The Collaborative Divorcehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorceIs Collaborative Divorce right for you? Learn about this proven alternative to litigated divorce from NY-based legal, mental health and financial professionals who specialize in the collaborative approach to dispute resolution.enCopyright Bonnie D. Graham (C/O Blogtalkradio)Fri, 14 Jun 2019 19:30:00 GMTThu, 08 Mar 2012 13:00:00 GMTFamilyBlogTalkRadio Feed v2.0https://dasg7xwmldix6.cloudfront.net/hostpics/2e5e9e02-e8f2-481e-8357-479d4bd8b1e1_cdro_logo_new_300x300.jpgThe Collaborative Divorcehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorceIs Collaborative Divorce right for you? Learn about this proven alternative to litigated divorce from NY-based legal, mental health and financial professionals who specialize in the collaborative approach to dispute resolution.feeds@blogtalkradio.comBlogTalkRadio.comfamily,collaborative divorce,the collaborative divorce,collaborative dispute resolutions,matrimonial and family law practice,collaborative dispute resolutions ny,harriette m steinberg esq,litigation,emotions love anger sadness,harry grabarz phdTheCollaborativeDivorcenoIs Collaborative Divorce right for you? Learn about this proven alternative to litigated divorce from NY-based legal, mental health and financial professionalsepisodicAfter the Divorce: How to Protect Your Childrenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2012/03/08/the-collaborative-divorce--family-recovery-from-divorceFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2012/03/08/the-collaborative-divorce--family-recovery-from-divorce/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2012/03/08/the-collaborative-divorce--family-recovery-from-divorceThu, 08 Mar 2012 13:00:00 GMTAfter the Divorce: How to Protect Your ChildrenMental health professional Harry Grabarz, Ph.D. discusses how different divorce methods determine the impact of divorce on the children.   Dr. Grabarz explains, "The need to 'protect your children' will depend on the divorce process you choose - an adversarial litigated divorce, mediation, or the collaborative method. When children are caught in the middle, they can develop issues with identification, parent-child bonding, and school performance."   Dr. Grabarz has over 30 years experience working with children and families, plus extensive training in forensic consultations with family attorneys.   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes. The collaborative method is open and non-adversarial, without litigation or a judge, with the goal of a mutually agreeable outcome. Speakers are members of Collaborative Dispute Resolutions on Long Island, NY.   Music by J.C. Revue. www.jcrevue.com 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoCollaborative Divorce,Harry Grabarz PhD,Emotions Love Anger Sadness,Family Specialist Psychologist,Collaborative Dispute Resolutions NYMental health professional Harry Grabarz, Ph.D. discusses how different divorce methods determine the impact of divorce on the children.   Dr. Grabarz explainsA New Divorce Reality: Families Running Out of Moneyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2012/03/01/the-collaborative-divorce--family-recovery-from-divorceFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2012/03/01/the-collaborative-divorce--family-recovery-from-divorce/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2012/03/01/the-collaborative-divorce--family-recovery-from-divorceThu, 01 Mar 2012 13:00:00 GMTA New Divorce Reality: Families Running Out of Money On this edition of The Collaborative Divorce, attorney Harriette M. Steinberg, PC, discusses the "new divorce reality" – divorced families are running out of money. As a consequence, lifestyles are being downgraded and future choices are being limited. She notes, "Divorces are occurring in the present economic climate –  a factor to which we have not given proper attention." . Listen and learn why the traditional litigated divorce method is NOT able to prevent or help solve this problem – and why Collaborative Divorce may be the answer.   For over a decade, Harriette M. Steinberg has studied alternate forms of dispute resolution and opened her law practice to collaborative divorce and family law matters. To support her work in this emerging field, she has joined the Board of the New York Association of Collaborative Professionals and is a member of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals.     Ms. Steinberg is also a founding member of Collaborative Dispute Resolutions (CDR) on Long Island, NY.   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes. The collaborative method is open and non-adversarial, without litigation or a judge, with the goal of a mutually agreeable outcome. Speakers are members of Collaborative Dispute Resolutions on Long Island, NY.   Music by J.C. Revue. www.jcrevue.com 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoCollaborative Divorce,Harriette M Steinberg Esq,Emotions Love Anger Sadness,Family Law,Collaborative Dispute Resolutions NYOn this edition of The Collaborative Divorce, attorney Harriette M. Steinberg, PC, discusses the "new divorce reality" – divorced families are running out of mThe Collaborative Divorce: Why Do Divorced Parents Disagree?http://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2012/02/23/the-collaborative-divorce--family-recovery-from-divorceFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2012/02/23/the-collaborative-divorce--family-recovery-from-divorce/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2012/02/23/the-collaborative-divorce--family-recovery-from-divorceThu, 23 Feb 2012 13:00:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: Why Do Divorced Parents Disagree?Psychologist Neil S. Grossman, Ph.D., ABPP, explores what interferes with family divorce recovery and how seemingly practical disputes between divorced parents can have a deeper context under the surface: emotions, power and/or self-image.    Dr. Grossman explains, "Divorced parents are coping with 3 main emotions: love, anger and sadness. Rather than being about 'winning',  their ongoing struggles often are about getting an emotional reaction from each other. These parents may not be looking for a resolution after all."    Neil Grossman is a clinical and forensic psychologist board-specialized in couple and family psychology. His sub-specialty focus is on families undergoing a divorce.   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes. The collaborative method is open and non-adversarial, without litigation or a judge, with the goal of a mutually agreeable outcome. Speakers are members of Collaborative Dispute Resolutions on Long Island, NY.   