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    Christmas with Zaiyah and Uptown

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    So what you've been naughty and only got a lump of coal. Theres know need to worry about spending another boring Christmas with family and friends, Watching boring sporting events and Grinch re-runs when you can spend this Christmas with Zaiyah and Uptown, sharing yule tide cheer and dirty jokes.
    Join the Debonair Duo and share your Christmas experience with the Zaiyahs House Family.

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    Are you Sally Shareaman?

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    Are you Sally Shareaman? you know Sally Share-a-man? are you sharing your man , or are you sharing someone else's guy? Great sex is at a premium and women can tell if your man has sexual awareness. would you get rid of a great sex partner for a few indiscretions? Just because he slept with you best friend doesn't mean he doesn't love you.... he's just confused!

    Join Zaiyah and Uptown for the Madness that is Zaiyah's House.   

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    Internet pornography, the gateway drug of sexual addiction

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    By Rabbi Yehoshua Looks | Nov. 16, 2014 | 2:11 PM

    “The lack of sexual morality that pervades this society is all over the place, and the Orthodox community, no matter how traditional, is not immune from this, and it creates terrible problems,” Rabbi Barry Freundel said in the Washington Jewish Week. “ography and its accessibility is wrecking marriages. It’s two keystrokes away. You get on the computer, you hit the button twice and you’re there. I have not counseled a couple in any level of relationship in the last five years where ography hasn’t been an issue.”

    Freundel was quoted in this article on September 17, 2014, only weeks before he was arrested on voyeurism charges.

    Why is it that ography, particularly Internet ography, pervades modern life? Is it becoming an increasing threat to society?

    Join Zaiyah and Uptown as they discuss this and other important topics on this weeks edition of Zaiyah's House.

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    I believe in the brotherhood of man, all men, but I don't believe in brotherhood with anybody who doesn't want brotherhood with me. I believe in treating people right, but I'm not going to waste my time trying to treat somebody right who doesn't know how to return the treatment.

    Malcom X

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    Outsourcing spousal duties. Can it save your marrige?

    in Relationships

    Outsourcing duties that are usually your spouse's has been done since the beginning of time. Sexual duties, cooking and peace and quite are a few of the duties that are outsourced. Some have said outsourcing saved their relationship. is that possible?
    Join Zaiyah and Uptown as they discuss this and other important topics on this weeks edition of Zaiyah's House.

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    What are suicidal thoughts? What is suicidal ideation?

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    Excerpt from  Medical News Today.


    Suicidal thoughts, also known as suicidal ideation are thoughts about how to kill oneself, which can range from a detailed plan to a fleeting consideration and does not include the final act of killing oneself. The majority of people who experience suicidal ideation do not carry it through. Some may, however, make suicide attempts. Some suicidal ideations can be deliberately planned to fail or be discovered, while others might be carefully planned to succeed.

    According to a Finnish study, over one fifth of people who actually died by suicide had discussed their aim with a doctor or other health care professional during their last session.

    USA - according to the FDA (Food and Drug Administration), there are about 30,000 completed suicides in America each year, an annual incidence of 0.01%. 80% of suicides are among males. Suicide is the third leading cause of death among 15 to 24 year olds. Twenty per cent of all suicides are among this age group.

    Join Brother Uptown and Zaiyah as they discuss this and other important topics on this edition of Zaiyah's House.

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    Open letter to the incarcerated in relationships

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    This is an excerpt from a letter at Prisons' Wives Girlfriends and Partners


    Dear Incarcerated (in relationships),

    I spend a lot of time counseling women who have committed their lives to standing by you. These women are the very embodiment of unconditional love. I often see many women hurt, mistreated and devastated by partners whose idea of love differs from theirs. You don’t have a choice to do this time, but we do.

    Here are a few things you should know:

    You should know that we really love you. We love you with two years. We love you with life sentences. Some of us even love you with death. You should know that if a woman is willing to love you at all during a prison sentence, she is someone worth respecting and hanging on to.

