell-me-where-exactly-god-isWed, 29 Mar 2017 20:00:00 GMTCan You Tell Me Where Exactly God Is?This is a question that believers and non believers have asked themselves for as long as man has been in existence.  Where exactly is God? There are raging debates about the existence of God; who, what and where God is located.  And yet, we have been told categorically God is everywhere, within you, in heaven, in the Universe...in that rock or piece of carved wood, above you, below you and everywhere in between. These questions have given rise to a global trillion dollar self-help industry, and have kept the zillion dollar traditional church industry/ministries in business. From New Age to Evangelic Ministries and everything in between, including Wiccan and Paganism all claim to have the answers that people are seeking when trying to find God.  So, where do you think God is? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expressions Coach And Artist as we weigh in on this subject. 01:49:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Choice Expert,Life Coaching,the laws of attraction in action,Law of AttractionThis is a question that believers and non believers have asked themselves for as long as man has been in existence.  Where exactly is God? There are raging debahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/03/22/get-off-the-self-help-merry-go-round-going-nowhereSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/03/22/get-off-the-self-help-merry-go-round-going-nowhere/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/03/22/get-off-the-self-help-merry-go-round-going-nowhereWed, 22 Mar 2017 20:00:00 GMTGet Off The Self-Help Merry-Go-Round Going NowhereStop! Enough!  No More Self-help Books, Webinars, Seminars Or Retreats Get off this self imposed merry-go-round to nowhere. How many more self-help books are you going to read?  How many more webinars and seminars are you going to listen to?  How many more retreats are you going to attend?  How much more advice are you going to seek before you take conscious and decisive action on what you want for your life?  Being a perpetual student of spirituality is a wonderful thing.  Consciously gathering knowledge filled with its latent power is a must, yet how much knowledge is needed before you take action?  You see, knowledge without action is just knowledge.  Taking right action on the spiritual knowledge you have acquired is a transformative thing.  Not only does the knowledge become a powerful force, supporting your forward momentum, it creates the invisible Universal dynamics needed for transformational change in your life.  If you are looking for a way to transform your life, then take action by using the knowledge you have acquired year after year, after year to achieve your desired goal. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expressions Coach and Artist as we explore getting off the self help merry-go-round and using the power of your spiritual knowledge base to achieving your dreams. 01:32:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Self help,Life Coaching,choice expert,Olivia LashleyStop! Enough!  No More Self-help Books, Webinars, Seminars Or Retreats Get off this self imposed merry-go-round to nowhere. How many more self-help books are yhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/03/15/im-not-broken-im-not-damaged-and-i-dont-need-to-be-fixedSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/03/15/im-not-broken-im-not-damaged-and-i-dont-need-to-be-fixed/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/03/15/im-not-broken-im-not-damaged-and-i-dont-need-to-be-fixedWed, 15 Mar 2017 20:00:00 GMTI’m Not Broken I’m Not Damaged And I Don’t Need To Be FixedWhen things go wrong in life, as they are apt to do, people naturally experience setbacks.  Sometimes this setback literally means that they hit rock bottom.  Sometimes the rug is pulled from under them and other times it feels like they have been rended in two.  If you have experienced you very own personal setback and hit bottom or have been rended in two, it doesn’t mean that you are broken, damaged and or in need of fixing.  What it might mean for you is an opportunity to choose a new and  fresh start with an excellent foundation to build upon. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore what we can do when things go wrong in our lives and we’ve been torn in two. 01:29:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Choices,personal growth,life coach,intrinsic coachWhen things go wrong in life, as they are apt to do, people naturally experience setbacks.  Sometimes this setback literally means that they hit rock bottom.  Shttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/03/08/am-i-doing-the-right-thing-working-at-what-im-good-at-but-its-not-my-passionSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/03/08/am-i-doing-the-right-thing-working-at-what-im-good-at-but-its-not-my-passion/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/03/08/am-i-doing-the-right-thing-working-at-what-im-good-at-but-its-not-my-passionWed, 08 Mar 2017 21:00:00 GMTAm I Doing The Right Thing: Working At What I’m Good At But It’s Not My Passion?Is what you are doing in life your passion?  Or is what you’re doing how you make money? The distinction between the two is important. There is a huge difference between the two.  And I can hear you asking, “But, can’t it be both?”  Actually, no, it can’t.  Many would disagree and disagree venomously, yet the Universal Law of Space clearly states that no two things can occupy the same space”at the same time.”  Many people have missed out on living their dream life because they have chosen not to pursue their passion.  “Get a real job,” they say. ”And do your passion on the side, you know, because artists starve and people of that ilk live a hand to mouth existence.”  So, where does that leave you in your understanding of what’s at stake and wanting to pursue your passion? To learn more about the Laws of Attraction and what action you can take in your life visit The Laws of Attraction In Action Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne, Choice expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Intrinsic Expression Coach and Artist as we explore working and working your passion.   01:22:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choices,Olivia LashleyMany people have missed out on living their dream life because they have chosen not to pursue their passion. “Get a real job,” they say. ”And do your passion ohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/02/22/the-art-of-visualization-and-manifestationSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/02/22/the-art-of-visualization-and-manifestation/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/02/22/the-art-of-visualization-and-manifestationWed, 22 Feb 2017 21:00:00 GMTThe Art of Visualization And ManifestationIf you have ever created a vision board or used conscious visualization to support you in manifesting what you want or if you are just curious about the process then this show is for you. Seeing is believing!  And while that may smack of being a little ambiguous, seeing truly is believing.  But not in the sense that in order to believe in something you must first see it in its tangible form.  The ability to see something before it comes into physical form start way before.  It begins with The Art of Visualization.  Many people use only a portion of the Universal Law of Visualization and as a result experience challenges with getting what they want in life. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at visualization, the Universal Law and you.   01:21:00My Life My ChoicenoDr wendy dearborne,choice expert,life coaching,personal growth,Olivia lashleyIf you have ever created a vision board or used conscious visualization to support you in manifesting what you want or if you are just curious about the processhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/02/15/how-do-i-start-getting-my-life-on-trackSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/02/15/how-do-i-start-getting-my-life-on-track/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/02/15/how-do-i-start-getting-my-life-on-trackWed, 15 Feb 2017 21:00:00 GMTHow Do I Start Getting My Life On Track?Are you struggling to move forward and attain your desired goals?  Health, wealth, love, career, business, money etc?  Well you are not alone. Millions of people are experiencing the same struggle as you.  In todays show we will be discussing the importance of the right “self talk” and give you three implementable solutions that can help you get your life on track.   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore three ways of getting your life on track. #attractioners #thelawsofattractioninaction #choiceexpert #choices #Entrepreneur 01:17:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,choice expert,intrinsic coach,spiritualit,personal groAre you struggling to move forward and attain your desired goals?  Health, wealth, love, career, business, money etc?  Well you are not alone. Millions of peoplhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/02/08/are-your-actions-getting-you-what-you-wantSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/02/08/are-your-actions-getting-you-what-you-want/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/02/08/are-your-actions-getting-you-what-you-wantWed, 08 Feb 2017 21:00:00 GMTAre Your Actions Getting You What You Want?What action are you taking in your life that is creating the things that you want to manifest?  And is the action you are taking, the right action?  You see, if you don’t take the right action you will not experience your desired results.  Most people miss this nuance and as a result or reaction for missing this step they never seem to manifest what they desire.                                          James 2:17 states, “Even so faith, if it hath not works, is dead, being alone.” The Universal Law of Action simply states, “that you must do something mentally and or physically to support the things that you want to manifest in your life.”  It’s important to understand that action works in tandem with reaction.  What this means is that the work(s) that you need to do to bring your faith alive is to take the action that will initiate and sustain the thing you want to manifest.  The manifestation is the reaction.  Let’s look at this way, if you have a kite you want to launch without having all the requirements in place, including the wind to support your action, here’s what will happen; it won’t take off and or its flight will not be sustained.  And so it is with your dreams and your desires. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore the Universal Law of Action. Click link to join the facebook group; The Laws of Attraction In Action #attractioner #thelawsofattractioninaction #choiceexpert #choices #Entrepreneurs   01:08:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,choice expert,laws of attraction,law of attraction,Personal GrowthWhat action are you taking in your life that is creating the things that you want to manifest?  And is the action you are taking, the right action?  You see, ifhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/02/01/what-role-does-value-play-in-your-lifeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/02/01/what-role-does-value-play-in-your-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/02/01/what-role-does-value-play-in-your-lifeWed, 01 Feb 2017 21:00:00 GMTWhat Role Does Value Play In Your Life?Most people really don’t think in terms of value when making a choice. Perhaps it’s fair to say most people tend to think what’s in it for me.  We tend to think in terms of likes or dislikes or the unfavorable or favorable end result.  It’s important to understand that everything that we do in life reflects it relative worth, merit or importance to us.  The Universal Law of Value, not to be confused with Marx’s law of value simply states that everything that happens for your life has meaning and worth.   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore the Universal Law of Value, you and making your life happen. #thelawsofattractioninaction #choiceexpert #itsmylifemychoice #choices #attractioners 01:27:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,the laws of attraction,The Law of Attraction,Spirituality,personal developmentMost people really don’t think in terms of value when making a choice. Perhaps it’s fair to say most people tend to think what’s in it for me.  We tend to thinkhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/01/25/what-are-you-using-your-imagination-forSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/01/25/what-are-you-using-your-imagination-for/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/01/25/what-are-you-using-your-imagination-forWed, 25 Jan 2017 21:00:00 GMTWhat Are You Using Your Imagination For? As we begin to scratch the surface on the power of self talk, we begin to explore the Universal Laws or Spiritual Laws that support greater understanding behind self talk.  Our imagination is where we live.  Mystics have throughout the ages told us that to consciously manifest what we desire we must first use our imagination. We must go to where we live. The imagination has a couple of purposes; the correlation of subconscious and conscious thoughts, images and feelings and communication and expression of those thoughts, images and feelings.  So, could there be a greater purpose for your imagination than what you are using it for? And, what are you using your imagination for?  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach & Artist as we delve into the imaginary world of our imagination. Join our Facebook live interactive group for downloadable worksheet, live tutorials and more... #thelawsofattractioninaction #choiceexpert #itsmylifemychoice #choices #attractioners #entrepreneur #womeninbusiness 01:57:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,choiceexpert,the laws of attraction,Olivia LashleyAs we begin to scratch the surface on the power of self talk, we begin to explore the Universal Laws or Spiritual Laws that support greater understanding behinhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/01/04/i-cant-speak-to-me-like-that-can-iSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/01/04/i-cant-speak-to-me-like-that-can-i/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2017/01/04/i-cant-speak-to-me-like-that-can-iWed, 04 Jan 2017 21:00:00 GMTI Can't Speak To Me Like That Can I?How you speak to yourself is how your life will unfold.  2017 is all about understanding the need to consciously direct your self-talk in a way that is conducive to you achieving or experiencing what you want for your life.  Most people are unaware that their self-talk is undermining the very thing that they say they want and are striving for.  Given that you are speaking to yourself 24 hours per day and 365 days a year and this talk is creating your life, it is in your best interest to consciously enter into a productive dialog with self.  This takes clarity, organization and execution and practice, practice, practice.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore self talk. 01:22:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,the laws of attraction,Law of Attraction,Choices,spiritualityHow you speak to yourself is how your life will unfold.  2017 is all about understanding the need to consciously direct your self-talk in a way that is conducivhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/12/28/looking-back-over-2016-as-we-move-into-2017Spiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/12/28/looking-back-over-2016-as-we-move-into-2017/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/12/28/looking-back-over-2016-as-we-move-into-2017Wed, 28 Dec 2016 21:00:00 GMTLooking Back Over 2016 As We Move Into 2017  Before New Year’s Eve arrives, NOW would be a good time to reflect on the last 362 days of your life.  As you look back embrace the lows and the highs with the same passion, because each thing you have experienced has been instrumental in the shaping of you.  And frankly you got through it  or are making your way through it…whatever it was and or is.   It’s time to use that experience to move you forward. Join me, Dr Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at where we have been and where we are going.    For more information and tutorials on how to use the Laws of Attraction visit thelawsoattractioninaction.com 01:31:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life coach,Life Coaching,laws of attraction in action,Law of AttractionBefore New Year’s Eve arrives, NOW would be a good time to reflect on the last 362 days of your life.  As you look back embrace the lows and the highs with thttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/12/21/is-truth-the-greatest-gift-of-allSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/12/21/is-truth-the-greatest-gift-of-all/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/12/21/is-truth-the-greatest-gift-of-allWed, 21 Dec 2016 21:00:00 GMTIs Truth The Greatest Gift of All?You know a ½ truth still equals 1 lie.  The greatest gift you can give your self is “truth” the whole truth and nothing but your truth and living your authentic expression of that truth.  Living an inauthentic life means that you are living a lie and as a result you suppress who you really are meant to be in this life.  The knock on effect of living your life as a lie has compounded interest that you wouldn’t begin to believe. It is astounding the things that you get and don’t because of  being in inauthentic! There are things that you have prayed for which never manifest, because you are not being true to you.  Things that you have attained, yet can’t hold on to is a result of you not living an authentic life. You are both the giver and receiver of this wondrous gift that can set you free like nothing else can do.  No one has the power to give this gift of your truth to you, only you can do that.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore truth and the gift it brings.  Also click the link become a part of the laws of attraction in action Facebook group.  Download free life coaching PDF's and watch live life coaching recording. #thelawsofattractioninaction #choiceexpert #itsmylifemychoice #choices #attractioners #entrepreneur #womeninbusiness 01:29:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Life Coaching,Self help,Law of Attraction,spiritualityYou know a ½ truth still equals 1 lie.  The greatest gift you can give your self is “truth” the whole truth and nothing but your truth and living your authentichttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/12/14/how-to-achieve-your-highest-potentialSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/12/14/how-to-achieve-your-highest-potential/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/12/14/how-to-achieve-your-highest-potentialWed, 14 Dec 2016 21:00:00 GMTHow To Achieve Your Highest PotentialLast week’s show was, for a variety of reasons, a non-starter.  So, today we're bringing to you last week’s information with an added twist.  We're going to talk about many of the different aspects you encounter in life as you strive to achieve your highest potential. We’ll look at choices, word power and empowerment through consciously choosing to be authentic in all things.  We’ll touch on visualization, meditation, the Universal Laws of Attraction and what that means for your ability to manifest. We’ll explore why you may feel that you keep going in circles, and why it seems that you are unable to get to where you want to go.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach & Artist as we talk about life and you! 01:30:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,thelaw of attraction,Laws of attraction,spirituality,Life coachingLast week’s show was, for a variety of reasons, a non-starter.  So, today we're bringing to you last week’s information with an added twist.  We're going to talhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/12/07/lets-talk-about-it-your-life-and-living-itSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/12/07/lets-talk-about-it-your-life-and-living-it/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/12/07/lets-talk-about-it-your-life-and-living-itWed, 07 Dec 2016 21:00:00 GMTLet’s Talk About It: Your Life And Living ItToday we are going to talk about many of the different aspects you encounter in life as you strive to achieve your highest potential. We’ll look at choices, word power and empowerment through consciously choosing to be authentic in all things.  We’ll touch on visualization, meditation, the Universal Laws of Attraction and what that means to your ability to manifest. We’ll explore why you may feel that you keep going in circles, why it seems that you and are unable to get to where you want to go.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach & Artist as we talk about life and you! 00:16:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Laws of attraction,personal development,Olivia Lashley,Using the Law of attractionWe’ll explore why you may feel that you keep going in circles, why it seems that you and are unable to get to where you want to go.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/11/30/what-do-you-want-to-happen-in-2017Spiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/11/30/what-do-you-want-to-happen-in-2017/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/11/30/what-do-you-want-to-happen-in-2017Wed, 30 Nov 2016 21:00:00 GMTWhat Do You Want To Happen In 2017What do you want to happen for you in 2017?  It’s time to dust your old dreams off, rekindle your passion, create a plan and get in action.  Many people never realize their dreams or tap into their fullest potential, because they don’t know what to do.  They look at the end result in all its glory and simply become overwhelmed or underwhelmed.  Both feelings lead to a kind of paralysis that ends up in getting nothing done.  One week rolls into two which rolls into four and the next thing you know, it’s December 31st and you haven’t done a thing other than wish for the thing you want.  Whether it’s getting in shape, remodeling your home, going into therapy, learning a new language, becoming more spiritual, whatever it is that you want to manifest you’ll need a plan.    Also to support you in this process I’ll be conducting live coaching session on Facebook beginning December 1st 2016.  To participate in this live coaching event join the FB group The Laws of Attraction In Action. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach & Artist, as we look at what you can do to prepare yourself for the coming year.    #thelawsofattractioninaction #choiceexpert #itsmylifemychoice #choices #attractioners 01:38:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Law of Attraction,spirituality,2017,personal developmentWhat do you want to happen for you in 2017?  It’s time to dust your old dreams off, rekindle your passion, create a plan and get in action.  Many people never rhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/11/16/choosing-the-influences-you-allow-to-shape-your-lifeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/11/16/choosing-the-influences-you-allow-to-shape-your-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/11/16/choosing-the-influences-you-allow-to-shape-your-lifeWed, 16 Nov 2016 21:00:00 GMTChoosing The Influences You Allow To Shape Your Life You get to choose what and who you allow to influence the choices you make for your life.  It’s your life it’s your choice! This dictates how you show up in life and how life shows up and responds to you.  This is a fact.  Many people feel that they are at the mercy of external events in their lives.  But this isn’t true.  The truth is you are only at the mercy of what you are choosing to believe and as a result of that how you influence your choices. Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/Thelawsofattractioninaction/files/ to download your choice making equation worksheet. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at influence, ownership you and your life. 01:19:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,life coaching,laws of attraction,Law of AttractionYou get to choose what and who you allow to influence the choices you make for your life.  It’s your life it’s your choice! This dictates how you show up in lihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/11/09/are-you-stuck-at-the-fork-in-the-roadSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/11/09/are-you-stuck-at-the-fork-in-the-road/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/11/09/are-you-stuck-at-the-fork-in-the-roadWed, 09 Nov 2016 21:00:00 GMTAre You Stuck At The Fork In The RoadYou don’t know which way to turn.  You don’t know what to do.  You don’t know how to do it.  We’ve all been there.  And these feelings of not knowing what to do, create a kind of paralysis for movement towards what we say we want. So feeling stuck at your fork in your road is all about you, your decision making skills, clarity and choices.  It’s also about the Universal Law of Release.  Without invoking this law you create a scenario that throws into your pathway blocks and hurdles, which prevent you from moving along your pathway fearlessly, easily with conscious awareness and freedom of movement.   When you become stuck and have to make a choice as to which fork in the road you are going to take there is a tendency to panic and panic create fear and fear creates paralysis which skews your thinking.  Then you make choices that don’t serve you well. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach & Artist as we look at the Spiritual Law of Release and why it is important when moving forward in your life. 01:16:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,Life Coaching,Law of Attraction,wordYou don’t know which way to turn.  You don’t know what to do.  You don’t know how to do it.  We’ve all been there.  And these feelings of not knowing what to dohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/11/02/what-do-i-do-when-i-cant-do-what-i-know-i-must-doSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/11/02/what-do-i-do-when-i-cant-do-what-i-know-i-must-do/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/11/02/what-do-i-do-when-i-cant-do-what-i-know-i-must-doWed, 02 Nov 2016 20:00:00 GMTWhat Do I Do, When I Can’t Do What I Know I Must Do?What Do I Do, When I Can’t Do What I Know I Must Do? The greatest struggle that people experience is going with the grain instead of against it. How many of you struggle on a daily bases knowing what you need to do, yet feel like you are being emotionally pulled in a different direction? If what you need to do is based in fact...fact being something that is unchangeable...no matter your emotional or fictitious state, fact will always be in your peripheral vision. Or put another way, it, what you need to do will always be in the forefront of your mind.  So how do you deal with this when it happens in your life?  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore what you can do to support yourself during these times. 01:00:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Life Coaching,choice expert,personal growth,Law of AttractionThe greatest struggle that people experience is going with the grain instead of against it. How many of you struggle on a daily bases knowing what you need to dhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/10/26/why-arent-my-prayers-or-affirmations-workingSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/10/26/why-arent-my-prayers-or-affirmations-working/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/10/26/why-arent-my-prayers-or-affirmations-workingWed, 26 Oct 2016 20:00:00 GMTWhy Aren't My Prayers Or Affirmations Working?There is a right way to pray and a wrong way to pray.  Affirmations, much like prayers have a right and wrong approach too.  Praying and affirming both use the power of your spoken word, along with intention and attention for a desired out come.  When it doesn’t happen or turnout the way in which you wanted you’re left wondering, “What happen?  Why didn’t God help me?  Why didn’t the Universe manifest what I wanted?”  You’ve been told that all you have to do is pray and ask for what you want or affirm what you want hundreds of times a day and you’ll get it. WRONG! WRONG!! WRONG!!!  If it were that simple your life would be exactly the way in which you want it.  Yet, ironically it is as simple as that when done the right way. Click here to download your free PDF Worksheet outlining how to affirm and pray to get the results you want. https://www.facebook.com/groups/Thelawsofattractioninaction/files/ Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at how to pray and affirm aright. 01:30:00My Life My Choicenoprayer,spirituality,Affirmations,Dr Wendy Dearborne,ChoicesThere is a right way to pray and a wrong way to pray.  Affirmations, much like prayers have a right and wrong approach too.  Praying and affirming both use thehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/10/19/the-power-of-your-personal-choiceSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/10/19/the-power-of-your-personal-choice/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/10/19/the-power-of-your-personal-choiceWed, 19 Oct 2016 20:00:00 GMTThe Power of Your Personal ChoiceThe most powerful tool you will ever have in life is your ability to choose for self in the best interest of self.  Choice is the first of the Universal Laws and without it you have nothing.  Everything that you have experience in life is a result of a choice you’ve made.  This statement doesn’t condone negative and or harmful actions perpetrated against you and yours. Rather is sets the premise for empowerment through ownership, accountability and responsibility.  Today’s show is taking another look at the first brick in the Universal Laws of Attraction and consciously creating your life. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the power of your personal choice.   01:00:00My Life My Choicenodr Wendy dearborne,coach,choice expert,personal growth,Law of AttractionChoice is the first of the Universal Laws and without it you have nothing. Everything that you have experience in life is a result of a choice you’ve made.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/10/12/i-want-to-know-what-love-is-dont-youSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/10/12/i-want-to-know-what-love-is-dont-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/10/12/i-want-to-know-what-love-is-dont-youWed, 12 Oct 2016 20:00:00 GMTI Want To Know What Love Is Don't You?The word love is generally used to describe a myriad of deep feelings that you have for people, places and things.  Because you are unique your definition and my definition of love and all its feelings will differ.  And rightly so, yet still, when you say that you love me or this book or that dish, I know what you mean, simply because I will use my standard or definition of love to define what your meaning is.  Ironically, using your standard to define my meaning of what love is has been the demise of many relationships. And will continue to do so until we redefine the meaning of love. Beyond the norm that we know to be associated with the word love it is actually an immutable Universal Law whose definition is all about transmutation or “movement of change.” The Universal Law of Love isn’t about the warm and fuzzies or the cold and frigid, it’s all about supporting change.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at Love in all its glory. 01:00:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Life Coaching,spirituality,Olivia lashely,expressionBeyond the norm that we know to be associated with the word love it is actually an immutable Universal Law whose definition is all about transmutation or “movemhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/10/05/forgiveness-is-a-spiritual-law-on-which-your-life-is-builtSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/10/05/forgiveness-is-a-spiritual-law-on-which-your-life-is-built/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/10/05/forgiveness-is-a-spiritual-law-on-which-your-life-is-builtWed, 05 Oct 2016 20:00:00 GMTForgiveness Is A Spiritual Law On Which Your Life Is BuiltForgiveness isn’t just about being and saying sorry or an act of contrition or consciously acknowledging what you may or may not have done wrong or been wronged.  Forgiveness has way more value in our lives than a simple contritious act of being sorry.  It is far more reaching than that.  All religious, spiritual and metaphysical doctrines speak, teach and preach at length about forgiveness.  What isn’t said is that forgiveness frees up mental, emotional and physical real estate so we can use that space to create what we want in our lives.   Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and intrinsic coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the far reaching effects forgiveness has on our lives. 01:21:00My Life My Choicenoforgiveness,Dr Wendy Dearborne,Life Coaching,spirituality,Universal Laws of AttractionForgiveness isn’t just about being and saying sorry or an act of contrition or consciously acknowledging what you may or may not have done wrong or been wrongedhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/09/28/do-our-thoughts-really-manifest-into-physical-thingsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/09/28/do-our-thoughts-really-manifest-into-physical-things/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/09/28/do-our-thoughts-really-manifest-into-physical-thingsWed, 28 Sep 2016 20:00:00 GMTDo Our Thoughts Really Manifest Into Physical Things?This question, “do my thoughts become physical things?” is a dilemma that many people face and ponder.  People associate things that happen in their life with being unlucky or lucky, hit or miss or the right or wrong timing, even being in the right or wrong place at the right or wrong time.  Yet life and living is more organized than that.  Mystics and teachers throughout the ages have taught the philosophy behind Universal Law or spiritual law of manifesting .  From secret organizations to the world of the internet we’ve been told that thoughts, your thoughts can and will become physical things. This concept on the surface appears to be difficult for people to embrace, yet we do this all the time.  The reality you are currently living in started out as a thought that you had, whether you choose to believe this or not, it’s a Universal Law. Consciously change your thoughts and you change the world you live in. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore our thoughts manifesting into physical things. And checkout our book of the month "Thoughts Are Things by Prentiss Mulford" 01:18:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,thoughts,spirituality,manifestation,Olivia LashleyThis question, “do my thoughts become physical things?” is a dilemma that many people face and ponder.  People associate things that happen in their life with bhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/09/21/opposites-do-more-than-attract-they-show-you-the-waySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/09/21/opposites-do-more-than-attract-they-show-you-the-way/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/09/21/opposites-do-more-than-attract-they-show-you-the-wayWed, 21 Sep 2016 20:00:00 GMTOpposites Do More Than Attract They Show You The WayIt has been said opposites attract.  Perhaps this is because nature is always trying to restore balance.  The Universal Law of Opposites isn’t about opposing forces or even opposition.  This Law clearly defines options available to us and supports our greater understanding for the need for “opposing” contrast in our lives. Maybe opposites do attract, however, the Universal Law of Opposites is all about supporting you in using the Law to attract what you want for your life. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach an artist and we explore the Law of Opposites and what that can mean for your life. 01:14:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice exper,life coach,spirituality,lawIt has been said opposites attract. Perhaps this is because nature is always trying to restore balance. This Law show us a pathway if we know what to look forhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/09/14/truth-the-effects-and-role-it-plays-in-our-livesSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/09/14/truth-the-effects-and-role-it-plays-in-our-lives/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/09/14/truth-the-effects-and-role-it-plays-in-our-livesWed, 14 Sep 2016 20:00:00 GMTTruth The Effects And Role It Plays In Our LivesTruth: The Affects And Role It Plays In Our Lives Truth is permissive and is the foundation on which your life is built.  So much hinges on this five letter word.  TRUTH! Yet for many of you speaking your truth is difficult and as a result your life is extremely complicated or at the very least filled with lots of wishes that this or that did or didn’t happen.  The Law of Truth like all other Universal or Spiritual Laws is resolute.  It plays a pivotal role in how we manifest all things in our lives.  Speaking your truth isn’t just about you.  Your truth has a domino effect impacting everyone who you come in contact with. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the Universal Law of Truth how it impacts our lives. 01:23:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choices,Olivia lashley,spirituality,my life my choiceSo much hinges on this five letter word. TRUTH! Yet for many of you speaking your truth is difficult and as a result your life is extremely complicated or at thttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/08/03/why-am-i-living-a-life-sentenceSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/08/03/why-am-i-living-a-life-sentence/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/08/03/why-am-i-living-a-life-sentenceWed, 03 Aug 2016 20:00:00 GMTWhy Am I Living A Life Sentence?Every day, every minute every second you are living out your life based on the twenty-six letters of the alphabet that you string together to formulate your word.  Each word you create brings conscious meaning and understanding to your thoughts.  Your words are used to communicate this understanding and are sent forth, to bring into manifestation that which you have asked for.  You are bonded to each vowel each consonant and to every syllable, for the words that you speak, write and think are what creates your life.  All spiritual text supports this, the power of your word to create and yet most have little understanding of that power and how it impacts lives.  Isaiah 55:11 So shall my word be that goeth forth out of my mouth: it shall not return unto me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist and we look at words and the power they have over your life. 01:39:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Choices,life coach,personal growth,spiritualityEvery day, every minute every second you are living out your life based on the twenty-six letters of the alphabet that you string together to formulate your worhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/07/27/patience-is-more-than-a-virtue-its-a-spiritual-lawSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/07/27/patience-is-more-than-a-virtue-its-a-spiritual-law/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/07/27/patience-is-more-than-a-virtue-its-a-spiritual-lawWed, 27 Jul 2016 20:00:00 GMTPatience Is More Than A Virtue It’s A Spiritual LawIn the instantaneous world you now live in, you have lost the art of Patience.  The Universal Law of Patience allows things to manifest or unfold in a time frame that is conducive to success and the highest good for all concerned.  It prevents things from transpiring in a way that skips small steps which undermine the goal or your desired manifestation.  The Universal Law of Patience provides you with the unique opportunity to experience and get to know “self” in a way that can only add to the cache of who you are.  It creates the space in which you can and will grow. Patience allows you to see you manifestation unfold before your eyes and make changes where change needs to be made.  Is it important to consciously invoke the Universal Law of Patience?  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore the need for patience in our lives. 01:30:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,law of attraction,choices,life coach,Olivia lashleyIn the instantaneous world you now live in, you have lost the art of Patience.  