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  • 00:12

    BDSM Relationships: How Sustainable is This?

    in Relationships

    In this segment, we take a look at BDSM relationships from the standpoint of the submissive.  The question is: How sustainable is this?

    Alisa walks submissives through a simple thought process that will help submissives to choose long-lasting relationships with the "right" Dominatrix for them.

    A few of the questions answered are:
    How do I feel about me?
    How do I feel about the other person?
    How do I feel about this relationship?



  • 01:01

    "Alan Roger Currie a.k.a. 'The King' discusses BDSM & Polyamory"

    in Spirituality

    Join Rev. Goddess for a captivating evening of Verbal Seduction with "The King" Alan Roger Currie! Alan is an Author, Public Speaker and Radio Host! He is The Mode One: Direct Approach Dating Advice for Men! OooooooH Say It Again....Mastering the Art of Fine Verbal Seduction and Aural Sex! Be here and Be Dominated for your pleasure and learn why you want it so bad! Alan will share his thoughts on the benefits of Alternative Relationships, BDSM, Polyamory and MORE! Be prepared to get WET, AROUSED and SHOCKED for Your Learning Education! 

    The Mode One Approach


    The Mode One Approach


  • 00:08

    BDSM: Am I A True Submissive

    in Relationships

    What does it mean to be a true submissive?  Alisa addresses the long-standing issue which has been raised in the BDSM community for as long as the community has existed.

    What are the characteristic traits of a submissive?  How do you know if you are a true submissive or not.

    Tune into this brief (10-minute-long) segment in order to get clarity on these issues.

  • 00:46

    In With The Knews: BDSM: Pleasure and Pain with Domi Thunder

    in Entertainment

    Sunday, June 7th, 11pm est . 8pm pac ... In With The Knews: BDSM: Pleasure and Pain with Domi Thunder. This lifestyle ain't for everyone, but for some, it is a way of life. We will be discussing the problems, the benefits, and the misconceptions of the BDSM lifestyle.

    Call in at 626-414-3414

  • 01:51

    BDSM: Beyond the Cuffs: Safety in the Lifestyle

    in Entertainment

    Join our hosts, Master Hawk, Master Rick and xtina as they talk about safety in the BDSM Lifestyle. 
    Tips and discussions about how to stay safe...inside and outside the Lifestyle.
    Call-ins with questions or comments are welcome and very much encouraged. Feel free to speak your mind!

  • 00:35

    BDSM Husband & Wife Discuss Their Books and The Lifestyle

    in Romance

    J.R. Luxor, best selling author in Amazon's sexuality category, is the nom de plume of the binary star that is a husband and wife writing team living in the San Francisco Bay Area. She is currently a life coach and he is an author formerly involved in psychology and counseling teenage girls. 

    They share the character development, choosing what's in the heads of the male and female characters. They say their technique of using separate male and female voices for the characters, especially in their unspoken thoughts, produces a multi-dimensionality to the interactions and connections of the men and women in their writings. 

    Submissives Caught on Camera, by J.R. Luxor, follows the lives of four couples in the San Francisco Bay Area who practice BDSM in their sex lives, sometimes, to varying degrees, with each other. This is the third of a series, beginning with BDSM Romance, How One Man Recruited and Trained a Sub, and then Wearing His Collar, the View from Below. In Camera, the four couples decide to make a video of one of their events, their sex parties. Not every woman of the four has sex with men other than her partner. The couples have different arrangements for their sexual interactions with others.

  • 00:30

    BDSM Chat room etiquette

    in Education

    Workshop 4 – Nov. 26, 2011
    In this weeks workshop we discuss the do’s and don’ts of being in BDSM chat rooms. What is a troll, and how not to be thought of as one.  Don’t believe all the sweet talk, it just might turn into lies in the end. How not to get caught up in taking sides; you might just pick the wrong side.
    Once again we welcome Master Scorp and his girl star, who will be co-hosting 
    If you have any questions after the recording feel free to send an email to VegasLady

  • 00:30

    BDSM: The Dom, The Mistress, The Slaves

    in Entertainment

    TUNE IN THIS MONDAY (9/22/2014) @ 11:30 PM EST for "BDSM: The Dom, The Mistress, The Slave" on Deep, Dark, n Dirty. Join us in the CHATROOM @ www.blogtalkradio.com/knowurenemy OR CALL IN @ (917)889-3369. We look forward to seeing you there.

  • 00:14

    BDSM: I got what I asked for. Now what?

    in Relationships

    We have all heard the stories of the Olympian who finally wins the gold, the football player who finally wins the ring, or the poor kid who finally becomes a millionaire.  And we have heard the stories of how these people finally got what they wanted and still found themselves miserable.  What is happening in these types of situation?

    And what is happening in BDSM when a submissive begs and pleads for something, and finally gets it, then sabotages himself and his future with his new Domme?  Submissives engage in this type of behavior on a regular basis.  They invest significant amounts of money and time in the lifestyle, just to destroy all of that work.  They walk away for a few days, weeks, or months.  But, they go right back to the lifestyle.  Usually, with a different Domme and some version of the truth that they have created for themselves that makes them feel good.

    But, what is really happening is that the submissive is asking for something that he is not prepared for.  And he receives something that he is not prepared for, then he does not know what to do with it.

    Mistress Alisa addresses this issue in today's segment.

  • 02:04

    "50 Shades of Freakiness" a look in to the BDSM lifestyle

    in Lifestyle

    With the movie 50 Shades of Grey being out. The BDSM lifestyle has been highlighted for several weeks now. Tune into iCandi After Dark tonight as we explore the life style and answer questions such as "What is a Dominant? A Submissive? Furry? Does the media portray the life style in an accurate light? Special guest interview with a woman who has 20 years experience of being a submissive. This show is not to judge but to get a better understanding and maybe even learn a trick or 2. Show starts at 9 pm EST call in number is 619-393-2813. 


  • 01:57

    50 Shades making the BDSM Community look good....or is it?

    in Fun

    #50Shades has created a big controvery in our #BDSM Community. Our panel tonight features @DirkHooper @MClarissa @MistressAnnDomi and author @CJTorturedSoul also knows as CJ Cassidy.

    Our group of experts will share with you their thoughts  on the characters based on this poorly written book and what is BDSM truly stands for.

    Of course your host @MarabelleBlue will take you on a ride of reality!