http://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn"Your Marriage Matters" with Marriage Coach Lynn is about making your marriage great. Coaching, presentations, guest speakers, talk radio format will cover all matters related to marriage.enBlogTalkRadio.com. All Rights Reserved.Sat, 15 Jun 2019 14:00:00 GMTTue, 15 Nov 2011 16:00:00 GMTRomanceBlogTalkRadio Feed v2.0https://dasg7xwmldix6.cloudfront.net/hostpics/fbde6bc5-2e8f-4111-98cd-c090ed944e10_lynn.jpghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn"Your Marriage Matters" with Marriage Coach Lynn is about making your marriage great. Coaching, presentations, guest speakers, talk radio format will cover all matters related to marriage.feeds@blogtalkradio.comBlogTalkRadio.comromance,lynn griesemer,marriage coach lynn,marriage,relationships,blueprint for a lasting marriage,feminism,interracial marriage,judy pearson,kim kimberlingMarriageCoachLynnno"Your Marriage Matters" with Marriage Coach Lynn is about making your marriage great. Coaching, presentations, guest speakers, talk radio format will cover allepisodichttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/11/15/your-marriage-matters-taking-a-breakPsychologyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/11/15/your-marriage-matters-taking-a-break/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/11/15/your-marriage-matters-taking-a-breakTue, 15 Nov 2011 16:00:00 GMTYour Marriage Matters / Taking a Break     When I started this show in Oct. 2010, my goal was to provide a 30-minute show per week for a year. I’ve surpassed that goal and have done over 56 shows! We’ve covered all stages of marriage, presented difficult topics many of us struggle with and offered positive encouragement for those who want to make their marriage the absolutely best it can be. In my 56 shows, I’ve had over 38 guests – some of the best in the Marriage and Family profession, each with unique perspectives.  Not only have we had experts, we’ve also had married couples inspire us with their stories, hardships and successes. I’ll be taking a break as I turn my efforts to a few writing projects that will require my full attention. If you haven’t listened to many episodes,scroll through past shows and you will see the rich variety we’ve had during the past year. Please keep in touch via my websites: www.marriagecoachlynn.com, www.bobgriesemer.com, www.unassistedhomebirth.com.   Facebook:Marriage Coach Lynn. Twitter: MarriageCoachLn.  Most of all, live life passionately and continue to nurture your marriage.  Have you purchased my e-book?  “Reenergize Your Marriage in 21 Days” is available on smashwords.com for less than $10.00.  Invest in your marriage NOW, TODAY and consider coaching.  Just as “Personal Trainers” have helped the body get in shape, Marriage Coaching can help fine tune your relationship.  My first session is always free- no strings attached.  Visit my website and sign up for the free monthly newsletter. Thank you so much for your interest and participation in this program!    And as always, have a great day.  Make your marriage great.  –Lynn M. Griesemer, aka “Marriage Coach Lynn”  lynn@marriagecoachlynn.com   00:29:00MarriageCoachLynnnoMarriage Coach Lynn,Lynn Griesemer,intimacy and passion,secrets for successful marriage,lifelong fulfilling marriageWhen I started this show in Oct. 2010, my goal was to provide a 30-minute show per week for a year. I’ve surpassed that goal and have done over 56 shows! Whttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/11/08/monogamy-are-we-kidding-ourselvesLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/11/08/monogamy-are-we-kidding-ourselves/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/11/08/monogamy-are-we-kidding-ourselvesTue, 08 Nov 2011 19:00:00 GMTMonogamy. Are We Kidding Ourselves?     When people get married, there is an assumption and expectation for monogamy with their partner.  Most newlyweds believe that they are immune to affairs and that it could never happen to them.  Yet, many couples struggle with monogamy.  From my research, I’ve found that (1) up to 70% of men and women would have an affair if they never got caught. (2) 40-60% of couples in marital counseling have not been monogamous and (3) an estimated 70% of married people breech monogamy whether it is a one-time hook-up encounter or longer lasting extramarital relationship.        If cheating seems to be the norm, what does this mean for marriage and a monogamous relationship?  Are we hypocrites?  Is the struggle much more than we are willing to admit?  Are we fooling ourselves?  Should we accept the “fact” that most people are not or cannot be monogamous?     Do men need variety so much as to stray? Have women become more selfish?  And what happens when we discover that our partner has not been monogamous / faithful? We will try to make sense of the idea of monogamy.  Is it possible?  Is it a worthy goal?      I am honored to have Peggy Vaughan as my featured guest on today’s show.  She is a pioneer in this area.  Author of several books, including THE MONOGAMY MYTH: A PERSONAL HANDBOOK FOR RECOVERING FROM AFFAIRS, Peggy is the founder of Beyond Affairs Network (BAN) and has helped thousands of couples over the years recover from extramarital affairs.  She has appeared on dozens of  television and radio programs, beginning with The Donahue show in 1980 and has been on Oprah twice and most of the major news programs.  Please visit her websites at www.dearpeggy.com and www.preventingaffairs.com. 00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnomonogamy,marriage myths about monogamy,extramarital affairs,Lynn Griesemer and Peggy Vaughan,assumptions and expectations in marriageWhen people get married, there is an assumption and expectation for monogamy with their partner.  Most newlyweds believe that they are immune to affairs anhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/11/01/how-the-past-permeates-the-present-in-family-lifeFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/11/01/how-the-past-permeates-the-present-in-family-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/11/01/how-the-past-permeates-the-present-in-family-lifeTue, 01 Nov 2011 15:00:00 GMTHow the Past Permeates the Present in Family Life      We like to believe that we can break free from the impressions and imprints of our past. But who we are today is due in part to our early experiences in our family of origin. Do we recreate portions of our childhood family dynamics in adulthood relationships? How does this play out? What benefits us? What keeps us stuck in trying to create the best marriage we can?       My guest today will show how the quality of our marital life has everything to do with our attachment formation during our formative years. She will offer some suggestions about making improvements, understanding that quick fixes cannot get us out of predicaments and that sometimes that we need to be radically different.      Charlette Mikulka is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with three decades of professional experience and is currently in full time private practice as a psychotherapist. She is a member of the Academy of Certified Social Workers, National Association of Social Workers, EMDR International Association, International Center for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy and the International Society for the Study of Trauma and Dissociation. For a complete bio, please visit her website at www.peaceintheheartandhome.com.       Charlette is the Author of “Peace in the Heart and Home: A Down-to-Earth Guide to Creating a Better Life for You and Your Loved Ones.” (2011) The book is available on her website and through www.amazon.com. “Peace in the Heart and Home” describes the methods that bring deep, lasting relief and well-being; takes the mystery out of physical and emotional distress and relationship drama; and presents numerous stories of real people that demonstrate how we get stuck and how dramatic change and healing are achievable. 00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnoattachment,emtional deprivation,Peace in the Heart and Home,family dynamics,Charlette MikulkaWe like to believe that we can break free from the impressions and imprints of our past. But who we are today is due in part to our early experiences in ohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/10/25/the-intricacies-of-attractionPsychologyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/10/25/the-intricacies-of-attraction/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/10/25/the-intricacies-of-attractionTue, 25 Oct 2011 15:00:00 GMTThe Intricacies of Attraction     My guest today has over 30 years experience with this topic and we will discuss two closely related areas: (1) “Like Moths to a Flame: The Potential Benefits to Being Drawn to Someone Who Provokes Our Deepest Insecurities.” (2) “Our Uncanny Ability to Find Our Emotional Twin.”      You’ve heard the phrase, “opposites attract.” You’ve also heard that some couples are like “two peas in a pod.” On the surface, many couples appear to be very different, but when we probe more deeply below the surface, we find interesting dynamics.  We will talk about what this means as far as forging a marital bond, overcoming self-defeating behaviors, and understanding the emotional climate.        Charlette Mikulka is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with three decades of professional experience. She is a member of the Academy of Certified Social Workers, National Association of Social Workers, EMDR International Association, International Center for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy and the International Society for the Study of Trauma and Dissociation. Charlette maintains a full time private psychotherapy practice. She is certified in EMDR, a clinically and research-validated treatment for healing psychological trauma. Charlette participates in ongoing training in EFT, a highly respected approach to helping couples build a secure emotional bond. Charlette's personal experience has contributed greatly to her knowledge of couple and family dynamics, the subject of her book, Peace in the Heart and Home. Please visit her website at www.peaceintheheartandhome.com. She has reflected deeply on her emotional and relational experience within her family of origin and adult family. She and her husband Joe have been together for over forty years and have 2 sons, ages 25 and 19.   00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnoattraction,emotional twin,Peace in the Heart and Home,facing emotions honestly,practical guidance for improvementMy guest today has over 30 years experience with this topic and we will discuss two closely related areas: (1) “Like Moths to a Flame: The Potential Benefihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/10/18/debunking-the-marriage-mythyou-complete-mei-complete-youPsychologyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/10/18/debunking-the-marriage-mythyou-complete-mei-complete-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/10/18/debunking-the-marriage-mythyou-complete-mei-complete-youTue, 18 Oct 2011 16:00:00 GMTDebunking the Marriage Myth:"You Complete Me;I Complete You"      The majority of people hold tight to the marriage myth, “You complete me and I complete you.” There is something comfortable about that love myth; knowing that what desired quality or behavior you don’t have your spouse does. However, it’s hogwash. The reality is we can only complete ourselves.    Wholeness is within each of us. Being in a marriage where each spouse embodies a feeling of wholeness, and connects from that place of wholeness, creates a greater wholeness…that of the third body….the relationship. Dr. Suzanne Nixon is the founder of www.mindbodytherapy.org. MindBody Therapy & Healing, Inc. provides counseling, psychotherapy, and mindbody therapies to individuals, couples and families seeking professional help for their mental health and wellness needs. The company specializes in offering an holistic approach to treatment and care, by integrating the best of Western theories of counseling and psychology with Eastern philosophies of health and wellness. Dr. Suzanne Nixon has been working in the field of counseling, psychotherapy and education for a combined thirty years. Her mind-body approach is particularly helpful and healing with individuals experiencing anxiety, high levels of stress, stress related illnesses, depression, and for individuals who struggle with body self esteem, distorted body image, moderate eating disorders, and trauma to the body. Dr. Nixon completed her studies in Integrative Health Coaching, at the Integrative Medicine Center at Duke University in 2009. Since then she has expanded her practice to include wellness coaching, seminars and retreats. She is the east coast co-director and co-leader of Inspirational Journeys, LLC, lifestyle wellness programs, aimed at helping individuals make positive behavioral health changes to improve their state of health and create a lifestyle of balanced, healthy living.   00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnofilling a void in ourselves,marriage myth,emotional neediness,mindbody therapy dot org,Suzanne Nixon and Marriage Coach LynnThe majority of people hold tight to the marriage myth, “You complete me and I complete you.” There is something comfortable about that love myth; knowinghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/10/11/honoring-your-spouseLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/10/11/honoring-your-spouse/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/10/11/honoring-your-spouseTue, 11 Oct 2011 15:00:00 GMTHonoring Your Spouse       How important is “honor” in a marriage relationship? What do we mean by honoring your spouse? People talk about commitment, respect, cherishing your spouse, but honor is a topic that is not commonly discussed or thought about. We will talk about what honor looks like in marriage and how to be sure that you honor your spouse every day of your life.       My guest is Paul White. Paul and his wife Somphon have been married for more than 45 years. They are a mixed race couple; Paul had a black father and Native American mother and Somphon is of Asian descent. In the Asian culture, honor is extremely important and Paul will shed some light on how honor has been a priority in their marriage. Paul believes that without honor, marriage is not on solid ground.       