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Today on HELP! Relationships 102, we speak to the person who struggles with the need to be in control! We begin the process of addressing his/her issues. The LORD has a plan to set the "Control Freak" free from their need to be in control.
That person might be most comfortable when they feel they're in control, which means they can never truly be at peace or even happy because the LORD will never allow them to have complete control over anything or anyone. And it is right when they think that things are under control, that life faithfully reveals just how far out of control of things they really are. This can be unsettling to anyone, but to the controller, it can be absolutely terrifying.
Those that strive to be in control are often misunderstood and mischaracterized as villians. The irony is, as bold and courageous as they can often appear to be, their act of controlling, is most of the time deeply rooted in fear! Therefore, as angry as we tend get at people who need to be in control, we need to step back a moment and see them for who they truly are... that we might better understand how to relate to them.
Most are completely unaware that their need for control is almost always at the expense of others. And even when attempting to explain it to them they sincerely, strain to grasp the understanding of the pain that they have most often unintentionally bought upon others...especially those closest to them!
Join us as we unlock the cage of the "Control Freak's" control.
Today on HELP! Relationships 102, we open up the solution for those who desire to be free from the need to be in control. Very often, the Control Freak is torn between the instinct of needing to be in control and the weariness and burden of feeling like he has to be in control. For even though he is the most comfortable being in control, he's not always happy about it. Despite his actions, the Control Freak rarely, intentionally hurts anyone. He is not a villain. Rather, he is attempting to minimize the possibility of being hurt! But, how does this person find the strength to begin to let go of the controls when their memory is still fresh from prior hurts and losses that came about from not being in control?
For even after discovering the harm that trying to be in control can cause, especially within their relationships— how does one not control? How does one not attempt to protect themselves? What do you do your when your need for control derives fromyour instinct for survival, or perhaps better put... the fear of not surviving??!!
But, there is good news for those of us struggling with this impulsive instinct of the need to be in control!
Join as we reveal GOD's solution for the Control Freak
Today on HELP! Relationships 102, we reveal, what many of you may consider —the startling truth behind the lie for controlling people that believe themselves to be in successful control over others! We prove out the futility of trying to be in control of your spouse, and show forth GOD's plan for the proper use of the power you may have been given, in the lives of others!
Some of you may have been historically controlling, out of instinct! But after this broadcast, many of you may find yourself rethinking your approach to this very sensitive issue.
Join us as we address the unaddressed issue of the unhappy Control Freak!
Please excuse us as we work out the kinks in anticipation of our real, debut podcast on July 28th at 7PM (EST). Trying to get the hang of what we can and cannot do, etc., etc. That said, we will be discussing the motivation for the Front Row At The Freak Show. In other words, the epic mess the United States and the rest of the world find ourselves in. As we like to say here in the Front Row, Conspiracy? Maybe. Screwed? Definitely. The results are in and they suck. Join us as we discuss 9/11, the Federal Reserve, the police state, endless war, and in general, failure after failure of our "leaders" over the last couple hundred years. What's that definition of insanity again? Along the way, we also hope to mix in some good talk on music, comedy and entertainment and just for good measure, give some time to UFO's and more specifically, the ever-increasing evidence regarding the true origins of man and the bullshit we've been fed there since day 1.
Would love and appreciate any and all who can call in to the show so we can test run that experience.
Welcome to The Healthy Baby Boomers Network Blog Talk Radio Show. I am your host, Dr. Erica Goodstone, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Spiritual Relationship Healing Expert Helping Men and Women Heal Their Bodies and Their Relationships Through Love, author of the book: Love Me, Touch Me, Heal Me, director of HealthyBabyBoomersNetwork.com and Healing Through Love Seminar leader.
In this show I am talking with Dr. Debra Wingfield, author and Trainer in Family Violence Treatment and Prevention. Dr. Wingfield developed and taught a domestic violence counselor training curriculum at the University of Southern Colorado, now Colorado State University-Pueblo. As a practicing counselor from 1975 – 2002 with delinquent youth, families with child abuse and neglect issues, adults and children from all dysfunctional family types, and domestic violence victims, child witness/victims, and offenders, Dr. Wingfield designed and implemented programs that address these issues. In her research, she used a transactional analysis model exploring adult perceptions of family of origin dynamics related to alcoholic, abusive, and chronic illness families. She holds a master’s degree in Counseling and Organizational psychology and doctorate in Counselor Education.
Even if you are divorced and living separately from your childrens’ other parent, do you still feel controlled? Do you feel like your ex is still trying to control you through manipulation or through your children? When you think about your ex as a co-parent, do the words “control freak” describe that person?
Listen carefully because even if YOU do not have this problem someone you know may need help - and quickly.
Happy New Year!! Its 2013 and I'm BAAACCKKKK with one queston: Are you a Control Freak? Maybe you see yourself as being helpful. Perhaps you believe that you are giving people a much needed push in the ‘right’ direction. But what you could be doing is controlling yourself OUT of the relationship of your dreams. Tune in to find out if what you think of as well intended efforts to ‘help others’ are REALLY you being a control freak. And WHY being a controll freak will block the relaitonship of your dreams!
If you are like me you want to be green and healthy, but you also don't want pests overrunning your household! While terms like natural, organic, non-toxic, or "green" products are thrown around commonly in the pest control industry, many pest control tactics are anything but green!
Join me as I interview Stephen Tvedten, author and acclaimed integrated pest management (IPM) expert as we chat about the safe alternatives to chemical poisons, and how to reduce contaminations to ourselves and the environment
Stephen is the author of "The Best Pest Control 2"a manual for enzyme-based compounds suited for the environmentally conscious person.