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  • 00:28

    Meeting The Narcissist

    in Relationships

    This radio show is all about why and how we can be taken in by a narcissist upon meeting one.

    During this radio show you will learn what it takes to inoculate yourself against a narcissist, be in your authentic power and flush a narcissist's antics to the surface, before it is too late.

    This radio show is about so much more than recognising red flags.

    It is also about more than intuition and choices.

    My greatest hope, in regard to this radio show, is that you no longer feel like you can or will be taken in by a narcissist for this reason: because a narcissist can dupe anyone.

    To learn more about how to heal from and empower yourself against narcissistic abuse please join me in my next 3 Keys To Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse Webinar. 

    Find out more at: www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar



  • 00:45

    The Female Narcissist

    in Self Help

    The female narcissist!  She may be your wife, your lover, your sister, your Mother, your friend or your co-worker.  Whoever she is, she is bound to make your life crazy.  Is she really a narcissist?  Or is she a borderline personality?  Or both? 

    In this episode of Pandora's Box I will talk about how the female narcissist shows up, seduces, and turns your world upside down.

  • 01:12

    Part 2 What is a Narcissist? How to Spot a Narcissist. Are you a Narcissist?

    in Spirituality

    Dr. David Hawkins MBA, MSW, MA, PhD, author of "Never Fight Again, Guaranteed", and Director at Marriage Recovery Center who specialized in narcissistic personality disorder, will be on tonight with us as we continue our discussion on Narcissitic Personality Disorder, traits and the npd spectrum. We will share examples to better identify narcissism in ones self and others although no on can diagnose unless one is trained in this area. NPD is not common, however its traits are and can still be quite destructive in relationships. It affects men and women and there IS hope for the narcissist to change. Dr David will give helpful tips for those who have been hurt by the "narcissist". 

    Do you often feel your mate is in the marriage or relationship by his or her own self? Are you drained from your relationship or feel youre constantly fighting or speaking to brick walls? Has your mate gone from you admiring him or her to questioning whether or not theyre actually evil and highly sinful? What is narcissistic supply? What's NVS?

    Can the narcissist really love? Did they ever really love you? And how can they really change if they cant see it or arent willing to search themselves and see theyre operating in narcissism? How do I know Im with a narcissist?

    This condition flies under the radar in many ministries, businesses and social circles because this condition is VERY RARELY pinpointed due to the lack of reproach or fear of reproach.

    This Sunday night, tune in and share with your folks if you want them aware. Please see the 9 symptoms of npd in Part 1 & 3 show descriptions. 

    For quality marital counseling or help and testing for NPD, visit Dr. David Hawkins site at marriagerecoverycenter.com for more information or call 360.490.5446 for immediate appointment.

  • Why Won't The Narcissist Leave Me Alone?

    in Relationships

    It can seem that narcissists are relentless, and they will not let up abusing, tormenting and punishing you.

    Many people ask, “How can I stop this happening?” There is no “practical” answer to this, because the narcissist leaving you alone actually has nothing to do with the narcissist, and has everything to do with you.

    It’s in no way dependent on who the narcissist is and what the narcissist is or isn’t doing. By listening to this radio show you will understand why. 

    To join me in my next free live tele class please go here: http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar

  • 00:47

    Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D: "Signs of a Narcissist Part 1"

    in Entertainment

    Linda Martinez-Lewi,Ph.D. is a clinical expert on the narcissistic personality. She is the author of "Freeing Yourself from the Narcissist in Your Life." (Tarcher/Penguin) Dr. Martinez-Lewi is a licensed psychotherapist with many years of clinical experience working one on one with clients who are dealing with narcissists.

    If you have read my book, please leave a brief Amazon review here. This is one of the most important ways you can support my work in helping victims of the narcissistic personality.

    I offer International Telephone Consultation to clients to help them develop specific strategies for dealing with narcissists and to work toward their healing, recovery and rediscovery of their true selves.

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  • 00:31

    Divorcing a Narcissist: Our Interview with Attorney Robert Farzad

    in Psychology

    At the request of our global listening audience we began our search for an attorney that would be willing to join Mental Health News Radio to discuss the topic of narcissism. Many of our listeners are attempting to divorce their narcissistic partner only to find themselves in a maze of legalese they do not understand and often working with an attorney that is not well-versed in cases of narcissistic abuse. 

    Robert Farzad practices marriage and family law in Orange County, California.  Enjoy the full blog article HERE.

    Some of the questions he answers for us are listed below:

    What is the narcissist’s tool in a divorce case?

    What is an ineffective mindset of a person divorcing a narcissist?

    What is the better mindset when divorcing a narcissist?

    What are the tools that will help bring the calm, fact focused and logical thought process?

    Is there hope when divorcing a narcissist?

    Mr. Farzad’s comments and blog article on Mental Health News Radio are related only to California matters because he is licensed to practice law in California only. Nothing he has said is legal advice or any other type of advice nor is it intended for any particular case or situation. These are his general thoughts on the subject. If you have questions about your specific legal matter, please consult with an attorney in your State or jurisdiction.

  • 00:37

    How To Divorce A Narcissist Part 1

    in Relationships

    I think we would all agree that divorce is one of the most excruciating things anyone can go through.

    Psychologists Thomas Holmes and Richard Rahe in 1967 created a list of the top 43 most stressful life events. Divorce rated the second most stressful, only capped by death of a spouse.

