• 01:33

    Are you being controlled by your spouse ? 11:30am Mountain Time- (347) 857-2640

    in Culture

    What Is Control?


    People crave respect. They want to be accepted for who they are in reality, rather than having to pretend to meet someone else’s criteria. When treated as an inferior, they react badly. When they feel they have to pretend, living as a picture of what another wants rather than as the person they actually are, they slowly dissolve their own identity. Some become lost and never rediscover who they were. Others deteriorate for a while, but eventually hit a point of frustration that leads to defiance, anger, and rebellion. Yet others live between those extremes.


    Picture the lion or tiger in a cage snarling and slapping at the tamer making them jump through hoops and put on a show. They show their anger, but ultimately comply because they do not wish to receive punishment, and they enjoy receiving reward. The award is not equal to the freedom they once had, but over time they submit themselves to captivity and the morsels handed by the one who controls them. The whip hurts; the morsels are tasty; compliance results. At least for some of the big cats. Others likely never yield to the control of the tamer. Maybe others do for a while, but finally have enough and fight back.


    Who Is the Controller?


    One reason that controlling people often claim that they are controlled is that when they do not get what they want, they blame the other person. If he wants more lovemaking and she does not provide it, he views her as controlling him through sex and that may be the case. However, the difference in one who really is a controller and one who is being controlled is whether one allows the other to be who he or she truly is.


    In the story that began this article, the husband controlled. He had so beaten his wife down with his arguing, intensity, and sense of self-righteousness that she had long since come to believe herself invalid.

  • 01:11

    What's going on ? Will 2015 be Blood Shed in the Americas ?

    in Spirituality

    The adoption of the Declaration of Independence—237 years ago today—can sometimes feel like an event not just from another time, but from another world. As depicted in John Trumbull’s now-iconic 19th-century painting of the founding fathers in Philadelphia, collectively creating the framework for the nation’s revolutionary political system, such an act of open rebellion by prominent, wealthy and established figures is literally inconceivable to most living Americans.


    The Revolutionary War, raging at that time, saw men young and old answer the Colonies’ call to fight the British redcoats. In their allegiance to the ideals of liberty, these rough troops — illustrated in countless paintings and drawings known to history students everywhere — shouldered the monumental task of defending a nation that was, in many respects, not yet truly born.


    But as alien as that epoch might feel, time and again we’re reminded that the past is not always as distant as it so often seems.


    In fact, some veterans who survived the Revolutionary War prospered well into their eighties, nineties and sometimes even beyond 100, living long enough to not only witness, but become part of, the era of the photograph.


    First daguerreotypes, and then glass-plate negatives became popular in the 1840s and 1850s; by 1853, some 70 years after the great and improbable American victory over the British, more than 3 million daguerreotypes a year were being produced in the United States alone.


    As these photographic means developed, and the generation that experienced the Revolution firsthand continued to dwindle, a desire to document these men — a rapidly vanishing, living link with history — emerged.



     

  • 01:59

    Survival Know How- When the system Collapse

    in Environment

    A LaMar Alexander Story:


    LaMar Alexander grew up in a homesteading family. For him, self-sufficiency, including gardening, raising animals and “doing for ourselves” was normal and necessary. He tried city life after college, but says he felt like a slave to a house, bills and employers. At 35, he made a change.


    “I had a wake up call,” he explains, “that made me realize that what I really wanted was a simple homestead cabin and to eliminate my dependence on the system, so I could live sustainably while I pursued my dreams.”


    So Alexander built a house. A very small, 14 ft. x 14 ft. house. A solar and wind powered off-the-grid cabin with a kitchen, bathroom and living room downstairs and a bedroom and office upstairs. It cost him $2,000 to build not including the recycled doors and windows, the front porch, and the solar system.


    Being an avid outdoorsman, Alexander didn’t need a lot of indoor space, but as an author, videographer, and off-the-grid builder, he did need need modern amenities including a cell phone, Internet access, electric lights, indoor toilet, and shower etc., and he has them. Alexander says his tiny house is easy to clean, cheap to heat and cool, and he has no house payments or monthly utility bills.


