https://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhispererPsychotherapist, Aikido teacher and writer/speaker Michael A. Gordon, MSc. brings 25 years experience in media and personal development. The Mindful Whisperer bridges neuroscience, spiritual psychology and mindfulness as they apply to a wide range of topics relating to daily life.enCopyright Michael Gordon (C/O Blogtalkradio)Tue, 10 Mar 2020 16:30:00 GMTMon, 10 Mar 2014 17:00:00 GMTPsychologyBlogTalkRadio Feed v2.0https://dasg7xwmldix6.cloudfront.net/hostpics/e3b412e0-1fba-426c-bb74-06130095b328_mindwhisperer.jpghttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhispererPsychotherapist, Aikido teacher and writer/speaker Michael A. Gordon, MSc. brings 25 years experience in media and personal development. The Mindful Whisperer bridges neuroscience, spiritual psychology and mindfulness as they apply to a wide range of topics relating to daily life.feeds@blogtalkradio.comBlogTalkRadio.compsychology,relationships,self-help,counseling,mindfulness,love,depression,resolutions,sex,addictionMichael A GordonnoPsychotherapist, Aikido teacher and writer/speaker Michael A. Gordon, MSc. brings 25 years experience in media and personal development. The Mindful Whisperer bepisodichttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2014/03/10/what-is-the-one-thing-no-one-can-give-us-but-the-first-thing-we-give-awayPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2014/03/10/what-is-the-one-thing-no-one-can-give-us-but-the-first-thing-we-give-away/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2014/03/10/what-is-the-one-thing-no-one-can-give-us-but-the-first-thing-we-give-awayMon, 10 Mar 2014 17:00:00 GMTWhat Is The One Thing No One Can Give Us, But The First Thing We Give Away?We all want to feel self-love, self-acceptance. And yet we also crave approval, connection, belonging. Today we reveal a critical element to getting the balance right! 00:16:00Michael A GordonnoSelf-Help,relationships,psychology,personal development,depressionWe all want to feel self-love, self-acceptance. And yet we also crave approval, connection, belonging. Today we reveal a critical element to getting the balancehttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2014/02/18/what-is-happinessPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2014/02/18/what-is-happiness/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2014/02/18/what-is-happinessTue, 18 Feb 2014 18:00:00 GMTWhat Is Happiness?Emerging multidisciplinary research is giving us a lot clearer a picture of what defines truly happy individuals. The results may surprise you. It is certainly within all our reach. 00:16:00Michael A GordonnoEmerging multidisciplinary research is giving us a lot clearer a picture of what defines truly happy individuals. The results may surprise you. It is certainlyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2014/01/31/why-relationships-fail-pt-1Relationshipshttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2014/01/31/why-relationships-fail-pt-1/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2014/01/31/why-relationships-fail-pt-1Fri, 31 Jan 2014 18:00:00 GMTWhy Relationships Fail! Pt 1With Valentine's Day approaching, it's timely to look at why so many relationships end up in breakup! How do we end up dating the same kind of person in a different package, and how do we change the pattern?! 00:16:00Michael A Gordonnorelationships,Dating,Love,HEARTBREAK,divorceWith Valentine's Day approaching, it's timely to look at why so many relationships end up in breakup! How do we end up dating the same kind of person in a diffehttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2014/01/07/resolutionfail-why-willpower-alone-doesnt-workPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2014/01/07/resolutionfail-why-willpower-alone-doesnt-work/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2014/01/07/resolutionfail-why-willpower-alone-doesnt-workTue, 07 Jan 2014 18:00:00 GMTResolution....FAIL! Why Willpower Alone Doesn't WorkIt seems so straightforward: we make a resolution, plan and schedule it, and soon enough we fall back into old patterns. What drives this annoying, undermining phenomenon, and how to really make lasting change? 00:16:00Michael A Gordonnoresolutions,Change,change your life,Affirmations,subconscious mindIt seems so straightforward: we make a resolution, plan and schedule it, and soon enough we fall back into old patterns. What drives this annoying, undermininghttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/10/08/addiction-is-not-rebellion-its-self-destructionPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/10/08/addiction-is-not-rebellion-its-self-destruction/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/10/08/addiction-is-not-rebellion-its-self-destructionTue, 08 Oct 2013 17:00:00 GMTAddiction Is Not Rebellion. It's Self-DestructionRage, untethered and unfocused often points itself inwards, yet it masquerades as vengeful action. Truthfully, addiction is self-destructive; while seeming to mask the hurt, and buffer us from those that have hurt us, it really just turns us against ourselves.00:22:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveRage, untethered and unfocused often points itself inwards, yet it masquerades as vengeful action. Truthfully, addiction is self-destructive; while seeming to mhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/10/01/shutdown-is-conservatism-a-form-of-psychopathyPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/10/01/shutdown-is-conservatism-a-form-of-psychopathy/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/10/01/shutdown-is-conservatism-a-form-of-psychopathyTue, 01 Oct 2013 17:00:00 GMTShutdown! Is Conservatism A Form Of Psychopathy?As the US congress faces a full government shutdown over the budget, the extremism of the conservative agenda seems to invite this empirically-researched question. Find out how studies going back 60 years still stand up to suggest this hypothesis holds true.00:29:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveAs the US congress faces a full government shutdown over the budget, the extremism of the conservative agenda seems to invite this empirically-researched questihttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/09/26/the-secret-key-to-happinessPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/09/26/the-secret-key-to-happiness/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/09/26/the-secret-key-to-happinessThu, 26 Sep 2013 17:00:00 GMTThe Secret Key To HappinessSo much of life is difficult and overwhelming, and despite spending much of our time chasing pleasure, we still feel unhappy. How can we change that in an instant?00:20:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveSo much of life is difficult and overwhelming, and despite spending much of our time chasing pleasure, we still feel unhappy. How can we change that in an instahttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/09/19/from-your-worst-enemy-to-friend-ending-the-war-on-yourself-1Psychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/09/19/from-your-worst-enemy-to-friend-ending-the-war-on-yourself-1/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/09/19/from-your-worst-enemy-to-friend-ending-the-war-on-yourself-1Thu, 19 Sep 2013 17:00:00 GMTFrom Your Worst Enemy To Friend: Ending The War On YourselfThe unresolved injustices and traumas of childhood can leave us with significant internalized distortions about ourselves that can misdirect unmet needs into self-aggression. How to we begin the journey to self-repair?00:26:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveThe unresolved injustices and traumas of childhood can leave us with significant internalized