It is our denial and resistance that causes us pain, not events themselves. When we accept the facts in front of us, we can see with clarity if we are contributing to the problem. Then we are free to discover new ways to master the situation at hand. The way we conduct ourselves shows us who is in control: fear or freedom. And the choice is alwlays up to us. Awareness brings acceptance and that brings a new ability to see beyond the present circustances with a positive attitude. When we put action behind our postive thinking, it will spur change in our life that seems like magic.