Paul White contributed 35 years of service to the government and has had a respectable career. He’s served in several United States Agency for International Development (USAID) positions around the world including Mexico, Japan, Peru, Panama, Cambodia and Vietnam. He was awarded the Order of the Million Elephants in Laos, and has received three Presidential Awards and a Distinguished Career Award from USAID. He has a Foreign Service ranking in five Asian languages and Spanish. After his retirement in 2003, he has been active in community and civic organizations. He serves on the Board of several well-known non-government organizations, is on an Editorial Board for scholarly research, and provides advisory services to USAID and other development agencies. He is a faculty advisor for international exchange programs.       Paul has served his country and community honorably, and today we will talk about honor within marriage.   00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnohonor,honor and respect,Paul White,Marriage Coach Lynn,how to show honorHow important is “honor” in a marriage relationship? What do we mean by honoring your spouse? People talk about commitment, respect, cherishing your spouhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/10/04/chronic-pain-and-the-importance-of-communicationHealthhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/10/04/chronic-pain-and-the-importance-of-communication/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/10/04/chronic-pain-and-the-importance-of-communicationTue, 04 Oct 2011 15:00:00 GMTChronic Pain and the Importance of Communication     Those who suffer from chronic pain encounter unique challenges, especially when it comes to communication. It is essential that partners communicate needs clearly when one partner is dealing with continuous physical pain. Those trapped in chronic pain might tend to get trapped in rigid patterns. They may fear of bothering their partner, being perceived as complainers or playing the martyr role. In marriage it is important to express your heartfelt and honest feelings, especially if you haven't been doing so. Gwen Talbot, my guest today, will shed some light on the major issues that affect those stricken with chronic pain. Issues include such things as clearly communicating what you want or need from your partner, facing reality by knowing what you can and cannot control, feelings of helplessness, complaining, giving up, changing or lowering expectations, responsibility. Gwen will offer suggestions and hope for those who suffer. This show can also be beneficial for those who deal with severe emotional pain and issues of a continuous nature. This program does not take the place of professional advice, but serves as a discussion of the broad issue of chronic pain. If you believe that you could benefit from professional help, please seek a practitioner suited for your individual situation. Gwen Talbot has had a distinguished career as a Speech Pathologist in the public and private sector. She founded the National Chronic Pain Outreach Association, Inc. in 1976 She’s presented at many conferences in places such as the White House, Congress, and has served as media spokesman for the Arthritis Foundation on "Coping with Chronic Pain." Gwen designed the protocol for the establishment of a national information clearing house for chronic diseases and rare drugs (NICODARD) in congress. Gwen is also active in community service and organizations.   00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnochronic pain and marital challenges,honest and clear communication,expressing your needs,chronic pain and feeling overwhelmed,feeling helpless taking responsibilityThose who suffer from chronic pain encounter unique challenges, especially when it comes to communication. It is essential that partners communicate needshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/09/27/challenges-and-differences-regarding-financesFinancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/09/27/challenges-and-differences-regarding-finances/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/09/27/challenges-and-differences-regarding-financesTue, 27 Sep 2011 19:00:00 GMTChallenges and Differences Regarding Finances      One of the top five areas that cause couples stress and arguments is finances. Regardless of level of wealth, two people often have different views and relationships with money. One may be a spender, one may be overly frugal. Also, during the lifetime of a marriage, there will often be changes in spending habits, philosophies about money and income situations. For example, the wife might drop out of the workforce to raise children for long periods of time or one spouse might lose a job and accept less income at another job.       My guest today says that trust is important in relationships when it comes to money and that living a balanced life is important when we consider financial habits and goals. Susana Baig is the mother of seven and encourages the stay-at-home mother role, yet understands the necessity to evaluate the household situation and make changes if needed. She says finding balance and working toward a unified goal is important. What might work at one point during a marriage might need to change during another phase in marriage. Susana has many interests including natural, Christ-Centered childbirth. She hosts two blogtalk radio shows, "Biblical Pregnancy & Birth Inspiration," and "MamaBaig On The Air." She is the author of several blogs including, spiritledbirth.blogspot.com, singyourfavoritelullaby.blogspot.com, and emergencychildbirthing.blogspot.com.  Basis for today’s show: 1 Cor3:7 NLT It's not important who does the planting, or who does the watering. What's important is that God makes the seed grow.   00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnofinancial differences in marriage,money matters,money work and marriage,financial peace and freedom,trust discipline and financial responsibilityOne of the top five areas that cause couples stress and arguments is finances. Regardless of level of wealth, two people often have different views and rehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/09/20/sensuality-and-your-thoughts-about-sexPsychologyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/09/20/sensuality-and-your-thoughts-about-sex/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/09/20/sensuality-and-your-thoughts-about-sexTue, 20 Sep 2011 15:00:00 GMTSensuality and Sexuality This is part 3 of a series that explores why some women seem to have low sexual desire. On 8/20/11, we talked about the importance of sex being part of love; 9/8/11 focused on biological differences between men and women as a likely cause and today we will talk about the importance of sensuality. What you think about and what is going on mentally and psychologically can make a big impact on sexual desire. We will talk about the difference between sensuality and sexuality and the problems we face when we compartmentalize our lives. What are some of the common blocks that get in our way and what are some ways we can tear down some of these walls? We will talk about the importance of sensuality as it pertains to a satisfying sex life. My guest is Dr. Ruth Frischer-Dambra. She received a M.Sc. in Biology, and a Ph.D. in Neurophysiology from New York University. Her career path included basic research in neurobiology, international health research to treat AIDS and TB, she launched international university partnerships linking U.S. and foreign county institutions. As Chief of Health, Population and Nutrition for the US Agency for International Development, she created and administered research programs to prevent and treat the major causes of childhood mortality. Dr. Frischer was the founder and President of Disability and Sensual Horizons (DASH), a company dedicated to closing the gap between disability and sexuality. As such, she is sometimes referred to as the “other Dr. Ruth”. She has authored more than 25 articles, several book chapters, and is a noted speaker both in the U.S. and abroad on scientific, educational, and sexuality related topics. She is now President of Frischer-Dambra Consulting and primarily focuses her presentations, consulting activities and research in the area of sexuality, relationships and disability. She is located in Boca Raton, FL and can be reached by email:  rfrischer@frischer-dambra.com. 00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnosensuality,sensuality and sexual desire,conscious awareness,how to improve sexual desire,mental blockages to a healthy sex lifeThis is part 3 of a series that explores why some women seem to have low sexual desire. On 8/20/11, we talked about the importance of sex being part of love; 9http://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/09/13/how-to-create-your-happily-ever-afterSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/09/13/how-to-create-your-happily-ever-after/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/09/13/how-to-create-your-happily-ever-afterTue, 13 Sep 2011 15:00:00 GMTHow to Create Your “Happily Ever After”       Do you want to know how to create “happily ever after?”Lesli Doares, my guest will share the secrets in how to do so and at the end of the show, you will walk away with a few good ideas to incorporate into your marriage.      Lesli Doares, M.S., LMFT is the author of "Blueprint for a Lasting Marriage: How to Create Your Happily Ever After with More Intention, Less Work." Lesli has been in private practice since 2002 and has developed a 5-step approach couples can use to build an ideal marriage. She lives with her husband and 2 children near Raleigh, NC. The book is available on her website, www.afearlessmarriage.com as well as amazon.com.      Find out why you need a blueprint in order to have a successful marriage, why you don't need to work so hard at marriage if you focus on 3 simple elements, and how to stay connected during the lifetime of your marriage, no matter what. 00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnoLesli Doares,Blueprint for a Lasting Marriage,How to Create Your Happily Ever After,secrets for a happy marriage,how to stay in loveDo you want to know how to create “happily ever after?”Lesli Doares, my guest will share the secrets in how to do so and at the end of the show, you willhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/09/08/the-chemistry-of-intimacy-bridging-the-gap-between-h-and-wPsychologyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/09/08/the-chemistry-of-intimacy-bridging-the-gap-between-h-and-w/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/09/08/the-chemistry-of-intimacy-bridging-the-gap-between-h-and-wThu, 08 Sep 2011 15:00:00 GMTSexual Desire: DIfferences Between Husbands and Wives "The Chemistry of Intimacy:  Bridging the Gap Between Husband and Wife" is part 2 of a 3-part discussion on differences between men and women sex drives. Why do we hear many reports of women who lack interest in physical intimacy? My guest today will talk about biology as a basis for differences. The accepted understanding that men need to be physically intimate to connect emotionally and women need to experience emotional intimacy to be physically connected has always seemed to be a cruel, cosmic joke. It does, however, have a foundation in the biology of the two sexes. Learning why we are designed this way and how couples can move beyond their biology to enjoy deeper intimacy is what this conversation will be all about. Lesli Doares, M.S., LMFT is the author of "Blueprint for a Lasting Marriage: How to Create Your Happily Ever After with More Intention, Less Work." Lesli has been in private practice since 2002 and has developed a 5-step approach couples can use to build an ideal marriage. She lives with her husband and 2 children near Raleigh, NC.  Visit her website at www.afearlessmarriage.com.    Please call to join in the conversation and ask Lesli any questions you may have.  We will be happy to take your call. 760-512-7243.  www.marriagecoachlynn.com 00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnomen and women differences in sex,Lesli Doares,BLueprint for a Lasting Marriage,physical and emotional intimacy,is biology destiny"The Chemistry of Intimacy:  Bridging the Gap Between Husband and Wife" is part 2 of a 3-part discussion on differences between men and women sex drives. Why dhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/08/30/women-and-sexualityPsychologyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/08/30/women-and-sexuality/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/08/30/women-and-sexualityTue, 30 Aug 2011 22:30:00 GMTWomen and Sexuality Girls and women are bombarded with messages that shape sexuality. What impedes and interferes with healthy sexuality? How does this affect the decisions women make about their lives and relationships? Does it contribute to discontent in marriage? Today’s guest, Jeanice Barcelo says, “People in our pronographic culture are drawn to each other based on physical attraction. Women will try to look their "hottest" and lure men based through the charms of their bodies. However, if we use our bodies to attract a man, then what we get is a man who is interested in physical pleasure from us. This is not love. Yet, many people gravitate toward each other this way, they then have sex, think it is great - so it must be "love," and ultimately get married and have kids. But this is not a real union." Jeanice maintains that love has little to do with physical pleasure and, on the contrary, the focus on "good sex" is part of what is destroying families. Many couples do great in the bedroom (and call it "love"), but out of the bedroom they cannot get along,have very few goals in common and little to talk about. Jeanice believes that women don't like sex because they intuitively know that they are being used. Jeanice Barcelo, M.A., is a sociologist, a conscious birth educator, and a prenatal and birth trauma prevention specialist. She is an international speaker, a TV and radio show host, and the founder of the forthcoming “Birth of a New Earth International School for Conscious Procreation” to be located on Maui. Jeanice offers classes, seminars, and teacher trainings, as well as workshops and educational programs designed especially for men. She appeared on “Your Marriage Matters” on 4/5/11 and 4/12/11. To contact Jeanice, please visit her website at www.BirthofaNewEarth.com. 00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnosexuality,sex and love,relationships,body image and focus on appearance,Jeanice BarceloGirls and women are bombarded with messages that shape sexuality. What impedes and interferes with healthy sexuality? How does this affect the decisions womenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/08/22/moviesthat-portray-marriage-positivelyMovieshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/08/22/moviesthat-portray-marriage-positively/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/08/22/moviesthat-portray-marriage-positivelyMon, 22 Aug 2011 14:00:00 GMTMoviesThat Portray Marriage Positively       Many of us like to watch a good movie. Hollywood churns out a disproportionate number of movies that focus on romance, physical attraction and young love. Our culture can’t seem to get enough of young women who ditch honorable men and fall for the carefree bad boy. The beautiful young actress is swept off her feet by an attractive guy she hardly knows, but feels (or wants to feel) an emotional connection and physical attraction (Dear John, The Last Song, Titanic to name a few). Somehow, these movies are like romance novels, making life and relationships seem so easy and dreamy.       