    You should know it’s not game to ‘play the field’ behind bars. In fact, it’s lame and tacky. Take a look around. You ain’t ballin’. If you are using someone for comfort and commissary under the guise of love and romance, you should know it’s not kind. It takes more strength of character to tell the truth about your intentions. You may be surprised to learn that some are still willing to support you.

    You should know life goes on. To demand that she not go out and enjoy the world she is a part of is selfish. There are two lives dealing with this situation. Don’t make her a pseudo prisoner by sentencing her to house arrest.  You should know it doesn’t have to be hard time for both for you.


    Mrs. GE-6309

    Join Zaiyah And Uptown as they discuss this important topic.

  • 02:00

    Your Child Wants to Join Army: What Do You Say?

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    Port of Chicago 50: Disaster, Mutiny and the Fight for Civil Rights takes on racism in the military. Photograph: Amazon


    Posted at 11:22 AM ET, 03/11/2009

    Your Child Wants to Join Army: What Do You Say?

    By Mike McPhate

    It can be a heart-sinking moment. Your child announces a desire to join the military at a time when the U.S. is waging two wars.

    You honor the sacrifice of America's soldiers. But, as a parent, you’re selfish: Could you cope with a daily fear of the doorbell?

    In his column today, the Post’s Courtland Milloy wrestles over how he might counsel his teenage son on his desire to become a soldier. He notes the hobbled economy’s role in his feelings -- the Army offers as much as $72,900 for college, plus big help in repaying loans.

    What would you say to your child? And, how would the financial incentive factor into your thinking?

    Join Zaiyah and Uptown this Veterans Day as we this very important and personal topic.

  • 10 Reasons Not to Get a Divorce

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    Ending a marriage can not only take a toll on you emotionally, but also physically. Divorce rates are increasing across the world and the reasons range from alcoholism, physical abuse, infidelity, lack of communication, etc. In this day and age of drive-in marriages, quick divorces are no longer shocking. Several marriages end up in divorces. But there are marriages that do face ups and downs and finally make it to the other side. One has to understand, that a marriage is not a packet of instant noodles.  You cannot expect it to magically “work”. You have to work on a marriage. So if things go awry in your marriage and you’re considering a divorce, ask yourself why. Go back to the time the problems started and try to understand if there is a pattern.  Ask yourself how a divorce can help your current situation. There are several reasons to stay in a marriage and make it work.

    Join Zaiyah and Uptown as they discuss this very important topic.

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    The pressures of being Black

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    Do you find it hard being a person of color at times? Stop and frisk, Profiling, Mean Commentary on the TV the Radio and the internet? Share your stories with the Zaiyah's House Family and lets all try to find a solution to these age old problems.

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    Sex Education, how young is too young?

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    This is an excerpt from http://www.advocatesforyouth.org/parents/175?task=view

    When talking about sexuality and young people in our culture, we are much more comfortable discussing disasters (teen pregnancy, for example), disease (HIV and other STIs), and dysfunction (coercive sex, etc.). It's much easier for us to talk about what we DON'T want for our kids' sex lives than about what we DO want. In my work with parents, we ultimately get to the hope that kids:

    Will appreciate their own bodies
    Will express love and intimacy in appropriate ways
    Will enjoy sexual feelings without necessarily acting on them
    Will practice health prevention, such as regular checkups and breast or testicular self-exams
    When they are mature enough to act on their feelings, will talk with a partner about sexual activity before it occurs, including sexual limits (theirs and their partner's), contraceptive and condom use, and the meaning of the relationship and of relationships, in general.

    These things are included in the longer list of behaviors of sexually healthy people, compiled by professionals who work in sexuality and human development. The reality is that, as parents, we want our kids to have good sex lives when they grow up—and, sometimes, better sex lives than we have had. The dilemma is finding strategies to support healthy sexual development when there is so little helpful, public discussion about the positive aspects of sexual life.

    Join Zaiyah and Uptown as they discuss this and other important topics on this weeks episode.

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