http://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessaryOpen up your ability to explore the infinite possibilities in your life talking with Delrae from Life Learning Center of Self.enCopyright Delrae J. Bantz (C/O Blogtalkradio)Sat, 15 Jun 2019 06:45:00 GMTWed, 13 Jan 2016 18:00:00 GMTSpiritualityBlogTalkRadio Feed v2.0https://dasg7xwmldix6.cloudfront.net/hostpics/55cfab3c-f410-45d5-8710-606fbb50ca19_sin-2.jpghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessaryOpen up your ability to explore the infinite possibilities in your life talking with Delrae from Life Learning Center of Self.feeds@blogtalkradio.comBlogTalkRadio.comspirituality,delrae j bantz,self is necessary,delrae jean,life learning center of self,truth,delrae,universal truth,deliberate creation,self helpLifeLearningCenterofSelfnoOpen up your ability to explore the infinite possibilities in your life talking with Delrae from Life Learning Center of Self.episodichttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2016/01/13/when-family-and-friends-no-longer-seem-to-understand-youSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2016/01/13/when-family-and-friends-no-longer-seem-to-understand-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2016/01/13/when-family-and-friends-no-longer-seem-to-understand-youWed, 13 Jan 2016 18:00:00 GMTWhen Family and Friends no longer seem to Understand YouAs you and your life starts to change You will hear people who you love talking and yet they do not realize that their words reveal they are standing deeply in the ‘less than’. It shows you where the undercurrent lies within their concepts and ideas. It shows you where their fears are about the state of affairs, about what they believe their world is truly like. They will have trouble understanding you as well. Do not be surprised when they look at you as though you have lost sight of the reality of their fears. I am sharing this because there will come a time when you will choose to only surround yourself with people of like mind. Those that are learning lessons daily with each and every one of their experiences. There will still be chaos happening in your life. And at times you will have a sadness in your heart because of situations that are out of your control. Remember though, that even though others have their walk on this plane and it is not like yours, you still get to be in charge of how you handle yourself and how you know that all will be okay in your world at all times. You no longer have to fear the ways in which the world looks because you know that it is your thoughts, your emotions, your feelings of this moment in this now that creates for you your tomorrow. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnochange and chaos,being in charge of your life,shifting relationships,Delrae J Bantz,Life Learning Center of SelfWith changes comes change. Sometimes the change is welcome, other times we might be caught off guardhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/11/18/when-your-creations-are-falling-shortSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/11/18/when-your-creations-are-falling-short/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/11/18/when-your-creations-are-falling-shortWed, 18 Nov 2015 18:00:00 GMTWhen Your Creations Are Falling ShortRecently my class and I spent most of our time discussing and learning how to recognize those underlying currents that surface just when you want your creations to come to you and how you will know, by the fact that no matter how hard you try to have a creation come in you are only receiving maybe up to 75%. Has that happened to you? What do you say to yourself when that happens? Can you sit and write down right now how many times that has happened to you? When this does happen how do you deal with the fact that for some reason each and every time you are just about going to get that certain something, just the way you want it, in the last moments of having your creation, the experience you are telling yourself will change your style of life, and then in that last moment... Poof! Something goes wrong. Not to lose it totally, just enough to have you not get the whole effect of your heart desire. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnosetting intentions,filling needs,recognizing undercurrents,Life Learning Center of Self,Delrae J BantzDo you recognize a need, set an intention to allow it to be filled, only to fall short when the experience occurs?http://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/11/11/listening-to-your-heart-instead-of-your-headSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/11/11/listening-to-your-heart-instead-of-your-head/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/11/11/listening-to-your-heart-instead-of-your-headWed, 11 Nov 2015 18:00:00 GMTListening to your Heart instead of your HeadThe truth is found within the heart, so the advice "follow your heart" may indeed be very apt... but how do we know when we're truly listening to/from our heart and what do we do with the mind's tendency to rationalize everything? Today Delrae J Bantz and Mary K Weinhagen from the Life Learning Center of Self, will be talking about this very topic. Delrae shares that the four essential 'ingredients' are timing, sequence, parameters, and boundaries and walks you through the best process of following your heart by communicating with self. Come join us! 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoLife Learning Center of Self,timing,sequence,parameters,boundariesThe truth is found within the heart, so the advice "follow your heart" may indeed be very apt... but how do we know when we're truly listening to/from our hearthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/10/21/lets-talk-about-communicationSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/10/21/lets-talk-about-communication/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/10/21/lets-talk-about-communicationWed, 21 Oct 2015 17:00:00 GMTLet's talk about COMMUNICATION!We know that communication is more than just talking, but what does it really entail? Paying attention to your energy as well as the energies around you might give you a better idea about how to communicate effectively, greatly increasing the chances that the information you intend to deliver is received clearly. Today we'll talk about what gets in the way of true communication and how we can clean up those things that get in our way. Please join the conversation with Delrae and Mary K of the Life Learning Center of Self. Feel free to ask questions and share comments as we practice better communication. 00:32:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnocommunication,talking,sharing information,Delrae J Bantz,Life Learning Center of SelfWe know that communication is more than just talking, but what does it really entail?http://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/10/14/stop-blaming-start-taking-responsibilitySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/10/14/stop-blaming-start-taking-responsibility/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/10/14/stop-blaming-start-taking-responsibilityWed, 14 Oct 2015 17:00:00 GMTStop Blaming, Start Taking ResponsibilityWhen you stop blaming and start taking responsibility  you can re write the story and when you do you begin to realize you made a choice to support the wrong direction rather than the one that would have made you happy... with this realization you can make new choices that are aligned with truth that leads to your happiness. But are you aware of all of the subtle ways your habit of blaming might still be active in you? Do you really understand that your happiness does not lie at the whims of what your parents did/do, what your spouse does, what your boss does, what your government does... but instead it lies in your hands? Today we'll talk about how to recognize when you're 'blaming' and talk about what it means to take responsibility and hold yourself accountable for all of the experiences in your life... and how that can lead to true freedom and happiness. 00:03:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoblame and responsibility,responsibility,accountability,being self accountable,Delrae J BantzWhen you stop blaming and start taking responsibility you can re write the story and when you do you begin to realize you made a choice to support the wrong dihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/10/07/standing-in-the-midst-of-changeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/10/07/standing-in-the-midst-of-change/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/10/07/standing-in-the-midst-of-changeWed, 07 Oct 2015 17:00:00 GMTStanding in the Midst of ChangeWhen everything starts changing you may need to change everything. How do you navigate your way through the changes you've ask for? Have you ever found yourself in the middle of chaos only to realize that perhaps the very chaos is evidence that change is arriving at your doorstep... the change you've been asking for? Why is it that we so often look at our current experiences and say, "I wanted change but not that!" Is it possible that even what appear to be disruptions can reveal valuable information about ourselves? Highly likely! Today Delrae J Bantz, of The Life Learning Center of Self, will talk about walking through changes even when they look like the exact opposite of what we need most. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnowhen everything changes,standing in the middle of chaos,lessons from disruption,Delrae J Bantz,Life Learning Center of SelfWhen everything starts changing you may need to change everything. How do you navigate your way through the changes you've ask for?http://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/09/30/what-are-learned-behaviors-and-why-you-need-to-stop-themSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/09/30/what-are-learned-behaviors-and-why-you-need-to-stop-them/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/09/30/what-are-learned-behaviors-and-why-you-need-to-stop-themWed, 30 Sep 2015 17:00:00 GMTWhat are Learned Behaviors and why you need to stop them Let's talk about Learned Behaviors. These are behaviors that you learned that were meant to serve as a temporary safety net but you lost sight of that. So now we need to talk about how easily you can deflect yourself from finding out the learned behaviors that are now keeping you from standing in your responsibilities and the accountabilities of making the changes to your thoughts and feelings and learning how to use your emotions as the very tool that will change your life. When you repeat a learned behaviour often enough it becomes your normal response and you forget that you just needed time with the particular example at a particular moment in time. You needed time because you were already learning behaviors that kept you safe from those adults that lost control with you because of their own learned behaviours.  It's time to stop the cycle and recognize that the learned behavior is no longer serving you. In fact, it's limiting your choices today and keeping you from the truth. Join the conversation with Delrae J Bantz from the Life Learning Center of Self! 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoLearned Behaviors,LIfe Learning Center of Self,Delrae J Bantz,responsibility,accountabilityLet's talk about Learned Behaviors. These are behaviors that you learned that were meant to serve as a temporary safety net but you lost sight of thathttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/09/16/what-is-your-style-of-livingSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/09/16/what-is-your-style-of-living/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/09/16/what-is-your-style-of-livingWed, 16 Sep 2015 17:00:00 GMTWhat is Your Style of Living?When you are working on having your creations, or those special things that you have always wanted to experience, and you seem to keep missing it by just a smidge do you ask yourself why? I know for a very long time I spent lots and lots of hours learning how to be positive, and then wondering why the things that I felt should be my experience never seemed to touch me for very long. I did get to touch some of the successes I desired or I think I would have given up. Then I began to realize that if I wasn’t willing to make the changes that were really sitting in my heart about the world that I lived in I sure would not be able to even feel the world I wanted to have and experience . Are you willing to make the changes to the way you think and feel about how you say you want to experience your world? This is what it takes to see, hear, smell, and feel a new way of living. Today we'll talk about your current style of living and take a look at whether or not your current lifestyle supports that! 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnostyle of living,lifestyle,deliberate creation,Delrae J Bantz,Life Learning Center of SelfAre you willing to make the changes to the way you think and feel about how you say you want to experience your world? This is what it takes to see, hear, smellhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/09/09/what-really-allows-an-experience-to-manifestSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/09/09/what-really-allows-an-experience-to-manifest/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/09/09/what-really-allows-an-experience-to-manifestWed, 09 Sep 2015 17:00:00 GMTWhat really allows an experience to manifest? Are you willing to make the changes to the way you think and feel about how you say you want to experience your world? This is what it takes to see, hear, smell, and feel a new way of living. It takes time from you, it takes discipline from you, it takes cutting to the bone truth from you, for you to really have changes in your life and to learn how to allow the style of life that you have felt was yours all along. So if this is the case, and for me I felt deep inside of me in my quiet inner thoughts that I was suppose to have a style of life that was just perfect for me, then you know as I did that it is you that is not in balance, not the world around you. Again this is Universal truth. Why you ask? I say this because this planet is supporting the most predominant thoughts and feelings that you have in that quiet place within you. So today let's talk about how to take charge of those thoughts ad feelings so that you can be more deliberate about what is predominant in your life! 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoWhat really allows an experience to manifest,making changes to the way you think and feel,deliberate creation,Delrae J Bantz,Life Learning Center of SelfWhen you are working on having your creations, the style of life, or those special things that you have always wanted to experience, and you seem to keep missinhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/09/02/communicating-in-truth--the-challenges-of-self-communicationSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/09/02/communicating-in-truth--the-challenges-of-self-communication/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/09/02/communicating-in-truth--the-challenges-of-self-communicationWed, 02 Sep 2015 17:00:00 GMTCommunicating in truth - the challenges of self-communicationWe have spent a lot of time on communication and how the most important person to learn to communicate with is yourself. Yes,  you need to be brutally honest with yourself, and that does not mean that you should beat yourself up. It means when you are thinking about an invitation to participate, whether it is directly about you or one of your family or friends, you must talk to yourself like you do when you are sharing secrets about you to that special person that you can share anything with. When it comes to those deep secrets, it should really be you first, then share with others. Today we'll talk about not only the value of communicating truthfully, but what kind of things might get in the way of doing so... are there words that might trigger discomfort?do 'titles' intimidate us?how does our judgement or opinion get in the way of seeing the truth?does the way we feel give us clues? Bring your questions to the conversation with Delrae and Mary K from the Life Learning Center of Self and let's bring you into an honest relationship with SELF! 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnothe challenges of self-communication,communicating in truth,Delrae J Bantz,Mary K Weinhagen,Self is NecessaryToday we'll talk about not only the value of communicating truthfully, but what kind of things might get in the way of doing so...http://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/08/26/coming-into-a-balanced-understanding-within-selfSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/08/26/coming-into-a-balanced-understanding-within-self/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/08/26/coming-into-a-balanced-understanding-within-selfWed, 26 Aug 2015 17:00:00 GMTComing into a balanced understanding within selfToday speaking about when you are communicating with someone and it goes flat. The reason it does is because you are not totally understanding yourself what it is that you are really feeling about the issue. That doesn’t mean that you are not feeling strongly about the need. It just means you are not locked on to the reason of why you get to have that need filled. You need to look at what you are claiming you need and ask questions about the whys, the hows, the whens, and the wheres about the need. You will discover how often that you have a need that you, yourself, cannot stand behind so then you begin to see why you cannot communicate your needs in a way that your needs can be met. Join Delrae and Mary K of the Life Learning Center of Self at NOON Wednesday August 26 as we talk about coming into balance! 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnocoming into balance,communication with self,communication with others,clarity in communication,Delrae J BantzSo how do you feel your communications skills are today as you begin to see changes in your world? Yet with those very special people in your life you are stillhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/08/19/minding-your-thoughtsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/08/19/minding-your-thoughts/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/08/19/minding-your-thoughtsWed, 19 Aug 2015 17:00:00 GMTMinding Your ThoughtsEach of you have a place where you had dreams of what you knew you wanted to experience while you were here. You must begin by asking yourself what, in your deepest part of your heart, did you know was going to be the one factor that would get in your way. When you look back you can see when things got in the way, but it is not until you, yourself begin to admit that it was a choice that you made on a conscious level that changed the course of your life. I have heard many reasons but mostly, when people really look at their past choices, it was because they did not feel that they could do it on their own. So they made a choice to accept second best.. Let's talk with Delrae today about how our thoughts are supporting... or not supporting the New You! 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnomind your thoughts,giving up on your dreams,Life Learning Center of Self,Delrae J Bantz,Self is NecessaryWhen you are looking at the things in your life that you want to make a change to, begin by asking yourself when you first walked away from your dreams.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/08/12/what-is-matter-and-does-it-matterSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/08/12/what-is-matter-and-does-it-matter/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/08/12/what-is-matter-and-does-it-matterWed, 12 Aug 2015 17:00:00 GMTWhat is Matter? And does it matter?I am very excited to share that if you would look at your life and just stop the ‘matter’, the ‘weight’, in all the stories that you continue to tell that holds you to your past, then instead begin to once again, in a conscious manner, put the matter, or weight, in the very aspects that will have you thrive and grow, then you will begin to have the very things in your life that you feared would never be a part of you. When I talk about ‘matter’, I am sharing that you are the one, the only one, that puts the vibration of sadness, of loss, of loneliness, etc. on things and you do this when you continue to say to yourself and others your life story as though you are still in the very center of that story. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoWhat is Matter? And does it matter?,your stories,the weight in your stories,Delrae J Bantz,Life Learning Center of SelfI feel it is time to look at how not to make things matter.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/08/05/are-your-stories-getting-in-the-waySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/08/05/are-your-stories-getting-in-the-way/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/08/05/are-your-stories-getting-in-the-wayWed, 05 Aug 2015 17:00:00 GMTAre Your Stories Getting in the Way?Do we really choose the wisest course of action for ourselves? When considering whether or not to participate in any given scenario are we even able to find the clarity needed to see what we really need? How do you get yourself to tell yourself the very deep truths about whether you desire to even be a part of the event? These questions I asked you are just surface questions. They really have nothing to do with whether or not you have a true need to be there. They do not touch the parts of you that you have hidden away from yourself. Now mind you most people around you do know these things about you. They do because even though they know your stories they are not attached to them as you are. Join Delrae and Mary K from Life Learning Center of Self as we look at the ways our stories interfere with making choices in truth and how we can start to release our attachment to the stories we've been telling. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnostories we've been telling,making choices in truth,Life Learning Center of Self,Delrae J Bantz,inner selfHow bringing yesterdays story into today can hamper our feel for truthhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/07/29/this-walk-is-not-to-get-to-the-end-and-be-doneSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/07/29/this-walk-is-not-to-get-to-the-end-and-be-done/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/07/29/this-walk-is-not-to-get-to-the-end-and-be-doneWed, 29 Jul 2015 17:00:00 GMTThis walk is not to get to the end and be done.There is so much to learn once we get our issues behind us. The things we will learn about what a truly wonderful place this planet is and how it supports our every need and how it can accomplish this for each and every individual on this glorious planet. No matter what you are being told about the 'less than' it is not so, but first... before you learn how to be in charge of your life and your environment... you must get back to the Being your were when you were born. Come join us as we talk about  how to balance the frustration that comes up when our eyes start to open after we've decided to make changes, with the peace that comes from standing in the truth. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoget our issues behind us,be in charge of your life,the peace that comes from standing in the truth,Delrae J Bantz,Life Learning Center of Selfwe magnificent gods created this earth vibrational plane. We created it so that no matter what level of understanding we are on as an individual and what ever lhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/07/22/look-at-your-choices-to-change-your-lifeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/07/22/look-at-your-choices-to-change-your-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/07/22/look-at-your-choices-to-change-your-lifeWed, 22 Jul 2015 17:00:00 GMTLook at Your Choices to Change Your LifeYou can look at this in two ways, you are either on your path to the Universal Truth and working on your independence in truth, or you just have come to the place where you have given up ever getting any of your needs filled so you just bully your way through you life and most people avoid having any contact with you. Which do you think is prompting your behavior? Independence from the concepts and ideas that are put on you does not mean you go through life unhappy. It means that you have come to a place in your heart where you understand that each and every person on this Earth plane has made conscious choices and has asked for the experiences they are having. You will have learned that each choice, no matter how mundane they may seem, in the long run affect how you will be expressing each new day you have. Join Delrae today in talking about gaining true independence by truly holding yourself responsible and accountable for every choice you make! 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoLooking at choices to change your life,getting your needs filled,Delrae J Bantz,Self is Necessary,Conscious choicesJoin Delrae today in talking about gaining true independence by truly holding yourself responsible and accountable for every choice you make!http://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/07/15/learning-new-behaviorsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/07/15/learning-new-behaviors/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/07/15/learning-new-behaviorsWed, 15 Jul 2015 17:00:00 GMTLearning New Behaviors?We all have some 'learned behaviors' that get in our way and limit us. In order to unravel these behaviors we first have to identify them and understand that we created them to protect ourselves. Can we start to realize that we don't need protecting, at least not that way? Will this require learning new behaviors? Come join Delrae J Bantz and Mary K Weinhagen from the Life Learning Center of Self as we discuss the process that will bring you back to your natural state of JOY! 