Let’s keep today’s show light. I’m always searching for good, quality movies that present marriage in a positive light. Can you recommend any? Please call and let me know. I have a few we can discuss: Date Night (2010), Why Did I Get Married Too? (2010) and The Prize Winner of Defiance, Ohio (2005). Please help me expand this list from current or not so current movies. If you’re reading this description before the show, please watch one or more of the movies I recommend and join in the conversation. 760-512-7243.   Host:  Lynn M. Griesemer, aka Marriage Coach Lynn, is author of books on homebirth, public speaking and marriage.  For more information, you can visit www.marriagecoachlynn.com; unassistedhomebirth.com; bobgriesemer.com.  "Reenergize Your Marriage in 21 Days" was released in May 2011 and is available on www.smashwords.com.  Visit Facebook Page:  Marriage Coach Lynn.  If you like this show, leave comments here and if you have ideas for future shows, please make suggestions.   00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnomovies and marriage,Date Night,portrayal of marriage in Hollywood movies,Why Did I Get Married Too,Marriage Coach LynnMany of us like to watch a good movie. Hollywood churns out a disproportionate number of movies that focus on romance, physical attraction and young lovhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/08/16/marriage-and-the-large-familyParentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/08/16/marriage-and-the-large-family/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/08/16/marriage-and-the-large-familyTue, 16 Aug 2011 15:00:00 GMTMarriage and the Large Family What is it like being married and raising a large family? Are there pressures on a marriage with several children: Financial? Do husband and wife have any time for each other? Join me and my guest Penne Ard as we discuss marriage with a large family. Penne Ard is Founder/Facilitator of the worldwide iLearn in Freedom Network, home of the CanDo! CO-OP & Club Callanetics. For more than two decades she has been actively involved in the freeschool movement (also called homeschooling or unschooling), promoting alternative, cooperative, and democratic education. In addition to being an instructor of the Callanetics Exercise Method and a Beachbody Coach, Penne is also certified in Keiser Indoor Cycling and Square Foot Gardening as originated by Mel Bartholomew. Married for 26 years, Chuck & Penne enjoy traveling together as a family. They have nine children, ages 5-25, all naturally spaced through ecological breastfeeding. In addition, Penne helped co-parent Chuck's oldest son, who was three when they first met and is now happily married with four children of his own. Penne actively promotes attachment parenting as a Rebozo Way/Nurturing Across Cultures REP, and her 2nd oldest son, Mark, who recently passed away at age 20, was the first to be carried "in arms" (that is, in a rebozo baby shawl carrier) as a tot.   00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnolarge families,children and marriage,Penne Ard,Christian Science,fun and happy familiesWhat is it like being married and raising a large family? Are there pressures on a marriage with several children: Financial? Do husband and wife have any timehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/08/02/why-my-faith-is-the-cornerstone-of-my-marriageSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/08/02/why-my-faith-is-the-cornerstone-of-my-marriage/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/08/02/why-my-faith-is-the-cornerstone-of-my-marriageTue, 02 Aug 2011 13:00:00 GMTWhy My Faith is the Cornerstone of My Marriage      My guest today is Jenny Hatch. Jenny and her husband Paul have been married for 23 years and have endured many hardships, but draw tremendous strength from their Mormon faith. Today we will talk about the importance of a solid spiritual or religious foundation as the key to a marriage that endures over time. When the going gets tough for many couples, they are tempted to call it quits. Is religion a crutch or can it provide comfort and aid in a happy marriage?       Jenny Hatch is a stay at home Mother of five children who worked from her home as a Bradley Childbirth Educator for eight years, teaching and encouraging dozens of couples. In 1999, when her 4th child was three years old, (and after eight years of non-stop breastfeeding!) she started to write. During the past ten years she has written three books on homebirth (Available on Amazon.com Kindle), numerous articles, blog posts, columns, and chat room posts on all topics related to Natural Mothering, and in 2005 she started writing The Natural Family Blog, an online effort dedicated to the promotion of Family Centered Home Childbirth. In 2010 Jenny created Blogging Mothers Magazine, The place for Conservative Blogging Moms to gather on the Web! Please visit www.jennyhatch.com for more information. Jenny has devoted her life to marriage and family and says that “Healthy Families Make A Healthy World!” Here is a link to Jenny's ebooks on Amazon Kindle:http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_kinh?url=node%3D154606011&field-keywords=Jenny+Hatch&x=18&y=17 00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnofaith and marriage,Mormon LDS,secrets to happy marriage,drawing strength from religion,Jenny HatchMy guest today is Jenny Hatch. Jenny and her husband Paul have been married for 23 years and have endured many hardships, but draw tremendous strength frohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/07/28/love-languagesSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/07/28/love-languages/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/07/28/love-languagesThu, 28 Jul 2011 14:00:00 GMTLove Languages There are many things couples need to know about each other in order to have a great marriage.  One of them is "love language."  We all express our love in different ways and respond to gestures in different ways.  Dr. Gary Chapman wrote a book that sold over 6 million copies and it is called "The Five Love Languages:  How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate."  Today we will talk about the 5 Love Languages.  Do you know which language you prefer to speak?  How about your spouse's preferred method of expressing his or her love to you?  Bonus question: Do you know your parents love language?  How about your children?  If you haven't had a chance to read this book, I recommend it.  I'm sure you can find a copy at your local library, on-line and in new and used bookstores.  Anyone who calls the show today and tells me their love language will receive a free copy of my book "Reenergize Your Marriage in 21 Days."  Visit my website at www.marriagecoachlynn.  Facebook Page:  Marriage Coach Lynn  Twitter:  MarriageCoachLn 00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnoLove Languages,Gary Chapman,words of affirmation and acts of service,receiving gifts and quality time and physical touch,Marriage Coach Lynn dot comThere are many things couples need to know about each other in order to have a great marriage.  One of them is "love language."  We all express our love in difhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/07/26/43-years-and-happily-marriedwhats-his-secretRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/07/26/43-years-and-happily-marriedwhats-his-secret/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/07/26/43-years-and-happily-marriedwhats-his-secretTue, 26 Jul 2011 21:00:00 GMT43 Years and Happily Married...What's His Secret? My guest today is Jay Earley, who has been happily married for 43 years. Listen to today’s show to find out how he does it, his secrets and the truth. Have all of the 43 years been filled with bliss? A long-time marriage can be one of life’s greatest gifts. Does it take hard work? Are there some seasons in the marriage that are more difficult than others? Jay will share candidly the ups and downs of his marriage to Marion. If you think the early years are wonderful and that then there are many days in the desert, don’t despair. There are things you can do and we hope that you reach the destiny of the later years of marriage because the best is yet to come! Jay Earley served 10 years in the military and then worked in the Insurance Industry for many years where he built a successful career. Nicknamed “Mr. Positive,” Jay Earley has built his successful life on hard work, combined with commitment, purpose and a cheerful disposition. He will talk about how to navigate through difficulties in marriage and share secrets for happiness and success in a long-term marriage. How was he able to balance work and family as he built a successful career? I am convinced that our true heroes nowadays are those who not only stay in their marriage, but make it something remarkable. We shouldn’t accept or expect anything less than a remarkable marriage. Jay encourages others to reach high levels of success in life and business. Visit Jay’s websites: http://jayearleymedia4success.com/ and http://www.blogtalkradio.com/jayearleymedia4success.   00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnoJay Earley Media 4 Success,happy lifelong marriage,secrets of success,hardships in marriage,Lynn GriesemerMy guest today is Jay Earley, who has been happily married for 43 years. Listen to today’s show to find out how he does it, his secrets and the truth. Have allhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/07/19/criticism-contempt-defensiveness-and-stonewallingRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/07/19/criticism-contempt-defensiveness-and-stonewalling/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/07/19/criticism-contempt-defensiveness-and-stonewallingTue, 19 Jul 2011 15:00:00 GMTCriticism, Contempt, Defensiveness and Stonewalling   Marriage Therapist and Author Dr. John Gottman has identified 4 kinds of negativity, if allowed to grow and fester, would be extremely lethal to a relationship: criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling.  Today we will discuss how to avoid making these negative behaviors a barrier to a healthy marriage and what to do if they are prevalent in your relationship.  www.marriagecoachlynn.com, Facebook:  Marriage Coach Lynn, Twitter:  MarriageCoachLn 00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnoJohn Gottman,4 Horsemen,criticism and contempt,defensiveness,resentmentMarriage Therapist and Author Dr. John Gottman has identified 4 kinds of negativity, if allowed to grow and fester, would be extremely lethal to a relationshhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/07/12/affirmation-and-the-gift-of-selfSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/07/12/affirmation-and-the-gift-of-self/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/07/12/affirmation-and-the-gift-of-selfTue, 12 Jul 2011 17:00:00 GMTAffirmation and the Gift of Self We continue our talk on “emotional affairs” by delving into the topic of “affirmation.” Affirmation is a great defense against emotional affairs. As we build a stronger marriage, we need to affirm ourselves and our partner. What is affirmation? It is not simply acknowledging the goodness in others or paying compliments to the one we love. It is much deeper and goes to the human soul. Today’s guest is Christina Hayden. Christina, sometimes called Cricket, is a homeschooling mother of 12 children, currently earning certification from the Theology of the Body Institute. Her life work is integrating the Theology of the Body with the Psychology of Affirmation, and the Philosophy of Ontology, the Philosophy of Being. Christina’s insights and knowledge cover a vast spectrum and she holds dear to her heart the relevance of John Paul II’s teachings as well as psychiatrist Dr. Conrad Baars, Dr. Anna Terruwe and Mary Joyce. Affirmation is important because without sincere / authentic/mature affirmation, it is not likely that we will be happy and whole. Prosperous relationships depend on learning to live the affirmed life. How is each of us affirmed and how can we affirm others so that they can know their goodness and worth? If we are not affirmed, we are operating within the context of deprivation. Christina will discuss the challenges of deprivation and offer some ideas on what we can do on our journey to becoming whole.   