Does Love Have Motives In Relationships?

I wrote a quote on FB that says: Love in relationships is strongest when the love you feel for others you feel for yourself too. A question was from Christoper Cedre: What is love in relationship without motive? Can there be love in relationship without any incentive, without wanting something for oneself out of love? Can there be in relationship love in which there is no sense of getting hurt when love is not returned? If you understand this the answer is there. Let talk about it. Tune in and join in on the conversation this morning at 5:30 AM PST, 8:30 AM Eastern Standard time!