    “I now have the freedom to pursue my dreams,” he says, “and the money I make stays in my pocket and can be used for vacations or to help my family and for a secure retirement. That is the freedom that an off-grid lifestyle makes possible.”

  • 01:58

    Open MIKE-Pt 10. 11:30 am- Mountain Time

    in Current Events

    Why good friends are so important


    A lot of research has been done looking into the benefits of friendship, and the research has found exactly what you might expect. It turns out that the better quality relationships you have; the more likely you are to be happy. Therefore it’s good for your happiness to be a great friend to someone and to have a group of good friends supporting you. But it can be hard to pinpoint exactly what makes a good friend.


    Signs of a good friend


    Friends will come and go in your life, but more important than how long a friendship lasts, is that a good friend will love you for who you are. The way you can tell the sign of a good friend is by looking at the actions they take –big and small – that show they care.

    Some common signs of a good friend include



    someone who will support you no matter what
    someone you can trust and who won’t judge you
    someone who won’t put you down or deliberately hurt your feelings
    someone who is kind and has respect for you
    someone who will love you because they choose to, not because they feel like they should
    someone whose company you enjoy
    showing loyalty
    being trustworthy and willing to tell you the truth, even when it’s hard
    someone who can laugh when you do
    someone who is willing to stick around when things get tough
    someone who makes you smile
    someone who is there to listen
    someone who will cry when you cry.

  • 01:58

    Homos and Lesbos= Americas= The New Sodom and Gomorrah

    in Radio

    "sin of Sodom and Gomorrah?"

    Answer: The biblical account of Sodom and Gomorrah is recorded in Genesis chapters 18-19. Genesis chapter 18 records the Lord and two angels coming to speak with Abraham. The Lord informed Abraham that "the outcry against Sodom and Gomorrah is so great and their sin so grievous." Verses 22-33 record Abraham pleading with the Lord to have mercy on Sodom and Gomorrah because Abraham's nephew, Lot, and his family lived in Sodom.

    Genesis chapter 19 records the two angels, disguised as human men, visiting Sodom and Gomorrah. Lot met the angels in the city square and urged them to stay at his house. The angels agreed. The Bible then informs us, "Before they had gone to bed, all the men from every part of the city of Sodom — both young and old — surrounded the house. They called to Lot, 'Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us so that we can have sex with them.'" The angels then proceed to blind all the men of Sodom and Gomorrah and urge Lot and his family to flee from the cities to escape the wrath that Yahawah was about to deliver. Lot and his family flee the city, and then "the LORD rained down burning sulfur on Sodom and Gomorrah from the LORD out of the heavens. Thus he overthrew those cities and the entire plain, including all those living in the cities..."
    "What was the sin of Sodom and Gomorrah?" is that it was homosexuality. That is how the term "sodomy" came to be used to refer to anal sex between two men, whether consensual or forced. Clearly, homosexuality was part of why Yahawah destroyed the two cities. The men of Sodom and Gomorrah wanted to perform homosexual gang rape on the two angels (who were disguised as men). At the same time, it is not biblical to say that homosexuality was the exclusive reason why Yahawah destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah
     

  • 01:35

    Relationships-What is LOVE ? GOOD Love Making; is it needed ?

    in Relationships

    What makes a healthy love relationship?



    Staying involved with each other. Some relationships get stuck in peaceful coexistence, but without truly relating to each other and working together. While it may seem stable on the surface, lack of involvement and communication increases distance. When you need to talk about something important, the connection and understanding may no longer be there.

    Getting through conflict. Some couples talk things out quietly, while others may raise their voices and passionately disagree. The key in a strong relationship, though, is not to be fearful of conflict. You need to be safe to express things that bother you without fear of retaliation, and be able to resolve conflict without humiliation, degradation or insisting on being right.

    Keeping outside relationships and interests alive. No one person can meet all of our needs, and expecting too much from someone can put a lot of unhealthy pressure on a relationship. Having friends and outside interests not only strengthens your social network, but brings new insights and stimulation to the relationship, too.