The Universal Law of Patience allows things to manifest or unfold in a time framhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/07/20/why-is-knowing-what-to-do-and-doing-it-sometimes-really-hardSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/07/20/why-is-knowing-what-to-do-and-doing-it-sometimes-really-hard/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/07/20/why-is-knowing-what-to-do-and-doing-it-sometimes-really-hardWed, 20 Jul 2016 20:00:00 GMTWhy Is Knowing What To Do and Doing It Sometimes Really Hard?Why Is Knowing what to do and doing it are totally different things.  Daily, millions of people struggle with this issue.  And their struggle is real.  And as a result of these mental and emotional phenomena, we wind up not experiencing and or getting the most out of life. What does this mean; better yet can this type of behavior be changed? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at “knowing it vs. doing it.”  01:00:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,choice expert,Life Coaching,knowing vs doing,Olivia lashelyWhy Is Knowing what to do and doing it are totally different things. Daily, millions of people struggle with this issue. And their struggle is real. And as ahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/07/13/you-dont-know-the-whole-story-so-asking-how-is-the-wrong-questionSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/07/13/you-dont-know-the-whole-story-so-asking-how-is-the-wrong-question/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/07/13/you-dont-know-the-whole-story-so-asking-how-is-the-wrong-questionWed, 13 Jul 2016 20:00:00 GMTYou Don’t Know The Whole Story: So Asking How Is The Wrong QuestionAsking the wrong questions will always get the wrong answers and in creating the life that you are wanting to manifest.  “How Do I” is totally the wrong question to ask self.  Asking how, when you are consciously using the Universal Laws of Attraction to manifest things into your life, taps into your past experiences, which have little bearing on the outcome.  Why? Because you don’t know the whole story!  And that fact alone means you need a different type of internal manifesting dialog. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore the self talk necessary to get you to your next level. 01:19:00My Life My ChoicenoDr wendy dearborne,choice expert,life coach,Olivia Lashley,expression coachAsking the wrong questions will always get the wrong answers and in creating the life that you are wanting to manifest.  “How Do I” is totally the wrong questiohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/07/06/is-there-a-difference-between-your-biological-family-and-your-spiritual-familySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/07/06/is-there-a-difference-between-your-biological-family-and-your-spiritual-family/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/07/06/is-there-a-difference-between-your-biological-family-and-your-spiritual-familyWed, 06 Jul 2016 20:00:00 GMTIs There A Difference Between Your Biological Family and Your Spiritual Family?There is a saying that states “your family can be a blessing or a curse!” Is there a difference between your biological family and your spiritual family?  In essence, the answer to that is no, there isn’t.  Yet, how each individual shows up in your life and the functions that they have agreed to perform are very, very different.  The indoctrinated ideals, along with the do’s and don’ts that you have been taught regarding our traditional biological family, if not understood has the potential to undermine your life. Both biological and spiritual members of your family play a key and powerful role in influencing your decision making process as well as holding sacred space for you. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we take a look at family and what that means. 01:18:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Choices,Law of Attraction,manifestation,Olivia LashleyThere is a saying that states “your family can be a blessing or a curse!” Is there a difference between your biological family and your spiritual family?  In eshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/06/29/is-failure-the-greatest-attribute-to-your-success-laws-of-polarity-dualitySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/06/29/is-failure-the-greatest-attribute-to-your-success-laws-of-polarity-duality/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/06/29/is-failure-the-greatest-attribute-to-your-success-laws-of-polarity-dualityWed, 29 Jun 2016 20:00:00 GMTIs Failure The Greatest Attribute To Your Success? Laws of Polarity & DualityThings that have happen in your life are called seasons, whether they are deemed failures or successes.  Each event or situation, each success or each failure is a season that has a divine purpose or a divine reason.  Where you find yourself now, today, this minute or where you have been, is all about you, God, the Universe and “show and tell.”  Your seasons are showing you and telling you what your options for creativity are.  These options are found within two opposite poles i.e. hot and cold.  This is the Universal Law of polarity who’s divine purpose is to present you with contrasts and parallels in the form of duality.  It is within this framework of polarity and the nature of the Universal Law of Duality, which addresses your emotions, so that you will find what you need to support you in making your choices.   Ecclesiastes 3:1 eloquently states “To everything there is a season, and a time, to every purpose under the heaven. A time to be born, and a time to die.”  It’s what you do in between that counts as what you choose to do make the life that you live. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore the polarity and duality of nature and life. 01:38:00My Life My ChoicenoDr wendy dearborne,choice expert,laws of attraction,loa,Olivia LashleyThings that have happen in your life are called seasons, whether they are deemed failures or successes.  Each event or situation, each success or each failure ihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/06/15/how-can-the-power-of-your-personal-story-enhance-your-life-law-of-attractionSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/06/15/how-can-the-power-of-your-personal-story-enhance-your-life-law-of-attraction/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/06/15/how-can-the-power-of-your-personal-story-enhance-your-life-law-of-attractionWed, 15 Jun 2016 20:00:00 GMTHow can The Power of Your Personal Story Enhance Your Life? Law of AttractionWe all have a story to tell!  And your life story is created from what has happened in your life, or as I like to say “for” your life, coupled with what you think is going to happen to you.  Your life story is center around who you were and who you are evolving to be.  It’s all about the ups and downs, the highs and lows, the joys and pains.  Many of people choose to allow the pain associated with their stories to paralyzed them or at the very least cripple them emotionally, mentally and physically.  You will always have an ace in the hole; a spirit that refuses to be crushed to death and be buried. Your spirit is indomitable! And this gives you an opportunity to use your personal story to enhance your life and to create it the way in which you want. You will always have the ability to invoke the Universal Law of Rebound. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore the ways to use your story to your fullest advantage. 01:18:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,Life coach,Personal Growth,Law of attractionWe all have a story to tell!  And your life story is created from what has happened in your life, or as I like to say “for” your life, coupled with what you thihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/06/08/should-i-stay-or-should-i-go-how-to-find-your-answersSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/06/08/should-i-stay-or-should-i-go-how-to-find-your-answers/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/06/08/should-i-stay-or-should-i-go-how-to-find-your-answersWed, 08 Jun 2016 20:00:00 GMTShould I Stay or Should I Go? How To Find Your AnswersThe biggest part of getting what you want and manifesting it in life is knowing what you want for your life. What ending are you wanting to see?  Having this kind of clarity can really cause havoc in your life and send us spiraling in all directions.  Why?  Because more often than not we feel that we don’t know what we are wanting and as a result there is a feeling of paralysis when making a choice…should I stay or should I go? “Agh! I don’t know what to do?”  However that’s not true.  You, me, we do know what we want and we do know what we need to do. Actually, know everything that we want and everything that we don’t want. It sometimes takes a little time sorting it out.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the push and pull of making choices 00:59:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,life coach,Olivia Lashley,expression coachThe biggest part of getting what you want and manifesting it in life is knowing what you want for your life. What ending are you wanting to see? Having this kihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/06/01/can-you-keep-your-secret-the-universal-law-of-secrecySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/06/01/can-you-keep-your-secret-the-universal-law-of-secrecy/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/06/01/can-you-keep-your-secret-the-universal-law-of-secrecyWed, 01 Jun 2016 20:00:00 GMTCan You Keep Your Secret? The Universal Law of SecrecyCan you keep your secret? Can you?  And Do you? There is a Universal Law of Secrecy that when invoked acts as a contingency plan to your manifestation happening and or happening in a smooth way.  Secrecy, in regard to manifesting goes beyond not telling what you are doing or being private.   It means “to be done without others having knowledge of it.”  This doesn’t means someone saying to you “I knew something was up…I just didn’t know what!”  It’s more like when your spouse of significant other blindsides you and calmly states, “I want out.  And I am leaving!   Whoa!  That came out of nowhere.  When did you decide to do this?”  And the response is “I’ve been thinking about this for the last year!” Now that’s a secret! Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at secrecy you and the Laws of Attraction. 01:30:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,laws of attraction,secret,Olivia lashleyCan you keep your secret? Can you? And Do you? There is a Universal Law of Secrecy that when invoked acts as a contingency plan to your manifestation happeninghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/05/25/i-dont-do-poverty-well-being-broke-is-no-jokeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/05/25/i-dont-do-poverty-well-being-broke-is-no-joke/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/05/25/i-dont-do-poverty-well-being-broke-is-no-jokeWed, 25 May 2016 20:00:00 GMTI Don’t Do Poverty Well: Being Broke Is No JokeMoney!  You may associate the lack of money with poverty or living a lifestyle that you don’t want.  Poverty or being broke as a joke is a state of mind that has manifested.  By the time you are aware that you are in dire financial straits, it’s already too late.  Lack of money is the effect of the cause…it’s not the cause of the effect or lack... your thinking is.  The Laws of Attraction don’t work.  If you could do one thing, that doesn’t require you to do anything illegal or morally wrong, to change your finances to get “them” where you want “them” to be, would you do it?  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we talk about what you can do to change your financial status. 01:27:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,coach,money,the universal laws of attractionMoney!  You may associate the lack of money with poverty or living a lifestyle that you don’t want.  Poverty or being broke as a joke is a state of mind that hahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/05/18/does-preparing-a-contingency-plan-bring-it-into-manifestationSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/05/18/does-preparing-a-contingency-plan-bring-it-into-manifestation/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/05/18/does-preparing-a-contingency-plan-bring-it-into-manifestationWed, 18 May 2016 20:00:00 GMTDoes Preparing A Contingency Plan Bring It Into Manifestation?“For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he:” Proverbs 23:7.  Biblical quotes, spiritual texts, religious doctrines, ol’ wives adages along with the new thought, metaphysical and spiritual communities state clearly “if you think it, you will manifest it!”  This is one of the foundational cornerstones taught within the Laws of Attraction.  The Secret by Rhonda Byrne and many other books published on using the Laws of Attraction are heavily based on this thought process.  So is it possible to prepare a contingency plan for something catastrophic without making it a reality?   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we turn this belief on it head, inside out and upside down. 00:23:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy deaborne,choice expert,life coach,laws of attraction,Olivia Lashley“For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he:” Proverbs 23:7.  Biblical quotes, spiritual texts, religious doctrines, ol’ wives adages along with the new thought,http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/05/11/flexibility-you-and-the-universal-laws-of-attractionSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/05/11/flexibility-you-and-the-universal-laws-of-attraction/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/05/11/flexibility-you-and-the-universal-laws-of-attractionWed, 11 May 2016 20:00:00 GMTFlexibility You And The Universal Laws of Attraction The Universal Law of Flexibility is exactly what the word means: capable of bending or being bent without breaking; this is flexibility. This law is about you choosing to be adaptable within your current situation.  It’s about finding the courage within you to move through your situation without resistance.  Flexibility allows you to find your unique foot and finger hold so you can push and pull yourself up.  Flexibility is choosing to consciously change your view finder lens and look at your life from a different perspective.  This law speaks to you about your willingness to change and authentically try something different.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at how flexibility impacts your life and what it can do for you. 01:23:00My Life My ChoicenoUniversal laws,Law of Attraction,dr wendy dearborne,Olivia Lashley,Life CoachingThe Universal Law of Flexibility is exactly what the word means: capable of bending or being bent without breaking; this is flexibility. This law is about youhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/05/04/potpourri-of-life-and-the-unversal-laws-of-attractionSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/05/04/potpourri-of-life-and-the-unversal-laws-of-attraction/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/05/04/potpourri-of-life-and-the-unversal-laws-of-attractionWed, 04 May 2016 20:00:00 GMTPotpourri of Life and the Unversal Laws of AttractionIn today’s show called the potpourri of life, we are using the Universal Law of Divine Flow to guide us and be in the moment.  We’ll be talking about choices, energy, addictions, holistic healing, health, medication, entrepreneurism, nutrition, meditation and how this all rolls into the Laws of Attraction In Action and what that can mean for you. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore the potpourri of life.      01:59:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Life Coaching,Choices,personal growth,laws of attractionIn today’s show called the potpourri of life, we are using the Universal Law of Divine Flow to guide us and be in the moment.  We’ll be talking about choices, ehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/04/27/hush-your-intuition-has-something-valuable-to-tell-youSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/04/27/hush-your-intuition-has-something-valuable-to-tell-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/04/27/hush-your-intuition-has-something-valuable-to-tell-youWed, 27 Apr 2016 20:00:00 GMTHush: Your Intuition Has Something Valuable To Tell YouIntuition:  Accurate insight and knowledge attained from sources unknown.  We all have access to our intuition, which means that we all have insight, accurate insight on the best choices to make for any given life situation. However, based on the fact that we as humans, tend to be afraid of the unknown, or we dislike being uncomfortable, we err on the side of caution and go with what we know or what feels good.  More often than not, this doesn’t serve our purpose well.  And in consciously using the Laws of Attraction, ignoring your intuitive directives will create a setback with our manifestation.  Can you get passed your fears and can you train yourself to use your intuition?   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore those two questions 01:28:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Life Coaching,choice epxert,law of attraction,Olivia lashleyIntuition:  Accurate insight and knowledge attained from sources unknown.  We all have access to our intuition, which means that we all have insight, accurate ihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/04/20/is-your-mental-emotional-physical-and-spiritual-house-in-orderSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/04/20/is-your-mental-emotional-physical-and-spiritual-house-in-order/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/04/20/is-your-mental-emotional-physical-and-spiritual-house-in-orderWed, 20 Apr 2016 20:00:00 GMTIs Your Mental, Emotional, Physical And Spiritual House In Order?Far too often in our lives, in spite of doing “the work needed,” the things that we want to manifest, don’t.  For all intent and outward purposes we are doing all the right things.  Affirming and or praying to conceptualize our vision into a habitual thought form. We are engaging our emotion via our five senses as Dr. Wendy has suggested that we do.  And yet, we get this close, to our desired manifestation that we can taste it and see the golden flecks of success in its eyes.  And then, chaos ensues and it slips away from our grasp.  With the resilience that is an intrinsic part of our ability as humans to continue to thrive, we shrug off our misadventures saying, “it wasn’t for me or it wasn’t my time or God has something better in store for me.”  I have two questions, How do you know it’s not for you or it’s not your time or that God has something better in store for you?Is your mental, emotional, physical and temporal body or house in order? Many of the things that you want to manifest CANNOT and WILL NOT because your house isn’t right in all things.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at getting your spiritual and physical house in order. 01:48:00My Life My ChoicenoDr wendy dearborne,Choices,life coach,spirituality,Olivia lashleyFar too often in our lives, in spite of doing “the work needed,” the things that we want to manifest, don’t.  For all intent and outward purposes we are doing ahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/04/13/step-into-your-power-base-and-let-go-of-disempowermentSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/04/13/step-into-your-power-base-and-let-go-of-disempowerment/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/04/13/step-into-your-power-base-and-let-go-of-disempowermentWed, 13 Apr 2016 20:00:00 GMTStep Into Your Power Base And Let Go of DisempowermentYou are powerful beyond measure.  What or who has made you believe otherwise?  Failure isn’t a yardstick by which you beat yourself with.  Failure is an amazing gift.  In fact, it’s a blessing that is designed to set you upon the right pathway, for you to create the life that you are wanting to live. If you have experienced that sinking gut wrenching feeling of disempowerment and abject failure, then I’m happy to tell you that you have experience your first taste of true empowerment.  Is this paradoxical?  No! It’s factual.  It’s all in the view finder lens that you choose to cover your inner or all Seeing Eye with. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression life coach and artist as we look at stepping out of powerlessness, into your all powerful base. 01:48:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,my life my choice,Life coaching,spirituality,Personal GrowthYou are powerful beyond measure.  What or who has made you believe otherwise?  Failure isn’t a yardstick by which you beat yourself with.  Failure is an amazinghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/04/06/am-i-asking-the-right-questions-of-godSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/04/06/am-i-asking-the-right-questions-of-god/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/04/06/am-i-asking-the-right-questions-of-godWed, 06 Apr 2016 20:00:00 GMTAm I Asking The Right Questions of God?We talk to God.  We pray to God.  We beseech God, rale, cry and scream at God.  We walk with God. We have other people liaise with God on our behalf.  We accept the blessings bestowed upon us by God, and readily reject that which we call accursed.   We do all of this on a daily basis and, yet, are we asking the right questions of God?  The current state of your life, your health, wealth, finances and your relationship with self and others will answer that question for you.  Talking with God isn’t something that you can learn, as in how to pray or recite an affirmation.  All that is good and has its place in our spiritual evolvement, yet, talking to God isn’t something that you learn; it’s something that you do.  It’s intrinsic or inherent to who you are. The ability to speak with God, and be heard by God is something that you came into being with.   So, are you asking the right questions of God? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore our ability to communicate with God. 01:33:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,my life my choice,God,spirituality,personal growthWe talk to God.  We pray to God.  We beseech God, rale, cry and scream at God.  We walk with God. We have other people liaise with God on our behalf.  We accepthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/03/30/is-my-perfectionism-preventing-me-from-achieving-my-goalsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/03/30/is-my-perfectionism-preventing-me-from-achieving-my-goals/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/03/30/is-my-perfectionism-preventing-me-from-achieving-my-goalsWed, 30 Mar 2016 20:00:00 GMTIs My Perfectionism Preventing Me From Achieving My GoalsIs my desire to be perfect preventing me from moving forward in my life?  Perfectionism when in control allows you to be at the top of your game by providing that razor shape edge that makes you stand above the rest.  Perfectionism when out of control is a subterfuge for fear of failure.  It’s a self imposed limiting belief.   It’s easier to set your bar to an unattainable level, that way you never have to face what people may or may not have to say about you and or your work.  You work very hard at the thing you are producing, but never ever produce a finished product.  You see, it’s always in the making, because it can always be better.  Are you using your perfectionism as a smoke screen to hide behind, or to put you at the top of your game? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at what limiting beliefs and perfectionism. 01:20:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,life coach,perfection,Olivia Lashley,my life my choiceIs my desire to be perfect preventing me from moving forward in my life?  Perfectionism when in control allows you to be at the top of your game by providing thhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/03/23/your-life-is-a-contractual-agreement-you-made-with-godSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/03/23/your-life-is-a-contractual-agreement-you-made-with-god/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/03/23/your-life-is-a-contractual-agreement-you-made-with-godWed, 23 Mar 2016 20:00:00 GMTYour Life Is A Contractual Agreement You Made With GodHave you ever wondered about the people in your life, especially those, who to put it mildly, you can’t abide to be around or being around them drives you to drink?  We make agreements with other souls, who are members of what is called our soul cluster and we are members of theirs.  The idea is that we’ll support each other to attain our highest soul growth, by what appears to be, any means necessary.   We are all in this dimension under a spiritual contract. And it’s a contract of choice that has been made of our choosing with the assistance of God and our celestial helpers.  This contractual agreement, we make prior to incarnating or being born into this life.  Our agreement is binding.  It’s a contract!!!!  We have created it for our soul growth, which ultimately is achieve by fulfilling our predestine life's purpose.  Our agreements are based on the mutual understanding that the relationship is ultimately about our personal and individual soul growth.  We are here for our own life/soul experiences and much like a supporting cast in a movie, we are also here, should we choose to support others in having theirs and allow them to support us in having ours.  Today’s show is to bring into your awareness two points;   We have chosen the life that we are living, yet even within that paradigm we are governed by the Universal Law of Freewill or Choice.Some of the worst experience that you have had with people, places and things can mean that they are the closest to you in spirit and catapulting you forward on your journey.   Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at why people, places and things show up in your life. 01:37:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Laws of attraction,law of attra,personal development,spiritualityHave you ever wondered about the people in your life, especially those, who to put it mildly, you can’t abide to be around or being around them drives you to drhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/03/16/enough-no-more-excuses-they-muddle-the-laws-of-attractionSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/03/16/enough-no-more-excuses-they-muddle-the-laws-of-attraction/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/03/16/enough-no-more-excuses-they-muddle-the-laws-of-attractionWed, 16 Mar 2016 20:00:00 GMTEnough No More Excuses They Muddle The Laws of AttractionDid you know your ability to use the Laws of Attraction to manifest what you want for your life, whether consciously or unconsciously is negatively impacted when you make an excuse?  We all have used excuses for a myriad of reasons to communicate what’s going on with us.  Sometimes it’s to explain away a situation that impacted you that you had no control over; a ten car pileup on the freeway that made you late for an appointment.  You may use excuses as a way to apologize, or to ask for forgiveness, to explain something away and or as a way of justification.  The underlying energy that is prevalent in an excuse, is to justify our behavior, because, inadvertently, our action has impacted someone else negatively.   There is another side to making excuses that people don’t generally think about, yet, nonetheless they are effect in every way every day.  Your excuses are impacting your ability to manifest what you want in your life.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the power excuses wield in our lives. 01:32:00My Life My Choicenospot making excuses,dr wendy dearborne,Life Coaching,laws of attraction,Law of AttractionDid you know your ability to use the Laws of Attraction to manifest what you want for your life, whether consciously or unconsciously is negatively impacted whehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/03/09/food-the-ultimate-sacrifice-and-the-laws-of-attractionSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/03/09/food-the-ultimate-sacrifice-and-the-laws-of-attraction/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/03/09/food-the-ultimate-sacrifice-and-the-laws-of-attractionWed, 09 Mar 2016 21:00:00 GMTFood The Ultimate Sacrifice And The Laws of Attraction Food The Ultimate Sacrifice And The Laws of Attraction It’s a fact, we are what we eat!  Everyone has an opinion about food, their people’s food and what it means to the global tribe they belong to.  Food is divvied up by cultural, traditional, spirituality, medicinal, geographical, regional North, South, East, West or Central properties.  Also, everyone has opinions about other people’s food and how it is prepared.  We know our personal likes and dislike along with our sensitivities.   We also know what foods will bring us the most comfort when feeling down, blue or just blah.  Our foods tend to be categorized not for the nutrients it provides, but by taste and emotional value it imparts to our lives. Lips will curl bearing incisors; hands are thrown up as if warding off an aggressor and shudders will run through our bodies, when we think about ingesting something that we really dislike.  Conversely our faces take on a blissful glow when we eat something that literally catapults us into our personal space of nirvana.  We are all aware of what the powers to be deem best for us to eat, thus, ensuring that we live long and vibrant and healthy lives.  What we haven’t taken into account, is that food, all food, whether animal, vegetable or mineral plays a major role in how we use the Universal Laws of Attraction and impacts how we show up in life.    Join me Dr.  Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley, expression coach and artist as we speak about food and the ultimate sacrifice is plays in the Laws of Attraction. 01:23:00My Life My ChoicenoLaw of Attraction,food,nutrition,Nutrition,Dr Wendy DearborneFood The Ultimate Sacrifice And The Laws of Attraction It’s a fact, we are what we eat!  Everyone has an opinion about food, their people’s food and what ithttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/03/02/the-art-of-make-belief-the-laws-of-attractionSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/03/02/the-art-of-make-belief-the-laws-of-attraction/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/03/02/the-art-of-make-belief-the-laws-of-attractionWed, 02 Mar 2016 21:00:00 GMTThe Art of Make Belief & The Laws of AttractionPeople struggle with believing their OWN visualizations and thoughts. People find it challenging to hold their vision make believing that what they’re wanting to attract into their lives will manifest. It’s important to understand that within the Laws of Attraction the action of "make belief" is paramount for you to manifest what you are wanting. How well do you make believe? If you take an honest look at your life and everything that is going on and has gone on, you will see how accurately you're able to make believe. This isn't about what you believe. This speaks of your inner truth; what you "BELIEVE" about what you are choosing to believe. This is where your ability to use the Universal Laws of Attraction becomes ALL powerful for you. It’s so important to understand the nuances when using the Laws of Attraction. More importantly, it’s imperative you understand how the Laws work independently of your conscious awareness. This is why you’ve found yourself saying, “How did I get here? Or I don’t believe this has happened to me again!”  Checkout the tutorial Understanding The Laws of Attraction Part I Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist and let's talk about make believing, you and the Universal Laws of Attraction. 01:27:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Life Coaching,Law of Attraction,Olivia lashley,manifestationPeople struggle with believing their OWN visualizations and thoughts. People find it challenging to hold their vision make believing that what they’re wanting thttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/02/24/did-you-hear-when-god-spoke-directly-to-youSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/02/24/did-you-hear-when-god-spoke-directly-to-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/02/24/did-you-hear-when-god-spoke-directly-to-youWed, 24 Feb 2016 21:00:00 GMTDid You Hear When God Spoke Directly To You?Do you hear when God speaks directly to you? Are you missing divine opportunities to create the life that you have asked for? You know that seemingly random thought that popped into your mind?  You know the one that you pooh poohed!?  Well that was your divine message.  It was God/The Universe answering your question on how you can efficiently and expediently make money, find your soul mate, get healthier, start a business, build a foundation, lose weight etc, and be of service to the world at the same time.  That was your co-created opportunity being presented to you.  And you missed it!  So, now what you gonna do? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore you, the Universal Laws of Attraction and divine messages. 01:22:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,coach,choice expert,Laws of Attraction,Law of AttractionDo you hear when God speaks directly to you? Are you missing divine opportunities to create the life that you have asked for? You know that seemingly random thohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/02/17/the-laws-of-attraction-and-communicationSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/02/17/the-laws-of-attraction-and-communication/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/02/17/the-laws-of-attraction-and-communicationWed, 17 Feb 2016 21:00:00 GMTThe Laws of Attraction And CommunicationWhat does communication mean to or for you?  Whatever it means to, or for you, it boils down to how you transmit and receive information.  Communication is key in the development of your internal and external relationships.  And you are in a relationship with everything in your world. Using the Laws of Attraction consciously or unconsciously is dependent on your ability to communicate in an effective way, what you are wanting to experience for your life.  The message or communiqué goes to the point of creation to be made manifest.  Communication is about you sharing yourself and receiving self on an energetic level. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist, as we look at communication you and the Universal Laws of Attraction. 01:23:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,life coach,spirituality,laws of attractionWhat does communication mean to or for you?  Whatever it means to, or for you, it boils down to how you transmit and receive information.  Communication is keyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/02/10/the-universal-law-of-equipoise-what-you-need-to-knowSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/02/10/the-universal-law-of-equipoise-what-you-need-to-know/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/02/10/the-universal-law-of-equipoise-what-you-need-to-knowWed, 10 Feb 2016 21:00:00 GMTThe Universal Law of Equipoise What You Need To KnowThere is always movement in the Universe, irrespective of what it might look like or feel like and or sound like, nothing is ever still. When you are asleep, or in a deep meditative stance you are always moving.  Energy is either moving into form, that’s into creation or moving out of form which is decreation.  But, whatever energy is doing it’s doing it with a balanced purpose.   The only way that creation and decreation or better yet, the manifestation of what you are wanting to come into your life can take place, is if you uphold the tenants of the Universal Law of Equipoise.   Equal energy is applied to both the creation and the decreation of things.  This Universal Law speaks to us about maintaining a balance.  We need to maintain balance for our manifestations to take place.  i.e. You can’t expect to not run into bad drivers, if you're always cussing and fussing about how incompetent people are when they get behind the wheel of their cars.  Understanding how this Law works can be the difference between you getting what you want for your life and never quite hitting your mark. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach along with Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the Universal Law of Equipoise and how it supports you in using the Universal Laws of Attraction more efficiently.  00:56:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life coach,my life my choice,Law of Attraction,Olivia LashleyWe need to maintain balance for our manifestations to take place. i.e. You can’t expect to not run into bad drivers, if you're always cussing and fussing abouthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/02/03/cancel-that-how-to-stay-focused-on-your-goalsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/02/03/cancel-that-how-to-stay-focused-on-your-goals/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/02/03/cancel-that-how-to-stay-focused-on-your-goalsWed, 03 Feb 2016 21:00:00 GMTCancel That: How To Stay Focused On Your GoalsOne of the biggest challenges that many of you face on a second by second, minute by minute basis is keeping your mind focused on your intention.  Your intention is what you want to manifest for your life.  However, I am painfully aware of the truth in this adage “energy flows where your attention goes.”  So, it’s imperative that you stay focused on what you're wanting to manifest for your life and not the things that have already come and gone.  And this is where the challenge lies, in finding ways to stay in alignment with the Universal Laws of Attraction, so what you are wanting to come into manifestation inadvertently isn't canceled out.  You can’t control your thoughts, but you can control how you react to them.  This is what this show is all about today, providing you with a simple workable strategy that helps you control how you react to your thoughts.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we give you insight on techniques that will support you in staying in alignment with your desired goals. 01:20:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,choice expert,life coach,olivia lashley,dr maxwell maltzOne of the biggest challenges that many of you face on a second by second, minute by minute basis is keeping your mind focused on your intention.  Your intentiohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/01/27/did-you-know-that-you-are-co-creating-your-life-with-godSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/01/27/did-you-know-that-you-are-co-creating-your-life-with-god/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/01/27/did-you-know-that-you-are-co-creating-your-life-with-godWed, 27 Jan 2016 21:00:00 GMTDid You Know That You Are Co-Creating Your Life With God?Some people are aware of the co-creation process.  And others have only given their ability to consciously co-create with God, nothing more than a cursory thought, and, that’s usually in hindsight or as an afterthought.  But for the vast majority of people, even those who do have a cursory understanding, this knowledge of manifesting and co-creating what they want in life, and how to use the tools they’ve been given to achieve this remains almost illusive.  Why is this?  Why is it that something so powerful, something so important to your very existence goes virtually unnoticed?  Some of this is due to traditional, cultural, societal, religious and or spiritual doctrines and practices.  And for others, it’s because of the way that life unfolds, most never see the role they play nor that of the participants involved in the manifestation process.  Many are under the impression that things just happen.    And as a result YOU are not cognizant of the power YOU have over your life and your manifestation process.  You, me, we are co-creating our lives with the Universal Creator of all things, via the Laws of Attraction, initiated into action with our thoughts, word and deeds.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach along with Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at your role in the co-creation process with God. 01:29:00My Life My ChoicenoLaws of attraction,co creation,manifestation,dr wendy dearborne,Olivia LashleySome people are aware of the co-creation process.  And others have only given their ability to consciously co-create with God, nothing more than a cursory thoughttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/01/20/healing-your-body-using-the-universal-laws-of-attractionSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/01/20/healing-your-body-using-the-universal-laws-of-attraction/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/01/20/healing-your-body-using-the-universal-laws-of-attractionWed, 20 Jan 2016 21:00:00 GMTHealing Your Body Using The Universal Laws of AttractionWe’ve been sold a bill of goods, which sadly most of us have bought into and the recompense has been poor health, poor life, poor me and the loss of how to heal oneself.  