Susan Lager

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Susan Lager is a psychotherapist, author, and relationship coach at her private practice, The Couples Center PLLC, in Portsmouth, NH. She is the Founder and Principal of Couplespeak™, the unique and innovative company providing exciting programs and vital tools for transformational relationship success. She has authored many published articles, as well as two new workbooks in The Couplespeak™ Series: "I'M TALKING! ARE YOU LISTENING?" FIX COMMUNICATION PROBLEMS WITH YOUR PARTNER IN NO TIME FLAT! is a short, humorous guide for the "do's" and "don't's" of better communication in close relationships. Her latest book "BECOME RELATIONSHIP SMART WITHOUT A LIFETIME OF THERAPY" is a useful resource for anyone wanting more joyful, meaningful relationships. Susan also gets “up close and personal” in two blogs, has produced a series of “Learn To Love” videos on her YouTube channel, and is available as a show-stopping speaker at special events in her “spare" time. You can reach her at her Portsmouth, New Hampshire office at: 603-431-7131

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In this 45 minute episode, Susan Lager co-hosts with Meredith Richardson, a talented and feisty lawyer, mediator, and conflict coach. Together they focus on the central issues and some common pattterns couples play out related to... more

In this episode, Susan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, discusses the dilemma of healing from emotional injury or violation when the person who hurt you hasn't earned your forgiveness. When there has been no expressed... more

In this episode, Susan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, discusses some simple but effective strategies to counteract the post-holiday let-down so many of us experience. Get a peek at some therapeutic secrets! Start the new... more

In this episode, Susan Lager, a Couples Therapist and Relationship Coach, co-hosts with Meredith Richardson, a highly sought New England conflict management specialist who works as a Mediator, Facilitator, Trainer, Conflict... more

Hate your job and can't quit it right now? Then on Wednesday, 11/6/13 at 8:30 PM, tune into this one hour episode, featuring dynamic Portsmouth, NH Career Counselor, Andrea St. Jean as Susan Lager's co-host. We'll be discussing vital... more

In this episode, Susan Lager co-hosts again with Ashley Davis Bush LCSW, a well known psychotherapist in southern NH who specializes in grief counseling and couples work. She is a frequent Huffington Post blogger, and the author of... more

In this half hour episode Susan Lager discusses some useful techniques to manage a bad mood and not let it ruin the day. The episode is part cognitive therapy, part mindfulness, part behavioral therapy, part neuroscience and part... more

In this episode, Susan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, explores the key attitudes and behaviors for enjoying your summer, regardless of you "partnered" status. On the agenda will be Ideas for solo or partnered activities,... more

In this episode, Susan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach shares with listeners a twenty question evaluation which is designed to determine the strengths and weaknesses in any marriage. Professional marriage counselors... more

In this half hour episode, Susan Lager explores the different aspects of open communication, or conversations which encourage and allow emotional safety, curiosity and connection, as compared with communication which fosters... more
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