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Susan Lager

The Couplespeak™ Relationship Forum


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Susan Lager is a psychotherapist, author, and relationship coach at her private practice, The Couples Center PLLC, in Portsmouth, NH. She is the Founder and Principal of Couplespeak™, the unique and innovative company providing exciting programs and vital tools for transformational relationship success. She has authored many published articles, as well as two new workbooks in The Couplespeak™ Series: "I'M TALKING! ARE YOU LISTENING?" FIX COMMUNICATION PROBLEMS WITH YOUR PARTNER IN NO TIME FLAT! is a short, humorous guide for the "do's" and "don't's" of better communication in close relationships. Her latest book "BECOME RELATIONSHIP SMART WITHOUT A LIFETIME OF THERAPY" is a useful resource for anyone wanting more joyful, meaningful relationships. Susan also gets “up close and personal” in two blogs, has produced a series of “Learn To Love” videos on her YouTube channel, and is available as a show-stopping speaker at special events in her “spare" time. You can reach her at her Portsmouth, New Hampshire office at: 603-431-7131

On-Demand Episodes

In this 30 minute episode Susan sheds light on the growing epidemic of cell phone addiction. She shares with listeners key signs and symptoms of addiction, and offers a self-test for those questioning if their own use is problematic.... more

In this twenty minute episode Susan reveals the issues around our "minefields" - areas of vulnerability created by past experiences and relationships. The podcast will help you learn to identify the nature of your "mines," how to... more

In this 45 minute Couplespeak™ podcast Susan meets with Lisa McNally, a mother of three who has 20+ years of experience working with divorcing individuals, couples and families in all aspects of family law matters including... more

In this half hour episode Susan explores the issues involved with being either a clueless spouse / partner, or one who has healthy, loving partnership skills. This episode taps into emotional intelligence, how highly you would rate yourself... more

In this 20 minute Couplespeak™ episode Susan Lager shares some connection tools from her many years of working with couples. In this bried podcast you will learn how you can, with minimal time and energy amidst what... more

In this 15 minute Couplespeak™ podcast Susan Lager shares her insights and experiences with the issue of cheap forgiveness - what it is, and how and when it may be adaptive as the best possible "solution" to emotional injury, vs.... more

In my work as a psychotherapist and in my private life I have encountered an issue which generally causes a great deal of anguish and uncertainty. It's the process of an adult child who has married, often now has a child of his or her... more

In this 20 minute Couplespeak™ episode Susan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, discusses 3 major manifestations of unfairness in close relationships which come up with some regularity in her work with individuals... more

In this 20 to 30 minute episode Susan Lager shares her experiences as a psychotherapist witnessing common communication blunders clients often make. Whether you're trying to communicate with a spouse, partner, friend or family... more

In this 30-40 minute episode Susan co-hosts with a unique relationship mentor, Valerie Greene, at www.CoachValerieGreene.com, who help couples to stop fighting and fall in love again, and who helps women inspire their husbands or... more
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