The price paid has been way, way, way too high.  We paid with the spiritual currency, of self.  And for the return on our investment, we lost conscious connection with self.  We’ve replaced the connection with goods that we bought.  We’ve been told to look outside of self for both the causations in our lives and the cures for our lives.  We have been told that it’s okay not to take ownership and responsibility for the state of our mind, body and our overall health. We paid for the knowledge that there is a pill or something outside of self that can fix us.   We’ve bought into the LIE, and it is a whopper, that it’s okay to assign accountability and blame to people, places and things when we find ourselves in a mental, emotional and physical and yes spiritual deficit.  The Universal Laws of Attraction are our conduits for the manifestation of all the good expressions that we want to experience in our lives.  Whether you believe this or not has no bearing on the fact that this is so.   If you want to experience your version of good health, wealth, soul enrichment, love, peace and joy etc.  you need to take your life back.    Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at healing your body using the Universal laws of Attraction. 01:19:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,life coach,olivia lashley,spiritualityWe’ve been sold a bill of goods, which sadly most of us have bought into and the recompense has been poor health, poor life, poor me and the loss of how to healhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/01/13/am-i-hunting-down-what-i-want-or-am-i-attracting-itSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/01/13/am-i-hunting-down-what-i-want-or-am-i-attracting-it/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/01/13/am-i-hunting-down-what-i-want-or-am-i-attracting-itWed, 13 Jan 2016 21:00:00 GMTAm I Hunting Down What I Want or Am I Attracting it?Many people use The Laws of Attraction to go on a hunt for what they want to manifest in life.  They approach the process of getting what they want like bringing down the manifestation; much like a lioness does to a gazelle on the Serengeti. With the first law in the Laws of Attraction being Choice/Freewill you get to CHOOSE how to use the Laws, and can use them in  any which way that you please.   However, it’s important to note that there is a marked difference between hunting and attracting.  While both require the expenditure of mental and physical energy, along with clarity, planning, end date, and executable and quantifiable action steps, they are as different as day is to night.  “to pursue with a single minded force or endeavor to obtain at all costs.”“to draw in with a single minded force causing approach at all costs.” Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and Olivia Lashley, expression coach and artist as we look at the manifestation process of hunting vs. attracting using the Universal Laws of Attraction. 01:00:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,life coach,olivia lashley,artisLaw of Attractioners go on a hunt for what they want to manifest much like a lioness does to a gazelle on the Serengeti. Yet is hunting the best use of the Lawshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/01/06/freedom-is-it-a-blessing-or-a-curseSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/01/06/freedom-is-it-a-blessing-or-a-curse/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2016/01/06/freedom-is-it-a-blessing-or-a-curseWed, 06 Jan 2016 21:00:00 GMTFreedom: Is It A Blessing or A Curse?Freedom!  What does that mean to you? Is it a blessing or a curse?  The Divine Universal Creator has imbued us with Universal Law of Freedom; and it’s not a gift, but a birthright.  For each of us freedom means something different, yet, in the end it will give each of us the same thing; the power to choose how we use our spiritual and physical currency…and I’m not only referring to money.  Or put another way, freedom gives us the power to choose how we use our minds to think and the action we take to create what we want for our lives.  Choice is the embodiment of freedom and freedom is the embodiment of choice.  It’s the power to determine for self without constraints or interference from external forces.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore freedom and the role it plays in our lives.  01:18:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,Life Coaching,spirituality,Olivia LashleyFreedom!  What does that mean to you? Is it a blessing or a curse?  The Divine Universal Creator has imbued us with Universal Law of Freedom; and it’s not a gifhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/12/30/now-what-ya-gonna-do-2016-has-kicked-your-door-inSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/12/30/now-what-ya-gonna-do-2016-has-kicked-your-door-in/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/12/30/now-what-ya-gonna-do-2016-has-kicked-your-door-inWed, 30 Dec 2015 21:00:00 GMTNow What Ya Gonna Do 2016 Has Kicked Your Door In?With 2016 kicking your door in, now would be the time to take a look at 2015 from an aerial vantage point with an objective eye.  You’re looking for your successes, wins and accomplishments, both small and large.  You’re looking at the things that didn’t pan out and what you are wanting to do with them.  You’re looking at the bad things that happened and seeing how they have impacted your life for the better.  In short you are looking at 2015 as a major stepping stone to creating what you are wanting for the 525,600 minutes of 2016.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at 2015 and how to use our experiences to support us in 2016. 01:10:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Coaching,Choices,personal development,Olivia lashleyWith 2016 kicking your door in, now would be the time to take a look at 2015 from an aerial vantage point with an objective eye.  You’re looking for your succeshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/12/23/forgiver-or-forgiven-who-benefits-the-mostSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/12/23/forgiver-or-forgiven-who-benefits-the-most/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/12/23/forgiver-or-forgiven-who-benefits-the-mostWed, 23 Dec 2015 21:00:00 GMTForgiver Or Forgiven Who Benefits The Most?Forgiveness, who benefits the most, the forgiven or the forgiver?  We have been taught a one-sided beneficent power of bestowing our forgiveness on people, places and things, whom we feel have transgressed against us in some shape or form.  For the most part we possess a seriously skewed perception of what forgiveness is and who the forgiver and forgiven is.  We have virtually no idea what occurs energetically, when with righteous indignation we withhold our forgiveness or with righteousness we bestow it.  The Universal Law of Forgiveness is resolute.   And this Law has one function and one function only.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore the function of the Universal Law of Forgiveness.  00:59:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Law of Attraction,Olivia Lashley,life coaching,spiritualityForgiveness, who benefits the most, the forgiven or the forgiver? we possess a seriously skewed perception of what forgiveness is and who the forgiver and forgihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/12/16/the-truth-about-the-universal-law-of-truthSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/12/16/the-truth-about-the-universal-law-of-truth/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/12/16/the-truth-about-the-universal-law-of-truthWed, 16 Dec 2015 21:00:00 GMTThe Truth About The Universal Law of TruthDo you know the difference between your truth and belief?  Your truth is one of your personal Universal Laws that is used for the manifestation of what you are wanting to create for your life.  Your truth is the LAW upon which the foundation of your belief and belief systems are built.  Your truth is where you live; it’s how you show up in life and how life shows up for you.  Your truth is the adhesive that bonds you to your word, and thus to what you choose to believe.  Your truth dictates how you used the first Universal Law in the Laws of attraction.   Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expressions coach and artist as we look at what’s the truth about the Universal Law of Truth and you. 01:00:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,Olivia lashley,expression coach,universal laws of attractionDo you know the difference between your truth and belief? Your truth is one of your personal Universal Laws that is used for the manifestation and your beliefhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/12/09/do-i-need-to-be-disciplined-for-the-law-of-attraction-to-workSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/12/09/do-i-need-to-be-disciplined-for-the-law-of-attraction-to-work/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/12/09/do-i-need-to-be-disciplined-for-the-law-of-attraction-to-workWed, 09 Dec 2015 21:00:00 GMTDo I Need to Be Disciplined For The Law of Attraction To Work?Discipline: Definition: activity, exercise, or a regimen that develops or improves a skill; a training.  As a Universal Law, Discipline adds much value to your manifestation process.  Much like belief, faith, silence, gratitude and space, discipline is one of the Universal pillars that support you in staying focused on your objectives.  Discipline improves usability, efficiency and productivity of all the other Universal Laws.  It hones and sharpens their individual and collective actions.  Like all the other Laws, when not used correctly the Universal Law of Discipline will show you what needs to be done, allowing you to course correct and keep yourself on track. Without consciously using the Universal Law of Discipline, it makes it that much harder to navigate the Law of Attraction and manifest what you are wanting for you life. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the Universal Law of Discipline, and how it can improve the odds for you getting what you want in life. 01:00:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Universal Law of attraction,Olivia lashley,Coaching,spiritualityAs a Universal Law, Discipline adds much value to your manifestation process. How? It hones your ability to focus on your objectives and negates fear.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/12/02/space-what-does-it-have-to-do-with-the-laws-of-attractionSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/12/02/space-what-does-it-have-to-do-with-the-laws-of-attraction/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/12/02/space-what-does-it-have-to-do-with-the-laws-of-attractionWed, 02 Dec 2015 21:00:00 GMTSpace What Does It Have To Do With The Laws of AttractionUniversal Law of Space supports you in the creation and manifestation of things that you are wanting for your life.   What the Law of Space provides is the understanding that two things cannot occupy the same space at the same time.  So when you are using the Universal Laws of Attraction it’s important to remember this fact.  The Universal Law of Space creates room for the attraction energy to flow unimpeded to the point of creation.  It also so provides you with the space for you to consciously get clear on what you want for your life as well as a multitude of needed to know things when using the Laws of Attraction.   Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we discuss how the Universal Law of Space can support your. 01:22:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,the laws of attraction,loa,olivia lashley,spiritualityUniversal Law of Space supports you in the creation and manifestation of things that you are wanting for your life.   What the Law of Space provides is the undehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/11/25/lets-take-the-universal-law-of-gratitude-to-the-next-levelSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/11/25/lets-take-the-universal-law-of-gratitude-to-the-next-level/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/11/25/lets-take-the-universal-law-of-gratitude-to-the-next-levelWed, 25 Nov 2015 21:00:00 GMTLet's Take The Universal Law of Gratitude To The Next LevelThere is a power within gratitude that transcends merely saying thank you or simply being grateful.  When consciously using the Universal Law of Gratitude you are taking the manifestation process to the next level.  Gratitude is more than giving God/The Universe the signal that you have energetically received what you are wanting and that your word IS made manifest. Taking the Law of Gratitude to another level of consciousness means understanding the power that Gratitude wheals for your life, and the underpinning role it plays in the Law of Attraction. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore different facets of the Law of Gratitude. 01:14:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Olivia Lashley,Life coaching,spirituality,Law of AttractionThere is a power within gratitude that transcends merely saying thank you or simply being grateful.  When consciously using the Universal Law of Gratitude you ahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/11/18/whats-my-role-within-the-laws-of-attraction-and-the-manifestation-processSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/11/18/whats-my-role-within-the-laws-of-attraction-and-the-manifestation-process/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/11/18/whats-my-role-within-the-laws-of-attraction-and-the-manifestation-processWed, 18 Nov 2015 21:00:00 GMTWhat’s My Role Within The Laws Of Attraction And The Manifestation Process?There is a divine order to everything in creation, including the Universal Laws.  The immutable Laws of Attraction are streams of vibrating energy that transmits your desires to the Universal Creative Process for manifestation.  There is a Universal Law of Divine Order and one of its functions is to oversee the role you play in your manifestation process.  And be under no illusion, you play the starring role in YOUR manifestation process whether you do this consciously or unconsciously. Keeping within the bounds and knowing your role in the manifestation process as stipulated by the Universal Law of Divine Order, isn’t about keeping you from coloring outside the lines; it’s all about giving you the reins, so you take the lead in consciously creating your reality/life. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we put into perspective the role you play in YOUR manifestation process. 01:25:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy,Olivia Lashley,understanding,Universal Laws of atrraction,loaThere is a divine order to everything in creation, including the Universal Laws.  The immutable Laws of Attraction are streams of vibrating energy that transmithttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/11/11/finding-your-personal-power-base-in-solitudeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/11/11/finding-your-personal-power-base-in-solitude/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/11/11/finding-your-personal-power-base-in-solitudeWed, 11 Nov 2015 21:00:00 GMTFinding Your Personal Power Base In SolitudeThe Universal Law of Solitude affords us the most amazing experience ever.  It is the end result of The Universal Law of  Silence, which we discuss last week.  Like silence, the Universal Law of Solitude plays an integral role in the creation of what we are wanting to manifest in life.  Understanding the subtle nuances of how the Laws work can be the difference between manifesting what you want for your life, and living a life trying to manifest what you are wanting. Join me, Dr. wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we delve deeply into the Universal law of Solitude and what that may mean to you. 01:30:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,laws of attraction,law,spirituality,personalThe Universal Law of Solitude affords us the most amazing experience ever.  It is the end result of The Universal Law of  Silence, which we discuss last week.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/11/04/is-not-keeping-silent-a-bad-thing-for-the-law-of-attractionSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/11/04/is-not-keeping-silent-a-bad-thing-for-the-law-of-attraction/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/11/04/is-not-keeping-silent-a-bad-thing-for-the-law-of-attractionWed, 04 Nov 2015 21:00:00 GMTIs Not Keeping Silent A Bad Thing For The Law of Attraction?The Universal Law of Silence is multifaceted and malleable like all other Universal Laws with the exception of one. Many people don’t realize the value and the magnitude that consciously choosing to keep silent has on how the Universal Laws of Attraction will work for them.  You’ve heard the sayings, “silence is golden.” Or the proverbial adage, “if you don't have something nice to say, then don't say anything at all.”  Or the one I love “shut the bleep up!”  When consciously using the Laws of Attraction there is a reason for maintaining your silence, and that reason is not about being secretive or sly or cunning.  It’s about creating an energetic dynamic within self, so that you can communicate with your Christ Consciousness, Higher Self, Your God Mind, Spirit or whatever term makes you feel comfortable. Silence creates a space so that, that which you are wanting can develop a strong root system, giving it a chance to thrive or be made manifest.   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley, expression coach and artist as we look at the Universal Law of Silence and how it will support you in getting what you want for your life. 01:21:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life coaching4coaches,life coach,personal growth,LOAThe Universal Law of Silence is multifaceted and malleable like all other Universal Laws with the exception of one. Many people don’t realize the value and thehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/10/28/creating-a-master-mind-group-the-universal-laws-of-attraction-in-actionSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/10/28/creating-a-master-mind-group-the-universal-laws-of-attraction-in-action/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/10/28/creating-a-master-mind-group-the-universal-laws-of-attraction-in-actionWed, 28 Oct 2015 20:00:00 GMTCreating A Master Mind Group & The Universal Laws of Attraction In ActionIt would seem that with every new rerelease of Napoleon Hill’s book “Think & Grow Rich”  and others like it, there is a push to create a master mind group or at the very least to belong to one, grows exponentially.  Yet, for those who do belong, few understand in terms of the Universal Laws what a true master mind means.  The simplicity of the master mind is huge.  Understanding what its true nature and function is, when implemented, will result in you experiencing unparalleled success in all facets of your life. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as well explore the truth about master minds. 01:00:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,laws of attraction,loa,manifestation,Olivia lashleyDo you understand the true nature and function of a master mind group? Today we will reveal what master mind means and how you can apply it to your life.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/10/21/conflict-is-it-a-bad-thing-to-experience-in-your-lifeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/10/21/conflict-is-it-a-bad-thing-to-experience-in-your-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/10/21/conflict-is-it-a-bad-thing-to-experience-in-your-lifeWed, 21 Oct 2015 20:00:00 GMTConflict Is It A Bad Thing To Experience In Your LifeBeing conflicted about who you are and what you are wanting for your life, will create or manifest or result in conflicted situations, events and experiences.  These will show up in your personal macrosphere as health disorders, financial woes, relationship blues, career blocks, environmental chaos and OMG! I hate my life.  Let’s get clear here, it’s not your life that you hate, it’s the unfolding of it that you hate, because if it was your life that you truly hated, you would cease to exist.  No matter the spiritual or religious doctrine that you personally subscribe to, you will find that this phrase is written everywhere, “what you sow is what you reap.” In the metaphysical community it’s, “what you send out into the Universe  is what comes back to you.”  If you are conflicted it simply means that you don’t have clarity surrounding what you want.  Conflict, in all honesty is not a bad thing and if looked at in its true nature you will see that it invokes the Universal Law of Contrasts.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we delve into conflict and how to reframe it so it can support you in creating the life that you want to live. 01:00:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,relationships,laws of attraction,Law of Attraction,Self helpBeing conflicted about who you are and what you are wanting for your life, will create or manifest or result in conflicted situations, events and experienceshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/10/14/how-do-i-get-the-laws-of-attraction-to-work-for-meSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/10/14/how-do-i-get-the-laws-of-attraction-to-work-for-me/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/10/14/how-do-i-get-the-laws-of-attraction-to-work-for-meWed, 14 Oct 2015 20:00:00 GMTHow Do I Get The Laws of Attraction To Work For Me? I get asked this question all the time.  Why can’t I get The Law of Attraction to work for me? People say The Law of Attraction works sometimes; they think this is because they have a vague understanding of the process.  Others say that it’s bogus and it just doesn’t work.  While others can get fairly consistent results, but they are not sure how they’ve achieved them.  Today’s show is about dispelling the uncertainty surrounding  the use of the Laws of Attraction.   It’s also about laying the ground work and establishing a solid foundation upon which you can build.  Remember it’s your foundation and you get to build it the way that will support you best. Join me, Dr Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist, as we share some of the fundamentals needed to establish your Laws of Attraction foundation. 01:11:00My Life My ChoicenoDr wendy dearborne,Life coach,choice expert,spirituality,the laws of attractionI get asked this question all the time.  Why can’t I get The Law of Attraction to work for me? People say The Law of Attraction works sometimes; they think thihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/10/07/what-are-the-laws-of-attractionSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/10/07/what-are-the-laws-of-attraction/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/10/07/what-are-the-laws-of-attractionWed, 07 Oct 2015 20:00:00 GMTWhat Are The Laws of Attraction? Millions of people have tried it, most have a hard time getting it to work and others are unable to maintain it consistently.  Yet, all seem to be a little more than curious about the Law of attraction, even when all is said and done, most have said it doesn’t work.  In a recent blog I wrote for Coaches4coaches, I stated that The Laws of Attraction have been erroneously condensed down to The Law of Attraction.  Omitting the “s” to make the word law instead of laws, have given the wrong information and impression to millions of people on how conscious manifestation works.   It’s Laws; not law of attraction.  If you want to be able to consistently and consciously manifest what you want in your life you must have an understanding of what this all means. In today’s show we will be discussing the Laws of Attraction verses the law of attraction and what this means for you and your ability to get what you want in life. Join me, Dr Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at what a difference an “s” makes. 01:30:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Life coach,Choices,personal development,metaphysicsUnderstanding how to use the LAWS of attraction with action to get what you wanthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/08/19/what-happens-to-you-after-an-abusive-relationshipSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/08/19/what-happens-to-you-after-an-abusive-relationship/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/08/19/what-happens-to-you-after-an-abusive-relationshipWed, 19 Aug 2015 20:00:00 GMTWhat Happens To You After An Abusive Relationship?When you get out of a bad relationship, whether it was just plain and simply wrong, or mentally and or physically abusive, most women and some men know what they don’t want ever again.  In talking with women who have been victims of abuse, most will speak candidly about why they stayed as long as they did.  They’ll discuss the turning point that encouraged them to leave.  They all know categorically what they don’t want to happen in their next relationship.   But, as a choice expert and coach, one of the most startling things I discovered was that most of the women didn’t know what they wanted.  Yes, they had it down in regards to what they didn’t want to happen, but not what they want to happen for their lives, for there future and this can turn out to be problematic. Join me, Dr Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look beyond what happens after an abusive relationship. 01:43:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Life Coaching,spirituality,mylife my choice,Olivia LashleyWhen you get out of a bad relationship, whether it was just plain and simply wrong, or mentally and or physically abusive, most women and some men know what thehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/08/12/understanding-universal-law-of-return-manifesting-and-youSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/08/12/understanding-universal-law-of-return-manifesting-and-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/08/12/understanding-universal-law-of-return-manifesting-and-youWed, 12 Aug 2015 20:00:00 GMTUnderstanding Universal Law of Return, Manifesting and YouDo you understand the Universal Law of Return? No! Do you really understand what this law means?  It's one of the fundamental laws of attraction that many people have a tendency to gloss over.  As a result return on that type of investment, leads to disastrous occurrences happening in their lives.  The Universal Law of Return is The Law of Attraction 101 and because it's so basic I feel that the raw potential and power of this law it is misunderstood or at the very least, underrated. Join me, Dr Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the latent untapped power found in the Law of Return. 01:23:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Life Coaching,Lifestyle,Olivia Lashley,personal growthDo you understand the Universal Law of Return? It's one of the fundamental laws of attraction that many people have a tendency to gloss over with leads to disashttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/07/29/waiting-on-gods-messengersSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/07/29/waiting-on-gods-messengers/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/07/29/waiting-on-gods-messengersWed, 29 Jul 2015 20:00:00 GMTWaiting On God's MessengersHave you ever asked God or your chosen deity for something, a sign, anything to let you know what you should do next?  And then waited and waited and waited, and then waited some more for an answer?  An answer that didn’t come, only to realize later that you may have missed it because of how events are unfolding in your life.  Did you know that the Universal Creator uses people, places and things to answer your requests?   So why do we miss out on the answers?   Answers which do come to us, yet we don’t seem to hear them. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert as I explore why we may be missing out on some of the most important messages in our lives, and what to do to tune in so you’ll hear them. 00:58:00My Life My ChoicenoChoice Expert,Dr Wendy Dearborne,Life Coaching,personal growth,spiritualityHave you ever asked God or your chosen deity for something, a sign, anything to let you know what you should do next? And then waited and waited and waited, anhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/07/22/how-do-i-find-my-spiritual-pathwaySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/07/22/how-do-i-find-my-spiritual-pathway/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/07/22/how-do-i-find-my-spiritual-pathwayWed, 22 Jul 2015 20:00:00 GMTHow Do I Find My Spiritual Pathway?For as long as man has known him/herself and continues to know him/herself, this burning question, “what is my spiritual pathway?” will to be asked for eons to come.  Spirituality.  Dictionary.com suggests that it means “the state or quality of being dedicated to God, religion, or spiritual things or values, esp as contrasted with material or immaterial things.” This word encompasses so much, and yet to define it is simply impossible, even when you look in a dictionary. Why is spirituality so hard to define?  Why are people continuously seeking a pathway to spirituality?  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach & artist as we take a look at spirituality and our pathways to it. 01:43:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,choice expert,Olivia Lashley,Expression coach,spiritualityFor as long as man has known him/herself and continues to know him/herself, this burning question, “what is my spiritual pathway?” will to be asked for eons tohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/07/15/real-talk-real-situations-real-livesSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/07/15/real-talk-real-situations-real-lives/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/07/15/real-talk-real-situations-real-livesWed, 15 Jul 2015 20:00:00 GMTReal Talk Real Situations Real LivesToday’s show is about real talk, real situations and real lives.  Do I, don’t I? What to do.  What not to do. Love, marriage, death, birth, mistakes, nutrition, conscious awareness, spirituality, choices, drugs, divorce illness, relationships, joys, pains are all apart of living.  So we will share our understanding, knowledge and expertise.  We are going to, as I call it, “Picasso Out.”  We’ll be talking on many subjects as they intuitively pop up. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we sit down and have a fireside chat about life and living it. 01:53:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Life Coaching,spirituality,personal growth,Womens healthToday’s show is about real talk, real situations and real lives.  Do I, don’t I? What to do.  What not to do. Love, marriage, death, birth, mistakes, nutrition,http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/07/08/spirituality-of-food-the-lost-art-eatingSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/07/08/spirituality-of-food-the-lost-art-eating/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/07/08/spirituality-of-food-the-lost-art-eatingWed, 08 Jul 2015 20:00:00 GMTSpirituality of Food: The Lost Art EatingSomewhere there has been a huge disconnect between the food we eat and where it comes from.  We have lost the art and understand of the value food brings.  But more importantly we have disconnected from the fact that food by nature of its creation is sentient, making it just as spiritual as you and me.  Like all things including you, food was and has been created on purpose for a purpose.  From texture, to shape, to color, to how and where it is grown plays a vital part how we live our lives.                                                                  "Your body doesn’t give you life: You give your body life." Food isn’t only the purported building block of your life; the food you choose to eat influences the way in which you make your life choices.  And as everything you do for your life is predicated on “choice,” food then become an integral part of your choice making equation. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and coach Olivia Lashley, expression coach and artist as we discuss The Spirituality of Food: The Lost Art of Eating 01:41:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,food,green smoothies,spirituality,life coachiesSomewhere there has been a huge disconnect between the food we eat and where it comes from.  We have lost the art and understand of the value food brings.  Buthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/07/01/have-you-set-the-right-goals-in-lifeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/07/01/have-you-set-the-right-goals-in-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/07/01/have-you-set-the-right-goals-in-lifeWed, 01 Jul 2015 20:00:00 GMTHave You Set The Right Goals In Life?Setting life goals is all you hear about these days, but how do you know if you have set the right goal for yourself. Part of achieving and succeeding in what you want in life is determined by the goals that you set for yourself or the end result that you want to happen. Many people set goals and in reality they have not set the stage for success.  You may have set some goals for yourself and found that it felt a tad anticlimactic when the goal was achieved. "Is this feeling normal?  Yes!  Far more than you’d think."  So how do you set goals that will allow you to be successful in all areas of your life and not experience that anticlimactic feeling? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne, Choice Expert and coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and artist as we look way in which to set your life goals. 01:25:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life coaching,choice expert,choices,women's issuesSetting life goals is all you hear about these days, but how do you know if you have set the right goal for yourself. Part of achieving and succeeding in whathttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/06/24/how-do-i-stop-the-negativity-from-running-around-my-headSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/06/24/how-do-i-stop-the-negativity-from-running-around-my-head/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/06/24/how-do-i-stop-the-negativity-from-running-around-my-headWed, 24 Jun 2015 20:00:00 GMTHow Do I Stop The Negativity From Running Around My Head?It happens all the time, images in black and white or full Technicolor surge to the forefront of your mind making you feel like screaming, crying and curling up into a tiny ball. Words, sounds, the memory of smells, the visceral feelings that you felt, the knowing within your scope of understanding that you know, the visions of past events that you’d rather keep buried or locked in the recesses of your mind.  New and old hurts that you’ve dissected and then catalogued for some sort of future reference…if needed.   The problem is, these catalogued events seem to magically escape the mental lock and key and surge to the forefront of your mind replaying like a horror movie starring you.  This is what I call going down into the rabbit hole of Alice’s wonder-land.  I wonder if I said this or I wonder if I did that.  These innocent questions start a chain reaction that compound.  And before you know it, somehow you’ve slipped and the perceived negativity that has happened in the past now runs rampant around your head unchecked, growing in power.  And as a result it becomes the focal point in your mind.  Your perceived negativity can be all consuming, yet it carries within it the answers that you are seeking.  The true understanding that you are wanting, and ironically, the magic you need to move you forward. Join me, Dr Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach as we look at the negativity and the benefits that it brings. 01:30:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Life Coaching,spirituality,Women,personal developmentIt happens all the time, images in black and white or full Technicolor surge to the forefront of your mind making you feel like screaming, crying and curling uphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/06/10/how-to-find-a-new-prespective-1Spiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/06/10/how-to-find-a-new-prespective-1/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/06/10/how-to-find-a-new-prespective-1Wed, 10 Jun 2015 20:00:00 GMTHow To Find A New PrespectiveFinding a new perspective for an old or new troubling situation can be a challenge.  It’s a challenge, because looking at the situation in the same way, from the same vantage point, doesn’t inspire new and creative thinking.   To create a new perspective, you have to take a step away from the situation.  This will enable you to look at it from a slightly different vantage point, or at the very least move around it.  Whatever you choose to do, the requirement is for you to find an answer to your troubling situation. And to achieve that you must do something different.    You may be familiar with the phrase, “I need to take a step back from the situation so I can clear my head!”  What does that really mean to you?  Outside of you wanting change, there is within that driving force something compelling you to do something different. You may have thought to solve your problem that you must change the attitudes, beliefs mindsets etc. of the players involved.  Changing or manipulating people, places and things to your way of thinking.   However, that doesn’t work.  In today’s show we’ll be talking about how to find a new perspective and then act on it! Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at finding a new perspective.   01:12:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life coach,choice,womens issues,spiritualityFinding a new perspective for an old or new troubling situation can be a challenge.  It’s a challenge, because looking at the situation in the same way, from thhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/06/03/triage-how-to-monitor-prioritize-your-lifeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/06/03/triage-how-to-monitor-prioritize-your-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/06/03/triage-how-to-monitor-prioritize-your-lifeWed, 03 Jun 2015 20:00:00 GMTTriage: How To Monitor & Prioritize Your Life Triage is a medical term that is used to prioritize the urgency in which a medical situations need to be dealt with. This entails visualizing what the end result will be if action isn’t taken based upon what is happening NOW.   Determination of urgency is measured using a prioritizing scale of 1- 3 or 3 - 1.  Requires immediate attention Can be delayed briefly Minimal intervention needed.   The term triage comes from the French verb trier, meaning to separate, sift or select.  Using this methodology you can apply the basic principle to your life and areas of your life that need to be looked at.  By creating your own personal triage, you can start looking at what needs to be addressed and then you get to choose in which order it’s done. Using the scale from 3 - 1 verses 1 - 3 closes the margin for error.  How?  By separating and selecting what’s not urgent, prevents you from being blindsided, by something you thought was a priority, only to find out later and to your detriment that it wasn’t. Applying a personal life coaching triage to your life isn’t about pointing out what’s wrong or your perceived failures.  It is about the ability to put you directly on the pulse beat of what needs to be done so that you can get to your goal. It allows you to make choices in the best interest of self with speed and efficiency.   So, what’s your life looking like and what needs your attention first? Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we take a look at how to prioritize your life. 01:30:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life coach,choices,Women,Olivia lashleyTriage is a medical term that is used to prioritize the urgency in which a medical situations need to be dealt with. This entails visualizing what the end resuhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/05/27/experience-empowerment-by-saying-no-and-meaning-itSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/05/27/experience-empowerment-by-saying-no-and-meaning-it/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/05/27/experience-empowerment-by-saying-no-and-meaning-itWed, 27 May 2015 20:00:00 GMTExperience Empowerment By Saying NO And Meaning It Saying NO can be the hardest two letter that you can ever utter, and the most empowering.  Saying no to your loved ones, to your children, husband and family and friends is monumentally challenging. Saying no to your employer and work colleagues is challenging also, but from a different stand point, but challenging none the less.  