• 01:43

    "Fight Or Flight?" - COCKTAIL CONVERSATIONS with The Controversial Counselor

    in Radio

    Welcome To COCKTAIL CONVERSATIONS on KLJN 107.7 with The Controversial Counselor, David Glover.  This is Scenario # 18 Fight or Flight from the book COCKTAIL CONVERSATIONS:


    Darvin was a dedicated dad and always stuck to his commitment of getting his four-year-old daughter Alisa. At times, Darvin and Alisa’s mother, Camille, had a rocky relationship because of mistakes they both made in the past, but never was he prepared for what Camille has in store for him.


    It was Darvin’s weekend to pick up Alisa. When he went by Camille’s house, the place looked vacant, so off to Alisa’s grandmother’s house; and when she answered the door, she seemed to be cold with her statement “they’re not here” and shut the door. Darvin was confused; it’s not like Camille to not to contact him regarding Alisa. Darvin left several messages on Camille’s phone but no answer.


    A week went by but he still has not heard from Camille or Alisa. Darvin was a wreck at work and spent his spare time crying at home. Darvin’s mother and his sister called Alisa’s grandmother and asked her “what the hell is going on.” Darvin has been too good to the baby for him to be treated like this; finally Alisa’s grandmother admits that Camille and Alisa have left the state and relocated to St. Louis.


    When Darvin’s mother called to tell him the deal, Darvin burst out in tears; he was devastated, he just felt like dying. What will he do without his daughter, and what could possibly be the justification for Camille to leave?  


    To listen by phone and / or join the discussion call (347) 237-5342 - and remember to press "1" when you want to speak live on the air.


    And now, here is COCKTAIL CONVERSATIONS, with The Controversial Counselor, David Glover.


    KLJN 107.7

  • 00:29

    Vladimier Calixte - Licensed Mental Health Counselor

    in Radio

    Renowned celebrity therapist, television personality, and keynote speaker, Vladimire CaRenowned celebrity therapist, television personality, and keynote speaker, Vladimire Calixte, is the founder of Life Rebuilding, located in New York, New York. Through her private practice, she teaches countless clients and celebrities how to overcome low-self esteem, PTSD, trauma, and addictive behaviors that keep them stuck in pain and mediocrity. A passionate and highly sought after Licensed Mental Health expert, certified rehabilitation counselor, and professional career counselor, Calixte gained national attention after appearing as a guest expert on TLC’s reality series, Starter Wives Confidential, which chroni- cled the tumultuous lives of celebrity exes. An accomplished empowerment speaker who is passionate about making a difference in the lives of low income youth and families, Calixte speaks at schools and organizations around the U.S., and was the keynote speaker for “If You Can Dream It, You Can Become It,” a graduation ceremony at Per Scholas, a national nonprofit organization in the Bronx, N.Y., that breaks the cycle of poverty. She has also participated in over 100 live events through ACCESS regarding goal setting and the psychological and social impact of disability. 

  • 01:38

    "Take It To The Grave" - COCKTAIL CONVERSATIONS by The Controversial Counselor

    in Relationships

     Till Death Do us part? What does that really mean to you, I would like to break down a scenario Called Take it to the Grave 


    Leroy a 62 yr old had been married to Deborah for 42 years and they have been together since teenagers, she was truly his soul mate, the apple of his eye, the love of his life.


    She died a few years ago due to breast cancer which was obviously very heart breaking to lose your wife, lover, best friend, and right hand. Leroy never thought he would considerremarrying but no one wants to live alone as they age and reach the 3rd phase of their life.


    Leroy started dating Freda and eventually they got married a year later, Leroy made it very clear throughout their courtship, that Deborah will always be the love of his life and no one can ever replace her in his heart. In fact his one request would be if he passes before Freda that he would like to be buried right next to Deborah.


    Freda honored his request because he passed away a year in to his marriage with Freda. Do you think that Leroy was wrong for putting his feelings out there regarding his first wife? If you were Freda would you had signed up for that deal?



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    Cocktail Conversations
    The Controversial Counselor

  • 00:31

    Food for Thought: Nutrition for Your Vision

    in Lifestyle

    It's FIT Friday and time for some FOOD for Thought in honor of National Nutrition Wareness Month. Our word for the week is Destiny and we've discussed how our vision (or lack thereof) effects it. Today we discuss practical insights to helping you maintain good vision health for life. No matter what the age, we have tips and ideas to keeping your eyes healthy.


    Fruits and vegetables are at the top of our list. But nothing boring. As Spring emerges we'll talk about fun recipes that kids and adults alike will love.


    Recipes, resources and highlights will be on our blog & Pinterest.

  • 00:30

    Are You Really Seeing a Christian Counselor?

    in Religion

    Finding the right Christian counselor when you need one is a big deal.  How do you know what questions to ask?  Are they really a Christian counselor?  How can you tell?  This week, Catherine will be “interviewing” our in-house Christian counselor, Dr Pauline, in an effort to ask and answer some questions that you should keep in mind when talking to potential counselors. As always, we welcome your comments and questions through Facebook (Dunamas Center Ministries), and Twitter (@YourDunamasLife).


    ***Watch our website www.dunamascenter.comfor CHANGES and UPCOMING EVENTS***

  • 01:31

    Lunch Date or No Date - COCKTAIL CONVERSATIONS with The Controversial Counselor

    in Radio

    Men are we looking for better or will we continue to step to women that we perceived are weak. When you ask a woman out for dinner and she tells you that you can do lunch? Would your pride be hurt? Lets look at this particular scenario and analyze what happened on this lunch date.


