http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresentsUlysses Butch Slaughter Presents is a selection of powerful, provocative podcast designed for a diverse listening audience committed to multi-faceted personal power. Ulysses Butch Slaughter Presents Alpha Black for driven Black Men, Sex In The Struggle for sensuous beings and The Odyssey Project for cosmic travelers. Forgive The Ultimate Practice holds the four pillar process (Desire, Direction, Discipline and Destiny) that infuses all podcast offerings.enCopyright Ulysses Slaughter (C/O Blogtalkradio)Sat, 15 Jun 2019 05:00:00 GMTWed, 15 Nov 2017 02:00:00 GMTSelf HelpBlogTalkRadio Feed v2.0https://dasg7xwmldix6.cloudfront.net/hostpics/816d9b2f-7790-4a07-b2bb-550598cceb28_bsgazeleft2.jpghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresentsUlysses Butch Slaughter Presents is a selection of powerful, provocative podcast designed for a diverse listening audience committed to multi-faceted personal power. Ulysses Butch Slaughter Presents Alpha Black for driven Black Men, Sex In The Struggle for sensuous beings and The Odyssey Project for cosmic travelers. Forgive The Ultimate Practice holds the four pillar process (Desire, Direction, Discipline and Destiny) that infuses all podcast offerings.feeds@blogtalkradio.comBlogTalkRadio.comForgiving,Reconciliation,Relationshipsulysses presentsyesUlysses Butch Slaughter presents powerful, provocative podcasts for personal powerepisodichttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/11/15/sex-in-the-struggle-god-is-sexSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/11/15/sex-in-the-struggle-god-is-sex/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/11/15/sex-in-the-struggle-god-is-sexWed, 15 Nov 2017 02:00:00 GMTSex In The Struggle: God IS Sex For some people, the topics of God and Sex are inseparable. You can't talk about one without talking about the other. For other people, God and Sex are two entirely different subjects. God is good. Sex is evil. Where do we get our ideas about God and Sex? How have religious and spiritual teachings impacted our ideas about  sex, intimacy and pleasure? Can faith communities positively influence the world by positively talking about sex, intimacy and pleasure? Do faith communities create further alienation in the world by avoiding the conversations related to sex, intimacy and pleasure. Come explore infinite intimacy possibilities with Sex In The Struggle "God IS Sex" as we re-imagine taboo topics such as masturbation, fornication, open marriages, same sex relationships and sodomy. Treat yourself to new truth Join Sex In The Struggle Creator, Ulysses "Butch" Slaughter,  special guests, Orgasmic Meditation Practitioner Tony Rullo, Intimacy Coach Tazima Davis and many others as they bring deep discussion and delectable displays to the MJ Freed Theater in Chester, PA. It happens Sunday November 19, 2017 at 2PM in MJ Freed Theater - "The Jewel of The Chester Arts District." If you missed Sex In The Struggle: Let's Get It On, trust me - you don't want to hear about this one from friends! Philadelphia activist Tyrone Smith, a champion of Black Gay Men and the LGBT community will receive the first "Sex In The Struggle Social Impact Award from Ulysses "Butch" Slaughter at the close of the main event. Go to https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sex-in-the-struggle-god-is-sex-tickets-38497786917 For more information, contact Ulysses "Butch" Slaughter at 267.318.0117. 00:59:00ulysses presentsyesSex,relationships,intimacyFor some people, the topics of God and Sex are inseparable. You can't talk about one without talking about the other. For other people, God and Sex are twod659efc2-5d1e-47ef-aaae-2dfe8d0c47d3115fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/11/10/exploring-intimacy-with-tazima-and-ulysses--make-arguments-sexySelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/11/10/exploring-intimacy-with-tazima-and-ulysses--make-arguments-sexy/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/11/10/exploring-intimacy-with-tazima-and-ulysses--make-arguments-sexyFri, 10 Nov 2017 16:30:00 GMTExploring Intimacy with Tazima and Ulysses - Make Arguments SexyUlysses and Tazima discuss how to Make Arguments Sexy on Sex In The Struggle: Exploring Intimacy. Relationship and Intimacy expert Tazima Davis returns to Sex In The Struggle with her second installment Exploring Intimacy. Tazima Davis is a sex nerd. She is also a national speaker, facilitator, and coach specializing in helping couples who are struggling with sex and intimacy in their committed relationships. Tazima has studied everything she could get her hands on regarding sex, relationships, feminine-masculine dynamics, and effective communication for her own benefit and to support her clients. Her current work is, at least in part, a response to an increasing demand for more information and guidance with the challenges her clients, colleagues, and friends face in their modern committed relationships. Tazima consistently creates safe spaces for sensitive and transformative conversations wherever she goes whether one-on-one, on stage, or intimate private gatherings. Sex in The Struggle is provocative and progressive exploration into social healing through sexual healing. an exciting multi-faceted intimacy experience advocating social healing through sexual healing. Sex in The Struggle conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.   "Sex in The Struggle: God IS Sex!" is coming to The MJ Freed Theater in Chester, Pennsylvania, Sunday, November 19, 2017 at 2PM. Spread the word! Get your tickets and mark your calendar now! 00:32:00ulysses presentsyessex,intimacy,relationshipsUlysses and Tazima discuss how to Make Arguments Sexy on Sex In The Struggle: Exploring Intimacy.e8bc4555-3e5d-4633-beab-288f7f208776114fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/11/03/sex-in-the-struggle-exploring-intimacy-sexpectations-with-tazima-and-ulyssesSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/11/03/sex-in-the-struggle-exploring-intimacy-sexpectations-with-tazima-and-ulysses/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/11/03/sex-in-the-struggle-exploring-intimacy-sexpectations-with-tazima-and-ulyssesFri, 03 Nov 2017 15:30:00 GMTSex In The Struggle: Exploring Intimacy Sexpectations with Tazima and UlyssesTazima Davis and Ulysses discucss the expectations in Sex from a male perspective. Tazima Davis is a sex nerd. She is also a national speaker, facilitator, and coach specializing in helping couples who are struggling with sex and intimacy in their committed relationships. Tazima has studied everything she could get her hands on regarding sex, relationships, feminine-masculine dynamics, and effective communication for her own benefit and to support her clients. Her current work is, at least in part, a response to an increasing demand for more information and guidance with the challenges her clients, colleagues, and friends face in their modern committed relationships. Tazima consistently creates safe spaces for sensitive and transformative conversations wherever she goes whether one-on-one, on stage, or intimate private gatherings. Sex in The Struggle is provocative and progressive exploration into social healing through sexual healing. an exciting multi-faceted intimacy experience advocating social healing through sexual healing. Sex in The Struggle conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.   