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoLife Learning Center of Self,Delrae J Bantz,learned behavior,self protectionWe all have some 'learned behaviors' that get in our way and limit us. In order to unravel these behaviors we first have to identify themhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/07/08/evaluating-in-truthSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/07/08/evaluating-in-truth/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/07/08/evaluating-in-truthWed, 08 Jul 2015 17:00:00 GMTEvaluating in Truth Your need is to evaluate your feelings in truth. Then you need to know you have the value to allow the Universe to bring it to you. Would you, could you, please take the time to see that you have always been taken care of, your whole life, by the Universe? This week Delrae J Bantz and Mary K Weinhagen of the Life Learning Center of Self will be talking about the process for success. From making a decision, to take action, moving through the experience, and reviewing the result of the experience afterwards, it is essential that we be willing to take stock of ALL of our feelings and emotions, and that we do so in the truth. Come join us and add to the conversation! 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoevaluate your feelings in truth,allowing the Universe to answer,Life Learning Center of Self,Delrae J Bantz,Mary K WeinhagenDenying what you really desire only creates a hot mess. Why not go for the truth and avoid all that cleanup? Join us at Noon CDT 7/8/15http://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/07/01/the-power-of-emotionsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/07/01/the-power-of-emotions/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/07/01/the-power-of-emotionsWed, 01 Jul 2015 17:00:00 GMTThe Power of EmotionsWith Pixar's release of the new movie Inside Out a couple of weeks ago people are talking about the little voices inside your head. At Facebook alone over 378 thousand people are talking!  New York Magazine's David Edelstein says: "This teeming, tear-duct-draining, exhaustingly inventive, surreal animated comedy is going to be a new pop-culture touchstone. In all kinds of ways it’s a mind-opener." While it's not our intention to give a movie review, this seems like the perfect time to talk about the power of emotions and the part they play in your creations. Join Delrae and Mary K at Noon CDT and share your ideas and questions! 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnothe power of emotions,Inside Out,mind-opener,Self is Necessary,Delrae J BantzWith Pixar's release of the new movie Inside Out a couple of weeks ago people are talking about the little voices inside your head. At Facebook alone over 378 thttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/06/24/living-with-limits-in-a-limitless-universeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/06/24/living-with-limits-in-a-limitless-universe/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/06/24/living-with-limits-in-a-limitless-universeWed, 24 Jun 2015 17:00:00 GMTLiving with Limits in a limitless UniverseAre you living the lifestyle you most desire? Join Delrae and Mary K of the Life Learning Center of Self as we talk about Limits and Learned Behavior. Where and how are we holding ourselves apart from all of the well-being available to us? What does it mean to expand our limits? How can we make changes and take steps that move us in the direction we intend? Please join us and bring your questions. Feedback is always welcome! 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoLiving+with+Limits+in+a+limitless+Universe,Delrae,lifestyle,Mary K,Life Learning Center of SelfAre you living the lifestyle you most desire? Join Delrae and Mary K of the Life Learning Center of Self as we talk about Limits and Learned Behavior. Where andhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/06/17/living-with-limits-in-a-limitless-universeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/06/17/living-with-limits-in-a-limitless-universe/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/06/17/living-with-limits-in-a-limitless-universeWed, 17 Jun 2015 17:00:00 GMTLiving with Limits in a limitless UniverseAre you living the lifestyle you most desire? Join Delrae and Mary K of the Life Learning Center of Self as we talk about Limits and Learned Behavior. Where and how are we holding ourselves apart from all of the well-being available to us? What does it mean to expand our limits? How can we make changes and take steps that move us in the direction we intend? Please join us and bring your questions. Feedback is always welcome! 00:02:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnolifestyle,Living with Limits in a limitless Universe,Delrae,Life Learning Center of Self,Limits and Learned BehaviorAre you living the lifestyle you most desire? Join Delrae and Mary K of the Life Learning Center of Self as we talk about Limits and Learned Behavior. Where andhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/06/10/how-learned-behavior-insinuates-itself-into-our-thoughts-opinions-and-beliefsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/06/10/how-learned-behavior-insinuates-itself-into-our-thoughts-opinions-and-beliefs/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/06/10/how-learned-behavior-insinuates-itself-into-our-thoughts-opinions-and-beliefsWed, 10 Jun 2015 17:00:00 GMTHow Learned Behavior insinuates itself into our thoughts, opinions and beliefsCome join Delrae J Bantz and Mary K Weinhagen from the Life Learning Center of Self as Delrae shares more about how learned behavior affects our every thought, opinion and belief.  Let's look at some of the conversations taking place in the world today and see if we can bring about a shift in our understanding that will allow us to see truth more clearly. 00:32:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnolearned behavior,life learning center of self,Delrae J Bantz,Mary K Weinhagen,Self is NecessaryCome join Delrae J Bantz and Mary K Weinhagen from the Life Learning Center of Self as Delrae shares more about how learned behavior affects our every thought,http://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/06/03/learned-behaviorSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/06/03/learned-behavior/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/06/03/learned-behaviorWed, 03 Jun 2015 17:00:00 GMTLearned BehaviorOften we behave in ways that are contrary to our best interests. What makes that so? It's kind of like declaring we're heading out to California, which lies west of us, and getting into a vehicle headed east. Along the way it might dawn on us we have taken action that moves us in the opposite direction of our intended goal so we'll make a course correction. Depending on what behaviors we've learned in our past we make a slight correction, only to discover after many miles that we are now simply headed SE.  WHAT?!? Today let's talk about how to catch those 'learned behaviors' that are getting in the way of the Truth! Join us in the conversation. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnolearned behavior,Delrae J Bantz,Life Learning Center of Self,Spiritual Development,Self is NecessaryOften we behave in ways that are contrary to our best interests. What makes that so? It's kind of like declaring we're heading out to California, which lies weshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/05/27/lets-talk-about-joy-and-happinessSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/05/27/lets-talk-about-joy-and-happiness/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/05/27/lets-talk-about-joy-and-happinessWed, 27 May 2015 17:00:00 GMTLet's Talk About Joy and HappinessToday we will talk with Delrae of the Life Learning Center of Self, about the distinction between joy and happiness as well as the importance of them in our lives. Questions have arisen recently after Lakewood Church co-pastor Victoria Osteen received backlash from the Christian community after video footage of an August sermon surfaced showing Osteen encouraging congregants to "do good for your own self." -- with one church leader speaking about Ms Osteen's naivete about the difference between joy and happiness.  Are joy and happiness simply different degrees of the same feeling? Or are they truly two entirely different things? Please join us today in conversation as we explore these questions and the roles of joy and happiness in our lives. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoJoy and Happiness,Delrae Bantz,Life Learning Center of Self,Victoria Osteen,Are joy and happiness the same feeling?Today we will talk with Delrae of the Life Learning Center of Self, about the distinction between joy and happiness as well as the importance of them in our livhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/05/20/lets-talk-about-joy-and-happinessSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/05/20/lets-talk-about-joy-and-happiness/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/05/20/lets-talk-about-joy-and-happinessWed, 20 May 2015 17:00:00 GMTOur Changing WorldThere are so many things going on in the world right now! Please join the conversation over at Delrae's blog Golden Words of Self or at Life Learning Center of Self! 00:02:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoJoy and Happiness,Joy,Happiness,Delrae J Bantz,Life Learning Center of SelfThere are so many things going on in the world right now! Please join the conversation over at Delrae's blog Golden Words of Self or at Life Learning Center ofhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/05/13/ying-and-yang--bringing-balance-backSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/05/13/ying-and-yang--bringing-balance-back/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/05/13/ying-and-yang--bringing-balance-backWed, 13 May 2015 17:00:00 GMTYing and Yang - Bringing Balance Back  Ying and Yang... two principles, one negative, dark, and feminine (ying) and one positive, bright, and masculine (yang) whose interaction influences our creations. It's more than the old 'two-sides' to every issue... if we want to create the life we desire it will happen faster (and cleaner) when we balance the physical and spiritual aspects of each experience we have and choice we make. Today Delrae and Mary K will be highlighting a couple of different topics and exploring the ying and the yang. Please feel free to join the conversation!   00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoyin and yang,self is necessary,spiritual and physical,Delrae J Bantz,Mary K WeinhagenYing and Yang... two principles, one negative, dark, and feminine (ying) and one positive, bright, and masculine (yang) whose interaction influences our creahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/05/06/spring-into-action--balancing-the-physical-and-spiritualSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/05/06/spring-into-action--balancing-the-physical-and-spiritual/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/05/06/spring-into-action--balancing-the-physical-and-spiritualWed, 06 May 2015 17:00:00 GMTSpring into Action - Balancing the physical and spiritualToo often in life we are encouraged to put ourselves last. The truth is... we need to realize that the self comes first! The 'whole' is comprised of a multitude of distinct facets and playing your part to the fullest requires you navigate the world in truth with the full understanding that Self Is Necessary. Today's episode of Self is Necessary focuses on the recognition of the balancing of physical and spiritual components when creating a life for ourselves in a physical body here on Planet Earth. Come join Delrae J Bantz and Mary K Weinhagen of the Life Learning Center of Self as we talk about both sides of the coin, so to speak. We'd love to have you join the conversation! 00:33:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnobalancing physical and spiritual,self is necessary,putting self first,Life Learning Center of Self,Delrae J BantzToo often in life we are encouraged to put ourselves last. The truth is... we need to realize that the self comes first! The 'whole' is comprised of a multitudehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/04/29/putting-faith-on-the-lineSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/04/29/putting-faith-on-the-line/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/04/29/putting-faith-on-the-lineWed, 29 Apr 2015 17:00:00 GMTPutting Faith on the LineHave you ever put your faith on the line and then something in your life slams you so hard you just can not understand at all how God could allow such a thing to happen? What does 'acting on faith' really mean and where do you turn when those actions seem to backfire? Today Delrae J Bantz from the Life Learning Center of Self, explores with us how to stay centered in Universal Truth even when there is chaos all around us. Join the conversation at Noon (CDT) and we'll take a look at those things in life that seem to challenge our faith, sometimes knocking us off center for a long time. 00:02:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoputting faith on the line,Delrae J Bantz,staying centered,Universal Truth,Self is NecessaryHave you ever put your faith on the line and then something in your life slams you so hard you just can not understand at all how God could allow such a thing thttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/04/22/do-you-want-to-be-in-charge-or-in-controlSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/04/22/do-you-want-to-be-in-charge-or-in-control/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/04/22/do-you-want-to-be-in-charge-or-in-controlWed, 22 Apr 2015 17:00:00 GMTDo you want to be in charge... or in control?What is a life Choice? How often should we be making life Choices? Take some time on these questions because they are trick questions to get you to see how you intertwine the words decisions and choices and being in charge or being in control and how by interspersing them into your conversation it then contaminates how you go about communicating your needs and desires to those people that you are living with, working with, and playing with. How those four concepts can create havoc in your life on a vibrational level when misunderstood. The only reason you have ever tried to control any scenario in your life is because you have never felt that your choices are being considered. Let's talk more about this today with Delrae J Bantz of the Life Learning Center of Self 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnodecisions and choices,Life Learning Center of Self,Delrae J Bantz,being in charge or being in controlWhat is a life Choice? How often should we be making life Choices? Take some time on these questions because they are trick questions to get you to see how yohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/04/15/feeling-the-truthSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/04/15/feeling-the-truth/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/04/15/feeling-the-truthWed, 15 Apr 2015 17:00:00 GMTFeeling the TruthWhen you wake up and find that your life is not what you had dreamed about what do you do about it? What do you do with those thoughts as they float through your mind? This is where you are making conscious choices but because you do not think you have choices in your own life, you continue to walk forward without truly taking the time to see where you are at within your emotions and feelings. This is a most critical time to make a very small step that will make great changes and they are very small steps and will have huge effect in your every day life. Come talk with Delrae J Bantz from the Life Learning Center of Self as we discuss how you can feel your way to truth! 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnofeel your way to truth,making choices in truth,Delrae J Bantz,Life Learning Center of Self,emotions vs feelingsWhen you wake up and find that your life is not what you had dreamed about what do you do about it? What do you do with those thoughts as they float through yohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/04/08/do-you-hold-value-for-yourselfSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/04/08/do-you-hold-value-for-yourself/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/04/08/do-you-hold-value-for-yourselfWed, 08 Apr 2015 17:00:00 GMTDo you hold value for yourself?I say to you the most important thing you must do for yourself is to reestablish the value /love you have for just you. You have heard me say from day one that Self is Necessary. You must learn that the more value you place on the choices that you make for your heart, the greater love will spill from your heart, and it is that over flow of joy and happiness that others around you will feel. You must never allow your chalice be depleted otherwise your over flow, that touches those people around you, is diminished and they never feel that you love them and are giving them everything you have. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoDo you hold value for yourself,Delrae J Bantz,Self is Necessary,reestablish love for selfI say to you the most important thing you must do for yourself is to reestablish the value /love you have for just you. You have heard me say from day one thathttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/03/25/follow-your-own-heartSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/03/25/follow-your-own-heart/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/03/25/follow-your-own-heartWed, 25 Mar 2015 17:00:00 GMTFollow Your Own Heart!When you begin to follow your heart it can be very confusing because for so long you have been following someone else’s. Yes, you have… you have been following either someone who really does love you but because they gave up their hearts at an early age, have directed you to their very best or you are following someone who is so terrified in living that they simply think that controlling everything and everyone so they feel something is the way to go. Join us today as Delrae J Bantz shares how to take those baby steps that lead you to the life you truly desire. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnofollow your own heart,creating,being in charge,being in control,Delrae J BantzWhen you begin to follow your heart it can be very confusing because for so long you have been following someone else’s. Yes, you have… you have been followinghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/03/18/when-your-heart-singsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/03/18/when-your-heart-sings/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/03/18/when-your-heart-singsWed, 18 Mar 2015 17:00:00 GMTWhen Your Heart SingsHow many times have you, when you are with your own thoughts, simply wished to be loved for all of who you are? To be understood, and supported, for the wonderful person you are and with each step you take to become even more wonderful each and every day.  it is your choices and how they are interacting with your life decision, that show you the most wonderful love story of all, the one that makes your heart soar into the heavens. The one love that supports you with each and every dream you have. When you almost want to give up and then you are wrapped into the sweetest love of all. It is all from the internal you… and you are the only one that can make the choices that make your heart sing. Comed join us to learn more about the power of choosing YOU! 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoWhen your heart sings,Life Learning Center of Self,Self is Necessary,choices and decisions,Delrae J BantzHow many times have you, when you are with your own thoughts, simply wished to be loved for all of who you are? To be understood, and supported, for the wonderfhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/03/11/your-choices-your-valueSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/03/11/your-choices-your-value/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/03/11/your-choices-your-valueWed, 11 Mar 2015 17:00:00 GMTYour Choices, Your ValueWhen you are working on self-value and worth have you really taken the time to see just how much value and worth you truly believe you have and are worth? It is far easier for us to say the words, but your action steps say a far different thing. Today we'll talk about what it really means to make choices that hold your value. Join us at Noon CDT! 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnochoices,value,aligning to your value,Delrae J Bantz,Life Learning Center of SelfWhen you are working on self-value and worth have you really taken the time to see just how much value and worth you truly believe you have and are worth? It ishttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/03/04/for-others-to-feel-your-love-you-must-first-love-yourselfSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/03/04/for-others-to-feel-your-love-you-must-first-love-yourself/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/03/04/for-others-to-feel-your-love-you-must-first-love-yourselfWed, 04 Mar 2015 18:00:00 GMTFor Others to Feel Your Love You Must First Love YourselfWhen you think you are giving to those special people because they want your attention, but you are sad because of things you do not have, you must tell yourself the truth... they are not getting the joy and happiness because you do not feel it. The more you try to fake it, the less you are hitting the mark with those people. That is why you get the feedback 'you never do this for me or that for me.......' They cannot feel you because you are holding back because you are not happy.  So it is one more acceptance that you have to allow for yourself. Only you can value the choices you are making and the only way you can feel your value in those choices is when your choices support your hearts needs. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoFor Others to Feel Your Love You Must First Love Yourself,feeling your own value,what choices are you making,Delrae J Bantz,Life Learning Center of SelfWhen you think you are giving to those special people because they want your attention, but you are sad because of things you do not have, you must tell yourselhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/02/18/connecting-with-your-god-selfSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/02/18/connecting-with-your-god-self/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/02/18/connecting-with-your-god-selfWed, 18 Feb 2015 18:00:00 GMTConnecting with your god-selfLet’s talk about communicating with ourselves and telling ourselves the truth about our stories that we desire to hold most near and dear to our hearts. Those are the stories that are really the most harmful to our need for change in our lives You must really look at how powerful your mind is. Those stories interact directly with your emotions and that inner child and can sabotage so quickly all the changes that you hold so dearly in your heart. Look closely at whether or not you are bringing the old you into your new life without changing those pieces into the new experiences. Join us as Delrae shares about communicating with your true self... 00:32:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoinner child,communicating with your god self,Delrae J Bantz,Life Learning Center of Self,Self is NecessaryLet’s talk about communicating with ourselves and telling ourselves the truth about our stories that we desire to hold most near and dear to our hearts. Those ahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/02/11/asking-enough-questionsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/02/11/asking-enough-questions/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/02/11/asking-enough-questionsWed, 11 Feb 2015 18:00:00 GMTAsking Enough QuestionsI hope that you are understanding that part of the beauty of the dance we do here is a thing called timing and sequencing. That means there is a perfect time for you in the sequence of the events that are playing out in your life expression. By being aware and listening to your intuitive inner self you will always be prepared and forewarned of any step that needs to be understood and felt by you so you are prepared for the timing of the experience. So it is important that you look at the decisions that you have made about the change in your life. It is those decisions that you will be having dreams about and those little niggles that come to the surface so that you can be prepared for the experience as it comes to you. This is when you need to start asking questions... digging deeper and deeper to find the truth. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoasking enough questions,timing,sequence,Delrae J Bantz,Life Learning Center of SelfI hope that you are understanding that part of the beauty of the dance we do here is a thing called timing and sequencing. That means there is a perfect time fohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/02/04/discipline-is-required-for-changeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/02/04/discipline-is-required-for-change/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/02/04/discipline-is-required-for-changeWed, 04 Feb 2015 18:00:00 GMTDiscipline is required for changeDISCIPLINE. The discipline to look at all of your words, all of your actions, all of your thoughts and experiences, ALL of the time! It is not a short term consideration. This is a life time. Yes, a life time commitment from you to you. If you do not think you are worth it look again and again and again. You are worth it!  You are a god being… your birthright is to be in joy as you live this earth life. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoDiscipline is required for change,discipline,Delrae J Bantz,Life Learning Center of Self,Self is NecessaryDISCIPLINE. The discipline to look at all of your words, all of your actions, all of your thoughts and experiences, ALL of the time! It is not a short term conhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/01/28/responsibility-and-accountabilitySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/01/28/responsibility-and-accountability/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/01/28/responsibility-and-accountabilityWed, 28 Jan 2015 18:00:00 GMTResponsibility and AccountabilityWhen we communicate with one another why do we take the information that was shared with us as bad or sad or happy or glad or all those words that we can use? When I am working with someone I can tell just by how they are sharing their life stories with me if they are taking the responsibility and accountability that comes with being in charge of their lives. Today we will talk about the relationship between REAL change and your willingness to own your choices 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoresponsibility,accountability,lasting change,Delrae J BantzWhen we communicate with one another why do we take the information that was shared with us as bad or sad or happy or glad or all those words that we can use? Whttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/01/21/your-power-to-change-your-lifeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/01/21/your-power-to-change-your-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/01/21/your-power-to-change-your-lifeWed, 21 Jan 2015 18:00:00 GMTYour power to change your lifeOnce you begin to look at your life with you being in charge, you begin to see that each choice that you make is the choice that either supports your old belief or supports the concepts and ideal life you desire. Now you would think that making a life altering decision alone would bring to you the opportunities that simply would change your life, yet how many times do you make New Year’s resolutions and within a very short time you are right back to the old way of living and thinking? So it is when you make Life Decisions. You have your life because of the way you think about yourself... Join us to discover the value of listening to your heart's truth!   ~~Delrae J Bantz 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoDelrae J Bantz,power to change your life,your power,heart truthOnce you begin to look at your life with you being in charge, you begin to see that each choice that you make is the choice that either supports your old beliefhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/01/14/communicating-in-truthSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/01/14/communicating-in-truth/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/01/14/communicating-in-truthWed, 14 Jan 2015 18:00:00 GMTCommunicating in truthEven though I prepared myself for my life choices, that did not prepare me for when someone else does not understand how to use the scale in truth So I would like to talk about what truly decisions are vs choices and how standing in your internal truth is the secret to the successful and happy life that you are all looking for. The problem in how we communicate is that we interchange a lot of words and phrases and that then leads us to feel we are truly communicating with someone else. It is a very scary thing to think that we are talking with people all day long and yet how much is truly being shared in the truth of ones internal walk to be successful and happy? I am finding that it is a true miracle. 00:32:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnodecisions,choices,truth,universal truth,Delrae J BantzEven though I prepared myself for my life choices, that did not prepare me for when someone else does not understand how to use the scale in truth So I would lihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/01/07/moving-into-your-heart--the-challenges-and-the-rewardsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/01/07/moving-into-your-heart--the-challenges-and-the-rewards/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2015/01/07/moving-into-your-heart--the-challenges-and-the-rewardsWed, 07 Jan 2015 18:00:00 GMTMoving into your heart - The Challenges and The RewardsWhen I first started this exploration about having joy in my life I was so enthralled with the thought of having any question I had about anything answered. Wow, to think to have the avenue to ask a question and to have the answer. An answer that made total sense yet one I did not know how to answer. I knew that the time that I was being given was a most precious gift and I began to think about questions that were best for me to change my life. So began the walk of communication with the Beings of the 5th dimension, which in turn led me to walking in the truth with myself. Come join us as we talk about the ups and downs of truly moving into your heart. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoDelrae J Bantz,moving into your heart,channeled messages,exploring self,self is necessaryWhen I first started this exploration about having joy in my life I was so enthralled with the thought of having any question I had about anything answered. Wowhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/12/03/part-4--self-is-necessarySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/12/03/part-4--self-is-necessary/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/12/03/part-4--self-is-necessaryWed, 03 Dec 2014 18:00:00 GMTPart 4 - Self IS NecessaryWhat follows is part 4 of a four part conversation at a small group gathering hosted by Delrae J. Bantz of the Life Learning Center of Self in October of 2014. Delrae invites you to host a gathering of friends and she will join you to help you all get some answers to your questions as well as help you hone the skill of asking questions that will lead you to truth. As a Life Strategist and Open Channel the conversation is bound to take you down trails you have been eager to explore but unsure of how to approach. This conversation we have been sharing for the past four weeks allows you to be a 'fly on the wall' while the participants delve into a variety of topics. You may notice that regardless of the topic, it always comes back to SELF. Taking care of self and allowing your needs to be filled. Sometimes it can be a challenge to break old habits of thought, but when you start to understand the power and purpose of putting your needs first, you will see how much farther and brighter you light will shine in the world. Please join us for a bit of the conversation. And feel free to drop by our FACEBOOK PAGE with a comment or questions --  00:28:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnocreating new habits,Self is Necessary,Delrae J Bantz,Life Strategy,Open ChannelWhat follows is part 4 of a four part conversation at a small group gathering hosted by Delrae J. Bantz of the Life Learning Center of Self in October of 2014.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/11/19/guiding-our-childrenSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/11/19/guiding-our-children/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/11/19/guiding-our-childrenWed, 19 Nov 2014 18:00:00 GMTGuiding Our ChildrenAre you teaching your children to truly take care of themselves and fill their own needs? Or have you made choices that leave your child dependent on you? Naturally we all want to keep our children safe, and of course we like to see them happy, but if we truly want to support our children expanding and growing then we need to foster their confidence in the Universe and their knowing of all they are capable of creating. Join us for part 3 of a four part series created from a small group gather in October, 2014 with Delrae J Bantz, Life Strategist, Open Channel and visionary owner of the Life Learning Center of Self. 00:26:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoLife Learning Center of Self,Delrae J Bantz,guiding our children,Life Strategist,fostering confidenceAre you teaching your children to truly take care of themselves and fill their own needs? Or have you made choices that leave your child dependent on you? Naturhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/11/12/true-empowerment--what-does-it-look-and-feel-likeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/11/12/true-empowerment--what-does-it-look-and-feel-like/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/11/12/true-empowerment--what-does-it-look-and-feel-likeWed, 12 Nov 2014 18:00:00 GMTTrue Empowerment - What does it look and feel like?In late October, Delrae and a small gathering of others at Life Learning Center of Self, recorded a conversation that asks a range of questions on a variety of topics. Today you will be hearing pt. 2 of this 4-part series where the conversation takes a turn onto the topic of true empowerment, initially asking if real honesty, with self and others, leads to true empowerment. Join us as Delrae also talks about the possible relationship between that sense of entitlement and true empowerment.  00:27:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoDelrae Jean,Life Learning Center of Self,True empowerment,entitlement,brutal honestyIn late October, Delrae and a small gathering of others at Life Learning Center of Self, recorded a conversation that asks a range of questions on a variety ofhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/11/05/going-into-new-relationshipsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/11/05/going-into-new-relationships/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/11/05/going-into-new-relationshipsWed, 05 Nov 2014 18:00:00 GMTGoing into new relationshipsBecause you can only be in charge of SELF, what do you need to watch for in terms of self-communication when getting involved in a new relationship? If you've been working on better communication with yourself you might just find yourself attracting new people into your life. When that happens you may be tempted to slide into old patterns and forget that self is necessary! Delrae will be traveling in November so we are sharing with you, over the next four weeks, a conversation recorded during a small group gathering in October. This is your opportunity to be a 'fly on the wall' so to speak, where you can listen in and hopefully discover some questions that you need to explore for yourself around how you can best get to the truth in communicating with yourself. My apologies for the less-than-perfect sound... we are looking to upgrade our equipment for the future but hope you benefit in a most perfect way for you. And please, any thoughts you're willing to share or questions you're burning to ask please drop by Delrae's blog, Golden Words of Self or the LIfe Learning Center of Self website. Have a most amazing day! 00:29:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnocommunication in relationships,communication with self,small group session,Golden Words of Self,Life Learning Center of SelfBecause you can only be in charge of SELF, what do you need to watch for in terms of self-communication when getting involved in a new relationship? If you've bhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/10/29/recognizing-the-inner-childs-voiceSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/10/29/recognizing-the-inner-childs-voice/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/10/29/recognizing-the-inner-childs-voiceWed, 29 Oct 2014 17:00:00 GMTRecognizing the inner child's voiceSo hopefully you are now understanding that in your contemplation of your life you look inward not outward. What I am talking about is really instead of looking at why someone else did something to you to hurt your emotions, … Today we'll talk about how you can distinguish between that fearful, demanding inner child and the still small voice of your god essence. Join us at Noon CT 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoinner child,still small voice,golden words of self,Delrae J BantzSo hopefully you are now understanding that in your contemplation of your life you look inward not outward. What I am talking about is really instead of lookinghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/10/22/influences-of-the-inner-childSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/10/22/influences-of-the-inner-child/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/10/22/influences-of-the-inner-childWed, 22 Oct 2014 17:00:00 GMTInfluences of the Inner ChildOne of the first lessons of this wonderful walk is that all things have been brought to us because somewhere in us we are asking for the understanding, to fill the need to live in our birthright of Joy. So if in that day I am not having the most glorious expression of joy I then have to look at where a fear was coming forward in my thoughts and emotions. It is there that I always find how my inner little girl is trying to bring forth a protective measure from when I did not make choices correctly for me when I was a small child. Do you find it challenging to believe that as a small child you were making choices that continue to impact your life today? That's what we will be talking about on today's episode of SELF IS NECESSARY. Join us! And give Delrae's blog a read at: Golden Words of Self 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoinner child,wounded inner child,Universal Truth,Delrae Jean,Standing in truthOne of the first lessons of this wonderful walk is that all things have been brought to us because somewhere in us we are asking for the understanding, to fillhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/10/15/raising-children-in-happinessSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/10/15/raising-children-in-happiness/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/10/15/raising-children-in-happinessWed, 15 Oct 2014 17:00:00 GMTRaising Children in Happiness How do you, as a new student in communicating with yourself and learning to really hear and begin to make changes, begin the communications with the children in your lives that we have now acting out because of you not taking the physical steps that were necessary to create happiness in your heart? As a parent you must become aware that the children that are being born onto this planet, and have been in the last twelve years, are coming in with a different DNA program. They do not hold any kind of guilt. Join us on today's call as we explore how children benefit from us creating happiness in our own heart! To schedule a personal session with Delrae go to Life Learning Center of Self 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoraising children in happiness,Life Learning Center of Self,Delrae J Bantz,children with different DNA,happy parents make happy childrenHow do you, as a new student in communicating with yourself and learning to really hear and begin to make changes, begin the communications with the children ihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/09/10/feel-it-experience-itSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/09/10/feel-it-experience-it/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/09/10/feel-it-experience-itWed, 10 Sep 2014 17:00:00 GMTFeel it, Experience it!Now you are beginning to see how very important it is for you to really stop talking words to yourself, but, to begin to actually communicate with yourself so that you truly become in charge of your experiences. That is where you become responsible for the truth that you, as your god-being self, have truly come here to play and learn and experience how your feelings become your reality. The second thing is that you take the accountability that it is within your power, and only your power, to be the creative force in your life. The first step, of course, is to start looking at how...  Come join us at Noon CT to explore that first step with Delrae 00:29:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnocreator,feel it,experience it,Delrae,responsibilitiy and accountabilityNow you are beginning to see how very important it is for you to really stop talking words to yourself, but, to begin to actually communicate with yourself so thttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/09/03/releasing-opinions-and-beliefsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/09/03/releasing-opinions-and-beliefs/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/09/03/releasing-opinions-and-beliefsWed, 03 Sep 2014 17:00:00 GMTReleasing Opinions and BeliefsThis plane of existence was created by all of us to have the fun of physical expression. It was not created to have any kind of emotion hold you hostage. Emotion… pain, unhappiness, sadness… all those things were simply a mechanism we, the all gods, created to give ourselves a very recognizable signal that we were not following that mathematical equation that we set up with the purpose of the experience we desired before our birth. Join Delrae today as we talk about how to evaluate our opinions and beliefs while exploring whether or not they are still serving us in a way that allows us to expand our understanding. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoreleasing opinions and beliefs,Delrae Jean,Self is necessary,expanding understanding,seeking truthThis plane of existence was created by all of us to have the fun of physical expression. It was not created to have any kind of emotion hold you hostage. Emotiohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/08/27/are-you-adding-weight-to-your-woesSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/08/27/are-you-adding-weight-to-your-woes/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/08/27/are-you-adding-weight-to-your-woesWed, 27 Aug 2014 17:00:00 GMTAre you adding weight to your woes?All experiences have a degree of weight to them. The amount of heaviness to any and all physical experiences have a direct correlation to how quickly, once you have asked for the change in your life. you start taking the action steps that take you to the new course of action you are asking for. If you fail to take those steps you are adding unnecessary (and most likely unwelcome) weight to the side of the equation that you would like changed... rather than to the side of change. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoadding weight to your woes,Delrae Jean,making changes requires action,vibration,predominant intentionAll experiences have a degree of weight to them. The amount of heaviness to any and all physical experiences have a direct correlation to how quickly, once youhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/08/20/that-seed-of-doubtSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/08/20/that-seed-of-doubt/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/08/20/that-seed-of-doubtWed, 20 Aug 2014 17:00:00 GMTThat seed of doubtYou are making things in your life matter that should not. You are letting other’s around you with their opinions and desires dictate to you how you should act within their life to make them happy and for some reason you are saying that their happiness is more important than yours. Take some time feel the words that have been written here. “Matter” is when you put your energy into a concept or an idea that is not making you feel the happiness and joy that is your birthright. Yes, you read these words correctly. It is yours and each and every persons right, no matter how young or old we are, to have joy and happiness in our lives. Yes it is possible! Come join us today! 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoseed of doubt,Delrae Jean,Joy,making it 'matter',others opinionsYou are making things in your life matter that should not. You are letting other’s around you with their opinions and desires dictate to you how you should acthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/08/13/express-to-yourself-what-your-needs-areSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/08/13/express-to-yourself-what-your-needs-are/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/08/13/express-to-yourself-what-your-needs-areWed, 13 Aug 2014 17:00:00 GMTExpress to yourself what your needs areI am spending a lot of time on the concepts talking to one's self vs the true form of communications with one's self. I know you use words that formulate into sentences and you then use these sentences as a form of talking with those around you. Do you get frustrated when those around you either did not hear your talking or they did not understand what you were expressing to them, which then ended up having a misunderstanding between you and them? Come join the conversation and discover how you can skip the misunderstandings by getting into true communication. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnotrue communication,talking vs communicating,Delrae J Bantz,define your needsI am spending a lot of time on the concepts talking to one's self vs the true form of communications with one's self. I know you use words that formulate into shttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/08/06/living-in-joy--its-an-inside-jobSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/08/06/living-in-joy--its-an-inside-job/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/08/06/living-in-joy--its-an-inside-jobWed, 06 Aug 2014 17:00:00 GMTLiving in Joy - it's an inside jobOnly by communicating with self will you find your joy. If your mentor desires you to walk in their footsteps any choice that you make that counters their desired expression will be shown to you as a false choice for you. Anyone that has only the Universal Truth in mind will simply teach you how to question yourself in a way that has you grow in your internal love for self. With that growth you will see how, when you choose your heart above all else, no harm comes to you or any other person you are interacting with. Why, you should ask? The answer will vary but the one thing that is the same is when you are communicating in Universal Truth you are using not only the 5 physical senses that attune you to this world, but your internal sense which is your connection to the god being you are and as such to the face of the all God, of the millions of souls who walked as you walked, who ascended as you are beginning the process, as they did who continued the spiral leaning until they came to a place to touch the face of the all God and when they were ready they became a part of that glorious whole. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoliving in joy,communication,communicating in Universal Truth,Delrae J Bantz,choose from the heartOnly by communicating with self will you find your joy. If your mentor desires you to walk in their footsteps any choice that you make that counters their desirhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/07/30/body-and-soulSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/07/30/body-and-soul/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/07/30/body-and-soulWed, 30 Jul 2014 17:00:00 GMTBody and SoulToday's show will explore the relationship between the physical and spiritual. Last week Delrae talked about the importance of sleep, not only for our physical bodies, but also for the soul. Today we'll explore other aspects about the body/soul relationship. Please feel free to join us with questions or comments. Drop by our Facebook page - Facebook.com/LifeLearningCenterofSelf and let's explore together. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnophysical and spiritual,body and soul,Delrae,Life Learning Center of Self,Golden Words of SelfToday's show will explore the relationship between the physical and spiritual. Last week Delrae talked about the importance of sleep, not only for our physicalhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/07/23/sleep-and-your-soulSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/07/23/sleep-and-your-soul/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/07/23/sleep-and-your-soulWed, 23 Jul 2014 17:00:00 GMTSleep and Your SoulThe relationship between your body and your soul just might surprise you. Do you realize that during sleep your body repairs and renews itself while your soul returns to the 5th dimension to reconnect and communicate with it's 'broader' self. Join us today while Delrae shares with us the critical importance of getting the right amount of sleep as well as discussing the consequences of failing to do so. Please feel free to share comments and questions over at our facebook page: LIfe Learning Center of Self 00:33:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnosleep and your soul,body and soul,Delrae Jean,Balancing physical and spiritual,souls nightly journeyThe relationship between your body and your soul just might surprise you. Do you realize that during sleep your body repairs and renews itself while your soul rhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/07/16/true-communication--is-always-with-selfSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/07/16/true-communication--is-always-with-self/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/07/16/true-communication--is-always-with-selfWed, 16 Jul 2014 17:00:00 GMTTrue Communication - is always with SelfLife Strategist and visionary owner of Life Learning Center of Self, Delrae Jean discusses the difference between mere 'talk' and true communication, explaining that true communication is always with, and about, self.  She reminds us... "As you were walking forward with each day you were being taught by beings who had so totally forgotten that they themselves were part of the divine Universe. So they took you away as well. With each time you tried to walk your heart you were told in some way or another to not follow your heart, you were told they knew best for you. Very few Parents have really taught their Children to question and balance for themselves what their actions have done. Delrae talks about how important it is to truly start communicating with yourself if you want to experience the joy you came here to experience. 00:28:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnotrue communication,Delrae Jean,communication and joy,being a guardian,value of communication with selfLife Strategist and visionary owner of Life Learning Center of Self, Delrae Jean discusses the difference between mere 'talk' and true communication, explaininghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/07/09/finding-your-hearts-desireSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/07/09/finding-your-hearts-desire/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/07/09/finding-your-hearts-desireWed, 09 Jul 2014 17:00:00 GMTFinding Your Heart's DesireYou have spent your life talking, sharing, and not being heard. Now you are learning you will not be heard until you truly start communicating with yourself. So the first place you start is go back, go back as far as you can remember… start looking at how you were as a small child, what were your hearts desires? As you were walking forward with each day you were being taught by beings who had so totally forgotten that they themselves were part of the divine Universe. So they took you away as well. With each time you tried to walk your heart you were told in some way or another to not follow your heart you were told they knew best for you. Very few Parents have really taught their Children to question and balance for themselves what their actions have done. Today let's be uncensored and take a look at what we really desire... and maybe we can unravel the resistance we're holding around taking a step in that direction. 