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  • 00:51

    Show #48- Cancel the Pity Party: Five Steps to Creating Your Best Self-Show!!!

    in Motivation

    1st Guest: Al Tillman, serial entrepreneur, author, speaker and investor


    www.howtochangemylife.org


    AL was born in Chicago, IL and attended undergraduate college at Georgia State University in Atlanta, GA. From there he worked a string of low level paying jobs until he started one of the most successful small business marketing consulting companies in America earning him a six figure income his first  9 months in business. Today from that success he began writing a book, internet investing and starting a non-profit named How To Change My Life Movement.


    2nd Guest: Dr. Lita Rawdin Singer,“Cancel the Pity Party, Five Steps To Creating Your Best Self”  (EDITORS CHOICE AWARD).


    www.drlita.com  


    Dr. Lita Rawdin Singer is a professor and a psychologist, author, fine-art photographer and artist, musician, who has traveled extensively leading professional study tours to China eight times (taught in China), Tibet twice, Nepal, Africa, Russia, South America, Turkey, India, Indonesia, Bali, Thailand, Singapore, Riga, Latvia, Estonia, Australia, New Zealand, and throughout Europe  and throughout the world.


    One of the first female stockbrokers on Wall Street.  She is a renaissance Women currently being written about in a book called RenWomen.


    3rd Guest: Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) Wish, Ed.D. LCSW Licensed Clinical Psychotherapist.


    http://www.lovevictory.com


    Dr LB. Domestic abuse is a pattern of behavior which involves violence or other abuse by one person in a domestic context against another. Domestic violence can take a number of forms including physical, vergal,econimic emotional, and sexual abuse, which can range from subtle, coercive forms to marital rape and to violent physical abuse that results in disfigurement or death. 

  • 01:39

    Rejection Series / Inferiority, Torment, and Self Pity

    in Religion

    You are invited to join in our show..LIVE..."What's Really Going on Around Here?"..Friday 01/30/2015...at 7:30 pm Apostle Desmon Dobbins will be our speaker.
    Or Come in person to our Friday Night  Miracle Service, There Is A Way Out Ministries @7 pm Friday 01/30/2015
    Topic: Rejection Series "Inferiority, Torment, and Self Pity"
    You are invited to come receive your "Breakthrough"! 
    We are located at :
    2538 West Washington St. Indianapolis, In 46222, on the lower level 


     

  • 00:23

    HELP! - "I am addicted to self pity!"

    in Business

    In our HELP! SITUATION SPOTLIGHT™ series, we shine the light on challenges that community members have shared with me. This episode is, “I am addicted to self pity!”


    Addiction is an awful state to be in (no matter whether it is caused by choices, brain chemistry, traumatic events, or any other catalyst). The perception of being unable to control yourself is frightening and destructive. Whether it is food, finance, romance, substances, or any other issue it is a scary place to be to struggle for control of yourself. Some advise you to ceed control to others (people and/ or entities),  others advise you to take control (“get yourself together!”). We explore questions and share perspectives and potential solutions on this show so I encourage you to do so for yourself. What is the best way for someone to handle an addiction to their own thoughts of self-pity?



    pit·y - “a strong feeling of sadness or sympathy for someone or something” (Merriam-Webster)


    self–pity - “a feeling of pity for yourself because you believe you have suffered more than is fair or reasonable” (Merriam-Webster)


    What is fair or reasonable for a person to suffer? Why should you not be burdened by pain? Why should you visit your pain on other people (which now causes more pain for them)? Let’s delve into this murky mess of self-pity addicts. 

  • 01:01

    "Self Pity - its dangers and its cure"

    in Christianity

    In walking through the 7 Steps to Freedom From Oppression, self pity is something that the Devil will constantly try to draw you into.  So many times we have seen it sabotage the most courageous and persistent.  What is self pity?  How do you recognize the 'symptoms'.  Is it demonic?  What are the effects of it on you?  Today we want to expose this danger for what it really is.


    To access the study notes on self-pity used in today's program go to:


    http://thecallingofthesoul.wordpress.com/2013/12/11/self-pity-its-dangers-its-cure-by-ann-windsor/

  • 00:30

    WHY I WON'T HAVE PITY ON YOU!

    in Fitness

    WHY I WON'T HAVE PITY ON YOU...


    ...After 7 years within the industry I realized that I was only causing a problem by giving my clients pity. 


    I now understand, that if you don't put in the TIME, MONEY AND ENGERY...


    ...You will FAIL! 


    WHY DOES FITNESS HAVE SUCH A BAD REPUTATION? WHY DO WE ALL HATE IT?


    It has less to do with the soreness and pain than you realize! 


    TUNE IN AND FIND OUT WHAT IS IT...


    ...THAT MAKES FITNESS SUCK...


    ...WHY I WON'T PITY YOU!