Contribute to the conversation by calling (657) 383-0185. Listen to us live online at blogtalkradio.com/.   Tickets for Sex In The Struggle: God IS Sex! are available now at Eventbrite. Go to https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sex-in-the-struggle-god-is-sex-tickets-38497786917 For more information, contact Ulysses "Butch" Slaughter at 267.318.0117. 00:31:00ulysses presentsyessex,relationships,reconciliationTazima Davis and Ulysses discucss the expectations in Sex from a male perspective.6c9f33c2-448b-4271-8d62-47f34e5ddcc3113fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/11/01/sex-in-the-struggle-facing-fears-and-increasing-intimacySelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/11/01/sex-in-the-struggle-facing-fears-and-increasing-intimacy/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/11/01/sex-in-the-struggle-facing-fears-and-increasing-intimacyWed, 01 Nov 2017 01:00:00 GMTSex In The Struggle: Facing Fears and Increasing IntimacySex In The Struggle: Facing Fears and Increasing Intimacy. Terror attacks, politics, the economy and alienation. How do you respond with heat when the world seems so cold? The Sex In The Struggle Team talks about how Increaisng Intimacy reducing fear. Join us tonight! Sex in The Struggle conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.  "Sex in The Struggle: God IS Sex!" is coming to The MJ Freed Theater in Chester, Pennsylvania, Sunday, November 19, 2017 at 2PM. Spread the word! Get your tickets and mark your calendar now! Sex in The Struggle is provocative and progressive exploration into social healing through sexual healing. an exciting multi-faceted intimacy experience advocating social healing through sexual healing.  Contribute to the conversation by calling (657) 383-0185. Listen to us live online at blogtalkradio.com/.  These conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.    01:00:00ulysses presentsyessex,politics,fear,intimacyHow do you respond with heat when the world seems so cold?18be0987-885a-48e0-8668-730a54c591af112fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/25/sex-in-the-struggle-claiming-your-sex-lifeSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/25/sex-in-the-struggle-claiming-your-sex-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/25/sex-in-the-struggle-claiming-your-sex-lifeWed, 25 Oct 2017 01:00:00 GMTSex In The Struggle: Claiming your Sex LifeSex in The Struggle conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.     "Sex in The Struggle: God IS Sex!" is coming to The MJ Freed Theater in Chester, Pennsylvania, Sunday, November 19, 2017 at 2PM. Claim your sex! Get Intimate and Get some sex in your life! What the fuck are you waiting for? Love now and love good! Join the Sex In The Struggle Crew as we discuss how we claim our sex space. Spread the word! Get your tickets and mark your calendar now! Sex in The Struggle is provocative and progressive exploration into social healing through sexual healing. an exciting multi-faceted intimacy experience advocating social healing through sexual healing. Sex in The Struggle:  Let's Get It On is an exciting multi-faceted intimacy experience advocating social healing through sexual healing.  Our event promotes a policy of intimacy where everyone can choose deeper human connections through direct physical contact and sensuous surrender.  Our exciting event will feature entertaining and informative segments focused on health, casual sex, religion, kink sex and much more. 00:59:00ulysses presentsyessex,relationships,forgivenessSex In The Struggle: Claiming your Sex64b214de-1b24-4937-8ffd-44bb54639e31110fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/23/get-some-yummy-liberation-with-kelly-v-and-ulyssesSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/23/get-some-yummy-liberation-with-kelly-v-and-ulysses/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/23/get-some-yummy-liberation-with-kelly-v-and-ulyssesMon, 23 Oct 2017 17:00:00 GMTGet Some Yummy Liberation with Kelly V and UlyssesI'm very hopeful that we will soon be able to openly speak about our sexual pleasure and what role it plays in changing the world, as we are learning to openly talk about our traumas, and choose to release the stronghold of the stories of our past, and become the observers and masters of our own minds, bodies, and voices - without guilt or shame. Join Kelly Vandiver and co-host Ulysses "Butch" Slaughter Sex In The Struggle "Yummy Liberation with Kelly V." If you've ever found yourself avoiding the truth, searching for the truth or trying to define the truth of your sexual desire, you want to tune in to Kelly V. today at 1PM ET. 00:59:00ulysses presentsyessex,relationships,womenSex In The Struggle: Yummy Liberation presents More Sex, Less Stories4529b3a3-c3ce-4fee-8d70-08b0bd479bcb19fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/20/sex-in-the-struggle-exploring-intimacy-sexpectations-with-tazima-davisSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/20/sex-in-the-struggle-exploring-intimacy-sexpectations-with-tazima-davis/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/20/sex-in-the-struggle-exploring-intimacy-sexpectations-with-tazima-davisFri, 20 Oct 2017 15:30:00 GMTSex In The Struggle: Exploring Intimacy "Sexpectations" with Tazima DavisIntimacy Coach Tazima Davis joins Sex In The Struggle Creator Ulysses "Butch" Slaughter to discuss "Sexpectations" in relationships. Tazima Davis is a sex nerd. She is also a national speaker, facilitator, and coach specializing in helping couples who are struggling with sex and intimacy in their committed relationships. Tazima has studied everything she could get her hands on regarding sex, relationships, feminine-masculine dynamics, and effective communication for her own benefit and to support her clients. Her current work is, at least in part, a response to an increasing demand for more information and guidance with the challenges her clients, colleagues, and friends face in their modern committed relationships. Tazima consistently creates safe spaces for sensitive and transformative conversations wherever she goes whether one-on-one, on stage, or intimate private gatherings. "Sex in The Struggle: God IS Sex!" is coming to The MJ Freed Theater in Chester, Pennsylvania, Sunday, November 19, 2017 at 2PM. Spread the word! Get your tickets and mark your calendar now! Sex in The Struggle is provocative and progressive exploration into social healing through sexual healing. an exciting multi-faceted intimacy experience advocating social healing through sexual healing.    