00:28:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnofinding truth,hearts desire,childhood dreams,moving into your passion,Delrae JeanYou have spent your life talking, sharing, and not being heard. Now you are learning you will not be heard until you truly start communicating with yourself. Sohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/07/02/learn-the-skills-to-communicate-with-yourselfSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/07/02/learn-the-skills-to-communicate-with-yourself/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/07/02/learn-the-skills-to-communicate-with-yourselfWed, 02 Jul 2014 17:00:00 GMTLearn the skills to communicate with yourselfWhat is the art of communication? So many of you are telling me no one hears you, you talk and talk and share you intimate feelings and yet you are not being heard. Well, I have a question for you… What is talking and what is communicating? They are two totally different things. Is is possible that all you do is talk and not really communicate your real feelings and emotions? 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnocommunication skills,self talk,Delrae J Bantz,breaking down stories,moving into truthWhat is the art of communication? So many of you are telling me no one hears you, you talk and talk and share you intimate feelings and yet you are not being hehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/06/18/communicating-in-universal-truthSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/06/18/communicating-in-universal-truth/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/06/18/communicating-in-universal-truthWed, 18 Jun 2014 17:00:00 GMTCommunicating in Universal TruthCommunication is a form of coming to terms with the stories we tell ourselves. Then as we go about growing up we hear those around us speaking, in that speaking we are led to believe that we are communicating. But are we truly communicating... or merely talking? Join us today as we talk about how the choices you are making are drawing the experiences you're having... and if you're not making choices in the truth... you're unlikely to have the experience you desire. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnocommunication,talking vs communicating,deliberate creation,Delrae Jean,staning in Universal TruthCommunication is a form of coming to terms with the stories we tell ourselves. Then as we go about growing up we hear those around us speaking, in that speakinghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/06/11/how-are-you-communicating-to-youSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/06/11/how-are-you-communicating-to-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/06/11/how-are-you-communicating-to-youWed, 11 Jun 2014 17:00:00 GMTHow Are You Communicating to You?The greatest form of communication is the communication you have with yourself. .As I have gone through learning about expressing myself so that you can understand and feel and then incorporate what I am writing into practical uses just for your own sense of peace and freedom, I have spent many hours in contemplation on how do you and I learn how to see, walk,  and speak in the Universal Truth.  And of course I came to the understanding of this is all and has always been for the sense of knowing and loving self. Do not misunderstand me… this is not about being so selfish that you have to lock yourself up into your own home and never venture out because you simply can not stand anyone else on this planet. This is about walking, talking, and living a full life. Come join us and see how you can improve your life, simply through improving your self-communicatio 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoself communication,asking meaningful questions,spiritual growth,Universal Truth,Delrae JeanThe greatest form of communication is the communication you have with yourself. .As I have gone through learning about expressing myself so that you can understhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/06/04/what-stories-lead-to-your-choicesSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/06/04/what-stories-lead-to-your-choices/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/06/04/what-stories-lead-to-your-choicesWed, 04 Jun 2014 17:00:00 GMTWhat stories lead to your choices?The one thing that each of you must become accountable for is that you were conscious when you made the choices that you are not happy with today. Now do not get angry with yourself, that does not get you anywhere other than a longer period of not changing; It will keep you from moving into your place of trusting your internal heart. You have already lived with each choice you have made and today, you feel in your heart, that you are not happy any longer with those choices. Just know now is the time you must not hide from your previous choices but look at them closely. In looking at them you can begin to see the real reason you made the choice. You can see that you were very well aware that by making your choice it was not the best for you at all. That it was a temporary fix and you were telling yourself you could deal with anything that came up. Today you are looking at the effects of telling yourself you could make do. So you have to love yourself enough to begin to look at it... 00:29:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoevaluating your story,making empowered choices,Delrae Jean,choose from the heart,happinessThe one thing that each of you must become accountable for is that you were conscious when you made the choices that you are not happy with today. Now do not gehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/05/28/being-accountable-for-your-choicesSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/05/28/being-accountable-for-your-choices/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/05/28/being-accountable-for-your-choicesWed, 28 May 2014 17:00:00 GMTBeing Accountable for Your ChoicesHave you noticed, once you are feeling happy and can see you are making the right choices just for you, how new things seem to pop up that take your breath away about how you are moving forward? As you begin to relax and get your stride with your new movement forward, you will be triggering other opinions and beliefs about different levels of your stories. So do not give up and think that you must throw away the understandings that you have already achieved. Go ahead, strongly adding the process that you used in the beginning to start this process, but in the process you must add the successes of your recent walk onto the scale as you begin to see that these other layers of your stories coming to the surface.   00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnobeing accountable for your choices,accountability,Delrae Jean,processes for spiritual growth,note your successesHave you noticed, once you are feeling happy and can see you are making the right choices just for you, how new things seem to pop up that take your breath awayhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/05/14/your-internal-guidance-systemSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/05/14/your-internal-guidance-system/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/05/14/your-internal-guidance-systemWed, 14 May 2014 17:00:00 GMTYour Internal Guidance SystemBecause you did not see that a Guardian, a person that could have helped you learn how to discern how to make the best choice for that inner god-being that we all are, was around and available to you, you began to close down that inner heart… each moment… day… week… month… took you farther from trusting that internal guidance system that you personally set up for the purpose of keeping you on your heart destination. Today let's talk about how we can begin to listen to and trust that internal guidance system once again. 00:23:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnointernal guidance system,Delrae J Bantz,having a guardian,can our emotions guide us,your heart destinationBecause you did not see that a Guardian, a person that could have helped you learn how to discern how to make the best choice for that inner god-being that we ahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/05/07/magnetic-loopsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/05/07/magnetic-loops/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/05/07/magnetic-loopsWed, 07 May 2014 17:00:00 GMTMagnetic LoopsToday let’s talk about how it takes work and discipline when you have been riding a high of your concepts and ideas working and working well for the first time in your life. You feel like you have it. You understand the new way of feeling and thinking, you are making changes in your life and then all of a sudden… 00:29:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnomagnetic loops,making changes,Delrae Jean,standing in truth,spiritual disciplineToday let’s talk about how it takes work and discipline when you have been riding a high of your concepts and ideas working and working well for the first timehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/04/30/allowing-happiness-into-your-heartSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/04/30/allowing-happiness-into-your-heart/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/04/30/allowing-happiness-into-your-heartWed, 30 Apr 2014 17:00:00 GMTAllowing happiness into your heart Your power lies in the fact that you can recognize you made the choices and you are now making a different choice today. So get over the choice you are done having and give yourself the love and understanding that is going to support your walk forward into allowing happiness to be in your heart and then in your physical expression. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnohappiness,spirituality,Delrae Jean,making choices,releasing regretYour power lies in the fact that you can recognize you made the choices and you are now making a different choice today. So get over the choice you are done hahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/04/09/walking-toward-joySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/04/09/walking-toward-joy/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/04/09/walking-toward-joyWed, 09 Apr 2014 17:00:00 GMTWalking toward JoyToday I would like to talk about how you can lull yourself into thinking that all is well and yet you have not followed all the steps needed to set yourself free.  The greatest gift that you can give yourself is by taking charge of your healing process and your walk to and for the Universal truth. There is a difference between the Universal truth and your truth. Let's talk about how those differences can lead you toward... or away from... having Joy in your heart! 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnowalking towards joy,your truth vs Universal truth,Delrae Jean,set yourself free,love and freedomToday I would like to talk about how you can lull yourself into thinking that all is well and yet you have not followed all the steps needed to set yourself frehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/04/02/changing-storiesSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/04/02/changing-stories/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/04/02/changing-storiesWed, 02 Apr 2014 17:00:00 GMTChanging StoriesBeing creative creatures, we make up stories about 'how life works'. These stories start forming when we are very, very young. When we misunderstand, or miss entire pieces of information, we simply fill-in-the-blanks using information we have at hand that brings us to a 'story' that seems valid. As time goes by we twist and contort the idea of our 'reality' to keep it a fit for our 'story'. It is time we start questioning the very story itself! By seeking the truth, we may discover our happiness lies in a totally different story. In so doing watch very carefully that you do not lull yourself into thinking that the happiness that you are feeling is going to uplift you, this is where you have to let go of the old and begin to take charge of changing the stories and make the movement forward that really set you free. 00:29:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnolife stories,changing stories,seeking truth,happiness,Delrae J BantzBeing creative creatures, we make up stories about 'how life works'. These stories start forming when we are very, very young. When we misunderstand, or miss enhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/03/26/on-the-brink-of-changeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/03/26/on-the-brink-of-change/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/03/26/on-the-brink-of-changeWed, 26 Mar 2014 17:00:00 GMTOn the Brink of ChangeThere are times in each of our lives when no matter what we try to do it all seems to fall away from us. We look internally and see that we just want to lay down today and say enough is enough. Yes my sweet friend, we have all been there. I am going to say to you do not give up. Know that you are sitting at a point where the old you and the budding new you are at a 50 percent mark. You need to now look at Wow, I have hit a 50 percent mark and I only need one more little lift and I shall have a new life, the life that my heart says is for me to have, enjoy, and love. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnolife changes,hitting the 50% mark,on the brink of change,self is necessary,Delrae JeanThere are times in each of our lives when no matter what we try to do it all seems to fall away from us. We look internally and see that we just want to lay dowhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/03/12/communication-with-selfSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/03/12/communication-with-self/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/03/12/communication-with-selfWed, 12 Mar 2014 17:00:00 GMTCommunication with SelfWhat does it mean when you talk about learning to communicate? Are you talking about communicating with your friends, family, co- workers, or are you talking about a much more personal communication with that one person that is the most important in your life? Think about this for a few moments. Communication is a very funny thing. Take a look at how you communicate. Do you communicate differently depending on whom you are talking with? Why is that? Are their some people you find easier to talk with? Why is that? Let's communicate our thoughts about communication with Delrae to see how we can move into a deeper, more authentic relationship with Self! 00:29:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnocommunication,relationship with self,spirituality,Delrae,Self is NecessaryWhat does it mean when you talk about learning to communicate? Are you talking about communicating with your friends, family, co- workers, or are you talking abhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/03/05/faith-and-doubt-and-questions-on-mySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/03/05/faith-and-doubt-and-questions-on-my/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/03/05/faith-and-doubt-and-questions-on-myWed, 05 Mar 2014 18:00:00 GMTFaith, and Doubt, and Questions... on my!Do you know how to ask yourself the questions that could unlock your blocks? In this replay from early January, Delrae talks about faith and doubt and how to really ask yourself the questions that, if contemplated and answered, will set you free. Please listen in and share a comment or two at Life Learning Center of Self 00:33:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnofaith,doubt,self questions,inner child,DelraeDo you know how to ask yourself the questions that could unlock your blocks? In this replay from early January, Delrae talks about faith and doubt and how to rehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/02/26/wake-up-dont-give-upSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/02/26/wake-up-dont-give-up/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/02/26/wake-up-dont-give-upWed, 26 Feb 2014 18:00:00 GMTWake up! Don't Give Up!What is the hardest part about keeping yourself on track so that you are always filling your needs? When I am working with you I can see how your intentions are all so powerful about changing the course of you life, yet you come back and feel bad because you have somehow lost sight of the need that you started with to change your life. Join us as we discuss making decisions, making choices, and taking action that expands your joy! 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnomaking decision,making choices,taking action,expanding joy,DelraeJeanWhat is the hardest part about keeping yourself on track so that you are always filling your needs? When I am working with you I can see how your intentions arehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/02/19/choose-your-words-wiselySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/02/19/choose-your-words-wisely/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/02/19/choose-your-words-wiselyWed, 19 Feb 2014 18:00:00 GMTChoose Your Words WiselyWhen you really begin to see change in your life and you feel and understand how to fill your needs and create a parameter that is for your happiness, you may begin to see hits and misses and wonder what it is that is going on. I call it leaking, yes... that is what I call it. It is when you are beginning to use all the tools, understanding the Universal laws and how they work with you and for you, and yet you see creations, opportunities, and experiences not hitting the mark and you get frustrated with the creative process not working with you as it seemed to in the recent past. That is because you have catch phrases that support the vibration of not achieving your creation. Come join us as we learn to clean up our words!   00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnochoose your words wisely,words create,deliberate creationWhen you really begin to see change in your life and you feel and understand how to fill your needs and create a parameter that is for your happiness, you may bhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/02/12/guiding-your-inner-childSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/02/12/guiding-your-inner-child/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/02/12/guiding-your-inner-childWed, 12 Feb 2014 18:00:00 GMTGuiding Your Inner ChildSo how do you begin to recognize this inner core and then once you do how do you keep the pain and hurt from getting in the way of supporting your need for change in your life? One of the things I hear from my new students and clients is: “How do you see that I totally missed my need when I took that action step. Come Join us at Noon Central Time and discover how YOU can start guiding (and healing) that inner child! 00:24:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoinner child,inner core,Delrae Jean,guardianshipSo how do you begin to recognize this inner core and then once you do how do you keep the pain and hurt from getting in the way of supporting your need for chanhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/02/05/the-importance-of-empathy-for-your-inner-childSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/02/05/the-importance-of-empathy-for-your-inner-child/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/02/05/the-importance-of-empathy-for-your-inner-childWed, 05 Feb 2014 18:00:00 GMTThe Importance of Empathy for Your Inner Child might have been a time when your young mind and heart said, “heck no, I can change the world”. What happened to that young mind? Because of not being taught by example that this world was designed to fill your every heartfelt need, you began to believe the hype of not enough. Today you may find the beliefs of that child within are still very much alive and triggered frequently in your life, causing you to respond in unexpected (and often undesired) ways. Come hear how a bit of empathy for that inner child can help change your life and bring you to fuller joy! 00:46:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnounderstanding your needs,why we deny ourselves,Delrae J Bantz,Self Is Necessary,inner childmight have been a time when your young mind and heart said, “heck no, I can change the world”. What happened to that young mind? Because of not being taught byhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/01/29/what-is-internal-self-honorSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/01/29/what-is-internal-self-honor/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/01/29/what-is-internal-self-honorWed, 29 Jan 2014 18:00:00 GMTWhat is Internal Self HonorJoin us today for a discussion about Internal Self Honor and how we let "integrity" get in the way of truly honoring ourselves. Do you honor a commitment made, or do you do what is best for you in the moment? And how do you know what is 'best' for you? 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnointegrity,self honor,spirituality,Delrae JeanJoin us today for a discussion about Internal Self Honor and how we let "integrity" get in the way of truly honoring ourselves. Do you honor a commitment made,http://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/01/22/the-importance-of-empathy-for-your-inner-childSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/01/22/the-importance-of-empathy-for-your-inner-child/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/01/22/the-importance-of-empathy-for-your-inner-childWed, 22 Jan 2014 18:00:00 GMTThe Importance of Empathy for Your Inner ChildThere might have been a time when your young mind and heart said, “heck no, I can change the world”. What happened to that young mind? Because of not being taught by example that this world was designed to fill your every heartfelt need, you began to believe the hype of not enough. Today you may find the beliefs of that child within are still very much alive and triggered frequently in your life, causing you to respond in unexpected (and often undesired) ways. Come hear how a bit of empathy for that inner child can help change your life and bring you to fuller joy! 00:22:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoself is necessary,Delrae Jean,Inner child,importance of empathyThere might have been a time when your young mind and heart said, “heck no, I can change the world”. What happened to that young mind? Because of not being taughttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/01/15/how-you-are-sabotaging-yourselfSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/01/15/how-you-are-sabotaging-yourself/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/01/15/how-you-are-sabotaging-yourselfWed, 15 Jan 2014 18:00:00 GMTHow you are sabotaging yourselfWhen you begin to see that your emotional stories have a direct correlation to how you respond to everyday scenarios, and how they actually sabotage your daily life, you will then understand why it is so important to get your emotional pain out of those compartments. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoself is necessary,Delrae Jean,self-sabotage,Your story can be changedWhen you begin to see that your emotional stories have a direct correlation to how you respond to everyday scenarios, and how they actually sabotage your dailyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/01/08/keep-the-pressure-onSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/01/08/keep-the-pressure-on/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2014/01/08/keep-the-pressure-onWed, 08 Jan 2014 18:00:00 GMTKeep the Pressure ON!Just like a pressure cooker needs to build up a head of steam in order to tenderize our food, resulting in a delicious dinner... so too our creative juices. When we set an intention, (i.e. place an order with the Universe) we need to pour a concentrated dose of love and joy into that intention for a long enough period of time to allow the forces of the Universe to start coalescing all the right pieces for us to have the experience we desire. Here's a not-so-secret secret... even the tiniest seed of doubt puts a leak in our pressure cooker... causing our creations to go askew. Come join us as Delrae talks about our 'leaking' problem... and what we can do to stay on track and keep the pressure on! 00:28:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnocreation,self is necessary,Delrae Jean,deliberate creation,keeping the pressure onJust like a pressure cooker needs to build up a head of steam in order to tenderize our food, resulting in a delicious dinner... so too our creative juices. Whehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/12/18/the-sequence-of-steps-to-your-creationsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/12/18/the-sequence-of-steps-to-your-creations/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/12/18/the-sequence-of-steps-to-your-creationsWed, 18 Dec 2013 18:00:00 GMTThe Sequence of Steps to Your CreationsEach of us are god-beings no matter what our ages or circumstances. It is only you that can create or be in charge of you and your experience. You cannot lessen or harden another god beings life expression. NO MATTER HOW HARD YOU TRY.  00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnocreations,god-being,self is necessary,Delrae Jean,Life Learning Center of SelfEach of us are god-beings no matter what our ages or circumstances. It is only you that can create or be in charge of you and your experience. You cannot lessenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/12/11/what-is-true-happinessSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/12/11/what-is-true-happiness/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/12/11/what-is-true-happinessWed, 11 Dec 2013 18:00:00 GMTWhat is True HappinessNo matter how hard you try you cannot continue putting in the same vibration, the same concepts, ideas, and beliefs, and think you are going to get a different outcome. It will not happen. If you are not feeling movement forward, what you are calling happiness is a void. In a void there is no movement. Join us today and check out Delrae's blog Golden Words of Self 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnohappiness,joy,a void,Delrae Jean,Self Is NecessaryNo matter how hard you try you cannot continue putting in the same vibration, the same concepts, ideas, and beliefs, and think you are going to get a differenthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/12/04/self-discipline--how-it-empowers-youSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/12/04/self-discipline--how-it-empowers-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/12/04/self-discipline--how-it-empowers-youWed, 04 Dec 2013 18:00:00 GMTSelf Discipline - How it Empowers YouOne the first things you have to really do for yourself is come to a place where you take the accountability for the truth that you really desire to have change.  