Music by J.C. Revue. www.jcrevue.com 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoCollaborative Divorce,Neil S Grossman PhD,Emotions Love Anger Sadness,Clinical Psychologist,Collaborative Dispute Resolutions NYPsychologist Neil S. Grossman, Ph.D., ABPP, explores what interferes with family divorce recovery and how seemingly practical disputes between divorced parentsThe Collaborative Divorce: All the rage: Divorce Parties!http://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2012/02/16/the-collaborative-divorce--family-recovery-from-divorceFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2012/02/16/the-collaborative-divorce--family-recovery-from-divorce/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2012/02/16/the-collaborative-divorce--family-recovery-from-divorceThu, 16 Feb 2012 13:00:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: All the rage: Divorce Parties!On this edition of The Collaborative Divorce, attorney Neil Cahn, PLLC, explores the rise of "Divorce Parties".   What? Is divorce now an occasion to celebrate? The answer may be YES if you chose the Collaborative Divorce method, which gives both parties something to smile [instead of yell] about. Listen in for Mr. Cahn's insights.   A Yale College and Hofstra University Law School graduate who has practiced law on Long Island for 36 years, Mr. Cahn is certified in the Collaborative Divorce process by the International Association of Collaborative Professionals. His practice is concentrated in divorce and other family law matters. He is also a charter member of Collaborative Dispute Resolutions, a NY interdisciplinary professional group that promotes settlement of conflicts using the Collaborative process.    The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes. The collaborative method is open and non-adversarial, without litigation or a judge, with the goal of a mutually agreeable outcome. Speakers are members of Collaborative Dispute Resolutions on Long Island, NY.   Music by J.C. Revue. www.jcrevue.com 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoCollaborative Divorce,Neil Cahn Esq,Family Law Attorney,Divorce Party,Collaborative Dispute Resolutions NYOn this edition of The Collaborative Divorce, attorney Neil Cahn, PLLC, explores the rise of "Divorce Parties".   What? Is divorce now an occasion to celebratCollaborative Divorce: If I can’t have my kids, no one will!http://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2012/02/09/the-collaborative-divorce--family-recovery-from-divorceFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2012/02/09/the-collaborative-divorce--family-recovery-from-divorce/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2012/02/09/the-collaborative-divorce--family-recovery-from-divorceThu, 09 Feb 2012 13:00:00 GMTCollaborative Divorce: If I can’t have my kids, no one will!   On this edition of The Collaborative Divorce, psychologist Neil S. Grossman, Ph.D., ABPP, explores recent news of a widower Dad who killed his kids and himself after the court gave child custody to his late wife's parents.   Dr. Grossman says, "The 3 main emotions associated with divorce are love, anger and sadness. Tragically, this Dad's emotions took over and left little room for reason – or just enough for distorted reason. There are also cultural and religious beliefs that may have caused this."   Neil Grossman is a clinical and forensic psychologist board-specialized in couple and family psychology. His sub-specialty focus is on families undergoing a divorce.   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes. The collaborative method is open and non-adversarial, without litigation or a judge, with the goal of a mutually agreeable outcome. Speakers are members of Collaborative Dispute Resolutions on Long Island, NY.   Music by J.C. Revue. www.jcrevue.com 00:28:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoCollaborative Divorce,Neil S Grossman PhD,Emotions Love Anger Sadness,Clinical Psychologist,Collaborative Dispute Resolutions NYOn this edition of The Collaborative Divorce, psychologist Neil S. Grossman, Ph.D., ABPP, explores recent news of a widower Dad who killed his kids and himseThe Collaborative Divorce - How It Works: Case Studieshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2012/01/05/the-collaborative-divorce--how-it-works-case-studiesFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2012/01/05/the-collaborative-divorce--how-it-works-case-studies/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2012/01/05/the-collaborative-divorce--how-it-works-case-studiesThu, 05 Jan 2012 13:00:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce - How It Works: Case Studies     According to attorney Teresa Ombres, "In a collaborative divorce, each lawyer shows respect to – and gains the trust of – the other spouse. You can almost see everyone’s shoulders relax. The air in the room changes. Instead of attacking and being defensive, they listen and try to understand each other.”   Hear about cases where a father wanted more visitations than he could handle; a dad who refused to return the kids to their mom on time; and an ongoing dispute over furniture.   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   Speakers are members of Collaborative Dispute Resolutions on Long Island, NY. www.CDRLI.com.   Music by J.C. Revue. www.jcrevue.com 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoThe Collaborative Divorce,Teresa Ombres,Attorneys and Clients,Litigated Divorce,CDR Collaborative Dispute ResolutionsAccording to attorney Teresa Ombres, "In a collaborative divorce, each lawyer shows respect to – and gains the trust of – the other spouse. You can almThe Collaborative Divorce: Your Marital Health - Part 3http://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/12/01/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/12/01/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/12/01/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxThu, 01 Dec 2011 13:00:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: Your Marital Health - Part 3Neil S. Grossman, Ph.D., ABPP returns to continue exploring how to maintain your marital health. Four reasons why marriages fail: Criticism: Attacks on spouse's worthContempt: Trying to insult or degrade a spouseDefensiveness: Inability to listen to a complaint/criticismWithdrawal: Stonewalling   Dr. Grossman explains the differences between conflicts and fights; how to negotiate differences; marriage success ingredients of love and respect.   Neil Grossman is a clinical and forensic psychologist board-specialized in couple and family psychology. His sub-specialty focus is on families undergoing a divorce.   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes. The collaborative method is open and non-adversarial, without litigation or a judge, with the goal of a mutually agreeable outcome. Speakers are members of Collaborative Dispute Resolutions on Long Island, NY.   