Saying no to people asking for charitable donations and no to the destitute, displaced and homeless asking for money, while standing on the corner with a hand written sign, has another set of challenges, all of which play havoc with your emotions.  Saying no to certain things can be a no-brainer.  No, you cannot have my left and right kidney!  No! I’m not giving you your car keys; you might not be aware of this, but you’re drunk. Within all of this, the irony here is, that the person you find it hardest to utter those two syllables to, and mean it, is yourself.  Saying no can hurt you too, because you know that it’s not what the other person wants to hear and they're hurting. There is nothing that you can do about their hurt, other than to be truthful in who you are.  By empowering you; you empower them. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expressions coach and artist as we explore empowerment through saying no. 01:30:00My Life My ChoicenoDr wendy dearborne,my life my choice,Life Coaching,Women,how to say noSaying NO can be the hardest two letter that you can ever utter, and the most empowering.  Saying no to your loved ones, to your children, husband and family ahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/05/20/sometimes-you-just-have-to-love-them-from-a-distanceSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/05/20/sometimes-you-just-have-to-love-them-from-a-distance/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/05/20/sometimes-you-just-have-to-love-them-from-a-distanceWed, 20 May 2015 20:00:00 GMTSometimes You Just Have To Love Them From A DistanceThis is a fact of life, which sometimes means, you have to implement with the ones that you love.  Within a relationship, family, friends etc sometimes, distance works best.  This should not be interpreted by you to mean that you won't and don't care.  Putting space, even mental space, in between you and people, places and things can sometimes be the wisest course of action for maintaining your sanity and health...and the relationship! Many people find this hard to do for a variety of reasons, however, I have found primarily, it’s because they feel guilty or a sense of duty that compels them to be up close and personal with whomever.   Sometimes you need to love the ones that you love from a distance it’s as simply complex as that. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expressions coach and artist as we talk about loving the ones that we love from a distance. 01:25:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Life Coaching,Women,women in business,spiritualityThis is a fact of life, which sometimes means, you have to implement with the ones that you love.  Within a relationship, family, friends etc sometimes, distanchttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/05/13/why-cant-i-be-rich-i-hate-having-a-cash-flow-problemSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/05/13/why-cant-i-be-rich-i-hate-having-a-cash-flow-problem/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/05/13/why-cant-i-be-rich-i-hate-having-a-cash-flow-problemWed, 13 May 2015 20:00:00 GMTWhy Can't I Be Rich I Hate Having A Cash Flow Problem"Why can't I be rich?  I hate having a cash flow problem" is something that many people have said in jest.  Although in jest,  the underlying spark that created the smoke screen was very, very, very real. The feeling of lack is real. If the law of attraction is right in I can have what I want.  I can manifest what I believe and dream of.  If the Universal Law is correct and all the other spiritual doctorines that are so casually bandied about, why do I have a constant cash flow problem? Understand why you don't have the funds that you are wanting is easy, it's what to do about it that may present a challenge. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expressions coach and artist as we look at what you can do about creating the wealth that you are wanting. 01:08:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Life Coaching,Choices,Personal Growth,Self help"Why can't I be rich?  I hate having a cash flow problem" is something that many people have said in jest.  Although in jest,  the underlying spark that createdhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/05/06/i-didnt-think-my-marriage-or-relationship-wouldve-been-like-thisSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/05/06/i-didnt-think-my-marriage-or-relationship-wouldve-been-like-this/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/05/06/i-didnt-think-my-marriage-or-relationship-wouldve-been-like-thisWed, 06 May 2015 20:00:00 GMTI Didn’t Think My Marriage or Relationship Would’ve Been Like This“I didn’t think my marriage or my relationship would be like this or turned out like that,” are common phases that I hear, and, I hear them far too often.  Many people enter into an intimate long term, committed relationship expecting to experience, until death do they part, that first, “OMG! Sukie-Sukie now” high.  You know, that all encompassing zing you felt when you locked eyes  and lips on each other that set your pheromones pumping and hormones jumping.   It’s that unnamable thing that attracted you to him/her in the beginning.  Like all things in creation there are ebbs and flows and your relationship, whether married or committed, is not exempt from life’s natural momentum.  The name of this game is whether you can weather the storms and build the type of long term relationship you are wanting.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne as we do a little real talk about you, expectations and your committed relationships. 01:01:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,relationships,marriage,life coach,spirituality“I didn’t think my marriage or my relationship would be like this or turned out like that,” are common phases that I hear, and, I hear them far too often.  Manyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/04/29/i-feel-like-a-broken-doll-wtf-happened-to-my-lifeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/04/29/i-feel-like-a-broken-doll-wtf-happened-to-my-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/04/29/i-feel-like-a-broken-doll-wtf-happened-to-my-lifeWed, 29 Apr 2015 20:00:00 GMTI Feel Like A Broken Doll: WTF Happened To My Life?When life happens it can leave you feeling battered, bruised and to be totally frank, feeling broken. This can stem from divorce, betrayal, settling for less, separation, death, overweight, loss of income etc.  Note to self: There is a difference between feeling like it and it actually being that way.  Life does, in its infinite wisdom creates space so the soul can heal and know and expand and grow.  This is what life is all about. The experiences you create and what you do with those experiences.  Everything that happens for your life is supporting you in the creation or manifestation of what you say you are wanting. The day when you wake up asking yourself, “WTF has happened to my life” is when your sub conscious desires have come into the awakening of your full conscious mind.  Its arrival means it’s time for you to make a conscious choice about your life! Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne, Choice Expert and Life coach as we explore what this awakening means 01:07:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life coach,spirituality,personal development,WomenWhen life happens it can leave you feeling battered, bruised and to be totally frank, feeling broken. This can stem from divorce, betrayal, settling for less, shttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/04/22/are-you-waiting-on-your-soul-mateSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/04/22/are-you-waiting-on-your-soul-mate/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/04/22/are-you-waiting-on-your-soul-mateWed, 22 Apr 2015 20:00:00 GMTAre You waiting on your soul mateSoul mate!  Having a clear understanding of what this term means can help put your life into perspective.  When thinking in terms of finding their soul mate, many people are looking for their dream version or mental movie of Mr. or Mrs. Perfect.  Ironically, for most, finding Mr. or Mrs. Perfect remains an elusive dream.  It can also mean that people settle for less than they are wanting in a relationship or that they choose to remain single.  From a spiritual standpoint would Mr. or Mrs. Perfect be your true soul mate?  And under your current belief system, who said that you are only eligible for one soul mate per life time?  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach as we explore the meaning of soul mate and what that can mean for you. 01:02:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,life coach,Life Coaching,Choices,Olivia lashleySoul mate!  Having a clear understanding of what this term means can help put your life into perspective.  When thinking in terms of finding their soul mate, mahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/04/15/10-things-to-remind-you-that-you-are-more-than-enoughSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/04/15/10-things-to-remind-you-that-you-are-more-than-enough/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/04/15/10-things-to-remind-you-that-you-are-more-than-enoughWed, 15 Apr 2015 20:00:00 GMT10 Things To Remind You That You Are More Than EnoughYour internal dialog isn’t always kind when critiquing the many things that you feel have gone wrong or right in your life.   In fact, a lot of the time the dialog is downright negative, even when it’s couched with fake loving ownership.   Not only is this not helpful in finding solutions to your problems and answers to the question that you have about your life and where to go with your life, it also creates other things that we must deal with.  Namely lack, limitation, fear, illness, anger, stagnation etc.    Today’s show has been inspired by an article I recently read, written by Madison Sonnier: 7 Things to Remember When You Think You’re Not Good Enough.  In our show today we will be discussing 10 self coaching points that will remind you that you have been and always will be more than enough.  How to implement them and the benefits you may experience. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore these 10 points. 01:17:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life coaching,Self help,Olivia Lashley,Law of AttractionYour internal dialog isn’t always kind when critiquing the many things that you feel have gone wrong or right in your life.   In fact, a lot of the time the diahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/04/08/building-your-spiritual-portfolioSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/04/08/building-your-spiritual-portfolio/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/04/08/building-your-spiritual-portfolioWed, 08 Apr 2015 20:00:00 GMTBuilding Your Spiritual PortfolioMany people invest a lot of time, effort and money in building their retirement plan or 401K.  Many spend a lot of time systematically building for a future that will eventually cease to exist.  This is a wonderful thing to do, because if you are not worried about finances and the financial “how am I going to’s” in life, you are free you to explore another portfolio, which is equal in value to your current retirement plan or 401K.  Your spiritual portfolio is your exit strategy from this dimension called life.  Building it takes time, effort, strategic planning, understanding and of course the risks associated with your choices.  Building your spiritual portfolio is all about where you choose to place your energy once you've decided what you are wanting to experience.  And of course, the return on your investment, ROI that you are expecting. Choice=Risk=ROI.  Bring to your awareness that you can create your spiritual portfolio that is just as powerful as your financial portfolio is fun, exciting and rewarding. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley as we explore, building your spiritual portfolio. 01:27:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,life coach,spiritual portfolio,Olivia lashleyMany people invest a lot of time, effort and money in building their retirement plan or 401K.  Many spend a lot of time systematically building for a future thahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/04/01/ye-are-gods-who-told-you-to-stop-believing-thatSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/04/01/ye-are-gods-who-told-you-to-stop-believing-that/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/04/01/ye-are-gods-who-told-you-to-stop-believing-thatWed, 01 Apr 2015 20:00:00 GMTYe Are Gods Who Told You To Stop Believing ThatIt has been written; it has been said; you have been told; it has been shown to you by you that “Ye are Gods.”  No matter the religion, the spiritual doctrine from fundamental to new thought, to Metaphysical to New Age there is one message that is the same.  And that message is that you are one with God or your chosen deity.  That fact, and it is a fact that you have come from or have been created by God or your chosen deity makes you a part of your creator.  Just like your parents and your children, or things that you have created, they are a part of you.  No they are not you, yet they are a part of you that can never be separated.  You are a part of that, which has created you, that which has supported you in coming into being or form.  And that gives you the right, to stand up and claim your heritage, and know that Ye Are Gods. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist for what will be a thought provoking episode of “My Life My Choice.” Psalm 82:6 “I have said, Ye are Gods; and all of you are children of the most High.” 01:30:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,life coaching,spirituality,personal development,Olivia LashleyIt has been written; it has been said; you have been told; it has been shown to you by you that “Ye are Gods.”  No matter the religion, the spiritual doctrine fhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/03/25/lets-talk-about-life-living-itSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/03/25/lets-talk-about-life-living-it/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/03/25/lets-talk-about-life-living-itWed, 25 Mar 2015 20:00:00 GMTLet's Talk About Life & Living ItIn today's show we will be discussing living your life from a spiritual, metaphysical or new thought perspective.  We’ll touch on many different subjects today: Energy, color, meditation, word power etc, all of which are invaluable for you having a greater understanding of who you are and what you are capable of achieving.   Life is a wondrous thing and to be lived to the fullest potential. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we share our wisdom, views and understandings. 01:29:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearbo,life co,spi,personal,womenIn today's show we will be discussing living your life from a spiritual, metaphysical or new thought perspective.  We’ll touch on many different subjects today:http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/03/18/ah-my-life-feels-like-a-giant-jig-saw-puzzle-with-a-billion-piecesSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/03/18/ah-my-life-feels-like-a-giant-jig-saw-puzzle-with-a-billion-pieces/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/03/18/ah-my-life-feels-like-a-giant-jig-saw-puzzle-with-a-billion-piecesWed, 18 Mar 2015 20:00:00 GMTAh: My Life Feels Like A Giant Jig-saw Puzzle With A Billion PiecesWith everything that you have going on in your life, all the choices that you have to make, it’s understandable that you can feel like there are a billion spiraling  things you have to do.  And, in truth, there are.  Yet, you’re unsure about what it is that you must to do or how to do it or even if it makes sense to do it.  Your life choices are just like the pieces of a gigantic jig-saw puzzle.  Sometimes you have to slot the piece in to see if it fits and even then you have to be 100% sure that it does.  Because sometimes the piece will look like it fits perfectly, yet when you go to build on it you find that it’s not the right piece after all.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley, expression coach and artist as we take a look at life and how best to work the puzzle. 01:00:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,life coach,life coaching,spiritualWith everything that you have going on in your life, all the choices that you have to make, it’s understandable that you can feel like there are a billion spirahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/03/11/negative-self-talk-what-it-is-how-to-stop-itSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/03/11/negative-self-talk-what-it-is-how-to-stop-it/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/03/11/negative-self-talk-what-it-is-how-to-stop-itWed, 11 Mar 2015 20:00:00 GMTNegative Self Talk: What It Is & How To Stop ItOne of the most self destructive things you can do is to talk negatively to self about self, followed by other people, places and things.  Negative self talk is like gossip on steroids.  It’s toxic!  It’s poisonous and harmful in ways that most do not understand.  Your spoken word is all that you have.  You are the sum total of the words that you speak to self and the words that you speak to others.  Your words are creating your life.  While life may be called an illusion because it comes and goes, you, creating your illusion through the power of your spoken word is very real.  And to that end, it is imperative that you begin the process of controlling your internal dialog.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore ways to stop negative self talk. 01:05:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,choice expert,life coach,life coaching tools,Olivia LashleyOne of the most self destructive things you can do is to talk negatively to self about self, followed by other people, places and things.  Negative self talk ishttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/03/04/how-to-nourishish-my-physical-emotional-mental-spiritual-selfSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/03/04/how-to-nourishish-my-physical-emotional-mental-spiritual-self/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/03/04/how-to-nourishish-my-physical-emotional-mental-spiritual-selfWed, 04 Mar 2015 21:00:00 GMTHow To Nourishish My Physical Emotional Mental & Spiritual SelfFood isn’t the only nourishment that is needed to keep the body healthy.  You also need to feed and nourish your mental, emotional and spiritual self.  This doesn’t only come from the eating of food, it comes from the thoughts we choose to think.  And yes, what we think is food and our thoughts feed our mental, our emotional and our spiritual self.  And, it also feeds the physical body.  Hence the sayings, “you are what you think!  And, you are what you eat!”  Mind food and body food only differ in vibrational frequency.  One is more dense then the other, yet still they are both food.  They both are designed to feed, support and sustain us.  So, what does it look like to feed and nourish you; not just the physical you! All of you!?  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at how to feed the mind, body, emotions and spiritual self. 01:29:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,life coaching,spirituality,rela,metaFood isn’t the only nourishment that is needed to keep the body healthy.  You also need to feed and nourish your mental, emotional and spiritual self.  This doehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/02/25/investing-in-yourself-what-is-roiSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/02/25/investing-in-yourself-what-is-roi/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/02/25/investing-in-yourself-what-is-roiWed, 25 Feb 2015 21:00:00 GMTInvesting In Yourself What Is ROIReturns on investments (ROI) are amazing.  People play the stock market; they have 401K’s or RIA’s all under the guise of making more money than they started out with.   People gamble on anything from the fastest horse to win the Derby, to how small was the smallest recorded snow flake.  People purchase homes, cars, clothes, shoes, electronics, holidays/vacations, augmentation surgeries and on and on.   This risk taking associated with all the above mentioned and then some, is all done with an expectation of a profitable return on their initial investment.     What return on your investment for your life are you looking for?  So, my questions to you are simple this ”what risks are you prepared to take for your health, spiritual wealth or well being, peace of mind, to live your dream, to be the embodiment of your life’s purpose?”  What is the  life ROI that you are wanting? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expressions coach and artist as we look at life and ROI’s. 01:05:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy deaborne,Choices,spirituality,Coaching,ROIReturns on investments (ROI) are amazing.  People play the stock market; they have 401K’s or RIA’s all under the guise of making more money than they started ouhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/02/18/whos-opinion-of-you-is-the-right-oneSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/02/18/whos-opinion-of-you-is-the-right-one/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/02/18/whos-opinion-of-you-is-the-right-oneWed, 18 Feb 2015 21:00:00 GMTWho’s Opinion of You Is The Right One?Everyone has an opinion about what you should or should not be doing.  What you could or could not have done and of course, what would or would not be best for you.  People are forever telling you that you must let go of this or that.  Or you should hold to this or that. They give this information to you freely, lovingly and sometimes, not so lovingly.  And yet, give it, they do.  And to what end?  How much do other people’s opinions of you matter and therefore influence the way in which you are choosing to live your life? Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expressions coach and artist as we discuss opinions and the role they play in your life. 01:15:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life coaching,spirituality,Olivia Lashley,metaphysicsEveryone has an opinion about what you should or should not be doing.  What you could or could not have done and of course, what would or would not be best forhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/02/11/when-someone-dies-where-do-i-put-this-pain-i-feelSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/02/11/when-someone-dies-where-do-i-put-this-pain-i-feel/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/02/11/when-someone-dies-where-do-i-put-this-pain-i-feelWed, 11 Feb 2015 21:00:00 GMTWhen Someone Dies Where Do I Put This Pain I FeelDeath is something that we all will experience, whether it is a loved one, friend, acquaintance, colleague or your chosen icon.  When they make their transition it impacts your life in a major way, simply, because you must transition too.  And transition can be painful, especially when we are speaking about the permanency of death and how it changes our view of life.  So what do you do with the pain and sorrow when it seems to overwhelm you?  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the sensitive subject of death, pain and what we can do to support ourselves. 01:19:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,death,transition,Life Coaching,Life coachDeath is something that we all will experience, whether it is a loved one, friend, acquaintance, colleague or your chosen icon.  When they make their transitionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/02/04/why-does-everything-in-my-life-go-wrongSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/02/04/why-does-everything-in-my-life-go-wrong/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/02/04/why-does-everything-in-my-life-go-wrongWed, 04 Feb 2015 21:00:00 GMTWhy Does Everything In My Life Go Wrong?When your life looks and feels like a hurricane, tsunami, tornado and an earthquake has simultaneously ripped through it, you may be asking yourself, “Why does everything in my life go wrong?  This pertains to relationships, health, finances, home, job, weather, politics, global warming, your car and even the dog…everything.  “Why does everything in my life go wrong? is a fair question to ask yourself.  However, that’s not the question that will give you the answers to move forward in your life.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore what this may mean and the best questions to ask yourself. 01:06:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Choices,personal development,Olivia Lashley,expressionWhen your life looks and feels like a hurricane, tsunami, tornado and an earthquake has simultaneously ripped through it, you may be asking yourself, “Why doeshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/01/28/pull-up-your-big-girl-panties-the-time-is-nowSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/01/28/pull-up-your-big-girl-panties-the-time-is-now/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/01/28/pull-up-your-big-girl-panties-the-time-is-nowWed, 28 Jan 2015 21:00:00 GMTPull Up Your Big Girl Panties: The Time Is NowPsst!  Ladies! Today’s show is for you. It amazes me, every time I use this phrase Pull Up Your Big Girl Panties the response I get is a little laugh, or a big laugh, a smile , a nodding of the head or a combination of all the above.  The one thing all responses have in common is this; all the women understand the true meaning behind the phrase, Pull Up Your Big Girl Panties.  I can literally hear and visually see their brains engaging giving themselves, as Coach Jesse would say, “a check up from the neck up!”  Pull Up Your Big Girl Panties is a supportive life coaching platform for women who are serious about making changes, permanent and positive changes in their lives…NOW!  Bottom line, it’s knowing how to convert the BS in your life into rich fertilizer to get what you want and we are going to show you how. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we talk about what this supportive life coaching platform offers women wanting to make change. 01:00:00My Life My ChoicenoDr wendy dearborne,Life coaching,metaphysics,spirituality,personal developmentPsst!  Ladies! Today’s show is for you. It amazes me, every time I use this phrase Pull Up Your Big Girl Panties the response I get is a little laugh, or a bighttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/01/21/dont-become-someone-else-liesSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/01/21/dont-become-someone-else-lies/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/01/21/dont-become-someone-else-liesWed, 21 Jan 2015 21:00:00 GMTDon’t Become Someone Else LiesIt’s really easy to become someone else’s good or bad opinion of you.  Ouch! You may not think so, but we do this all the time.  And we do this because we want to belong, because we are seeking approval, because we don’t know what we are wanting for self or we don’t know how to manifest what we want. And that is a dangerous place to be in, as it leaves you open and vulnerable to creating in your life things that you don’t want.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore this subject. 01:13:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Choices,Life Coaching,spirituality,personal developmentIt’s really easy to become someone else’s good or bad opinion of you.  Ouch! You may not think so, but we do this all the time.  And we do this because we wanthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/01/14/choice-what-does-it-mean-for-youSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/01/14/choice-what-does-it-mean-for-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/01/14/choice-what-does-it-mean-for-youWed, 14 Jan 2015 21:00:00 GMTChoice: What Does It Mean For You?What does your ability to choose for yourself mean to you?  Because choice is as intrinsic to us as breathing, we don’t think of what our ability to make choices in the best interest of self means.  What value do you place on your power of conscious choice?  Looking deeper to get a clearer understanding about the role your choice making process plays in your life, puts you on the fast track to creating the life that you want to live.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we delve into further into choices and what it means to us. 01:16:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,Life Coaching,Lifestyle,Olivia LashleyWhat does your ability to choose for yourself mean to you?  Because choice is as intrinsic to us as breathing, we don’t think of what our ability to make choicehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/01/07/your-power-is-in-conscious-choiceSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/01/07/your-power-is-in-conscious-choice/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2015/01/07/your-power-is-in-conscious-choiceWed, 07 Jan 2015 21:00:00 GMTYour Power Is In Conscious ChoiceEverything in life, your life, my life, our lives has originated out of the Universal Supply. The Universal Supply is a store house that is available to all  things in creation.   In order for you to access what you need from the Universal Supply, which is there for you to use, you have to make a choice.  Choice is the key to accessing the Universal Abundance, which is yours.  Choice is like a debit or credit card or a check.  Without it you have no access to your funds. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and holistic life coach and Olivia Lashley expressions coach and artist as we look at choice and the role it plays in your life. 01:18:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Life Coaching,spirituality,Olivia Lashley,expression coachEverything in life, your life, my life, our lives has originated out of the Universal Supply. The Universal Supply is a store house that is available to all  thhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/12/31/as-the-door-of-2014-shuts-the-window-of-2015-openSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/12/31/as-the-door-of-2014-shuts-the-window-of-2015-open/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/12/31/as-the-door-of-2014-shuts-the-window-of-2015-openWed, 31 Dec 2014 21:00:00 GMTAs The Door of 2014 Shuts The Window of 2015 Open "When one door closes, another one or window opens!"   2014! What an awesome year it has been.  So much has happened, the joys and pains of this thing we call life.  We’ve said our farewell to loved ones, family and friends.  And hello to the new additions, who show us, in no uncertain terms that until we choose otherwise, the existence we have come to call life will continue on.   And that birth and death are synonymous with life and living.  So whether you consider what has happened to you in 2014 to be good or bad, devastating or not, know that you have grown in spirit.  Your soul has stretched to accommodate your growth and will establish, should you choose a strong foundation upon which to build 2015. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at what has gone and what has yet to come. 01:35:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,metaphysics,metaphysical,Life Coaching,life choices"When one door closes, another one or window opens!"   2014! What an awesome year it has been.  So much has happened, the joys and pains of this thing we callhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/12/24/the-gift-is-in-the-present-did-you-receive-itSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/12/24/the-gift-is-in-the-present-did-you-receive-it/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/12/24/the-gift-is-in-the-present-did-you-receive-itWed, 24 Dec 2014 21:00:00 GMTThe Gift Is In The Present Did You Receive It?The holiday season is filled with people exchanging gifts. Good vibes.  Happy times, peace to all men.   Like the next person, I love to receive presents.  Yet the greatest gift that I have ever received didn’t come from a store or Amazon.  The most useful gift that I have ever been given, ironically isn’t the gift of life…that was my choice, it’s the gift of knowing the present is about the presence within me that I AM a part of.  And with full understanding of this gift, I can, should I choose, use The Presence to create the life that I want to live. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the gift of being present! 01:00:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Choices,Olivia Lashley,metaphysics,spiritualityThe holiday season is filled with people exchanging gifts. Good vibes.  Happy times, peace to all men.   Like the next person, I love to receive presents.  Yethttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/12/17/the-second-step-in-the-law-of-attractionSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/12/17/the-second-step-in-the-law-of-attraction/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/12/17/the-second-step-in-the-law-of-attractionWed, 17 Dec 2014 21:00:00 GMTThe Second Step In The Law of AttractionThe second step in understanding the Law of Attraction LOA is huge!  A month ago we aired an episode in which we explored the first step in the LOA.  Now the fun of activating and seeing your creative POWER begins.  You will be able to see energy moving into form and out of form creating that which you say you want.  You will witness the Universal Creator of All Things, move people places and things, including yourself, so you can manifest what you have asked for.  You will experience firsthand, life happening for you and not to you.  In short, you will see what can happen, when you consciously choose to partner with the God the Universal Creator of All Things.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and Olivia Lashley, expression coach and artist as we explore the law of attraction and you. 01:47:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Lifestyle,Life Coaching,metaphysics,spiritualityThe second step in understanding the Law of Attraction LOA is huge!  A month ago we aired an episode in which we explored the first step in the LOA.  Now the fuhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/12/10/now-what-do-i-do-to-get-my-life-back-on-trackSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/12/10/now-what-do-i-do-to-get-my-life-back-on-track/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/12/10/now-what-do-i-do-to-get-my-life-back-on-trackWed, 10 Dec 2014 21:00:00 GMTNow What Do I Do To Get My Life Back On Track!?What happens in the aftermath of a life altering situation or event that has occurred in your life?  What happens now?  Where do you go from here?  What next?  In the aftermath how do I get my life back on track?  These are questions that people find themselves asking and struggling to find the correct answers.  In today’s show we’ll look at self coaching techniques that can support you in finding clarity for what’s next. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at how to take the next step in your life’s journey.  00:57:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,metaphysics,Life Coaching,Olivia lashley,making choicesWhat happens in the aftermath of a life altering situation or event that has occurred in your life?  What happens now?  Where do you go from here?  What next?http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/12/03/just-because-you-can-does-it-mean-you-shouldSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/12/03/just-because-you-can-does-it-mean-you-should/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/12/03/just-because-you-can-does-it-mean-you-shouldWed, 03 Dec 2014 21:00:00 GMTJust Because You Can Does It Mean You Should?Just because you can do a certain thing, does it mean that you should do it? Many people will answer this question with, “No! Of course not!"  Yet we do things to ourselves, negative things, on a continuous bases that impedes our ability to create the life that we say we are wanting to live. “Just because you can, doesn’t mean that you should” applies to any and all facets of your lives; relationships, health, wealth, finances, career, recreation, personal style etc. Just because I can, (and you fill in the blank­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­ here) ________________________ doesn’t mean that I should! Join me, Dr Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach as we explore how this statement can impact your life.   01:11:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,spirituality,Olivia Lashley,metaphysics,Personal GrowthJust because you can do a certain thing, does it mean that you should do it? Many people will answer this question with, “No! Of course not!"  Yet we do thingshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/11/26/strengthen-your-faith-with-gratitude-and-thankfulnessSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/11/26/strengthen-your-faith-with-gratitude-and-thankfulness/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/11/26/strengthen-your-faith-with-gratitude-and-thankfulnessWed, 26 Nov 2014 21:00:00 GMTStrengthen Your Faith With Gratitude And ThankfulnessHaving an attitude of gratitude and thankfulness for all things that have happened in your life, puts you firmly in the now!  It shifts your thinking from victim to victor, from failure to success.  It makes a statement that boldly says, I can, I have, I will and I did!  When you continuously affirm gratitude and thankfulness you are planted firmly in “the now.”  This means you are neither living in your past, nor in your future.  Ironically, maintaining a continuous attitude filled with gratitude and thankfulness, strengthens your belief in the realized manifestation of what you have asked God or the Universal Creator for.  “And whatever you ask in prayer, you will receive, if you have faith.” ~ Matthew 21:22  Gratitude and thankfulness is the work that faith needs to keep it alive.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert, and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore the power of gratitude and thankfulness. 01:14:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne choice expert,Gratitude,thankfulness,The Power of Gratitude,The Law of AttractionHaving an attitude of gratitude and thankfulness for all things that have happened in your life, puts you firmly in the now!  It shifts your thinking from victihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/11/19/after-you-know-why-what-happens-nextSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/11/19/after-you-know-why-what-happens-next/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/11/19/after-you-know-why-what-happens-nextWed, 19 Nov 2014 21:00:00 GMTAfter You Know Why What Happens Next?Many people are stuck on why.  And as a result find it challenging to move forward in their lives.  Why?  Why did my spouse cheat on me, beat me or leave me?  Why did my mother give me up for adoption and abandon me?  Why can’t I lose weight?  Why, why, why, oh why, oh why?  The reality is you may never know why and conversely, you my find out why.  My question to you is this, what happens next?  What happens after you have discover why? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore this three letter word. 01:03:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,Life Coaching,life coach,spiritualityMany people are stuck on why.  And as a result find it challenging to move forward in their lives.  Why?  Why did my spouse cheat on me, beat me or leave me?  Whttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/11/12/integrating-the-me-myself-and-i-to-create-a-solid-life-foundationSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/11/12/integrating-the-me-myself-and-i-to-create-a-solid-life-foundation/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/11/12/integrating-the-me-myself-and-i-to-create-a-solid-life-foundationWed, 12 Nov 2014 21:00:00 GMTIntegrating The Me, Myself and I To Create A Solid Life FoundationMe, myself and I is a phrase that you may have heard people use when they are talking about themselves.  But what does it mean when people talk about themselves as a collective and use the word “WE” to describe the me, myself and I.  Let me give you an example:  In talking to and motivating yourself you say, “We’re going to finish the last chapter of this book tonight.”   My questions are the following; who is the “we” if it’s only you who is reading the book?  And how does thinking of and referring to ones self as the collective “we” help you? Join me Dr Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore me, myself and I as the “we.” 01:27:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,Life Coaching,Olivia Lashley,AffirmationsMe, myself and I is a phrase that you may have heard people use when they are talking about themselves.  