As we reflect on what appears to be a recording breaking number of deaths and travesties in 2016 we must still forge ahead. It was a year fill with trials tribulations and revelations. I can not think of 1 person in my immediate circle that was not affected by a lost or death if not multiplies within months but yet it is those of us who are left behind to endure what is yet to come. Now here is the question? How can we handle and process the things beyond our control.