Tech Talking Religion...Real Man trying to discover who's real and who's not

Even women of professed faith in an entity that structured the heavens and the Earth seem to have a standardized "feminized code" that defines a "real man" A "real man" would do this, and a "real man" would do that...the problem is that said men in question are, seemingly, having their masculinity designed and defined by a woman.

 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. (Eph 5:22-23) 

A wife of noble character who can find
    She is worth far more than rubies.
11 Her husband has full confidence in her
    and lacks nothing of value.
12 She brings him good, not harm,
    all the days of her life. (Proverbs 31)

The bible itself talks enough about the relations between a man and a woman to help us make some [biblical] sense of it all. What is a "real man?" According to who? There's a dire need for the sexes to have an [mutually] informed understanding of this matter. Today we'll take a look at just that.