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GREATLY influenced by the media, music and Hollywood, modern day dating has evolved into a sex driven, commitment lacking bowl of unparalleled eroticism. This perspective is meant to show how modern day dating affects tomorrow’s marriages (or lack thereof).  Today dating comes in many forms from one-night stands, speed and Internet dating, myspacing, blind dating and booty calls. There is also anonymous sex, recreational sex, casual sex, group sex, safe sex, dry sex and a host of other seductive sounding dating categories coined by the sexually active and glamorized by the media. 

Modern day dating refuses to take into consideration: bad character, sexual history, patterns of failed relationships, harmful attitudes, child abandonment, HIV/AIDS or other STDs.  Modern day dating renounces the impact of: criminal records, lying tongues, drug or alcohol addictions and child support conflicts. Modern day dating rejects the critical significance of: abortions, incarcerations, serial marriages, restraining orders or the fact that a person is abusive, promiscuous and violent prone or emotionally debilitated. Looks and appearances reign supreme and the mentalities are “Live for today! And “Express your sexuality!” I call these men and women, extreme sexual gamblers

What Has Modern Day Dating Produced?

It has produced men and women who mock sexual purity, openly berate morality and sneer at the sacredness of the marriage covenant. Modern day dating has procreated men and women who bear children they neither want nor care about. It has produced countless unwed mothers and fatherless children. Children who will never know their biological dads because their mommies can’t locate or determine which of the thugs, players, pimps, ballers or shot callers impregnated them.  These males would rather pay entry into a nightclub or purchase a twelve-pack of beer rather than buy a box of pampers for children they’ve fathered.  These smooth talking misogynistic males only view females as sex objects instead of wives or mothers. 

Modern day dating has bred multitudes of bitter women who have been played, dumped, lied to and cheated on, who have no hesitation about committing paternity fraud or filing false rape, abuse or molestation charges.  These females now suffer from low self-esteem, bipolar and borderline personality disorders. Their numerous dating catastrophes have caused them to become cynical, angry, enraged, confused, depressed and driven to use mind-altering drugs such as Prozac or Zoloft.  This group of females will go to almost any lengths to get revenge for being spurned or cast aside by their casual sex partners and enigmatic lovers.

Modern day dating has produced a swarm of men and women who if (and that’s a big IF) they decide to get married, have learned some terribly cruel lessons. They have had multiple sex partners, lied, cheated, broken hearts and toyed with people’s emotions.  Did you know that one of the modern day dating standards is to have sex with ten to forty or more sex partners and then get married? By the time they walk down the aisle they’ve developed callous hearts and ill feelings toward the opposite sex.  Like it or not, agree or not, this is the face of modern day dating.  That's why most people looking for true love or a “soul mate” will agree at how extremely rare they are to find.

Has Modern Day Dating Ruined Marriage?
My answer to that question is… “Possibly!” The men and women who have embraced modern day dating practices could have possibly ruined marriage!

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