distortions about ourselves that can misdirect unmet needs into sehttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/08/29/looking-for-two-finding-one-soul-matingPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/08/29/looking-for-two-finding-one-soul-mating/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/08/29/looking-for-two-finding-one-soul-matingThu, 29 Aug 2013 19:00:00 GMTLooking for two, finding One: Soul Mating. The search for the perfect soul mate leads us to the difficult truth of what we need to work on in ourselves. Our patterns are merely re-manifestations of many cycles of habitual behaviour which, if we realize and choose wisely of our partner, can lead us away from deeper separation.00:21:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveThe search for the perfect soul mate leads us to the difficult truth of what we need to work on in ourselves. Our patterns are merely re-manifestations of manyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/08/06/weapons-of-mass-murder-hiroshima-rememberedPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/08/06/weapons-of-mass-murder-hiroshima-remembered/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/08/06/weapons-of-mass-murder-hiroshima-rememberedTue, 06 Aug 2013 18:00:00 GMTWeapons Of Mass Murder: Hiroshima RememberedAugust 6th is the anniversary of the dropping of the atomic bomb and total annihilation of Hiroshima, Japan, and three days later Nagasaki. How does history look back on this militarily rationalized mass murder of civilians, and what do we learn about our own dissociation from this act of violence.00:24:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveAugust 6th is the anniversary of the dropping of the atomic bomb and total annihilation of Hiroshima, Japan, and three days later Nagasaki. How does history loohttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/25/fear-of-missing-out-social-media-anxietyPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/25/fear-of-missing-out-social-media-anxiety/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/25/fear-of-missing-out-social-media-anxietyThu, 25 Jul 2013 17:00:00 GMTFear Of Missing Out: Social Media & AnxietyIt began with the 'crackberry' syndrome: those amongst us who were constantly glued to their handheld device, emailing, texting. No more in history have we been so pervasively distracted than with social media tech. What does this say, and how can we work with this as an aspect of our habitual patterns?00:19:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveIt began with the 'crackberry' syndrome: those amongst us who were constantly glued to their handheld device, emailing, texting. No more in history have we beenhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/23/part-2-loneliness-toxic-dangerous-reversablePsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/23/part-2-loneliness-toxic-dangerous-reversable/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/23/part-2-loneliness-toxic-dangerous-reversableTue, 23 Jul 2013 17:00:00 GMTPart 2: Loneliness--Toxic, Dangerous & Reversable! In the first episode, we covered emerging research on the impacts of social isolation on early childhood and the brain/psyche. In today's show, we explore the relationship with ourselves, and how to approach loneliness as an affliction of mind.00:21:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveIn the first episode, we covered emerging research on the impacts of social isolation on early childhood and the brain/psyche. In today's show, we explore the rhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/18/loneliness-toxic-dangerous-reversablePsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/18/loneliness-toxic-dangerous-reversable/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/18/loneliness-toxic-dangerous-reversableThu, 18 Jul 2013 17:00:00 GMTLoneliness: Toxic, Dangerous & Reversable!Decades-spanning research has been exponentially boosted by brain scanning technology, giving us a window into the social, physical and psychological impacts of loneliness/isolation, and how we need to prioritize attention to early parenting, schooling and social engagement in later life.00:15:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveDecades-spanning research has been exponentially boosted by brain scanning technology, giving us a window into the social, physical and psychological impacts ofhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/16/permission-for-joyPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/16/permission-for-joy/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/16/permission-for-joyTue, 16 Jul 2013 17:00:00 GMTPermission For JoySo often, despite our best efforts to be 'positive,' we keep getting stuck in our familiar negative patterns. How do we connect with and transform our deepest values and scripting, in order to experience limitless joy?00:24:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveSo often, despite our best efforts to be 'positive,' we keep getting stuck in our familiar negative patterns. How do we connect with and transform our deepest vhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/11/the-jagged-edge-working-with-angerPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/11/the-jagged-edge-working-with-anger/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/11/the-jagged-edge-working-with-angerThu, 11 Jul 2013 17:00:00 GMTThe Jagged Edge: Working With AngerAnger, to paraphrase Siddhartha Gautama (The Buddha) is "like holding a hot coal and expecting the other person to get burned." How do we intercept and transform this explosive emotion in a mindful way?00:26:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveAnger, to paraphrase Siddhartha Gautama (The Buddha) is "like holding a hot coal and expecting the other person to get burned." How do we intercept and transforhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/09/pain-is-inevitable-suffering-is-optionalPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/09/pain-is-inevitable-suffering-is-optional/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/09/pain-is-inevitable-suffering-is-optionalTue, 09 Jul 2013 17:00:00 GMTPain Is Inevitable, Suffering Is OptionalFrom chronic pain, to mental and emotional anguish, find out why and how we can minimize our suffering in the face of painful experiences.00:28:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveFrom chronic pain, to mental and emotional anguish, find out why and how we can minimize our suffering in the face of painful experiences.https://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/04/perfectly-imperfectPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/04/perfectly-imperfect/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/04/perfectly-imperfectThu, 04 Jul 2013 17:00:00 GMTPerfectly ImperfectThe quest for perfection can lead us to a self-destructive relationship with ourselves. How is perfectionism a symptom of negative conditioning?00:23:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveThe quest for perfection can lead us to a self-destructive relationship with ourselves. How is perfectionism a symptom of negative conditioning?https://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/02/where-will-i-go-the-paradox-of-self-vs-selflessnessPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/02/where-will-i-go-the-paradox-of-self-vs-selflessness/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/07/02/where-will-i-go-the-paradox-of-self-vs-selflessnessTue, 02 Jul 2013 17:00:00 GMTWhere Will I Go? The Paradox Of Self Vs. SelflessnessWhat do the various Buddhist texts mean when discussing 'no-self?' If there is no self, how do 'we' exist, and know who we are? Where