00:31:00ulysses presentsyessex,relationships,intimacyIntimacy Coach Tazima Davis joins Sex In The Struggle Creator Ulysses "Butch" Slaughter to discuss "Sexpectations" in relationships.3af46fc2-a7fa-4234-98d4-bf17bc83861518fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/18/how-your-sex-life-impacts-othersSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/18/how-your-sex-life-impacts-others/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/18/how-your-sex-life-impacts-othersWed, 18 Oct 2017 01:00:00 GMTHow your sex life impacts othersDoes your individual sex life impact how you relate to others? Absolutely! Tonight on Sex In The Struggle, Ulysses and his co-hosts discuss how your sex life is likely to impact all of your other relationships. Sex in The Struggle conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com. "Sex in The Struggle: God IS Sex!" is coming to The MJ Freed Theater in Chester, Pennsylvania, Sunday, November 19, 2017 at 2PM. Spread the word! Get your tickets and mark your calendar now! Sex in The Struggle is provocative and progressive exploration into social healing through sexual healing. an exciting multi-faceted intimacy experience advocating social healing through sexual healing. Sex in The Struggle:  Let's Get It On is an exciting multi-faceted intimacy experience advocating social healing through sexual healing.  Our event promotes a policy of intimacy where everyone can choose deeper human connections through direct physical contact and sensuous surrender.  Our exciting event will feature entertaining and informative segments focused on health, casual sex, religion, kink sex and much more. 01:02:00ulysses presentsyesSex,Relationships,Reconciliation,IntimacyUlysses and his guests discuss how an individual's sex life impacts those around them73ab5307-2e8d-466a-b09b-a863f4949f5c17fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/16/yummy-liberation-episode-3-with-kelly-v-and-ulyssesSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/16/yummy-liberation-episode-3-with-kelly-v-and-ulysses/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/16/yummy-liberation-episode-3-with-kelly-v-and-ulyssesMon, 16 Oct 2017 17:00:00 GMTYummy Liberation Episode 3 with Kelly V and Ulysses Mama, Maven, Wife, Woman, Kelly Vandiver returns to Sex In The Struggle with more Yummy Liberation. Raunchy, Righteous and Riotous, Kelly Vandiver is a spa owner turned life coach and relationship expert. Ulysses "Butch" Slaughter is creator of the Sex In The Struggle and author of the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men. For more information, check out sexinthestruggle.com. These conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.    01:00:00ulysses presentsyessex,relationships,women,forgivenessMama, Maven, Wife, Woman, Kelly Vandiver returns to Sex In The Struggle with more Yummy Liberation.d37007cc-98dc-4d5f-b503-6f34a3d1a93116fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/13/sex-in-the-struggle-exploring-intimacy-part-iii-with-tazima-davisSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/13/sex-in-the-struggle-exploring-intimacy-part-iii-with-tazima-davis/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/13/sex-in-the-struggle-exploring-intimacy-part-iii-with-tazima-davisFri, 13 Oct 2017 15:30:00 GMTSex In The Struggle: Exploring Intimacy Part III with Tazima DavisRelationship and . Tazima Davis is a sex nerd. She is also a national speaker, facilitator, and coach specializing in helping couples who are struggling with sex and intimacy in their committed relationships. Tazima has studied everything she could get her hands on regarding sex, relationships, feminine-masculine dynamics, and effective communication for her own benefit and to support her clients. Her current work is, at least in part, a response to an increasing demand for more information and guidance with the challenges her clients, colleagues, and friends face in their modern committed relationships. Tazima consistently creates safe spaces for sensitive and transformative conversations wherever she goes whether one-on-one, on stage, or intimate private gatherings. Sex in The Struggle is provocative and progressive exploration into social healing through sexual healing. an exciting multi-faceted intimacy experience advocating social healing through sexual healing. Sex in The Struggle conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.   00:32:00ulysses presentsyessex,relationships,Reconciliation,intimacyIntimacy expert Tazima Davis returns to Sex In The Struggle with her third installment Exploring Intimacya8186c44-39d8-40e2-864e-454e3b2b239515fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/06/sex-in-the-struggle-exploring-intimacy-with-tazima-davis-and-ulyssesSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/06/sex-in-the-struggle-exploring-intimacy-with-tazima-davis-and-ulysses/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/06/sex-in-the-struggle-exploring-intimacy-with-tazima-davis-and-ulyssesFri, 06 Oct 2017 15:30:00 GMTSex In The Struggle: Exploring Intimacy with Tazima Davis and UlyssesRelationship and Intimacy expert Tazima Davis returns to Sex In The Struggle with her second installment Exploring Intimacy. Tazima Davis is a sex nerd. She is also a national speaker, facilitator, and coach specializing in helping couples who are struggling with sex and intimacy in their committed relationships. Tazima has studied everything she could get her hands on regarding sex, relationships, feminine-masculine dynamics, and effective communication for her own benefit and to support her clients. Her current work is, at least in part, a response to an increasing demand for more information and guidance with the challenges her clients, colleagues, and friends face in their modern committed relationships. Tazima consistently creates safe spaces for sensitive and transformative conversations wherever she goes whether one-on-one, on stage, or intimate private gatherings. Sex in The Struggle is provocative and progressive exploration into social healing through sexual healing. an exciting multi-faceted intimacy experience advocating social healing through sexual healing. Sex in The Struggle conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.   00:32:00ulysses presentsyesSex,Intimacy,Relationships,ForgivingRelationship and Intimacy expert Tazima Davis returns to Sex In The Struggle with her second installment Exploring Intimacy.f80fd0e0-f145-4d57-8567-5f5147a4646c14fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/03/yummy-liberation-with-kelly-v-and-ulyssesSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/03/yummy-liberation-with-kelly-v-and-ulysses/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/10/03/yummy-liberation-with-kelly-v-and-ulyssesTue, 03 Oct 2017 17:00:00 GMTYummy Liberation with Kelly V and UlyssesWhat does it mean to lock down the truth? Join Kelly Vandiver and co-host Ulysses "Butch" Slaughter Sex In The Struggle "Yummy Liberation with Kelly V." If you've ever found yourself avoiding the truth, searching for the truth or trying to define the truth of your sexual desire, you want to tune in to Kelly V. today at 1PM ET.  