     


    IF YOU ARE READY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT THE PACK CLICK THIS LINK NOW: http://bit.ly/WFzldO

  • 00:30

    "Self Pity - its dangers and its cure"

    in Religion

    We've all felt sorry for ourselves from time to time.  Many people in the Bible did also, so this is not some abnormal experience.  The most successful of people have times of self pity.  Why is feeling sorry for yourself so dangerous spiritually?  Have you checked up on yourself to see how often you do this?  Self pity makes the soul sick.  And may lead to suicide.  People oppressed with depression for years get this habit and don't even realize it.  Working on the book, "7 Steps to Freedom" with Pat Buckley, he emphasizes over and over the danger of self pity.  I felt the need to address this spiritual problem directly.  If you don't ever feel sorry for yourself, listen and learn to help someone else.

  • 01:03

    I'm Crashing Your Pity Party!

    in Self Help

    Happy Monday Everyone. We're talking about the many invites you may have received to someone's pity party. Be cautious when joining the party. Better yet, crash the sucker with truth and love. Join me today as I chat about this often talked about topic. Call in with your story 347-945-5713.

  • 01:01

    GOSPEL INSIDER HOSTED BY PROPHETESS LYNNETTE LONG

    in Religion

    NO PAIN NO GAIN


    2 Corinthians 4:17-18 King James Version (KJV)


    17 For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, worketh for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory;


    18 While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen: for the things which are seen are temporal; but the things which are not seen are eternal.


    PAIN IS REAL...Often times many people go their entire life time holding on to some heart pain, mental  pain,  emotional or  internal pain. The pain becomes alive and active when the person ignores it and acts like it never happened.


     


    5 Points to Remember


    1. Don't bury your pain.


    2. Tell someone how you feel hurt.


    3. Embrace your pain so you can deal with it properly.


    4. Remember pain is active and the one way to deactivate it is by uncovering it.


    5. Pain likes to gravitate to others that are hurt...avoid pity parties.


     


    Special guest on our show this week the author of her newly released poetry book entitled "The Urban Heart"...Janice Freeman.


    Tip For Today


    DON'T LET THE PAIN FROM YOUR PAST CRIPPLE YOUR FUTÛRE:


    -TDJakes-


     

  • 01:59

    The Key To Being Happily Single

    in Relationships

    Welcome, welcome, welcome to The ChickS.H.Y.T. & Real Talk Radio Show


    We've talked about all the other phases. We've explored the pitfalls of staying in one phase for to long and now they all come together! TONIGHT... we talk about Phase 6: Happyily SIngle


    The Divas will give you some steps to get you to a place, mentally and emotionally, where your status of "Single" will be cause for celebration instead of the pity party that it's been made out to be. Don't believe me...tune in and check it out for yourself!


     Oh...and you don't wanna miss our "Mom of The Year" tribute! 

  • 00:31

    When You Are Tired Of Being Tired God Gives Courage To Keep On Keeping On

    in Spirituality

    This episode of Pneumatikos explores the ability of Yahweh to infuse his tired ones with courage for those weary times in life.  There are times when  life become almost too much too bear, and you want to give up.  But don't give up,look up, and ask for Yahweh's power to heal fear and self-pity.  He is with you in the midst of those tough times when you are beset by dogged spiritual fog. When you cannot give voice to the depth of your gnawing hurt or shattering grief tell Jesus.  When you feel deliberately misunderstood and routinely dismissed tell Jesus.  When you have cried your eyes dry tell Jesus.  What a friend we have in Jesus!

  • 01:31

    The Sacred Prostitute! She lives among US!

    in Spirituality

    Answer Yes, if you have ever (men and women) given a Pity Fuck? Had Sex for Healing? Desired to pray during sex?


    I am...
    (a gnostic poem)
    I am the first and the last.
    I am the honoured one and the scorned one.
    I am the whore and the holy one.
    I am the wife and the virgin.
    I am she whose wedding is great.
    I am A Universal Lover of Life.
    I am (the mother) and the daughter.
    I am the members of my mother....
    I am the silence that is incomprehensible
    And the idea whose remembrance is frequent.
    I am the voice whose sound is manifold
    And the word whose appearance is multiple.
    I am knowledge and ignorance.
    I am the utterance of my name. 


    Join this fasinating discussion between two whole powerful and valuable Sacred Women, you will ever want to hear from on his subject! The Sacred Prostitute! I also, invite, ALL you Sacred Protitutes to please call into the show and share your wisdom with the listeners who need to hear from us all! Tracey Bryant, The Honey Diva https://www.honeyluvromance.com/the-honey-diva.html and Rev. Goddess unite to explain, share and educate and lets not forget Bless and Arouse everyone about The (NEW) Sacred Prostitute and shed away the Shame and Guilt of being a seductive healer. "The Sacred Prostitute is therefore that human woman who, through formal ritual or psychological development, has consciously come to know the spiritual side of her eroticism and lives this out according to her individual circumstances. We find her in all walks of life. One feels a certain presence in her midst, a combination of joy and wisdom. She is "one-in-herself," free of confines of convention; she lives her life as she chooses." ~ Nancy Qualls - Corbett from The Sacred Prostitute, Eternal Aspects of the Femine