will I go if I recognize that Self is a concept to begin with!00:27:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveWhat do the various Buddhist texts mean when discussing 'no-self?' If there is no self, how do 'we' exist, and know who we are? Where will I go if I recognize thttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/06/25/the-joy-equation-acceptance-gratitude-vulnerabilityPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/06/25/the-joy-equation-acceptance-gratitude-vulnerability/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/06/25/the-joy-equation-acceptance-gratitude-vulnerabilityTue, 25 Jun 2013 17:00:00 GMTThe Joy Equation: Acceptance, Gratitude & VulnerabilityResearcher Brené Brown writes about shame, vulnerability, and the relationship between gratitude and joy. What does she mean by "low tolerance for vulnerability makes joy forboding."00:30:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveResearcher Brené Brown writes about shame, vulnerability, and the relationship between gratitude and joy. What does she mean by "low tolerance for vulnerabilityhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/06/20/creativity-anxiety-from-kierkegaard-to-bukowskiPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/06/20/creativity-anxiety-from-kierkegaard-to-bukowski/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/06/20/creativity-anxiety-from-kierkegaard-to-bukowskiThu, 20 Jun 2013 17:00:00 GMTCreativity & Anxiety: From Kierkegaard to Bukowski "They give birth astride of a grave, the light gleams an instant, then it's night once more," wrote Samuel Beckett in Waiting For Godot. What do we make of this existential tension, and the will towards creative expression in the face of impermanence!   00:22:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,love"They give birth astride of a grave, the light gleams an instant, then it's night once more," wrote Samuel Beckett in Waiting For Godot. What do we make of thihttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/06/18/finding-gentleness-from-self-harm-to-self-friendshipPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/06/18/finding-gentleness-from-self-harm-to-self-friendship/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/06/18/finding-gentleness-from-self-harm-to-self-friendshipTue, 18 Jun 2013 17:00:00 GMTFinding Gentleness: From Self-Harm To Self-FriendshipIn our most difficult moments, we realize that our greatest suffering comes from a feeling of 'not being there' for ourselves when we need us most. There is a painful awakening that we are estranged from ourselves. We can begin to soften and experience vulnerability within, as a strength.00:23:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveIn our most difficult moments, we realize that our greatest suffering comes from a feeling of 'not being there' for ourselves when we need us most. There is a phttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/06/11/the-power-of-forgivenessPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/06/11/the-power-of-forgiveness/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/06/11/the-power-of-forgivenessTue, 11 Jun 2013 17:00:00 GMTThe Power Of ForgivenessForgive, but don't forget--a very potent saying. We often mistake forgiveness for 'letting someone off the hook' for something. However, when we hang on to hurt, it is we who are on the hook....00:22:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveForgive, but don't forget--a very potent saying. We often mistake forgiveness for 'letting someone off the hook' for something. However, when we hang on to hurthttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/06/06/occupy-yourself-becoming-the-change-you-want-to-seePsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/06/06/occupy-yourself-becoming-the-change-you-want-to-see/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/06/06/occupy-yourself-becoming-the-change-you-want-to-seeThu, 06 Jun 2013 17:00:00 GMTOccupy Yourself: Becoming The Change You Want To SeeTo parahrase Gandhi, "You must be change you wish to see in the world." Today on the show, embodying change and leadership...00:18:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveTo parahrase Gandhi, "You must be change you wish to see in the world." Today on the show, embodying change and leadership...https://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/06/04/making-space-allowing-for-what-isPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/06/04/making-space-allowing-for-what-is/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/06/04/making-space-allowing-for-what-isTue, 04 Jun 2013 17:00:00 GMTMaking Space: Allowing For What IsMany times, what makes a challenging situation or emotion more difficult is our initial urge to rush in and change it or avoid what it evokes within us. Making space creates a little breathing room, and often the right solution presents itself.00:22:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveMany times, what makes a challenging situation or emotion more difficult is our initial urge to rush in and change it or avoid what it evokes within us. Makinghttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/30/leaving-blame-behind-pt-2-from-self-pity-to-self-advocacyPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/30/leaving-blame-behind-pt-2-from-self-pity-to-self-advocacy/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/30/leaving-blame-behind-pt-2-from-self-pity-to-self-advocacyThu, 30 May 2013 17:00:00 GMTLeaving Blame Behind Pt 2: From Self-Pity To Self-Advocacy How do we take full ownership of our actions and what shows up in our lives? We continue this discussion by looking at self-responsible negotiation vs. blame.00:14:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveHow do we take full ownership of our actions and what shows up in our lives? We continue this discussion by looking at self-responsible negotiation vs. blame.https://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/28/leaving-blame-behind-from-martyrdom-to-self-responsibilityPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/28/leaving-blame-behind-from-martyrdom-to-self-responsibility/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/28/leaving-blame-behind-from-martyrdom-to-self-responsibilityTue, 28 May 2013 17:00:00 GMTLeaving Blame Behind: From Martyrdom To Self-ResponsibilityHow do we take full ownership of our actions and what shows up in our lives? In this conversation I discuss the critical aspects of becoming truly accountable, and how to move from victimhood to self-actualization.00:30:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveHow do we take full ownership of our actions and what shows up in our lives? In this conversation I discuss the critical aspects of becoming truly accountable,https://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/23/phobias-explainedPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/23/phobias-explained/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/23/phobias-explainedThu, 23 May 2013 17:00:00 GMTPhobias Explained!"I don't likes spiders and snakes," as Jim Stafford's hit song lamented...Apart from primal fears, why do we experience phobias?00:19:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,love"I don't likes spiders and snakes," as Jim Stafford's hit song lamented...Apart from primal fears, why do we experience phobias?https://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/21/why-do-we-keep-making-mistakesPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/21/why-do-we-keep-making-mistakes/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/21/why-do-we-keep-making-mistakesTue, 21 May 2013 17:00:00 GMTWhy Do We Keep Making Mistakes?Einstein defined