Mama, Maven, Wife, Woman. Not necessarily in that order. Kelly Vandiver is a spa owner turned life coach and relationship expert. Ulysses "Butch" Slaughter is creator of the Sex In The Struggle and author of the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men. 01:01:00ulysses presentsyessex,relationships,reconciliationKelly V is back with another installment of delicious advice for the hungry woman1609d40e-b15f-411f-8481-85cf7494125c13fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/09/30/the-alpha-black--living-4d-desire-direction-discipline-destinySelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/09/30/the-alpha-black--living-4d-desire-direction-discipline-destiny/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/09/30/the-alpha-black--living-4d-desire-direction-discipline-destinySat, 30 Sep 2017 13:30:00 GMTThe Alpha Black - Living 4D (Desire, Direction, Discipline, Destiny)Desire is a craving to eat. Direction is the path of desire. Discipline is sticking to the direction. Destiny is logical location born of desire, direction and discipline. Let's talk about 4D. Alpha Black. This is the term I use to describe those truly rare Black Men who radically and relentlessly pursue personal power for universal advancement and cosmic awakening.  These Black Men are beacons of light. These Black Men are not bound or bogged down by the common discussions of the day. These Black Men recognize the global deceptions at play and consistently seek connection to the higher powers and principles that are concealed behind human mediocrity and sheer laziness. Men I call Alpha Black embrace focused faith, fitness, forgiving and real food. Alpha Black are leaders who know their ancestors are alive and well and watching. Alpha Black are vigilant, passionate and humble. Alpha Black know there is a timeless and vast universe through which we will never cease to travel . Alpha Black knows they are part of an unlimited power source. Alpha Black knows and behaves accordingly. Alpha Black is not some secret group. It is not a closed membership or a fleeting fad for a day. The Alpha Black have always been among us. The Alpha Black lives inside each one of us. Alpha Black is our legacy. Alpha Black is a way of life. Embrace Alpha Black. Now and Forever. 00:30:00ulysses presentsyesDesire,Discipline,Destiny,DirectionUlysses talks about how Alpha Black grow through Desire, Direction, Discipline and Destinya645abb0-fa84-4a05-a0a2-1e69774d8dcb12fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/09/29/sex-in-the-struggle-exploring-intimacy-with-tazima-davisSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/09/29/sex-in-the-struggle-exploring-intimacy-with-tazima-davis/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/09/29/sex-in-the-struggle-exploring-intimacy-with-tazima-davisFri, 29 Sep 2017 15:30:00 GMTSex In The Struggle: Exploring Intimacy with Tazima DavisSex In The Struggle powerhouse contibutor Tazima Davis takes us into the vast and rich space of intimacy with the first installment of Exploring Intimacy. Sex in The Struggle is provocative and progressive exploration into social healing through sexual healing. an exciting multi-faceted intimacy experience advocating social healing through sexual healing. Sex in The Struggle:  Let's Get It On is an exciting multi-faceted intimacy experience advocating social healing through sexual healing.  Our event promotes a policy of intimacy where everyone can choose deeper human connections through direct physical contact and sensuous surrender.  Our exciting event will feature entertaining and informative segments focused on health, casual sex, religion, kink sex and much more. 00:31:00ulysses presentsyessex,forgiveness,relationshipsSex In The Struggle powerhouse contibutor Tazima Davis takes us into the vast and rich space of intimacy with the first installment of Exploring Intimacy2ff23ecc-ae51-4f71-8ade-5d4a45606ae611fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/09/19/yummy-liberation-with-kelly-v-lockin-down-the-truthSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/09/19/yummy-liberation-with-kelly-v-lockin-down-the-truth/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/09/19/yummy-liberation-with-kelly-v-lockin-down-the-truthTue, 19 Sep 2017 17:00:00 GMTYummy Liberation with Kelly V: Lockin' Down The Truth!. What does it mean to lock down the truth? Join Kelly Vandiver and co-host Ulysses "Butch" Slaughter Sex In The Struggle "Yummy Liberation with Kelly V." If you've ever found yourself avoiding the truth, searching for the truth or trying to define the truth of your sexual desire, you want to tune in to Kelly V. today at 1PM ET. 01:01:00ulysses presentsyessex,motherhood,relationships,WomenKelly Vandiver locks down the truth with Yummy Liberation on Sex In The Struggle.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/09/12/yummy-liberation-with-kelly-v-setting-the-stageSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/09/12/yummy-liberation-with-kelly-v-setting-the-stage/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/09/12/yummy-liberation-with-kelly-v-setting-the-stageTue, 12 Sep 2017 17:00:00 GMTYummy Liberation with Kelly V: Setting the stageIt's the beginning of something new! Sex In The Struggle presents Yummy Liberation with Kelly V beginning September 12, 2017 at 1PM ET. Along with co-host, Ulysses "Butch" Slaughter, Kelly will talk about how  women from all walks of life can create the unbreakable, passion-filled, juicy relationships Mama, Maven, Wife, Woman. Not necessarily in that order. Kelly Vandiver is a spa owner turned life coach and relationship expert. Ulysses "Butch" Slaughter is creator of the Sex In The Struggle and author of the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men. 01:01:00ulysses presentsyesSex,Motherhood,RelationshipsIt's the beginning of something new! Sex In The Struggle presents Yummy Liberation with Kelly V beginning September 12, 2017 at 1PM ET.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/09/06/meet-kelly-vandiver-mama-maven-wife-womanSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/09/06/meet-kelly-vandiver-mama-maven-wife-woman/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/09/06/meet-kelly-vandiver-mama-maven-wife-womanWed, 06 Sep 2017 01:00:00 GMTMeet Kelly Vandiver: Mama, Maven, Wife, WomanSex In The Struggle welcomes Kelly Vandiver: Mama, Maven, Wife, Woman. (Not necessarily in that order!) Kelly Vandiver is a spa owner turned life coach and relationship expert who helps women from all walks of life create the unbreakable, passion-filled, juicy relationships. Sex in The Struggle conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.     "Sex in The Struggle: Let's Get It On!" is coming to The MJ Freed Theater in Chester, Pennsylvania, Saturday, September 16, 2017 at7PM.   Spread the word! Get your tickets and mark your calendar now!   