    Lunch Date or No Date
    Joseph ended up meeting Lanita out for lunch,he figured that having lunch is better than nothing at all, well what he didn't realize was she was not any ordinary female, when I say he got screened and interviewed, she did just that right after the typical "how was your day?" "blah blah blah."


    She reached into her purse and pulled out a pad and pen and started with the question of why does he deserve her valuable time and went on to ask question after question. There were many outcomes that came out of this interview.



    1. During the conversation it came to light that he was involved with someone that he had been with for years.
    2. Never step to a beautiful, strong, intelligent woman unless you are coming correct.
    3. She would never put herself in a vulnerable position to let someone play with her heart.
    4. She does have an attraction for him or she would not have given him the platform for lunch.
    5. There will not be any dinner date for him unless his status changes, or she lowers her standards and that will not be happening.
    6. They concluded the afternoon with a hug, and from what Joseph stated that hug felt so right and he will not be walking away anytime soon.



    What do you make of all of this and what does Joseph need to do to get Lanita out of his system?
    Cocktail Conversations
    The Controversial Counselor

  • 01:59

    THE TEACHINGS OF SILVANUS PART 5 = Examine Your Counselor

    in Religion

    Have a great number of friends, but not counselors. First, examine your counselor, for do not honor anyone who flatters. Their word, to be sure, is sweet as honey, but their heart is full of hellebore. For whenever they think that they have become a reliable friend, then they will deceitfully turn against you, and they will cast you down into the mire.


    Do not trust anyone as a friend, for this whole world has come into being deceitfully, and every man is troubled in vain. All things of the world are not profitable, but they happen in vain. There is no one, not even a brother (who is trustworthy), since each one is seeking his own advantage.


    My son, do not have anyone as a friend, but if you do acquire one, do not entrust yourself to him. Entrust yourself to God alone as father and as friend. For everyone proceeds deceitfully, while the whole earth is full of suffering and pain - things in which there is no profit. If you wish to pass your life in quiet, do not keep company with anyone. And if you do keep company with them, be as if you do not. Be pleasing to God, and you will not need anyone.


    Live with Christ and he will save you. For he is the true light and the sun of life. For just as the sun which is visible and makes light for the eyes of the flesh, so Christ illuminates every mind and the heart. For (if) a wicked man (who is) in the body (has) an evil death, how much more so (does) he who has his mind blind. For every blind man goes along in such a way that he is seen just as one who does not have his mind sane. He does not delight in acquiring the light of Christ, which is reason.

  • 00:33

    National Women's History Month and Nutrition and Athletic Month

    in Radio

    Join Chaplain Jones, Nancy Smith, LaShanda Lewis, Crystal Bates and Patrina Smalls.


    This week #TeamChaplain will hightlight women who have impact their lives through a life of legacy making history. 


    March is National Women’s History Month.  There is a website dedicated to Women's History http://www.nwhp.org/2015-national-womens-history-month-honorees/.  2015 is the National Women’s History Project’s  35th Anniversary.  In celebration of this landmark anniversary, They have chosen 9 women as 2015 Honorees who have contributed in very special ways to our work of “writing women back into history.”  


    TeamChaplain will also share their fitness and nutrition goals and accomplishments for the month of March.

  • 01:48

    "Snake In The Garden" - COCKTAIL CONVERSATIONS with The Controversial Counselor

    in Relationships

    You are listening to Cocktail Conversations with The Controversial Counselor, David Glover on KLJN 107.7  This is the talk show  where adults gather to discuss grown folks relationship situations.   Tonight's episode is:


    Scenario 69 - SNAKE IN THE GARDEN


    Is Melvin a snake in the garden?  Melvin and Tina became friends at one of the lowest points in Melvin’s life. Melvin was totally broken emotionally and mentally. He was going through personal struggles. Tina didn't know much of Melvin and he was brought into her life by a close friend.


    Tina and Melvin became very close during this time and began dating and eventually moved in together. She helped him to gain his strength back, help him with his finances as well as other issues in different areas in his life.


    Now that Melvin is back on his feet, he feels the need to move out on his own after living with Tina for two years. Tina felt used and betrayed and she felt that they have built a bond that he is now breaking as he says he needs to live on his own.


    Tina feels that they can no longer be friends.


    Is Tina being selfish or Melvin? Melvin is still asking for some help from Tina, should she be the bigger person and help someone whom she thought was a friend who respected, appreciated, and cared about her? Or should she just cut her losses?


    Get ready to call in (347) 237-5342 and press "1" to speak LIVE on the air.  


     


    And now come on in, relax and enjoy these COCKTAIL CONVERSATIONS with The Controversial Counselor, David Glover.

  • 00:27

    The Value of Nutrition with Tania Heinemann

    in Training


    Nutrition is key to self-care for any care practitioner!


    We will chat with Tania about how to maintain a nutritional standpoint as a busy practitioner, during pregnancy and for postpartum moms.


    www.healingartslearning.org


     
     



  • 00:31

    Food for Thought: Nutrition for your Brain

    in Lifestyle

    Over the past few weeks we have focused our attention to our heart. On today's broadcast we focus our attention to our mind - the captain of our central nervous system. We will take a look at how nutrition is linked everything from our memory to our emotional health.


    Also on today's broadcast we will discuss our perceptions of food. Did you know that more Christians are overweight, even obese, than the general public? What kind of testimony is that? How does that honor God?


    Romans 12:1 and 2 tells us that we are to "present our bodies a living sacrifice" and that we are to be "transformed by the renewing of our minds." Is this just about the spiritual? No, God is concerned about every aspect of our lives.


    There are certain nutrients that our brain needs in order to be renewed, revived, and healthy.

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