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Why Have Some Women Graciously Accepted the Role "Side Chick"?

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The Approach with the 3Kings

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I’ll offer you the benefit of the doubt that when you were emotionally in too deep when you discovered he had a lady, that he didn’t tell you about upfront The large red flag  was waving in the wind, but you didn’t want to see it, or maybe you thought you could change him. I get it. I do, but it is what it is and you can’t change him. You can however change your status. being the single chick trumps being the side chick any day.


We live in a society where men having a side chick a.k.a mistress happens way too much. To some men having a woman without a side chick is like having a meal without a drink. Not good in my personal opinion, but there are plenty of women who go along with this dynamic. Sometimes it’s the part they choose to play and other times it is given to them and they try to deal with it. So why is it that some particular women find themselves as just his side chick and not the main woman in his life? Well let’s take a look at some reasons why she may choose or be chosen for this role.

  1. Because She Allows It

  2. Side Chick Benefits

  3. She Fears A Real Relationship

  4. She Only Offers Good Looks & Sex 

  5. She Gets A High From Dealing With Another Woman’s Man

  6. He Can’t Bring Her Home To His Mother 

  7. She Doesn’t Value Herself As More Than A Side Chick