Music by J.C. Revue. www.jcrevue.com 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoCollaborative Divorce,Collaborative Dispute Resolutions,Your Marital Health,Family Therapist,Why Marriages FailNeil S. Grossman, Ph.D., ABPP returns to continue exploring how to maintain your marital health. Four reasons why marriages fail: Criticism: Attacks on spouse'sThe Collaborative Divorce: New Divorce Settlement Trendshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/11/17/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/11/17/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/11/17/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxThu, 17 Nov 2011 13:30:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: New Divorce Settlement TrendsToday attorney Latonia Early-Hubelbank, Esq., talks about a developing trend over the past year in the courts. If a business was acquired during a marriage, the non-business spouse may expect part of the business value to be part of their divorce settlement. Now this is changing and their contributions to that business might no longer be recognized. Listen to learn more.   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   Speakers are members of Collaborative Dispute Resolutions on Long Island, NY. www.CDRLI.com.   Music by J.C. Revue. www.jcrevue.com 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoCollaborative Divorce,Collaborative Dispute Resolutions,Attorney,Latonia Early-Hubelbank,Divorce SettlementToday attorney Latonia Early-Hubelbank, Esq., talks about a developing trend over the past year in the courts. If a business was acquired during a marriage, theThe Collaborative Divorce: The Health of Your Marriage Pt. 2http://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/11/10/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/11/10/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/11/10/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxThu, 10 Nov 2011 12:30:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: The Health of Your Marriage Pt. 2     Neil S. Grossman, Ph.D., ABPP returns to continue the topic of how to maintain marital health. The 4 reasons why marriages fail: Criticism [attacks on spouse's worth], Contempt [trying to insult or degrade a spouse], Defensiveness [inability to listen to a complaint/criticism], and Withdrawal [stonewalling]. Learn the differences between conflicts and fights; how to negotiate differences; marriage success ingredients of love and respect.   Dr. Grossman is a clinical and forensic psychologist who is board-specialized in couple and family psychology. His sub-specialty focus is on families undergoing a divorce.   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   Speakers are members of Collaborative Dispute Resolutions on Long Island, NY. www.CDRLI.com.   Music by J.C. Revue. www.jcrevue.com 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoCollaborative Divorce,Collaborative Dispute Resolutions,Marital Health,Family Coach,Psychologist TherapistNeil S. Grossman, Ph.D., ABPP returns to continue the topic of how to maintain marital health. The 4 reasons why marriages fail: Criticism [attacks on spoThe Collaborative Divorce: How To Control Your Divorce Costshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/11/03/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/11/03/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/11/03/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxThu, 03 Nov 2011 12:00:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: How To Control Your Divorce CostsAccording to matrimonial and family law attorney James P. Joseph, "The costs of divorce are not just financial, which can be significant. There are also psychological costs to you and your spouse, and, most importantly, to your children."   Hear anecdotes about how a dispute over an ice cream cone almost cost $1000 in attorney fees. And how the price soared when a wife argued for the right to move out of state with her children – but had no intention of doing so!   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   Speakers are members of Collaborative Dispute Resolutions on Long Island, NY. www.CDRLI.com.   Music by J.C. Revue. www.jcrevue.com 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoCollaborative Divorce,Collaborative Dispute Resolutions,James P Joseph Esq,Divorce Costs Fees Financials,Matrimonial LawAccording to matrimonial and family law attorney James P. Joseph, "The costs of divorce are not just financial, which can be significant. There are also psycholThe Collaborative Divorce: How Healthy Is Your Marriage?http://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/10/27/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/10/27/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/10/27/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxThu, 27 Oct 2011 12:00:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: How Healthy Is Your Marriage?   Neil S. Grossman, Ph.D., ABPP talks about how couples can maintain marital health.  Do you know the 4 reasons why marriages fail? Criticism [attacks on a spouse's worth], Contempt [purposely trying to insult or degrade a spouse], Defensiveness [inability to listen to a complaint or criticism], and Withdrawal [stonewalling]. He will discuss the differences between conflicts and fights; how to negotiate your differences; the required marriage success ingredients of love and respect; and techniques to improve your marriage.   Dr. Grossman is a clinical and forensic psychologist who is board-specialized in couple and family psychology. His sub-specialty focus is on families undergoing a divorce.   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   Speakers are members of Collaborative Dispute Resolutions on Long Island, NY. www.CDRLI.com.   Music by J.C. Revue. www.jcrevue.com 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoCollaborative Divorce,Collaborative Dispute Resolutions,Psychologist,Dr Neil S Grossman,Marriage Marital HealthNeil S. Grossman, Ph.D., ABPP talks about how couples can maintain marital health.  Do you know the 4 reasons why marriages fail? Criticism [attacks on a spoThe Collaborative Divorce: Divorce "Hot Topics" in the News http://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/10/20/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/10/20/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/10/20/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxThu, 20 Oct 2011 22:00:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: Divorce "Hot Topics" in the News   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   Today's guest speaker: Neil Cahn, Esq. A graduate of Yale College and a Law Review graduate of the Hofstra University School of Law, Mr. Cahn is a revision author of New York Civil Practice, Matrimonial Actions. He has written and lectured for various bar associations and professional organizations, and other lay groups. He is a member of the Family Law Committees of the American, State, and County Bar Associations; the Dispute Resolution subcommittee of the State Bar Association, and the Commercial Litigation Committee of the Nassau County Bar Association.   