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“According to a study at UCLA by the professors of psychology, 75% of couples who get traditional behavioral marriage counseling are separated within a year.” To that, I say, WOW. Today we are speaking with Laura Doyle, New York Times bestselling author of The Surrendered Wife, The Surrendered Single, and the book we are featuring today, her most recent book with the shocking title: First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors. But maybe the title isn’t so shocking considering the UCLA study. Our guest Laura Doyle says, “Every marriage has its rough patches. If you’re wondering how to repair yours, step away from the therapist, put down the magazine, and pick up this book.” Join us as we speak to Laura Doyle and decide for yourself if her book is for you; First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors is definitely a fresh look into marriage woes!
Dr Eric Sparks of ASCA SCHOOL COUNSELORS ASSOCIATION joins us for a discussion MINDSETS AND BEHAVIORS FOR STUDENT SUCCESS. www.schoolcounselors.org
Presented by WALDEN UNIVERSITY
ASCA's Dr Eric Sparks with an update for school counselors on this important subject k_12 Important for school boards and adminsitrators too.
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We have heard many women say I don’t have a man because………., and the common denominator in that laundry list of ALONENESS is the issue of many men having one or more felonies, and signignificant time spent in the penitentiary. According to the Bureau of Justice Statistics the correctional men population in the U.S 1,352 per 100,000 and from 1980 to 2008, the number of people incarcerated in America quadruped from about 500,000 to 2.3 million people. One in six black men had been incarcerated as of 2001; if this current trend continues, one in three black males born today can expect to spend time in prison during his lifetime. Meanwhile, one in one hundred African American women are in prison.
Some women say it is beneath their standard. Some say having a felony shouldn’t matter, yet others say it depends on the type of felony. Other debatable issues include the idea, everyone who goes to jail are not always guilty, and if they are what about his character and his repentance? What about our ability to forgive to be forgiven?
Women who are open to the idea of dating men with a felony and women who marry incarcerated men are labeled as desperate, with self-esteem issues, is this true? She must believe she can “fix” the man, or she will have no competition from other women because of his circumstances. In contrast, there’re women who are genuinely accepting and believe in second chances and that true love overpowers all.
The list continues……., so come get on the couch with 3 Counselors and a Couch on TALK BACK TUESDAYS for more. Call in/logon, bring a friend, tell your friends, and men and women you just know will benefit from sharing our thoughts, feeling and experiences. Remember, together we can do more than being a part.
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As we continue to identify specific behaviors women can practice to love a man through his grief, the question raised is “how much is too much?” In relationships it’s common for one partner to act out their frustrations of a hard day on the ones closet to you. In the case of men who are grieving the loss of employment, pride, masculinity, and even the loss of a child to death, one way to deal with this is to lash out at the wife, girlfriend, or live in lover.
In last week shows we introduced the topic of grief /loss, signs and symptoms in mothers, women, fathers and men. It brought us to this point where we recognize by default women have more emotional support available to them then their male counterparts. Many women of various ages and cultures question how to support a grieving man, and how to recognize when the support can become enabling, co-dependent, or a hindrance to grow, and emotional healing.
Join us on Talk Back Tuesdays with 3 Counselors and a Couch. Men we would love to hear from you on how we as women can be the support you need to make it through difficult times.
Lets answer questions like “ Is sex a healthy or harmful distraction for men who are dealing with grief and loss?” Come get on the couch.
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Welcome to the month of June, which hosts Father’s Day Celebration. 3 Counselors and a Couch dedicate the entire month to celebrating fathers and men. If men are from Mars and women are from Venus, how then do we help one another through difficult times like grief and loss? During the month of May we identified the cause and effects of grieving women and mothers. Considering women are encouraged to continue to move on to other responsibilities regardless of the loss experienced, men are not even welcomed to acknowledge grief of any kind. When men loose their job, home, family, freedom, respect, and a child by death, what do they do? Many experts on the subject easily identify men handle their emotions different from women, yet their methods are usually labeled as wrong, dysfunctional, unhealthy or non existent. If women understand that men grief differently then how can women judge their process as right or wrong? If men are 4 times more likely to commit suicide then women dealing with depression, according to the Bloomberg view, what can we do to better support men through their loss?
Come get on the couch with 3 Counselors and a Couch. Bring a friend to discuss how can we love a man through loss on Talk Back Tuesdays with the counselors.
