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Ms Daring

Ms Daring

Can you believe that I've listened to several of your shows and I didn't leave a message.....tisk tisk tisk. Continued success.

futuretalkshowchick

futuretalkshowchick

thank you so much for listening to my show muah...

24hrmom

24hrmom

Thank you so much for listening and supporting the 24hrmom show. I hope that you enjoyed our show discussion yesterday. Please feel free to stop on Tuesday's and Thursday's as we continue to talk about topics that will stimulate the mind and empower others to be there best. God bless

MYDOFFI

MYDOFFI

Speak the truth my dad died of the aids virus. Thanks for alarming blog talk radio about the facts.

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Lillian Brummet

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peace love health wealth to you always and thanks for stopping by my palace

MYDOFFI

MYDOFFI

good job

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openyoursoulradio

S-dot; I enjoy the broadcasts and look forward to many more to follow...

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what's good

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Thank you for joining my show this morning.

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Black Music Teacher

HELP US STOP IGNORANT NIGGAS ALL OVER THE WORLD.

Dennis Austin

Dennis Austin

Hey, since ur the guest for my show tommorow at 4pm, i might call you out like 5 minutes before showtime or call you during the show, don't miss it. 4pm tommorow

No Single Mama Drama

No Single Mama Drama

Thanks for the love - love the show, definitely going to be a regular - keep up the great work, God Bless You!

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THANKS MY BROTHER FOR STOPPING BY VIEWPOINTS OF THE MASSES.

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Allah's Righteous Peace,The 3rd Allah will be teaching on Christianity Is Satan's Religion this Friday at 10pm CST.

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Black Music Teacher

HELP RID DUMB NIGGAS IN OUR COMMUNITIES. BLACK POWER

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Jaye & The Movement

Thanks you for coming by the show with wisdom. You are truly appreciated. Can't wait for the book.

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The S-Dot Files presents The BOOTY Call Show with S-Dot  

The S-Dot Files focuses on connecting + reflecting providing infotainment resources that inspire thinking + doing. Featuring REAL talk, with REAL people, doing REAL things hosted by inspiring author, motivational speaker and empowerment coach S-Dot of the Get Your Mind Right guide, "Exposing the Game: Learning How-to Stop Playing Yourself" and the eBook "Keeping it 100: Being Your Authentic Self" (RTK Communications) Reach out to connect + reflect at www.thesdotfiles.blogspot.com. For further infotainment resources, to schedule bookings for the "Man of Purpose Tour" and "GYMRx" leadership training programs contact The Dot Team: thesdotfiles@gmail.com Follow "S-Twitty In the City" @ www.twitter.com/thesdotfiles

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Empowering thought-provoking conversations on love + life with REAL people, talking about REAL things. Thanks for clicking by to connect + reflect. Photobucket

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    Category: Self Help

    Call-in Number: (347) 308-8527


    On this week's episode we'll be chatting with our resident wealth-building coach on handling your finances, Kenny Hassell who will be discussing "How-to Build Up Your Business Credit." Check out this 5th installment in this always informative episode for those navigating the Web 2.0 social media platform. Join us Wednesday, February 10th, 2010 @ 8 p.m.- 9 p.m. (EST) Call-in 347.308.8527 | Got Questions? Get Answers: thesdotfiles@gmail.com type "Ask S-Dot" in the subject line.

    Upcoming Episodes

    - It's All About the Benefits Baby! The BOOTY Call Show episode 41

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    Category: Self Help


    LISTENER ADVISORY: This show will contain visually descriptive content of sensual relations. If you are uncomfortable with hearing or discussing such matters, you are strongly encouraged to not listen to this episode. On this “Ask S-Dot “episode ‘Mr. Oh-No-He-Didn’t’ will share some advice using music to set the mood. That’s right, it’s music + therapy. Have a “Jodeci moment.” That’s right, “Don’t talk, just listen.” Download this episode to your desktop or iPod to listen to at your leisure and get some real talk advice on love + life that offers you a soundtrack to apply the Rule of K.I.M. (keep it moving) in your relationships. Join us Tuesday, February 9th, 2010 @ 10 p.m. – midnight (EST) Call-in 347.308.8527 | Got Questions? Get Answers: thesdotfiles@gmail.com type “Ask S-Dot” in the subject.
  • On Demand Episodes

