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  Date / Time: 8/5/2009 4:40 PM UTC

  Female Pleasure Buttons
  

  Can someone PLEASE help me innerstand why women have problems making themselves cum!!!! Is it because you don't know your own body? Is it yall don't know what your body has to do in order to catch an orgasm? I figured that stuff was instinctual. I mean, I know how to make myself sneeze, burp, hawk spit, etc but yall women can't make themselves cum?
  
  Ok here is the deal. People consider me as some sorta sex guru. I dont know about all that. I just know some stuff. So this chick is hitting me up on IM last night. And she's telling me she's playing with her clit. But it won't cum. SIGH!!!! here we go...
  
  Come to find out, her ass is just sitting there rubbing her clit. I asked, "is your ass clinched? are your legs flexed and feet pointed?" She's like "no" well DUH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! how the heck can you expect to cum when your body aint taking the orgasm stance? I learned that back when I was 6 years old. That I had to tighten my dayum thighs and flex my legs and I could cum faster.
  
  In fact I can't get an orgasm from oral sex. UNLESS I clinch my legs (as if I was standing on my tip toes but lying down) If I didn't do that then I'd never come from oral sex.
  
  NOthing is more frustrating than a woman that can't cum. When she told me that I noticed one thing, that women who had difficulty cumming NEVE flexed their legs. Thats how I could tell that many women were about to have an orgasm. I felt that squeeze in their thighs.
  
  Ok, wanna hear the end of the story? I told her to do those things and she did. about 15 minutes later she's like "I'm cuuuummmmiinnngggg, Is this water supposed to be spraying out?" I swear, some things you THINK would be obvious....it was quite amazing how she could type and do all that at the same time too. thinks that make ya go hmmm
  
  I asked what did she do to cum, she said she starting grinding her hips. yeah that'll do it.
  
  It's amazing how women will live in their body's for years and won't know jack about them. How they prefer to let EVERYONE ELSE tell them about their body but will not explore it themselves.
  
  What do you think?
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