But what does it mean when people talk about themselveshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/11/05/so-hows-that-working-out-for-youSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/11/05/so-hows-that-working-out-for-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/11/05/so-hows-that-working-out-for-youWed, 05 Nov 2014 21:00:00 GMTSo How’s That Working Out For You?Far too often in life we make choices that are not in our best interests.  Choices that are not made with the crystal clear clarity of our true heart’s desire, choices that are made from emotions rather than the desired end result.  Yet, because we have made these choices the universal Law of Action and Reaction dictate that they become a part of the tapestry of whom we are and who we are becoming.  “So how’s that working out for you?  You know, making the choices you are making and not getting the results that you want?” Getting the results in life that you want is a three pronged process.  It starts out with the understanding that you can get what you want.  Followed by you being clear on what it is that you want.  And ending with 24/7-360 1440 minutes per day gratitude until your manifestation has moved into form. Join me, Dr Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley, as we examine the way to get life to work the way in which you consciously want it. 01:25:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,sprituality,Life Coaching,metaphysicsFar too often in life we make choices that are not in our best interests.  Choices that are not made with the crystal clear clarity of our true heart’s desire,http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/10/29/what-sort-of-impression-are-you-leaving-people-withSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/10/29/what-sort-of-impression-are-you-leaving-people-with/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/10/29/what-sort-of-impression-are-you-leaving-people-withWed, 29 Oct 2014 20:00:00 GMTWhat Sort of Impression Are You Leaving People With?Our guest today is Jesse Ferrell best selling self development author, inspirational speaker and life coach. He is a sought after advisor to fortune 500 and multilevel entrepreneur leaders, sports professionals and business people for his life and business coaching expertise.  Jesse, the author of How You Leave Them Feeling, knows the road to happiness and success is based on how you build your relationships.  Today we’ll talk about the importance of building good relationships in your life and how you leave people feeling. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we look at you and how you leave people feeling. 01:21:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,my life my choice,spirituality,Olivia Lashley,Life CoachingOur guest today is Jesse Ferrell best selling self development author, inspirational speaker and life coach. He is a sought after advisor to fortune 500 and mulhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/10/22/the-first-step-in-the-law-of-attraction-is-to-know-thy-selfSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/10/22/the-first-step-in-the-law-of-attraction-is-to-know-thy-self/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/10/22/the-first-step-in-the-law-of-attraction-is-to-know-thy-selfWed, 22 Oct 2014 20:00:00 GMTThe First Step In The Law of Attraction Is To Know Thy SelfIn order to use The Law of Attraction successfully, there are a few fundamentals that, I believe, must be in place.  Today we look at the phrase “know they self” and what that means.  Many people associate “knowing self” with likes and dislikes.  Yet to truly know one’s self goes way beyond that.   To begin creating the life that you say you want to live it first starts out with knowing who you are followed by who you want to be.  Join me Dr Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley, as we delve into the subject matter of “knowing thy self.” 01:57:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,spirituality,Life Coaching,Law of Attraction,Know ThyselfIn order to use The Law of Attraction successfully, there are a few fundamentals that, I believe, must be in place.  Today we look at the phrase “know they selfhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/10/15/do-past-lives-exist-and-does-reincarnation-really-happenSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/10/15/do-past-lives-exist-and-does-reincarnation-really-happen/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/10/15/do-past-lives-exist-and-does-reincarnation-really-happenWed, 15 Oct 2014 20:00:00 GMTDo Past Lives Exist and Does Reincarnation Really Happen?There is a lot of controversy surrounding past lives and reincarnation.  You have the camps who are staunchly, for, and against.  Then you have the scientific camp.  They try really hard to correlate people’s account of past lives and reincarnation with a simple memory recall of something that they had overheard in this life time. There is much evidence to support the theory of past lives and reincarnation.  The most well known historical figure could be Christ or and present day His Holiness The 14th Dalai Lama of Tibet.   Whether you believe or not, what is fascinating is the possibilities and what past lives and reincarnation could mean to, you and your spiritual growth.                                          Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore the past lives and reincarnation and what that can might mean to you. 01:53:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Spiritual Growth,Life Coaching,Past Lives,reincarnationThere is a lot of controversy surrounding past lives and reincarnation.  You have the camps who are staunchly, for, and against.  Then you have the scientific chttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/10/08/does-the-law-of-attraction-really-work-it-hasnt-for-meSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/10/08/does-the-law-of-attraction-really-work-it-hasnt-for-me/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/10/08/does-the-law-of-attraction-really-work-it-hasnt-for-meWed, 08 Oct 2014 20:00:00 GMTDoes The Law of Attraction Really Work? It Hasn’t For Me!People have asked why the Law of Attraction hasn’t worked for them… in many different ways; “why didn’t God answer my prayers.  Why didn’t the angels help me?  I’m meditating, but nothing is happening, why?  I’m affirming and doing everything the book said, but nada, zilch, nothing.  This stuff just doesn’t work for me.”  This all boils down to the same thing, you want something from the Creative Energy and you can’t seem to get it.  The question is why?  What are you not doing?  Or better yet, the right question to ask might be, “what am I doing?” Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore the ability to use the Universal Creative Energy to manifest the life that you want to live. 01:22:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Choices,Life coach,Olivia Lashley,Understanding the law of attractionPeople have asked why the Law of Attraction hasn’t worked for them… in many different ways; “why didn’t God answer my prayers.  Why didn’t the angels help me?http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/10/01/what-give-someone-the-right-to-tell-you-what-you-are-feelingSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/10/01/what-give-someone-the-right-to-tell-you-what-you-are-feeling/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/10/01/what-give-someone-the-right-to-tell-you-what-you-are-feelingWed, 01 Oct 2014 20:00:00 GMTWhat Give Someone The Right To Tell You What You Are Feeling?Does anyone have the right to tell you definitively what you are feeling and why you are feeling it?  Or to tell you who you must show up in your life as or how to live your life?  Our lives are governed by a mixture of immutable facts and our self created stories, I call fiction.  Knowing which is which is crucial for you to move through your life with a modicum of ease.  As a choice expert and holistic life coach, I have seen the lasting damage that can be caused when someone else’s fiction is fed to you as a fact, and you believe what you have been told to be fact and not fiction. See how complicated it can become, just in the reading of the last sentence alone. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore this subject. 01:14:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,Life Coaching,spirituality,Olivia LashleyDoes anyone have the right to tell you definitively what you are feeling and why you are feeling it?  Or to tell you who you must show up in your life as or howhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/09/24/the-secret-of-attracting-the-love-of-your-lifeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/09/24/the-secret-of-attracting-the-love-of-your-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/09/24/the-secret-of-attracting-the-love-of-your-lifeWed, 24 Sep 2014 20:00:00 GMTThe Secret of Attracting The Love of Your LifeHave you ever wondered if there is a secret recipe to creating a loving, meaningful and fulfilling relationship?  Are you longing for or holding out for Mr. or Mrs. Right?  Have you sworn off being a couple because of bad relationship experiences that has left you in protection mode?  Relationship Coach, Eva Love, yeah her surname is LOVE, has created a system that supports you in finding love within self and applying that to any relationship.  She also shows you how to enhance any relationship that you are currently in.  Coach Eva experienced a profound life altering event in 1989, which lead to her creating the Love Miracle System. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert, Expression Coach and Artist Olivia Lashley and Relationship Coach Eva Love as we explore her Love Miracle System and how to find love. 01:33:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne choice expert,my life my choice,Olivia Lashley expression coach,spirituality,relationshipsHave you ever wondered if there is a secret recipe to creating a loving, meaningful and fulfilling relationship?  Are you longing for or holding out for Mr. orhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/09/17/transform-your-life-with-an-hour-of-powerSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/09/17/transform-your-life-with-an-hour-of-power/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/09/17/transform-your-life-with-an-hour-of-powerWed, 17 Sep 2014 20:00:00 GMTTransform Your Life With An Hour of PowerEveryone needs an hour of power, or at least I believe so.  Your hour of power is designed by you, for you and will support you through personal motivation and inspiration in achieving your goals, desires and dreams.  Your hour of power helps you to establish a firm foundation on which you can build your life.  It creates an inner knowing and understanding of self.  When you understand yourself and how you are showing up in life, you can then make choices that are in alignment with what you are wanting.  An hour of power is easy to create.  Ironically, it takes less than an hour to do.  However, the value and benefits you will receive are immeasurable...they are life altering.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expressions coach and artist as we look at how to create an hour of power just for you. Follow me on https://www.facebook.com/mylifemychoiceradioshow?ref=hl https://twitter.com/wendydearborne http://www.itsmylifemychoice.com 01:27:00My Life My ChoicenoDr wendy dearborne,life coach,Choices,choice expert,olivia lashleyEveryone needs an hour of power, or at least I believe so.  Your hour of power is designed by you, for you and will support you through personal motivation andhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/09/10/why-cant-i-just-be-happySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/09/10/why-cant-i-just-be-happy/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/09/10/why-cant-i-just-be-happyWed, 10 Sep 2014 20:00:00 GMTWhy Can't I Just Be Happy?Happiness sometimes proves to be as elusive as trying to hold smoke.  More often than not we go on a quest to find happiness.  We search high and low trying and buying all sorts of things only to come full circle and realize that we went in the wrong direction.  If you are looking for happiness I have a question for you, “What are you looking for and where are you looking?”  Join me, Dr Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach Olivia Lashley as we look at the art of finding happiness. 01:27:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,my life my choice,olivia lashley,Life CoachingHappiness sometimes proves to be as elusive as trying to hold smoke.  More often than not we go on a quest to find happiness.  We search high and low trying andhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/09/03/the-basic-building-blocks-for-happy-living-is-choiceSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/09/03/the-basic-building-blocks-for-happy-living-is-choice/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/09/03/the-basic-building-blocks-for-happy-living-is-choiceWed, 03 Sep 2014 20:00:00 GMTThe Basic Building Blocks For Happy Living Is ChoiceWe kick off the fall or autumn with taking a look at the fundamental principles of what this show and our lives are all about.  CHOICES!  CHOICES! CHOICES!  Unlimited choices, yet you can only make one at a time.  That one choice that you make creates the foundation for the next choice and the next choice and so on.  What building blocks are you using to create the life that you want to live. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we look at you and the basic building blocks found in choice. 01:53:00My Life My Choiceno#dr wendy dearborne choice expert,Olivia Lashley Expression coach,Life choices,Personal growth,spiritualityWe kick off the fall or autumn with taking a look at the fundamental principles of what this show and our lives are all about.  CHOICES!  CHOICES! CHOICES!  Unlhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/08/27/how-badly-do-you-want-itSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/08/27/how-badly-do-you-want-it/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/08/27/how-badly-do-you-want-itWed, 27 Aug 2014 20:00:00 GMTHow Badly Do You Want IT? Many of us lament about what we are lacking or wishing for in our lives, but how badly do we want it? Today we I will share a fable that many of you may have heard before. Using the moral of this story or metaphor and applying it to your own life will give you a good indication of how bad you want it?01:15:00My Life My ChoicenoMany of us lament about what we are lacking or wishing for in our lives, but how badly do we want it? Today we I will share a fable that many of you may have hhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/08/20/should-i-ask-a-psychicSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/08/20/should-i-ask-a-psychic/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/08/20/should-i-ask-a-psychicWed, 20 Aug 2014 20:00:00 GMTShould I Ask A Psychic?Should I ask a psychic? Can psychics really give information that can help with your decision making? There are many factors to weigh…join us as we discuss our views on the benefits of mediums, tarot card, divination cards etc.01:28:00My Life My ChoicenoShould I ask a psychic? Can psychics really give information that can help with your decision making? There are many factors to weigh…join us as we discuss ourhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/08/13/is-the-desire-for-plenty-wrongSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/08/13/is-the-desire-for-plenty-wrong/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/08/13/is-the-desire-for-plenty-wrongWed, 13 Aug 2014 20:00:00 GMTIs The Desire For Plenty Wrong?We have been indoctrinated socially, religiously, spiritually, emotionally, mentally, physically psychologically etc, to believe that having the desire for plenty is wrong. Well, it's not wrong to desire plenty. In fact, it's part of our spiritual DNA. However, there is a spiritual caveat that is attached to having plenty. All of the wealthiest and most prosperous people in life understand this Universal law and live within this law. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore the intricacies whether the desire for plenty is wrong. 01:48:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy DearborneWe have been indoctrinated socially, religiously, spiritually, emotionally, mentally, physically psychologically etc, to believe that having the desire for plenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/08/06/you-must-die-before-you-can-liveSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/08/06/you-must-die-before-you-can-live/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/08/06/you-must-die-before-you-can-liveWed, 06 Aug 2014 20:00:00 GMTYou Must Die Before You Can LiveOne of the hardest and most harmful traits we humans possess is our inability to ?LET GO? of things of the past. Things that can no longer support us in the direction in which we want to go. By holding on to that, which needs to be buried; because it's dead, causes untold havoc in our lives. For a seed to grow into a plant, the seed must be transformed. It must shed its former self…it must die to what it was to become plant that it is destine to be. You must die to the old, so that you can live in the now which is your destiny. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we delved into understanding the need to die before you can live. 01:40:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,sprituality,Life Coaching,Choice Expert,Olivia LashleyOne of the hardest and most harmful traits we humans possess is our inability to ?LET GO? of things of the past. Things that can no longer support us in the dirhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/07/30/creating-your-life-by-exploring-your-possibilitiesSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/07/30/creating-your-life-by-exploring-your-possibilities/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/07/30/creating-your-life-by-exploring-your-possibilitiesWed, 30 Jul 2014 20:00:00 GMTCreating Your Life By Exploring Your PossibilitiesToday’s show is a review of the last 6 months looking at what we now have in our Golden Tool Box and how these spiritual tools can and will help us.  We are also going to look at creating your possibilities in the next 12 months.    For the month of August we’ll be airing reruns of My Life My Choice and will return live Wednesday September 3 2014 at the same time.  Thank you for your support and taking the time to make us a part of your choice making experience…it means more than I can say. Join me Dr Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert, and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we look at the last 2 quarters to see how far we’ve come. 02:01:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,choice expert,water experiment,Life coach,life coach educatorToday’s show is a review of the last 6 months looking at what we now have in our Golden Tool Box and how these spiritual tools can and will help us.  We are alshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/07/23/you-must-die-before-you-can-liveSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/07/23/you-must-die-before-you-can-live/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/07/23/you-must-die-before-you-can-liveWed, 23 Jul 2014 20:00:00 GMTYou Must Die Before You Can LiveOne of the hardest and most harmful traits we humans possess is our inability to “LET GO” of things of the past.  Things that can no longer support us in the direction in which we want to go.  By holding on to that, which needs to be buried; because it’s dead, causes untold havoc in our lives.  For a seed to grow into a plant, the seed must be transformed.  It must shed its former self…it must die to what it was to become plant that it is destine to be.  You must die to the old, so that you can live in the now which is your destiny.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we delved into understanding the need to die before you can live. 01:40:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Life coaching,Olivia Lashley,spiritualityOne of the hardest and most harmful traits we humans possess is our inability to “LET GO” of things of the past.  Things that can no longer support us in the dihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/07/16/how-to-create-compromise-in-your-life-with-effective-communicationSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/07/16/how-to-create-compromise-in-your-life-with-effective-communication/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/07/16/how-to-create-compromise-in-your-life-with-effective-communicationWed, 16 Jul 2014 20:00:00 GMTHow To Create Compromise In Your Life With Effective CommunicationCreating compromise in your life can be a challenge when you don’t understand the art of communication.  And communicating is an art with a key element that must be present for successful communication.  We all have our unique style of communicating, but if it’s not getting you what you want, then perhaps you need to look at how you are getting your message across.  There are many factors that are in play when you are communicating; clarity, picking your time, choosing your words etc.  However, without the foundational understanding of this key element, your communication style will always be risky at best, totally misunderstood at worst.    Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we delved into understanding the key element that allows you to communicate effectively. 01:19:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Olivia lashley,understanding choicesCreating compromise in your life can be a challenge when you don’t understand the art of communication.  And communicating is an art with a key element that mushttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/07/09/feeding-your-body-through-your-mindSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/07/09/feeding-your-body-through-your-mind/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/07/09/feeding-your-body-through-your-mindWed, 09 Jul 2014 20:00:00 GMTFeeding Your Body Through Your MindYou don’t only eat food for nutrition, but you literally eat your words and thoughts too.  This tiny little fact is overlooked by millions of people.  And as a result of this oversight, people experience any and every unwanted human condition that you can think of.   You are fed by two streams of consciousness that originate from the ONE stream.   (a) The external, which is a kind of feedback that is given to us via our experiences.  (b) The internal mind and or subconscious mind, which creates through choice the experiences that you have. (c) The originator or governing body, which all things are fed from…God or The Source or the one stream. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore what this means to you and your family. 01:24:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy,Choice expert,Olivia lashley,expression coach,feeding your mindYou don’t only eat food for nutrition, but you literally eat your words and thoughts too.  This tiny little fact is overlooked by millions of people.  And as ahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/07/02/lets-have-an-honest-no-holds-barred-talk-about-the-dark-side-of-lifeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/07/02/lets-have-an-honest-no-holds-barred-talk-about-the-dark-side-of-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/07/02/lets-have-an-honest-no-holds-barred-talk-about-the-dark-side-of-lifeWed, 02 Jul 2014 20:00:00 GMTLet's Have An Honest No-Holds-Barred Talk About The Dark Side Of LifeIn today’s episode of "My Life My Choice" we are going to be talking about DARK issues that can, will and DO impact your choice making process.  And as a result of that how you choose to live your life and how you may be effected.    We’ll be looking at a variety of different topics, which includes, but is not limited to the state of the food industry, nutritional value of food, feeding the mind through the body, education, health and healing industry, creating wealth, your intuitive abilities and much more. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore these subjects and more 02:00:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne choice expert,Olivia Lashley Expression Coach,Understanding the power of choice,The dark side of lifeIn today’s episode of "My Life My Choice" we are going to be talking about DARK issues that can, will and DO impact your choice making process.  And as a resulthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/06/25/if-you-dont-know-want-you-want-then-who-shouldSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/06/25/if-you-dont-know-want-you-want-then-who-should/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/06/25/if-you-dont-know-want-you-want-then-who-shouldWed, 25 Jun 2014 20:00:00 GMTIf You Don’t Know Want You Want, Then Who Should?As you move through life it’s really important to know what you want.  If you don’t know what you are wanting for you, then who should?  This is one of the biggest problems that I see people facing on a daily bases.  Authenticity in what they want for themselves, verse what is consider the right thing to do.  If you have found yourself trapped in this conundrum, finding your way out is as simple as having a truthful conversation with self.  Sometimes it doesn’t mean anything drastic has to take place, but a shift of your view finder lens maybe all that is needed, for you to find out what you want for your life. Join m, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we look at you and know what you want. 01:20:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Choice expert,life coach,Olivia LashleyAs you move through life it’s really important to know what you want.  If you don’t know what you are wanting for you, then who should?  This is one of the bigghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/06/18/what-you-dont-know-about-the-secret-power-of-the-water-you-are-drinkingSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/06/18/what-you-dont-know-about-the-secret-power-of-the-water-you-are-drinking/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/06/18/what-you-dont-know-about-the-secret-power-of-the-water-you-are-drinkingWed, 18 Jun 2014 20:00:00 GMTWhat You Don’t Know About The Secret Power of The Water You Are DrinkingWe drink it.  We cook with it, bathe in it, clean with it.  We even carry our unborn babies in it.  In fact, nothing on earth can live without it.  Water, also known as H20 has within its self possesses the physical power to create what you want in life - from wealth to health and everything in between.  The ancients wise ones, metaphysicians, priest and priestess have know this fact, yet this knowledge has not been passed on through the ages…until now! Join m, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we take a look at water and the powerful role in plays in your life 01:27:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Choice expert,Life coach,my life my choice,intuitionWe drink it.  We cook with it, bathe in it, clean with it.  We even carry our unborn babies in it.  In fact, nothing on earth can live without it.  Water, alsohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/06/11/psst-did-you-hear-you-speaking-to-yourselfSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/06/11/psst-did-you-hear-you-speaking-to-yourself/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/06/11/psst-did-you-hear-you-speaking-to-yourselfWed, 11 Jun 2014 20:00:00 GMTPsst! Did You Hear YOU Speaking To Yourself?One of most the underutilized tools in your spiritual tool box is your intuition.  The most amazing thing is that your intuition is NEVER EVER WRONG!  How can listening to yourself, which is your higher self, get any better than this?  To never be wrong!  Your intuition has the ability to see life from a global perspective, which gives it an advantage over your emotional mind.  Your intuitive mind speak with you continuously throughout the day…it is always touching bases with you especially when you have to make a choice.  And as everything that we do in life starts out with a choice…your intuition never shuts up.  It’s talking to you incessantly.  But are you listening?  Are you afraid to act on intuits?  Are you wanting to know !00% if it’s your intuition speaking or something else? Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore your intuition. 01:09:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wend Dearborne,Life coach and choice expert,my life my choice,Olivia LashleyOne of most the underutilized tools in your spiritual tool box is your intuition.  The most amazing thing is that your intuition is NEVER EVER WRONG!  How can lhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/06/04/disillusion-is-the-solutionSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/06/04/disillusion-is-the-solution/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/06/04/disillusion-is-the-solutionWed, 04 Jun 2014 20:00:00 GMTDisillusion Is The SolutionWe can sometime find ourselves living in make believe world that truly is a self created illusion showing us what we don’t want.  Yet we choose to live as if the illusion is what we do want.  Freeing yourself so that you can live the life that you want to live is the solution. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we bring definition to defining what you want in life. 01:00:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Olivia Lashley,Spirituality Positive Energy,personal development,life coaching for menWe can sometime find ourselves living in make believe world that truly is a self created illusion showing us what we don’t want.  Yet we choose to live as if thhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/05/28/defining-what-you-want-in-lifeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/05/28/defining-what-you-want-in-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/05/28/defining-what-you-want-in-lifeWed, 28 May 2014 20:00:00 GMTDefining What You Want In LifeDefinition means to make clear.  So, unless you define what you imagine you want to bring into your life, will get the undefined version of what it is that you imagining.  It’s important to define what you want.  Definition brings clarity. This will enable you to create a pathway…where there isn’t one…for you to achieve your goals and desires. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we bring definition to defining what you want in life. 01:28:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Life coach,Choice Expert,Olivia Lashley,Expression coachDefinition means to make clear.  So, unless you define what you imagine you want to bring into your life, will get the undefined version of what it is that youhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/05/21/imagination-your-most-powerful-creative-toolSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/05/21/imagination-your-most-powerful-creative-tool/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/05/21/imagination-your-most-powerful-creative-toolWed, 21 May 2014 20:00:00 GMTImagination Your Most Powerful Creative ToolImagine That! The most powerful tool that you possess in your spiritual tool box is your imagination.  It has been said that the imagination is the scissors of the mind ever cutting, creating and manifesting your thoughts.  For a variety of reasons you have been encouraged not to use your imagination to explore self and what self is wanting with the intention of creating or manifesting it.  Your imagination is the key to you getting what you want in life.  Imagine that!   Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore your imagination. 01:27:00My Life My ChoicenoDr wendy dearborne,Olivia Lashley,Life coaching,The power of your imagination,SpiritualityImagine That! The most powerful tool that you possess in your spiritual tool box is your imagination.  It has been said that the imagination is the scissors ofhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/05/14/the-rice-water-and-word-power-experimentSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/05/14/the-rice-water-and-word-power-experiment/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/05/14/the-rice-water-and-word-power-experimentWed, 14 May 2014 20:00:00 GMTThe Rice Water and Word Power ExperimentDid you know that you can create an experiment to see the power of your spoken words, intentions, thoughts and actions?   Well, we did just that and today we’ll discuss the exciting results of our 30 day rice and water experiment into the power of our spoken word.  Our adaptation of Dr. Masaru Emoto’s work into the power of water provided the perfect vehicle to conduct this powerful experiment.  This is an easy experiment that you can do for yourself or with a group.  It is also a wonderful learning tool to illustrate to children and teens what their words are capable of. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we delved words water rice and you. 01:13:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,rice & water experiment,power of your spoken word,Olivia Lashley,Choice expertDid you know that you can create an experiment to see the power of your spoken words, intentions, thoughts and actions?   Well, we did just that and today we’llhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/05/07/is-meditation-is-your-key-to-successSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/05/07/is-meditation-is-your-key-to-success/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/05/07/is-meditation-is-your-key-to-successWed, 07 May 2014 20:00:00 GMTIs Meditation Your Key To Success?There are many things that we can do to positively support ourselves as we go through life, but by far one of the most beneficial is to consciously choose to meditate on a daily, if not that, then a regular basis.  Meditation allows you to communicate with yourself at the deepest spiritual/human level possible.  It is the key to consciously forging your success.  There are many type so meditation and today well look at both the common and uncommon techniques. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we delved into the techniques and benefits of meditation. 01:07:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,choice expert,Life Coaching,Olivia Lashley,spiritualityThere are many things that we can do to positively support ourselves as we go through life, but by far one of the most beneficial is to consciously choose to mehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/04/30/why-do-people-come-into-our-lives-for-a-seasonSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/04/30/why-do-people-come-into-our-lives-for-a-season/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/04/30/why-do-people-come-into-our-lives-for-a-seasonWed, 30 Apr 2014 20:00:00 GMTWhy Do People Come Into Our Lives For A Season?One of the most painful things that we can experience is that profound sense of loss of someone we love.  These feelings also extended to places and things.  There is a fundamental reason why things flow into our lives and flow out.  Understanding this and applying this can literally be the difference between life and death. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore what the seasons and reason and the flow of life means. 01:10:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,choice expert,Olivia lashley,personal growth,Life Coach EducatorOne of the most painful things that we can experience is that profound sense of loss of someone we love.  These feelings also extended to places and things.  Thhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/04/23/what-is-your-spiritual-thermometer-telling-youSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/04/23/what-is-your-spiritual-thermometer-telling-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/04/23/what-is-your-spiritual-thermometer-telling-youWed, 23 Apr 2014 20:00:00 GMTWhat Is Your Spiritual Thermometer Telling You?As a spiritual being havin a human moment your life is a blend of both human emotions and spiritual understanding.  How you feel emotionally/mentally will let you know where you are spiritually.  Your spiritual thermometer is letting you know where you stand in relation to yourself and in relationship with yourself.  Understanding you is governed by understanding the nuance of the above statement in relations to self and in relationship with self. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore what your spiritual thermometer is telling you. 00:50:00My Life My ChoicenoDr wendy dearborne,Life coach,Olivia Lashley,choice expert,Life coach educatorAs a spiritual being havin a human moment your life is a blend of both human emotions and spiritual understanding.  How you feel emotionally/mentally will let yhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/04/16/can-you-transmute-your-lifeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/04/16/can-you-transmute-your-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/04/16/can-you-transmute-your-lifeWed, 16 Apr 2014 20:00:00 GMTCan You Transmute Your Life?Transmuting your life is all about your willingness, your courage, passion, desire and belief that by choosing to place yourself into the fiery furnace of life you will emerge as tempered steel.  Transmutation is about the evolution of self, it’s not about change.  Today we’ll discuss the difference between transmutation and change and how to transmute your life. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we discuss what it means to transmute your life. 00:56:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,Life coach,life coaching,metaphysicsTransmuting your life is all about your willingness, your courage, passion, desire and belief that by choosing to place yourself into the fiery furnace of lifehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/04/09/is-the-desire-for-plenty-wrongSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/04/09/is-the-desire-for-plenty-wrong/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/04/09/is-the-desire-for-plenty-wrongWed, 09 Apr 2014 20:00:00 GMTIs The Desire For Plenty Wrong?We have been indoctrinated socially, religiously, spiritually, emotionally, mentally, physically psychologically etc, to believe that having the desire for plenty is wrong.  Well, it’s not wrong to desire plenty. In fact, it’s part of our spiritual DNA. However, there is a spiritual caveat that is attached to having plenty.  All of the wealthiest and most prosperous people in life understand this Universal law and live within this law.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore the intricacies whether the desire for plenty is wrong. 01:48:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,life coach,life coach educator,Olivia LashleyWe have been indoctrinated socially, religiously, spiritually, emotionally, mentally, physically psychologically etc, to believe that having the desire for plenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/04/02/whats-your-body-telling-youSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/04/02/whats-your-body-telling-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/04/02/whats-your-body-telling-youWed, 02 Apr 2014 20:00:00 GMTWhat’s Your Body Telling You?Our bodies talk to us incessantly, just like a child calling, "Mummy over and over and over and over again."  One of the biggest travesties that we perpetrate against ourselves is not listening to self!    The body, your body is a barometer for where you are in your life.  It provides you with explicit directives on what pathway you should take.  So what’s your body telling you?  This show will give you insight into how to interpret what you are telling you.  And it truly is amazing. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore how the body speaks. 01:34:00My Life My ChoicenoDr wendy dearborne,life coach,choice expert,my life choice radio,Olivia lashleyOur bodies talk to us incessantly, just like a child calling, "Mummy over and over and over and over again."  One of the biggest travesties that we perpetrate ahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/03/26/what-is-your-plan-for-spiritual-growthSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/03/26/what-is-your-plan-for-spiritual-growth/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/03/26/what-is-your-plan-for-spiritual-growthWed, 26 Mar 2014 20:00:00 GMTWhat Is Your Plan For Spiritual Growth?Your spiritual growth is an intimate and personal relationship with self.  Far too often you give your power away to the latest guru or televangelist telling you what they will do for you and your spiritual growth.  I have found in my professional career as a choice expert that spiritual growth is one of the top three concerns that people have. Are you in this percentile?     