The reason we started Mental Health News Radio was to give those serving behavioral health a voice. We are the listeners. We are also caregivers. We wanted a platform where your voices could be heard. Where an audience of your peers can listen to your stories. Stories about what inspired you to become a therapist, open your own practice, or work in a community mental health center, what your specialties are, what tools and services you use to maintain your clinical records, and how you take care of yourself.
There is no doubt you will enjoy this next show. Our entire team was inspired just listening to our guest Annie Shaw. She is a perfect example of why we love hosting Mental Health News Radio. Please visit the full blog article HERE.
What guided you in the decision to start a career in Mental Health?
What is your counseling approach to grief work?
What prompted you to start your Private Practice?
Describe an example of a time when you “thought outside of the box” in your practice.
What steps do you take to manage your practice and ensure its success?
What MCO’s and Insurances are you credentialed with?
You didn’t allow your traumatic experience to defeat you, so what would say are 2 of your greatest professional accomplishments?
Your company name is INSPIRE Counseling and Staff Development Services. What services fall under the Staff Development umbrella?
What do you have in the works currently or in the near future?
If you were given the opportunity to say something to a person currently dealing with grief who you would never see again, what would it be?
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President Obama, proclaimed May as Mental Health Awareness month. Organizations like NAMI National Alliance for the Mentally Ill, is the largest grassroots organization dedicated to educating the public, and support loved ones, family members, and neighbors of those affected by mental illness.
Last week on talk back Tuesday, we decided to turn mothers day into a month of celebration by offering the gift of freedom from the burden of grief. Many of our listeners expressed the complication of when or if grief has an end date. Mothers admitted the pain of loosing a child from 5 up to15 years ago could still hurt like the loss was yesterday. Therefore, the counselors feel compelled to continue sharing insight on this complicated experience that is so prevalent in our society
This week we will discuss the terms “Prolonged Grief / Bereavement-Related Disorder, as a classified mental illness. Lets answer this question, “Can Prolonged Grief be considered a mood disorder for diagnosing and treatment such as depression and anxiety? What would this mean?” Call your best friend, your mother, auntie, sister, cousin, daughter and the men in your life. Let’s talk about Mothers being happy, joyous, and free this Tuesday with 3 counselors and a couch. Come get on the Couch!
And because a mother’s primary focus is her family, we will dedicate the next week shows on grief and the family dynamics, i.e. the mother’s spouse and other children.
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Is there a correlation between MEN who have children with multiple women and MEN who are starving for affection from their mother? According to Psychology Today, "Emotional hunger is not love. It is a strong emotional need caused by deprivation in childhood." Feelings of emotional loss is linked to a deep and dull feeling that cause people to seek physical affection and attention in order to fill a void.
There is often confusion between emotional loss and LOVE. Many times there lies the need to be reassured and the strong desire to be dependent on someone. When there is a lack of affection in the home, especially from parents this can cause severe psychological development. Parents who are affectionate and attuned with nurturing their children, especially young men, often create secure, attached, and affectionate young adults. There is also a correlation of how too much attention, over-bearing,and affection from the parent's, usually because of their starvation for affection,can cause harm to young men's self and comfort.\
Come get on the COUCH!!! We will talk with experts in the field and of course parents who will share their stories and experiences raising Young Men and answer the question How Much is TOO much Affection and Attention? We will discuss how a parent who is capable of giving Love and Affection to their children and also able to set clear boundaries between them often produces independently whole adults.
ESSA AND GIFTED EDUCATION..WHAT EVERY SCHOOL DISTRICT NEEDS TO KNOW
We have NAGC Executive Director Rene Islas as our guest, always an excellent show
Presented by AdvancePath
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Celebrating Mothers Everyday! And what about the Baltimore mother yesterday? It's the month of May and Mothers have one day. Women function in many roles that include, the secure, and sometimes-tumultuous task of Motherhood. Grief is a short word that describes variant degrees of loss. It could be as simple as losing a favorite pair of shades, to disappointing a child by not keeping your word, then the ultimate losses, such as loosing a child. The many hats of Mother (earth) can keep us moving so fast we can feel overwhelmed, emotionally burned out, and just plain ole tired. Many of use are not able to identify grief as a source of angst, thereby unable to develop skills that allow healing of the heart. Learning to identify grief can mean the difference between generational trauma, and having love, life, and laughter. This week on talk back Tuesdays join 3 counselors and a couch as we begin the month of May dedicating issues of health and wellness to the Mothers of this earth. Whether you have given birth to children, or given the responsibility of molding the mind of a child, its imperative our soil remain fertile without feeding them contaminants that pass throughout generations. Come get on the Couch!
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