Sex in The Struggle:  Let's Get It On is an exciting multi-faceted intimacy experience advocating social healing through sexual healing.  Our event promotes a policy of intimacy where everyone can choose deeper human connections through direct physical contact and sensuous surrender.  Our exciting event will feature entertaining and informative segments focused on health, casual sex, religion, kink sex and much more. Tickets on sale now at Eventbrite https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sex-in-the-struggle-lets-get-it-on-tickets-37259696756 01:03:00ulysses presentsyessex,forgiveness,raceKelly Vandiver is a spa owner turned life coach and relationship expert who helps women from all walks of life create unbreakable, passion-filled, juicy relatiohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/08/30/seems-like-youre-ready-sex-in-the-struggle-playlistSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/08/30/seems-like-youre-ready-sex-in-the-struggle-playlist/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/08/30/seems-like-youre-ready-sex-in-the-struggle-playlistWed, 30 Aug 2017 01:00:00 GMTSeems like you're ready: Sex In The Struggle PlaylistWhat's that song that makes you feel so sexy? Whisper. Or shout! What is it that turns you up? We're building The Sex In The Struggle: Let's Get It On Playlist. Come play with us tonight and be part of the excitement as we count down the final three weeks until we go live in front a studio audience!   Sex in The Struggle conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.     "Sex in The Struggle: Let's Get It On!" is coming to The MJ Freed Theater in Chester, Pennsylvania, Saturday, September 16, 2017 at7PM.   Spread the word! Get your tickets and mark your calendar now!   Sex in The Struggle:  Let's Get It On is an exciting multi-faceted intimacy experience advocating social healing through sexual healing.  Our event promotes a policy of intimacy where everyone can choose deeper human connections through direct physical contact and sensuous surrender.  Our exciting event will feature entertaining and informative segments focused on health, casual sex, religion, kink sex and much more.   Tickets on sale now at Eventbrite   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sex-in-the-struggle-lets-get-it-on-tickets-37259696756 01:01:00ulysses presentsyessex,relationships,forgivingWhat's that song that makes you feel so sexy? Whisper. Or shout! What is it that turns you up? We're building The Sex In The Struggle: Let's Get It On Playlist.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/08/25/get-more-pleazure-in-your-lifeSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/08/25/get-more-pleazure-in-your-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/08/25/get-more-pleazure-in-your-lifeFri, 25 Aug 2017 00:00:00 GMTGet more Pleazure in your lifeDo you need more pleasure in your life? Meet Patricia Pleazure Harris, a woman on a mission to bring pleasure to all who want to take the infinite journey. Sex in The Struggle conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.  "Sex in The Struggle: Let's Get It On!" is coming to The MJ Freed Theater in Chester, Pennsylvania, Saturday, September 16, 2017 at7PM. Spread the word! Get your tickets and mark your calendar now! Sex in The Struggle:  Let's Get It On is an exciting multi-faceted intimacy experience advocating social healing through sexual healing.  Our event promotes a policy of intimacy where everyone can choose deeper human connections through direct physical contact and sensuous surrender.  Our exciting event will feature entertaining and informative segments focused on health, casual sex, religion, kink sex and much more. Tickets are available now at Eventbrite. https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sex-in-the-struggle-lets-get-it-on-tickets-36174037520 00:30:00ulysses presentsyessex,forgiving,race,relationships? Meet Patricia Pleazure Harris, a woman on a mission to bring pleasure to all who want to take the infinite journey.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/08/23/meditating-on-orgasm-and-seeking-a-path-of-pleasureSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/08/23/meditating-on-orgasm-and-seeking-a-path-of-pleasure/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/08/23/meditating-on-orgasm-and-seeking-a-path-of-pleasureWed, 23 Aug 2017 01:00:00 GMTMeditating on Orgasm and seeking a path of pleasureHave you ever heard of Orgasmic Meditation? No? It's a 15 minute partnered practice where even strangers can find intimacy and deeper connection between a forefinger and a clitoris. Tune in to Sex In The Struggle tonight when we discuss orgasmic meditation and deeper connections to intimacy. Also, meet Patricia Pleazure Harris, a woman on a mission to bring pleasure to all who want to take the infinite journey.   Sex in The Struggle conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.     "Sex in The Struggle: Let's Get It On!" is coming to The MJ Freed Theater in Chester, Pennsylvania, Saturday, September 16, 2017 at7PM.   Spread the word! Get your tickets and mark your calendar now!   Sex in The Struggle:  Let's Get It On is an exciting multi-faceted intimacy experience advocating social healing through sexual healing.  Our event promotes a policy of intimacy where everyone can choose deeper human connections through direct physical contact and sensuous surrender.  Our exciting event will feature entertaining and informative segments focused on health, casual sex, religion, kink sex and much more.   Tickets are available now at Eventbrite.   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sex-in-the-struggle-lets-get-it-on-tickets-36174037520 01:00:00ulysses presentsyesforgiveness,sex,relationships,ReconciliationHave you ever heard of Orgasmic Meditation? No? Are you seeking to expand your pleasure? Tune in tonight!http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/08/16/the-sip-of-life-advocating-sex-intimacy-and-pleasureSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/08/16/the-sip-of-life-advocating-sex-intimacy-and-pleasure/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/08/16/the-sip-of-life-advocating-sex-intimacy-and-pleasureWed, 16 Aug 2017 01:00:00 GMTThe SIP of life. Advocating Sex, Intimacy and Pleasure Advocates of Sex, Intimacy and Pleasure are often ostracized for boldly sharing their perspectives and their lifestyles. How is it that most people can engage all kinds of social topics and struggle with conversations about Sex, Intimacy and Pleasure? Sex in The Struggle conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.  "Sex in The Struggle: Let's Get It On!" is coming to The MJ Freed Theater in Chester, Pennsylvania, Saturday, September 16, 2017 at7PM. Spread the word! Get your tickets and mark your calendar now! Sex in The Struggle:  Let's Get It On is an exciting multi-faceted intimacy experience advocating social healing through sexual healing.  Our event promotes a policy of intimacy where everyone can choose deeper human connections through direct physical contact and sensuous surrender.  