Throughout the black community one will find "the good black woman" who feels the need to give her all and be an all-around giver and supporter of the black men she dates or wants to date. She believes that by proving herself to be "a good black woman" she will get treated better, not cheated on during the dating phase, loved unconditionally, wifed up, and adored forever by these men.
You'll find them by the hundreds on internet forums and social media sites, responding with pride to memes created opportunistic manipulative guys that attempt to brainwash women into serving and doing for them. She is the type that will comment that she "would spoil my king" and "prove I'm wife material" and "give him sex to keep him at home" and things of that nature.
By the time she wakes up from that delusional stupidity and reflects on how many times she's been sidelined for women who are lower in stature and accomplishment with a much poorer attitude, she's likely to be in her 40s angrily wondering why she is without the family and husband she craved when she "did everything right." "These men don't want a GOOD BLACK WOMAN" they exclaim in dismay.
I'll tell you the reasons you need to stop being black men's Mammy and Mule or striving to be perceived as "a good black woman" on Monday, July 18, 2016 startiing at 6:30 pm PST/9:30 pm EST.