Wednesday, June 17, 2009 2:38:18 PM When is it the right time to finally say enough is enough? Being in college for my first year has giving me a lot of thought about finally stepping out of the place as a child and finally becoming an adult. Recently I've noticed however that the more I've tried to grow up the more my parents (my dad) clings to me. But yet it's in such a strange way. It's like he never wants me around. The sight of me sickens him or pisses him off and all I've done is walk in the room. We constantly bump heads and I've become so fed up with everything that we go through. He throws tantrums like a 2 year old and I'm expected to continue to follow his every whim all because he's mad about something that he won't say. I don't know how much longer I can hold out staying here during the holidays. Recently I've begun my search for an apartment close to my University. I already have my housing for this year but I'm still able to change it. I still have time to undergo getting my own place...the only down side is that I don't know how I would go about telling my parents. On top of that I still have to find a job out there and unfortunately it isn't guaranteed that I will find one right away. I know that I'll have to think a little bit more on this but I think that my mind is made up...I've finally had enough...