Our exciting event will feature entertaining and informative segments focused on health, casual sex, religion, kink sex and much more. Tickets are available now at Eventbrite.   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sex-in-the-struggle-lets-get-it-on-tickets-36174037520 01:00:00ulysses presentsyessex,relationships,forgivenessAdvocates of Sex, Intimacy and Pleasure are often ostracized for boldly sharing their perspectives and their lifestyles. How is it that most people can engagehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/07/12/keeping-your-sex-super-hotSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/07/12/keeping-your-sex-super-hot/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/07/12/keeping-your-sex-super-hotWed, 12 Jul 2017 01:00:00 GMTKeeping Your Sex Super Hot Outside in the rain? Blindfolds? Whipped cream? Chocolate? Tongues only? There are so many, many ways and so many, many reasons to keep your sex hot. You should never be at a loss for who, what, why, when, where and how.  Tonight we discuss how to keep "that thing" super hot. Warning - this might get nasty!!! Sex in The Struggle conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.  From the essay "Something That's Good for Me" We shouldn’t need a special occasion to make love. We shouldn’t require perfect circumstances to submerge into pure and playful passion. This is sure to be one of the most difficult sections of this book for some Black Men to engage. It’s so simple to dismiss sexual healing as silly indulgence. It may be easier to puff out our chest than to open up our hearts. Marvin said love is life. Lovemaking is generative. Are you making love? And if you’re not making love, what are you fighting for? Contribute to the conversation by calling (657) 383-0185. Listen to us live online at blogtalkradio.com/iforgiveu.  These conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.    Join us for Sex in The Struggle tonight at 9PM 00:59:00ulysses presentsyessex,relationships,race,forgiveness,ReconciliationThere are so many, many ways and so many, many reasons to keep your sex hot. You should never be at a loss for who, what, why, when, where and how. Tonight wehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/06/07/sex-and-the-dating-gameSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/06/07/sex-and-the-dating-game/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/06/07/sex-and-the-dating-gameWed, 07 Jun 2017 01:00:00 GMTSex and The Dating Game Sex and the dating game Just three weeks away from the event Don't Wait. Fornicate. The Sex in the Struggle team discuss how to keep getting what you want when you are exploring a monogamous relationship.  How long do you wait before you have sex. Do you continue to have sex with others while you explore a long-term relationship? What are your rules? Sex in The Struggle conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.  From the essay "Something That's Good for Me" We shouldn’t need a special occasion to make love. We shouldn’t require perfect circumstances to submerge into pure and playful passion. This is sure to be one of the most difficult sections of this book for some Black Men to engage. It’s so simple to dismiss sexual healing as silly indulgence. It may be easier to puff out our chest than to open up our hearts. Marvin said love is life. Lovemaking is generative. Are you making love? And if you’re not making love, what are you fighting for? 01:01:00ulysses presentsyesForgiving,Reconciliation,Sex,Relationships,DatingSex and the dating game Just three weeks away from the event Don't Wait. Fornicate. The Sex in the Struggle team discuss how to keep getting what you want whttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/05/31/breaking-and-making-the-laws-of-sexSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/05/31/breaking-and-making-the-laws-of-sex/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/05/31/breaking-and-making-the-laws-of-sexWed, 31 May 2017 01:00:00 GMTBreaking and Making the Laws of SexBreaking and Making the Laws of Sex When and where do you draw the lines when it comes to sex? Why do you draw those lines?  Join the hosts of Sex in the Struggle tonight as we discuss breaking and making the law of sex.  Better sex is in fact a major key to a better life. Contribute to the conversation by calling (657) 383-0185 Sex in The Struggle conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.  From the essay "Something That's Good for Me" We shouldn’t need a special occasion to make love. We shouldn’t require perfect circumstances to submerge into pure and playful passion. This is sure to be one of the most difficult sections of this book for some Black Men to engage. It’s so simple to dismiss sexual healing as silly indulgence. It may be easier to puff out our chest than to open up our hearts. Marvin said love is life. Lovemaking is generative. Are you making love? And if you’re not making love, what are you fighting for? 01:00:00ulysses presentsyesForgive,Sex,ReconciliationBreaking and Making the Laws of Sex When and where do you draw the lines when it comes to sex? Why do you draw those lines? Join the hosts of Sex in the Strugghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/05/24/sex-beyond-black-and-whiteSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/05/24/sex-beyond-black-and-white/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/05/24/sex-beyond-black-and-whiteWed, 24 May 2017 01:00:00 GMTSex Beyond Black and WhiteGuess who's coming to dinner? Jungle Fever. Get Out. It's the conversation that won't go away because we won't let it go away. And we won't let it go away because we don't want it to go away. Without question, race in sex matters.  But how much does it matter?  Sex in The Struggle wants to hear from you! Sex in The Struggle conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.  From the essay "Something That's Good for Me" We shouldn’t need a special occasion to make love. We shouldn’t require perfect circumstances to submerge into pure and playful passion. This is sure to be one of the most difficult sections of this book for some Black Men to engage. It’s so simple to dismiss sexual healing as silly indulgence. It may be easier to puff out our chest than to open up our hearts. Marvin said love is life. Lovemaking is generative. Are you making love? And if you’re not making love, what are you fighting for? 01:00:00ulysses presentsyesRace Relations,forgiveness,sex,reconciliationGuess who's coming to dinner? Jungle Fever. Get Out. It's the conversation that won't go away because we won't let it go away. And we won't let it go away becauhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/05/17/booty-call-benefitsSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/05/17/booty-call-benefits/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/05/17/booty-call-benefitsWed, 17 May 2017 01:00:00 GMTBooty Call BenefitsSometimes you just need a shot of quality sex. Sometimes you just want to pick up the phone and say "hey, can we get together." As Marvin Gaye said "Sexual Healing is good for us." Let's talk about the benefits of the infamous "Booty Call" tonight! We shouldn’t need a special occasion to make love. We shouldn’t require perfect circumstances to submerge into pure and playful passion. This is sure to be one of the most difficult sections of this book for some Black Men to engage. It’s so simple to dismiss sexual healing as silly indulgence. It may be easier to puff out our chest than to open up our hearts. Marvin said love is life. Lovemaking is generative. Are you making love? And if you’re not making love, what are you fighting for? Contribute to the conversation by calling (657) 383-0185. Listen to us live online at blogtalkradio.com/iforgiveu.  These conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.   01:01:00ulysses presentsyessex,relationships,Black politics,Ulysses Butch Slaughter,ReligionSometimes you just need a shot of quality sex. Sometimes you just want to pick up the phone and say "hey, can we get together." As Marvin Gaye said "Sexual Healhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/05/10/so-long-shameSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/05/10/so-long-shame/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/05/10/so-long-shameWed, 10 May 2017 01:00:00 GMTSo long Shame We get all kinds of restraining orders in life. Perhaps the most powerful restraints are related to sex. Who put those voices of shame in your brain? How do you get rid of them or even use them to get what you want? Let's say "So Long, Shame!" Sex in The Struggle. We shouldn’t need a special occasion to make love. We shouldn’t require perfect circumstances to submerge into pure and playful passion. This is sure to be one of the most difficult sections of this book for some Black Men to engage. It’s so simple to dismiss sexual healing as silly indulgence. It may be easier to puff out our chest than to open up our hearts. Marvin said love is life. Lovemaking is generative. Are you making love? And if you’re not making love, what are you fighting for? Contribute to the conversation by calling (657) 383-0185. Listen to us live online at blogtalkradio.com/iforgiveu.  These conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.   01:01:00ulysses presentsyesSex,Forgiveness,Relationships,African American,ReconciliationWe get all kinds of restraining orders in life. Perhaps the most powerful restraints are related to sex. Who put those voices of shame in your brain? How do yohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/05/03/to-get-you-in-the-mood-part-2Self Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/05/03/to-get-you-in-the-mood-part-2/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/05/03/to-get-you-in-the-mood-part-2Wed, 03 May 2017 01:00:00 GMTTo get you in the Mood Part 2Were you tuned into our program last week? We were discussing the songs that get us in the mood for love. Man we had created one hell of a playlist. We talked Marvin Gaye, Prince, Grace Jones, Sade and many others. Just as things were heating up in the conversation a storm blew the power lines in our studio. I'm not surprised! Sex in The Struggle will do that to you. Well we're going back in tonight! Won't you join us? Call in and let's talk about your song! Tonight at 9PM ET. We shouldn’t need a special occasion to make love. We shouldn’t require perfect circumstances to submerge into pure and playful passion. This is sure to be one of the most difficult sections of this book for some Black Men to engage. It’s so simple to dismiss sexual healing as silly indulgence. It may be easier to puff out our chest than to open up our hearts. Marvin said love is life. Lovemaking is generative. Are you making love? And if you’re not making love, what are you fighting for? Contribute to the conversation by calling (657) 383-0185. Listen to us live online at blogtalkradio.com/iforgiveu.  These conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.   00:58:00ulysses presentsyesForgiveness,Sex,African American,Relationships,Ulysses Butch SlaughterWere you tuned into our program last week? We were discussing the songs that get us in the mood for love. Man we had created one hell of a playlist. We talked Mhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/04/26/to-get-you-in-the-moodSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/04/26/to-get-you-in-the-mood/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/04/26/to-get-you-in-the-moodWed, 26 Apr 2017 01:00:00 GMTTo get you in the moodMany Black Men often live in hectic – if not chaotic – environments. The action is non-stop and often seems out of our control and beyond our authority. But nothing in our lives is totally out of our control. And there is a way to relieve our minds. I know I’ve been guilty of making fighting more important than “fucking.” Pontificating more important than copulating. Hypnotized by the struggle, I dismissed romance as a distraction to my calling and my grandiose role in the Black revolution. With keen hindsight I see the error of my myopic and self-righteous behavior. I see the blindness in my self-castration. I see the damage of my self-inflicted wounds caused bymy refusal to forgive the struggle long enough and often enough to surrender to passion. The new mantra of “forgive” calls on Black Men to make love if they are going to be at war.  Black men must make as much – if not more love - as they battle for liberation. Balance is imperative. Even in our fighting there must be a motivation toward love. Sometimes the fighting has to be put on pause. Sometimes you have to forgive the fighting. Sometimes you got to give it up. Sexual healing is good for us. It relieves our minds. Too often we need the “right mood” to make love. We need a good reason.  As if withholding love will create love… We shouldn’t need a special occasion to make love. We shouldn’t require perfect circumstances to submerge into pure and playful passion. Contribute to the conversation by calling (657) 383-0185. Listen to us live online at blogtalkradio.com/iforgiveu.  These conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.   00:30:00ulysses presentsyessex,African Americans,Blacks,forgiving,ulysses "butch" SlaughterTo get you in the mood. No matter how tough the day has been, love music has a way of high jacking the blood flow, the senses and the body temperature. What sonhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/04/19/i-dont-want-to-be-a-freak-butSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/04/19/i-dont-want-to-be-a-freak-but/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/04/19/i-dont-want-to-be-a-freak-butWed, 19 Apr 2017 01:00:00 GMTI don't want to be a freak, but...I don't wanna be a freak but I can't help myself.  Why should you have to "help yourself?" Who told you that you can't be a freak? How do you learn to say "yes" to the freak inside? What factors contribute our sexual inhibitions?  