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  Date / Time: 8/5/2009 4:42 PM UTC

  Rough sex and Child abuse
  

  I was talking to a sista yesterday who said she was gang raped an early age. I distinctively remember this sister making mention a year ago how she liked for sex to be rough and wanted to be choked and a brutha to mad dig up in them guts. etc etc. That sho nuff aint my style. That gave me pause and made me question WHY would a woman want that when the majority of women DON'T!!! Initially I figured this had to be a byproduct of some sort of mental damage, however I had no evidence to support that hypothesis.
  
  I think I'm further along in proving my hypothesis correct. ESPECIALLY after she told me what she told me. She was a virgin when this happened.
  
  THIS is why I'm VERY particular about WHO takes your virginity and HOW they took it. I have never taken a woman's viriginity and had opportunities too but turn them down. I have my reasons. But what I think is he who takes a woman's virginity actually defines sex for her and will influence her perception of sex for almost the rest of her life it gone unchecked.
  
  Now you women who like all that rough ish. Think back for me. Is there some event in your childhood that influenced this preference?
  
  Signed: Mr.O
  What do you think?
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