Are you growing in spirit the way that you want to?  Can you recognize the signs that are telling you that you have grown?  If you don’t know the signs how can you know if you are growing or not?  What does a clear plan for your spiritual growth look like?   Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore the intricacies of your spiritual growth. . 01:28:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,life coach,Life Coach Educator,choice expert,authorYour spiritual growth is an intimate and personal relationship with self.  Far too often you give your power away to the latest guru or televangelist telling yohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/03/19/how-to-use-your-wrecking-ball-to-built-your-lifeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/03/19/how-to-use-your-wrecking-ball-to-built-your-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/03/19/how-to-use-your-wrecking-ball-to-built-your-lifeWed, 19 Mar 2014 20:00:00 GMTHow To Use Your Wrecking Ball To Built Your LifeSometimes you need to break it down so you can build it up the way in which you want it.  And sometimes you just need to break it down and walk away taking with you the knowledge that this is not a foundation or architectural design that you will ever use in your life again.  Your wrecking ball is one of the tools in your golden tool box.  It’s used for create new foundations or new beginnings. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore the use of your wrecking ball. 01:11:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,life coach,life coach educator,master aromatherapistSometimes you need to break it down so you can build it up the way in which you want it.  And sometimes you just need to break it down and walk away taking withhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/03/12/how-did-i-get-back-here-againSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/03/12/how-did-i-get-back-here-again/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/03/12/how-did-i-get-back-here-againWed, 12 Mar 2014 20:00:00 GMTHow Did I Get Back Here Again?How did you get back there again?  Evidentially, you choose it!  Whether it’s bad relationships, ill health, financial distress, broken bank account, broken relatives and friends, drugs, addictions, back sliding, broken down vehicles, foreclosures, and the list goes on…that’s right, you choose it.  Let’s not focus on where you are, let’s give all our attention to where you want to go and what it looks like to get there. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley for this no holes barred episode of My Life My Choice. 01:03:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Choices,choice expert,life coach,life coach educatorHow did you get back there again?  Evidentially, you choose it!  Whether it’s bad relationships, ill health, financial distress, broken bank account, broken relhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/03/05/3-reasons-why-you-need-a-mastermind-groupSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/03/05/3-reasons-why-you-need-a-mastermind-group/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/03/05/3-reasons-why-you-need-a-mastermind-groupWed, 05 Mar 2014 21:00:00 GMT3 Reasons Why You Need A Mastermind Group?You, me and everyone who is in business, or an entrepreneur or have things they are wanting to achieve in life, must, and I repeat, must actively and consciously engage in a mastermind group.  Why?  The answer to that is simply. A mastermind group supports you in achieving attaining the success you are wanting in life. It helps you to clarify what you are wanting.Clarity allows you to make accurate decisions to achieve your goal. And who doesn’t want to make the right choices for their life?    Many of you are already in an active mastermind group and don’t even realize it. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we discuss the need for belonging to or creating a mastermind group and how to leverage the naturally occurring groups that you are already in. 01:29:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Choices expert,life coach,aromatherapist,Life Coach EducatorYou, me and everyone who is in business, or an entrepreneur or have things they are wanting to achieve in life, must, and I repeat, must actively and consciouslhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/02/26/is-fate-or-destiny-controlling-my-choices-and-my-lifeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/02/26/is-fate-or-destiny-controlling-my-choices-and-my-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/02/26/is-fate-or-destiny-controlling-my-choices-and-my-lifeWed, 26 Feb 2014 21:00:00 GMTIs Fate Or Destiny Controlling My Choices And My Life?Is fate or destiny in the driver’s seat of your life?  This is the billion dollar question.  If it’s fate or destiny how much control or ownership even responsibility do you have for your actions?  There is much to be said for the timing, contrast and parallels that destiny and fate bring into our lives.  Destiny and fate are tools in our golden spiritual tool box that will support us in achieving our desires. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and educator and expression coach Olivia Lashley as we explore the potential of both fate and destiny. 01:07:00My Life My Choicenodr wnedy dearborne,My life my choice,choice expert,educator,life coachIs fate or destiny in the driver’s seat of your life?  This is the billion dollar question.  If it’s fate or destiny how much control or ownership even responsihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/02/19/creating-your-spiritual-tool-boxSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/02/19/creating-your-spiritual-tool-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/02/19/creating-your-spiritual-tool-boxWed, 19 Feb 2014 21:00:00 GMTCreating Your Spiritual Tool BoxWe all come into this life with everything that we need and or the spiritual tools to get what we need.  Today’s show is about becoming aware of your spiritual tool and the uniqueness of them.  It’s about how to use your tools effectively and efficiently so YOU can and will create the life that you want to live.  And do so with less fear, angst and stress.  This will free up that energy for you to move forward into the life that you want to live in ways that you cannot imagine.  People, places and things will erupt harmoniously into your life bring all that you need to achieve your heart’s desire. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and educator and expression coach Olivia Lashley as we take a sneak peek at some of the standard spiritual tools that we all have in our golden tool box and how to find ones that are unique to what we want to create in life. 01:12:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Life choices,Spiritual tool box,choice expert,your spiritualityWe all come into this life with everything that we need and or the spiritual tools to get what we need.  Today’s show is about becoming aware of your spiritualhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/02/12/the-time-to-live-your-life-is-always-nowSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/02/12/the-time-to-live-your-life-is-always-now/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/02/12/the-time-to-live-your-life-is-always-nowWed, 12 Feb 2014 21:00:00 GMTThe Time To Live Your Life Is Always N.O.W!You’ve heard that old adage strike while the iron is hot?  Because when it cools you will be unable to form it into what you want.  You will have to conform to it.  The time is N.O.W!  This is what life is all about, being in and realizing your N.O.W.  We go through life not recognizing the power of N.O.W!  The most powerful thing in your life at any given time is YOU and being in the present and acting N.O.W!  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and educator and expression coach Olivia Lashley as we reveal the meaning of the acronym N.O.W. 01:25:00My Life My ChoicenoDr wendy dearborne,Now,Choices,Choice Expert,life coachYou’ve heard that old adage strike while the iron is hot?  Because when it cools you will be unable to form it into what you want.  You will have to conform tohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/02/05/what-does-it-take-to-move-forward-in-my-lifeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/02/05/what-does-it-take-to-move-forward-in-my-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/02/05/what-does-it-take-to-move-forward-in-my-lifeWed, 05 Feb 2014 21:00:00 GMTWhat Does It Take To Move Forward In My Life?What Does It Take To Move Forward In My Life?  This is a question that you may have asked yourself more than once in your life time, and I have every belief that you will ask yourself many time more.  Cast your mind back to the last time you asked yourself this question. "What Does It Take To Move Forward In My Life?"   Now, tell me, what was the first thing you did after your emotional out pouring was over?  I can guarantee you, the first thing you did was to make a CONSCIOUS choice, in full awareness of what you wanted to do.  Be mad, glad, happy or sad.  Moving forward in life has many challenges; however the rewards far outweigh the fears that tend to bind us.  So what will it take for you to move forward in your life? Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and educator and expression coach Olivia Lashley as we look at forward momentum and you. 01:19:00My Life My ChoicenoDr wendy dearborne,my life my choice,moving forward in life,life coach,educatorWhat Does It Take To Move Forward In My Life?  This is a question that you may have asked yourself more than once in your life time, and I have every belief thahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/01/29/am-i-contractually-bound-to-my-choices-in-lifeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/01/29/am-i-contractually-bound-to-my-choices-in-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/01/29/am-i-contractually-bound-to-my-choices-in-lifeWed, 29 Jan 2014 21:00:00 GMTAm I Contractually Bound To My Choices In Life?In a single word: YES!  Your life is a contractual agreement that is created by your choices.  The most empowering thing you can do for yourself in this life is have clear understanding what choice and your choice making process is all about.   If you don’t get a handle on this, you will be living a life that you don’t want.  This radio show, My Life My Choice and everything else that I do, is built on the foundation and belief that we create our lives based upon the conscious and in most cases semi-conscious choices that we make.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and educator and expression coach Olivia Lashley as we look at choice you and your life. 01:15:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life coach,choice expert,my life my choice,personal growthIn a single word: YES!  Your life is a contractual agreement that is created by your choices.  The most empowering thing you can do for yourself in this life ishttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/01/22/enough-no-more-excuses-for-your-life-choicesSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/01/22/enough-no-more-excuses-for-your-life-choices/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/01/22/enough-no-more-excuses-for-your-life-choicesWed, 22 Jan 2014 21:00:00 GMTEnough! No More Excuses For Your Life ChoicesEnough! No More Excuses.  An excuse is a permit issued by self (YOU) - giving YOU permission to self, to choose a pathway of non-accountability, non-ownership and irresponsibility.  In short an excuse is a license not to make changes where changes need to be made.  Is there such a thing as an excuse?  When you make an excuse you have declared a choice that you are making. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and educator and expression coach Olivia Lashley as we look at you and your excuses. 01:29:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,excuses for life,educator,inspirational speakerEnough! No More Excuses.  An excuse is a permit issued by self (YOU) - giving YOU permission to self, to choose a pathway of non-accountability, non-ownership ahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/01/15/what-is-eclipsing-your-ability-to-succeedSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/01/15/what-is-eclipsing-your-ability-to-succeed/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/01/15/what-is-eclipsing-your-ability-to-succeedWed, 15 Jan 2014 21:00:00 GMTWhat Is Eclipsing Your Ability To Succeed?It’s time to take a serious look at YOU and what YOU are allowing to eclipse your ability to move forward in your life.  Many of you can give heart wrenching stories of things that have happened to you; horrible, unconscionable and heinous events, perpetrated against you by people, places and things.  Each event seems to have left YOU feeling broken, ravaged, hopeless and lifeless; creating an eclipse in your life.  The key word or the operating system that we are dealing with happens to be YOU.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and educator and expression coach Olivia Lashley as we look at what is eclipsing your life. 01:25:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,choice expert,life coach,life coach educator,spiritualityIt’s time to take a serious look at YOU and what YOU are allowing to eclipse your ability to move forward in your life.  Many of you can give heart wrenching sthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/01/08/where-are-you-in-relation-to-youSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/01/08/where-are-you-in-relation-to-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2014/01/08/where-are-you-in-relation-to-youWed, 08 Jan 2014 21:00:00 GMTWhere Are You In Relation To You?The theme for My Life My Choice radio show this year is “YOU!”  This year is all about you and experiencing “YOU” from a different perspective.  This year is about stopping the madness and using the tools and skills that you have, to get what you need, to create with total conscious awareness the life that you say you want to live.  This year is all about not waking up one morning to ask yourself that soul inspiring questions..."Oh My God!  How did I get here?"  So, as we move into 2014 my question to you is this, “where you are relation to you?”    Today’s question isn’t an exploration of who you were or even who you want to become.  This question is all about where YOU are in relation to your existence.  So where are you? Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and educator and expression coach Olivia Lashley as we look at the fascinating subject of YOU. 01:21:00My Life My ChoicenoDr wendy dearborne,choice expert,life coach educator,spirtuality,personal growthThe theme for My Life My Choice radio show this year is “YOU!”  This year is all about you and experiencing “YOU” from a different perspective.  This year is abhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/12/18/is-time-our-most-precious-commoditySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/12/18/is-time-our-most-precious-commodity/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/12/18/is-time-our-most-precious-commodityWed, 18 Dec 2013 21:00:00 GMTIs time Our Most Precious Commodity ?There are 31,536,000 seconds in a year.  That is 525,600 minutes in a year.  That’s a whopping 1440.00 minutes in a day with 24 hours per day and of course, 60 minutes in an hour.  I could ask the question, “What have you done with the last 525,600 minutes of your life?”  As a choice expert, I believe that is counterintuitive.  The question to ask is, “What are you wanting to do with the next 525,600 minutes of your life?”  Time is the most precious commodity that we have.  Having a conscious understanding of this fact allows us to look at our lives through a new view finder lens. Join me, choice expert Dr. Wendy Dearborne and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we look at time, you and what’s to come for the New Year. 01:59:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,New year,my life my choice,spiritualityThere are 31,536,000 seconds in a year.  That is 525,600 minutes in a year.  That’s a whopping 1440.00 minutes in a day with 24 hours per day and of course, 60http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/12/11/a-discourse-on-the-potporurri-of-lifeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/12/11/a-discourse-on-the-potporurri-of-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/12/11/a-discourse-on-the-potporurri-of-lifeWed, 11 Dec 2013 21:00:00 GMTA Discourse On The Potporurri Of LifeJoin me, choice expert, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and expression coach Olivia Lashley as we begin to wrap this year up by having a talk about the potpourri of our lives. Today, we'll explore life by discussing a variety of subjects, from the metaphysical aspects of life to the power of your conscious choice and any and everything in between.  01:49:00My Life My Choicenolife choices,dr wendy dearborne,choice expert,metaphysical,Olivia LashleyJoin me, choice expert, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and expression coach Olivia Lashley as we begin to wrap this year up by having a talk about the potpourri of our livhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/12/04/life-after-surviving-a-life-shortening-illnessSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/12/04/life-after-surviving-a-life-shortening-illness/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/12/04/life-after-surviving-a-life-shortening-illnessWed, 04 Dec 2013 21:00:00 GMTLife After Surviving A Life Shortening IllnessIf you have ever been told that you are not going to make “it”…but have, and you are now wondering where “do I” go from here, then this show is for you.  If you have a loved one that had been told by the medical powers to be that they are not going to make it, but they have, then this show is for you too.  If in the back of your mind you feel that one day your diagnosed illness will return, with a vengeance…then this show is for you too!  In fact it’s for all of you.    Today, we’ll explore what it takes to stay healthy after surviving a terminal illness.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, Choice Expert and Expression Coach & Artist Olivia Lashley. 01:49:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,life coach educator,health and wellness,choicesIf you have ever been told that you are not going to make “it”…but have, and you are now wondering where “do I” go from here, then this show is for you.  If youhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/11/27/being-thankful-is-all-we-gotSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/11/27/being-thankful-is-all-we-got/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/11/27/being-thankful-is-all-we-gotWed, 27 Nov 2013 21:00:00 GMTBeing Thankful Is All We GotBeing thankful is all we got.  At the end of the day when all the dust settles, when your emotions stop raging, when the tears are gone, when the fears have been chased away; what you are left with is…you.  And YOU get to choose what you do with the “WHAT’S LEFT.” Simple in theory, yet has a complexity that sometime obscures our ability. Being thankful is a state of mind that creates a state of being!  And you create that state of mind. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore the power of being thankful. 01:08:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Choice Expert,Life coach educator,My Life My Choice,ThankfulBeing thankful is all we got.  At the end of the day when all the dust settles, when your emotions stop raging, when the tears are gone, when the fears have beehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/11/20/discipline-who-needs-it-the-parent-or-the-childSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/11/20/discipline-who-needs-it-the-parent-or-the-child/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/11/20/discipline-who-needs-it-the-parent-or-the-childWed, 20 Nov 2013 21:00:00 GMTDiscipline: Who Needs It The Parent or The Child?When it comes to raising a happy healthy and socially integrated child and being a happy parent too, there is without a doubt one tool that can support you in achieving both goals.  When you mention the word discipline in the same breath as children, most people think in terms of punishment.   There is so much more to that word than punishment.    Parenting expert coach, author, lecturer, teacher educator and trainer Heather Criswell will be joining us today to share her thoughts on “How To Raise A Happy Child & Be Happy Too.”  Coach Criswell is also the recipient of both the Mom’s Choice Award and Creative Child Magazine’s; Book of the Year Award.  So, join me choice expert Dr. Wendy Dearborne and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley and Parenting Coach Heather Criswell as we look at the powerful role discipline plays in raising your child. 02:00:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Coach Expert,Life Coach,Life Coach Educator,Heather CriswellWhen it comes to raising a happy healthy and socially integrated child and being a happy parent too, there is without a doubt one tool that can support you in ahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/11/13/understanding-your-yes-or-noSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/11/13/understanding-your-yes-or-no/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/11/13/understanding-your-yes-or-noWed, 13 Nov 2013 21:00:00 GMTUnderstanding Your Yes or No!Understanding the  power of your yes and no and which power base you come from is can denotes the trajectory of your life. Where have your Yes's and NO's taken you...more importantly where do you want them to take you. Join me Choice Expert, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach & Artist Olivia Lashley as we look at letting your yes be yes and your no be no...NOW 01:25:00My Life My ChoicenoUnderstanding the  power of your yes and no and which power base you come from is can denotes the trajectory of your life. Where have your Yes's and NO's takenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/11/06/green-smoothies-4-weight-lossSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/11/06/green-smoothies-4-weight-loss/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/11/06/green-smoothies-4-weight-lossWed, 06 Nov 2013 21:00:00 GMTGreen Smoothies 4 Weight LossWould you like to shed unwanted pounds without feeling deprived and restricted?  Would you like to enjoy all your holiday favorite foods and enter into the New Year a few pounds lighter?  Well you can by join us in a 2 day or 48 hour green smoothie fast.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach and Artist Olivia Lashley  as we go over the details on what to do and where to get all the how to information.   01:30:00My Life My Choicenodiet plans,nutirition,green smoothies,Dr Wendy Dearborne,my life my choiceWould you like to shed unwanted pounds without feeling deprived and restricted?  Would you like to enjoy all your holiday favorite foods and enter into the Newhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/10/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-co-creation-with-godSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/10/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-co-creation-with-god/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/10/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-co-creation-with-godWed, 30 Oct 2013 20:00:00 GMTIs There Such A Thing As Co-creation With God? I've heard the phrase and have used the phrase myself, often, that I co-create with God?  In last week show I had an "aha moment" or an epiphany, if you will that lead me to ask myself this question, "is there such a thing as co-creation with God?"  What percentage of your choice making is yours and what percentage is God's? Join me,Choice Expert Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore the subject of you, choices, creation, co-creations and  God. 01:17:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,conscious choice,transformational growth,life coaching,spiritualityI've heard the phrase and have used the phrase myself, often, that I co-create with God?  In last week show I had an "aha moment" or an epiphany, if you will thttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/10/23/no-man-is-an-island-true-or-falseSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/10/23/no-man-is-an-island-true-or-false/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/10/23/no-man-is-an-island-true-or-falseWed, 23 Oct 2013 20:00:00 GMTNo Man Is An Island True or False? Are we marooned on an Island by ourselves or are we living collective, yet individual lives? Do we co-create or create our lives? Join me, Choice Expert Dr. Wendy Dearborne as Expression Coach and Artist Olivia Lashley gives us a new perspective on the phrase “No Man Is An Island.” 01:54:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Life choices,Olivia Lashley,spiritual understanding,Transformational growthAre we marooned on an Island by ourselves or are we living collective, yet individual lives? Do we co-create or create our lives? Join me, Choice Expert Dr.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/10/16/bam-vs-abracadabra-prosperity-part-iiiSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/10/16/bam-vs-abracadabra-prosperity-part-iii/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/10/16/bam-vs-abracadabra-prosperity-part-iiiWed, 16 Oct 2013 20:00:00 GMTBAM vs Abracadabra Prosperity Part III BAM has a special meaning where prosperity is concerned and creating all that you desire.  But does BAM mean the same thing as Abracadabra? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert as I explore what BAM can mean in your life. 00:58:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,prosperity,Life choices,self awareness,spiritual growthBAM has a special meaning where prosperity is concerned and creating all that you desire.  But does BAM mean the same thing as Abracadabra? Join me Dr. Wendyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/10/09/understanding-true-prosperity-part-iiSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/10/09/understanding-true-prosperity-part-ii/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/10/09/understanding-true-prosperity-part-iiWed, 09 Oct 2013 20:00:00 GMTUnderstanding True Prosperity Part II What does prosperity mean to you?  Your answer is key in how prosperity shows up in your life.   In today's show we are going to look at attaching the Universal Laws to what prosperity means to you.  Being prosperous is more than JUST having money.  Prosperity is your state of being.  We’ll also look at tithing and what that may or may not mean. Join me, Dr. wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expressions Coach Olivia Lashley as we continue exploring prosperity. 01:53:00My Life My ChoicenoProsperity,dr wendy dearborne,tithing,spiritual understanding,choicesWhat does prosperity mean to you?  Your answer is key in how prosperity shows up in your life.   In today's show we are going to look at attaching the Universahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/10/02/how-to-become-prosperous-using-energy-and-efficiency-part-1Spiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/10/02/how-to-become-prosperous-using-energy-and-efficiency-part-1/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/10/02/how-to-become-prosperous-using-energy-and-efficiency-part-1Wed, 02 Oct 2013 20:00:00 GMTHow To Become Prosperous Using Energy And Efficiency: Part 1 What do energy and efficiency have to do with being prosperous?  Everything!  Energy is the creative process and efficiency helps to anchor and direct intention.  These are the first two foundational stones, in a series of eight Universal Laws that we’ll be exploring.  Join me, Dr Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley.      01:30:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,prosperity,self coaching,choices,spiritualityWhat do energy and efficiency have to do with being prosperous?  Everything!  Energy is the creative process and efficiency helps to anchor and direct intentiohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/09/25/do-you-have-your-dawn-yetSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/09/25/do-you-have-your-dawn-yet/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/09/25/do-you-have-your-dawn-yetWed, 25 Sep 2013 20:00:00 GMTDo You Have Your D.A.W.N Yet? Do you have your D.A.W.N yet?  Do you know what D.A.W.N means?  There is a spiritual meaning behind the acronym D.A.W.N.  As the sun rises and set so it is with your life.    Artist Olivia Lashley and creator of The Little Box Boutique will be talking about her creations and how the rise of your D.A.W.N can support and assist you on your spiritual journey through life.  01:43:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,staying positive,spiritual tools,self coachingDo you have your D.A.W.N yet?  Do you know what D.A.W.N means?  There is a spiritual meaning behind the acronym D.A.W.N.  As the sun rises and set so it is withttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/09/18/there-are-no-mistakes-in-lifeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/09/18/there-are-no-mistakes-in-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/09/18/there-are-no-mistakes-in-lifeWed, 18 Sep 2013 20:00:00 GMTThere Are No Mistakes In Life There are no mistakes in your life, there is only how you view to look at a situation, person or event.  And how you choose to let your view influence what you do.  There are no mistakes.  There are only CHOICES!   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne as we explore how to create something positive out of a perceived negative situation. 01:29:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life choices,staying positive,conscious understanding,spiritual expansionThere are no mistakes in your life, there is only how you view to look at a situation, person or event.  And how you choose to let your view influence what youhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/09/11/the-choice-is-nowSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/09/11/the-choice-is-now/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/09/11/the-choice-is-nowWed, 11 Sep 2013 20:00:00 GMTThe Choice Is Now Not yesterday.  Not tomorrow.  Not later.  It NOW.  The time that you are in is NOW this moment.  What you choose in this moment will create the rest of your life...so what's it going to be. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne as I talk about The Choice Is Now and our new prosperity series starting in October. 00:53:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,prosperity,life choices,life coach expert,spiritual expansionNot yesterday.  Not tomorrow.  Not later.  It NOW.  The time that you are in is NOW this moment.  What you choose in this moment will create the rest of yourhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/09/04/im-looking-for-god-can-you-help-meSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/09/04/im-looking-for-god-can-you-help-me/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/09/04/im-looking-for-god-can-you-help-meWed, 04 Sep 2013 20:00:00 GMTI'm Looking For God. Can You Help Me? So, you are looking for God.  Before we start out discussing this I have one question that I want you to answer, "Where have you been looking?" Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore looking for God. 01:56:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,conscious choice,conscious understanding,Awareness of choice,spiritual expansionSo, you are looking for God.  Before we start out discussing this I have one question that I want you to answer, "Where have you been looking?" Join me, Dr. Whttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/08/28/what-do-you-want-your-eulogy-to-say-about-youMotivationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/08/28/what-do-you-want-your-eulogy-to-say-about-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/08/28/what-do-you-want-your-eulogy-to-say-about-youWed, 28 Aug 2013 20:00:00 GMTWhat Do You Want Your Eulogy To Say About You? What do you want people to say about you on your passing?  What kind of conversation do you want to have on your transition or deathbed?  Or when you meet up with the eternal you that never dies.  What conversation do you want to have with you then?  The conversation that you want to have with you or how you desire to be eulogized is predicated on the choices that you are making in your life today, this minute, this second…in the now.  So think about the carbon foot print that you’ll leave behind, because as sure as you are breathing, you will be leaving behind a thread which imbues the essence of you. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we look at the power of your eulogy.   01:29:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy Dearborne,life coaches,spirituality,personal growth,life coachingWhat do you want people to say about you on your passing?  What kind of conversation do you want to have on your transition or deathbed?  Or when you meethttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/08/21/what-kind-of-life-coach-are-youSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/08/21/what-kind-of-life-coach-are-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/08/21/what-kind-of-life-coach-are-youWed, 21 Aug 2013 20:00:00 GMTWhat Kind of Life Coach Are You? A life coach, is a title, much like a doctor, lawyer, nurse etc.  You know what they do...in a general sort of way, but, unless they specify you won't know what their specialty is and if their expertise, is something that can help you.  Today, we’ll speak with two coaches Coach Heather Criswell and Coach Karen Campbell who will talk about their coaching styles and specialties.  Join me Choice Expert Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we take a look at coaching styles.  01:25:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life choices,conscious awareness,life coach expert,conscious choiceA life coach, is a title, much like a doctor, lawyer, nurse etc.  You know what they do...in a general sort of way, but, unless they specify you won't know whahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/08/14/its-my-life-its-my-choiceSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/08/14/its-my-life-its-my-choice/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/08/14/its-my-life-its-my-choiceWed, 14 Aug 2013 20:00:00 GMTIt's My Life It's My ChoiceToday we are going back to basics.  We'll be looking at our connection with our foundation...CHOICE...and what that means.  Join me Dr Wendy Dearborne choice expert, and expression coach Olivia Lashley as we look at life and  your ability to choose.01:26:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,life coach,self empowerment,conscious understandingToday we are going back to basics.  We'll be looking at our connection with our foundation...CHOICE...and what that means.  Join me Dr Wendy Dearborne choice exhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/08/07/can-a-life-coach-help-me-to-straighten-out-my-lifeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/08/07/can-a-life-coach-help-me-to-straighten-out-my-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/08/07/can-a-life-coach-help-me-to-straighten-out-my-lifeWed, 07 Aug 2013 20:00:00 GMTCan A Life Coach Help Me To Straighten Out My Life? That is a million dollar question that is fully loaded.  Last week we spoke about what a life coach does.  This week we’ll look at your role as the client seeking a life coach.    So do you…need a life coach?   As a choice expert and coach, you might be surprised by my answer.  In the interim, there are 10 things that you may want to consider, before you answer that question. Join me Choice Expert Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach and Artist Olivia Lashley as we explore the 10 questions that can help you define the support that you are looking for. 01:30:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life coaching,self development,personal choice,life coachThat is a million dollar question that is fully loaded.  Last week we spoke about what a life coach does.  This week we’ll look at your role as the client seekhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/07/31/so-you-think-you-want-to-be-a-life-coachSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/07/31/so-you-think-you-want-to-be-a-life-coach/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/07/31/so-you-think-you-want-to-be-a-life-coachWed, 31 Jul 2013 20:00:00 GMTSo You Think You Want To Be A Life Coach?So you think you want to be a life coach?  In today’s show we are going to discuss in detail what a life coach does and doesn’t do.  We’ll look at different types of training and examine what it takes to become a certified life coach.  We’ll talk about the earning capacity and establishing a successful coaching practice.  If you have ever thought about becoming a life coach, then this show is a must for you.  Join me Choice Expert, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore a career in life coaching. 01:28:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life coaching,conscious understanding,life choices,self coachingSo you think you want to be a life coach?  In today’s show we are going to discuss in detail what a life coach does and doesn’t do.  We’ll look at different typhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/07/24/the-spirit-within-uSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/07/24/the-spirit-within-u/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/07/24/the-spirit-within-uWed, 24 Jul 2013 20:00:00 GMTThe Spirit Within U Karen Campbell is an amazing woman whose spiritual awakening and journey lead her to the creation of “The Spirit Within U.”  She built a spiritual community learning center right here in Las Vegas and for the global community she established an online learning center.  Her core concept for the Spirit Within U is dedicated to supporting people who are on their own spiritual pathway. Every day people who need a spiritual home, a safe place of learning and understanding, or who just need to find people of like minds she has created a powerful “touch stone” for all who are consciously connecting with self.  Today she will be sharing her amazing story with us of how she found out about The Power of The Spirit Within You.  Join me, Choice Expert Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley and  Life Coach Karen M Campbell. 01:30:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life choices,staying positive,self empowerment,conscious choiceKaren Campbell is an amazing woman whose spiritual awakening and journey lead her to the creation of “The Spirit Within U.”  She built a spiritual community lehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/07/17/how-do-i-put-me-back-togetherSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/07/17/how-do-i-put-me-back-together/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/07/17/how-do-i-put-me-back-togetherWed, 17 Jul 2013 20:00:00 GMTHow Do I Put Me Back Together? Your life has shattered into a million different pieces. Divorce, death, disease, disaster disillusionment and disappointment we’ve all experience something in our lives that has left us saying, “this isn’t what I signed up for.”   What happened isn’t what you had expected, you didn’t plan it this way.  But the reality is that it has…and…it did, happen that way and now you are standing in the middle of the debris that IS your life.   How do you put you...your life  back together?  This is a question that keeps the medical health profession and pharmaceuticals in BIG business.  Join me, Choice Expert Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we discuss putting ourselves back together. 01:53:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,conscious awareness,life choices,self coachingYour life has shattered into a million different pieces. Divorce, death, disease, disaster disillusionment and disappointment we’ve all experience something inhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/07/10/the-master-key-for-successSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/07/10/the-master-key-for-success/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/07/10/the-master-key-for-successWed, 10 Jul 2013 20:00:00 GMTThe Master Key For Success You hold the master key for your own success.  The key is simplistic by design and easy to use.  All you need to do is use it.  Your key opens the way for more than personal empowerment or the manifestation of things, which is all a part of using your key. Your key blasts opens the portal between the subconscious and conscious minds.  