Specifically, what are the daily and\or historical struggles that tell us know to showing "the freak" inside? Join the Sex in The Struggle team when they discuss "I don't wanna be a freak, but..." Contribute to the conversation by calling (657) 383-0185. Listen to us live online at blogtalkradio.com/iforgiveu.  These conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.   01:01:00ulysses presentsyessex,forgiving,Reconciliation,African-American"I don't wanna be a freak but I can't help myself." How do you learn to say "yes" to the freak inside? Who is the freak inside? What factors contribute our sexhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/03/22/the-flavor-of-making-loveSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/03/22/the-flavor-of-making-love/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/03/22/the-flavor-of-making-loveWed, 22 Mar 2017 01:00:00 GMTThe Flavor of Making LoveHow do you use interactions from the day to share deep passion with your partner? Join Ulysses "Butch" Slaughter, Tazima Davis, David Freeman, Jaebi Inspired and Brig Feltus when they discuss Sex in The Struggle: The Flavor of Making Love. Contribute to the conversation by calling (657) 383-0185. Listen to us live online at blogtalkradio.com/iforgiveu.  These conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.   01:01:00ulysses presentsyesSex,Forgiving,Reconciliation,Black Politics,Ulysses "Butch" SlaughterSex in The Struggle: The Flavor of Making Love explores how Black people use ingredients from the day to enhance the way they make lovehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/03/15/practicing-sex-in-the-struggleSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/03/15/practicing-sex-in-the-struggle/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/03/15/practicing-sex-in-the-struggleWed, 15 Mar 2017 01:00:00 GMTPracticing Sex in The StruggleCan great sex change the Black Community and the world? Can practicing phenomenal sex enhance your contribution to the struggles of Black folk? We think so! Join Ulysses "Butch" Slaughter, Tazima Davis, David Freeman, Brig Fletus and Jaebi Inspired as they talk fucking and fighting during Sex in The Struggle. This is not a conversation for children or the childish. If you know Black Sex Matters, tune into Sex in The Struggle. Be prepared to take notes and share ideas. Let's Get It On! 01:01:00ulysses presentsyesSex,Forgiving,Black Men,Black WomenMarvin Gaye asked "What's Going On?" And Marvin Gaye begged "Let's Get It On!" Marvin understood the importance of sexual healing in a world that requires sociahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/03/01/sex-in-the-struggle-the-conversation-continuesSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/03/01/sex-in-the-struggle-the-conversation-continues/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/03/01/sex-in-the-struggle-the-conversation-continuesWed, 01 Mar 2017 02:00:00 GMTSex in The Struggle: the conversation continuesMany Black Men often live in hectic – if not chaotic – environments. The action is non-stop and often seems out of our control and beyond our authority. But nothing in our lives is totally out of our control. And there is a way to relieve our minds. I know I’ve been guilty of making fighting more important than “fucking.” Pontificating more important than copulating. Hypnotized by the struggle, I dismissed romance as a distraction to my calling and my grandiose role in the Black revolution. With keen hindsight I see the error of my myopic and self-righteous behavior. I see the blindness in my self-castration. I see the damage of my self-inflicted wounds caused bymy refusal to forgive the struggle long enough and often enough to surrender to passion. The new mantra of “forgive” calls on Black Men to make love if they are going to be at war.  Black men must make as much – if not more love - as they battle for liberation. Balance is imperative. Even in our fighting there must be a motivation toward love. Sometimes the fighting has to be put on pause. Sometimes you have to forgive the fighting. Sometimes you got to give it up. Sexual healing is good for us. It relieves our minds. Too often we need the “right mood” to make love. We need a good reason.  As if withholding love will create love… We shouldn’t need a special occasion to make love. We shouldn’t require perfect circumstances to submerge into pure and playful passion. Contribute to the conversation by calling (657) 383-0185. Listen to us live online at blogtalkradio.com/iforgiveu.  These conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.   01:01:00ulysses presentsyesSex,Forgiving,Healing,Ulysses "Butch" SlaughterUlysses "Butch" Slaughter, David Freeman and others discuss why sex is a crucial nutrient for social struggles.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/02/15/sex-in-the-struggle-whats-going-onSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/02/15/sex-in-the-struggle-whats-going-on/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/ulyssespresents/2017/02/15/sex-in-the-struggle-whats-going-onWed, 15 Feb 2017 02:00:00 GMTSex in The Struggle: What's Going On?Many Black Men often live in hectic – if not chaotic – environments. The action is non-stop and often seems out of our control and beyond our authority. But nothing in our lives is totally out of our control. And there is a way to relieve our minds. I know I’ve been guilty of making fighting more important than “fucking.” Pontificating more important than copulating. Hypnotized by the struggle, I dismissed romance as a distraction to my calling and my grandiose role in the Black revolution. With keen hindsight I see the error of my myopic and self-righteous behavior. I see the blindness in my self-castration. I see the damage of my self-inflicted wounds caused bymy refusal to forgive the struggle long enough and often enough to surrender to passion. The new mantra of “forgive” calls on Black Men to make love if they are going to be at war.  Black men must make as much – if not more love - as they battle for liberation. Balance is imperative. Even in our fighting there must be a motivation toward love. Sometimes the fighting has to be put on pause. Sometimes you have to forgive the fighting. Sometimes you got to give it up. Sexual healing is good for us. It relieves our minds. Too often we need the “right mood” to make love. We need a good reason.  As if withholding love will create love… We shouldn’t need a special occasion to make love. We shouldn’t require perfect circumstances to submerge into pure and playful passion. Contribute to the conversation by calling (657) 383-0185. Listen to us live online at blogtalkradio.com/iforgiveu.  These conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.   01:01:00ulysses presentsyesForgive,Black Men,SexJoin Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter for “Sex in The Struggle” tonight at 9PM ET as he talks about “What’s Going On” in the world of Black sex and intimacy in the sto