In today's episode Delrae Jean will review the 10 step sequence to creation and talk about the self-discipline required at each step along the way. Join us at Noon CT. For additional information go to Delrae's blog, Golden Words of Self and leave a comment or questions. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoself-discipline,creation,sequence,Delrae Jean,loveOne the first things you have to really do for yourself is come to a place where you take the accountability for the truth that you really desire to have changehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/11/27/knowings-sequence-creating-oh-mySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/11/27/knowings-sequence-creating-oh-my/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/11/27/knowings-sequence-creating-oh-myWed, 27 Nov 2013 18:00:00 GMTKnowings & Sequence & Creating, oh my!We are creating the life we experience. We ask for change. And we have knowings. How well do you listen to and follow through with those knowings? A 'knowing' is you, forewarning yourself to prepare for an event in your life for change. That knowing is the first step in the sequence that carries you to the physical experience itself. Listen in as Delrae Jean explains the sequence.  Please leave comments and questions over at her blog, Golden Words of Self, or at the Facebook page: Life Learning Center of Self 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoDelrae J Bantz,Delrae Jean,Life Learning Center of Self,knowings,sequenceWe are creating the life we experience. We ask for change. And we have knowings. How well do you listen to and follow through with those knowings? A 'knowing' ihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/11/20/breaking-the-old-moldSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/11/20/breaking-the-old-mold/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/11/20/breaking-the-old-moldWed, 20 Nov 2013 18:00:00 GMTBreaking the Old MoldUntil you learn to stand in total neutrality, and love for the understanding of ‘Self is Necessary’, you are asking for filling your old mold. The very mold that needs breaking. Join Delrae at Noon CT today to talk about what you really need to do in order to break free of old patterns and stories! Connect with Delrae at Facebook and Golden Words of Self 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoDelrae J Bantz,self is necessary,break free,spirituality,understanding selfUntil you learn to stand in total neutrality, and love for the understanding of ‘Self is Necessary’, you are asking for filling your old mold. The very mold thahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/11/13/you-have-to-make-the-time-to-make-a-changeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/11/13/you-have-to-make-the-time-to-make-a-change/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/11/13/you-have-to-make-the-time-to-make-a-changeWed, 13 Nov 2013 18:00:00 GMTYou have to make the time to make a changeWhat does it mean to stand in one’s power? To stand in the Wisdom and Love of the Universal Truth? How does that truth differ from the truth that we claim we are standing in, in our everyday life? Have you ever taken the time to evaluate these questions? 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnomake time for change,personal power,life changes,Universal Truth,Delrae J BantzWhat does it mean to stand in one’s power? To stand in the Wisdom and Love of the Universal Truth? How does that truth differ from the truth that we claim we arhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/11/06/this-earth-is-limitless-it-is-simply-our-minds-that-make-itSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/11/06/this-earth-is-limitless-it-is-simply-our-minds-that-make-it/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/11/06/this-earth-is-limitless-it-is-simply-our-minds-that-make-itWed, 06 Nov 2013 18:00:00 GMTThis earth is limitless… it is simply our minds that make itI choose consciously to know that I am my creator, and through the use of my mind and my feelings I get to, and do, have all the wonderful experiences that I know I deserve, whether or not the people next to me desire to learn and use the understandings that I have. These concepts and ideals are there for each and everyone of us. It is up to you, the individual, to decide whether you will take the time to learn how to use and be the wonderful creator in your very own life. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnocreating,deliberate creation,Delrae J Bantz,taking care of self,self is necessaryI choose consciously to know that I am my creator, and through the use of my mind and my feelings I get to, and do, have all the wonderful experiences that I knhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/10/30/unraveling-your-patternsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/10/30/unraveling-your-patterns/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/10/30/unraveling-your-patternsWed, 30 Oct 2013 17:00:00 GMTUnraveling Your PatternsThere is a sequence and patterns that we as social groups have put together that seems to bring peace to our sharing of this world. Sometimes to release old baggage requires us to work on unraveling our own patterns and behaviors. The patterns and behaviors that are not giving us the results we desire. That is the Universal Secret. Join us as we delve deeper into the discussion.00:28:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnounraveling your patterns,releasing old baggage,Universal Truth,Delrae J Bantz,patterns and behaviorsThere is a sequence and patterns that we as social groups have put together that seems to bring peace to our sharing of this world. Sometimes to release old baghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/10/23/what-is-true-freewillSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/10/23/what-is-true-freewill/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/10/23/what-is-true-freewillWed, 23 Oct 2013 17:00:00 GMTWhat is true 'freewill"?When one begins the walk of learning totally about the concept of SELF, where do you go? Does one become totally self absorbed to the exclusion of anyone else in your world? Does ‘Self is Necessary’ mean that you have to do all things by yourself? These are questions, that for each one of us, is answered differently. How can that be? Well, it is the truth. The one thing that is the same for all of us is simply the sequence00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnofreewill,sequence to our truth,self is necessary,inner peace,Delrae J BantzWhen one begins the walk of learning totally about the concept of SELF, where do you go? Does one become totally self absorbed to the exclusion of anyone else ihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/10/16/releasing-your-baggage--part-2Spiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/10/16/releasing-your-baggage--part-2/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/10/16/releasing-your-baggage--part-2Wed, 16 Oct 2013 17:00:00 GMTReleasing Your Baggage - Part 2 Today's episode is part two of a one hour conversation Delrae had about the importance of recognizing the baggage that you are dragging along from the past, and the value of releasing that baggage so that you are empowered in the present moment. Though this conversation may require you reconsider some of your currently held beliefs, please listen in and feel free to share your comments over at http://facebook.com/lifelearningcenterofself or on Delrae's blog, http://GoldenWordsofSelf.com 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnorelease your baggage,self is necessary,personal empowerment,busting beliefs,Delrae J BantzToday's episode is part two of a one hour conversation Delrae had about the importance of recognizing the baggage that you are dragging along from the past, anhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/10/09/releasing-your-baggageSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/10/09/releasing-your-baggage/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/10/09/releasing-your-baggageWed, 09 Oct 2013 17:00:00 GMTReleasing Your Baggage Today's episode is the first half of a one hour conversation Delrae had about the importance of recognizing the baggage that you are dragging along from the past, and the value of releasing that baggage so that you are empowered in the present moment. Though this conversation may require you reconsider some of your currently held beliefs, please listen in and feel free to share your comments over at http://facebook.com/lifelearningcenterofself or on Delrae's blog, http://GoldenWordsofSelf.com Part 2 will be presented next week! 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnorelease your baggae,spiritual growth,self is necessary,Delrae J Bantz,questioning beliefsToday's episode is the first half of a one hour conversation Delrae had about the importance of recognizing the baggage that you are dragging along from the pahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/10/02/one-simple-choiceSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/10/02/one-simple-choice/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/10/02/one-simple-choiceWed, 02 Oct 2013 17:00:00 GMTOne Simple ChoiceSo many of our choices are reactionary, and over time we do not even see where our original choice was made simply to make do with what we had instead of standing in the truth of what we truly desired. So we shall take this one step at a time. Let’s begin the walk back to that first step and then show you how, by just making the first choice of change for yourself, you can change the way your feel for the rest of your life. You will learn how one simple choice can ripple it’s way through your old stories and set you free. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnopersonal choices,truth,freedom,change,DelraeSo many of our choices are reactionary, and over time we do not even see where our original choice was made simply to make do with what we had instead of standihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/09/25/change-growth-changeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/09/25/change-growth-change/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/09/25/change-growth-changeWed, 25 Sep 2013 17:00:00 GMTChange -> Growth -> Freedom -> ChangeIs this true that people come to a place where it seems harder to change than to give up any hope at all? This walk of Universal Truth is not about fixing anything, it is about changing completely any opinions or ideas, beliefs or attitudes that you have about this place. All of them you must change.  00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnochange,growth,freedom,Universal Truth,Delrae J BantzIs this true that people come to a place where it seems harder to change than to give up any hope at all? This walk of Universal Truth is not about fixing anythhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/09/18/detach-in-loveSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/09/18/detach-in-love/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/09/18/detach-in-loveWed, 18 Sep 2013 17:00:00 GMTDetach in LoveYes, we all tell stories of what has happened to us on our walk here. In telling those stories we pull ourselves deeper into the line that we are victims of our circumstances. As long as we continue to tell our story with the same vibration, we are simply recreating the vibration, inviting it to thread itself in the life lessons that we are learning today. Turn things around - start questioning yourself about your story. - How could you look at your story in a different way? - Why do you desire to have a bad experience out of your story? - What would your story look like, sound like, if there was a lesson that you set up for yourself to learn about you? - What if that person who you are calling the ‘bad guy’ is the very one you trusted the most so you asked them to play this storyline out with you so you could learn about all those questions that I have just posed? 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnodetaching with love,Delrae Jean,stop being a victim,evaluating your story,freedomYes, we all tell stories of what has happened to us on our walk here. In telling those stories we pull ourselves deeper into the line that we are victims of ourhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/09/11/knowing-self-is-necessary-is-not-about-excluding-othersSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/09/11/knowing-self-is-necessary-is-not-about-excluding-others/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/09/11/knowing-self-is-necessary-is-not-about-excluding-othersWed, 11 Sep 2013 17:00:00 GMTKnowing ‘self is necessary’ is NOT about excluding othersWhen you meet someone and they seem to fit all those places that you feel unsure of or not so strong in, you might be tempted to think because they are in your life, it is their strength helping you on your way. Don’t fall into believing you have now given your power over to the person you are identifying as the one that has that piece that you did not have. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoself is necessary,healthy relationships,personal power,inner power,Delrae JeanWhen you meet someone and they seem to fit all those places that you feel unsure of or not so strong in, you might be tempted to think because they are in yourhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/09/04/stepping-away-from-mass-consciousnessSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/09/04/stepping-away-from-mass-consciousness/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/09/04/stepping-away-from-mass-consciousnessWed, 04 Sep 2013 17:00:00 GMTStepping Away From Mass Consciousness We've all heard that in order to have change, we must BE the change. What exactly does that mean? For one thing, if you are committed to living in 'truth'... it most likely will require you to step away from some beliefs you've held for a long time, resisting the pressure to conform from many people around you.  Join us today as we explore the challenges of stepping away from mass consciousness. 00:33:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnostepping away from mass consciousness,challenging beliefs,resisting conformity,Delrae Jean,self is necessaryWe've all heard that in order to have change, we must BE the change. What exactly does that mean? For one thing, if you are committed to living in 'truth'... ihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/08/28/finding-a-teacher--finding-yourselfSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/08/28/finding-a-teacher--finding-yourself/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/08/28/finding-a-teacher--finding-yourselfWed, 28 Aug 2013 17:00:00 GMTFinding a Teacher - Finding Yourself Have you ever found yourself yearning for a spiritual teacher? A spiritual advisor who could answer your questions and guide you toward the truth? You have a 'sixth sense'... but have you created a habit of brushing it aside, instead getting swept up into the drama of the setups all around you? Come join us as Delrae shares her walk, from looking for a teacher to finally understanding that she could teach others how to look within to find their connection to Source, with guidance always available... at a mere tap of the heels. There is no place like 'Home'. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnosixth sense,finding a spiritual teacher,who is your spiritual advisor,inner guidance,Delrae JeanHave you ever found yourself yearning for a spiritual teacher? A spiritual advisor who could answer your questions and guide you toward the truth? You have ahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/08/21/what-you-focus-on-expandsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/08/21/what-you-focus-on-expands/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/08/21/what-you-focus-on-expandsWed, 21 Aug 2013 17:00:00 GMTWhat You Focus on Expands Many of us have heard the phrase, "what you focus on expands" but are we sure that we are completely aware, at all times, of where our attention is really focused? Join Delrae Jean and our special guest today as we talk about (and take your questions about) getting ourselves into the truth about our responsibility and accountability for creating the life we are experiencing. The work Delrae does provides you with insights and strategies for getting your whole self realigned with Universal Core Truths, bringing you back to your natural state of Joy.   You can read read or subscribe to her blog by going to: GoldenWordsofSelf.com00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnowhat you focus on expands,attracting what you desire,life strategies,golden words of self,Delrae JeanMany of us have heard the phrase, "what you focus on expands" but are we sure that we are completely aware, at all times, of where our attention is really focuhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/08/07/are-you-filling-your-needs-or-someone-elsesSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/08/07/are-you-filling-your-needs-or-someone-elses/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/08/07/are-you-filling-your-needs-or-someone-elsesWed, 07 Aug 2013 17:00:00 GMTAre you filling YOUR needs... or someone else's? If being a contribution is something you value, then it's critical for you to understand that your contribution to yourself, others, and the Universe as a whole is totally contingent on your ability to fill your own needs. Come chat with Delrae about the importance of taking care of self! 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnofill your own needs,contribution,Delrae Jean,creating,deliberate creationIf being a contribution is something you value, then it's critical for you to understand that your contribution to yourself, others, and the Universe as a wholhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/07/31/karma--its-always-about-youSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/07/31/karma--its-always-about-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/07/31/karma--its-always-about-youWed, 31 Jul 2013 17:00:00 GMTKarma - it's always about YOU! Karma is NOT a Universal Law. Karma is your energy coming back to you. It is NOT someone else's energy invading yours. Join us to hear more about some of the aspects of Universal Law - along with information about how we are using our energy.   00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnokarma,Universal Law,Energy,Delrae Jean,Self is NecessaryKarma is NOT a Universal Law. Karma is your energy coming back to you. It is NOT someone else's energy invading yours. Join us to hear more about some of thehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/07/24/path-of-least-resistanceSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/07/24/path-of-least-resistance/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/07/24/path-of-least-resistanceWed, 24 Jul 2013 17:00:00 GMTPath of Least ResistanceDoes following path of least resistance really serve you?00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnopath of least resistance,Universal Law,Delrae Jean,sequence of creation,go withinDoes following path of least resistance really serve you?http://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/07/10/what-is-true-love-and-where-does-self-fit-inSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/07/10/what-is-true-love-and-where-does-self-fit-in/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/07/10/what-is-true-love-and-where-does-self-fit-inWed, 10 Jul 2013 17:00:00 GMTWhat is True Love? And where does 'self' fit in? What is true love? Do you know? I'm asking about true love. Not the kind that you are calling 'love' when you meet someone and tell yourself you just cannot live without them... How does it really work true love really work? And what does 'love for self' have to do with it anyway? Come join us as Delrae shares insights that can change your life! 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnotrue love,attachment,truth,half truths,Delrae JeanWhat is true love? Do you know? I'm asking about true love. Not the kind that you are calling 'love' when you meet someone and tell yourself you just cannot lihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/07/03/what-is-true-independenceSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/07/03/what-is-true-independence/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/07/03/what-is-true-independenceWed, 03 Jul 2013 17:00:00 GMTWhat is true INDEPENDENCE?On the brink of America's annual celebration of Independence Day, Delrae offers information about what true independence entails  -- and challenges you to step into it. Enjoy freedom Starting NOW!00:41:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnotrue independence,independence,truth,freedom,Delrae JeanOn the brink of America's annual celebration of Independence Day, Delrae offers information about what true independence entails  -- and challenges you to stephttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/06/26/truth-and-independenceSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/06/26/truth-and-independence/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/06/26/truth-and-independenceWed, 26 Jun 2013 17:00:00 GMTTruth and Independence Today we'll be taking questions from our listeners and relating them to how important YOU are to your life. Bring in the Light... YOU are agigt! 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoTruth,Independence,Feelings,emotions,Delrae JeanToday we'll be taking questions from our listeners and relating them to how important YOU are to your life. Bring in the Light... YOU are agigt!http://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/06/19/the-trouble-with-positive-thinking-replaySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/06/19/the-trouble-with-positive-thinking-replay/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/06/19/the-trouble-with-positive-thinking-replayWed, 19 Jun 2013 17:00:00 GMTThe Trouble with 'Positive Thinking' [replay] To make a genuine change takes more than 'positive thinking'. Oh it's true, we live in an affirmative Universe designed to fill your every desire... It's just that so many seem unclear about the ENERGY they hold, and it's impact on their intention. It's not about pasting a 'smiley-face' sticker, i.e. thinking a positive thought that you really don't believe... join us for this replay of one of the most popular episodes of SIN 0 (Self Is Necessary) 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnopositive thinking,true change,energy and manifestation,power of intention,Delrae JeanTo make a genuine change takes more than 'positive thinking'. Oh it's true, we live in an affirmative Universe designed to fill your every desire... It's justhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/06/12/when-life-stirs-you-up-what-decisions-do-you-makeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/06/12/when-life-stirs-you-up-what-decisions-do-you-make/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/06/12/when-life-stirs-you-up-what-decisions-do-you-makeWed, 12 Jun 2013 17:00:00 GMTWhen Life Stirs You Up... what decisions do you make? We are barraged with with headlines everywhere we turn... on the Internet, television, radio, billboards... and of course they are designed to get a reaction from you! Like these: New York State May Make It A Felony To “Annoy” A Police Officer   How can NSA whistleblower Snowden be guilty of treason if the NSA claims it isn't spying on you after all?   Report: Homeschooling Growing Seven Times Faster than Public School Enrollment So... How do you feel when this comes into your awareness, and what decisions might you be making in response? Join us today and share your thoughts about how to stay focused in a world of turmoil... 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoWhen Life Stirs You Up,how to stay focused,current events,tranquility in chaos,Delrae JeanWe are barraged with with headlines everywhere we turn... on the Internet, television, radio, billboards... and of course they are designed to get a reaction fhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/06/05/but-have-you-made-a-decisionSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/06/05/but-have-you-made-a-decision/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/06/05/but-have-you-made-a-decisionWed, 05 Jun 2013 17:00:00 GMTBut have YOU made a decision?You must come to peace with the idea that no matter what relationship you are in, whether it is your job, your parents, siblings, spouses, friends, a decision has always got to be made from you for you. You may be surprised to discover that you've been making choices off of someone elses decision...  Listen in today as we explore one of the biggest causes of the unhappiness and frustration we experience in our lives. 00:28:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnodecision making,decisions,choices,cause of unhappiness,Delrae JeanYou must come to peace with the idea that no matter what relationship you are in, whether it is your job, your parents, siblings, spouses, friends, a decision hhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/05/29/vatican-corrects-infallible-pope-whatSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/05/29/vatican-corrects-infallible-pope-what/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/05/29/vatican-corrects-infallible-pope-whatWed, 29 May 2013 17:00:00 GMTVatican corrects infallible pope... what?! The world is changing in big ways - and some of these changes may cause you a level of discomfort you can't quite anticipate. Do you suppose that's what we're seeing this week with the Vatican desperately trying to take back the loving and truthful words expressed by Pope Francis when he declared "The Lord redeemed us all"? Come join us as we explore what's up with all of this and how we can best manage our energy while navigating changes that call for uprooting long held beliefs! 00:29:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoVatican corrects infallible pope,uprooted beliefs,Delrae Jean,managing change,changing beliefsThe world is changing in big ways - and some of these changes may cause you a level of discomfort you can't quite anticipate. Do you suppose that's what we'rehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/05/22/respecting-your-own-boundarySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/05/22/respecting-your-own-boundary/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/05/22/respecting-your-own-boundaryWed, 22 May 2013 17:00:00 GMTRespecting Your Own Boundary A decision is made from within... are the choices you are making in alignment with that decision, or are they taking you off course? How many times do you manipulate someone to get them to fill your need? How many times do you allow yourself to be manipulated into doing something to fill another's need? Neither will ever work... you simply can NOT fill another's need, nor can anyone else! Where does your self-respect lie? 