madness as "doing the same thing over and over, and expecting different results." Why do we fall into patterns that don't serve us, and how do we change?00:20:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveEinstein defined madness as "doing the same thing over and over, and expecting different results." Why do we fall into patterns that don't serve us, and how dohttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/16/when-things-go-wrong-coping-with-stress-and-problemsPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/16/when-things-go-wrong-coping-with-stress-and-problems/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/16/when-things-go-wrong-coping-with-stress-and-problemsThu, 16 May 2013 17:00:00 GMTWhen Things Go Wrong: Coping With Stress And ProblemsIt is said you can truly gauge the character of a person by the way they manage stress and difficulty. We cannot avoid difficult challenges, however we can minimize their impact while increasing our choices.00:27:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveIt is said you can truly gauge the character of a person by the way they manage stress and difficulty. We cannot avoid difficult challenges, however we can minihttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/14/how-slowing-down-can-make-you-more-efficientPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/14/how-slowing-down-can-make-you-more-efficient/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/14/how-slowing-down-can-make-you-more-efficientTue, 14 May 2013 17:00:00 GMTHow Slowing Down Can Make You MORE Efficient!We move very quickly in this information age. And while information technology is supposed to make us more efficient, it actually just increases our workload. Find out how slowing down can make you more productive!00:22:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveWe move very quickly in this information age. And while information technology is supposed to make us more efficient, it actually just increases our workload. Fhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/09/calling-vs-vocation-what-is-your-life-purposePsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/09/calling-vs-vocation-what-is-your-life-purpose/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/09/calling-vs-vocation-what-is-your-life-purposeThu, 09 May 2013 17:00:00 GMT'Calling' vs. Vocation: What Is Your Life Purpose?Most of our lives are guided by our parents' values, school programming and social/class expectations. But what about YOUR inner drive to fulfill your true purpose?00:27:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveMost of our lives are guided by our parents' values, school programming and social/class expectations. But what about YOUR inner drive to fulfill your true purphttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/07/its-a-thin-line-between-love-and-hate-waging-peacePsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/07/its-a-thin-line-between-love-and-hate-waging-peace/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/07/its-a-thin-line-between-love-and-hate-waging-peaceTue, 07 May 2013 17:00:00 GMTIt's A Thin Line (Between Love And Hate): Waging PeaceAs my old teacher said, "familiarity, without respect, breeds contempt." How can a warm feeling turn so cold, so vengeful, so fast, and what can we do to change that pattern in our lives?00:27:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveAs my old teacher said, "familiarity, without respect, breeds contempt." How can a warm feeling turn so cold, so vengeful, so fast, and what can we do to changehttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/02/grief-loss-why-is-it-so-hard-letting-goPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/02/grief-loss-why-is-it-so-hard-letting-go/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/05/02/grief-loss-why-is-it-so-hard-letting-goThu, 02 May 2013 17:00:00 GMTGrief & Loss: Why Is It So Hard Letting Go?Letting of loved ones and our relationships can present us with our most challenging moments. Why is letting go so difficult?00:26:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveLetting of loved ones and our relationships can present us with our most challenging moments. Why is letting go so difficult?https://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/30/online-sex-sugar-shopping-how-addiction-worksPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/30/online-sex-sugar-shopping-how-addiction-works/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/30/online-sex-sugar-shopping-how-addiction-worksTue, 30 Apr 2013 17:00:00 GMTOnline Sex, Sugar & Shopping: How Addiction Works!How is it we can become addicted and desensitized to everything from substances like sweets, to shopping, and now--research proves--internet sex?00:23:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveHow is it we can become addicted and desensitized to everything from substances like sweets, to shopping, and now--research proves--internet sex?https://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/25/is-frequency-of-sex-the-wrong-focus-in-couplesPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/25/is-frequency-of-sex-the-wrong-focus-in-couples/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/25/is-frequency-of-sex-the-wrong-focus-in-couplesThu, 25 Apr 2013 17:00:00 GMTIs Frequency Of Sex The Wrong Focus In Couples?A recent Wall Street Journal article evoked a strong critcial response from Jezebel.com writer Lindy West. Today we discuss the issues, not from Lindy's insights, but looking at how intimacy can actually be the block to desire in long-term relationships.00:20:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveA recent Wall Street Journal article evoked a strong critcial response from Jezebel.com writer Lindy West. Today we discuss the issues, not from Lindy's insighthttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/23/when-things-fall-apart-couples-conflictPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/23/when-things-fall-apart-couples-conflict/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/23/when-things-fall-apart-couples-conflictTue, 23 Apr 2013 17:00:00 GMTWhen Things Fall Apart: Couples & ConflictWhat does it mean for a relationship when we argue? What happens if conflict surfaces early on in dating/relationship? Is this a sign of incompatibility? Shouldn't things be 'easy'? This episode looks at conflict in relationship, breaking through myths, and applying Attachment Theory to get a better understanding of how we function and make (un)conscious choices.00:27:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveWhat does it mean for a relationship when we argue? What happens if conflict surfaces early on in dating/relationship? Is this a sign of incompatibility? Shouldhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/18/what-is-narcissism-and-what-is-the-curePsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/18/what-is-narcissism-and-what-is-the-cure/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/18/what-is-narcissism-and-what-is-the-cureThu, 18 Apr 2013 17:00:00 GMTWhat is Narcissism? (And What Is The Cure?)Narcissism is a word that pops up frequently in common use, but what does it mean? Are you aware that it pertains to a particular set of negative psychological traits? 