00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnoaffirmation,deprivation,active receptivity,Conrad Baars Anna Terruwe Mary Joyce JPII,wholeness of self and in marriageWe continue our talk on “emotional affairs” by delving into the topic of “affirmation.” Affirmation is a great defense against emotional affairs. As we build ahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/07/05/meeting-emotional-needs-in-marriageSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/07/05/meeting-emotional-needs-in-marriage/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/07/05/meeting-emotional-needs-in-marriageTue, 05 Jul 2011 15:00:00 GMTMeeting Emotional Needs in Marriage Continuing our discussion of Emotional Affairs, we will now turn to creating a climate within your marriage that WILL prevent against an emotional affair. We will talk about Dr. Willard Harley’s 10 most common emotional needs and “love busters” that can threaten marriage and drive one or more partners to an emotional affair. Please note that I show times will generally be 11:00am or 6:30pm (EST) during the summer. www.marriagecoachlynn.com Facebook: Marriage Coach Lynn Twitter: MarriageCoachLn   00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnoemotioanl needs,love busters,10 common emotioanl needs,affection conversation,admiration and familyContinuing our discussion of Emotional Affairs, we will now turn to creating a climate within your marriage that WILL prevent against an emotional affair. We whttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/06/28/emotional-infidelity-and-what-you-can-do-to-prevent-one-fromCulturehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/06/28/emotional-infidelity-and-what-you-can-do-to-prevent-one-from/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/06/28/emotional-infidelity-and-what-you-can-do-to-prevent-one-fromTue, 28 Jun 2011 15:00:00 GMTEmotional Affairs and What You Can Do to Prevent One    Beware of the emotional affair!  You know – the kind that sneaks up on you if you get a little too chummy with a co-worker or friend of the opposite sex.  Sure, your marriage might be ok, but the allure of someone who understands you and who you feel comfortable with seems innocent at first.  Most of us think of affairs as involving extramarital sexual relations.  Well, have you considered the gravity and threat of emotional affairs?  They might not involve obvious physical breech of vows, but they certainly pose a threat to marriage.     My guest today is Dr. Kim Kimberling, who also appeared as a guest on 3/2/11 (topic was “Recovering From the Shock of Infidelity: Endurance, Patience and Rebuilding Trust”). Visit his Facebook Page (“I Want an Awesome Marriage”). 00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnoEmotional Affairs,Infidelity,Kim Kimberling,how to prevent against an emotional affair,Lynn GriesemerBeware of the emotional affair!  You know – the kind that sneaks up on you if you get a little too chummy with a co-worker or friend of the opposite sex.  Shttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/06/21/honestyRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/06/21/honesty/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/06/21/honestyTue, 21 Jun 2011 15:00:00 GMTHonesty Honesty is a personal opinion, so it is not up to me to tell anyone what they should and should not do. We will toss out some questions for you to consider. Please call and share your comments. 760-512-7243. Are there some things that are better kept to yourself? Is it important to disclose everything so that your partner will know how to please you and not misinterpret your communication? Is it impolite and burdensome to share everything with your spouse? I will share with you what some psychologists recommend when it comes to honesty. Are you honest with yourself? How does this affect your marriage? www.marriagecoachlynn.com. Facebook Page: Marriage Coach Lynn. Purchase "Reenergize Your Marriage in 21 Days" at www.smashwords.com. 00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnohonesty,little white lies,honesty and intimacy,honesty after an affair,Lynn GriesemerHonesty is a personal opinion, so it is not up to me to tell anyone what they should and should not do. We will toss out some questions for you to consider. Plhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/06/14/stay-at-home-fathersFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/06/14/stay-at-home-fathers/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/06/14/stay-at-home-fathersTue, 14 Jun 2011 22:30:00 GMTStay-at-home Fathers Our culture tends to emphasize the role of the husband or male as the primary “breadwinner”  or financial provider.    What happens when the father adopts the role as a stay at-home dad?  My guests tonight are Chris and Sarah Kuhner, who have been married for 11 years and are the parents of two young girls.  Sarah works as a NICU Nurse, while Chris functions as the primary caretaker of Bekah and Hannah.  We will discuss the challenges and benefits of this arrangement.  What are the masculinity challenges and benefits? What does mom feel about the configuration? Is there added stress on the marriage?     As a reminder, if you'd like a complimentary copy of my book REENERGIZE YOUR MARRIAGE IN 21 DAYS, please subscribe to my free monthly newsletter on www.marriagecoachlynn.com by 6/15/11 or purchase your copy from www.smashwords.com.  Visit my Facebook Page at Marriage Coach Lynn and follow me on twitter:  MarriageCoachLn.      00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnostay at home fathers,Chris and Sarah Kuhner,Lynn M Griesemer,mens role in marriage,parenting and marriageOur culture tends to emphasize the role of the husband or male as the primary “breadwinner”  or financial provider.    What happens when the father adopts thehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/06/07/emotional-health-and-marriagePsychologyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/06/07/emotional-health-and-marriage/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/06/07/emotional-health-and-marriageTue, 07 Jun 2011 22:30:00 GMTEmotional Health and Marriage  Authors Art and Laraine Bennett will join me for a discussion of their newly released book: “The Emotions God Gave You: A Guide for Catholics to Healthy and Holy Living.”   In this insightful and easy-to-read book, Catholic therapist Art Bennett and his wife Laraine explain how our emotions affect us and how our thoughts, attitudes, and behavior can affect our emotions. In a conversational and nontechnical way, the authors address these and other questions: What are the effects of temperament and our past experiences on our emotional health? Can we trust our feelings? When do our emotions become destructive? How do past emotional wounds affect our present-day emotional balance?    Art and Laraine Bennett have been married for 34 years and have four grown children.  Art spent over 25 years as a Marriage and Family Therapist, is the founder of Alpha Omega Institute (www.aoccs.org) in Bathesda, Maryland and currently the President and CEO of Catholic Charities for the Arlington Diocese in Virginia.  Laraine is a freelance writer, with Master’s Degrees in Philosophy and Theology.  They are the authors of The Temperament God Gave You (2005), The Temperament God Gave Your Spouse (2008), and The Emotions God Gave You (May 2011). They were guests on “Your Marriage Matters” on 12/21/10. 00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnoemotions and feelings,emotional health in marriage,Art and Laraine Bennett,THe Emotions God Gave You,Guidelines for Holy LivingAuthors Art and Laraine Bennett will join me for a discussion of their newly released book: “The Emotions God Gave You: A Guide for Catholics to Healthy and Hhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/05/31/interview-stephanie-coontz-author-of-a-strange-stirringCulturehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/05/31/interview-stephanie-coontz-author-of-a-strange-stirring/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/05/31/interview-stephanie-coontz-author-of-a-strange-stirringTue, 31 May 2011 22:30:00 GMTInterview: Stephanie Coontz, Author of “A Strange Stirring"   Stepahie Coontz will discuss her book: "A Strange Stirring:  The Feminine Mystique and American Women at the Dawn of the 1960's."  Drawing on extensive research and interviews, Coontz examines women’s changing status from the 1920s-1950s, compares the dilemmas of working-class and middle-class women in the early 1960s, and illuminates the new mystiques and possibilities facing couples today. The powerful stories she tells remind us of the immense costs of denying women the challenges of meaningful work and exempting men from the challenges of meaningful parenting.       An award-winning social historian and the Director of Research and Public Education at the Council on Contemporary Families, Stephanie Coontz is frequently sought after by national and local media for her expertise on families and marriage. She has appeared on numerous national television shows, including Today, Oprah, and 20/20, and has written for the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Newsweek and Vogue, among others.      Coontz will explain just how “unliberated” the 1960s were for women, and why so many were so unhappy with their lives. We will discuss where Betty Friedan got it right – including how modern research supports her prediction that men would be happier and marriages better because of feminism – and what she got wrong.  We will also focus on how the feminine mystique has evolved into the new “hottie” and “parenting” mystiques, and why the “career mystique” and the masculine mystique are the big threats to marriage and family life today. 00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnofeminism,changing roles of women,A Strange Stirring,Stephanie Coontz,Feminine MystiqueStepahie Coontz will discuss her book: "A Strange Stirring:  The Feminine Mystique and American Women at the Dawn of the 1960's."  Drawing on extensive reseahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/05/24/actress-diane-farr-to-discuss-interracial-marriageCulturehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/05/24/actress-diane-farr-to-discuss-interracial-marriage/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/05/24/actress-diane-farr-to-discuss-interracial-marriageTue, 24 May 2011 22:30:00 GMTActress Diane Farr to discuss Interracial Marriage Actress Diane Farr will discuss her new book "Kissing Outside the Lines:  A Memoir of Love and Acceptance."Diane's witty attitude about her trials and tribulations of her interracial relationship with a Korean-born man and the "speed bumps" she overcame, is the perfect story to inspire couples who are "kissing outside their lines."  We will discuss the unique marital challenges and cultural attitudes that some couples face in interracial marriages.   Diane Farr is a television actress, TV and magazine writer, nationally syndicated columnist, and the author of The Girl Code. She’s most known for her roles as the female lead on CBS’s “Numb3rs,” playing Megan Reeves and on the critically acclaimed FX series “Rescue Me,” as firefighter Laura Miles and most recently as Jill Robinson on Showtime’s “Californication.” She contributes to Glamour, Esquire, GQ, Cosmopolitan, Marie Claire, Jane, Self and O Magazine. Farr lives in Los Angeles, California, with her husband and three children.  For more information, please visitgetdianefarr.com. Sign up for my monthly newsletter and for a free copy of "Reenergize Your Marriage in 21 Days" before 6/15/11: www.marriagecoachlynn.com.  Facebook Page: Marriage Coach Lynn  00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnointerracial marriage,acceptance in marriage,inlaws,Lynn Griesemer,Diane FarrActress Diane Farr will discuss her new book "Kissing Outside the Lines:  A Memoir of Love and Acceptance."Diane's witty attitude about her trials and tribulatihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/05/17/reenergize-your-marriage-in-21-daysRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/05/17/reenergize-your-marriage-in-21-days/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/05/17/reenergize-your-marriage-in-21-daysTue, 17 May 2011 22:30:00 GMTReenergize Your Marriage in 21 Days Would you like to know how to reenergize your marriage?  Reenergize Your Marriage in 21 Daysmay be the most important book you read this year!  This program is simple, doable and designed for you to succeed.  Today we will talk about what this book is about, who it’s for and how it can help you.    I designed a program for married couples who want to improve their relationship now, today.      We’re busy.  We don’t have time to read 200 page books, digest ideas and file them away for another day.  We need something that’s going to benefit us now – something we can put into action.      Whether you’ve been married 5 or 25 years, Reenergize Your Marriage in 21 Days can help you improve your marriage.  21 exercises in 21 days – Most are easy to do and the pay off can be HUGE, depending on your situation.    If you want to add a little more life into your marriage, improve communication, intimacy and admiration for your partner, this is the book for you.  If you want to have more fun and strengthen your friendship with your husband or wife, then download this book now and get started.   Special kickoff promotion:  Free copies will be given to those who sign up for my monthly newsletter before 6/15/11 on www.marriagecoachlynn.com.  Or, purchase your copy at www.smashwords.com. 00:24:00MarriageCoachLynnnoReenergize Your Marriage in 21 Days,intimacy,improve communication,Lynn Griesemer,improving your marriageWould you like to know how to reenergize your marriage?  Reenergize Your Marriage in 21 Daysmay be the most important book you read this year!  This program ishttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/05/10/becoming-your-spouses-better-half-differences-in-marriageRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/05/10/becoming-your-spouses-better-half-differences-in-marriage/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/05/10/becoming-your-spouses-better-half-differences-in-marriageTue, 10 May 2011 18:00:00 GMTBecoming Your Spouses Better Half: Differences in Marriage Join me and my guest Kristine James tonight as we talk about a book released last year by Rick Johnson: Becoming Your Spouse's Better Half:  Why Differences Make a Marriage Great.  