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  • 01:02

    Divorce Court... Judge Lynn's Rant. The Definition of A Man Today.

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    We're discussing Divorce Court's Judge Lynn's powerful message tonight on Taboo Talks. Take a listen in with us and call in with your thoughts tonight if you like. 

    First women were blaming the men. Now its all about the men blaming the women for laying down with dead beat men... So who's talking to the deadbeat men and holding them accountable as well? 

    Is there nothing to say to those men who also are helping to break up the family dynamic? Is it fine to say that men can be weaker sexually and it therefore justify only blaming the women and never blasting the men who are supposed to take the lead?




  • 01:05

    Understanding Bisexuality and Homosexuality. Sexual Sin Series !

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    If your human, im sure youve noticed the drastic changes concerning sexuality in the last 10 years. Is it ok for 2 women to hook up and not acceotable if its 2 men? How did this become so glamorous? Does The Most High warn us to refraion from sexual perversion for a good reason? Or is he just selfish and doesnt want us to have fun? Are people really born that way? Is it not a big deal? Would you teach your kids to be open about who or what theyre attracted to during the Sex Talk? Would you be concerned if you caught your boy kissing another boy more than catching him kissing a girl? Why are the "powers that be" pushing this in our faces so aggresively? These are questions I get often. Join us as we unravel the mystery behind why evil has introduced something considered an abomination by Yaweh. Ill also share my own testimony. Dont miss this one; Im sure it'll be a bang. Airing live at 10pm central, call will be taken during the show.

  • 01:43

    The Unveiling of the Desperate Black Mother "Post Baltimore"

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    A look into the dynamic of the single black mother Post Baltimore. Has Baltimore revealed the failures of single parent homes? Or did it just invite more misconceptions from outsiders? If police knew black boys had caring fathers in the home, would they behave in such a volatile  manner? Join us tonight at 10pm central. Callers will be accepted to share their views.

  • 01:09

    A Look Into Baltimore Unfolded

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    The events that have unfolded in Baltimore helps us to look at our behaviors, mentalities, levels of accountability, double standards, strengths and weaknesses as a whole society and  individual race.

    We'll be discussing Marilyn Mosby, her husband, Nick Mosby, professional protestors, Toya Graham, the youth presence vs the adult presence and what this possibly implies...

    We question where our impact as adults have fallen onto the teenagers. Have we given them more secular hip hop culture & mentality or have we passed down wisdom for tomorrow? Have we shown them how to impact their neighborhood wisely? Or how to be the next narcissist who will step on whoever to get their point across and how to look "like a boss". How important a role has the lack of education and infrastructure played in urban areas? What are some positive events/protests that have unfolded in Baltimore and what do you believe led up to the commotion? IS Toya Graham (the mother who slapped her son), a symbol of the desperation within the black community? She has multiple children supposedly by different dads and is doing her best. But is the best from the single mother still losing?

    Lets talk..

  • 01:15

    Fornication: Sexual Sins Series Part 3

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    Many christians among others dont want to look at fornication as sin. Just like many homosexuals don't view homosexuality as sin. People flip the meanings of fornication to justify sex before marriage. People justify sex according to their feelings and the social climate we're in today. Some feel the bible isnt clear on the topic. Others believe its quite clear while others are a bit confused on the topic because of all the sex that was being had in the Old Testament. But whats the end result of it all? What's the end result we see today from sex before marriage? Many cultures practice various sex/marriage traditions but whats the overall view of sex before marriage? How is the woman viewed? How has premarital sex (and the other things that come with it) affected our societies? 1 corinthians 6:18-20

    We're having a friend on the air tonight, web programmer, Fred Fields to bring a spiritual and virtual aspect of what aids in the influence of fornication and we are honored to have Essex J from the Essex J Project on the air tonight with us continuing from last week dropping more knowledge! 

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  • 01:04

    Part 4 of Narcissism Series (Final)

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    Final topics on narcissism tonight:

    The transgender narcissist, how to address our narcissistic youth today & tomorrow - is there a way to prevent their enablement within the family dynamic and social circles, narcissistic parents and the undercover narcissist (the co-dependent narc) who prefers to be with narcissistic people.

    We want people aware of the depths of narcissistic behaviors because we believe that awareness of these traits empower people to understand how to prevent becoming enablers and victims. In turn we hope people's awareness of narcissistic traits (which we all practice in some form), create a conscious accountability for productive change and possibly early intervention for the narcissist. 

    1 Corinthians 13:4-7New International Version (NIV)


    4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

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  • 01:11

    The Reasons Why Wives SHOULD Have Sex With Their Husbands

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    Ok. STOP THE PRESSES! We women hear it all the time. We have given EVERY excuse as to why we think we SHOULDNT give the husbands sex. We all have the married girlfriends and male friends who struggle with this issue and I, Essence, have been married myself and have been there.

    This has been a MAJOR issue and sometimes deal breaker in marriages!