00:26:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveNarcissism is a word that pops up frequently in common use, but what does it mean? Are you aware that it pertains to a particular set of negative psychologicalhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/16/exalted-music-troubled-lives-author-david-n-meyerPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/16/exalted-music-troubled-lives-author-david-n-meyer/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/16/exalted-music-troubled-lives-author-david-n-meyerTue, 16 Apr 2013 17:00:00 GMTExalted Music, Troubled Lives: Author David N. MeyerFrom alt country forebearer Gram Parsons to legendary pop group The Bee Gees, David N. Meyer examines the interior/exterior lives of artists, and the toll exacted upon them by the creative process and pressures of public and commercial pressures. David N. Meyer is the author of Twenty Thousand Roads: The Ballad Of Gram Parsons And His Cosmic American Music (Random House); as well as an upcoming biography on the Bee Gees for De Capo press. He is also professor of Cinema Studies at the New School.00:31:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveFrom alt country forebearer Gram Parsons to legendary pop group The Bee Gees, David N. Meyer examines the interior/exterior lives of artists, and the toll exacthttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/11/mind-or-brain-can-consciousness-healPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/11/mind-or-brain-can-consciousness-heal/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/11/mind-or-brain-can-consciousness-healThu, 11 Apr 2013 17:00:00 GMTMind Or Brain? Can Consciousness Heal? We delve into what is deemed the 'hard problem' of Psychology. Is consciousness, and more importantly, psychological health, determined by 'bottom-up' or 'top-down' regulation and activity?00:20:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveWe delve into what is deemed the 'hard problem' of Psychology. Is consciousness, and more importantly, psychological health, determined by 'bottom-up' or 'top-https://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/09/sex-intimacy-enemies-or-alliesPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/09/sex-intimacy-enemies-or-allies/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/09/sex-intimacy-enemies-or-alliesTue, 09 Apr 2013 16:00:00 GMTSex & Intimacy: Enemies Or Allies?In this episode we explore the relationship between intimacy and sex, for those seeking a partner, and those in long-term relationships. Is intimacy the enemy of desire, or can desire be made the bed-fellow of intimacy?00:20:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveIn this episode we explore the relationship between intimacy and sex, for those seeking a partner, and those in long-term relationships. Is intimacy the enemy ohttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/04/codependence-to-listen-please-see-link>>Codependency is an oft misused term. While it most significantly applies to a relationship with an addicted partner, codependency has broader implications for healthy boundaries. ]]>>>Codependency is an oft misused term. While it most significantly applies to a relationship with an addicted partner, codependency has broader implications for healthy boundaries. ]]>Psychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/04/codependence-to-listen-please-see-link/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/04/codependence-to-listen-please-see-linkThu, 04 Apr 2013 17:00:00 GMTCodependence *To listen, please see link>>Codependency is an oft misused term. While it most significantly applies to a relationship with an addicted partner, codependency has broader implications for healthy boundaries. ]]> **To listen/view this show, please visit: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8gE2E54nkcQ or http://www.facebook.com/TheMindWhispererShow Due to a technical problems, the live radio program here was cut short during broadcast. >>>Codependency is an oft misused term. While it most significantly applies to a relationship with an addicted partner, codependency has broader implications for healthy boundaries. 00:21:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,love**To listen/view this show, please visit: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8gE2E54nkcQ or http://www.facebook.com/TheMindWhispererShow Due to a technical probhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/02/i-want-it-now-anticipation-delayed-gratificationPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/02/i-want-it-now-anticipation-delayed-gratification/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/04/02/i-want-it-now-anticipation-delayed-gratificationTue, 02 Apr 2013 17:00:00 GMTI Want It Now! Anticipation & Delayed GratificationFind out why we can get so wired to the compulsive desire, and how delayed gratification most often supports healthier outcomes in our relationships, purchases, etc.00:23:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveFind out why we can get so wired to the compulsive desire, and how delayed gratification most often supports healthier outcomes in our relationships, purchases,https://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/28/where-does-hate-come-fromPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/28/where-does-hate-come-from/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/28/where-does-hate-come-fromThu, 28 Mar 2013 17:00:00 GMTWhere Does Hate Come From? From bullying to homophobia, from domestic violence to terrorism, where are the seeds of hatred sown, and how can we work to overcome them?00:27:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveFrom bullying to homophobia, from domestic violence to terrorism, where are the seeds of hatred sown, and how can we work to overcome them?https://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/26/the-risk-of-frivolity-how-indulgence-breeds-confusionPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/26/the-risk-of-frivolity-how-indulgence-breeds-confusion/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/26/the-risk-of-frivolity-how-indulgence-breeds-confusionTue, 26 Mar 2013 17:00:00 GMTThe Risk of Frivolity: How Indulgence Breeds ConfusionThere is a great 'luxury' as Chogyam Trungpa describes it, in indulging our passions in the moment, but they can become destructive. And the confusion that arises can be a kind of luxurious escape from reality and truth. Join us today as we explore this very fascinating notion.00:20:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveThere is a great 'luxury' as Chogyam Trungpa describes it, in indulging our passions in the moment, but they can become destructive. And the confusion that arishttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/21/the-entwined-lovers-conscious-erotic-love-pt-2-1Psychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/21/the-entwined-lovers-conscious-erotic-love-pt-2-1/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/21/the-entwined-lovers-conscious-erotic-love-pt-2-1Thu, 21 Mar 2013 17:00:00 GMTThe Entwined Lovers: Conscious, Erotic Love--Pt. 2How do we surrender in erotic love without losing ourselves? How do we meet in union to realize ourselves fully, without falling into boredom, disinterest or contempt? All this and more today...00:20:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveHow do we surrender in erotic love without losing ourselves? How do we meet in union to realize ourselves fully, without falling into boredom, disinterest or cohttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/19/the-entwined-lovers-together-but-separate-conscious-lovePsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/19/the-entwined-lovers-together-but-separate-conscious-love/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/19/the-entwined-lovers-together-but-separate-conscious-loveTue, 19 Mar 2013 17:00:00 GMTThe Entwined Lovers: Together But Separate--Conscious LoveHow do we surrender in erotic love without losing ourselves? How do we meet in union to realize ourselves fully, without falling into boredom, disinterest or contempt? All