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  • 01:00

    Attachment and Intimacy and Sexual Addiction with Carol the Coach

    in Self Help

    Since 2008 Dr. Michael Barta has been working exclusively with the sexually addicted population and has found that roughly 98% of people he sees  are suffering from sexually compulsive behaviors and also have significant attachment wounds. After seeing this trend, he began studying how attachment affects our brains and our future ability to connect with other people. Sex addiction has long been recognized as an intimacy disorder, meaning that people that suffer from sexual addiction have a very difficult time allowing others into their inner world – they lack the ability to be vulnerable. Tonight, he will speak about the formation of intimacy disorder and the trouble people have with vulnerability and intimacy. He will also address what he does to help these people come “back on-line” so that they can begin to experience intimacy and closeness.


    Listen as Carol the Coach interview Dr. Barta on this facinating topic!


    Sexual Addiction is a disorder that requires strategies to assist you in maintaining recovery. This show is to help you access the books, the experts and the people who are managing recovery with The 12 Step Program and Patrick Carnes Recovery Task Model that reinforces the steps you need to take to manage your recovery and take your life through the journey so that you not only conquer the "Addict" but develop into the person you were meant to be!


    Carol the Coach is a Certified Sexual Addictions Therapist who is ready to take you on the journey and expose you to the experts who will guide you through the steps.

  • 01:03

    Substituting Addiction for Intimacy with Carol the Coach

    in Self Help

    Carol the Coach knows what damage Sexual Addiction can do to a relationship. To offset the damage she inteviews founder and Clinical Director of the Center for Relational Recovery in Leesburg Virginia, Michelle Mays LPC, CSAT  who has over 13 years experience in providing individual, couples and group therapy to those struggling with sexual addiction, trauma and relationship issues.


     


    Michelle is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist trained under Dr. Patrick Carnes. She is also trained in Post Induction Therapy by Pia Mellody for the treatment of relational trauma. Michelle is sought out as a writer, trainer and speaker on sexual addiction, partners of sex addicts, the developmental model of trauma treatment, and relationship issues. In addition, she mentors and supervises upcoming therapists.


    Michelle will be talking about addiction as an attachment disorder (intimacy disorder) and the way in which addicts often attach to the substance or process they are using compulsively as a substitute for meaningful and consistent attachment in their relationships and the way that this is set up in childhood, and how recovery must address attachment and learning how to ‘do relationships’ if it is going to be successful long-term for the person.

  • 00:48

    EPISODE 6 - REPORT ON DSABILITY SEX CONFERENCE "INJURYTO INTIMACY"

    in Relationships

    I will report on my experience at the two-day disability sex conference I attended. I will share with you some of the valuable lessons I learned about regaining your sexual esteem and connecting with your partner.

  • 01:16

    KNOT: How Important is Non-sexual Intimacy in a Relationship?

    in Romance

    We have talked about sex, and love, and dating, and fetishes, open-relationships, long-distance relationships and all things inbetween. But, we have not discusses the importance of intamacy. Where does intimacy begin and end? Does it sustain a relationship? Does it matter at all? Ultimately, we want you to tell us how you feel, and listen to our thoughts too. Call in and give us your take on intimacy. We can hardly wait to hear from you. Call 661-449-9318. CALL US! We are looking forward to your calls.

  • 01:01

    Build A Room For Intimacy

    in Prayer

    This unique teaching is another "classic" from the library of Rabbi Khannah Josué! "Build A Room For Intimacy" is a special message specifically addressed to the Men Of G-d. Intimacy is to "know" G-d; it is a place where instruction, direction and restoration are released. It is imperative for MEN to build and secure this place of intimacy with G-d alone where the enemy that is stealing power, killing dreams and visions is evicted to reclaim rightful authority. This teaching is a must listen for men who are the Priest of their home, family and ministries to clearly discern where there may be places within that are obstructing intimacy with Adonai.

  • 01:33

    Intimacy

    in The Bible

    Your victory is in your Intimacy with God!

  • 01:57

    Sexual Compatibility (Part 2)

    in Relationships

    Are we sexually compatible? This is a question with complex answers. If you're dating to marry, how do you find out without "testing the waters?" On the other hand, you're married and unsatisfied. She wants one thing and he wants another. Well, this is worth remembering - Sex and sexual compatibility isn't just about orgasms. It's about the connection and intimacy that comes with sex. It's less about frequency and much more about quality and communication. Sexual compatibility doesn't mean you have to want the same things. It means that you're complimentary! Listen in as Dr. and Lady Newells weigh in on part 2 of this delicate subject. Get your questions and comments ready!

  • 01:15

    The Art of Intimacy Part 2 ~ Tapping Into the Depths of Pleasure

    in Relationships

    Kingdom Greetings and Welcome to "The Essence of My Love" and today is "Fuzzy Friday's". With your host Jeffery Epps Sr. and your hostess Shawna Davis, as your Romance Coach. We are delighted to broadcast with you today.


    Our topic today is: The Art of Intimacy Part 2 ~ Tapping Into the Depths of Pleasure


    Bible Scripture: Song of Solomon 4:5-16 and 5:1


    We understand that God intends for us to wait until we are married, to enjoy the pleasure of Intimacy with our mate.


    Why do so many couples struggle in this area? Why is one or the other left feeling unfulfilled?


    Join us live on the Air with Jeffery & Shawna by dialing in direct to (347) 637-1509


    Broadcast times are as follows:


    4 pm EST, 3 pm CST, 2 pm MST and 1 pm PST


    Thank you and please visit our website at www.theessenceofmylove.com


     


     


     

  • 01:51

    The Art of Intimacy ~ Sex Is Intended for Marriage

    in Relationships

    Greetings and Welcome to "The Essence of My Love" as we broadcast "Fuzzy Friday's". With your Host Jeffery Epps and your Hostess Shawna Romance Coach Davis. We are blessed to come to you today in the name of Yeshua.


    It is a blessing to be able to speak freely about what is destroying many Churches today. 


    Join us at 2 pm EST, 1 pm CST, 12 pm MST and 11 am PST.


    Topic: The Art of Intimacy ~ Sex Is Intended for Marriage


     


     


     


     

  • 00:59

    Can You Help Me with My Husband's Sexual Addiction with Carol the Coach

    in Self Help

    Carol the Coach will be answering emails and taking your calls to answer questions about sexual addiction or loving someone who has a sexual addiction. This disorder can wreak havoc in  families with sexual addiction so ask the expert what you can do if you suspect sexual addiction in your life!

  • 01:02

    Sexual Assault

    in Family

    Join hosts Alice Lynch and Sumayya Coleman, and Research commentator Shasme Jackson and they talk to Tracy Wright about the impact of sexual assault on survivors and their families.  We will also discuss innovative ways to engage youth of color around sexual assault and look for better approaches to the lack of response of the criminal justice system to the crime of sexual assault.