Why Aren't Black Women Seen as Good Catches For Marriage?

Tonight 9Mind Sacred Sisterhood will be discussing why American born Blk women are not viewed as good catches for marriage by their own men. I will attempt to break down and explain why once a man achieves wealth and influence he looks for different things in a woman that he feels either compliments who he has become and what he seeks to achieve. Sadly there has been a culture that has been cultivated in Blk African American families that has consistantly placed BW as the last pil when it comes to being walked down the aisle in Holy Matrimony. Sadly BW themselves willingly perpetuate the very culture which will result in many of them seeking to get married probably not seeing that happen and if so it will not be with a BM of wealth and assured financhial means. Do BW finish last? Yes, it seems so when it comes to the grand prize of marriage to the elite and most eliglible men of her race. Since BM are often offered more choices of long term employment and financhial success we sisters are going to have to begin to seriously anaylyze the generational conditions and culture that somehow knock many of we outta of the dating to marriage pool. It's gonna be a great and informative show that you dont want to miss and hopefully it will spark diaglogue amongst we on what we can change and what sort of communities (we) need to create in order to make more of we eligible catches for the men we seem to be the most loyal to but who because of his/their vision of what success really looks like, have long since stopped being loyal to us. It is not all hopeless sisters but we definitly must redefine what our communites must be and become to insure lil Blk girls can grow up and have a shot at being married to truly successful men and not have to settle for males who will not be able to sustain or maintain a Blk family which is the first and most important government a person can be part of.