Pain; happiness; marriage; decision making; teen incentives

Dr Julie Helmrich, famous Shrink'n'Drink psychologist from Milwaukee, answered these questions: 1) Does Happiness Course address how continual physical pain affects ability to be joyful in my successes, in spite of pain? 2) 18 yo wants tips on becoming better decision maker in college compared to high school, 3) what are long-term effects of holding everything in? 4) Basic differences between gay relationships and straight relationships, 5) 18 yo old son has NO plans for life after graduation.  What do parents do to help him with initiative? 6) Help me convince husband to take marriage course with me, 7) Aren't people about as happy as they choose to be? 8) Is appropriate for divorced person to take Marriage course? 9) What do people want who play the martyr card?