This gives you direct access to all that you require to attain your highest potential.  Join me, Choice Expert Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expressions Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore your master key.   01:31:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,choice expert,spoken word,spiritual awareness,life coachYou hold the master key for your own success.  The key is simplistic by design and easy to use.  All you need to do is use it.  Your key opens the way for morehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/07/03/how-does-your-life-story-benefit-youSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/07/03/how-does-your-life-story-benefit-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/07/03/how-does-your-life-story-benefit-youWed, 03 Jul 2013 20:00:00 GMTHow Does Your Life Story Benefit You? Is it possible that your life story (the current life that you are living) is YOUR personal “who dunnit? designed by you for you to get you want in life?  Who is writing you chapters in your book of life…if not you? Who has written the current script that you are working from?  There is a lesson in every story.  So what is your life story teaching you?  Join me Choice Expert and Life Coach Educator Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach & Artist Olivia Lashley as we explore the benefits consciously creating you. 01:29:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life choices,life coach,life coach expert,self coachingIs it possible that your life story (the current life that you are living) is YOUR personal “who dunnit? designed by you for you to get you want in life?  Whohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/06/26/are-living-life-looking-in-your-rear-view-mirrorSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/06/26/are-living-life-looking-in-your-rear-view-mirror/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/06/26/are-living-life-looking-in-your-rear-view-mirrorWed, 26 Jun 2013 20:00:00 GMTAre Living Life Looking In Your Rear View Mirror? If you choose to drive looking your rear view mirror or get into a vehicle with someone who operates a vehicle like that chances are…you will crash.  Chances are…you will not stay on your pathway.  And chances you will not stay in your lane.  The only way you can experience life is by moving forward.  Whatever you are focused on that is where your forward momentum will carry you.  That’s the direction that you will be moving in. So what are you focused on?  Your destiny or your history? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne & Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we look at forward momentum 01:29:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life choices,conscious awareness,self empowerment,self coachingIf you choose to drive looking your rear view mirror or get into a vehicle with someone who operates a vehicle like that chances are…you will crash.  Chances ahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/06/19/how-to-stay-positiveSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/06/19/how-to-stay-positive/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/06/19/how-to-stay-positiveWed, 19 Jun 2013 20:00:00 GMTHow To Stay Positive Staying positive when your life is evolving in ways that you don’t want can be a challenge.  The loss of a loved one, things, job, self worth etc. you name it all create a paradigm for the spiral downward into our self created abyss. Finding a single technique that can be used for all situations to keep you on track and in alignment with your goals, is the key that you need for attaining and succeeding in life. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we look at how to create your personalizedpositivity key. 01:30:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life choices,staying positive,life choices,self coachingStaying positive when your life is evolving in ways that you don’t want can be a challenge.  The loss of a loved one, things, job, self worth etc. you name ithttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/06/12/are-you-a-good-neighborSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/06/12/are-you-a-good-neighbor/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/06/12/are-you-a-good-neighborWed, 12 Jun 2013 20:00:00 GMTAre You A Good Neighbor? Are you good to your neighbor?  Do you even know your neighbor?  Do you know what’s going on in your neighborhood?  Do you speak to your neighbor?  When was the last time you went out of your way to help your neighbor?  And do you know who your closest neighbor is?   As we explore the metaphysical nature of this question, it brings a different perspective to the words, "Thou Shalt Love Thy Neighbor As Thyself." [Roman 13:9] Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we look what’s going on in your hood! 01:26:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,conscious choice,conscious awareness,Authenic living,choicesAre you good to your neighbor?  Do you even know your neighbor?  Do you know what’s going on in your neighborhood?  Do you speak to your neighbor?  When was thhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/06/05/what-do-you-want-your-eulogy-to-say-about-youSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/06/05/what-do-you-want-your-eulogy-to-say-about-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/06/05/what-do-you-want-your-eulogy-to-say-about-youWed, 05 Jun 2013 20:00:00 GMTWhat Do You Want Your Eulogy To Say About You? What do you want people to say about you on your passing?  What kind of conversation do you want to have on your transition or deathbed?  Or when you meet up with the eternal you that never dies.  What conversation do you want to have with you then?  The conversation that you want to have with you or how you desire to be eulogized is predicated on the choices that you are making in your life today, this minute, this second…in the now.  So think about the carbon foot print that you’ll leave behind, because as sure as you are breathing, you will be leaving behind a thread which imbues the essence of you. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we look at the power of your eulogy. 01:29:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,conscious choice,Your eulogy,creative source,conscious understandingWhat do you want people to say about you on your passing?  What kind of conversation do you want to have on your transition or deathbed?  Or when you meet up whttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/05/29/what-is-the-point-of-choiceSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/05/29/what-is-the-point-of-choice/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/05/29/what-is-the-point-of-choiceWed, 29 May 2013 20:00:00 GMTWhat Is The Point Of Choice? What role does choice…your choice, other people’s choices, the mass mind or collective consciousness play in the evolution of your life?   Can conscious choice and the awareness of your choices support you in creating the life that you want to live?  As a choice expert, I know personally and professionally the role that choice plays in my life and how the role of choice impacts the lives of people.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we reconnect with the idea of choice and what it means in the equation of creating the life that you want to live. 01:52:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,conscious choice,life choices,Awareness of choice,choicesWhat role does choice…your choice, other people’s choices, the mass mind or collective consciousness play in the evolution of your life?   Can conscious choihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/05/01/green-smoothie-fastingSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/05/01/green-smoothie-fasting/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/05/01/green-smoothie-fastingWed, 01 May 2013 20:00:00 GMTGreen Smoothie Fasting Our 30 day greens smoothie challenge/fast officially ended yesterday.  The journey has been amazing.  I want to share some of the benefits and highlights with you.     01:20:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Green Smoothies,Food is medicine,consciousness eating,conscious choiceOur 30 day greens smoothie challenge/fast officially ended yesterday.  The journey has been amazing.  I want to share some of the benefits and highlights withhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/04/24/whats-should-or-shouldnt-i-be-eatingSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/04/24/whats-should-or-shouldnt-i-be-eating/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/04/24/whats-should-or-shouldnt-i-be-eatingWed, 24 Apr 2013 20:00:00 GMTWhat's Should Or Shouldn't I Be Eating? Trying to eat the “right thing” can create untold challenges in your life.  Being environmentally and politically correct, along with trying hard to  fit in with the current social trends, can place a serious strain on your wallet and more importantly, place a hazardous strain on your physical, mental and emotional well being.  Yoyo dieting, fad dieting, rollercoaster dietary scientific findings and suggestions, fashion designers, corporations and the media play a huge role in our state of health.  So much so that one day we are told eggs are taboo and the next…you must eat eggs to be in the pink of health.  However, you do have a choice over what you can do for you.  You do have control over creating a balanced healthy dietary lifestyle that is uniquely designed for you.   And guys, it really is very simple.  Join me choice expert Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore dieting and you. 01:50:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,conscious choice,Food is medicine,self empowerment,Universal UnderstandingTrying to eat the “right thing” can create untold challenges in your life.  Being environmentally and politically correct, along with trying hard to  fit in wihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/04/17/do-you-believeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/04/17/do-you-believe/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/04/17/do-you-believeWed, 17 Apr 2013 20:00:00 GMTDo You Believe!? Or Do You Believe? Do you believe!?  Or do you believe? Or are you  just a believer?  How do you know that you believe?  Would you choose to live for your beliefs?  How do you know that that which you profess to believe in is real? I'm back on the power of belief again.  Join us as we, that's me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley C.C  explore this dynamic subject. 01:26:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,belief,conscious understanding,personal choice,self coachingDo you believe!?  Or do you believe? Or are you  just a believer?  How do you know that you believe?  Would you choose to live for your beliefs?  How do you knhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/04/10/when-wrong-is-really-the-right-waySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/04/10/when-wrong-is-really-the-right-way/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/04/10/when-wrong-is-really-the-right-wayWed, 10 Apr 2013 20:00:00 GMTWhen Wrong Is Really The Right Way Can you see the silver lining in the thunder cloud?  Sometimes in life it has to go all wrong so that life can set you on the right pathway.  Finding the good and being grateful for it the good in the bad situation can transform your life.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore the silver lining that enshrouds our lives. 01:40:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,understanding,bad things happen for a reason,life choices,spiritual expansionCan you see the silver lining in the thunder cloud?  Sometimes in life it has to go all wrong so that life can set you on the right pathway.  Finding the goodhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/04/03/you-are-what-you-eatSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/04/03/you-are-what-you-eat/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/04/03/you-are-what-you-eatWed, 03 Apr 2013 20:00:00 GMTYou Are What You Eat? What if the old axiom "you are what you eat" is really true?"  Based on that fact alone, who are you.  This is something to ponder and discuss.  The spirituality of food and the multiple ways in which it can and will affect your life is nothing short of amazing.  Use food as a tool to support your mind body and spiritual connection and growth.   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we talk about the hidden wonders of food.   01:46:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,spirituality of food,Food is medicine,consciousness eating,conscious choiceWhat if the old axiom "you are what you eat" is really true?"  Based on that fact alone, who are you.  This is something to ponder and discuss.  The spirituahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/03/27/angel-speake-readingSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/03/27/angel-speake-reading/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/03/27/angel-speake-readingWed, 27 Mar 2013 20:00:00 GMTAngel Speake Reading Do you know how to communicate with your Angels?  Today, we are joined by Denise Stefan, an intuitive oracle reader and facilitator of Angelspeake.  Denise will be talking about her life her experiences and how they ultimately created the paradigm for her to be able to communicate with her Guardian Angel Claire.   Denise will discuss how she talks with her Angels, Masters and Spirit Guides.  She will also be conducting live mini oracle readings.  Denise says, “you will never feel alone and will have the answers to all of your questions – just ask and the Angels will Speake!” 01:37:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Angel Readings,Spirit Guides,Angelspeake,conscious understandingDo you know how to communicate with your Angels?  Today, we are joined by Denise Stefan, an intuitive oracle reader and facilitator of Angelspeake.  Denise wihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/03/20/how-do-i-get-to-know-myselfSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/03/20/how-do-i-get-to-know-myself/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/03/20/how-do-i-get-to-know-myselfWed, 20 Mar 2013 20:00:00 GMTHow Do I Get To Know Myself? This is a question that has been asked by many people from many faiths, from many walks of life, from many different cultures and who have differing beliefs.  How do I build a relationship with myself?  Well, it starts with choosing you.  Join us as we, that’s, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley explore this subject. 01:15:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life choices,relationships,God within you,conscious understandingThis is a question that has been asked by many people from many faiths, from many walks of life, from many different cultures and who have differing beliefs.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/03/13/freedom-to-beSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/03/13/freedom-to-be/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/03/13/freedom-to-beWed, 13 Mar 2013 20:00:00 GMTFreedom To BeThe Freedom To Be is a uniquely personal experience that carries the weight or the weightlessness of ownership, responsibility and accountability.  Your Freedom To Be , speaks of your conscious awareness of choosing for self, by self.  You either choose what you are wanting for self or  your choose what the mass mind/consciousness chooses for you.  What does freedom mean to you? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore freedom and what it can mean. 01:30:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,freedom,life choices,self empowerment,self coachingThe Freedom To Be is a uniquely personal experience that carries the weight or the weightlessness of ownership, responsibility and accountability.  Your Freedomhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/03/06/the-mystical-power-of-i-am-that-i-amSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/03/06/the-mystical-power-of-i-am-that-i-am/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/03/06/the-mystical-power-of-i-am-that-i-amWed, 06 Mar 2013 21:00:00 GMTThe Mystical Power of I AM That I AM There is a mystical power found in  the words I AM.  Magical power is unleashed when these words, "I AM," are uttered, whether silently or audibly, knowingly or unknowingly. I AM that I AM and ALL that I AM IS, and IS, is ALL that I Am. I AM is All that I ever will be, for ALL that I AM is who I AM. When you understand the significance of the phrase "I Am that I AM" and the relevance it has in how you make choices  you will experience a paradigm shift that has the potential to turn your world on its axis. Join me, Rev. Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore the metaphysical meaning of the phrase I AM that I AM. 01:31:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,mystical power,spoken word,life choices,conscious awarenessThere is a mystical power found in  the words I AM.  Magical power is unleashed when these words, "I AM," are uttered, whether silently or audibly, knowingly ohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/02/27/is-there-such-a-thing-as-failureSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/02/27/is-there-such-a-thing-as-failure/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/02/27/is-there-such-a-thing-as-failureWed, 27 Feb 2013 21:00:00 GMTIs There Such A Thing As Failure? When things happen in our lives in a way that we didn’t want or hadn’t anticipated, we call it a mistake or failure.  But is it?  Is it really a mistake?  Did you really fail?  There are so many different reframes that you can use to look at any situation in your life. Reframes, in this instance, that not only speak of new possibilities, but speak in ways that allow you, should you choose, to let go of people, places and things that no longer have effective relevance in your life.  What do you consider to be your biggest failure and your greatest failing?  Could this be your greatest success?  Could failure plant you in the center of your square of self empowerment?  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we look at failure. 01:29:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life choices,Success,conscious belief,spiritual expansionWhen things happen in our lives in a way that we didn’t want or hadn’t anticipated, we call it a mistake or failure.  But is it?  Is it really a mistake?  Didhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/02/20/your-dreams-are-a-spiritual-toolSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/02/20/your-dreams-are-a-spiritual-tool/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/02/20/your-dreams-are-a-spiritual-toolWed, 20 Feb 2013 21:00:00 GMTYour Dreams Are A Spiritual ToolWe all come here with the same set of basic spiritual tools.  Tools that we are fairly familiar with intuition or insight, meditation, breathing, yoga etc.  But we also have a spiritual tool that many of us choose to over look, primarily, because we don’t know how to use it.  That tool is our very own and personal dream state.   We are honored to have Dr. Michael Lennox back with us to talk about dreams and a retreat he is facilitating in Montana in June.  Dr. Michael Lennox (Los Angeles, CA) michaellennox.com is a practicing psychologist and one of the most respected and sought after dream interpreters in the U.S. His book, Dream Sight: A Dictionary and Guide for Interpreting Any Dream, for me is one of the foremost books written in this field.  He has appeared on SyFy, MTV, and many radio shows, and has published articles in Today's Woman, TV Guide, and other magazines.   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we talk to Dr. Michael about his work and what you’ll experience at the retreat coming up in June.  01:13:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Dr Michael Lennox,Dream interpretation,spiritual growth,choicesWe all come here with the same set of basic spiritual tools.  Tools that we are fairly familiar with intuition or insight, meditation, breathing, yoga etc.  Buthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/02/13/survival-are-you-just-survivingSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/02/13/survival-are-you-just-surviving/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/02/13/survival-are-you-just-survivingWed, 13 Feb 2013 21:00:00 GMTSurvival Are You Just Surviving? Are you going through life in survival mode?  Survival, like all things has an illuminated side and it has a shadow side that can cast a pall or dark cloud over every aspect of your life.  It can inspire you to great heights or it can imprison you within a mental jail of your making. Survival is a metaphysical tool that is designed to support you in getting out of or getting away from people, places and things that will harm you. Survival is a mode that we are not designed to live our lives by, but is designed to be use to create and live the lives that we choose.  Join us Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we discuss the reasons why it is to your detriment to live your life in a constant state of survival.   01:30:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,survival,conscious awareness,conscious belief,choicesAre you going through life in survival mode?  Survival, like all things has an illuminated side and it has a shadow side that can cast a pall or dark cloud ovehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/02/06/the-oneness-that-is-all-thingsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/02/06/the-oneness-that-is-all-things/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/02/06/the-oneness-that-is-all-thingsWed, 06 Feb 2013 21:00:00 GMTThe Oneness That Is All Things You are plugged directly into a Power Source that is attached to all people, places, things and functions.  The Creative Process or Universal Principle that flows through the river Nile, in Egypt, is the same Creative Principle that heals the paper cut on your finger.  It’s the same Creative Principle we witness when a baby takes his/her first breath or an elder takes their last.  This Creative Source is the very same Universal energy that poured the foundation of your life.   It furnishes you with the tools to build the life you have and will support you in recreating any aspect of living that you want to change.  There is but “One Power” “One Source” that flows through us all and uses us and is to be used by us for perfect self expression. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we look and the Oneness of all things and what this can mean to us. 01:23:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,spiritual worth,conscious awareness,creative source,Universal UnderstandingYou are plugged directly into a Power Source that is attached to all people, places, things and functions.  The Creative Process or Universal Principle that flhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/01/30/how-do-i-become-a-better-meSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/01/30/how-do-i-become-a-better-me/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/01/30/how-do-i-become-a-better-meWed, 30 Jan 2013 21:00:00 GMTHow Do I Become A Better Me? How do I become a better person or version of myself?  How do I change me and some of the things that I do?  These are questions that in my practice I have been asked, a lot.  Enhancing what you consider to be the finer qualities of self starts with consciously choosing, YOU.  It starts by acknowledging that the structure you built that is now standing on your foundation needs to be remodeled.  That’s a process: Authenticity, ownership, surrender, responsibility, clarity, Universal Law of Discipline and accountability.    Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore this sensitive subject. 01:30:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,personality,life choices,spiritual growth,conscious understandingHow do I become a better person or version of myself?  How do I change me and some of the things that I do?  These are questions that in my practice I have beehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/01/23/creating-and-building-a-solid-life-foundationSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/01/23/creating-and-building-a-solid-life-foundation/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/01/23/creating-and-building-a-solid-life-foundationWed, 23 Jan 2013 21:00:00 GMTCreating And Building A Solid Life Foundation Knowing that you co-create your life’s foundation by “claiming” your thoughts, dreams and desires, places you in a position of “POWER.”  Change your thoughts, dreams and desires and change the foundation and or the building that you are constructing. Understanding the role your choices play in your LIFE, places you in a position of conscious creativity.  Use the Universal tools that you have access to, to build a structure that will rival anything else that you have created.  Design and leave a legacy to support those who come behind you. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore what this can mean for you and the life that you choose to live. 01:47:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Foundation of life,co creation,conscious belief,spiritual expansionKnowing that you co-create your life’s foundation by “claiming” your thoughts, dreams and desires, places you in a position of “POWER.”  Change your thoughts,http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/01/16/lets-create-the-foundation-to-live-your-life-onSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/01/16/lets-create-the-foundation-to-live-your-life-on/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2013/01/16/lets-create-the-foundation-to-live-your-life-onWed, 16 Jan 2013 21:00:00 GMTLet's Create The Foundation To Live The Rest Of Your Life On Do you want to change the square of life that you are currently standing upon?  Do you want something different now and for the rest of your life? Whether this is your health, wealth, relationships and or career.  The key to attaining this is in the stability of your foundation and what you build upon it. The foundation of your life is all about the "choices" you make.  To build anything, and I mean anything in your life, whether it is relationships, wealth, health, career, etc. requires two things:  Within your thought process, your ability for you to claim the end result.  Or, claim that which you desire.  And, your ability to see the end result or that which you desire. The actual foundation, on which you build your life on, is born of the thoughts and impressions that you have. You see, you don’t actually create the foundation itself, the Universe or whoever is your chosen deity, assist in that creation for process. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne, Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we look  how to begin creating a foundation that you want to live your life on. 01:21:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Foundation of life,life choices,self empowerment,conscious understandingDo you want to change the square of life that you are currently standing upon?  Do you want something different now and for the rest of your life? Whether thishttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/12/26/into-2013Spiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/12/26/into-2013/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/12/26/into-2013Wed, 26 Dec 2012 21:00:00 GMTInto 2013 Today we explore thoughts on how to create the foundation you want for 2013.  No, this show isn’t about New Year’s resolutions.  This show is about being resolute.  This show is all about you being the common denominator in your life and what that can mean to you.  Life is cyclic if nothing else, and 2012 was all about you becoming consciously aware that you are the common thread that runs through your life. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we discuss how to create a solid foundation for 2013. 01:41:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life choices,co creation,self empowerment,spiritual expansionToday we explore thoughts on how to create the foundation you want for 2013.  No, this show isn’t about New Year’s resolutions.  This show is about being resolhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/12/19/unwrap-the-12-gifts-under-your-tree-of-lifeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/12/19/unwrap-the-12-gifts-under-your-tree-of-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/12/19/unwrap-the-12-gifts-under-your-tree-of-lifeWed, 19 Dec 2012 21:00:00 GMTUnwrap The 12 Gifts Under Your Tree of Life In keeping with that tradition, but coloring outside the lines, we are going to unwrap the twelve gifts that are under your Tree of Life.  Gifts that have been given to you in fact are from you!  Each present holds the most beautiful gift.  And each gift is all about thePpresent and the Presence in your life. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we watch you unwrap the gifts under your Tree of Life. 02:01:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life choices,tree of life,conscious belief,self coachingIn keeping with that tradition, but coloring outside the lines, we are going to unwrap the twelve gifts that are under your Tree of Life.  Gifts that have beenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/12/12/green-is-4-life-a-guide-to-green-smoothies-part-2Spiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/12/12/green-is-4-life-a-guide-to-green-smoothies-part-2/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/12/12/green-is-4-life-a-guide-to-green-smoothies-part-2Wed, 12 Dec 2012 21:00:00 GMTGreen Is 4 Life: A Guide To Green Smoothies Part 2 In part 2 we continue to look at the fact that green smoothies can change your life in ways that you can't even imagine. When you balance the body, the mind and spirit MUST follow.  That is the Universal law of action and reaction. Green Smoothies are an excellent way to optimize your health.  They act as a multifaceted supports system that can trigger your innate healing response.   In addition to creating a foundation for healthy, vibrant cell regeneration they also, by virtue of the “alive and life” giving plant based structure, create harmony between the tri-core, the mind, body and spirit.  And this is where we want to go.  Our guest this week is Patricia Winlow, High School counselor who decided to conduct a 30 day green smoothie fast to recalibrate and support her body with her desire to conceive.  Patricia will share her experiences with you. Join us, Dr Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we continue to delve into the Green Is 4 Life and power of green smoothies. 01:31:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Green Smoothies,Choice Health Options,spiritual growth,self coachingIn part 2 we continue to look at the fact that green smoothies can change your life in ways that you can't even imagine. When you balance the body, the mind anhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/12/05/green-is-4-life-a-guide-to-experiencing-green-smoothiesSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/12/05/green-is-4-life-a-guide-to-experiencing-green-smoothies/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/12/05/green-is-4-life-a-guide-to-experiencing-green-smoothiesWed, 05 Dec 2012 21:00:00 GMTGreen Is 4 Life: A Guide To Experiencing Green SmoothiesGreen Is 4 Life: A Complete Guide To Experiencing The Vitality of Green Smoothies.  Available 12/20/2012 Greens, as in the vital light to dark colored leafy vegetables that are the bane of many people’s lives, have been proven to have tremendous health giving properties.   “Yuck!  Really!?  You eat that!?”  Or as in my case “you drink that!?”  Sludge, mud and many other unflattering things, along with physical shudders and scathing looks have been the reactions to “my life giving green smoothies.  Today, I want to share how easy it is to create and integrate delicious healthy greens smoothies made with life giving vegetables. Along with the launch of my eBook, Green Is 4 Life: A Complete Guide To Experiencing The Vitality of Green Smoothies.  Available for download formats.  December 20th 2012 Green Smoothies are an excellent way to optimize your health.  They act as a multifaceted supports system that can trigger your innate healing response.   In addition to creating a foundation for healthy, vibrant cell regeneration they also, by virtue of the “live life” giving plant based structure, which by nature is designed to create harmony between the tri-core, the mind, body and spirit. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach & Artist Olivia Lashley as we look at what greens can do for you. 02:00:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Green Smoothies,Choice Health Options,consciousness eating,spiritual expansionGreen Is 4 Life: A Complete Guide To Experiencing The Vitality of Green Smoothies.  Available 12/20/2012 Greens, as in the vital light to dark colored leafy vehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/11/28/whats-in-the-armoire-of-your-mindSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/11/28/whats-in-the-armoire-of-your-mind/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/11/28/whats-in-the-armoire-of-your-mindWed, 28 Nov 2012 21:00:00 GMTWhat's In The Armoire Of Your Mind Today’s show is all about what you have inside your head, your armoire…which actually translates to what are the thoughts, pictures or images, movies and scripts going on inside your head.  You really need to do your own due diligence regarding anything that you hear me say on this radio show.  What I think and what you think may be two totally different things.  I’m not here to coerce or change your mind.  I’m simply presenting thoughts that may be of assistance to you in seeing ways in which to create the life that you want to live. So what do you have in the armoire of your mind?  Is it serving you or do you need to throw out things that no longer work for you!  This show first aired June 8th 2011. 01:27:00My Life My Choicenodr Wendy Dearborne,Life Choices,Spiritual Growth,Self coaching,Conscious thoughtToday’s show is all about what you have inside your head, your armoire…which actually translates to what are the thoughts, pictures or images, movies and scrhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/11/21/shut-the-bleep-upSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/11/21/shut-the-bleep-up/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/11/21/shut-the-bleep-upWed, 21 Nov 2012 21:00:00 GMTShut The Bleep Up Isn’t that what you feel like saying to all that insane, never ending chatter that goes on inside your head?  Yes!  You know exactly what I mean.  The seemingly useless chatter that follows us and torments us wherever we go…even while we are sleeping.  We possess multiple facets that assist us with our choice making process; including the logical, analytical and reasoning minds… they have the unique ability to produce that inane chatter that leads to mental and emotional paralysis of our choice making process.  Do you need to flip the switch and dial it down, so that you can move forward in your life?  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley to see! 01:20:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Choice Expert,Life Choices,Self coaching,Spiritual growthIsn’t that what you feel like saying to all that insane, never ending chatter that goes on inside your head?  Yes!  You know exactly what I mean.  The seeminhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/11/14/who-are-you-without-your-storySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/11/14/who-are-you-without-your-story/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/11/14/who-are-you-without-your-storyWed, 14 Nov 2012 21:00:00 GMTWho Are You Without Your Story Your history does not define your destiny, your choices do. So who are you without all your bling, rings and things?  Who are you without all the drama, hurts, wounds and victimology?  Who are you without your spouse, siblings and children?  Who are you without your religion, science and theological teachings?  Who are you without your labels, titles, jobs, ABC’s and 123’s? Just who are you when death is swirling, engulfing and consuming you…who are you then…when everything is stripped away; who are you?  Or more importantly who do you want to be? 01:30:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,life choices,Spiritual Growth,conscious understanding,self worthYour history does not define your destiny, your choices do. So who are you without all your bling, rings and things?  Who are you without all the drama, hurthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/11/09/surrendering-how-is-that-differentSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/11/09/surrendering-how-is-that-different/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/11/09/surrendering-how-is-that-differentFri, 09 Nov 2012 21:00:00 GMTSurrendering How is that different? Surrendering can create magic in your life, the kind of magic that allows your life to manifest the way in which you want it too.  The only thing about magic and the things you want in life is that you have to “believe in it” for it to work. Did you know that there is a difference between giving up and surrendering?  Surrendering! 00:57:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Choice Expert,Spiritual Growth,conscious understanding,Spiritual growthSurrendering can create magic in your life, the kind of magic that allows your life to manifest the way in which you want it too.  The only thing about magic ahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/11/07/stepping-into-the-reality-that-you-wantSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/11/07/stepping-into-the-reality-that-you-want/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/11/07/stepping-into-the-reality-that-you-wantWed, 07 Nov 2012 21:00:00 GMTStepping into the reality that you want.Create the reality that you want to live in, then step into it.  Is life really that simple?  Join me as we look at create the life that you want to live.01:27:00My Life My ChoicenoDr Wendy Dearborne,Choice Expert,Life Choices,Self coaching,Spiritual growthCreate the reality that you want to live in, then step into it.  Is life really that simple?  Join me as we look at create the life that you want to live.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/10/31/choice-is-food-for-thoughtSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/10/31/choice-is-food-for-thought/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/10/31/choice-is-food-for-thoughtWed, 31 Oct 2012 20:00:00 GMTChoice Is Food For ThoughtToday's show is all about reacquainting ourselves with the power to be found in our authentic choice.  Your Choice, My Choice...It's your life, so therefore it's your choice...so what do you choose to do for you today?01:17:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Choice expert,co creation,life choices,spiritual expansionToday's show is all about reacquainting ourselves with the power to be found in our authentic choice.  Your Choice, My Choice...It's your life, so therefore it'http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/10/24/ding-to-be-bornSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/10/24/ding-to-be-born/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/10/24/ding-to-be-bornWed, 24 Oct 2012 20:00:00 GMTDying To Be Born Yesterday faded away, so that today, in all its majestic glory came forth.  Not could, would should.  Today “DID” come forth.  And so it is with our lives.  We can consciously choose to have things fade away in our lives, so that new things, the new possibilities will come to fruition.   We can make the choice to let people, places and things that no longer serve us fall harmoniously away from us.  We can choose to let all these things die, choose to let them go, so that the new possibilities emerging for us will be transformed into the “NOW!”   Where we live…in the present!  Or you can choose to be drag along by the emerging possibilities that will be made manifest.   Energy moves into form and out of form, dying to what was, so that that energy, which was and is everlasting can be and will be transformed into something else.  We experience this daily.  Join me Dr Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach and Artist Olivia Lashley as we discuss what Dying To Be Born can mean in your life. 01:31:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life choices,dying to be born,self empowerment,self coachingYesterday faded away, so that today, in all its majestic glory came forth.  