Tuesday, June 16, 2009 3:43:46 PM I find the male race to be so interesting. It's like they're made for you and yet they all seem to be so charmingly dysfunctional. I just find it so difficult to understand why it is that when you become involved with some one, it usually (not all the time) is the guy that seems to have the emotional dysfunction. A woman will pour her heart out hoping for the same response only to receive the very opposite of what she hoped for. Rejected and broken the woman crawls away with what little dignity she has left and rebuilds herself to be stronger. Then months, maybe even years, go by and for some reason the light bulb over the man's head finally goes off! When this epiphany is revealed they rush back to the woman that they just realized they really cared about expecting for her to drop everything that she's done with in the gap of time and go running into his arms because he's finally seen the light of day and now everything is right again. Of course it's a complete bubble buster when the woman looks at the man like he's completely lost it and says "No". And now for some reason the woman is the one who is crazy for not jumping right back into the swing of things with this man that waited just a little too late. It's just so amazing to me....what is it that goes through a mans head that makes him think that everything can just go back to the way it was? It just seems so fascinating that a man doesn't take into account the time that has passed. Maybe the woman has finally moved on to a new man? Or maybe she's become more focused on school or her career? Suddenly the woman has to choose or put things on hold to go back through all the emotional damage that has been done in order to reconsider getting back with the very man that broke her heart. And the only reason why she even considers it is because a part of her is still attached.....I don't know maybe I'm being a bit too harsh because i just can't wrap my head around the thought. What is it that makes a man finally realize? What is it?!