Speakers are members of Collaborative Dispute Resolutions on Long Island, NY. www.CDRLI.com.   Music by J.C. Revue. www.jcrevue.com 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoCollaborative Divorce,Collaborative Dispute Resolutions,Attorney,Divorce in the News,Financial SpecialistThe Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, noThe Collaborative Divorce: Divorce-Induced Crazy Feelings http://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/10/13/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/10/13/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/10/13/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxThu, 13 Oct 2011 12:00:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: Divorce-Induced Crazy Feelings Neil S. Grossman, Ph.D. discusses recovery from divorce-induced crazy feelings. "It has been said that divorce makes sane people act crazy. This is because the dynamics or pressures of a divorce push normal emotions to the extreme. A divorce is expected to create feelings of separation and loss in people."   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   Speakers are members of Collaborative Dispute Resolutions on Long Island, NY. www.CDRLI.com. '   Dr. Grossman is a family specialist board-certified in Family Psychology, ABPP and trained in divorce mediation and collaborative law. He is a founding member and former co-chair of the Parenting Coordinator Association of New York.   Music by J.C. Revue. www.jcrevue.com 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoCollaborative Divorce,Collaborative Dispute Resolutions,Emotions Adversarial,Family Coach,Divorce PressuresNeil S. Grossman, Ph.D. discusses recovery from divorce-induced crazy feelings. "It has been said that divorce makes sane people act crazy. This is because theThe Collaborative Divorce: Your Children & The Law Guardianhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/10/06/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/10/06/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/10/06/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxThu, 06 Oct 2011 22:30:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: Your Children & The Law GuardianAre you a parent who is thinking about – or already getting – a divorce? If so, you may have heard the term “law guardian” and wondered what it means. A law guardian is a court-appointed attorney whose role is to be an advocate for, and represent the voice of the children in any custodial or visitation dispute between parents.     According to Latonia Early-Hubelbank, Esq., "The law guardian is human and, often times, will develop a liking or disliking for one of the parties. This, in turn, influences the position they present to the court and how they present it."     The Collaborative Divorce Show features the legal, financial and mental health professional members of Collaborative Dispute Resolions. They are trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome. Visit www.CDRLI.com.   Music by J.C. Revue. www.jcrevue.com 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoCollaborative Divorce,Children in Divorce,Latonia Early-Hubelbank Esq,Litigation Non-adversarial,Law Guardian AdvocateAre you a parent who is thinking about – or already getting – a divorce? If so, you may have heard the term “law guardian” and wondered what it means. A law guaThe Collaborative Divorce: Design Your Own Divorcehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/09/23/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/09/23/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/09/23/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFri, 23 Sep 2011 12:00:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: Design Your Own Divorce   According to  attorney Harriette M. Steinberg, "You can literally design your own divorce today, just like the world’s best-known celebrities do. Yes! Beyond selecting high-profile attorneys, the stars can time the day and place of their announcement, decide which favored tabloids win the scoop, and more – all orchestrated for the most lucrative impact on their star power."   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   Music by J.C. Revue. 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoHarriette M Steinberg Esq,The Collaborative Divorce,Design Your Divorce,Celebrity Divorce,Matrimonial and Family Law PracticeAccording to  attorney Harriette M. Steinberg, "You can literally design your own divorce today, just like the world’s best-known celebrities do. Yes! BeyondThe Collaborative Divorce: The Grey Divorce - Later in Lifehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/09/09/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/09/09/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/09/09/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFri, 09 Sep 2011 12:00:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: The Grey Divorce - Later in LifeHarriette M. Steinberg, Esq. says, "Baby Boomers are ending their marriages later in life than other age groups, according to The Association of Divorce Financial Planning (ADFP). For proof, we need only look to D.C., Hollywood and New York for a bevy of boomers whose marriages hit the rocks decades after their hopeful 'I do’s'. These include Former US Vice President Al Gore and wife Tipper, and former New York City mayor and first lady Rudy Giuliani and Donna Hanover."     The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   In addition to her private law practice, Harriette M. Steinberg is an active member of the New York Association of Collaborative Professionals and the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals.   Music by J.C. Revue. www.jcrevue.com 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoHarriette M Steinberg Esq,The Collaborative Divorce,Collaborative Dispute Resolutions,Baby Boomers,Matrimonial Law PracticeHarriette M. Steinberg, Esq. says, "Baby Boomers are ending their marriages later in life than other age groups, according to The Association of Divorce FinanciThe Collaborative Divorce: Helping Children Survive Divorcehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/08/25/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/08/25/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/08/25/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxThu, 25 Aug 2011 12:00:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: Helping Children Survive Divorce   According to Neil Grossman, Ph.D., "Most parents are concerned about how a divorce will affect their children. Current research indicates that the end of a marital relationship creates stress in families – from the parents' own stress and reduced parenting capacity to impending family relocation and potential economic instability. The good news is that most of these only impact the children temporarily."   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.    