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Susan Lager

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Susan Lager is a psychotherapist, author, and relationship coach at her private practice, The Couples Center PLLC, in Portsmouth, NH. She is the Founder and Principal of Couplespeak™, the unique and innovative company providing exciting programs and vital tools for transformational relationship success. She has authored many published articles, as well as two new workbooks in The Couplespeak™ Series: "I'M TALKING! ARE YOU LISTENING?" FIX COMMUNICATION PROBLEMS WITH YOUR PARTNER IN NO TIME FLAT! is a short, humorous guide for the "do's" and "don't's" of better communication in close relationships. Her latest book "BECOME RELATIONSHIP SMART WITHOUT A LIFETIME OF THERAPY" is a useful resource for anyone wanting more joyful, meaningful relationships. Susan also gets “up close and personal” in two blogs, has produced a series of “Learn To Love” videos on her YouTube channel, and is available as a show-stopping speaker at special events in her “spare" time. You can reach her at her Portsmouth, New Hampshire office at: 603-431-7131

On-Demand Episodes

If you've ever wondered if you're a shopaholic, then the holidays could be very difficult, even disastrous for you! Don't go it alone without help! Tune into this 30 minute spisode, "Are You a Shopaholic? Take the Test Before the Holidays" on... more

In this 30 minute episode Susan Lager teaches you a simple but very effective exercise which will help you to communicate better with anyone about important issues, especially loaded subjects which might involve or create conflict. In 30... more

In this 45 minute episode Susan Lager, a psychotherapist and coach at The Couples Center and Couplespeak™ in Portsmouth, NH, talks with Pattie Porter, The Texas Conflict Coach, about workplace conflict, why people are so... more

In this 45 minute episode Susan Lager, a psychotherapist specializing in couples work, co-hosts with Dr. Charles Rawlings, outspoked author of "It Really Is That Complicated - The Myths That Exist About Male-Female Relationships," a book... more

In this episode Susan Lager co-hosts with psychologist Amy Wood, author of this prize-winning, vital book which provides a compelling approach on how to manage the constant "Go! Do! Be Better" stresses of 21st century American life.... more

When one partner in a couple lacks much interest or desire for sex it can wreak havoc on the partnership. Often, women over 40 experience a significant loss of libido related to not only hormonal changes, but also circumstances surrounding... more

In this half hour episode Susan Lager draws on her observations on remorse and forgivessness (or lack of it), from many years of working with thousands of couples. Tune in to learn about the four key parts to an effective apology, the... more

In this thirty minute episode Susan Lager co-hosts with Meredith Richardson, a mediator and conflict coach who knows all too well how people, especially when in conflict, can be totally blind to their own emotional blind spots. When... more

In this 45 minute episode Susan Lager hosts a special guest, Lisa Boldin, a graduate of the Kripalu School of Ayurveda, and specialist in Trauma Sensitive Yoga. Together they discuss the unique advantages of this form of Yoga for... more

Susan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach at The Couples Center in Portsmouth, NH, explores the difference between making a mistake and making a bad decision, and why people make bad decisions which can ruin their lives. In... more
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