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  • 01:46


    in Health

    Today your host, Viyahta and co-host are offering a healing balm for the many wounded souls.  The cry is coming forth from both women and men to heal their wounds. The list of women in the Bill Cosby saga has grown and men returning from war are writing their stories of grief and betrayal.  Time to look to the Creator's wisdom and purpose to understand some of the trauma's of life and extend hands of love, compassion and forgiveness. 

  • 00:26

    The Other Side of Grief

    in Self Help

    This week's conversation  will be the next in the series "grief and war".

    When soldiers return from serving in an active theater of war it is difficult to return to the life they once had. we will look at issues of PTSD, physical injuries, substance abuse and why dealing with the grief of war and the loss issues of war can be key to healing and rebuilding life.

    What are the losses incurred by war?

    How does understanding your grief help you move on

    We will also be looking at how returing home impacts family and friends.

  • 00:26

    Grief Stages with Pet Grief Coach, Judy Helm Wright

    in Pets

    There are very distinct, yet overlapping, phases of grief.  We go through the stages in various orders and in varying degrees on the road to recovering from any loss.  If we lose a jacket at the ballpark, we may go through all the stages in a few minutes.  If the jacket was one that was given to us by our brother on our birthday, it may take much more time.

    If the animal was a family pet and stayed outside, it may not hit us as hard as if he were our own companion and greeted us each night when we came in the door.  If your pet was a companion and best friend, the mourning will be a deep one.

    1. Shock/Denial/Numbness.  We can not believe this has happened to us.  Our body and emotions numb themselves against the pain.  The mind denies the loss.  Often we will say things like "This can't be true."  One of the valid reasos for memorials and funerals is to acknowledge that death did take place. 

    2. Fear/AngerDepression.  After the numbness wears off and we are once again able to feel, then all of our repressed feelings come roaring back.  Sometimes these feeling ared not rational at first and can seedk someone to blame, either an outsider or ourselves.  "I can't share how sad I am about my dog, because my co-workers will think I am crazy."  "But, on the other hand, I inquire about their child's cold and buy their stupid Girl Scout cookies to support them.  It isn't fair!"  "Oh God, please don't let me start crying at work again.  I heard someone call me a drama queen and say; It's only a dog, not a child." 

    3. Understanding/Acceptance/Moving on.  

    4. New Hurts May Trigger Old Wounds.




  • 00:30

    The Other Side of Grief

    in Self Help

    This week's conversation will focus on the reality of war which includes trauma loss and grief

    We will look at why this experience lingers for a lifetime and why we have little success in treating it.

  • 00:30

    Grief and Disease done Different.!

    in Self Help

    Grief & Disease Done Different - Wendy Mulder & Liam Phillips .

    We both have experienced Grief and Disease in our own separate ways . Today we will be chatting  together about  our  3 day telecall which is coming up on the 16th/ 17th/ 18th July.  Liam and I  have books  written about these topics and  would love to share with you our combimed knowledge and gifts we have recieved, from the questions and choices we have made.

    Send any questions beforehand to either: 

    Wendy Mulder at swmulder@bigpond.net.au or liam Phillips at liamphillips@yahoo.com

    Hugs & gratitude Liam and Wendy

    In July Wendy and Liam have a telecall series to give the tools and processes to unlocking disease and grief in a totally different way, click HERE 

  • 00:30

    The Other Side of Grief

    in Self Help

    Today's conversation will be the last in the series of "living with dying" We will wrap up with the rituals of death and mourning.

    In today's culture these rituals become more and more optional. Wakes funerals and memorial services serve a very important function as post death events.

    We will understand the difference between grief and mourning and why both are important in any culture.

    Listeners are welcomed to call in.

  • 00:25

    Healing Grief With Help From The Other Side.......

    in Spirituality

    Healing Grief with Help from the Other Side is a group that brings comfort and peace to those whose loved ones have died. This is done through the generosity of mediums who are able to connect with those who have passed over to the other side and give the messages they receive in this way to those who are left behind and need assurance that their loved ones are, in fact, doing well in the spirit world. As well, since the members of this group have all experienced loss they are able to offer comfort and support to one another during the difficult times that follow the passing of someone special......Till soon <3

  • 00:29

    The Other side of Grief

    in Self Help

    This week we will continue our series on "living with dying"

    We began with the diagnosis of a terminal disease and the grief of the dying person.

    This week we will begin to explore the family dynamics when a loved oneis dying.

    Very often families are faced with this event without having any understanding or information about what this experience will be like.

    Emotions and needs run high and often out of control.

    We will look at how you can approach being with the dying in a fulfilling way.

  • 00:31

    Nurturing YOU Beyond Grief

    in Self Help

    Most people define nurturing as self care . What if that is just the start? When there is loss, there are also new possibilities for creating  something different . Something beyond what you knew was possible before your life changed . What if grief could be a catalyst for new choices that create even more for you and your life ? Join me as I interview Lisa Murray, Founder of Creativity Lab about ways we can begin to nuture a new life into being .  What is it that your grief is contributing to you? Lets find out! and have some fun with Lisa .

    A little about Lisa

    Today I've invited Lisa Murray from Creativity lab to join me in an exploration  of the contribution that grief can be to our life if we will allow it .  What could  be different if you would nuture new possibilities into place with ease? Grief often comes from loss. Lisa lost much of her old life within a very short time, including her job, her house, her dog , and her relationship.as she states " She didn't quite lose her mind but it was close ". Lisa plays with people to nuture ideas into reality. She offers events and online adventures which invite you to create your life from a kinder, gentler space . How did we get  so lucky to have the Gift that Lisa is in the world !

    You can find Lisa Murray at www.CreativityLab.tv

    Any Questions please feel free to email me at swmulder@bigpond.net.au

  • 00:29

    The Other Side of Grief

    in Self Help

    Today will begin a series of conversations about the topic "facing the death of a loved one".

    There is a lot to understand about end of life experiences and the difference between living and dying.

    What is the difference between the grief of the living and the dying.

    When should hospice be called?

    We start today with "When we face the final stage of a disease process

  • 00:10

    9 Minutes to Healing Deal with Grief

    in Self Help

    Grief is a challenging aspect of life. It pops up and often presents a difficult pattern for us to deal with. In this episode, we will help present ways of dealing with loss and accompanying grief.

    9 minutes to Healing grief.