    That describes a normal divorce.

    But what about divorcing a narcissist?

    THAT takes the stress to a whole new level.

    In this 2 part series I will be covering many aspects of divorcing a narcissist including how to emotionally prepare and accept that the marriage is over, how to get out safetly and then the next steps you need to take to recover from this experience and grow from it. 

    Please know, if you haven't already, you may sign up to my free New Life Community, where you will receive 2 free eBooks, and an email series called "16 Days To Your New life", and much, much more.

    To do so, go to www.melanietoniaevans.com/getstarted

    **Please note - to receive your free resources you will have to open the confirmation email and confirm - so make sure you remember to do that‏.

    Also, I'm the creator of the narcissistic abuse recovery program which has humbly helped thousands of people from over 50 different countries recover and empower their life after narcissistic abuse.

    To find out more go to www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp

  • 00:46

    Dealing with a Narcissist with Codependency Expert Darlene Lancer

    in Psychology

    Those who have experienced narcissistic abuse know how difficult it can be to communicate with them. Every narcissistic abuse survivor asks the same questions: Why are they so defensive? How do we deal with them? Will they ever change?

    Today's special guest, Darlene Lancer is here to answer those questions and talk about her newest book, Dealing with a Narcissist: 8 Steps to Improve Self-Esteem and Set Boundaries in Difficult Relationships. Darlene is also the author of several other books including Codependency for Dummies and the new book Freedom from Guilt and Blame: Finding Self-Forgiveness.

    Darlene Lancer, JD, MFT is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and relationship and codependency expert. Over the course of 25 years, she has helped men and women recover from trauma, achieve greater self-esteem and autonomy, and find their paths personally and professionally. This is Darlene's third guest appearance on A Fine Time for Healing. 

    To learn more about Darlene Lancer please visit her website http://www.whatiscodependency.com/

    Contact Darlene at info@darlenelancer.com

  • 00:50

    Forged in Heartbreak: Narcissist The Movie

    in Movies

    Producer/Writer/Director Eric Casaccio says the root of of what became the multi-award winning film Narcissist is a short-lived romantic connection between two men which ended painfully. Gay Celluoid writes, "Casaccio and to his credit has gone out of his way to shine the spotlight on one man's journey to deal with the emotional fallout following his painful relationship with a man with narcissistic personality disorder."

    Narcissist is the story of a kind soul (Evan) who attracts a dark knight (Rob) into his life. It's almost as it's meant to be until Rob goes from a charming man to a manipulative individual who suddenly pulls the carpet out from under Evan, smashing his heart into a million pieces.  Evan's post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) ends up taking him to a place of truth while Rob spirals into his own midlife crisis.

    How much of this riveting film is true to life?  Nicholas Snow finds out in this episode of Nicholas Snow Live.

    Over 1.7 million downloads in just over 2-1/2 years.  The show's motto: "Connecting the Circuitry of Humanity."

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  • 02:43

    Consequences Of Dating A Narcissist/Sociopath with Trenton Hawley

    in Podcasting

    Tonight on It's Real Talk Radio we'll be discussing the behaviors of people with Personality Disorders with a focus on Narcissists & Sociopaths. We'll be joined by Trenton Hawley who has had a 6 year relationship & marriage with someone who he found out too little too late was a Sociopath. Trenton has since started a YouTube channel where he's uploaded tons of videos on his 6 year experience of the mental abuse he's encountered in his marriage. We, the hosts of It's Real Talk Radio too have had our own experiences with dating and dealing with Narcissists & Sociopaths as well and I'll be the first to tell you that it's an experience you want to avoid at all costs!

    This is no reality show; this is the real deal! There's nothing fictional about these horrific experiences!! We're here tonight to shed light on this issue and to enlighten those of you who may be dating or married to someone you believe to have a Personality Disorder but can't quite put your finger on what the diagnosis is. Trust and believe you don't need a therapist to tell you how to recognize the signs of a Narcissist/Sociopath! Oh and you'd better hope you're not dating an actual psychopath because you, your kids and other family's lives may be in danger but that's a whole different discussion!

    Dating a Sociopath can be hazardous to your mental health! It also can have financial repercussions! Sociopaths lack empathy and will destroy you from the inside out to achieve their agendas (whatever that may be). Narcissists are arrogant & self-centered. They also lack empathy and prey on others to achieve their goals. To find out more, tune-in tonight at 9PM ET. It's time to spread awareness and air out these scam artists!

    Trenton's YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOIdzmdWaFkM4I7aVOjqGCA

  • 00:30

    LIVE! with Cathi...Are you a Narcissist?

    in Fitness

    Are you a NARCISSIST?  NARCISSISM is a personality disorder and is characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance and a strong need for admiration.

    Signs that women may have a narcissistic personality disorder are typically vain with an intense inflated sense of self-importance, entitlement and extraordinary romantic ability.  They may feel superior to others.

    NARSISTIC MEN are charismatic, have big egos, focus on appearance and very good manipulators plus they have an insatiable desire to get what they want.

    When we were small, our parents feed our healty sense of narcissism by telling us we were great and that we can do anything we set our minds to.


    NARCISSISTS are deficient in a strong sense of...etc.

    NARCISSISTS work hard to distort our...etc.

    NARCISSISTS present a false front...etc.

    NARCISSISTS work hard so others don't see them with flaws...etc.

    ARE YOU TORN...etc.