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The goal is to try to be conscious of whether or not we are actually trying to help someone, or trying instead to silence them and convince them to do what we would do (or what we want them to do). We all know what it feels like to have those who are closest to us offer their perspective or try to make sense of things, we value what they have to say deeply, but how often does our guts tell us different and we find ourselves torn in between decision making. No one can truly understand or rationalize anyone's actions or life path; we truly are our own greatest light full of answers.
It's good to talk.