• 00:30

    Spiritual Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse

    in Spirituality

    After surviving two relationships with men who had strong characteristics of narcissistic personality disorder, Kaleah went on to write several E-books on the topic. In her books “Spiritual Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse” and “Narcissism the Web of Illusion,” Kaleah shares her years of accumulated experience, research and knowledge on how to cut those debilitating psychic ties with toxic partners. She is the founder of narcissismfree.com and offers spiritual guidance and support by phone to survivors all over the world. Visit her website at http://www.narcissismfree.com/

  • 00:59

    Co-dependency Checkup - Part One

    in Relationships

    Because it is nearly the end of the year, this is a great time to reflect – to see where we are, and what we have grown through this year.


    I believe a big part of that is checking in with where we are at with co-dependency. Are we still handing power over to things and people outside of ourselves, or are we more anchored into our own internal solidness?


    “What Is co-dependency?” My definition of it is this: “trying to seek wholeness and internal peace from sources outside of self, rather than establishing those states within self”.


    What this means is: we can feel empty, fragmented, afraid and powerless when things don’t go right, or life hasn’t turned out the way we wanted it to. We can get panicked and feel unsafe, and in this state we can hand our power over and make repeated choices which don’t serve us.


    Co-dependency can be very serious. It leads us further away from integration of self (authentic powerfulness) and takes us down a slippery slope of disintegration of self (powerlessness) – especially if we continue to hold people and things outside of ourselves responsible for the state of our lives.


    This radio show is a Part One deep spiritual journey into why we are co-dependent, the many ways that it manifests, and how we can shine light into our disowened parts in order to become a true Source to ourselves, rather than trying to gain false substitutes for love, worthiness and wholeness.


     


     

  • 00:37

    The Narcissist's Marriage To The False Self

    in Relationships

    This radio show is an in-depth look at why narcissists would rather be "right" than "happy", and why no-one can compete with the narcissistic versions of reality that they think.


    You will learn in this radio show how and why a narcissist is married to his or her ego.


    You will also discover the truth regarding the narcissist's behaviour according to this union with the False Self.


    The later part of this radio show is information regarding how we can escape the illusions and pain of narcissistic abuse by marrying our True Selves - and what that union looks like, and what is creates.


    To see the transcript of this show, you will see it on my blog at blog.melanietoniaevans.com.

  • 01:13

    Thriver Show #20 - Jill

    in Relationships

    This story is one of an incredibly courageous lady who suffers many debilitating auto-immune illnesses – ulcerative colitis, arthritis, fibro myalgia, migraines and Multiple Sclerosis.


    Jill suffers from extreme fatigue, and has no support with my 3 kids, and then all of this, naturally, was made so much harder as a result of the huge double-whammy of narcissistic abuse.


    Jill’s life-changing realisation was that she had been focusing on others her whole life, and that she had always been trying to be “perfect” for others. She was over-functioning as an over-achiever, as a successful business woman, and having to have a perfect home and life.


    Her life now has changed considerably as a result of finding out and focusing on her needs and what she really wants.


    In this show she talks about the shift she got out of NARP –“I am loveable for all I am ‘not’ as well as all that I am”. Jill also talks about how this led her to start enjoying the simple things in life, smiling, laughing and spending time with her kids.


    Jill’s children also started shifting as a result of their mother transforming.


    I know you will enjoy this incredible show, and it will give you hope, if you too have suffered narcissistic abuse on top of crippling health conditions.

  • 00:39

    How We Show Up

    in Relationships

    This radio show is one that investigates how we may be showing up in ways that don’t inspire life and others to support us.


    During this radio show I talk about the ways our ego can derail us, and suck us into outer delusions and illusions that keep us separated from the truth of “what is really going on.”


    I hope that this radio show will really allow you to understand the truth of how your thoughts and behaviours are generated from beliefs, and how believing it is an “outside deal” simply means handing our power away.


    Most of all I hope this radio show can assist you to midwife your breakthrough, so that you can begin showing up in authentic co-generative ways in life.

  • 00:57

    From Trapped To Freedom Part 2

    in Relationships

    During this radio show I am responding to people's posts about their trapped situations, and talking about how to generate freedom.