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnorespecting boundaries,Delrae Jean,decisions and choices,making choices in truth,manipulation and disrespectA decision is made from within... are the choices you are making in alignment with that decision, or are they taking you off course? How many times do you manhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/05/15/choices-and-decisionsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/05/15/choices-and-decisions/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/05/15/choices-and-decisionsWed, 15 May 2013 17:00:00 GMTChoices and DecisionsSo to make a change in one’s life you do what? You wake up in the morning and say I want to be different? Well maybe, but most of the time it has much more to do with not being happy with choices that we seem to be forced to make. Explore with us today the power of choice and how making a decision guides the choice... and how making choices without a decision first, gets us off track! 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnodecision making,decision guides choice,creating your life,Delrae Jean,difference between choice and decisionSo to make a change in one’s life you do what? You wake up in the morning and say I want to be different? Well maybe, but most of the time it has much more to dhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/05/08/what-is-holding-you-hostageSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/05/08/what-is-holding-you-hostage/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/05/08/what-is-holding-you-hostageWed, 08 May 2013 17:00:00 GMTWhat is holding YOU hostage? The Universal Truth is that your job is only to fill your needs. What does that really mean? Are you clear and in the truth when stating what you truly need to thrive and be happy? Come join us as we discuss the difference between your true needs and social conditioning using personal experience and currents events to highlight the value of living in truth. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnobeing held hostage,living in truth,Delrae Jean,filling your own needs,real truth vs social conditioningThe Universal Truth is that your job is only to fill your needs. What does that really mean? Are you clear and in the truth when stating what you truly need tohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/04/24/when-you-ask-for-changeSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/04/24/when-you-ask-for-change/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/04/24/when-you-ask-for-changeWed, 24 Apr 2013 17:00:00 GMTWhen You Ask For Change... At some point in life we may find ourselves putting out a call for CHANGE! The Universe always responds to our call... yet how often do we then rail against the change that comes our way? Does asking for change really mean everything in our life must change? How do we manage the snowball effect that asking for change often brings about? Join us as we explore these questions... and more! Ch ch ch ch changes.... 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoliving with change,change everything,when everything changes,managing change,Delrae JeanAt some point in life we may find ourselves putting out a call for CHANGE! The Universe always responds to our call... yet how often do we then rail against thhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/04/17/stand-together-in-loveSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/04/17/stand-together-in-love/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/04/17/stand-together-in-loveWed, 17 Apr 2013 17:00:00 GMTStand Together in Love Today is a call for all of us to stand together in the days after the Boston Marathon bombing. When the truth is known let us all stand together in love, and as we American's always do, whether it is our dirty laundry or someone else's... we simply wash it and hang it up to dry. Let us not forget we shall stand strong as a whole, with love each and everyone to walk through to the other side. Please join us today as we talk about the gifts hidden in the 'tragedy.' 00:29:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoBoston Marathon bombing,stand together in love,American tragedy,going within,Delrae JeanToday is a call for all of us to stand together in the days after the Boston Marathon bombing. When the truth is known let us all stand together in love, and ahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/04/10/getting-lulled-by-your-storiesSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/04/10/getting-lulled-by-your-stories/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/04/10/getting-lulled-by-your-storiesWed, 10 Apr 2013 17:00:00 GMTGetting lulled by your storiesYou intended to walk as a God on this planet. We all did, all this other stuff you hear is to lead you like a flock of sheep onto the path of sustaining a small group of beings who know this fact and are using it against the populace. Your heart tells you this each and every day that you continue to have an experience that brings sadness or pain. It is really that easy to know. If the story you are telling yourself... the story about a particular experience or about life in general... is bringing up emotions like anger, frustration, anguish, fear, etc... that is the indicator you are off your path, the intensity of it indicates the degree to which you are off. We all know when we've hit that 'sweet spot' in our lives. We FEEL it, we KNOW it; it is our natural state of being... the only thing that keeps it from us is the story in our mind. Don't let the stories lull you into accepting a life that is 'less than' 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnowalking as God,emotional gauge,hitting the sweet spot,our natural state of being,Delrae JeanYou intended to walk as a God on this planet. We all did, all this other stuff you hear is to lead you like a flock of sheep onto the path of sustaining a smallhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/04/03/perception-evaluationSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/04/03/perception-evaluation/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/04/03/perception-evaluationWed, 03 Apr 2013 17:00:00 GMTPerception & EvaluationIdeally we would always be perceiving from the standpoint of TRUTH and then our evaluation of a given experience would be accurate. Yet a funny thing happens over time... our perceptions become altered by life experiences. For instance, we become derailed when we experience shame. Shame is involved with the perception and evaluation of the whole self because it hits us in our core... and we do our best to hide it from everyone... including ourselves. Join us today to discover how to take steps that get you beyond shame and closer to the truth.00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoperception,evaluation,shame,truth,Delrae Jean BantzIdeally we would always be perceiving from the standpoint of TRUTH and then our evaluation of a given experience would be accurate. Yet a funny thing happens ovhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/03/27/our-sense-of-safety-and-securitySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/03/27/our-sense-of-safety-and-security/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/03/27/our-sense-of-safety-and-securityWed, 27 Mar 2013 17:00:00 GMTOur Sense of Safety and Security Do you believe that you are powerless, that life just happens and you have no say in the matter? That is what social consciousness came up with to keep you downtrodden. If you see and take back the power in your life, you can not be manipulated into believing things about this world that just are not true. When you have begun to see that you made choices out of fear of change, rather than the choice which was the very best for you, then you will begin to see that you are never asked to take a giant leap; instead it’s about taking a baby step. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnosafety and security,safety lies within,social consciousness,personal power,self careDo you believe that you are powerless, that life just happens and you have no say in the matter? That is what social consciousness came up with to keep you dowhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/03/20/stop-tolerating-thatSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/03/20/stop-tolerating-that/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/03/20/stop-tolerating-thatWed, 20 Mar 2013 17:00:00 GMTStop Tolerating That!Did you know that the accumulation of tolerations, over time, numbs you to feeling happiness? Our natural state is joy... so it makes sense that we choose what we say, what we do, and what we have, because we believe it will make us happier. Yet refusing to stand in the truth by tolerating the unacceptable, puts us in a position to start ignoring the discomfort; in other words... we lie to ourselves and possibly others, claiming "it's not important". Yet IT'S MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOU KNOW! Join us today and let's talk about how we can learn to truly feel happiness once again... and how that can benefit everyone.00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnotolerations,happiness as a gauge,start feeling again,stop tolerating that,finding joyDid you know that the accumulation of tolerations, over time, numbs you to feeling happiness? Our natural state is joy... so it makes sense that we choose whathttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/03/13/spiritual-energy-and-a-physical-journeySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/03/13/spiritual-energy-and-a-physical-journey/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/03/13/spiritual-energy-and-a-physical-journeyWed, 13 Mar 2013 17:00:00 GMTSpiritual Energy and a Physical Journey We come into the world accepting the challenge to take this physical walk yet we quickly lose sight of who and what we really are. As we gain an insight about the balancing of physical energy and spiritual energy, walking as a man or woman in this physical world we can find ourselves getting discouraged each time we get knocked off center.   Today we're going to talk about how to heighten our mindfulness so that each choice we make is one made in the truth, regardless of what our physical eye tells us.   Each time we try to get someone to do it our way we are reenforcing that persons inability  to say NO loud enough for anyone to hear it.   So instead of listening in a way that takes away free choice, listen and teach your friends, family and children to question the feeling about the action step they took. How does it feel to them? Would they take the very same action step? Why would they or wouldn't they? As they learn to question they will see a very easy baby step to take to change the choice that was just made or to maintain it to have the life and end results that fits them perfectly.00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnofeminine energy,masculine energy,woman energy,man energy,choices and truthWe come into the world accepting the challenge to take this physical walk yet we quickly lose sight of who and what we really are. As we gain an insight abouthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/03/06/the-truth-about-life-before-birthSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/03/06/the-truth-about-life-before-birth/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/03/06/the-truth-about-life-before-birthWed, 06 Mar 2013 18:00:00 GMTThe Truth about Life before BirthLast week we talked about our lives beyond this moment in time we call our 'Human Experience', both before and after -- this week we'll continue the conversation with a very special guest... a Channeled Being weighing in on what LIFE really is like before we are born into our current life experience here on Earth. Come join the conversation... you may be surprised at what you learn! Ask questions... share your thoughts.00:29:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnochanneled Being,channeled messages,life before birth,Delrae J Bantz,life after deathLast week we talked about our lives beyond this moment in time we call our 'Human Experience', both before and after -- this week we'll continue the conversatiohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/02/27/life-before-birth-and-life-after-deathSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/02/27/life-before-birth-and-life-after-death/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/02/27/life-before-birth-and-life-after-deathWed, 27 Feb 2013 18:00:00 GMTLife Before Birth and Life After DeathThis week I found myself wondering... why are there significantly more searches for 'life after death' than 'life before birth'? I would guess maybe more think about what's going to happen when they die... but what I'm speculating about is 'what makes that so?' -- Might it be because the desire to soothe our fears and grief is greater than our curiosity about what we were up to before we came to play the game of 'human being on Planet Earth'? There are uniqe things about experiencing here on Planet Earth. We came in with a 'plan'... an energetic mathematical equation, so to speak... that we formulated with others who had bisecting needs/desires... and it seems to me that when we reach the point where we feel we've gotten off track, it would be a good idea to 'remember' what our plan was... so we can more mindfully tweak ourselves back into our natural state of... JOY! Join us today as we share what goes on BEFORE birth here on Planet Earth. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnolife before birth,life after death,life plan,your mathematical equation,eternal lifeThis week I found myself wondering... why are there significantly more searches for 'life after death' than 'life before birth'? I would guess maybe more thinkhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/02/20/shine-truth--even-when-it-hurtsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/02/20/shine-truth--even-when-it-hurts/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/02/20/shine-truth--even-when-it-hurtsWed, 20 Feb 2013 18:00:00 GMTShine Truth -- even when it hurtsJoin Delrae today in a conversation about 'walking the talk'. How do you meet the changes that inevitably rise as the truth unfolds in your understanding, without succumbing to the jeers and fears that you're tilting at windmills? How do you hold the Light steady even as you walk through a trail of tears?00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoshining the light,tilting at windmills,strength in tears,transforming,life changesJoin Delrae today in a conversation about 'walking the talk'. How do you meet the changes that inevitably rise as the truth unfolds in your understanding, withohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/02/13/whats-up-on-planet-earthSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/02/13/whats-up-on-planet-earth/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/02/13/whats-up-on-planet-earthWed, 13 Feb 2013 18:00:00 GMTWhat's Up On Planet Earth?What can we look forward to? We wake up each morning with our bills still needing to be paid, the same issues about our family, our health, our jobs (or lack thereof), our love life, etc. Yet so many people are talking about this ‘new age’. So today I would like to share a little history with you... 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoEarth changes,what change is in store,new age,Delrae Jean Bantz,2013 changesWhat can we look forward to? We wake up each morning with our bills still needing to be paid, the same issues about our family, our health, our jobs (or lack thhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/02/06/attracting-your-soulSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/02/06/attracting-your-soul/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/02/06/attracting-your-soulWed, 06 Feb 2013 18:00:00 GMTAttracting Your SoulWe arrive here on Planet Earth and put on a physical body with only a fragment of our Soul. We came here to feel Joy.When we allow joy to flow, we attract more aspects/fragments of our Soul into our physical expression here. Are you celebrating the Grand Game we're playing here? Listen in and let today's show provide a spark of memory of the God Within!00:29:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnosoul growth,expansion of joy,fragments of soul,make choices,life storiesWe arrive here on Planet Earth and put on a physical body with only a fragment of our Soul. We came here to feel Joy.When we allow joy to flow, we attract morehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/01/30/where-is-my-powerSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/01/30/where-is-my-power/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/01/30/where-is-my-powerWed, 30 Jan 2013 18:00:00 GMTWhere is My Power?Look at your actions, your words, are they defending the ideals and concepts you desire to experience or are they simply defending the emotions and lifestyle you desire to leave behind? You can't effectively evaluate and make choices from outside of yourself. You can only do that from within. And the only gauge needed for feedback is HOW YOU FEEL right now. It's time to tell the truth about where our power is... the real power to make the real changes that can transform our lives in a moment! Join us in the conversation.00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnopersonal power,real changes,transformation,how you feel,Delrae JeanLook at your actions, your words, are they defending the ideals and concepts you desire to experience or are they simply defending the emotions and lifestyle yohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/01/23/step-1-to-happiness--admit-you-are-not-happy-nowSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/01/23/step-1-to-happiness--admit-you-are-not-happy-now/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/01/23/step-1-to-happiness--admit-you-are-not-happy-nowWed, 23 Jan 2013 18:00:00 GMTStep 1 to Happiness - Admit You Are NOT Happy Now To really get happy, you have to first admit you're unhappy. That's almost become a cliche yet think about this, the only reason you plan a trip is because you are clear you are not there NOW. In order to plan the trip you must be perfectly clear about where you currently are... and where your destination is relative to where you currently are. Same thing with happiness. Where are you currently 'sitting' relative to true happiness? Admitting where we are poses a few challenges. After all, there are reasons we are where we are... oh sure, they are faulty reasons, coming from an imagined truth and leading us to a distorted reality... but we get locked onto our reasons anyway. And we don't unlock until we start questioning this 'reality' and telling ourselves the truth. Some people have to hit a tree at 100 mph before they start questioning... but you don't have to take that route. You can start asking TODAY. Listen in... 00:34:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnostep to happiness,truth,distorted reality,imagined truth,Delrae JeanTo really get happy, you have to first admit you're unhappy. That's almost become a cliche yet think about this, the only reason you plan a trip is because youhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/01/16/when-youre-feeling-edgySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/01/16/when-youre-feeling-edgy/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/01/16/when-youre-feeling-edgyWed, 16 Jan 2013 18:00:00 GMTWhen you're feeling edgy...So many people are exhausted and so very unhappy with the people in their lives. Yet, until they look at those deep issues within their very own heart, change will never come. It is impossible to control someone else, think about this if you are unable to control and understand your deep edginess, it resides within your very own being. Why would you think that controlling the way others act, play, think, or communicate, would be possible?00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnotruth,freedom,inner work,control your edginess,Delrae J BantzSo many people are exhausted and so very unhappy with the people in their lives. Yet, until they look at those deep issues within their very own heart, change whttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/01/09/peace-and-tranquility-in-the-very-center-of-chaosSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/01/09/peace-and-tranquility-in-the-very-center-of-chaos/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/01/09/peace-and-tranquility-in-the-very-center-of-chaosWed, 09 Jan 2013 18:00:00 GMTpeace and tranquility in the very center of chaosI was sitting and am sitting in joy, by doing so, I do not waste time on trying to figure out an action step before an action step can be taken. One can not take an action step until one is needed. Yet, by taking the discipline and learning about the internal pieces of yourself, is part of how you have tranquility while chaos is going on around you.00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnopeace and tranquility in the very center of chao,sitting in joy,taking action,life learning center of self,calm in chaosI was sitting and am sitting in joy, by doing so, I do not waste time on trying to figure out an action step before an action step can be taken. One can not takhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/01/02/your-foundation--2013Spiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/01/02/your-foundation--2013/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2013/01/02/your-foundation--2013Wed, 02 Jan 2013 18:00:00 GMTYour Foundation - 2013YOU are the creator. What you are about to experience in this upcoming New Year of 2013 truly is up to you. Are you ready to build a firm foundation in the truth? What does it mean to be fully responsible and accountable for your life? Where and how might you be misinterpreting the signals? Instead of the typical New Year Resolutions how about a new resolve to live 2013 in true love? Come join us for a bit of inspired conversation as we welcome in the energies of 2013!00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoenergies of 2013,live in true love,self accountability,self responsibility,Delrae J BantzYOU are the creator. What you are about to experience in this upcoming New Year of 2013 truly is up to you. Are you ready to build a firm foundation in the truthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/12/26/leap-into-2013-with-your-heart-openSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/12/26/leap-into-2013-with-your-heart-open/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/12/26/leap-into-2013-with-your-heart-openWed, 26 Dec 2012 18:00:00 GMTLeap into 2013 with your heart openIt's the last episode of 2012 coming from Self Is Necessary (SIN) Join us as we talk about how even more critical it becomes in 2013 to take care of YOU first. It's time to dispell old stories and truly... bring in the new!00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoself is necessary,rewriting stories,Delrae J Bantz,2013 insightw,new energy in 2013It's the last episode of 2012 coming from Self Is Necessary (SIN) Join us as we talk about how even more critical it becomes in 2013 to take care of YOU first.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/12/19/a-winter-solstice-to-welcome-the-new-energySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/12/19/a-winter-solstice-to-welcome-the-new-energy/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/12/19/a-winter-solstice-to-welcome-the-new-energyWed, 19 Dec 2012 18:00:00 GMTA Winter Solstice to Welcome the NEW Energy! You've heard the buzz... the world is ending this week. :) Wellll... maybe we'll see another weekend after all. Come join us for the scoop on the New Energy we've entered and how YOU might find it easier to step into your happiness. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfno12-21-12,Winter Solstice 2012,end times,beginning times,new energy in 2013You've heard the buzz... the world is ending this week. :) Wellll... maybe we'll see another weekend after all. Come join us for the scoop on the New Energy whttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/12/12/welcome-to-12-12-12Spiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/12/12/welcome-to-12-12-12/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/12/12/welcome-to-12-12-12Wed, 12 Dec 2012 18:00:00 GMTWelcome to 12-12-12 You've heard the buzz... perhaps you even feel an air of anticipation... but what really is going on? Delrae is doing some amazing energy work today so listen in while she tells us about a few unexpected things on the horizon... that we can expect sooner, rather than later. Welcome to the New Age! 00:39:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfno12-12-12,new energies,new age,mayan prophecy,DelraeYou've heard the buzz... perhaps you even feel an air of anticipation... but what really is going on? Delrae is doing some amazing energy work today so listenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/12/05/evaluate-the-experience--what-that-really-meansSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/12/05/evaluate-the-experience--what-that-really-means/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/12/05/evaluate-the-experience--what-that-really-meansWed, 05 Dec 2012 18:00:00 GMTEvaluate the experience - What that REALLY meansToo often, instead of truly evaluating an experience, we get hung up on looking for solutions to the 'problem'. What if the problem is just the platform for the real learning? What if authentic self-discovery is made by evaluating from where the desire is... instead of from the past experiences? Well grab a hot drink and  throw another log onto the fire and let's dive down into this conversation with Delrae about how to make meaningful changes in our lives!00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoevaluating experiences,self discovery,making meaningful change,Delrae,where is your desireToo often, instead of truly evaluating an experience, we get hung up on looking for solutions to the 'problem'. What if the problem is just the platform for thehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/11/28/dont-fake-it-just-make-itSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/11/28/dont-fake-it-just-make-it/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/11/28/dont-fake-it-just-make-itWed, 28 Nov 2012 18:00:00 GMTDon't 'fake it', Just make it!Have you heard the concept to 'fake it til you make it'? Well unless you understand the concept of having faith, faking is simply all you end up doing. The way to begin to walk in the Universal Truth and to have internal happiness is to see in your life the changes you really desire to have. Let's talk about the value of evaluating the whole story in order to find the true path to joy.00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnopath to joy,your story,fake it til you make it,Universal truth,your walk to truthHave you heard the concept to 'fake it til you make it'? Well unless you understand the concept of having faith, faking is simply all you end up doing. The wayhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/11/14/stand-in-and-speak-the-truthSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/11/14/stand-in-and-speak-the-truth/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/11/14/stand-in-and-speak-the-truthWed, 14 Nov 2012 18:00:00 GMTStand in and Speak The TruthAgain we're talking about the challenges many have when it comes to speaking the truth. Why do we resist it? How it can benefit us to stand in the truth and speak it even when we think it might be too painful for ourselves or others. Listen in to today's show and weigh in with your opinion over at our Facebook Page: Life Learning Center of Self00:27:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnospeaking the truth,standing in truth,why lies protect no one,the truth sets you free,celebrating truthAgain we're talking about the challenges many have when it comes to speaking the truth. Why do we resist it? How it can benefit us to stand in the truth and spehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/11/07/firmly-holding-your-intentionSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/11/07/firmly-holding-your-intention/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/11/07/firmly-holding-your-intentionWed, 07 Nov 2012 18:00:00 GMTFirmly Holding Your IntentionDo you understand the difference between being Anti-war and Pro-peace. Any time you are sitting firmly in an energy, vibration, or thought about the wonderful experiences you would like to have, you are 'pro' your intention. But as soon as you notice you are not yet there, and you start to feel any hint of struggle, you're suddenly on the 'anti' side of the fence. What you focus on expands... so doesn't it make sense to focus on what you want rather than the absence of it? Join us today for a chat about how to firmly hold your intention and stay on track. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnopro peace,anti war,holding intention,what you focus on expands,how to create what you desireDo you understand the difference between being Anti-war and Pro-peace. Any time you are sitting firmly in an energy, vibration, or thought about the wonderful ehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/10/31/when-falsely-accusedSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/10/31/when-falsely-accused/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/10/31/when-falsely-accusedWed, 31 Oct 2012 17:00:00 GMTWhen Falsely AccusedToday Delrae responds to to a question asked by a mother who's son was disciplined at school for something he didn't do. Listen to today's conversation about how a mother, in learning to stand up for herself, can empower her child in the process. Any questions or comments can be shared at our Facebook page - LifeLearningCenterofSelf00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoLife Learning Center of Self,parenting,standing up for self,standing in truth,standing up for your childToday Delrae responds to to a question asked by a mother who's son was disciplined at school for something he didn't do. Listen to today's conversation about hohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/10/24/the-relationship-agreementSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/10/24/the-relationship-agreement/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/10/24/the-relationship-agreementWed, 24 Oct 2012 17:00:00 GMTThe Relationship Agreement Anyone who has watched The Big Bang Theory is familiar with Sheldon's agreements - The Relationship Agreement and The Roommate Agreement are two that pop to mind. Of course, this is a comedy show with exaggerated characters doing ludicrous and ridiculous things to make us laugh but I wonder...   Would those agreements translate to real life? Does a relationship agreement mean you're trying to take something as intangible as love and putting neat little parameters around it? Is it possible we hold to the idea that there are unspoken parameters in our relationships that should simply be 'understood' and respected? Would it be better if we at least voiced those parameters?   Come join us for a conversation about parameters in relationship and keeping our agreements. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnothe relationship agreement,parameters in relationships,keeping agreements,Delrae J Bantz,The Big Bang TheoryAnyone who has watched The Big Bang Theory is familiar with Sheldon's agreements - The Relationship Agreement and The Roommate Agreement are two that pop to mihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/10/17/your-inner-being-knowsSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/10/17/your-inner-being-knows/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/10/17/your-inner-being-knowsWed, 17 Oct 2012 17:00:00 GMTYour Inner Being KNOWSThe reason you have struggles and turmoil in your life is because you do not allow yourself to hear that internal voice that says, ” Whoa… you are going in the wrong direction for your well being.” Yes, you have that voice telling you that! Let's explore how to get back into touch with the wisdom within... the wisdom that points us to Joy.00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnointernal guidance system,internal voice,love,letting go of shame,god voiceThe reason you have struggles and turmoil in your life is because you do not allow yourself to hear that internal voice that says, ” Whoa… you are going in thehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/10/10/clearing-away-old-storiesSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/10/10/clearing-away-old-stories/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/10/10/clearing-away-old-storiesWed, 10 Oct 2012 17:00:00 GMTClearing Away Old Stories As we gain new insights that bring us closer to Universal Truth it's imperative we continue looking for those places where we are still holding onto threads of the story. Today Delrae talks about how to uncover those threads for ourselves and shares the best process for cleaning them up so that we find ourselves sitting more fully in the truth consistently. Where are you hanging onto an old story that you believe you've cleared out? How is that lack of awareness limiting your creations today? Please listen in and feel free to share your thoughts over at Delrae's blog Golden Words of Self 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoclearing old energy,writing new stories,Universal Truth,processes for self discovery,Golden Words of SelfAs we gain new insights that bring us closer to Universal Truth it's imperative we continue looking for those places where we are still holding onto threads ofhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/10/03/releasing-old-beliefsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/10/03/releasing-old-beliefs/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/10/03/releasing-old-beliefsWed, 03 Oct 2012 17:00:00 GMTReleasing old beliefsTo receive the highest benefits from new understandings, the best thing you can do in the first six months is put all of your beliefs and opinions in a box. Put a beautiful bow on it and put it in the back of your closet. Never to be opened for those first six months. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoreleasing limiting beliefs,truth,opening up to truth,opinions,change your lifeTo receive the highest benefits from new understandings, the best thing you can do in the first six months is put all of your beliefs and opinions in a box. Puthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/09/26/choose-to-be-happySelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/09/26/choose-to-be-happy/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/09/26/choose-to-be-happyWed, 26 Sep 2012 17:00:00 GMTChoose to Be Happy We've been so conditioned to look outside of ourselves and simply react to what comes at us during the day, often resulting in emotions that just don't feel good. Yet What If we decide to make our happiness the most important thing of the day... how would our day be different if we stop playing victim to circumstances and instead  experience it through happiness first? Come join us in a conversation about the value and importance of being happy. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoneed for happiness,be happy,how to be happy,needs and necessities,expressing happinessWe've been so conditioned to look outside of ourselves and simply react to what comes at us during the day, often resulting in emotions that just don't feel gohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/09/19/goodbye-dear-friendSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/09/19/goodbye-dear-friend/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/09/19/goodbye-dear-friendWed, 19 Sep 2012 17:00:00 GMTGoodbye Dear Friend...  I would like to share how we can feel our sadness of a dear and beloved friend or family member passing from this world into the 5th dimension or as some call it… heaven. How does one grieve when one stands in the truth that there is really no end to a persons soul energy? Always keep in your heart love for yourself so that you understand and ask for the help and love of others here when you are sad. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnodeath,dying,grief,mourning,5th dimensionI would like to share how we can feel our sadness of a dear and beloved friend or family member passing from this world into the 5th dimension or as some callhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/09/12/are-there-limits-to-your-forgivenessSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/09/12/are-there-limits-to-your-forgiveness/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/09/12/are-there-limits-to-your-forgivenessWed, 12 Sep 2012 17:00:00 GMTAre there limits to your forgiveness? What is forgiveness? What does it mean to forgive someone who you believe has caused  9or intended to cause) you harm? We live in a world filled with contrast... where does your focus go and how does your responsibility to your life fit into the whole picture? Come join us today! 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoForgiveness,what does it mean to forgive,attracting injustice,justice,truthWhat is forgiveness? What does it mean to forgive someone who you believe has caused  9or intended to cause) you harm? We live in a world filled with contrast.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/09/05/want-to-eliminate-painful-memories-from-the-pastSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/09/05/want-to-eliminate-painful-memories-from-the-past/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/09/05/want-to-eliminate-painful-memories-from-the-pastWed, 05 Sep 2012 17:00:00 GMTWant to eliminate painful memories from the past?Would you want to get rid of some painful memories from your past if you could? Would you want to remember as much as you can and learn from it? What if you stop defending the stories that make you sad? What would your new story sound like? Join us today a Noon CST and let's talk about it! http://goldenwordsofself.com/stop-defending-stories-that-make-you-sad   00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnolearn from the past,eliminate painful memories,how to erase bad memories,learning from the past,learn from past mistakesWould you want to get rid of some painful memories from your past if you could? Would you want to remember as much as you can and learn from it? What if you stohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/08/29/filling-our-needs-on-a-daily-basisSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/08/29/filling-our-needs-on-a-daily-basis/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/08/29/filling-our-needs-on-a-daily-basisWed, 29 Aug 2012 17:00:00 GMTFilling Our Needs on a Daily Basis Are you clear about your needs? Can you look at the truth about your need? What do you need right NOW in order to have the richest, most fulfilling experience in this moment? Let's dive into some questions that might reveal where, how and when we are kidding ourselves about our need and what it looks and feels like to stand in the truth of our need.  00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoneeds,truth,self is necessary,law of attraction,directing our lifeAre you clear about your needs? Can you look at the truth about your need? What do you need right NOW in order to have the richest, most fulfilling experiencehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/08/22/do-you-really-want-that-ex-backRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/08/22/do-you-really-want-that-ex-back/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/08/22/do-you-really-want-that-ex-backWed, 22 Aug 2012 17:00:00 GMTDo you REALLY want that EX back?!?Today lets talking about the ins and outs of relationships. What are we really looking for... and what seems to compell so many to cling so tightly to another person. Bring your questions and a willingness to stand in the truth! 00:28:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnogetting your ex back,relationships,dating,self is necessary,break upsToday lets talking about the ins and outs of relationships. What are we really looking for... and what seems to compell so many to cling so tightly to another phttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/08/15/i-want-my-ex-back--reallyRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/08/15/i-want-my-ex-back--really/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/08/15/i-want-my-ex-back--reallyWed, 15 Aug 2012 17:00:00 GMT"I want my EX back" - Really?!? Today let's talking about the in's and out's of relationships. What are we really looking for... and what seems to compell so many to cling so tightly to another person. Bring your questions and a willingness to stand in the truth! 00:05:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnorelationships,dating,wanting the ex back,healthy relationship,self is necessaryToday let's talking about the in's and out's of relationships. What are we really looking for... and what seems to compell so many to cling so tightly to anothhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/08/08/business-money-and-loveSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/08/08/business-money-and-love/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/08/08/business-money-and-loveWed, 08 Aug 2012 17:00:00 GMTBusiness, Money, and Love... Today is a 'SURPRISE' day where we are going to respond to questions from listeners and blog readers and maybe we will even learn about what drives so many questions in these three areas... business, money and love! Join us on today's call at NOON cdt! 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnobusiness,money,love,self help,self is necessaryToday is a 'SURPRISE' day where we are going to respond to questions from listeners and blog readers and maybe we will even learn about what drives so many quehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/08/01/when-my-need-contradicts-your-needSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/08/01/when-my-need-contradicts-your-need/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/08/01/when-my-need-contradicts-your-needWed, 01 Aug 2012 17:00:00 GMTWhen people gather... Join us as Delrae shares more about the work she is doing. We'll explore the excitement that is building as a result of the gatherings going on in people's homes. Getting together with a group of people and letting our curiosity prompt questions often leads to unexpected "Aha's!" along with loads of laughter. Today we invite you to gather with us on the web or by phone and ask anything you'd like to know... or have ever wondered about. Nothing is off limits... join the fun! 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnorelationbships,energy,compromise,tolerating,ask a questionJoin us as Delrae shares more about the work she is doing. We'll explore the excitement that is building as a result of the gatherings going on in people's homhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/07/25/when-a-thought-bumps-into-your-needSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/07/25/when-a-thought-bumps-into-your-need/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/07/25/when-a-thought-bumps-into-your-needWed, 25 Jul 2012 17:00:00 GMTWhen a Thought bumps into your Need Have you ever found yourself feeling perfectly clear about exactly what you need only to find yourself instantly deflated as an undermining thought enters your mind? You know the kind of thought I'm talking about... the one's that often start with, "Yeah, but..." or "I'll call about it on Monday" or "Why don't I just make do with..." or...   Today let's talk about how those thoughts diminish our energy and lead us to some unexpected results in what we're creating. Join us and share some examples of how you let a thought get in the way... and we'll take a look at how we can neutralize these thoughts and get on with creating the life we really desire! 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoundermining thoughts,mind your thoughts,filling your needs,creating the life you desire,thoughts and needsHave you ever found yourself feeling perfectly clear about exactly what you need only to find yourself instantly deflated as an undermining thought enters yourhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/07/18/whats-your-storySelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/07/18/whats-your-story/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/07/18/whats-your-storyWed, 18 Jul 2012 17:00:00 GMTWhat's Your Story?   When you look at your life, what is it you see about yourself?   What is successful? How can you begin to write a new story? Remember you are the lead character in your story. What do you need/want/desire in your life right now? Start telling a new story... because you are living the story you tell. 00:33:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnostorytelling,stories,resonate,life story of self,creating through storiesWhen you look at your life, what is it you see about yourself?   What is successful? How can you begin to write a new story? Remember you are the lead charahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/07/11/try-not-to-take-everyone-so-seriouslySpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/07/11/try-not-to-take-everyone-so-seriously/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/07/11/try-not-to-take-everyone-so-seriouslyWed, 11 Jul 2012 17:00:00 GMTTry not to take everyone so seriously   When you begin to really feel the masculine/feminine energy start to flow through you it does have an effect on the people around you . Some will want to be closer to you because you feel so good just because you are happy and standing in an internal truth. Because they have not let themselves do the same thing they want to then have you be their energy charger. You must be aware of these things and try not to take everyone so seriously . 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnointernal truth,joy,energy charger,feel good,your effect on othersWhen you begin to really feel the masculine/feminine energy start to flow through you it does have an effect on the people around you . Some will want to bhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/06/27/why-weigh-wordsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/06/27/why-weigh-words/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/06/27/why-weigh-wordsWed, 27 Jun 2012 17:00:00 GMTWhy Weigh Words?Did you know that when you repeat words over and over you sit in an energy and a vibration that can be very misleading to a person that is trying to learn to have an internal power of Self? 00:28:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoweigh words,words and energy,vibration,internal power,words and creatingDid you know that when you repeat words over and over you sit in an energy and a vibration that can be very misleading to a person that is trying to learn to hahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/06/20/begin-to-write-a-new-storySelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/06/20/begin-to-write-a-new-story/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/06/20/begin-to-write-a-new-storyWed, 20 Jun 2012 17:00:00 GMTBegin to write a new storyWhen you look at your life, what is it you see about yourself?  I have heard people tell me they did not expect, at their age, to be feeling like this about themselves. They are generally wondering why they have wasted time in doing things that did not make them feel successful . What is successful? How can you begin to write a new story? Remember you are the lead character in your story. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnowrite a new story,what is success,successful life,you are lead character,self is necessaryWhen you look at your life, what is it you see about yourself?  I have heard people tell me they did not expect, at their age, to be feeling like this about thehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/06/13/honoring-your-woundsSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/06/13/honoring-your-wounds/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/06/13/honoring-your-woundsWed, 13 Jun 2012 17:00:00 GMTHonoring Your WoundsWe have all kinds of reason’s to have wounds within our soul. We should honor them, but not in the way you might think. The one thing you must never forget is to allow the "Law of Grace”. It comes into effect whenever you are looking at the choices you made, the humiliations that you felt, and how sad it makes you feel when you look through your physical eyes at how you were then treated by those others that you made the choices for. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnohonoring your wounds,Law of Grace,looking at choices made,feeling humiliation,making choicesWe have all kinds of reason’s to have wounds within our soul. We should honor them, but not in the way you might think. The one thing you must never forget is thttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/06/06/evaluate-from-withinSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/06/06/evaluate-from-within/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/06/06/evaluate-from-withinWed, 06 Jun 2012 17:00:00 GMTEvaluate from withinAsk yourself why is the lesson yours? I know this may seem simplistic but, so many of us just go walking through this life and we may not be happy, yet we never look any closer, never ask ourselves, “Do I have the power to change the things in my life?” Today let's look at some questions you can start asking yourself to get to the heart of what is really true for you! Join us at NOON CST 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoevaluate from within,questions,what is the leson,coming to truth,true happinessAsk yourself why is the lesson yours? I know this may seem simplistic but, so many of us just go walking through this life and we may not be happy, yet we neverhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/05/30/stand-up-in-truthSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/05/30/stand-up-in-truth/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/05/30/stand-up-in-truthWed, 30 May 2012 17:00:00 GMTStand Up in Truth    I hear so many people who believe that learning to stand up for themselves means being able to say anything that bugs them about anything… and they claim that is the truth and their right of passage. This is not standing in the truth. That is simply a reason that allows the energy of being a bully to run rampant. Let's talk about what it really means to stand in the truth! Join us 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnostand up for yourself,stand in the truth,telling the truth,complaining,bullyingI hear so many people who believe that learning to stand up for themselves means being able to say anything that bugs them about anything… and they claim thttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/05/23/what-are-you-really-feelingSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/05/23/what-are-you-really-feeling/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/05/23/what-are-you-really-feelingWed, 23 May 2012 17:00:00 GMTWhat are you REALLY feeling? Our days can be filled with drama swirling all around us. Yet by paying attention to how we are feeling we can create calm in the midst of chaos. We just need to understand the way the Universe responds to our requests.We live in an affirmative Universe... so lets talk about how the energy you are sitting in creates the experiences you are having. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnodeliberate creation,ask and receive,mind your energy,meeting your needs,gaining clarityOur days can be filled with drama swirling all around us. Yet by paying attention to how we are feeling we can create calm in the midst of chaos. We just needhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/05/16/lets-talk-about-the-feedback-in-your-daily-lifeSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/05/16/lets-talk-about-the-feedback-in-your-daily-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/05/16/lets-talk-about-the-feedback-in-your-daily-lifeWed, 16 May 2012 17:00:00 GMTLet's talk about the feedback in your daily life...   