Not could, would should.  Today “DID” come forth.  And so it is with our lives.  Whttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/10/17/success-increase-your-success-rate-by-applying-this-principSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/10/17/success-increase-your-success-rate-by-applying-this-princip/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/10/17/success-increase-your-success-rate-by-applying-this-principWed, 17 Oct 2012 20:00:00 GMTSuccess: Increase Your Success Rate By Applying This Princip What Is Your Spirituality Worth?  Your spiritual worth brings up a multitude of questions that demand to be answered.  Each question is as valid as the last, because they are all about you and how you define you spiritually.   How you consciously define yourself spiritually is life will show up for you.   The worth that you place on your essence, on self will reflect in how your life manifests.  This is not to be confused with how much worth your spiritual essence places on you.  The intrinsic essence of you, the subconscious authentic you knows your worth and is ever striving to get your attention through your conscious mind.  How much are you worth spiritually?  And can you affix a price tag?  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we discuss what your conscious spirituality is worth to you. 01:23:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,spiritual worth,self worth,conscious belief,choicesWhat Is Your Spirituality Worth?  Your spiritual worth brings up a multitude of questions that demand to be answered.  Each question is as valid as the last, bhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/10/10/life-is-a-sentence-is-yours-inspired-or-uninspiredSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/10/10/life-is-a-sentence-is-yours-inspired-or-uninspired/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/10/10/life-is-a-sentence-is-yours-inspired-or-uninspiredWed, 10 Oct 2012 20:00:00 GMTLife Is A Sentence: Is Yours Inspired or Uninspired? We’ve all been handed the same life sentence.  The same sunrise and set, the same waxing and waning of the moon, the need for food, water, shelter and…love.  No matter where you are geographically, who you are said to be ethnically, spiritually, religiously or racially.  Male or female, whether you are healthy or not, young or old, bitter twisted and sad or happy, inspired and glad, we have all come here with the playing field that is level.  You see, we all have 1440 minutes or 86,400 seconds per day to create through choice the life that we want to live.   Are you living your life like you are currently serving a never ending stretch of time in some spiritual prison?  Or are you making every nanosecond, every moment, every minute, hour, day, week, month, year, YOUR - spiritual sojourn count?   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we discuss your life as a inspired LIFE sentence. 01:28:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,spiritual life sentence,mind control,conscious belief,choicesWe’ve all been handed the same life sentence.  The same sunrise and set, the same waxing and waning of the moon, the need for food, water, shelter and…love.  Nhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/10/03/spiritual-currency-guarantees-dividends-of-100-roiSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/10/03/spiritual-currency-guarantees-dividends-of-100-roi/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/10/03/spiritual-currency-guarantees-dividends-of-100-roiWed, 03 Oct 2012 20:00:00 GMTSpiritual Currency: Guarantees Dividends Of 100% ROI We are all looking for a big fat juicy return on our investments.  Any investment!  From health, wealth, love to relationships, careers and our spiritual endeavors.  You name it, whatever we do, we are looking for 100% return on our investment.  Any savvy investor will tell you that all investments come with a risk.  The fundamental truth behind that statement comes from the immutable Universal Law of Cause and Effect or Action and Reaction.  We all have spiritual currency that we can draw from…it’s an account with our name on it.  The question is how do we make withdrawals and do we need to make deposits?  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we discuss your spiritual currency and how to access it. 01:24:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,spiritual currency,Spiritual dividends,life choices,conscious understandingWe are all looking for a big fat juicy return on our investments.  Any investment!  From health, wealth, love to relationships, careers and our spiritual endeahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/09/26/are-you-growing-in-spiritSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/09/26/are-you-growing-in-spirit/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/09/26/are-you-growing-in-spiritWed, 26 Sep 2012 20:00:00 GMTAre You Growing In Spirit?Whether consciously or unconsciously or actively or inactively through the minutia that we create in our lives, we are all on a path way destine for growth.  This growth encompasses our physical, mental, emotional selves, which culminates in the growth of the Spiritual You.   We all have a tendency to get lost in the minutia of life, that’s the way we are raised.   So, how do you know that you are growing spiritually?  How do you know that you have grown in spirit?  Is your transition or death the ultimate litmus test to answer that question?  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we discuss spiritual growth and you. 01:20:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life choices,self worth,spiritual growth,conscious understandingWhether consciously or unconsciously or actively or inactively through the minutia that we create in our lives, we are all on a path way destine for growth.  Thhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/07/25/i-am-marrying-me-myself-iSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/07/25/i-am-marrying-me-myself-i/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/07/25/i-am-marrying-me-myself-iWed, 25 Jul 2012 20:00:00 GMTI Am Marrying Me Myself & IPart 8 in our co-creation series is a very special episode.  It’s all about the true integration of SELF. To create an integrated union of “Me Myself & I”  you need to consciously acknowledge, embrace and believe that fact. So today, to facilitate that conscious process    I will be conducting a live mass wedding ceremony!  That’s right a live mass wedding ceremony complete with, if you desire, a printed marriage certificate.  I’ll be marrying you…to you… as…you pledge your troth to YOURSELF.  This is all about you!  And it’s YOUR wedding day.  This isn’t about being wed to someone else.  Today’s ceremony is all about the sacredness of the circle of life, which in your life translates to the sacred union of “me myself and I.”  During the show we will be discussing your vows and commitment the powerful meaning they have in your life.  If you would like to have a printed marriage certificate commemorating this day go to http://www.itmylifemychoice.com  and click on the tab wedding Cert and follow the instructions. Join me Rev. Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach and witness Olivia Lashley for this special day. 01:02:00My Life My ChoicenoRev Dr Wendy Dearborne,Spiritual Integration of self,Union of me myself and I,Wedding Ceremony,conscious understandingPart 8 in our co-creation series is a very special episode.  It’s all about the true integration of SELF. To create an integrated union of “Me Myself & I”  youhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/07/18/divorce-the-malicious-and-delicious-side-of-the-coinSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/07/18/divorce-the-malicious-and-delicious-side-of-the-coin/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/07/18/divorce-the-malicious-and-delicious-side-of-the-coinWed, 18 Jul 2012 20:00:00 GMTDivorce: The Malicious And Delicious Sides Of The Same CoinIn part 7 in our co-creation series we explore the "D" word.  Do you need to divorce people, places and things in your life?  Divorce, like ALL things in the Universe has both a malicious and delicious side.  What you feel about it is totally dependent on who’s doing what, and how it effects you.  When we hear the word divorce, we automatically think of marital bliss gone wrong.  However, the word divorce means much more than that.  Divorce is one of those actions that creates the reaction - self permissiveness; you giving you space to reevaluate your life.  And from there make choices to build it the way in which you want.   Join us, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expressions Coach Olivia Lashley C.C  as we look at both malicious and delicious sides of divorce. 01:31:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,divorce,spiritual freedom,personal growth,spiritual expansionIn part 7 in our co-creation series we explore the "D" word.  Do you need to divorce people, places and things in your life?  Divorce, like ALL things in thehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/07/11/hows-in-your-circle-of-trustSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/07/11/hows-in-your-circle-of-trust/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/07/11/hows-in-your-circle-of-trustWed, 11 Jul 2012 20:00:00 GMTWho's In Your Circle Of Trust? Part 6 in our co-creation series highlights 7 major points to creating your C.O.T.  Have you created a conscious C.O.T, also known as a circle of trust, in your life?  Or has a circle of trust just evolved over time? A circle of trust is much like a mastermind group, only it is designed to support you in every way and not just in the creation of your career or business.  Creating your C.O.T is accomplished without participants having a judgmental or malevolent attitude toward you. And as such, your circle then inspires your authentic expression, allowing you a safe place to explore your true potential in all areas of your life.  So who’s in your C.O.T?  Do you even have one?  Do you know who you need in your circle of trust? So who’s in your COT?  Do you even have one?  Do you know who you need in your circle of trust? Join us, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expressions Coach Olivia Lashley C.C as we discuss 7 fundamental elements for creating your conscious Circle of Trust.  01:30:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life choices,circle of trust,self empowerment,spiritual expansionPart 6 in our co-creation series highlights 7 major points to creating your C.O.T.  Have you created a conscious C.O.T, also known as a circle of trust, in youhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/06/27/love-is-it-only-a-roiSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/06/27/love-is-it-only-a-roi/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/06/27/love-is-it-only-a-roiWed, 27 Jun 2012 20:00:00 GMTLove: Is It Only A ROI? Part 5 in our “Co-creation” series looks at the role LOVE plays in our lives.  Your life is all about choices and the end results, which is the creation of it.   We hear phrases all the time like “you must love yourself or I believe in ‘unconditional’ love ...or God IS love” continuously rolling off our tongues.   But what do these phrases mean?  Can you really love unconditionally?  Is Love all about a return on your investment?  And what is love?  Do You love you?  There are so many questions abound with this subject matter that it can make ones head spin. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we look at love through a different lens.  01:40:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Higher conscious,life choices,self empowerment,Universal understandingPart 5 in our “Co-creation” series looks at the role LOVE plays in our lives.  Your life is all about choices and the end results, which is the creation of it.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/06/20/the-anatomy-of-diseases-and-disordersSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/06/20/the-anatomy-of-diseases-and-disorders/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/06/20/the-anatomy-of-diseases-and-disordersWed, 20 Jun 2012 20:00:00 GMTThe Anatomy of Diseases and Disorders If you didn’t come here with “it” or better yet, if you were not born with “it” then something happened in your life for you to acquire “it.”  Some action, created within you a reaction that has shown up in your life as a disease or disorder.    For every disease or disorder there is an emotional correspondent. In addition to the diagnosis and prognosis, the pathology of an illness also includes that anatomy of the disease or disorder.  Within that anatomy is found, if one cares to look, the root cause, which in turn can be traced to an action that set into motion an emotional reaction that manifested as a disorder or disease.  Join us, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expressions Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore the connection your emotional self has in the manifestation or contracting of a disease and disorder. http://www.itsmylifemychoice.com 02:00:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,origins of diseases,emotions and health,life choices,spiritual expansionIf you didn’t come here with “it” or better yet, if you were not born with “it” then something happened in your life for you to acquire “it.”  Some action, crehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/06/13/healing-yourself-with-crystalsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/06/13/healing-yourself-with-crystals/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/06/13/healing-yourself-with-crystalsWed, 13 Jun 2012 20:00:00 GMTHealing Yourself With Crystals Gemstone therapy is an ancient healing art that can produce amazing results.  Gemstone Remedies capture the frequency of the stone, which imparts all the qualities imbued in it needed for healing.  We will discuss gemstone elixirs and what you need for your basic gemstone first aid kit.  Dr. Vivian Lunny, MD. Master Aromatherapist, Chromatologist is back with us to share knowledge that is written in the stones.  Join us, Dr Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we look at gemstone healing and you. 02:01:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,gemstone healing,color healing,life choices,self coachingGemstone therapy is an ancient healing art that can produce amazing results.  Gemstone Remedies capture the frequency of the stone, which imparts all the qualihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/06/06/co-creating-your-life-with-boundariesSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/06/06/co-creating-your-life-with-boundaries/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/06/06/co-creating-your-life-with-boundariesWed, 06 Jun 2012 20:00:00 GMTCo-creating Your Life With Boundaries Co-creation of your life is interdependent on the personal boundaries that you have in place.  Boundaries are the framework from which you define you.  As you define you it’s important to recognize that this is how the world will also see you.  Boundaries are not created to keep people out.  Boundaries are established as a form of inclusion, which allows you to create a safe place and space for you to experience your world as you choose too.  Boundaries reflect two things, yes or no.   What do your personal boundaries look like?  Are they rigid, loose, flexible, rubbery or a combination of all the above?  Join us, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we look at you and  how effective your boundaries are. 01:34:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,personal boundaries,co creation,self empowerment,choicesCo-creation of your life is interdependent on the personal boundaries that you have in place.  Boundaries are the framework from which you define you.  As youhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/05/30/transparency-authenticity-life-filters-and-youSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/05/30/transparency-authenticity-life-filters-and-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/05/30/transparency-authenticity-life-filters-and-youWed, 30 May 2012 20:00:00 GMTTransparency Authenticity Life Filters and You Second part of our co-creation series is on Transparency.  This is a word that has been bandied about a lot in recent years. Transparency brings a powerful message to you in regard to how you view yourself and your internal dialog and filters.  Transparency is all about what you allow people to see of the authentic you.  It also tells you how transparent you are with yourself.  It illuminates the authenticity of your inner light demonstrating your true expression on how you think, how you feel and what you want out of life. Being transparent is an important part of your ability to create the life that you choose to live.  It is one of the fundamental tools used in the design of your life.  Join us…that’s me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we look at what being truly visible means.   01:30:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,life choices,transparency,conscious belief,self coachingSecond part of our co-creation series is on Transparency.  This is a word that has been bandied about a lot in recent years. Transparency brings a powerful meshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/05/23/co-create-the-art-of-getting-what-you-wantSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/05/23/co-create-the-art-of-getting-what-you-want/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/05/23/co-create-the-art-of-getting-what-you-wantWed, 23 May 2012 20:00:00 GMTCo-Create The Art Of Getting What You Want? Our new miniseries “Co-creation” presents you with tools to support the manifestation of your goals. Your life is all about choices and the end results and the creation of it.  So who are you co-creating your life with?   Who is dining at your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual table?  These are extremely important questions to ask yourself. The answers can ultimately dictate how successful you are in creating the life that you want to live. The people, places and things that are presently orbiting in your current macrosphere, give you definitive information on how to and how not to achieve your desired goals.  Who do you need to be present at your table, at drawing board of your life?  Join us Dr Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we kick off our co-creation series. http://www.itsmylifemychoice.com 01:40:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,co-creation,life choices,consciousness,self coachingOur new miniseries “Co-creation” presents you with tools to support the manifestation of your goals. Your life is all about choices and the end results and thhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/05/16/parlay-your-skills-into-becoming-a-life-coachSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/05/16/parlay-your-skills-into-becoming-a-life-coach/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/05/16/parlay-your-skills-into-becoming-a-life-coachWed, 16 May 2012 20:00:00 GMTParlay Your Skills Into Becoming A Life Coach No matter what you do as a profession whether homemaker or rocket scientist, administrator, clerk to CEO, nail tech or bio chemist, 1st grade teacher to Ivy League professor you can parlay your skills, both academic and personal into coaching YOURSELF to your highest potential. Being a life coach MUST first start with YOU.  If you don’t understand  and have experienced the process of self coaching at a deeply personal level…a conscious and subconscious the chances of you being able to effectively assist people in creating lasting change in their lives, is slim to none.  The key word being lasting.   Being a life coach first starts out with YOU and your personal transformation, this leads, by default to personal development and growth.   What you receive from your personal self coaching transformational experience are tools that will show consistently how to define what you want for you in life, then refine that desire through clarity, which will create through a natural progression an implementable process of how to accomplish your stated goal. Once understood how to apply these skills to YOURSELF successfully you can effectively support and assist anyone through any given situation as their Life Coach! How much is it worth to you to be able to define what your really want for your life and then refine it so you can attain it?  Our life coaching training and certification programs will give you the tools do this and more.  For more information on Life Coaching Certification Programs visit http://www.lifecoaching4coaches.com 01:44:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,coach certification process,life coaching,conscious belief,choicesNo matter what you do as a profession whether homemaker or rocket scientist, administrator, clerk to CEO, nail tech or bio chemist, 1st grade teacher to Ivy Lehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/05/09/is-learned-helplessness-dictating-your-life-choicesSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/05/09/is-learned-helplessness-dictating-your-life-choices/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/05/09/is-learned-helplessness-dictating-your-life-choicesWed, 09 May 2012 20:00:00 GMTIs Learned Helplessness Dictating Your Life Choices? Is learned helplessness playing a major role in your life choices?  If your life isn’t manifesting the way that you want it too, it could be that people places and things that once served you once are no longer applicable.  Understanding how learned helplessness shows up in your life and what it contributes 'or not' to your success will help you to move forward in attaining your goals. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we discuss learned helplessness and you. 01:24:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,conscious choice,learned helplessness,self empowerment,conscious understandingIs learned helplessness playing a major role in your life choices?  If your life isn’t manifesting the way that you want it too, it could be that people placeshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/05/02/energy-vampires-who-are-theySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/05/02/energy-vampires-who-are-they/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/05/02/energy-vampires-who-are-theyWed, 02 May 2012 20:00:00 GMTEnergy Vampires Who Are They? "Have you ever been in or around someone or a group of people or even been to places or come in contact with things that seem to zap you of your energy?  This zapping effectively depletes and robs you of your vital life-force?"  You may well have experience the vicious bite of a vampire.  An “energy vampire!”   Being consciously aware of what it feels like having your personal energy source hacked into and slowly drained, will allow you the autonomy to make choices in the best interest of self regarding your situation. But what happens when the energy vampire turns out to be YOU!?  Not only are you sucking the life-force out of others who you come in contact with, but you are sucking the life-force out of YOU? Join us Dr Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we look at YOU and the utilization of your energy. 01:26:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,energy vampires,conscious awareness,self empowerment,choices"Have you ever been in or around someone or a group of people or even been to places or come in contact with things that seem to zap you of your energy?  Thishttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/04/25/interpreting-your-dreamsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/04/25/interpreting-your-dreams/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/04/25/interpreting-your-dreamsWed, 25 Apr 2012 20:00:00 GMTInterpreting Your Dreams I've always been a tad skeptical about dream interpretation and many of the books available.  BUT NOT ANYMORE!  Dr Michael Lennox changed all of that for me in less than 30 seconds.  He is a master of dream interpretation.  Dr Lennox is a psychologist and a metaphysician who has woven these two disciplines together and created a fusion for dream interpretation that is authentic, practical and so very magical.   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley and Dr. Lennox as we discuss his book Dream Sight: A Dictionary and Guide for Interpreting Any Dream and you! 01:31:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Dream interpretation,life choices,conscious belief,Universal understandingI've always been a tad skeptical about dream interpretation and many of the books available.  BUT NOT ANYMORE!  Dr Michael Lennox changed all of that for me inhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/04/18/when-one-door-slams-shut-another-choice-will-openSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/04/18/when-one-door-slams-shut-another-choice-will-open/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/04/18/when-one-door-slams-shut-another-choice-will-openWed, 18 Apr 2012 20:00:00 GMTWhen One Door Slams Shut Another Choice Will Open When one door slams shut, opportunity in the guise of choice will present itself.  Sometimes it's a challenge to recognize when to move on...and even more difficult to actually let go and not live in the past.  When a door in our lives shuts firmly and resolutely it doesn't mean that what's behind that closed door hasn’t happened to us.  It means it’s time to use that experience and move forward.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore what the closing of a door in our lives really mean. 01:23:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,conscious choice,spiritual growth,conscious belief,life coachingWhen one door slams shut, opportunity in the guise of choice will present itself.  Sometimes it's a challenge to recognize when to move on...and even more diffhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/04/11/betty-pegues-oracle-reader-spirit-guide-angel-communicatorSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/04/11/betty-pegues-oracle-reader-spirit-guide-angel-communicator/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/04/11/betty-pegues-oracle-reader-spirit-guide-angel-communicatorWed, 11 Apr 2012 20:00:00 GMTBetty Pegues Oracle Reader Spirit Guide & Angel Communicator In the transformational and personal growth arena there are many spiritual or metaphysical tools that can be used to assist us in creating the life that we want to live.  One of the most sort after is an oracle reader. Betty Pegues is Spirit Guide Coach, Spirit Guide/ Angel communicator, Tarot /Oracle reader.  She provides insight and wisdom for people seeking to find better understanding of their life’s journey.  Betty is quoted as saying, “I’m not here to teach you anything.  I’m here to help you remember everything you already know.  I’m here to give you back to yourself.”  Betty will be talking about her life and her journey as an intuitive and sharing her amazing talents with listeners who would like some insight.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach & Artist as we explore oracle readings and you. 02:01:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,psychic readings,angel readings,life choices,spiritual expansionIn the transformational and personal growth arena there are many spiritual or metaphysical tools that can be used to assist us in creating the life that we wanhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/04/04/from-gmos-to-hmos-whats-your-diet-likeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/04/04/from-gmos-to-hmos-whats-your-diet-like/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/04/04/from-gmos-to-hmos-whats-your-diet-likeWed, 04 Apr 2012 20:00:00 GMTFrom GMO's To HMO's What's Your Diet Like? Today Olivia and I will be looking at food from a spiritual, mental and physical aspect.  Growth factors, vibratory factors,  and some simple do's and won't's that may factor in.  There is so much more to food than just eating it, even the cultivation of it.  "They say that you are what you eat?"  I say "you are what you believe you are and that you ingest that belief also."  From GMO's to HMO's where are you in this equation, the food equation of your life? Join me, Dr Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach & Artist as we look at "what's your diet like?" 01:53:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,spiritual diet,GMOs,conscious belief,choicesToday Olivia and I will be looking at food from a spiritual, mental and physical aspect.  Growth factors, vibratory factors,  and some simple do's and won't'shttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/03/28/i-was-over-weight-and-ive-taken-my-life-backSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/03/28/i-was-over-weight-and-ive-taken-my-life-back/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/03/28/i-was-over-weight-and-ive-taken-my-life-backWed, 28 Mar 2012 20:00:00 GMTI Was Over Weight And I've Taken My Life Back Alberta Patterson and Melody Barton-Helmick have decided to take their lives back using some of the popular weight loss modalities available. Both Melody and Alberta, two phenomenal women, came to this realization for a multitude of reasons, but at the top of the list was that they had to do this for themselves and only for SELF.    One of our guests opted for the modified gastric bypass and the other is currently using HCG. Together we’ll talk candidly about their weight and the impact it has now and the impact they experienced then and what they feel had contributed to their morbid obesity.  Listen as both Melody and Alberta speak about the life style changes they have made and what they are wanting and creating in their lives now.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach & Artist on Wednesday @1.00pm PST on Blog Talk Radio. 01:29:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,spiritual Weigh loss,self worth,life choices,conscious understandingAlberta Patterson and Melody Barton-Helmick have decided to take their lives back using some of the popular weight loss modalities available. Both Melody and Ahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/03/21/does-money-make-it-betterSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/03/21/does-money-make-it-better/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/03/21/does-money-make-it-betterWed, 21 Mar 2012 20:00:00 GMTDoes Money Make It Better? Does money make the things that happen in your life feel better or does having money actually make it better?  Money is the Universe in action or a stream of physical consciousness that we can use to assist us in creating the life that we want to live.  I like to say that money is GOD in action.  The way that we attract money is to first do the inner work, so our biosphere will manifest the seeds that have been planted.  Let's  take a look at money The Universe and you! 01:30:00My Life My ChoicenoMoney,Conscious control,law of attraction,life choices,making changeDoes money make the things that happen in your life feel better or does having money actually make it better?  Money is the Universe in action or a stream of phttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/03/14/aromatherapy-crystals-colors-numerology-healing-youSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/03/14/aromatherapy-crystals-colors-numerology-healing-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/03/14/aromatherapy-crystals-colors-numerology-healing-youWed, 14 Mar 2012 20:00:00 GMTAromatherapy Crystals Colors Numerology Healing & You Aromatherapy is the ancient art, science and technique of the application of essential oils…or the extracts of the vital life force of a plant, to effect change in our lives.  When we hear the word aromatherapy many people erroneously think of room fresheners or mood creators.  There is so much more to aromatherapy than just that.  And our guest today, Dr. Vivian Lunny M.D is an international lecturer; author, consultant and the creator of AromaGems will introduce us to the mystical or metaphysical side of essential oils.  Dr. Vivian has created AromaGems, a unique concept using the vibratory frequency of essential oils, colors, numbers, semi precious gems and crystals to create intuitive blends to assist you in finding clarity.   Join us Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we talk with Dr. Lunny about her life, her work essential oils, aromatherapy and you. For more information on Dr. Vivian and her work go to http://www.realessences.com 02:01:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Aromatherapy,conscious awareness,aromatherapy Intuitive,spiritual expansionAromatherapy is the ancient art, science and technique of the application of essential oils…or the extracts of the vital life force of a plant, to effect changhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/03/07/what-makes-a-parent-a-good-parentSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/03/07/what-makes-a-parent-a-good-parent/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/03/07/what-makes-a-parent-a-good-parentWed, 07 Mar 2012 21:00:00 GMTWhat Makes A Parent A Good Parent The one thing that most people wish came with an operational manual is child rearing.  However, it doesn't.  So what can you do to be the best parent that you can be?  Join Heather Criswell, our parent and child communication experts as she gives valuable insight into what you can do to become a Good Parent. Heather Criswell is a certified Parent Coach and the founder of Wise Inside and the creator of  Wise Talk an effective communication tool for parents and children.  To contact Heather visit go to  http://www.wiseinside.com 02:01:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,heather criswell,conscious communication,parenting,wise insideThe one thing that most people wish came with an operational manual is child rearing.  However, it doesn't.  So what can you do to be the best parent that youhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/02/29/seeing-is-believing--or-is-itSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/02/29/seeing-is-believing--or-is-it/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/02/29/seeing-is-believing--or-is-itWed, 29 Feb 2012 21:00:00 GMTSeeing Is Believing - Or Is It?“Seeing is believing!”  This axiom is all knowing, all powerful and a Universal Truth!  If you don’t see it clearly in your mind, if you don’t perceive of it in your mind and if you don’t believe it in the core of who you are…it will never ever happen for you.    This isn’t rocket science; it’s a simple truth, a FACT around which you can create all the fiction that you want.  That fiction is your story and we all  have a story a tagline that belongs to us.  It’s your wound and victimology that too is created by us. In fact, everything that has and will occur in your life is a result of that living breathing Universal axiom, “Seeing is believing!”   Now, what do you “CHOOSE” to see in your mind? Join me Dr Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert & Coach and Expressions Coach Olivia Lashley as we look at use your mind to create what you want. 01:44:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,conscious choice,mind control,self empowerment,cretativity“Seeing is believing!”  This axiom is all knowing, all powerful and a Universal Truth!  If you don’t see it clearly in your mind, if you don’t perceive of it inhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/02/22/i-didnt-know-my-own-strengthSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/02/22/i-didnt-know-my-own-strength/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/02/22/i-didnt-know-my-own-strengthWed, 22 Feb 2012 21:00:00 GMTI Didn't Know My Own Strength Most of us underestimate our own strengths in favor of our perceived weaknesses.  We are strong beyond belief of our own measure.  How do I know that? You are still standing right!?  You are still playing in the game of your life?  Most of us are using a skewed version of someone else’s yard stick to measure our lives by, which undermines our confidence in self.  Knowing our strengths and making the most of them, is all about how we “parlay” our perceived hurts, wounds and the things in life that have threatened to take us under.  It's all about turning your victimology into the chronicles of your victories.  Many of us wouldn’t be the strong miraculous people that we are today if we hadn’t “parlayed” our inner strengths against the foothold of a perceived weakness to create the momentum to move us forward. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach as we look at our inner strengths 01:29:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,conscious choice,strengths,self empowerment,conscious understandingMost of us underestimate our own strengths in favor of our perceived weaknesses.  We are strong beyond belief of our own measure.  How do I know that? You arehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/02/15/your-lifes-purpose-and-the-universal-orderSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/02/15/your-lifes-purpose-and-the-universal-order/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/02/15/your-lifes-purpose-and-the-universal-orderWed, 15 Feb 2012 21:00:00 GMTYour Life's Purpose And The Universal Order You are a living, vibrating stream of Universal Consciousness.  You are unique and by definition, there can be no other like you.  You are incarnated to fulfill a specific purpose.  You have a defined place and space in the Universal Order of things.   Your being matters to the cosmos and all the things unfolding in it.  Your purpose, finding it, knowing it and living it is paramount to the evolution of conscious awareness and expansion.  My questions to you are, “are you living your purpose?"  And "how do you know?”  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Expressions Coach Olivia Lashley as we discuss you and your life’s purpose. 01:16:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,purpose,conscious awareness,self empowerment,spiritual expansionYou are a living, vibrating stream of Universal Consciousness.  You are unique and by definition, there can be no other like you.  You are incarnated to fulfilhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/02/08/you-can-only-control-youSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/02/08/you-can-only-control-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/02/08/you-can-only-control-youWed, 08 Feb 2012 21:00:00 GMTYou Can Only Control You That’s right!  You can only control you. All this time you thought that you had control over_____you fill in the blank.  But you didn’t!  You can’t control how people are going to react.  You didn’t have control over anyone, but you.  For a variety of reasons we have created the illusion of being in control, and it is just that, an illusion.  Because when people places and things no longer react the way we want them to, our illusion of control is shattered.    Understanding how to integrate control in your life and the role it plays is one of an important key in you succeeding. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Expressions Coach Olivia Lashley as we discuss you and control. 01:37:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,Conscious control,life choices,self empowerment,conscious understandingThat’s right!  You can only control you. All this time you thought that you had control over_____you fill in the blank.  But you didn’t!  You can’t control howhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/02/01/i-want-to-be-free-to-live-my-lifeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/02/01/i-want-to-be-free-to-live-my-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice/2012/02/01/i-want-to-be-free-to-live-my-lifeWed, 01 Feb 2012 21:00:00 GMTI Want To Be Free To Live My Life I want to be free to live my life has a wealth of meaning.  Does it mean free from drama, chaos, parents, spouses, siblings, friends and children.  Or free from ill health, overweight, cooking, cleaning, shopping, car pooling and paying bills.  The meaning of freedom is a uniquely intimate thing.  It is as intimate as drawing the breath of life we need to sustain us.   Freedom speaks of our will to do that which we want to do…or that which we choose to do.  So, you want to be free to live your life?  My question to you would be, “how do you know that you are not free?”  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we discuss you and freedom. 01:29:00My Life My Choicenodr wendy dearborne,freedom,conscious awareness,life choices,self coachingI want to be free to live my life has a wealth of meaning.  Does it mean free from drama, chaos, parents, spouses, siblings, friends and children.  Or free fro