    Original Air Date:

    When A Woman's Fed Up The BOOTY Call Show episode 38

    Got a question on love + life? "Ask S-Dot" On tonight's special edition 2 hour episode S-Dot responds like Absalom should've to Tamar in 2 Samuel 13. He's "got mail" from one of his sister's this week that is FED UP with a dude that's got her looking like a bobblehead. Is she a bobblehead, or a WOMAN FED UP justifiably? Listen in on this brotherly advice show while he offers her his lived-and-learned counsel on-air and then...she calls in. Yep, she calls in and they continue the discussion in more detail on Saturday, February 6th @ 8:00 - 10:00 p.m. (EST) Call-in 347.308.8527 | Got Questions? Get Answers at "Ask S-Dot" e-mail: thesdotfiles@gmail.com

    Category: Self Help
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    Are You A Bobblehead? The BOOTY Call Show episode 37

    HEY MR/MS. B.I.G: I know, "You've got your OWN house, your OWN degree, your OWN car..." BUT you still can't find a man or woman willing to share them with. Why is that? Could it be that YOU ARE A BOBBLEHEAD? Do you spazz out when people don't give you your self-centered way? Ever find yourself dry snitching on co-workers or spying on your boss to steal their jobs? Love hogging the spotlight? Is your B.I.G. bobblehead always blocking the television? Are you the "friend" that's "no benefit" who no one is stupid enough to trust? Well, on this show S-Dot & Friends will be taking a contemporary look at some old school "Bobbleheads" like the goldigging Delilah (Ms. Want-it-All), snot-nosed Absalom (The Maintenance Man), castrating Jezebel (Mrs. Know-it-All) and crybaby Saul (The Hater) to see how these individuals still continue to impact and influence the dating and mating behaviors of both men and women today. ARE YOU A BOBBLEHEAD? Don't front, let's "Keep it 100" you've got issues. I know I do. Pick up that phone, click by or peep it on the download on your iPod. Whatever you do, join us for this REAL talk conversation with REAL people on love + life Friday, February 5th @ 10 p.m. - midnight (EST). Call-in 347.308.8527 | Got questions on love + life? E:mail "Ask S-Dot" to thesdotfiles@gmail.com

    Category: Self Help
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    Handle Your Business Part 4 The BOOTY Call Show episode 36

    Just last week "BO 2.0" was unleashed. How is ePrez Obama handling his Web 2.0 business? We examine the Team Obama social media platform building efforts. Does BO know social media? Also it's time for the 3rd annual "Daddy Daughter Valentine's Dance" and joining us will be Derek Phillips, founder of The Real Dads Network to update us on his continuing efforts to empower men. Plus, Kenny Hassell will be joining us for our new weekly segment "Kenny's Watching Your Pennies" discussing improving your credit score and managing personal debt. Join S-Dot & Friends for an informative discussion on creating a virtual townhall community as a grassroots arm for personal and socio-political causes on Wednesday, February 3rd @ 8 p.m. (EST) Call-in 347.308.8527 NEXT WEEK...on Handle Your Business Part 5: We'll discuss the iPad and its impact on the eBook marketplace; and find out what's "virtual narcissism" and the signs that should make you wonder if you suffer from "TMIng" Join us for "Handle Your Business on Wednesdays @ 8 p.m. (tell a friend, to tell a friend) Got questions? E:mail "Ask S-Dot" to thesdotfiles@gmail.com

    Category: Self Help
  • Original Air Date:

    Loving Jezebel The BOOTY Call Show episode 35

    She drove you CRAZY, but was so SEXY and seemed so COOL, that's right Toby you were whipped just like that Ahab fool. If you've "fallen" in love with a Proverbs 7 Jezebel or Delilah, it's time to get healed and delivered to be worthy of a Proverbs 31 wife-piece like Ruth. On this REAL talk episode S-Dot will show how a "wise man learns from a fool" by "Keeping It 100" about love + life. This show is a continuation of episode 34's "Dating & Mating With a Black Widow" (peep the archives). Join us Saturday, January 30th @ noon (EST). Call-in 347.308.8527

    Category: Self Help
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    Dating & Mating With A Black Widow The BOOTY Call Show episode 34

    Got whipped? They wield “spine control” over your mind by using the “Power of the Booty” Are you involved with someone that’s manipulative, lies and hides behind half-truths to get you to do what they want you to? Perhaps they’re even so skillful that they’ve even got you going to counseling to handle “your problem.” Have they got everyone fooled? The Black Widow personality-type (commonly called the “narcissist” or someone suffering from a “behavior personality disorder”) is very dangerous. These people can attack you in your mind, body and spiritual realm of being, or in many cases – all three. S-Dot will be sharing his personal testimony of healing, deliverance and triumph over dating these types in past relationships. We’ll discuss learning how to recognize when you exhibit these qualities and the warning signs of spotting them in others. This show will provide lived-and-learned REAL talk insight on love + life when you encounter the Black Widow. Join us Friday, January 29th 2010 @ 10 pm – midnight (EST) Call-in 347.308.8527

    Category: Self Help
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    Got Stung?

    LIVING LOVE presented by The S-Dot Files

    This eBook delves into the importance of living a loving lifestyle. Most people don’t live lovingly, but they just expect to be loved.

     

    Did you give him some pity p*ssy and end up d*cknotized? Has he got you so open that now you’re playing yourself constantly? Are your family and friends laughing at you behind your back? Hey, are some of them even laughing right in your face? If you’ve underestimated the power of the GP or GD, it’s time to Keep It 100 about it...

     

    Pick up that phone…Fridays 10 p.m. – midnight it’s The BOOTY Call Show with S-Dot & Friends presented by The S-Dot Files


    WARNING!!! S-Dot is not for everyone. His social commentary can be scathing at times.

     

    ( ( ( Ask S-Dot ) ) ) is the segment where REAL people ask REAL questions about love + life issues. S-Dot gives his ‘oh-no-he-didn’t’ straightforward responses Keeping It 100.

     

    Dear S-Dot,

    I have a secret that’s been keeping me up nights. I was incarcerated for 18 months. During that time I was sexually assaulted three times by my cellmate. I fought him off, but he was too strong and overpowered me. After the 3rd time that it happened, we got into a big fight, which led to him getting transferred to the hole. I did the rest of my time without any other incidents.

     

    Now that I’m home, I can’t stop wondering about AIDS. I was tested and negative in prison, but I know it takes awhile to show up in your system. I’ve been home for 3 months. My lady has stuck by me during my bid and doesn’t know about this. I’m sure it would devastate her to find out. The father of her son was on the “down low” for a number of years, and that’s made her distrustful of men for years.

     

    I love my woman. I’m not on anybody’s low. I’m a man that was violated.

     

    I don’t know what to do. If I tell her about being sexually assaulted, I feel like she’ll think of me as less of a man. If I don’t tell her, then I’m putting her at further risk, which is what I’m doing because we don’t use condoms. Any advice you can give I’ll greatly appreciate it.

     

     

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    THE RECAP, is a brief overview of a show e-mailed to subscribers to The S-Dot Files weekly: thesdotfiles@gmail.com 

     

    The show started out with a caller from the 317 on the line. I had to catch my breath, so I threw on Diddy’s “No Way Out” intro. I came back and threw on Maino’s 2010 Predictions. I welcomed Hancock into the building then picked up, “Yes sir, it’s the resident anti-hero Ronin  

     

    We discussed having a change moment “where you get tired of doing the same old thing, with the same old faces.” Then we moved onto discussing the differences between your title and your identity, and reclaiming your personal power. Ronin shared, “people need to look for quality.”