    I hope this show can help you know that self-liberation is possible, no matter how powerless you may feel presently.


     

  • 00:49

    From Trapped To Freedom

    in Relationships

    This radio show is all about how we can feel "trapped" by outer circumstances and our own emotions – especially after suffering narcissistic abuse.


    During this show I am sharing my life story, and how I escaped crippling emotions and severe "stuckedness" in order to expand into life as "freedom".


    I address in this show what being "trapped" really is, and how we can be truly free to expand into becoming life-force itself, and then living the life we truly wish to live

  • High Conflict Relationships

    in Relationships

    Open discussion about toxic relationships and people with personality disorders

  • 01:31

    Stop Child Abuse Now (SCAN) - 994

    in Self Help

    SPECIAL TOPIC Night - "Child Abuse, Trauma and 12-Step Recovery" - STEP 2 - SCAN host Bill Murray will be joined by special guest co-host Rivka Edery, MSW, LCSW, from NYC, author of the book “Trauma and Transformation: A 12-Step Guide." Together they will lead tonight's discussion on STEP 2: "Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity." Step Two is about asking for help, and being receptive to receiving this help. Survivors, especially, often hide their fundamental lack of trust. Operating in a superficial world, fighting for respect, and lacking in support to pursue a spiritual life, survivors press ahead in spite of their collection of battle scars. Such people find themselves greatly challenged to maintain an appearance of having it all together, and are longing to trust and to be fully expressed. Survivors are struggling with courage and determination to make their lives work, in spite of this great, gaping wound. ~~ A child abuse survivor herself, Rivka Edery is grateful for the spiritual recovery she found in the 12 Steps of AA. She's been active in the 12 Step community for over 17 years. Bill Murray credits his 30 plus years of recovery to the spiritual power of the 12 Step program, too. He founded the recently launched Adult Survivors of Child Abuse Anonymous (ASCAA). ~~ Join us every two weeks to further examine a 12 Step approach to recovery from abuse. Next show we'll address STEP 3. ~~ Please see our web page at: www.NAASCA.org/Trauma-12Step or write to Rivka at: rebecca.edery@gmail.com

  • 00:12

    Post-holiday Recovery

    in Family

    Whether it is Christmas or some other holiday that requires enormous focus, the aftermath of that holiday can wreck your home and your body.  Today begins the holiday recovery for our family, especially for this mom, who needs to reboot and renew to sail through the rest of 2014 and welcome 2015 with open arms.  Today that process is gentle and maybe a bit different from the normal drive to clear the decks of Christmas in most homes.  It's about enjoying the post-holiday season as much or more than tne season leading up to the holiday.  Join us!

  • 00:44

    What You Don't Know About Male Sexual Abuse with Donald Jeffries Mens Advocate

    in Self Help

    As a society, when we think of rape or sexual abuse we are likely to assume that the victims are female and the perpretrators are male. That is a gross misconception. There are many more female perpretrators and male victims than most of us are aware of. 


    Today's special guest Donald B. Jeffries, President/Executive Director and founder of Mariposa Men’s Wellness Institute, a nonprofit focused on the promotion of men's emotional wellness through education and training, is here to discuss the cultural blindness that exists concerning the prevalence of male sexual abuse and the profound negative effects this abuse has on male victims.  


    Researchers have found that 1 in 6 men (a modest estimate) have been sexually abused before the age of 18. And alarming statistics show that women can and do sexually abuse and assault adult men, though it rarely gets reported. The unfortunate truth is that because males simply aren’t allowed to be victims (or at least not allowed to be seen as such), they are are often more emotionally damaged than females by society’s refusal or reluctance to accept their victimization.


    The goal of this show is to raise awareness of the prevalence of male sexual abuse, thereby raising the level of help, compassion, and healing that is available to these victims. 


    This will be a very powerful show. Be sure to save the date and tune in .


    For more information about Donald B. Jeffries of the Mariposa Men's Wellness Institute, please visit https://www.linkedin.com/pub/donald-b-jeffries/6/776/24b

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