The moment you take true charge of what energy you are sending out from your, yes your very own thoughts and ideas, your concepts and opinions about the world you live in, your life will change dramatically. For everything you hold as truths are the very energy you sit in. When you sit in an energy it then is sent out from you by the words you use and the feelings and emotions that you emit from your being.    It is through the process of looking at your feedback that allows you to change those feelings, emotions, concepts and opinions… if you do not get lost in who and how the feedback comes back to you.00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoemotions and feelings,deliberate creation,learn from feedback,the gift of contrast,change your lifeThe moment you take true charge of what energy you are sending out from your, yes your very own thoughts and ideas, your concepts and opinions about the worhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/05/09/the-power-of-emotionsSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/05/09/the-power-of-emotions/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/05/09/the-power-of-emotionsWed, 09 May 2012 17:00:00 GMTThe Power of EMOTIONS   Why is it that you want to get as far away from some emotions as you possibly can? As fast as you can?   It is this very trigger in your body that is letting you know that you should take the time to feel the emotion… let it flow through your entire body. Why, you ask? It is the mechanism that  gets us to see that we have to change a pattern that we keep repeating, if we truly want different results.   Join us today as we talk about the power of emotions!00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnopower of emotions,emotions,quit running from emotions,feelings,feel goodWhy is it that you want to get as far away from some emotions as you possibly can? As fast as you can?   It is this very trigger in your body that is lettinhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/05/02/ashamed-of-your-choiceSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/05/02/ashamed-of-your-choice/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/05/02/ashamed-of-your-choiceWed, 02 May 2012 17:00:00 GMTAshamed of your choice?What is it about feeling ashamed about a choice that we have made, that makes us not want to ask for help? Let's talk about how we can get more objective and start using our feedback to empower ourselves! 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnomaking choices,using feedback,asking for help,take care of self,self is necessaryWhat is it about feeling ashamed about a choice that we have made, that makes us not want to ask for help? Let's talk about how we can get more objective and sthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/04/25/express-yourself-without-being-confrontationalSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/04/25/express-yourself-without-being-confrontational/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/04/25/express-yourself-without-being-confrontationalWed, 25 Apr 2012 17:00:00 GMTExpress yourself without being confrontationalMost people who like being direct are really passive, aggressive. They or you do not realize how they are quietly bullying everyone and everything around them. Being direct is not about fighting to get your way, it is about the quiet assurance that the Universe provides for each and everyone of us to the degree that we can accept in our lives. [Today's episode was pre-recorded due to scheduling conflicts. Please listen and share your thoughts at http://GoldenWordsofSelf.com and join us live next week at NOON cst] 00:34:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnobeing bullied,challenged,changes,confrontation,being directMost people who like being direct are really passive, aggressive. They or you do not realize how they are quietly bullying everyone and everything around them.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/04/18/whats-wrong-with-positive-thinkingSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/04/18/whats-wrong-with-positive-thinking/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/04/18/whats-wrong-with-positive-thinkingWed, 18 Apr 2012 17:00:00 GMTThe trouble with 'positive thinking'one of the main reasons that you always feel that no one can hear you, or understand you, is because even though you use terms of peace and harmony, you smile and try and help all around on the outside… you’re cringing inside. Positive 'thoughts' are all wasted if your underlying feelings do not match. So, what I am trying to express here is that the first place that good will should be shared is within yourself. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnopositive thinking,self is necessary,self help,align feelings thoughts and actions,spiritual alignmentone of the main reasons that you always feel that no one can hear you, or understand you, is because even though you use terms of peace and harmony, you smile ahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/04/11/let-others-off-the-hook--your-happiness-is-your-jobSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/04/11/let-others-off-the-hook--your-happiness-is-your-job/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/04/11/let-others-off-the-hook--your-happiness-is-your-jobWed, 11 Apr 2012 17:00:00 GMTLet others off the hook - Your happiness is your jobWhat is the difference between sharing your opinions and expressing your emotions?   This is a subject that seems to be really misunderstood. When I watch people like this in their lives they seem to misunderstand what standing in the truth really means. Join us in talking about this today! 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoyour happiness,opinions,emotions,standing in truth,getting to the truthWhat is the difference between sharing your opinions and expressing your emotions?   This is a subject that seems to be really misunderstood. When I watch pehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/04/04/no-one-can-argue-with-someones-simple-truthSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/04/04/no-one-can-argue-with-someones-simple-truth/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/04/04/no-one-can-argue-with-someones-simple-truthWed, 04 Apr 2012 17:00:00 GMTNo one can argue with someones simple truthThere is no greater conflict than the one between your intellect and your dreams. This is where you set aside what you know to be true for your internal well being. Why would anyone walk away from their true source of peace and happiness? Come explore where you stand relative to truth. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnotruth for self,dreams,the truth that sets you free,self is necessary,peaceThere is no greater conflict than the one between your intellect and your dreams. This is where you set aside what you know to be true for your internal well behttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/03/28/make-a-choice-and-watch-for-feedbackSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/03/28/make-a-choice-and-watch-for-feedback/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/03/28/make-a-choice-and-watch-for-feedbackWed, 28 Mar 2012 17:00:00 GMTMake a Choice and Watch for FeedbackWhen you know what is the very best thing for you to do, yet you feel guilty for living your life the way that is the very best, what do you do? I know this is speaking to you. Come join Delrae as we explore the value of feedback and how you may be letting it pass you by! 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnomaking choices,feedback,live for you,God within,listen to your cuesWhen you know what is the very best thing for you to do, yet you feel guilty for living your life the way that is the very best, what do you do? I know this ishttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/03/21/start-dealing-with-your-emotions-in-the-lightSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/03/21/start-dealing-with-your-emotions-in-the-light/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/03/21/start-dealing-with-your-emotions-in-the-lightWed, 21 Mar 2012 17:00:00 GMTStart dealing with your emotions in the lightLast week I was talking about standing in half-truths when making choices for someone else. As I was speaking I realized how it takes a discipline with great resolve for change to maintain making choices just for yourself. You have been making choices for you but really giving priority to what will be easiest for those in your life. In this way you have been making others more important. Today we'll explore ways you can start putting yourself first. Join Us! 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnolove,expansion,self help,truth,accountabilityLast week I was talking about standing in half-truths when making choices for someone else. As I was speaking I realized how it takes a discipline with great rehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/03/14/gain-power-over-your-lifeSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/03/14/gain-power-over-your-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/03/14/gain-power-over-your-lifeWed, 14 Mar 2012 17:00:00 GMTGain Power Over Your LifeTo you a life change you should be undertaking a process to change how you feel about yourself and how you interact in your physical experiences. When you do this you recognize the power and control you have over yourself. It is when you no longer have the need to control your outside world or those people who are playing in your life that you gain true power and freedom. Join us in talking about how you can gain power over your life!                                               00:29:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnopersonal power,personal empowerment,self image,how you interact,relationship with selfTo you a life change you should be undertaking a process to change how you feel about yourself and how you interact in your physical experiences. When you do thhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/03/07/stop-blaming--start-choosingSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/03/07/stop-blaming--start-choosing/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/03/07/stop-blaming--start-choosingWed, 07 Mar 2012 18:00:00 GMTStop Blaming - Start Choosing When you get a strong understanding about not trying to get someone to accept why you have needs to be met and you learn how to simply fill your own needs, then you are beginning to take back the power of your life. Come chat with us and start unraveling why you have put on others shoulders those things you really need to do for SELF! 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoStop Blaming,start choosing,personal responsibility,personal accountability,self careWhen you get a strong understanding about not trying to get someone to accept why you have needs to be met and you learn how to simply fill your own needs, thehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/02/29/learn-to-stand-in-the-whole-truth-for-selfSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/02/29/learn-to-stand-in-the-whole-truth-for-self/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/02/29/learn-to-stand-in-the-whole-truth-for-selfWed, 29 Feb 2012 18:00:00 GMTLearn to stand in the whole truth for self! When you decide to make a choice because of someone else, you are standing in a half truth. One of the worst things we picked up from our early training was to make choices counter to our true feelings. Join us at Noon (cst) Wednesday Feb 29 to talk about how to make choices based on our true feelings while still living happily with those around us. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnotruth for self,choosing from true feeling,self is necessary,self help,making choicesWhen you decide to make a choice because of someone else, you are standing in a half truth. One of the worst things we picked up from our early training was tohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/02/22/have-trouble-putting-yourself-firstLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/02/22/have-trouble-putting-yourself-first/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/02/22/have-trouble-putting-yourself-firstWed, 22 Feb 2012 18:00:00 GMTHave Trouble Putting Yourself First? Join the conversation today about what it means to put yourself first. Have you been trained to believe that only "bad" people put themselves first? What if your life was on the line... could you put yourself first then? Join us at Noon Wed. to chat about the importance of meeting your needs first! 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoput yourself first,self is necessary,satisfy your needs,Delrae J Bantz,relationship with selfJoin the conversation today about what it means to put yourself first. Have you been trained to believe that only "bad" people put themselves first? What if yohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/02/15/how-do-we-begin-to-use-choices-in-the-moment-they-are-neededSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/02/15/how-do-we-begin-to-use-choices-in-the-moment-they-are-needed/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/02/15/how-do-we-begin-to-use-choices-in-the-moment-they-are-neededWed, 15 Feb 2012 18:00:00 GMTHow do we begin to use choices in the moment they are neededWhen I talk about choices, I am talking about learning to take charge of your life. To learn that when you make a choice in a conscious way in the moment that you are standing in, your results will be better. You have all the tools and information right at your fingertips to know that it is the right thing for you . 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoself is necessary,take charge of your life,tools of transformation,self help,conscious choicesWhen I talk about choices, I am talking about learning to take charge of your life. To learn that when you make a choice in a conscious way in the moment that yhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/02/08/freedom-of-choice-with-evaluation--part-2Self Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/02/08/freedom-of-choice-with-evaluation--part-2/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/02/08/freedom-of-choice-with-evaluation--part-2Wed, 08 Feb 2012 18:00:00 GMTFreedom of Choice with evaluation - part 2 In this episode we will conclude our conversation about Freedom of Choice without judgement. Remember, you are always free to choose whatever you desire. But are your choices clouded with judgement? Does the story going on in your head prevent you from making choices based on truth? What if instead, you started making choices after evaluating what is true in any given scenario? Think that might make a different in the choices you make? Come listen and share your thoughts. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnofreedom of choice,evaluation vs judgement,self is necessary,self help,choose from truthIn this episode we will conclude our conversation about Freedom of Choice without judgement. Remember, you are always free to choose whatever you desire. But ahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/02/01/speaking-the-truthSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/02/01/speaking-the-truth/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/02/01/speaking-the-truthWed, 01 Feb 2012 18:00:00 GMTFreedom of Choice without judgement but with evaluation You are always free to choose whatever you desire in each and every moment. But are your choices clouded with judgement? Does the story you have going in your head prevent you from making choices based on truth that might serve you better? What if instead, you started making choices after evaluating what's true in any given situation? Think that might make a difference in the kinds of choices you make? Join us and share your thoughts and experiences around your freedom to choose and how things work out when you choose from judgement versus evaluation. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoself is necessary,self-help,freedom of choice,judgement vs evaluation,living truthYou are always free to choose whatever you desire in each and every moment. But are your choices clouded with judgement? Does the story you have going in yourhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/01/25/speaking-the-truthSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/01/25/speaking-the-truth/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/01/25/speaking-the-truthWed, 25 Jan 2012 18:00:00 GMTSpeaking the TruthOnce we begin to understand that words are designed to express what our feelings are, and that thoughts help us express them to someone else, then we can take back our power and stand only in the feelings that always speak to us. Join us today in a disc ussion about speaking our truth. 00:27:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoself is necessary,self-help,speak the truth,authenticity,living from truthOnce we begin to understand that words are designed to express what our feelings are, and that thoughts help us express them to someone else, then we can take bhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/01/18/speaking-the-truthSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/01/18/speaking-the-truth/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/01/18/speaking-the-truthWed, 18 Jan 2012 18:00:00 GMTSpeaking the TruthOnce we begin to understand that words are designed to express what our feelings are, and that thoughts help us express them to someone else, then we can take back our power and stand only in the feelings that always speak to us. Join us today in a disc ussion about speaking our truth. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoself is necessary,self-help,speak the truth,authenticity,living from truthOnce we begin to understand that words are designed to express what our feelings are, and that thoughts help us express them to someone else, then we can take bhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/01/11/speaking-the-truthSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/01/11/speaking-the-truth/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/01/11/speaking-the-truthWed, 11 Jan 2012 18:00:00 GMTSpeaking the TruthOnce we begin to understand that words are designed to express what our feelings are, and that thoughts help us express them to someone else, then we can take back our power and stand only in the feelings that always speak to us. Join us today in a disc ussion about speaking our truth. 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoself is necessary,self-help,speak the truth,authenticity,living from truthOnce we begin to understand that words are designed to express what our feelings are, and that thoughts help us express them to someone else, then we can take bhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/01/04/speaking-the-truthSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/01/04/speaking-the-truth/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2012/01/04/speaking-the-truthWed, 04 Jan 2012 18:00:00 GMTSpeaking the TruthOnce we begin to understand that words are designed to express what our feelings are, and that thoughts help us express them to someone else, then we can take back our power and stand only in the feelings that always speak to us. Join us today in a disc ussion about speaking our truth. 00:03:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoself is necessary,self-help,speak the truth,authenticity,living from truthOnce we begin to understand that words are designed to express what our feelings are, and that thoughts help us express them to someone else, then we can take bhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/12/21/positive-expectancy-vs-expectationLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/12/21/positive-expectancy-vs-expectation/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/12/21/positive-expectancy-vs-expectationWed, 21 Dec 2011 18:00:00 GMTPositive Expectancy vs Expectation Are you stuck in the past or living in the NOW? Please join Delrae in conversation about how to stand in truth. 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoexpectation,positive expectancy,authenticity,Delrae J Bantz,self help programAre you stuck in the past or living in the NOW? Please join Delrae in conversation about how to stand in truth.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/12/14/positive-expectancy-vs-expectationLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/12/14/positive-expectancy-vs-expectation/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/12/14/positive-expectancy-vs-expectationWed, 14 Dec 2011 18:00:00 GMTPositive Expectancy vs Expectation Have you ever noticed that expectation can lead to disappointment? When you hold positive expectancy you know the Universe always provides a perfect match to your need... no disappointment... ever! Listen in today as Delrae J. Bantz shares the differences between the two and highlights where expectations show up in our lives. (Today's episode was pre-recorded as Delrae is currently traveling from CA to WI for a Holiday Visit) If you have any comments or questions PLEASE JOIN THE CONVERSATION at our facebook page: Self Is Necessary 00:46:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoexpectation,positive expectancy,SIN,self is necessary,Life Learning Center of SelfHave you ever noticed that expectation can lead to disappointment? When you hold positive expectancy you know the Universe always provides a perfect match to yhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/12/07/what-is-bullyingLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/12/07/what-is-bullying/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/12/07/what-is-bullyingWed, 07 Dec 2011 18:00:00 GMTWhat is Bullying? You may be surprised to learn that 'bullying' comes in many forms. Let's talk about some of them... including how YOU may be bullying yourself! 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoSIN,Life Learning Center of Self,bullying,taking care of self,spiritual alignmentYou may be surprised to learn that 'bullying' comes in many forms. Let's talk about some of them... including how YOU may be bullying yourself!http://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/11/30/you-may-have-the-word-nice-all-wrongLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/11/30/you-may-have-the-word-nice-all-wrong/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/11/30/you-may-have-the-word-nice-all-wrongWed, 30 Nov 2011 18:00:00 GMTYou may have the word “nice” all wrong   Growing up, our culture dictated that to be “nice” meant to be: docile, compliant and secondary. Did you buy into it?   Join us in conversation about a new kind of nice. Assertive, honest and authentic were never words that fit the old definition. Those words are very much a part of the true meaning of the word!00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnohonest,assertive,authenticity,the new nice,when nice is not niceGrowing up, our culture dictated that to be “nice” meant to be: docile, compliant and secondary. Did you buy into it?   Join us in conversation about a newhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/11/16/taking-care-of-self-during-holidaysLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/11/16/taking-care-of-self-during-holidays/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/11/16/taking-care-of-self-during-holidaysWed, 16 Nov 2011 18:00:00 GMTTaking Care of Self during Holidays The Holiday Season can be all that you imagine if you tell the truth about your NEEDS. So watch what you imagine. Why not experience the JOY? 00:31:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoenjoy the holidays,your need during holidays,self is necessary,joy,take care of selfThe Holiday Season can be all that you imagine if you tell the truth about your NEEDS. So watch what you imagine. Why not experience the JOY?http://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/11/09/stand-in-the-truth-internally--what-does-that-meanLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/11/09/stand-in-the-truth-internally--what-does-that-mean/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/11/09/stand-in-the-truth-internally--what-does-that-meanWed, 09 Nov 2011 18:00:00 GMTStand in the truth internally - what does that mean? In this weeks episode we will continue the conversation about how self is necessary by exploring what it means to stand in the truth internally. You may be surprised to discover your internal truth doesn't match the story you tell yourself. Please join us! 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnointernal truth,self is necessary,authenticity,Delrae J Bantz,Life Learning Center of SelfIn this weeks episode we will continue the conversation about how self is necessary by exploring what it means to stand in the truth internally. You may be surhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/11/02/self-is-necessary--is-that-selfishLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/11/02/self-is-necessary--is-that-selfish/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/11/02/self-is-necessary--is-that-selfishWed, 02 Nov 2011 17:00:00 GMTSelf is Necessary - What is your need?? Have you ever felt torn between taking care of others and taking care of yourself? This week we will talk about telling the truth about our needs and how we can know if we are using someone else's need to define taking care of ourselves?  Join Delrae on Wednesday at Noon Central Time 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoself help,improve self esteem,self help for caregiver,search yourself,self help programHave you ever felt torn between taking care of others and taking care of yourself? This week we will talk about telling the truth about our needs and how we cahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/10/26/self-is-necessary--is-that-selfishLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/10/26/self-is-necessary--is-that-selfish/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/selfisnecessary/2011/10/26/self-is-necessary--is-that-selfishWed, 26 Oct 2011 17:00:00 GMTSelf is Necessary - Is that SELFISH? Have you ever felt torn between taking care of others and taking care of yourself? Have you been taught that "selfishness" is a bad thing? What if the only way you have anything to give means you MUST be selfish? Join Delrae on Wednesday 00:30:00LifeLearningCenterofSelfnoself help,improve self esteem,self help for caregiver,search yourself,self help programHave you ever felt torn between taking care of others and taking care of yourself? Have you been taught that "selfishness" is a bad thing? What if the only way