this and more today...00:22:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveHow do we surrender in erotic love without losing ourselves? How do we meet in union to realize ourselves fully, without falling into boredom, disinterest or cohttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/14/tantric-erotic-transcendant-contacting-realityPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/14/tantric-erotic-transcendant-contacting-reality/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/14/tantric-erotic-transcendant-contacting-realityThu, 14 Mar 2013 17:00:00 GMTTantric, Erotic, Transcendant: Contacting RealityThis may sound rather esoteric, but it is really about connecting with the juicyness of all aspects of experience in everyday living, as a way of evolving towards absolute awareness.00:20:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveThis may sound rather esoteric, but it is really about connecting with the juicyness of all aspects of experience in everyday living, as a way of evolving towarhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/12/what-you-think-you-become-changing-your-worldPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/12/what-you-think-you-become-changing-your-world/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/12/what-you-think-you-become-changing-your-worldTue, 12 Mar 2013 17:00:00 GMTWhat You Think, You Become: Changing Your WorldWe have about 60,000 thoughts a day, mostly negative! This is such an important topic we will be exploring it again.00:23:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveWe have about 60,000 thoughts a day, mostly negative! This is such an important topic we will be exploring it again.https://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/07/flow-the-power-of-presence-connection-letting-goPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/07/flow-the-power-of-presence-connection-letting-go/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/07/flow-the-power-of-presence-connection-letting-goThu, 07 Mar 2013 18:00:00 GMTFlow: The Power Of Presence, Connection & Letting GoWhat is the power of presence? What does being connected to the here and now enable us to fully experience and how can this help us in any situation?00:30:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveWhat is the power of presence? What does being connected to the here and now enable us to fully experience and how can this help us in any situation?https://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/05/winning-without-fighting-there-is-no-enemyPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/05/winning-without-fighting-there-is-no-enemy/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/03/05/winning-without-fighting-there-is-no-enemyTue, 05 Mar 2013 18:00:00 GMTWinning Without Fighting: There Is No EnemyThere can be no self-defense if there is no opponent. How is that possible? Aren't there real attacks? What is spiritual warriorship, and how does Aikido teach us to win without fighting?00:31:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveThere can be no self-defense if there is no opponent. How is that possible? Aren't there real attacks? What is spiritual warriorship, and how does Aikido teachhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/28/from-fear-to-love-pt-2-fearless-heartgentle-warriorPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/28/from-fear-to-love-pt-2-fearless-heartgentle-warrior/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/28/from-fear-to-love-pt-2-fearless-heartgentle-warriorThu, 28 Feb 2013 18:00:00 GMTFrom Fear To Love Pt. 2: Fearless Heart/Gentle WarriorIt is said that we can live from two choices in any given moment: love or fear. So how do we continue to choose love, and what does it look like to stay the course in the face of real challenges: jealously, hurt, despair, loneliness, heartbreak?00:26:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveIt is said that we can live from two choices in any given moment: love or fear. So how do we continue to choose love, and what does it look like to stay the couhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/26/from-fear-to-love-open-hearted-walking-the-razors-edgePsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/26/from-fear-to-love-open-hearted-walking-the-razors-edge/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/26/from-fear-to-love-open-hearted-walking-the-razors-edgeTue, 26 Feb 2013 18:00:00 GMTFrom Fear To Love: Open-Hearted & Walking The Razor's EdgeIt is said that we can live from two choices in any given moment: love or fear. So how do we continue to choose love, and what does it look like to stay the course in the face of real challenges: jealously, hurt, despair, loneliness, heartbreak?00:26:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveIt is said that we can live from two choices in any given moment: love or fear. So how do we continue to choose love, and what does it look like to stay the couhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/21/your-mind-is-a-projector-part-2-change-the-moviePsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/21/your-mind-is-a-projector-part-2-change-the-movie/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/21/your-mind-is-a-projector-part-2-change-the-movieThu, 21 Feb 2013 18:00:00 GMTYour Mind Is A Projector, Part 2: CHANGE The Movie!We continue the discussion how unconscious patterns and beliefs not only determine the choices you make, but the people and situations you attract--good or bad!00:21:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveWe continue the discussion how unconscious patterns and beliefs not only determine the choices you make, but the people and situations you attract--good or bad!https://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/19/your-mind-is-a-projector-life-the-screen-hows-the-movie-1Psychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/19/your-mind-is-a-projector-life-the-screen-hows-the-movie-1/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/19/your-mind-is-a-projector-life-the-screen-hows-the-movie-1Tue, 19 Feb 2013 18:00:00 GMTYour Mind Is A Projector, Life The Screen: How's The Movie?Tax season is upon us, but have you have you ever done a life audit? Have you truly taken an inventory of what is in your life? The law of attraction is not magic; it is the manifestation in life of what is in your subconscious programming.00:22:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,Law Of Attraction,mindfulness,wealthTax season is upon us, but have you have you ever done a life audit? Have you truly taken an inventory of what is in your life? The law of attraction is not maghttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/14/perfect-love-and-how-to-find-itPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/14/perfect-love-and-how-to-find-it/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/14/perfect-love-and-how-to-find-itThu, 14 Feb 2013 18:00:00 GMTPerfect Love (and how to find it)!Ah yes, the culmination of our 4 part discussion about love and attraction. Being Valentine's Day, what more perfect an opportunity to discuss what perfect love really means...00:24:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveAh yes, the culmination of our 4 part discussion about love and attraction. Being Valentine's Day, what more perfect an opportunity to discuss what perfect lovehttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/12/attracting-your-perfect-mate-pt-3-1Psychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/12/attracting-your-perfect-mate-pt-3-1/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/12/attracting-your-perfect-mate-pt-3-1Tue, 12 Feb 2013 18:00:00 GMTAttracting Your Perfect Mate: Pt. 3What if your perfect partner, your soul mate, was the one who drove you the most mental? How might it be possible that the perfect match for you is going to irritate you to no end, be a mirror for your own issues? Tune in, join in, and find out!00:21:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveWhat if your perfect partner, your soul mate, was the one who drove you the most mental? How might it be possible that the perfect match for you is going to irrhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/07/attracting-your-perfect-mate-pt-2Psychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/07/attracting-your-perfect-mate-pt-2/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/07/attracting-your-perfect-mate-pt-2Thu, 07 Feb 2013 18:00:00 GMTAttracting Your Perfect Mate: Pt. 2With Valentine's Day approaching, it is the perfect time to address the deep desire within many of us to find our 'perfect' match. The question is, what is required to bring that desire to fruition and that special someone into our life?00:16:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveWith Valentine's Day approaching, it is the perfect time to address the deep desire within many of us to find our 'perfect' match. The question is, what is requhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/05/attracting-your-perfect-mate-pt-1Psychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/05/attracting-your-perfect-mate-pt-1/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/02/05/attracting-your-perfect-mate-pt-1Tue, 05 Feb 2013 18:00:00 GMTAttracting Your Perfect Mate: Pt. 1With Valentine's Day approaching, it is the perfect time to address the deep desire within many of us to find our 'perfect' match. The question is, what is required to bring that desire to fruition and that special someone into our life?00:16:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveWith Valentine's Day approaching, it is the perfect time to address the deep desire within many of us to find our 'perfect' match. The question is, what is requhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/31/liar-are-you-living-from-your-highest-values-part-2Psychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/31/liar-are-you-living-from-your-highest-values-part-2/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/31/liar-are-you-living-from-your-highest-values-part-2Thu, 31 Jan 2013 18:00:00 GMTLiar! Are You Living From Your Highest Values? Part 2We continue last show's discussion, focusing on the consequences of being out of integrity with your (hidden) highest values.00:16:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveWe continue last show's discussion, focusing on the consequences of being out of integrity with your (hidden) highest values.https://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/29/liar-how-honest-are-you-to-yourself-uncovering-our-valuesPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/29/liar-how-honest-are-you-to-yourself-uncovering-our-values/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/29/liar-how-honest-are-you-to-yourself-uncovering-our-valuesTue, 29 Jan 2013 18:00:00 GMTLiar! How honest are you to yourself? Uncovering Our ValuesWho is the 'you' that is running the show, asking the questions, and who is the 'you' that answers? Getting to the root of authentic being in the world, and what's in the way of living fearlessly.00:17:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveWho is the 'you' that is running the show, asking the questions, and who is the 'you' that answers? Getting to the root of authentic being in the world, and whahttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/22/im-ok-youre-messed-up-dealing-with-judgement-pt-3Psychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/22/im-ok-youre-messed-up-dealing-with-judgement-pt-3/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/22/im-ok-youre-messed-up-dealing-with-judgement-pt-3Tue, 22 Jan 2013 18:00:00 GMTI'm Ok, You're Messed Up! Dealing With Judgement Pt 3A continuation of the past series of shows about dealing with difficult people, and being triggered into judgement/contempt!00:16:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveA continuation of the past series of shows about dealing with difficult people, and being triggered into judgement/contempt!https://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/17/how-dare-you-ego-judgementPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/17/how-dare-you-ego-judgement/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/17/how-dare-you-ego-judgementThu, 17 Jan 2013 18:00:00 GMTHow Dare You!! Ego & JudgementContinuing from last week's segment on Negativity, we explore a listener's question about dealing with constant judgement of others!00:16:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveContinuing from last week's segment on Negativity, we explore a listener's question about dealing with constant judgement of others!https://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/15/negatively-charged-the-electric-quality-of-negativityPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/15/negatively-charged-the-electric-quality-of-negativity/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/15/negatively-charged-the-electric-quality-of-negativityTue, 15 Jan 2013 18:00:00 GMTNegatively Charged: The Electric Quality Of NegativityWe all experience negativity--towards ourselves, and as judgement towards others. But can negativity be positive? Listen in and find out!00:16:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,loveWe all experience negativity--towards ourselves, and as judgement towards others. But can negativity be positive? Listen in and find out!https://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/10/what-is-the-measure-of-successPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/10/what-is-the-measure-of-success/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/10/what-is-the-measure-of-successThu, 10 Jan 2013 18:00:00 GMTWhat Is The Measure Of Success?On this show we discuss the most important determinants of success in life. (A hint: they have nothing to do with external circumstances). Tune in and join in on this important topic, as we all aim our sights towards bigger and better lives for ourselves going into 2013.00:16:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,success,goalsOn this show we discuss the most important determinants of success in life. (A hint: they have nothing to do with external circumstances). Tune in and join in ohttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/08/happiness-is-a-skill-neuroplasticity-mindfulnessPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/08/happiness-is-a-skill-neuroplasticity-mindfulness/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/08/happiness-is-a-skill-neuroplasticity-mindfulnessTue, 08 Jan 2013 18:00:00 GMTHappiness is a skill: Neuroplasticity & MindfulnessThe discovery that the brain can re-wire itself, not only in terms of functionality--but its actual structure--has revolutionized neuroscience in the past decade. At the same time, the empirical evidence from brain research backs up thousands of years of contemplative practice from meditation and other mind/body practices. Find out how happiness is a skill that can be developed and cultivated as our own inner medicine for mental disturbances and psychological issues.00:16:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,neuroscienceThe discovery that the brain can re-wire itself, not only in terms of functionality--but its actual structure--has revolutionized neuroscience in the past decadhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/03/is-there-something-wrong-with-me-redefining-normalcyPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/03/is-there-something-wrong-with-me-redefining-normalcy/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/03/is-there-something-wrong-with-me-redefining-normalcyThu, 03 Jan 2013 18:00:00 GMTIs There Something Wrong With Me? Redefining NormalcyOften times we feel like we never fit in, or that what others may consider unique, we consider a defect or flaw with ourselves. Let's take another look at 'normal' from a different viewpoint, shall we?00:31:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counselling,depression,mindfulness,anxietyOften times we feel like we never fit in, or that what others may consider unique, we consider a defect or flaw with ourselves. Let's take another look at 'normhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/01/why-resolutions-fail-how-to-really-change-your-life-1Psychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/01/why-resolutions-fail-how-to-really-change-your-life-1/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2013/01/01/why-resolutions-fail-how-to-really-change-your-life-1Tue, 01 Jan 2013 18:00:00 GMTWhy Resolutions Fail & How To REALLY Change Your Life!Tune in to find out why resolutions, on the whole, don't work, and what you can do instead to change your life and reach your goals in 2013!00:31:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,resolutions,loveTune in to find out why resolutions, on the whole, don't work, and what you can do instead to change your life and reach your goals in 2013!https://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2012/12/27/sex-love-other-drugs-pt-2Psychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2012/12/27/sex-love-other-drugs-pt-2/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2012/12/27/sex-love-other-drugs-pt-2Thu, 27 Dec 2012 18:00:00 GMTSex, Love & Other Drugs Pt. 2**Due to a technical problem, the show didn't complete. We will continue the topic for this show: What pulls us, lures us and attracts us to those we desire? What is the difference between love, lust and compulsion/addiction? We look at the psycho-biological influences and mechanisms involved in our conscious/unconscious choices in sexual desire, love attraction and other pleasure-seeking/avoidance behaviours!00:31:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,love**Due to a technical problem, the show didn't complete. We will continue the topic for this show: What pulls us, lures us and attracts us to those we desire? Whttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2012/12/20/sex-love-other-drugsPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2012/12/20/sex-love-other-drugs/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2012/12/20/sex-love-other-drugsThu, 20 Dec 2012 18:00:00 GMTSex, Love & Other DrugsWhat pulls us, lures us and attracts us to those we desire? What is the difference between love, lust and compulsion/addiction? We look at the psycho-biological influences and mechanisms involved in our conscious/unconscious choices in sexual desire, love attraction and other pleasure-seeking/avoidance behaviours!00:31:00Michael A GordonnoSex,Love,lust,addiction,drugsWhat pulls us, lures us and attracts us to those we desire? What is the difference between love, lust and compulsion/addiction? We look at the psycho-biologicalhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2012/12/18/taming-aggression-cultivating-calmthe-path-to-non-violencePsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2012/12/18/taming-aggression-cultivating-calmthe-path-to-non-violence/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2012/12/18/taming-aggression-cultivating-calmthe-path-to-non-violenceTue, 18 Dec 2012 18:00:00 GMTTaming Aggression, Cultivating Calm:The Path To Non-ViolenceThe recent shooting of school children in Connecticut is the subject of this program, as we examine the impacts of mental illness, trauma, gun culture and how to build non-violence personally and societally.00:31:00Michael A GordonnoConnecticut,guns,relationships,non-violence,mental illnessThe recent shooting of school children in Connecticut is the subject of this program, as we examine the impacts of mental illness, trauma, gun culture and how thttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2012/12/13/tbaPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2012/12/13/tba/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2012/12/13/tbaThu, 13 Dec 2012 18:00:00 GMTRepeat: Neither Gluttony Nor Deprivation: Openness & Desire **Tuesday's show was cut-off due to a malfunction, so we are re-visiting the topic for Thursday's show:   This show will be a continuation of the discussion about vulnerability, relationships, intimacy and how to balance our fear of being open with our deeply-held and universal need for bonding and connection! 00:31:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,love**Tuesday's show was cut-off due to a malfunction, so we are re-visiting the topic for Thursday's show:   This show will be a continuation of the discussionhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2012/12/11/tbaPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2012/12/11/tba/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2012/12/11/tbaTue, 11 Dec 2012 18:00:00 GMTNeither Gluttony Nor Deprivation: Openness & DesireThis show will be a continuation of the discussion about vulnerability, relationships, intimacy and how to balance our fear of being open with our deeply-held and universal need for bonding and connection!00:05:00Michael A Gordonnoself-help,counseling,relationships,mindfulness,sexThis show will be a continuation of the discussion about vulnerability, relationships, intimacy and how to balance our fear of being open with our deeply-held ahttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2012/12/06/vulnerability-as-strength-1Psychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2012/12/06/vulnerability-as-strength-1/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2012/12/06/vulnerability-as-strength-1Thu, 06 Dec 2012 18:00:00 GMTVulnerability As Strength Vulnerability is a word that, for many people, suggests weakness, letting your guard down and leaving yourself open to attack. But that understanding might just be based on a limited response, a rigid and protective sense of self in the world. What if we operated from openness, from connecting first to our own insecurities and our profound need to connect with others, and reached out from that place? Join us for a spirited discussion of how being vulnerable might actually lead us to being stronger. 00:30:00Michael A Gordonnorelationships,vulnerability,counseling,self-help,mindfulnessVulnerability is a word that, for many people, suggests weakness, letting your guard down and leaving yourself open to attack. But that understanding might jushttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2012/11/30/how-to-survive-the-holidays-ie-your-familyPsychologyhttps://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2012/11/30/how-to-survive-the-holidays-ie-your-family/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/themindwhisperer/2012/11/30/how-to-survive-the-holidays-ie-your-familyFri, 30 Nov 2012 19:00:00 GMTHow To Survive The Holidays (i.e. your family!)The holiday season can be very challenging for the best of us, triggering all kinds of issues stemming from our original family dynamics. Tune in for a lively call-in discussion, raise your concerns, and join us for our inaugural show!00:16:00Michael A Gordonnocounseling,personal boundaries,family,holidays,relationshipThe holiday season can be very challenging for the best of us, triggering all kinds of issues stemming from our original family dynamics. Tune in for a lively c