From the back cover:  "Having a successful marriage is not about finding the perfect person. It's not even about always getting along. It's about loving the imperfect person you married in an unselfish manner. Just as a great meal is made from many ingredients, a great marriage is a combination of different traits. If men and women were the same, life would turn out pretty bland. In this witty and insightful book, Rick Johnson shows you how to go beyond merely tolerating your spouse's differences to using them to add spice and passion to your relationship." Please note the different time 2:00pm EST.  Visit my website and sign up for the monthly newsletter.  www.marriagecoachlynn.com.  Follow me on Facebook at Marriage Coach Lynn and twitter MarriageCoachLn 00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnodifferences between husband and wife,making your marriage great,how to increase intimacy,Kristine James,Lynn GriesemerJoin me and my guest Kristine James tonight as we talk about a book released last year by Rick Johnson: Becoming Your Spouse's Better Half:  Why Differences Mahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/05/03/how-to-have-a-happy-marriageRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/05/03/how-to-have-a-happy-marriage/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/05/03/how-to-have-a-happy-marriageTue, 03 May 2011 22:30:00 GMTHow to Have a Happy Marriage Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. We all want a happy marriage. What is happiness? Is it an elusive dream? Is it possible? Today we will talk about how we can have a more joy-filled relationship. I will share my top 10 list of qualities of a happy marriage. Do you have tips to share about how to make your marriage happier? Share your comments: 760-512-7243. Post your comments here on blogtalkradio as a way to share with others. Have you listened to all of the past “Your Marriage Matter Shows?” Scroll through and see the variety of topics and guests. Go to my Facebook Page and click “like” on Marriage Coach Lynn. A free offer of my book “Reenergize Your Marriage in 21 Days” will be available for a short period of time. If you miss out on the free offer, you are welcome to visit my website to purchase the book for $9.95. www.marriagecoachlynn.com. 00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnotop 10 qualities of happy marriages,virtues and character,renergize your marriage in 21 days,Lynn Griesemer,secrets for a happy marriageLife, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. We all want a happy marriage. What is happiness? Is it an elusive dream? Is it possible? Today we wilhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/04/26/success-in-life-success-in-marriageSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/04/26/success-in-life-success-in-marriage/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/04/26/success-in-life-success-in-marriageTue, 26 Apr 2011 22:30:00 GMTSuccess in Life; Success in Marriage What is it that you want in life? What do you want from your marriage? My guest says that it is a matter of choice whether you want a successful life, relationship or career. She also says that about 90% of us do not truly know what we want or how to go about getting it. Barbara Hofmeister is an internationally renowned speaker, author and expert on the topic of human growth. In the last few years alone she spoke to over 15,000 people helping them to get their dreams back and the courage to make them come true. Barbara became interested in her own personal growth in 1978 when a friend gave her the book “Your Erroneous Zones” by Dr. Wayne Dyer. Since then she has not stopped studying the topic. Barbara considers it her mission to help as many people as possible to rediscover their dreams and to gain the confidence and belief in themselves to actually make them come true. Tonight’s show is not about selfish pursuit of dreams, but will serve as a discussion about how to integrate your deepest desires into your life when you are married. How can we keep the relationship strong if and when one partner has an epiphany and new direction? Many relationships cannot endure new directions when one partner is changing in unforeseen ways. How many couples do you know who are completely compatible when they get married, but cannot keep up with the changes? Barbara Hofmeister is the author of “To Be or Not to Be – the Choice is Yours!” www.barbarahofmeister.com/blog and www.thetobebook.com. 00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnomarriage and change,pursuing your dreams,how to discover and follow your dreams,choice,Barbara Hofmeister and Lynn GriesemerWhat is it that you want in life? What do you want from your marriage? My guest says that it is a matter of choice whether you want a successful life, relahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/04/19/the-effect-of-deployment-on-marriageMilitaryhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/04/19/the-effect-of-deployment-on-marriage/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/04/19/the-effect-of-deployment-on-marriageTue, 19 Apr 2011 22:30:00 GMTThe Effect of Deployment on Marriage Thousands of couples are affected by a spouse who deploys for military duty. The separation can take a huge toll on marriage. Tonight we will talk about how to cope with the hardships and time away from each other. My guests are Lieutenant Stephen Zachary and his wife Terry. They will share their tips on how to keep the love and relationship strong and Steve will share his perspective as a Navy Chaplain.Married for 25 years, the Zachary's are the parents of 3 children and 2 grandchildren. Their 24 year-old son Timothy was born with Down Syndrome and diagnosed with autism in 1999. Although his severe mental and developmental disabilities are always a challenge, he has been a great joy in their lives. Lt. Stephen Zachary has served as an active duty Navy Chaplain for the last 8 years and is currently pursuing his Doctorate in Military Ministry with Regents University. He has been deployed 3 times (Iraq,Afghanistan, and most recently - the USS Pearl Harbor in Indonesia and along the African coast. Terry received her BS in Nursing, served as a nurse and in the Air Force and received her Master's Degree in Nursing in 1988. She’s held several positions as an RN in various positions, including instructor of nursing, but throughout their 25 year marriage, faith, marriage and family have always come first. She has devoted some of her years to being a full time mother and working in her children's schools,supporting her husband's career by volunteer involvement with the military and their home churches. The Zachary’s will share their secrets for lifelong love in the midst of deployment – the adjustments, readjustments, transitions required and added challenge of raising a handicapped child in the absence of one parent. Lieutenant Zachary will also share common struggles that military members and their families encounter surrounding deployment. FB page: Marriage Coach Lynn Twitter: MarriageCoachLn www.marriagecoachlynn.com-sign up for monthly newsletter00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnomilitary deployment and marriage,Lt Steve and Terry Zachary,prolonged business or military absenses,keeping love alive,marriage and family pressuresThousands of couples are affected by a spouse who deploys for military duty. The separation can take a huge toll on marriage. Tonight we will talk about how tohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/04/12/part-ii-of-sexually-explicit-images-and-the-breakdown-in-human-loveCulturehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/04/12/part-ii-of-sexually-explicit-images-and-the-breakdown-in-human-love/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/04/12/part-ii-of-sexually-explicit-images-and-the-breakdown-in-human-loveTue, 12 Apr 2011 22:30:00 GMTPart II: Sexually Explicit Images and the Breakdown of HUMAN LovePART II (Part I was on 4/5/11). Note new time - 2pm EST. The viewing of sexually explicit material and addiction to pronography is contributing to a breakdown in love and marriage. It is negatively influencing the way humans perceive and relate to each other, and affecting the experiences of incoming babies who have been conceived in less than optimal circumstances. My guest today is noted sociologist and conscious birth educator, Jeanice Barcelo, who will be sharing with us about the consequences of sexually explicit thought and and how it is causing a breakdown in human love. Jeanice will also share with us the keys to healing our separation from love and to preserving love in our families forever. Jeanice Barcelo, M.A., is a sociologist, a conscious birth educator, and a prenatal and birth trauma prevention specialist. She is an international speaker, a TV and radio show host, and the founder of the forthcoming “Birth of a New Earth International School for Conscious Procreation” to be located on Maui. Jeanice offers classes, seminars, and teacher trainings, as well as workshops and educational programs designed especially for men. To contact Jeanice, please visit her website at http://BirthofaNewEarth.com/. 00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnopronography,X rated images and internet,distored view of women in pronography,addiction to pronography,Jeanice Barcelo and Lynn GriesemerPART II (Part I was on 4/5/11). Note new time - 2pm EST. The viewing of sexually explicit material and addiction to pronography is contributing to a breakdownhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/04/05/sexually-explicit-images-and-the-breakdown-of-human-lovePsychologyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/04/05/sexually-explicit-images-and-the-breakdown-of-human-love/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/04/05/sexually-explicit-images-and-the-breakdown-of-human-loveTue, 05 Apr 2011 22:30:00 GMTSexually Explicit Images and the Breakdown of HUMAN Love The viewing of sexually explicit material and addiction to pronography is contributing to a breakdown in love and marriage. It is negatively influencing the way humans perceive and relate to each other, and affecting the experiences of incoming babies who have been conceived in less than optimal circumstances. My guest today is noted sociologist and conscious birth educator, Jeanice Barcelo, who will be sharing with us about the consequences of sexually explicit thought and and how it is causing a breakdown in human love. Jeanice will also share with us the keys to healing our separation from love and to preserving love in our families forever. Jeanice Barcelo, M.A., is a sociologist, a conscious birth educator, and a prenatal and birth trauma prevention specialist. She is an international speaker, a TV and radio show host, and the founder of the forthcoming “Birth of a New Earth International School for Conscious Procreation” to be located on Maui. Jeanice offers classes, seminars, and teacher trainings, as well as workshops and educational programs designed especially for men. To contact Jeanice, please visit her website at http://BirthofaNewEarth.com/. 00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnosexually explicit literature and photos,addictions,X rated images a threat to healthy marriage,love,keys to greater love and intimacyThe viewing of sexually explicit material and addiction to pronography is contributing to a breakdown in love and marriage. It is negatively influencing thehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/03/28/the-second-time-around-second-marriagesFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/03/28/the-second-time-around-second-marriages/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/03/28/the-second-time-around-second-marriagesMon, 28 Mar 2011 22:00:00 GMTThe Second Time Around: Second Marriages Second marriages are common in this culture. Step families. Blended families. There are a lot of delicate challenges for those who find themselves in second marriages. We will talk about hardships second unions pose, what couples need to know before entering a second union, and what couples can do to ensure they “get it right” the second time around. We will talk about techniques for dealing with a former spouse and step-children as well as healing efforts and negative fallout from the first marriage. We will share some interesting statistics that might make you stop and think about the seriousness of second unions. Most couples do not want to “fail” a second time, so listen to this program for some inspiration for a positive marriage. Share your questions and comments in the chat room or via email. lynn@marriagecoachlynn.com My guest, Dr. Bill Commins is a clinical psychologist in private practice in Burke, Virginia. He has been in practice for 25 years, and have worked extensively with couples in marriage counseling. For the past ten years, he has been presenting marriage preparation specifically for people entering second marriages. Dr. Commins is married with four grown children. Facebook Page: Marriage Coach Lynn Website: www.marriagecoachlynn.com Twitter: MarriageCoachLn You Tube Videos: Subscribe to Marriage Coach Lynn Forthcoming e-book in April 2011: REENERGIZE YOUR MARRIAGE IN 21 DAYS Exciting news and announcement coming soon! *Note the special time of 5:00pm if you want to listen live.00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnosecond marriage,secrets for success the second time around,what you need to know about remarriage,Bill Commins,Lynn GriesemerSecond marriages are common in this culture. Step families. Blended families. There are a lot of delicate challenges for those who find themselves in seconhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/03/22/widowhood-the-grief-the-challengesFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/03/22/widowhood-the-grief-the-challenges/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/03/22/widowhood-the-grief-the-challengesTue, 22 Mar 2011 22:30:00 GMTWidowhood: The Grief, The Challenges One of the most difficult times in marriage comes when your spouse dies. Most of us don’t want to think about it or talk about it. Yet, it’s a part of life that we shouldn’t box up and set to the side in hushed silence, because sooner or later, one partner WILL have to confront this most unwelcome situation. Whether death is unexpected or you nurse your beloved through a long illness, a flood of emotions takes over as well as a forced new life without your partner. Tonight’s guest is Carla Hartley who will share her story and grief regarding her beloved husband Ray of almost 39 years. Ray Hartley was diagnosed with cancer on December 23 and died seven weeks later on Feb. 18, 2010. Carla Hartley is the mother of 4 and grandmother of 8. She pioneered a distance education for midwives in 1981 and has helped hundreds of women become midwives over the past thirty years. Carla is the founder of The Trust Birth Initiative and the author of Helping Hands, The Apprentice Workbook. She has had an enormously positive influence in encouraging women to reclaim birth and has organized successful conferences during the past several years. Visit: www.trustbirth.com. Carla married her high school sweetheart right out of high school and spent almost 39 years as the wife of Ray Hartley. He has been sorely missed by Carla and the rest of the family. 