"A mind focused on the flesh is doomed to death, but a mind focused on the Spirit will find full like and complete peace." Romans 8:6.
Obedience, self control, peace, good intent, confidence, discernment, fear, depression, temptation...are these just SOME of the things YOU want your husband to have or get rid of?
Is he of SOUND MIND or is his mind running around untamed and wild???