    Communicating. Honest, direct communication is a key part of any relationship. When both people feel comfortable expressing their needs, fears, and desires, trust and bonds are strengthened. Nonverbal cues—body language like eye contact, leaning forward or away, or touching someone’s arm—are critical to communication.

  • 00:32

    St.Louis is just a sample of what's to come to your STATE!

    in Current Events

    the president of the St. Louis County Police Association, said tonight on CNN that the long wait for the Ferguson grand jury decision is “like the night before Christmas.”


    Erin Burnett asked Crocker why the grand jury decision was delayed so much for so long. Crocker didn’t say much beyond commenting on the “amount of logistical issues” that they would have to deal with.


    He then went on to say, “It’s just like the night before Christmas. We all get a little impatient, so on and so forth.”


    The “night’ part there is actually an issue of concern, with questions about why the grand jury will be announcing at night, as opposed to early in the morning, when the likelihood for any heated backlash would be lessened.

  • 02:04

    Open MIKE-Special Guess Lovely Ro- Pt 8. Friday- 11:30am- Mountain Time

    in Radio

    Why good friends are so important


    A lot of research has been done looking into the benefits of friendship, and the research has found exactly what you might expect. It turns out that the better quality relationships you have; the more likely you are to be happy. Therefore it’s good for your happiness to be a great friend to someone and to have a group of good friends supporting you. But it can be hard to pinpoint exactly what makes a good friend.


    Signs of a good friend


    Friends will come and go in your life, but more important than how long a friendship lasts, is that a good friend will love you for who you are. The way you can tell the sign of a good friend is by looking at the actions they take –big and small – that show they care.

    Some common signs of a good friend include



    someone who will support you no matter what
    someone you can trust and who won’t judge you
    someone who won’t put you down or deliberately hurt your feelings
    someone who is kind and has respect for you
    someone who will love you because they choose to, not because they feel like they should
    someone whose company you enjoy
    showing loyalty
    being trustworthy and willing to tell you the truth, even when it’s hard
    someone who can laugh when you do
    someone who is willing to stick around when things get tough
    someone who makes you smile
    someone who is there to listen
    someone who will cry when you cry.

  • 02:03

    Open MIKE-With- Lovely Ro- Pt 9. Saturday Nite- 11:00pm- Mountain Time

    in Radio

    Why good friends are so important


    A lot of research has been done looking into the benefits of friendship, and the research has found exactly what you might expect. It turns out that the better quality relationships you have; the more likely you are to be happy. Therefore it’s good for your happiness to be a great friend to someone and to have a group of good friends supporting you. But it can be hard to pinpoint exactly what makes a good friend.


    Signs of a good friend


    Friends will come and go in your life, but more important than how long a friendship lasts, is that a good friend will love you for who you are. The way you can tell the sign of a good friend is by looking at the actions they take –big and small – that show they care.

    Some common signs of a good friend include



    someone who will support you no matter what
    someone you can trust and who won’t judge you
    someone who won’t put you down or deliberately hurt your feelings
    someone who is kind and has respect for you
    someone who will love you because they choose to, not because they feel like they should
    someone whose company you enjoy
    showing loyalty
    being trustworthy and willing to tell you the truth, even when it’s hard
    someone who can laugh when you do
    someone who is willing to stick around when things get tough
    someone who makes you smile
    someone who is there to listen
    someone who will cry when you cry.

  • 02:00

    Open MIKE-Letz Talk- Pt 6. Friday- 11:30am- Mountain Time

    in Radio

    Slavery is a legal or economic system under which people are treated as property. Though laws and systems vary, as property, slaves may be bought and sold. Slaves can be held from the time of their capture, purchase or birth, and deprived of the right to leave, to refuse to work, or to demand compensation.


    Some abolitionists said that slavery was criminal and a sin; they also criticized slave owners of using black women as concubines and taking sexual advantage of them.

  • 2014 Jets Season Week 17 Preview Show: At Miami

    in Sports

    Join Daniel Feuerstein & Rick Laughland as they Preview the final regular season game of the 2014 season as the New York Jets take their team down to South Beach and they will face their final AFC East divisional game at the Miami Dolphins

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