00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnolosing a spouse,widow and widower,Carla Hartley and Lynn Griesemer,grief in marriage,how to deal with a new stage in marriageOne of the most difficult times in marriage comes when your spouse dies. Most of us don’t want to think about it or talk about it. Yet, it’s a part of lihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/03/15/are-you-listening-how-to-become-a-better-listener-in-marriageFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/03/15/are-you-listening-how-to-become-a-better-listener-in-marriage/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/03/15/are-you-listening-how-to-become-a-better-listener-in-marriageTue, 15 Mar 2011 22:30:00 GMTAre You Listening?: How to Become a Better Listener in Marriage Many people will say that communication is the key to a great marriage. Communication is a vast word that covers a lot of territory. Listening is an important part of communication. Tonight we will focus on the important skill of listening. Are you a good listener? How do you know? Tune in to today’s show and find out what it takes to be a good listener and how to go about listening for meaning. If you aren’t a good listener, chances are, you are not in tune with your spouse. Do you often interrupt your spouse or think about what you’re going to say before he or she has finished? My guest Dr. Judy Pearson will offer some suggestions and techniques for becoming a better listener. Listening is essential to good relationships, yet most of us could improve our listening skills. Dr. Judy Pearson will discuss how to listen in three ways: Listen to Understand, Listen to empathize, and Listen to problem-solve. Dr. Pearson was a guest on Your Marriage Matters on 1/25/11 where we discussed Conflict. Dr. Pearson is a Licensed Professional Counselor, psychotherapist, life coach, author, speaker, and trainer with advanced certification in Clinical Hypnotherapy and Solution-Oriented Counseling. She is a Certified Master Practitioner and Trainer of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and serves as Executive Director of the National Board of Certified Clinical Hypnotherapists. She owns Motivational Strategies, located in Springfield, Virginia, providing counseling and hypnotherapy for health issues, emotional problems, motivation, performance excellence, sports psychology and to military personnel and their families. Visit her website for more information: www.engagethepower.com 00:27:00MarriageCoachLynnnoJudy Pearson,skills for better listening,communication skills,listening for meaning,imrpove marriage by improving listeningMany people will say that communication is the key to a great marriage. Communication is a vast word that covers a lot of territory. Listening is an imporhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/03/08/middle-age-malaiseRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/03/08/middle-age-malaise/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/03/08/middle-age-malaiseTue, 08 Mar 2011 23:30:00 GMTMiddle Age MalaiseHave you been married 15-20-25 years? Do you sometimes reminisce about the seemingly happier years of your early married life? What has happened? Do you go to your child’s sporting event and secretly wonder, “Is this all there is? Will things get better or should I just settle in to how things are now?” Over the years, we encounter many struggles and changes in marriage. The middle years can be tough. Maybe we have teens in the house or young adults who are draining our energy at the same time we are questioning our life goals and career situation. Maybe we’re a little disappointed with some aspect of our lives, including our marriage. Maybe the wife is going through menopause and the husband is having a hard time with all the female energy and shifts. And of course, elderly parents present additional challenges. There is pressure coming from everywhere. So let’s take a deep breath and talk about some of the challenges commonly encountered during the middle years of marriage and what we can do about them. Our goal is to be happy, not just exist in our long term marriage; we want to strengthen what we have and set the course as we move into the golden years of marriage. Send me your challenges or call the show and let’s talk. lynn@marriagecoachlynn.com, 760-512-7243 during the show or leave a comment in the chat room. I have a top 10 list of do’s and don’ts to zap middle age malaise. And, I have a quiz. The first person to call in with the correct answer will get a free copy of my book REENERGIZE YOUR MARRIAGE IN 21 DAYS. 00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnomiddle age,marriage coach lynn dot com,reenergize your marriage,complaceny in marriage,top 10 ways to improve marriageHave you been married 15-20-25 years? Do you sometimes reminisce about the seemingly happier years of your early married life? What has happened? Do you go to yhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/03/02/recovering-from-the-shock-of-infidelity-endurance-patience-and-rebuilding-trustPsychologyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/03/02/recovering-from-the-shock-of-infidelity-endurance-patience-and-rebuilding-trust/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/03/02/recovering-from-the-shock-of-infidelity-endurance-patience-and-rebuilding-trustWed, 02 Mar 2011 16:00:00 GMTRecovering From the Shock of Infidelity: Endurance, Patience and Rebuilding Trust Infidelity can destroy a marriage. It’s estimated that 20% of couples will encounter infidelity. Some claim that only 35% of marriages will survive infidelity. But who cares about statistics when your world is blown to smithereens? Today (note the special time of 11:00am EST) we will talk about this sensitive and heartbreaking topic and offer hope for a renewed relationship. Listeners are reminded that “Your Marriage Matters” does not take the place of individual counseling; this is a forum to discuss topics in a general way. Betrayal is a serious issue that might warrant professional intervention. Dr. Kimberling has been a professional counselor for over twenty years. He holds a Ph.D. in Christian Counseling and a Doctor of Ministry in Christian Counseling. He also holds a Masters Degree in Christian Ministry and a Masters in Theological Studies. He is President and co-founder of Family Christian Counseling in Oklahoma City. Dr. Kimberling has been married to his wife Nancy for forty-one years and they have two grown children and four incredible grandchildren. Dr. Kimberling is passionate about helping equip couples for marriage and helping married couples take their marriages to a new level. He began teaching his "Preparing for Marriage" course in 1998 and literally hundreds of couples have benefited from his teaching. He has two books: “Preparing for the Marriage of a Lifetime” and “Living the Marriage of a Lifetime.” He is the face of “I Want an Awesome Marriage” and has over 17,000 followers on the “Awesome Marriage” Facebook Page. He is also the professional staff member for LifeChurch.tv Church Online. 00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnoaffairs infidelity adultery betrayal,healing after an affair and repairing marriage,MarriageCoachLynn dot com,Kim Kimberling,FB page Awesome MarriageInfidelity can destroy a marriage. It’s estimated that 20% of couples will encounter infidelity. Some claim that only 35% of marriages will survive infidelithttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/02/22/roommates-when-marriage-becomes-like-living-with-a-roommateRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/02/22/roommates-when-marriage-becomes-like-living-with-a-roommate/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/02/22/roommates-when-marriage-becomes-like-living-with-a-roommateTue, 22 Feb 2011 23:30:00 GMTRoommates: When Marriage Becomes Like Living With a Roommate What happened? Somewhere along the way, things cooled off to the point of mutual existence in the same home. Some couples are not happy about this arrangement, yet go along with it, rationalizing that they are busy with kids, jobs and life in general. Many do not admit that their once steamy, happy and loving relationship resembles more like a roommate arrangement. It’s too painful to admit. But, if you want to make a change and want to make improvements, it might be time to find the courage to take action. Let’s talk about the various states of marriage (intimacy, conflict, withdrawal) and what we can do to insert a little more intimacy and move away from this roommate set up. (And remember, divorce is not what we are looking for as a solution!). Living like roommates is not really what you want, is it? This show is for those who struggle with a roommate situation or for general ideas as far as recognizing and avoiding slipping into a roommate arrangement. Do you have a success story? Maybe you were once living as roommates and turned it around. Please call and share your story: 760-512-7243 Please sign up for my monthly newsletter: www.marriagecoachlynn.com. My book REENERGIZE YOUR MARRIAGE IN 21 DAYS release date is set for April 1, 2011. There will be a short window of time to get a free copy of my book by doing 3 things. Hint: Do them now so you'll be ready to receive the book: (1) sign up for my newsletter. (2) click "Like" on Facebook Page: Marriage Coach Lynn (3) optional. If you use Twitter, follow me on MarriageCoachLn.00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnoliving as roommates,disappointment in marriage,too busy as an excuse,resentment and avoidance,lack of sexWhat happened? Somewhere along the way, things cooled off to the point of mutual existence in the same home. Some couples are not happy about this arranghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/02/15/fat-like-us-and-the-toll-obesity-takes-on-a-marriageHealthhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/02/15/fat-like-us-and-the-toll-obesity-takes-on-a-marriage/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/02/15/fat-like-us-and-the-toll-obesity-takes-on-a-marriageTue, 15 Feb 2011 23:30:00 GMT“Fat Like Us” and the Toll Obesity Takes on a Marriage Tonight we will talk about obesity and its effect on marriage. What happens when one partner loses over 100 pounds? You might be surprised to hear what tonight’s guest has to say. A major change in physical appearance or body type can pose challenges in a marriage. In addition to losing significant weight, we will talk about “change.” Change is inevitable. The marriage relationship is in a state of flux and we must respond and adapt to change. What do you do when one partner makes a major change? Can the marriage survive? What can we do to protect and prevent a marriage from collapsing? Jean Renfro Anspaugh is the author of FAT LIKE US. Published in 2001, “Fat Like Us” was a HUGE success (pun intended). Jean appeared on 60 Minutes and traveled the world giving presentations and interviews about her book, the story of obese people who come to Durham, North Carolina to realize their dream of becoming thin. These dieters, called "ricers," form a distinct, clearly defined community that functions based on a quiet agreement to adhere to a system of traditions, customs, rituals, and social mores regarding dieting and eating. Jean is known as the “Folklorist of Fat” and tells an entertaining, yet poignant story about those who struggle beyond what most of us know. Jean has degrees in anthropology, folklore and public health. She is married to David and the mother of three children and four grandchildren. Call us at 760-512-7243 or leave your comments in the chatroom. Sign up for my free monthly newsletter: www.marriagecoachlynn.com, visit my Facebook Page: MarriageCoachLynn and follow me on twitter: MarriageCoachLn 00:28:00MarriageCoachLynnnoobesity,overwieght effect on marriage,radical changes in marriage,dieting and relationships,Rice DietTonight we will talk about obesity and its effect on marriage. What happens when one partner loses over 100 pounds? You might be surprised to hear what thttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/02/08/what-irritates-you-about-your-spousePsychologyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/02/08/what-irritates-you-about-your-spouse/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/02/08/what-irritates-you-about-your-spouseTue, 08 Feb 2011 23:30:00 GMTHow to Deal With Irritations It’s the little things that can make your marriage strong and it’s the little things that can wreak havoc on a marriage. How do you handle the irritations and annoyances in your marriage? And, are irritations really “little things?” Kristine James will join me as we talk about irritations: What bothers you and why? What can we do about it? Kristine will offer some strategies for dealing with what annoys you. She will discuss how to identify irritations, and find a home where they originate. Listeners are encouraged to call in with their stories: What bothered you when you first got married and no longer bothers you? Why did this change? What did you do? Kristine James has been married to Henry for a long duration. Kristine received her MA in Psychology and has been researching and studying relationships, human behavior and happiness, among other topics for most of her adult life. She was my guest on the 11/9/10 program “Great Marriages Must Be Created.” 