In addition to his private practice as a family therapist, Dr. Grossman is trained in divorce mediation and collaborative divorce. He helped bring the first parenting coordination program to NY State, and is a founding member and former co-chair of the Parenting Coordinator Association of New York. He has presented workshops locally and nationally, and written articles for the professional literature.   Music by J.C. Revue. www.jcrevue.com 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoNeil Grossman PhD,The Collaborative Divorce,Post-divorce,Family Therapist,Divorce MediationAccording to Neil Grossman, Ph.D., "Most parents are concerned about how a divorce will affect their children. Current research indicates that the end of a mThe Collaborative Divorce: She Said, He Said Communicationshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/08/11/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/08/11/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/08/11/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxThu, 11 Aug 2011 22:00:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: She Said, He Said CommunicationsRoxane Polak, Ph.D. answers questions about what really happens in the Collaborative Divorce setting. "How is this approach different from going to couple’s therapy?". "How can I ensure my spouse doesn't verbally insult or abuse me in the Collaborative Divorce meetings?". "Why do we need a Neutral Family Specialist?" "Why can't my attorney help me with divorce communications?"   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   Dr. Roxane Polak holds a Ph.D. from Hofstra University in Clinical and School Psychology and an M.Ed. from Columbia University in Counseling Psychology. A licensed full-time practitioner since 1983, she has particular expertise in the areas of interpersonal relationships, marital and divorce counseling, parenting, and communication skills, and is trained as a Family Coach Specialist, Child Specialist, and Parent Coordinator and Mediator.   Music by J.C. Revue. 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoRoxane Polak PhD,The Collaborative Divorce,Divorce Communications,Mediation,Family Coach SpecialistRoxane Polak, Ph.D. answers questions about what really happens in the Collaborative Divorce setting. "How is this approach different from going to couple’s theThe Tax Return: Never Overlook Its Importance in Divorcehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/08/04/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/08/04/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/08/04/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxThu, 04 Aug 2011 22:30:00 GMTThe Tax Return: Never Overlook Its Importance in DivorceAccording to Nancy Kaye, CDFA, CFP, "The tax return presents a useful view of a year in time of the family’s finances. In the Collaborative Divorce process, the attorney for one of the divorcing parties and/or a Neutral Financial Specialist often request three years of tax returns to take a financial look at the family."   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   A Certified Financial Planner™ Practioner and Investment Advisor Representative, Nancy Kaye holds an MBA degree from New York University. Her CDFA license was issued from The Institute For Divorce Financial Analysts. She is a member of the Institute of Certified Divorce Financial Analysts and the NYAssociation of Collaborative Professionals.   Music by J.C. Revue – www.JCRevue.com. 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoNancy Kaye CDFA CFP,The Collaborative Divorce,Tax Returns,Financial Neutral Accountant Planner,Family FinancialsAccording to Nancy Kaye, CDFA, CFP, "The tax return presents a useful view of a year in time of the family’s finances. In the Collaborative Divorce process, theParallel Lives & Divorce Realities: Your Day In Court?http://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/07/28/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/07/28/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/07/28/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxThu, 28 Jul 2011 21:30:00 GMTParallel Lives & Divorce Realities: Your Day In Court?   Imagine this, ladies. You were happily married for 20 years to your childhood sweetheart. You ran a successful business together, built a home, raised two children. When you discovered he has another wife, and other children out of state, you filed for divorce to protect your children.   Latonia Early-Hubelbank, Esq, asks, "But did you ever think that the husband who spends 70% of his time traveling for work, and 100% of his time lying to you, would have the nerve to ask the court for sole legal custody of your kids?" Think again.     The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in a non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   Ms. Early-Hubelbank holds degrees from Princeton University and Hofstra Law School. She has served on the boards of the Nassau County Women’s Bar Association, Suffolk County Coalition Against Domestic Violence, Nassau County Girl Scouts and Five Towns College.   Music by J.C. Revue. 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoLatonia Early-Hubelbank Esq,The Collaborative Divorce,Matrimonial and Family Law Practice,Suffolk County Coalition Against Domestic Violence,Your Day In CourtImagine this, ladies. You were happily married for 20 years to your childhood sweetheart. You ran a successful business together, built a home, raised two chGrey Prenuptials: Second, or later-life marriages challengeshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/07/22/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/07/22/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/07/22/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFri, 22 Jul 2011 12:30:00 GMTGrey Prenuptials: Second, or later-life marriages challenges   According to Harriette M. Steinberg, Esq., "The number of second or later-life “grey marriages” – where both spouses are baby boomers or older – is growing each year. These unions are typically entered into with great optimism, hoping for a new opportunity to “walk off into the sunset together. Senior longevity is also dramatically increasing."   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   For the past decade, Ms. Steinberg has studied alternate forms of dispute resolution and opened her practice to collaborative divorce and family law matters.  To support her work in this emerging field, she has joined the Board of the New York Association of Collaborative Professionals and is a member of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals.   Music by J.C. Revue. 