     

    His show encourages people to start thinking again. Sundays at 10 p.m. he keeps it real talk. Then I expressed, “I’m a real man, I don’t want a virtual woman” as my perspective on online dating. I’ve done the long-distance dating on paper with 6-to-12 page letters. LOL

     

    Dana from Divas Live OnAir and That’s Real Talk called in to chime in. “If you’re not comfortable. Or you don’t trust him, let me say that; then you shouldn’t be with him.” I shared a story of a virtual affair of someone that is leading to Spitsville. “We’ve got a myspace page together.” LOL We all roared with laughter.

     

    Then we went with another question soliciting the man and woman perspective with a “brutally honest answer.” Then we picked up “the angry, black nerd, the naughty professor, the dictator Don Calypso.”

     

    “That is a lonely woman, right there,” shared Dana, “enjoy what you have, and do you.”

     

    Don said, “Those are things that women like for men to have. If this is what attracts a man to you, you better take him to the doctor and check his testerone level”

     

    Then we played a clip of chapter one from the audio book of Donna L. Franklin’s “What’s Love Got to Do With It?” and the chat room went bananas. The breakdown of the accomplished, strong woman that’s still single sent folks into a chatting frenzy.

     

    I decided to bring in a caller from the 708 with a fresher perspective on the state of love. Scholar weighed in, “What the f*ck. C’mon, the Spirit’s telling me that you’re lying. And somebody’s telling me this b*tch is lying.” Until you bring the feminist movement into sh*t, white women got black women to fight and then got themselves a man and said, “bye b*tches.” A lot of women with PhD’s have the worst morality you’ll ever experience in life.” And finally this gem, “She can kick rocks, and get the hell out of my face.”   

     

    Hakim called in next to agree with Scholar and reference his debut show earlier, during which we discussed multi-generational trauma in the relationships of men and women. He shared, “the patriarch concept of the man being the head of the family…” caused a controversy. He also shared that he doesn’t advocate long-distance relationships either.

     

    S-Dot feels women today are being deSteved. They should, “wait until a person is worthy of some booty, however long it is.” And this made us all chuckle, “Men are not women with ovaries on the outside,” said Don.

     

    “We’re not realizing, it’s not a competition. It’s about finding someone that compliments you as a mate.” S-Dot

     

    Core values are essential for the success of your relationship. “These things transcend culture,” says Don.

     

    Kee from the 678 called in. “Women have been bamboozled by feminism. We’ve been told that we can do everything that a man can do, and now we’re treating our men poorly.” Ronin thinks that men and women should “supplement one another’s lives.” He said, “There’s nothing wrong with being self-sufficient and self-reliant.” “We need men in our lives, for social connection.” “We need to interconnect.” She felt the back and forth bashing is what’s keeping us from coming together.

     

    YOU, ME & HE…WTF!!!

    Then She and He called in and changed the entire momentum of the show. They thought they would add a very “interesting” perspective. Now She is my ex, and He is someone that I once entrusted as friend that tried to push up on her after broke up. I haven’t spoken to him for a few years. We parted ways not in an amicable manner.

       

    He then began to share his views on relationships… Yep, it was interesting.   

     

    Truth Will shared “you can’t have a king without a queen. Each has a role in relationships. He maybe the head of the house, but she governs the household. A wife should be chosen based upon honor and obligation.”

     

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    Handle Your Business Pt 3 The BOOTY Call Show episode 33

    Learn how you can parlay your social media hu$tle into becoming an in-demand brand in the Web 2.0 marketplace. Yep, you can eat off those tweets. That's right, Facebook can build up your bank book. It's time to DO YOU ALREADY (DYA!!!) On this episode S-Dot & Friends will share tips and advice on navigating the Web 2.0 social media landscape. Plus, learn how you can get your brand a remix by The Dot Team for FREE. Yes, F-R-E-E!!! Join us, Wednesday, January 27th @ 8 pm - 9 pm (Eastern). Call-in 347.308.8527

    Category: Self Help

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