Dau losing friends d/t negativity;same sex feelings;motives

Dr Julie Helmrich, famous Shrink'n'Drink psychologist from Milwaukee, answered these questions: 1) how approach dau whose FB posts have become cynical/negative and are losing her friends? 2) why do people worry about stuff that needs to be done? why not just DO IT? 3) first time experience with same sex feelings, 4) productivity, 5) gaming industry and motivation, 6) being assertive about dreams and ideas with husband and colleagues.