00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnoirritations,annoying habits or behaviors of spouse,the little things in marriage,how to deal with nuisances in marriage,Lynn Griesemer and Kristine JamesIt’s the little things that can make your marriage strong and it’s the little things that can wreak havoc on a marriage. How do you handle the irritations ahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/02/01/interview-with-national-marriage-week-co-founder-sheila-weberCulturehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/02/01/interview-with-national-marriage-week-co-founder-sheila-weber/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/02/01/interview-with-national-marriage-week-co-founder-sheila-weberTue, 01 Feb 2011 23:30:00 GMTInterview with National Marriage Week Co-Founder Sheila Weber My guest tonight is Sheila Weber. We will talk about National Marriage Week (Feb 7-14, each year)and what you can do in your community and to improve your marriage. Sheila will also share some interesting facts about the state of marriage in the USA. National Marriage Week “is a collaborative effort to encourage many diverse groups to strengthen individual marriages, reduce the divorce rate, and build a stronger marriage culture, which in turn helps curtail poverty and benefits children. Please join with others to host special events, launch a marriage class or home group, or place local advertising or news stories.In 2009, a group led by Chuck Stetson and Sheila Weber of the Let's Strengthen Marriage Campaign, working with dozens of organizations in the U.S. and many leaders in the marriage movement, have developed the National Marriage Week USA site to bring together the many activities that organizations and churches are already doing to strengthen marriage. We recognize in particular that social science is clear that children are best served when they grow up with both a mother and father. It is critical to strengthen the bonds of marriage to best support children so that they can thrive and flourish.” www.nationalmarriageweekusa.org With 20 years experience as a public relations,media relations,and communications executive,Sheila Weber has been a spokesperson on more than 500 national radio and TV programs and placed hundreds of major national stories (The New York Times, AP, Washington Post, LA Times), including a best-selling TIME magazine cover story “Why We Should Teach the Bible in Public Schools.” (April 2, 2006). A long time resident of New York City, Sheila has worked as VP Communications for the Bible Literacy Project, a U.S. Senate press aide, media director and more. Sheila has an honors degree in Journalism and Economics and was a President's Scholar for a Masters degree in Management. Sheila@LetsStrengthenMarriage.org.00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnoNational Marriage Week USA,marriage and family,marriage in community and society,Sheila Weber,Lynn GriesemerMy guest tonight is Sheila Weber. We will talk about National Marriage Week (Feb 7-14, each year)and what you can do in your community and to improve yourhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/01/25/fighting-fair-tips-for-couples-on-resolving-confliPsychologyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/01/25/fighting-fair-tips-for-couples-on-resolving-confli/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/01/25/fighting-fair-tips-for-couples-on-resolving-confliTue, 25 Jan 2011 23:30:00 GMTFighting Fair: Tips for Couples on Resolving ConflictArguments. We all have them. Sometimes disagreements can bring us down and keep us down. Let’s discover some secrets to dealing with conflict. Tonight’s guest is Dr. Judy Pearson,a Licensed Professional Counselor, psychotherapist,life coach,author,speaker,and trainer with advanced certification in Clinical Hypnotherapy and Solution-Oriented Counseling. She is a Certified Master Practitioner and Trainer of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and serves as Executive Director of the National Board of Certified Clinical Hypnotherapists. She owns Motivational Strategies, located in Springfield, Virginia, providing counseling and hypnotherapy for health issues, emotional problems, motivation, performance excellence, sports psychology and to military personnel and their families. Dr. Pearson has written over 150 articles and book reviews and her third book will be released in 2011. She developed three commercial hypnosis CDs. Her latest book is The Weight, Hypnotherapy, and You Weight Reduction Program. As a Certified NLP Trainer, she teaches with the American Hypnosis Training Academy, in Silver Spring, Maryland and Ultimate Success Coaching in Reston, Virginia. She has held positions as a social worker, a psychologist in a federal agency and an adjunct university professor. Dr. Pearson is a member of Toastmasters International and the National Speakers’ Association. She is happily married to John A. Rodgaard, Captain, U.S. Navy, Retired, an author and consultant. Visit her website at www.engagethepower.com 00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnoJudy Pearson,conflict and arguments,resolving disagreements,secrets for resolving arguments,NLP and hypnosisArguments. We all have them. Sometimes disagreements can bring us down and keep us down. Let’s discover some secrets to dealing with conflict. Tonight’s guehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/01/18/know-yourself-know-your-partner-what-you-need-to-kSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/01/18/know-yourself-know-your-partner-what-you-need-to-k/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/01/18/know-yourself-know-your-partner-what-you-need-to-kTue, 18 Jan 2011 23:30:00 GMTKnow Yourself, Know Your Partner: What You NEED to Know Before and AFTER You Get MarriedMany people spend four years in college preparing for a career, but how do we prepare for a lifelong marriage? Most couples do a little preparation, but usually enter marriage with incomplete knowledge. Tonight’s show will cover things you probably hadn’t thought about and things you should know. Whether you are married or not, it’s important to know yourself and your partner. “Knowledge is power.” When you understand why a person is the way he is, you can accept situations much more easily instead of trying to change someone to conform to your preferences. You can adapt better and adaptation is a big part of long, happy marriages. These tools can help you know yourself and your partner: the MBTI (Myers Briggs Type Indicator), Keirsey Temperament Sorter, Enneagram, the 4 Temperaments, Love Language. Are you familiar with the 3 C’s (Conviction, Compatibility, Communication), Your Learning Preference (visual, kinesthetic, auditory) and your financial approach to life? Do you consider your heart, head and gut when making decisions? You’ve heard of IQ, but how about EQ and RQ? What are your spiritual beliefs and are you familiar with your partner’s? What do you know about your partner’s background, or if you are married, how does your “Love Map” measure up? Have you heard of the 4 A’s and why you need to confront them before you get married (Addiction, Abuse, Abortion, Anger)? Do you favor Left brain/ Right brain? Type A/ Type B? Introverted / Extroverted? How does your “Johari Window” look? Have a pen and paper handy and don’t accuse me of TMI (too much information). You can’t have too much information when preparing for marriage or while trying to raise your marriage to a higher level!00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnomarriage preparation,knowing yourself and your partner,comaptibility,beliefs and values,secrets for lasting loveMany people spend four years in college preparing for a career, but how do we prepare for a lifelong marriage? Most couples do a little preparation, but usuallhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/01/11/now-that-ive-found-the-right-one-what-am-i-doing-to-prepare-for-marriageRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/01/11/now-that-ive-found-the-right-one-what-am-i-doing-to-prepare-for-marriage/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/01/11/now-that-ive-found-the-right-one-what-am-i-doing-to-prepare-for-marriageTue, 11 Jan 2011 23:30:00 GMTNow That I've Found the Right One, What Am I Doing to Prepare for Marriage? Congratulations. You’re absolutely sure you want to marry your beloved. Now what? What do I do to prepare for a lifelong marriage? Many Americans will spend a year planning a wedding, being consumed by details, but what about the marriage preparation? Bernie, my guest tonight, understands the value of being ready to marry and being in a position to marry. Listen to Bernie as he shares his fascinating story and his wisdom of taking it slow and being ready before entering an important lifelong relationship. As a reminder to listeners, my interviews are not exactly what I do in a coaching situation. In coaching, I tend to ask more "What" and "How" questions and allow the client to come to conclusions. As an internet radio host, I conduct interviews, insert opinions and comments and use the show as a forum to educate and share information as opposed to conducting a public one-on-one coaching session. For a detailed explanation of what coaching is and how it might help you, visit my website: www.marriagecoachlynn.com00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnoromance and engagement,premarital preparation,living together as poor prep for marriage,knowing yourself and your partner,readiness for marriageCongratulations. You’re absolutely sure you want to marry your beloved. Now what? What do I do to prepare for a lifelong marriage? Many Americans will spenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/01/04/how-do-i-know-shes-or-hes-the-one-for-meRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/01/04/how-do-i-know-shes-or-hes-the-one-for-me/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2011/01/04/how-do-i-know-shes-or-hes-the-one-for-meTue, 04 Jan 2011 23:30:00 GMTHow Do I KNOW she’s (or he’s) the one for me? Something’s going on. This relationship is completely different from others you've had. Confusion, excitement, obsession. Things seem to be moving fast. How do I know if he or she is “the one” for me? We will talk with Faizan Ahmed, who has a lot of these thoughts and concerns. Everyone has wondered this same question at one time or another and it’s time to bring it out in the open and discuss how we come to such an important decision. How can I sort out and trust these feelings? What is the purpose of this relationship and where are you headed? We will talk about some techniques you can use to determine whether this is the one for you. We’ll talk about the importance of trusting the head, heart and gut in decision-making. If you’ve been married for many years and have young adult children, this show can be helpful for teens and young adults at this stage in life. 00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnofalling in love,romance and engagement,is this the one for me,how to decide about a potential marriage partner,considering marriageSomething’s going on. This relationship is completely different from others you've had. Confusion, excitement, obsession. Things seem to be moving fast. Hohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/12/28/forging-a-special-relationship-with-your-in-lawsFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/12/28/forging-a-special-relationship-with-your-in-laws/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/12/28/forging-a-special-relationship-with-your-in-lawsTue, 28 Dec 2010 23:30:00 GMTForging a Special Relationship with Your In-laws In-laws. It's one of the 5 difficulties commonly reported in marriage, especially the relationship between the wife and mother-in-law. Today we will discuss why you should treasure your in-laws and how to get along with them. My guest is Kara Terragna, who is engaged to be married in 7 months. Kara grew up as an only child in a divorced household and has a very close relationship with her mother. Additionally, Kara is White / Caucasian and her fiancé, Will Colon is of Spanish ethnicity. Are there additional challenges with extended family relationships in interracial unions, cultures, religions? We will talk about this and more. Call in with your comments or experiences with your in-laws: 760-512-7243 or post your comments in the chat room. You are also invited to provide suggestions for topics for future shows. Facebook Page: Marriage Coach Lynn 00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnoin-laws,mother and father in-law,extended family relationships,interracial marriage,healthy extended family relationshipsIn-laws. It's one of the 5 difficulties commonly reported in marriage, especially the relationship between the wife and mother-in-law. Today we will discusshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/12/21/the-4-temperaments-knowing-yours-and-your-spouses-Psychologyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/12/21/the-4-temperaments-knowing-yours-and-your-spouses-/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/12/21/the-4-temperaments-knowing-yours-and-your-spouses-Tue, 21 Dec 2010 23:30:00 GMTThe 4 Temperaments – Knowing Yours and Your Spouse’s Can Help Love BlossomDo you often find yourself at an impasse during arguments or conflict? Do you sometimes get frustrated with how you and your spouse relate to each other? Is one partner more dominant than another? Marriage isn’t just about putting up with each other’s annoying habits, but is about the transforming power of love. Two become one and each partner helps the other grow closer to God and to each other. Listen to this show to discover how knowing your temperament can bring more peace and contentment to your marriage. Authors Art and Laraine Bennett will discuss the 4 Temperaments (choleric, sanguine, melancholic, phlegmatic), why they are important in marriage and how they can give couples greater advantage in communicating and relating to each other. Art and Laraine Bennett have been married for 34 years and have four grown children. Art spent over 25 years as a Marriage and Family Therapist, is the founder of Alpha Omega Institute (www.aoccs.org) in Bathesda, Maryland and currently the President and CEO of Catholic Charities for the Arlington Diocese in Virginia. Laraine is a freelance writer, with Master’s Degrees