8 Real Reasons Why People Put You Down & 7 Solid Ways to Cope With Them By Reni

We know life is not always rainbows and butterflies.

We will encounter people who try to put us down with:

derogatory gestures

ironic comments

constant criticism

name-calling

disapproval

several other microaggressions aimed at belittling, discouraging, and disempowering us

Sometimes it is subtle, other times it is overt. In both cases it can be frustrating.

We'll explore these reasons starting from the conscious to the unconscious.

1. They are jealous.

A flower never thinks of competing with the flower next to it. It just blooms – Unknown

Jealous people do petty things.

2. They are narcissistic.

Some folks just want all the attention in the room, and in the world at large.

3. They are egocentric.

These sorts of people can’t stand being under anyone.

They may not be able to always be at the top and keep trying to make it seem as though they are.

4. They're bitter.

Some people have a tough life and have grown resentful over the years, just lash out at whoever is unlucky to be around them during their periodic bouts of unwanted behavior. These are the types that may later apologize, but you don’t have to take their negativity. You are not a punching bag.

5. They're toxic.

After years of practice, it has become second nature to this type. Putting people down is their way of life. These people have a lot of work to do to change their mindset.

People who should listen to this show are psychotherapists