    And why is it SOOOO easy to give up sex when you aren't married to the man who hasn't honored you with the legal covenant??? Oh but it's an issue for someonce that ring is on? Yes, we're going to talk about it.

    We are addressing this serious topic Sunday night per listeners request. As always we will be on at 10p cst on Taboo Talks. Get your cocoa, candy, anointing oil and chips and get ready to listen in. Feel free to call in and be sure to share this convo with others! 

  • 01:12

    Part 2 What is a Narcissist? How to Spot a Narcissist. Are you a Narcissist?

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    Dr. David Hawkins MBA, MSW, MA, PhD, author of "Never Fight Again, Guaranteed", and Director at Marriage Recovery Center who specialized in narcissistic personality disorder, will be on tonight with us as we continue our discussion on Narcissitic Personality Disorder, traits and the npd spectrum. We will share examples to better identify narcissism in ones self and others although no on can diagnose unless one is trained in this area. NPD is not common, however its traits are and can still be quite destructive in relationships. It affects men and women and there IS hope for the narcissist to change. Dr David will give helpful tips for those who have been hurt by the "narcissist". 

    Do you often feel your mate is in the marriage or relationship by his or her own self? Are you drained from your relationship or feel youre constantly fighting or speaking to brick walls? Has your mate gone from you admiring him or her to questioning whether or not theyre actually evil and highly sinful? What is narcissistic supply? What's NVS?

    Can the narcissist really love? Did they ever really love you? And how can they really change if they cant see it or arent willing to search themselves and see theyre operating in narcissism? How do I know Im with a narcissist?

    This condition flies under the radar in many ministries, businesses and social circles because this condition is VERY RARELY pinpointed due to the lack of reproach or fear of reproach.

    This Sunday night, tune in and share with your folks if you want them aware. Please see the 9 symptoms of npd in Part 1 & 3 show descriptions. 

    For quality marital counseling or help and testing for NPD, visit Dr. David Hawkins site at marriagerecoverycenter.com for more information or call 360.490.5446 for immediate appointment.

  • 01:04

    Part 1: What is a Narcissist? How to spot a Narcissist? Are you a Narcissist?

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    Part 1 Narcissism! At what point does a narcissist become dangerous enough to need intervention? Should you marry a narcissist ? What does God have to say about this? Have you been a scapegoat? What is a narcissist's source? How to avoid the abuse?

    1. What is narcisissm and npd?  2. Is npd a real disorder? How severe is this disorder and what are its affects? 3. We want the listeners to begin recollecting and self analyzing their npd encounters as we go over the traits and signs. 4. Is it curable and how? 5. What should the women who have children or a business with them do? How to interact wisely? 6. What should the one still wanting a relationship or friendship do? What is Narcississt and its symptoms?

    In order for a person to be diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) they must meet five or more of the following symptoms:

    Has a grandiose sense of self-importance
    Is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
    Believes that he or she is “special” and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions)
    Requires excessive admiration
    Has a very strong sense of entitlement
    Is exploitative of others, e.g., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends
    Lacks empathy, e.g., is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others
    Is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her
    Regularly shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes

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  • 01:38

    Sexual Sin Series: Understanding Bisexuality and Homosexuality Part 2

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    The topic is bisexuality and homosexuality part 2 of our sexual sin series; in what ways has lesbianism affected men and gay men affect women? We ask this as our focus tonight because many believe that homosexuality and bisexuality affects no one. But how can this affect relationships and society? Will will also ask these same questions when we talk on fornication. So what affected 1. With God 2. With our families 3. With those they are in intimate relationships with. 

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  • 01:07

    You Say You Don't Want Drama Yet That's What You Fall For?!

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    We notice there are many women who talk about waiting on their "man of God" and talk about certain godly male characteristics but we rarely hear or see Christian men talking about and going after a godly woman and desiring godly traits. Many men claim to be Christian but dont go by Christian standards and get with either nonbelieving women (as men in the bible were known to do), or get with those barely saved Christian women who may provide more natural interests for them but aren't HARDLY strong in the word or Christian path. Some men even pick and marry the church-going woman but she's not spirit filled - just knows how to play church very well but has no true interest in scripture or biblical thinking - and the Christian men seem just fine with that. So which is most important to men - the natural or the spiritual? And Christian women always attract unsaved men while Christian men stay far away leaving the Christian woman thinking no Christian men are interested. We have more to discuss on this but this is a major point we will touch on for sure

    Some men complain of how they don't want women who give them drama yet that's who they seem to fall head over heels for if she's attractive enough to him in some way. Also we'll be talking on polygamy - the mans common desires to be with more than one woman at a time. And how even in the midst of much drama The Lord is still creating a set up of victory for our good and His glory! 

    We will be in Genesis taking a look at the dramatic lives of Jacob, his family and how God's glory came out of a pool of dysfunction... 

    Our lives and minds are dysfunctional without Christ because we are carnal without His Spirit taking the lead. 

    This will be an interesting discussion.

    This Sunday 10p cst

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