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoHarriette M Steinberg Esq,The Collaborative Divorce,Baby Boomers Pre-Nups,Grey Marriages,Matrimonial and Family Law PracticeAccording to Harriette M. Steinberg, Esq., "The number of second or later-life “grey marriages” – where both spouses are baby boomers or older – is growing eLitigation vs. Collaborative Divorce: The Timetable http://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/07/14/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/07/14/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/07/14/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxThu, 14 Jul 2011 22:00:00 GMTLitigation vs. Collaborative Divorce: The Timetable   Neil Cahn, Esq., discusses divorce timing. "Ask your friends - the ones who have gone through a litigated divorce - how it feels to take time off work or from errands to go to court." Then ask someone who went through  collaborative divorce about the difference in timing.   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental heath professionals who are trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   A Yale College and Hofstra University Law School graduate who has practiced law on Long Island for 36 years, Mr. Cahn is certified in the Collaborative Divorce process by the International Association of Collaborative Professionals.    Music by J.C. Revue. 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoNeil Cahn Esq,The Collaborative Divorce,Divorce,Litigation,Matrimonial and Family Law PracticeNeil Cahn, Esq., discusses divorce timing. "Ask your friends - the ones who have gone through a litigated divorce - how it feels to take time off work or froThe Collaborative Divorce: A Fair Resolution In Less Timehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/06/30/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/06/30/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/06/30/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxThu, 30 Jun 2011 22:30:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: A Fair Resolution In Less Time   The first question attorney Lloyd M. Friedland, Esq., is often asked by a prospective divorce client is, “How long will this take?” His typical reply: “It depends.”   It is extremely difficult to predict how long a traditional litigated divorce case will take, due to many unknown factors. Today, we'll look at the much more predictable Collaborative Divorce.   The Collaborative Divorce Show features the legal, financial and mental health professionals at Collaborative Dispute Resolutions, who are trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   In addition to his traditional matrimonial and family law practice, Lloyd Friedland is an active member of the New York Association of Collaborative Professionals and the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals.   Music by Jill "JC" Wasserman [JCRevue.com]. 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoLloyd M Friedland Esq,The Collaborative Divorce,Post-divorce,Litigation,Matrimonial and Family Law PracticeThe first question attorney Lloyd M. Friedland, Esq., is often asked by a prospective divorce client is, “How long will this take?” His typical reply: “It deThe Collaborative Divorce: After The Romance Is Overhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/06/21/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/06/21/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/06/21/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxTue, 21 Jun 2011 12:30:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: After The Romance Is Over   According to Neil S. Grossman, Ph.D., ABPP, "When couples falls in love and marry, they expect it to be forever. However, far too many marriages end in divorce and children become collateral damage in a divorce war. But, although divorce causes stress and prompts painful emotions, it does not have to mean the end of the family."   The Collaborative Divorce Show features the legal, financial and mental health professionals at Collaborative Dispute Resolutions, who are trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge. The goal: a mutually agreeable outcome.   Dr. Grossman is a family specialist board-certified in Family Psychology, ABPP and trained in divorce mediation and collaborative law. He helped bring the first parenting coordination program to New York State and is a founding member and former co-chair of the Parenting Coordinator Association of New York   Music by Jill "J.C." Wasserman – www.JCrevue.com 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoNeil S Grossman PhD ABPP,The Collaborative Divorce,Family Specialist,Parenting Coordinator Association of NY,Collaborative Dispute ResolutionsAccording to Neil S. Grossman, Ph.D., ABPP, "When couples falls in love and marry, they expect it to be forever. However, far too many marriages end in divorThe Collaborative Divorce: Non-Adversarial Resolutionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/06/16/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/06/16/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/06/16/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxThu, 16 Jun 2011 12:30:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: Non-Adversarial ResolutionHarry Grabarz, Ph.D., discusses how Collaborative Divorce enables couples to resolve conflict without being adversarial.   "After years of trying to make the relationship work,  it's time to move on. You've had enough yelling, screaming and feeling invisible.  You try to recall when it felt good to be together.  Those memories seem to be fading more each day.  Love and devotion have been replaced with anger and pain."   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   Dr. Grabarz is a trained family specialist / coach, child specialist in Collaborative Divorce, mediator and a trained Parent Coordinator. He has served as a court-appointed neutral evaluator in Supreme Court custody cases.    Music : Jill JC Wasserman – .JCRevue.com 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoHarry Grabarz PhD,The Collaborative Divorce,Neutral Family Specialist,Non-Adversarial,Licensed PsychologistHarry Grabarz, Ph.D., discusses how Collaborative Divorce enables couples to resolve conflict without being adversarial.   "After years of trying to make thThe Collaborative Divorce: Sue & John's Divorce Case Studyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/06/09/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/06/09/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/06/09/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxThu, 09 Jun 2011 22:00:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: Sue & John's Divorce Case Study   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   Roxane Polak, Ph.D., is a licensed psychologist with post-doctoral training as a Collaborative Specialist (Family Specialist and Child Specialist), Parent Coordinator, and Mediator. In addition to private practice, she teaches an interdisciplinary course in collaborative family law at Hofstra University Law School. Today she presents another case study: Sue & John's Collaborative Divorce.   "When you married, you thought it would be for life. But no matter how hard you’ve tried, your incompatibilities could not be bridged. Now that the decision to divorce has been made, how you go about it becomes crucially important."   Theme music by Jill "JC" Wasserman - www.JCRevue.com 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoCollaborative Divorce,Roxane Polak PhD,Collaborative Dispute Resolutions,Family Specialist Neutral Coach,PsychologistThe Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, noThe Collaborative Divorce: Couples Ask "Who Gets The Money?"http://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/06/02/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/06/02/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/06/02/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxThu, 02 Jun 2011 22:30:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: Couples Ask "Who Gets The Money?"   Nancy Kaye, CDFA, discusses "Divorcing Husbands & Wives Ask: Who Gets the Money?"  The Collaborative Divorce features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.    Nancy Kaye, CDFA, is a Certified Financial Planner™ Practioner and Investment Advisor Representative. She holds the Certified Divorce Financial Analyst designation and is a member of the New York Association of Collaborative Professionals   Ms. Kaye has been trained in the Collaborative Divorce process and works with individuals and couples to reach workable solutions for the dissolution of marital assets.   Music by Jill Wasserman: www.JCRevue.com00:30:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoNancy Kaye CDFA,The Collaborative Divorce,Divorcing Husbands and Wives,Certified Financial Planner,Who gets the moneyNancy Kaye, CDFA, discusses "Divorcing Husbands & Wives Ask: Who Gets the Money?"  The Collaborative Divorce features legal, financial and mental health prThe Collaborative Divorce: Family Court-Not About The Familyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/05/26/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/05/26/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/05/26/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxThu, 26 May 2011 16:30:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: Family Court-Not About The Family   Latonia Early-Hubelbank, Esq. says, "I often prepare clients for their introduction to the Family Court by telling them it is 'the people's court.' This means it is designed to be 'user friendly' and expedite the administration of justice for those without legal counsel. But the very design of the Family Court process often results in tremendous delay due to four factors."   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   Ms. Early-Hubelbank is a family law attorney who graduated from Princeton University in 1989, and Hofstra Law School in 1992. She has served on the boards of many Nassau County groups.   Music by J.C. Revue. 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoLatonia Early-Hubelbank Esq,The Collaborative Divorce,Family Court,Litigation,Matrimonial and Family Law PracticeLatonia Early-Hubelbank, Esq. says, "I often prepare clients for their introduction to the Family Court by telling them it is 'the people's court.' This meanThe Collaborative Divorce: How NYS Child Support Is Computedhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/05/19/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/05/19/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/05/19/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxThu, 19 May 2011 12:00:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: How NYS Child Support Is Computed   Guest speaker Charles J. McEvily, Esq. talks dollars and cents about child support in New York State.   "Basic Child Support in NY is calculated by a complex statutory formula that must be explained by your attorney. In essence, the non-custodial or non-residential parent (“payor”) must pay the custodial or residential parent (“payee”) a percentage ofincome.      The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   Mr. McEvily is a veteran matrimonial attorney who taught family law as the director of litigation clinics at Hofstra University Law School. He was selected for inclusion in "SuperLawyers" [top 5% in the NY Metro area] since 2007 and for the 2009 edition of the Best Lawyers in America.   Music by J.C. Revue. 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoCharles,The Collaborative Divorce,Child Support in New York State,Litigation,Matrimonial Law PracticeGuest speaker Charles J. McEvily, Esq. talks dollars and cents about child support in New York State.   "Basic Child Support in NY is calculated by a complThe Collaborative Divorce: Creative Thinking Outside the Boxhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/05/12/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/05/12/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-box/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/05/12/the-collaborative-divorce-creative-thinking-outside-the-boxThu, 12 May 2011 22:30:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce: Creative Thinking Outside the Box   According to Lloyd M. Friedland, Esq., "Without proper planning and coordination, the results of a divorce may create more issues post-divorce than the parties experienced during their marriage. Choosing the Collaborative Divorce process enables the parties to work in concert to avoid a life-altering negative outcome…to be creative in solving their issues and, therefore, more in control of their future."   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   In addition to his traditional matrimonial and family law practice, Lloyd Friedland is an active member of the New York Association of Collaborative Professionals and the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals.   Music by J.C. Revue. 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoLloyd M Friedland Esq,The Collaborative Divorce,Post-divorce,Litigation,Matrimonial and Family Law PracticeAccording to Lloyd M. Friedland, Esq., "Without proper planning and coordination, the results of a divorce may create more issues post-divorce than the partiThe Collaborative Divorce – Neutral Family Specialisthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/05/05/the-collaborative-divorce-neutral-family-specialist-roleFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/05/05/the-collaborative-divorce-neutral-family-specialist-role/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/05/05/the-collaborative-divorce-neutral-family-specialist-roleThu, 05 May 2011 12:30:00 GMTThe Collaborative Divorce – Neutral Family SpecialistHarry Grabarz, Ph.D., discusses how the Neutral Family Specialist keeps an eye on the whole family in the Collaborative Divorce process.   "Divorce is a trying time for any family.  Difficult decisions need to be made.  