in Philosophy and Theology. They are the authors of The Temperament God Gave You (2005), The Temperament God Gave Your Spouse (2008), and The Emotions God Gave You (May 2011). www.temperaments.sophiainstitute.com. For more information about the host and to receive a free monthly newsletter, visit www.marriagecoachlynn.com. Click on Products / Resources for a description of the 4 Temperaments. Facebook: Marriage Coach Lynn. Twitter: MarriageCoachLn. You Tube: MarriageCoachLynn00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnno4 temperaments,compatibility between spouses,choleric sanguine melancholic phlegmatic,how to get along with your spouse,secrets for lasting loveDo you often find yourself at an impasse during arguments or conflict? Do you sometimes get frustrated with how you and your spouse relate to each other? Is ohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/12/14/the-state-of-marriage-in-the-black-communityCulturehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/12/14/the-state-of-marriage-in-the-black-community/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/12/14/the-state-of-marriage-in-the-black-communityTue, 14 Dec 2010 23:30:00 GMTThe State of Marriage in the Black CommunityStrong societies depend on strong marriages and families. What is happening in America? Is the decline of marriage and family causing us to expend so much energy to pick up the pieces? How about the Black Community? African American nuclear families are becoming rare. What’s going on? Should we do something about it? If so, what? Join Lynn and guest Skip Flanagan as we talk about the state of marriage in the black community. Skip is an author, athlete, clothing designer, entertainer, CEO of Grass Roots Empire and Grass Roots Records and one of Houston’s most popular talk show personalities. You can find him on blogtalkradio “in da mix wit skip.” 00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnoBlack Community,African American marriage,single mothers and absent fathers,breakdown of the family,Skip FlanaganStrong societies depend on strong marriages and families. What is happening in America? Is the decline of marriage and family causing us to expend so much enehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/12/07/how-changing-myself-saved-my-marriageLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/12/07/how-changing-myself-saved-my-marriage/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/12/07/how-changing-myself-saved-my-marriageTue, 07 Dec 2010 23:30:00 GMTHow Changing Myself SAVED My MarriageWhen things falter in marriage, it’s easy to blame our partner for the problems and for not doing his or her part. Sometimes it is too painful to admit and examine our shortcomings. It can be difficult to make the necessary changes and our pride can get in the way. But in order to make progress from a low point or the point where we feel “stuck,” something must budge; someone must take action. Lynn’s guest this week is Doug Young, who says, “I’ve been married 34 years and have never been happier.” But, in 2003 Doug and his wife Diane were on the verge of divorce. Diane moved out for 6 months and their marriage was hanging by threads. Listen to Doug tell his story about how he and Diane resurrected their marriage. We will also discuss the issue of separation: does it help or is it a formality when divorce has been decided? You won’t want to miss Doug’s story of hope and inspiration. 00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnoseparation and divorce,blaming our partner,admitting mistakes and making changes,reconciliation,reviving marriageWhen things falter in marriage, it’s easy to blame our partner for the problems and for not doing his or her part. Sometimes it is too painful to admit and exahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/11/30/beyond-chaos-one-mans-journey-alongside-his-chroniHealthhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/11/30/beyond-chaos-one-mans-journey-alongside-his-chroni/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/11/30/beyond-chaos-one-mans-journey-alongside-his-chroniTue, 30 Nov 2010 23:30:00 GMTBeyond Chaos: One Man’s Journey Alongside His Chronically Ill WifeIt’s estimated that 50% of Americans live with a chronic condition. We often focus on the person with the illness, but what about the burden and hardship the spouse faces? What happens when your world is forever changed? Gregg and Sherrie Piburn will share their moving story, the challenges they faced and offer hope to those who struggle. Gregg and Sherrie Piburn are real people who have struggled against the real turmoil of chronic illness since 1985. Sherrie has suffered a variety of physical maladies, including fibromyalgia and several major surgeries over the years while also helping raise the couple's three children, now grown. Sherrie's health has improved in recent years and she is currently a part-time educator in the field of English as a Second Language and owns an estate gardening business in the Colorado Rockies during the summer. With her improved health, Sherrie now joins Gregg in providing nationwide workshops to help attendees effectively address the emotional and relational impact of chronic illness on couples and families. Gregg is a management consultant, author and national speaker. He is the author of "Beyond Chaos: One Man's Journey Alongside His Chronically Ill Wife" (published by the Arthritis Foundation in 1999). He has reached thousands of people directly and indirectly impacted by chronic illness through his book and keynote presentations. Before 1991, he was an award-winning communications manager for Hewlett-Packard Company and an award-winning newspaper journalist. He is also a former wide receiver for the Denver Broncos, country-western singer and actor. Gregg is working on a follow-up to Beyond Chaos - a workbook to help guide couples to a stronger relationship in the midst of chronic illness. Gregg and Sherrie plan to co-author a book that explores different aspects of chronic illness from their unique perspectives (husband/wife, caregiver/patient). Contact Gregg: gp@leadersedgeconsulting.com00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnoarthitis and fibromyalgia,chronic illness effect on relationships,Denver Broncos,commitment and hardhsip in marriage,Beyond ChaosIt’s estimated that 50% of Americans live with a chronic condition. We often focus on the person with the illness, but what about the burden and hardship the sphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/11/23/surviving-marriage-after-a-childs-serious-medical-Healthhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/11/23/surviving-marriage-after-a-childs-serious-medical-/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/11/23/surviving-marriage-after-a-childs-serious-medical-Tue, 23 Nov 2010 23:30:00 GMTSurviving Marriage After a Child’s Serious Medical DiagnosisDoes marriage change when a child is diagnosed with a chronic condition? How does a marriage survive? Is there a new normal? Join Lynn and guest Cindy Walsh as we talk about the hardships parents face when a child is diagnosed and the potential difficulties in the marriage. Cindy Walsh’s twin boys were diagnosed with autism at a young age. With diligence, research, diet change, and trial and error, Cindy has helped her sons, who are now 8 recover from most of their symptoms. Her doctor sometimes refers patients to her for advice. She now helps others find hope with this difficult condition. Cindy is the coordinator of a local support group called "Kitchen Sink Autism" and a rescue angel of Generation Rescue. She is host of the weekly radio program “Kitchen Sink Autism” on Friday, 10:00-10:30am EST. (www.blogtalkradio.com/kitchensinkautism) 00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnomarriage and childhood illness,autism and recovery and cures,Kitchen Sink Autism,autism,family relationshipsDoes marriage change when a child is diagnosed with a chronic condition? How does a marriage survive? Is there a new normal? Join Lynn and guest Cindy Walshhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/11/16/feminine-and-masculine-gifts-in-marriage-and-familWomenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/11/16/feminine-and-masculine-gifts-in-marriage-and-famil/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/11/16/feminine-and-masculine-gifts-in-marriage-and-familTue, 16 Nov 2010 23:30:00 GMTFeminine and Masculine Gifts in Marriage and Family Life Masculinity and Femininity are not only important in marriage, but CRUCIAL to the success of a loving partnership. Join Lynn and guest Cathy Tulloch as we talk about how femininity complements masculinity. This show is especially recommended for women, with emphasis on the following: What is femininity? Do men desire feminine women? What can you do to become more feminine? Is femininity at odds with feminist society? Cathy Tulloch has been happily married to Lyle for 22 years. Cathy gives presentations and leads discussion groups on femininity, courtship, dating, homemaking, and marriage and family issues. She has one son and three teenage daughters and leads by example.00:31:00MarriageCoachLynnnomasculinity and femininity,importance of femininity,feminism,nurture and gentle qualities,womanhoodMasculinity and Femininity are not only important in marriage, but CRUCIAL to the success of a loving partnership. Join Lynn and guest Cathy Tulloch as wehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/11/09/great-marriages-must-be-createdRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/11/09/great-marriages-must-be-created/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/11/09/great-marriages-must-be-createdTue, 09 Nov 2010 23:30:00 GMTGreat Marriages Must Be Created How do we create a great marriage? This show is the first part in a series as we explore what makes for a happy, satisfying, long-term marriage. People want to marry the right partner, but it is important to BE the right partner. Join Lynn and guest Kristine James as we talk about the importance of knowing your partner, in particular how your partner perceives and responds to the environment. We will discuss the delicate rhythm of the husband and wife relationship and the importance of commitment in light of hardship and difficulties. Kristine James has been married to Henry for a long duration. Kristine received her MA in Psychology and has been researching and studying relationships, human behavior and happiness, among other topics for most of her adult life. www.marriagecoachlynn.com Sign up for free monthly e-Newsletter Facebook: Marriage Coach Lynn Twitter: MarriageCoachLn 00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnobeing the right partner,commitment and intentions,visual auditory kinesthetic,happy satisfying relationships,Lynn Griesemer and Kristine JamesHow do we create a great marriage? This show is the first part in a series as we explore what makes for a happy, satisfying, long-term marriage. People wanthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/11/02/callers-select-the-topicsRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/11/02/callers-select-the-topics/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/11/02/callers-select-the-topicsTue, 02 Nov 2010 22:30:00 GMTCallers Select the Topics / What is Marriage Coaching?On this election day, I'm giving you the right to exercise your choice and call in with any topic related to marriage that you would like to discuss. 760-512-7243. If you can't get through, write your questions or comments in the chat room. Turn your telephone into a microphone and let's talk about what matters to you. Visit my website: www.marriagecoachlynn.com and Facebook Page: Marriage Coach Lynn.00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnocallers call the shots,marriage,relationships,romance,loveOn this election day, I'm giving you the right to exercise your choice and call in with any topic related to marriage that you would like to discuss. 760-512-72http://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/10/26/friendship--the-key-to-marital-happinessRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/10/26/friendship--the-key-to-marital-happiness/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/10/26/friendship--the-key-to-marital-happinessTue, 26 Oct 2010 22:30:00 GMTFriendship - the Key to Marital HappinessAre you best friends with your spouse? Do you enjoy spending time with your spouse? Today we will talk about why friendship between husband and wife is vital to your marriage. We'll talk about ways you can deepen your friendship. Your calls are welcome!00:30:00MarriageCoachLynnnomarriage,friendship,companionship,relationships,marital closeness and harmonyAre you best friends with your spouse? Do you enjoy spending time with your spouse? Today we will talk about why friendship between husband and wife is vital tohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/10/19/debut-of-your-marriage-mattersRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/10/19/debut-of-your-marriage-matters/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriagecoachlynn/2010/10/19/debut-of-your-marriage-mattersTue, 19 Oct 2010 22:30:00 GMTDebut of "Your Marriage Matters" Welcome to Your Marriage Matters! We will be here every Tuesday, 6:30-7:00pm EST. The purpose is to bring you information, encouragement and inspiration so that you can make your marriage great. In this interactive talk radio show, Marriage Coach Lynn will discuss the topics that matter most to you. As host, she will discuss everything pertaining to marriage, have guest speakers and employ the talk radio format. We will take your calls and have "open mike" days - days in which you decide the topic. In this introductory program, Lynn will introduce herself and talk about the topics that will be covered on this program. You are invited to call during the last 15 minutes of tonight's show: 1-760-512-7243. www.marriagecoachlynn.com Facebook: Marriage Coach Lynn Twitter: MarriageCoachLn You Tube Segments: "Marriage Minute"00:27:00MarriageCoachLynnnomarriage,life,romance and relationships,sexuality,Marriage Coach LynnWelcome to Your Marriage Matters! We will be here every Tuesday, 6:30-7:00pm EST. The purpose is to bring you information, encouragement and inspiration s