Painful feelings are unleashed and need to be addressed. The decision to end a marriage does not mean that the family has ended."   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   Dr. Grabarz is a trained family specialist / coach and a child specialist in Collaborative Divorce.  He has served as a Court-appointed neutral evaluator in Supreme Court custody cases.  He is also a trained Mediator and a trained Parent Coordinator.   Music by J.C. Revue. 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoHarry Grabarz PhD,Collaborative Divorce,Neutral Family Specialist,Parent Coordinator,Custody CaseHarry Grabarz, Ph.D., discusses how the Neutral Family Specialist keeps an eye on the whole family in the Collaborative Divorce process.   "Divorce is a tryingPrivacy & Divorce: What Happens in Vegas Should Stay There!http://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/04/28/privacy-divorceFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/04/28/privacy-divorce/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/04/28/privacy-divorceThu, 28 Apr 2011 23:00:00 GMTPrivacy & Divorce: What Happens in Vegas Should Stay There!Neil Cahn, Esq., discusses the role of privacy in the Collaborative Divorce process. "The value of privacy is not limited to 'cash businesses' or 'off-the-books' earnings. There are, perhaps, as many 'none-of-your-business' categories as there are divorces."   The Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   A Yale College and Hofstra University Law School graduate who has practiced law on Long Island for 36 years, Mr. Cahn is certified in the Collaborative Divorce process by the International Association of Collaborative Professionals. He is also a charter member of Collaborative Dispute Resolutions, a NY interdisciplinary professional group that promotes settlement of conflicts using the Collaborative process. His practice is concentrated in divorce and other family law matters.   Music by J.C. Revue. 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoThe Collaborative Divorce,Neil Cahn Esq,Las Vegas,Privacy,Attorney Family LawNeil Cahn, Esq., discusses the role of privacy in the Collaborative Divorce process. "The value of privacy is not limited to 'cash businesses' or 'off-the-booksYour Financial Future: Top 5 Steps BEFORE Starting A Divorcehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/04/21/your-financial-future-top-5-steps-before-starting-a-divorceFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/04/21/your-financial-future-top-5-steps-before-starting-a-divorce/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/04/21/your-financial-future-top-5-steps-before-starting-a-divorceThu, 21 Apr 2011 23:00:00 GMTYour Financial Future: Top 5 Steps BEFORE Starting A Divorce    Nancy Kaye, CDFA, discusses "Your Financial Future: Top 5 Steps Before Starting A Divorce". The Collaborative Divorce features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   Nancy Kaye, CDFA, is a Certified Financial Planner™ Practioner and Investment Advisor Representative. She holds the Certified Divorce Financial Analyst designation.   Ms. Kaye has been trained in the Collaborative Divorce process and works with individual and/or couples to help navigate and reach workable solutions for the dissolution of marital assets. She is a member of the New York Association of Collaborative Professionals.   Music by J.C. Revue. 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoCollaborative Divorce,Nancy Kaye CDFA,Certified Financial Planner,New York Association of Collaborative Professionals,Non-adversarial DivorceNancy Kaye, CDFA, discusses "Your Financial Future: Top 5 Steps Before Starting A Divorce". The Collaborative Divorce features legal, financial and mental hChild Specialist's Role in Collaborative Divorce: Case Studyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/04/14/psychologist-case-study-sue-johns-collaborative-divorceFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/04/14/psychologist-case-study-sue-johns-collaborative-divorce/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/04/14/psychologist-case-study-sue-johns-collaborative-divorceThu, 14 Apr 2011 16:30:00 GMTChild Specialist's Role in Collaborative Divorce: Case StudyThe Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome.   Roxane Polak, Ph.D., is a licensed psychologist with post-doctoral training as a Collaborative Specialist (Family Specialist and Child Specialist), Parent Coordinator, and Mediator. In addition to private practice, she teaches an interdisciplinary course in collaborative family law at Hofstra University Law School.    "When you married, you thought it would be for life. But no matter how hard you’ve tried, your incompatibilities could not be bridged. Now that the decision to divorce has been made, how you go about it becomes crucially important."   The best way to explain how Collaborative Divorce works is to share a real case study. Theme music by J.C. Revue. 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoCollaborative Divorce,Roxane Polak PhD,Collaborative Dispute Resolutions,Long Island New York,PsychologistThe Collaborative Divorce Show features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-aSelecting Your Divorce Attorney by $$$ Makes No Sense!http://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/04/07/he-collaborative-divorce--introducing-harriette-m-steinbrg-esqFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/04/07/he-collaborative-divorce--introducing-harriette-m-steinbrg-esq/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/thecollaborativedivorce/2011/04/07/he-collaborative-divorce--introducing-harriette-m-steinbrg-esqThu, 07 Apr 2011 23:00:00 GMTSelecting Your Divorce Attorney by $$$ Makes No Sense!The Collaborative Divorce on BTR features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non-adversarial manner, without litigation or a judge, for a mutually agreeable outcome. We address the current and long-term legal, financial and emotional needs and goals of both divorcing parties. Callers welcome. Harriette M. Steinberg, Esq., a founding member of Collaborative Dispute Resolutions, discusses attorney fees in a divorce. "It is only natural for anyone contemplating a divorce to ask, 'What legal fees can I expect?' The answer is not simply a matter of dollars and cents. It depends not only on the attorney you hire, but also on your basis for selecting the attorney and both divorcing parties’ readiness to negotiate sincerely. "I'll put this right on the line. When your sole motivating factor for selecting a divorce attorney is your wallet, you're making a mistake." Theme music by "J.C. Revue". 00:31:00TheCollaborativeDivorcenoCollaborative Divorce,Harriette M Steinberg Esq,Collaborative Dispute Resolutions,Long Island New York,Non-Litigation DivorceThe Collaborative Divorce on BTR features legal, financial and mental health professionals trained to help couples and families resolve disputes in an open, non